It’s truly a sad day when a woman is surprised that a man doesn’t make a move on her on the first date. Alas, many women think something is wrong when they meet men who aren’t expecting sex from them immediately. Of course, men won’t go around advertising their willingness to wait for sex. Why would they? That doesn’t mean something is off or suspect when a guy can wait too.
I actually had to convince a friend of mine to give her new guy some time before you threw a red flag on him. He wants to get to know you before you become physical. This is what a lot of men do!
When I asked my friend when she thought he would expect sex from her, she said the same day he met her. She was serious. Just because someone is attracted to you, doesn’t mean they want to hop in the bed with you. Maybe I am being naive.
When it comes to expectations, do you think we read each other wrong sometimes?
Ladies, do you actually think most men want to bed you on the first date? When do men usually bring up sex as a topic of conversation in dating?
Guys, are you usually the one to mention sex first? Do you ever worry that bringing it up will backfire on you?
By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog