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Text message cheating?

A reader wrote in to ask whether or not inappropriate texts can be considered cheating.  She found her live-in boyfriend’s text messages to another woman.  (Ok, when I say found, I actually mean snooped!) He insisted that they have never hooked up but admitted to a few dirty text messages.

Do you think that sending texts to people who are not your significant other automatically classifies as cheating?  What if the nature of the text messages is harmless and simple flirting?

Would it bother you if you discovered that the person you are dating had a habit of sending texts to women from his past?  Would you ask them to stop or dump them?

What is the appeal of sending dirty texts to people you aren’t even dating?

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog

448 comments Add your comment

Leggs

May 29th, 2013
3:55 pm

Bluz ~ Yuengling is a very good beer.

kimmie

May 29th, 2013
3:57 pm

It’s been real, Gang! A lot of fun talking about the good days!!!

Be easy!

Leggs

May 29th, 2013
3:59 pm

“…that’s when she figured out I was stealing sips when she went to answer the phone. lol.” – Now, that IS FUNNY!!!!

Bluzgirl

May 29th, 2013
3:59 pm

See ya kimmie! Have a good night!

Leggs – Yuengling is my favorite! I may have to go get a 6 pack after work!

Leggs

May 29th, 2013
4:01 pm

Ciao, kimmie!

Leggs

May 29th, 2013
4:02 pm

Not sure if I said this already, but those drinking Bud Light Lime-A-Rita, must admit they’re rather good.

Bluzgirl

May 29th, 2013
4:04 pm

Leggs – those are good! I first tried those the night Mags and I went to a concert and got tore up! LOL! I’ve been told the strawberry ones are really good too…they’re just a little pricey

Button

May 29th, 2013
4:08 pm

Leggs/Bluzgirl – did someone say lim-a-rita!? I love em. you can get the small can for 1 buck at kroger. I only need two. still deciding to try the straw-a rita.

czBrat ♀ island bound!!

May 29th, 2013
4:11 pm

swiss!! that’s the sweetness! i bet she’s a.maze.ing. much blessings to you. all of you!

leggs, dodge ball was my game! i got serious trying to knock kids off their feet with those balls. luved me some tetherball too. always trying to catch the other person unaware so the ball would knock em upside the head.

my mama’s thing was “let em fight. one will kill the other, then they’ll stop”. smdh

Bluzgirl

May 29th, 2013
4:12 pm

Man…I’m thirsty for some alcohol now! LOL

czBrat ♀ island bound!!

May 29th, 2013
4:14 pm

you can get the small can for 1 buck at kroger
now why is this ^ cracking me up. :lol: :lol:

Leggs

May 29th, 2013
4:15 pm

Button, the lime-a-rita is something to drink from my usual, bu if I drink more than one tall can of those, I’d may get sick to my stomach. Wine coolers/Smirnoff Ice, and things along those lines don’t usually sit well on my stomach.

Leggs

May 29th, 2013
4:16 pm

Button ~ I saw where Kroger had them 10 for $10. I bought 4 of the little cans

Leggs

May 29th, 2013
4:17 pm

leggs, dodge ball was my game! i got serious trying to knock kids off their feet with those balls.

EXACTLY. We played dodged ball with a basketball. If you weren’t swift, you got some bruises. I had a ball.

Sassy Me...Feeling like new ;-)

May 29th, 2013
4:19 pm

I bought 4 of the little cans

I got some on Saturday…have two left. I like to put mine in the freezer and let it get a lil icy..

Leggs

May 29th, 2013
4:20 pm

SassyMe ~ you’ve ever been to a “bucket party?” Love the bucket. You putting it in the freezer to get a little icy reminded me of the the Bucket.

Bluzgirl

May 29th, 2013
4:27 pm

What is a bucket party?

I may need to stop at Kroger on my way home! I need to do some cleaning around my house and it would be nice to have a buzz going…

disco

May 29th, 2013
4:31 pm

bluz – nothing like getting your sip on and playing some music to get your housecleaning on.

Sassy Me...Feeling like new ;-)

May 29th, 2013
4:31 pm

Leggs I haven’t been to one…sounds interesting. I don’t usually drink out of cans but when I do I like it kinda slushy-like. Yeah I might get a lil somethin’ from the likka sto…since there’s no basketball on tonight..

czBrat ♀ island bound!!

May 29th, 2013
4:33 pm

We played dodged ball with a basketball.
you know i first read “baseball” and was like :shock: !!!!!!!!!!
lol

ciao, all! get home safely.

Leggs

May 29th, 2013
4:36 pm

Baseboards are fast, but they HURT! Basketball for the right crowd and beach ball for a different, more wussy crowd.

Button

May 29th, 2013
4:38 pm

disco/Bluzgirl – 5^ on buzz cleaning lol I actully get more done-who knew! lol

Sassy Me...Feeling like new ;-)

May 29th, 2013
4:39 pm

ciao, all! get home safely.

You too, chica.

I’m out y’all…have a good evening everybody :mrgreen:

Leggs

May 29th, 2013
4:39 pm

You can get the original “Bucket” from Sams. Its a bucket filled with margarita mix. You pour in tequila and place in freezer overnight. You’ll have slusy margarita’s the next day. I used them when I’m having a bid whist party. They are very, very good.

Leggs

May 29th, 2013
4:40 pm

Not baseboards, meant baseballs…

daddy swiss

May 29th, 2013
4:41 pm

Leggs — You’ve already started drinking, haven’t you? ;-)

Into the Light

May 29th, 2013
4:45 pm

Dang. Check back in and y’all gots a bucket party going. I’m in!!! :)

Bluzgirl

May 29th, 2013
4:46 pm

Leggs – I was wondering… :-)

Don’t see in Kroger’s ads where the Lime-a-ritas are on sale…wonder if they still are…

Leggs

May 29th, 2013
4:46 pm

daddy swiss ~ the way I’ve been typing you would think (lol).

Leggs

May 29th, 2013
4:47 pm

They probably are..back of store in box with other 10 for 10 items.

Into the Light

May 29th, 2013
4:47 pm

It’s not a sale item, Bluz, it’s an all-time thing. Like those aluminum bottles of beer – they’re 10 for 10 all the time. ;)

Bluzgirl

May 29th, 2013
4:49 pm

Nice!!! 10 for 10 is actually a good deal on those. I think an 8 pack is about $12ish…

Leggs

May 29th, 2013
4:50 pm

I drank one of the little cans while I was making baked beans the other day. Nice little sip when you want something, but not a full on strong drink.

Into the Light

May 29th, 2013
4:50 pm

I think it’s the smaller cans, though, not the big gulps. Tee hee. I said big gulp.

Leggs

May 29th, 2013
4:51 pm

I’ve only seen them in a 4-pack for $7.39

Into the Light

May 29th, 2013
4:52 pm

^ just trying to save you the trouble of having to comment, Swissykins. :)

Bluzgirl

May 29th, 2013
4:53 pm

ITL – I think they are all the little cans…not sure, though. The night I drank about 6 (at least) of the little cans, I was GONE!!!

Leggs

May 29th, 2013
4:54 pm

This has been a mighty fine blogging day. Started off with some very nice commentary on topic only to find ourselves sitting in the corner drinking lime-a-ritas!

Gottal love it.

PEACE!

Leggs

May 29th, 2013
4:56 pm

10 for 10 are the little cans…very little cans. A little bigger than a can of Contadina Tomato Paste!

Button

May 29th, 2013
4:56 pm

it’s a lil can with a big punch!

Into the Light

May 29th, 2013
4:57 pm

Night, y’all. :)

daddy swiss

May 29th, 2013
4:57 pm

ITL — Why whatever do you mean? What comment would I possibly make on your small cans and big gulps? ;-)

Bluzgirl

May 29th, 2013
4:58 pm

I gotta run also…good night! Hopefully, I can get on here again tomorrow!

Penelope

May 29th, 2013
5:00 pm

Hello, peepsykins!

I have been truly business. Hope all is well with everyone!

Leggs

May 29th, 2013
5:01 pm

Not a big punch, but a decent jab.

Leggs

May 29th, 2013
5:01 pm

Seems like Penelope just threw her can behind the stairwell….

Penelope

May 29th, 2013
5:03 pm

Hiccup….ooopsy!

Leggs

May 29th, 2013
5:07 pm