Bad dates happen to good people. In fact, sometimes there is really no one to blame for a bad date. Sometimes the chemistry just isn’t there. Sometimes you just don’t connect in a meaningful way. I have a rule about bad dates. I have to schedule another date within two weeks. Sort of like a palate cleansing tactic. You never want one bad date to drive you back to your sofa and the solitude you have come to love!
My friend Johnny likes to give multiple chances to make sure there really is not a connection. Even after a bad date, he will keep an open mind. He always tells me that everyone has an off day. Would you be open to a second or third date if the first was less than pleasing?
How long does it usually take for you to decide that you want to pursue someone