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Technology and dating: An app for what?

You have to admit that technology shifted our dating habits tremendously.  The latest app to be used in dating is called LuLu for Girls.  You download the app to your Oh So Smartphone and sign in to rate your exes, never hads, wish you hadn’ts, or I would if he wasn’t so bat crap crazy men in your life.  That’s right.  It’s literally a yelp for men.  You import your guys directly from your Facebook that is littered with men from your past.

If you are horrified at the thought of getting a negative review, well you should be.  Your romantic crimes could come back to haunt you in a really humiliating way.   Ah, but if you were the stand up guy who treated women like queens, imagine the high ratings you could score!

Apparently, there is already an app for men to rank their lady friends and lovers too.  My guess is that someone will file a lawsuit for defamation of character.  It’s only a matter of time!

The company describes the app as Sex in the City marries Facebook.  If that isn’t enough to make you shiver, I don’t know what will.

Do you think reading reviews by people who have known, dated, or slept with someone you are interested in is worth a look?  Can we really be objective trying to write a review on someone we dated and dumped?

Are you curious to know if you are listed?  What would you do if you found out someone had rated you high and gave you a raving review?

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog

229 comments Add your comment

Lee

July 17th, 2013
7:07 am

WoW. I don’t use app’s on my phone i have an older phone that still works no need to have all that for me.

Just because we can do stuff like this doesn’t mean we should.

The person who uses this app beware they have far too much time on their hands , why would you devote so much time to someone that you are no longer with or just went on a date with…. don’t we have enough judges in the world

idk world is crazy

Single and Happy

July 17th, 2013
7:34 am

Hello everyone

Seriously!! yep Lee sounds like they need to get a life!

MissMoni

July 17th, 2013
7:46 am

GOOD Wednesday Morning MIA!!! *I overslept & still made it to work on time!* :-)

Like Lee, I’m saying WOW on this one. Yes, I do use apps but wouldn’t use one such as the one Diva described. That’s like the website: DontDateHImGirl.com where you can go and check out reviews of whom some females have deemed as guys that you absolutely shouldn’t date.

I wouldn’t know if I was even listed on such a site because I don’t know anyone who uses those sites to come back and tell me that I was even on there, LOL! In a hypothetical world, if I were to find out I would be indifferent. The past is the past, move forward and live your life!

Food for thought: How someone was with their ex does not mean they’ll be exactly the same way with the next. Use your common sense and simply pay attention.

SlimNu

July 17th, 2013
8:22 am

Seriously!?!

SlimNu

July 17th, 2013
8:23 am

Good morning Folks, ..SIngle, Lee, MissMoni ;-)

I’m still mad I spilled hot tea on myself last night :cry:

MissMoni

July 17th, 2013
8:32 am

-SlimNu Good morning to you too! WHAT. . . how in the world did you do that???

Single and Happy

July 17th, 2013
8:57 am

Hey slim, hope you didn’t burn yourself

DreamsMaterialize

July 17th, 2013
8:57 am

Morning
I wouldn’t take the time to use a site like that, and I wouldn’t care if I were listed on one. Besides, it would be so easy to trivialize anything negative on there and chalk it up to “come on now. She’s just mad we’re not together anymore. she’ll say anything. who are you gonna believe?” lol

SlimNu

July 17th, 2013
9:04 am

MissMoni/Single I was trying to sit down on the couch and obviously didn’t grip the handle well enough. I never heard myself scream like that lolol My stomach and chest are a little tender but i’ll live. I think I hurt my own feelings lolol

Re topic: Folks don’t need an app to bad mouth an ex. They can just talk to folks and come up with the same result which is to help themselves feel better. I don’t see myself entertaining that sort of thing. Heyal, I don’t even have a twitter page.

2CPTG©

July 17th, 2013
9:09 am

g’morning…..

dating and technology? ratings…reviews….yada, yada, yada……

I get mine the old fashioned way……c’mere lil mama!

MissMoni

July 17th, 2013
9:13 am

-Slim Ouch, that does sound painful!!! In reference to twitter, I have a page but I don’t tweet often. That page is mainly to get the latest celebrity news directly from them, LOL!!!

SlimNu

July 17th, 2013
9:17 am

Moni – I always hear about twitter wars and stuff. Folks will say pretty much anything behind a keyboard & a screen. lol I have an ex that has a twitter page and folks are always telling me the kind of stuff he’s been putting on there. Apparently, the chick he was recently talking to was already starting her next relationship before ending theirs. Now he’s all talking about he hates b!tches lol

Single and Happy

July 17th, 2013
9:17 am

Hmm Slim, need me to rub some calamine lotion on that :-D

MissMoni

July 17th, 2013
9:25 am

-Slim Yeah, some people are internet thugs. . . Then you see them jokers face to face and they are SPEECHLESS, LOL & SMH!!! I’m an advocate for venting but NOT to the point where you’re using real names and purposely trying to ruin someone’s name OR you start putting everyone in the same category because of what 1 person did. Your ex needs to “get his life”!!!

Leggs

July 17th, 2013
9:33 am

Why would anyone want to do this…this sounds so childish! Not only that, what you deem to be a bad critique of your ex could be a favorable aspect to another. Let people discover the treasure you didn’t find worthy.

Good, good morning!

MissMoni

July 17th, 2013
9:35 am

-Leggs Good point, it is quite childish!

Leggs

July 17th, 2013
9:36 am

“I think I hurt my own feelings” – Yes, we feel stupid when we are clumsy (lololol).

Button

July 17th, 2013
9:36 am

Oh my goodness! what the what? an app to rate on ex? what’s the use? to defame a person bc you deem them worthless. Heck if that person is a worthless peice of scum then let the next person find out on their own. jeez what will they come up with next?

I don’t have twitter, fb or tumblr. Nope, however I do love to blog.

Hello Everybody!

Leggs

July 17th, 2013
9:38 am

O/T: any of you ever worn a wrap dress that doesn’t wrap properly? I thought I left the house with it pretty much on correctly. Get in the bathroom and a woman points out that I didn’t put one of the straps through the slit on the side. I had two women trying to help me wrap this damn dress properly. I’ve come to the conclusion that the dress is defective (lolol).

MissMoni

July 17th, 2013
9:42 am

-Button Now I don’t have tumbler but I’m on FB!!! :-D

-Leggs I learned the hard way that wrap dresses are not for me. Hopefully you and the two ladies figure it out and the wind is low today, LOL!!!

Leggs

July 17th, 2013
9:42 am

MissMoni ~ I have a twitter account only to play my radio contest on Tuesdays. Tweeting, FBooking, Instagraming, Texting is too much. Texting is ok, but all that other stuff is too much. Hell, I was accused of only getting on FB when Scandal came on (lol). I might get on twice a week, sometimes once a month.

Button

July 17th, 2013
9:43 am

If I did had facebook I would not have it littered with men from my past. If I deleted their phone number from my phone book you besta believe I’m deleting their pic from my fb. poof be gone!

That site sounds like it’s for jilted lovers.

MissMoni

July 17th, 2013
9:44 am

-Leggs I may actually need a FB Rehab. I’m not as bad as I used to be, but I’m on FB daily and I have the app on my phone. I love the interaction with my friends & family and all of the pictures. I’m also on Pinterest, which is where I have several vision boards. :-)

Leggs

July 17th, 2013
9:45 am

Yes, let’s hope the wind is low (lol). Cute!

Button

July 17th, 2013
9:47 am

Leggs – I love wrap dress! every woman should have one in her closet. it’s so sexy and it shows your curves. Iperfect fit! I’m hunting another one, maybe multicolored this time. They are so hard to find. I might have to resort to breaking out the sewing machine and making my own.

MissMoni – waving :lol:

MsAtl

July 17th, 2013
9:47 am

Morning All!

SlimNu- Wow! Hope it isn’t too bad.

I don’t have a lot of apps on my phone. Even if I did, that is not an app I would use. That is just taking things a bit too far; crazy!

Into the Light

July 17th, 2013
9:50 am

Morning, all!

*yawn* I so sleepy today….

Yeah, a “rate the ex” app is not something I’d be interested in. You’d either come away looking bitter, or entice some other woman to give him a try because, she thinks she could “change” him. Nah, miss me with that.

@Slim: Sorry to hear about the TeaParty 2013. Did you stop, drop, and roll? :lol: :lol: Sorry, just trying to find the humor….

MissMoni

July 17th, 2013
9:51 am

-Button Waving back! I’ve actually grown quite fond of the hi-lo dresses. I absolutely love them!!! I can show just enough of my itty bitty legs without feeling self-conscious. ;-)

MsAtl

July 17th, 2013
9:52 am

Leggs- I am laughing at you with that wrap dress. I tried a wrap dress once. I liked it, but I had to put several pins in top to keep the girls from waving at everyone, lol. It was just too much work.

I do not have Twitter or Instagram; I have FB and Pinterest.
MissMoni- Pinterest is the devil; you can get stuck in that thing if you aren’t careful. Good thing is I have tried several recipes and crafts that I found on there though.

Leggs

July 17th, 2013
9:52 am

Button ~ I don’t understand why people have pics of past bfs and gfs, AND, I don’t understand why people post their relationship status and even fight on FB. Ummm, nevamind, we’re known to fight on this blog.

MissMoni

July 17th, 2013
9:54 am

-MsAtl I absolutely LOVE the recipes that are available on Pinterest and YES you can get stuck on there!!! There are also lots of ideas on there for just about anything you can think of. Simply amazing, LOL!!!

Into the Light

July 17th, 2013
9:56 am

I LOVE Pinterest, but I don’t go on often. That thing needs its own 12-step group.

Hi, my name is ITL, and I’m addicted to Pinterest…….

Leggs

July 17th, 2013
9:57 am

Button ~ I too love wrap dresses. This one is beige, black with slathers of brown here and there. Very sexy, legs on point, but I know one of the strings are not being used properly (lol). I’m rocking it the best I can (lol).

MsAtl ~ too funny, because I had to pin the top now that I have clevage (lolol).

Leggs

July 17th, 2013
9:59 am

I’ve heard a lot about Pineterest, but never been on.

MsAtl

July 17th, 2013
10:02 am

My name is MsAtl and I too am addicted to Pinterest.
Admitting it is the first step!

MissMoni

July 17th, 2013
10:03 am

-Leggs It’s all fun and games until one of those strings become loose, exposing your body parts, LOL!!!

Into the Light

July 17th, 2013
10:04 am

LOL@MsAtl. We can have a blog support group. :)

SlimNu

July 17th, 2013
10:07 am

Yes, we feel stupid when we are clumsy

Leggs – Yeah, I had one of those Homer Simpson DOH moments lol

ITL – I didn’t drop and roll but I just jump my azz up though with the quickness. You would’ve thought I was on fire the way I got out of my clothes :lol:

Leggs

July 17th, 2013
10:11 am

MissMoni ~ I have these strings tied into a boy scout knot!!

MissMoni

July 17th, 2013
10:12 am

-ITL Funny that you said we can have a blog support group. First we need a support group for the bloggers and then we can address their additional internet habits LOL!

Button

July 17th, 2013
10:21 am

MissMoni – I’m going to have to check out Pintrest. It sounds like something right up my alley.

Leggs – I don’t understand the fb/twitter fights either. Yeah you’re right we have had some tiffs in here too. Must be the keyboard courage lol

MsAtl/Leggs – the remedy for the pins is to use tape. Flesh tape can tape the fabric to your skin.

Leggs

July 17th, 2013
10:23 am

Exiled

July 17th, 2013
10:24 am

already an app for men to rank their lady friends and lovers too. My guess is that someone will file a lawsuit for defamation of character….

HA ha ha…

it was kinda a cool app untill them men can have theirs and rank their prey? Classic woman_ victimhoom mentality!

lol

Howdie!

Leggs

July 17th, 2013
10:25 am

Flesh tape! Hmmm, must remember.

MsAtl

July 17th, 2013
10:28 am

Leggs- What the frickety-fracken what?!!!

MsAtl

July 17th, 2013
10:29 am

Button- I tried flesh tape before but I think it just didn’t like my flesh. I need to find the stuff they wear to the Grammys, lol.

MissMoni

July 17th, 2013
10:29 am

-Button Does the flesh tape hurt when it is removed?

Leggs

July 17th, 2013
10:31 am

MissMoni ~ thanks for asking cuz I was thinking it.

daddy swiss

July 17th, 2013
10:32 am

Don’t worry, guys: I’m working on an app for dudes called “Hole in 1″. It lets you flag which chicks from your past gave it up on the first date.

And I’m also working on a companion app called “Ace in the Hole” that lets you identify chicks that let you in the back door.

MissMoni

July 17th, 2013
10:34 am

LOL, good morning to you too Swiss!!!