A reader wrote in to ask whether or not inappropriate texts can be considered cheating. She found her live-in boyfriend’s text messages to another woman. (Ok, when I say found, I actually mean snooped!) He insisted that they have never hooked up but admitted to a few dirty text messages.
Do you think that sending texts to people who are not your significant other automatically classifies as cheating? What if the nature of the text messages is harmless and simple flirting?
Would it bother you if you discovered that the person you are dating had a habit of sending texts to women from his past? Would you ask them to stop or dump them?
What is the appeal of sending dirty texts to people you aren’t even dating?
By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog