First impressions mean a lot. When you have a first date, I think the only focus should be to have a great time, no expectations, no pressure. A lot of people push their luck, though, and they try to make a move too soon. If you see no signs of attraction, why would you go in for the move to have sex?
Attempting to hook up on the first date happens all the time. The way you both handle it sort of determines how things will unfold after that. In the words of our modern day poet Jay Z (He dropped the hyphen!), “If at first I don’t succeed, best believe I split” – which is a common reaction.
I know people who claim to want a relationship, yet they will dump someone who isn’t down with the get-down when they are. Why would you stop pursuing someone because they wouldn’t hook up with you unless that is all you wanted in the first, place? It’s perplexing and well, annoying. If people are only interested in no strings attached, why don’t they SAY that upfront?
What do you do if you and your date don’t see eye to eye on when to become physical? Eventually, one of you will join the other person’s time table. Do you think that is fair?
Have you ever been dumped or broke up with someone because they turned you down?
By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog