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Relationships: Don’t go changing!

Yes, I referenced a Billy Joel song.   It’s a classic.  It also highlights what a lot of men think about the women they pick.  Whatever quirky, wonderful quality a man falls for in a woman, he doesn’t want to see it go away.  A lot of men prefer that  the woman they meet is the truest representation of her.  If or when she flips the script, things get complicated.  Men don’t like complicated.

I know a friend who has a real fear of marrying one person and then she changes into someone he “used to know.”  I don’t think any woman can  guarantee that she won’t grow or change, though.  Do you think that change and growth can be viewed as a threat to a long- lasting relationship?

Have you ever dated someone who changed a lot over the course of your relationship?  Did the change bring you closer together or was it a challenge?

How much change are you willing to handle in a relationship?

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog

258 comments Add your comment

Lee

May 13th, 2013
7:20 am

People are going to change though out their lives. In life your wants and needs change as you get older. Sometimes it is a good thing and sometimes not.
Its when a person Male/female lies who they are and once you are married the true person comes out — that leaves people wondering ( or at least me) Who are you? What happened to your other self? I guess that show “who the beep did i marry has so many episodes .. getting married is like any thing else in life : you take chances some luck out some don’t.

MissMoni

May 13th, 2013
7:39 am

GOOD Monday Morning MIA!!! :-)

“People are going to change throughout their lives.”

YES, they are! Some people change for the better, while others change for the worse. I am all for someone changing for the better. I encourage people to be the very BEST that they can be. I too want honesty from the beginning. However, the truth is that there are some things that you won’t find out until further down the line, for example real crazy family members, LOL!

Big Al

May 13th, 2013
8:10 am

There is an old saying that a man marries a woman hoping that she will never change, and a woman marries a man hoping that he will change. Yes, people change. We have to change because the world around us is constantly changing. We are always learning more. But that doesn’t mean we have to change our core values.

Courtside Seats (With no PSL's added on!!!! )

May 13th, 2013
8:30 am

Good morning all….. I like to say I evolve as appose to change… I grow and expand based on new thoughts and ideas, In fact I would be more bothered by the person that DID NOT change than I am by the person that does…… 3 Days from vacation!!!! #Fiji here I come!!

Single & Happy

May 13th, 2013
8:35 am

Hey All

Now you have to define what you mean by change? In reality, most people attitudes and beliefs don’t change. Growing and becoming more responsible isn’t changing. That’s just the natural course of things. If you were a freak when I meet you, don’t change that once we get married and have children (even though that’s not happening) we may have to tone it down a little but not change completely! If we used to go out and travel, don’t start say we can’t do this now because of other things. While we may not go out every weekend or vacation every 3 or 4 months, doesn’t mean we never do this things anymore!

In my lifetime have I grown – yes

Have I changed much, no! I’m still the same go getter, will always find a way to make it happen, no excuse type of person I always was.

Have my views on relationships and how I treat my lady changed NO Always have treated them with love kindness and respect!

Single & Happy

May 13th, 2013
8:37 am

Court – Fiji, must be nice, one of my future dive trips :-)

Courtside Seats (With no PSL's added on!!!! )

May 13th, 2013
8:44 am

Yeah, S/H…been planning this one for months and dreaming about it for YEARS!!!!

Exiled

May 13th, 2013
8:52 am

Morning MIA!

How man and woman getting Comfortable:they marry,the wife birfs a boatload and grows a kangaroo belly looking like two pouches and her arms and legs make her look like a summo wrestler, the husband sits at home after work,dranks and develops a Big beer gut!

Change.

Have a nice day MIA! :lol:

disco

May 13th, 2013
9:00 am

good morning everyone.

court – I was all prepped to say where you going when I saw “Fiji here I come”. go head with your bad self.

re change – I think of the ford escape commercial where the valet is talking about how his peeps done changed. got all brand new and whatnot. lol.

MissMoni

May 13th, 2013
9:11 am

-Court Sounds like a super FUN trip. I’m sure you will ENJOY yourself!!! :-D

-Disco That is a good commercial for this topic, LOL!

Single & Happy

May 13th, 2013
9:17 am

Court have fun, I know you will (LOL)

disco

May 13th, 2013
9:18 am

ummm – court – which airport are you flying out of? can you change your first/business class seat for two coaches? how can I be down? lol.

SlimNu

May 13th, 2013
9:27 am

Morning and Happy Belated Mother’s Day to all that it applies to ;-)

Courtside Seats (With no PSL's added on!!!! )

May 13th, 2013
9:29 am

lol…disco, leaving out of San Francisco…..Layover in New Zealand…. You game???? :)

disco

May 13th, 2013
9:36 am

court – in my mind I’m game but since I don’t have any cousins in Fiji (in case I neeed to put out a distress signal) I suppose I better pass. it does sound good though.

Courtside Seats (With no PSL's added on!!!! )

May 13th, 2013
9:39 am

smh….damn disco…three women get tied up in the basement for ten years, now the game salted up for everybody…. lolololol

MissMoni

May 13th, 2013
9:48 am

-SlimNu Thank you for the Mother’s Day wishes. :-)

abc

May 13th, 2013
9:49 am

Of course, most people change over time. Ex became so consumed with her career that we grew apart; at the time I was doing 100 hour weeks too though. Essentially, though, I think people’s character and personality do not change that much. Some say that’s fully formed by age 5. I can buy in that I’m essentially the same as I was when I was 16 or 17 in that regard.

DreamsMaterialize

May 13th, 2013
9:52 am

Morning
The only constant in life is change. Everyone changes in some respect, whether it be normal growth or a shift in perspective, beliefs, or behavior. No matter the type of change, everyone is allowed (even expected) to make whatever changes they feel are necessary to get them to the desired destination in life. Sometimes even the destination changes. If we’re in a relationship, then we need to be having conversations about our goals and future together. At some point, if we’re diverging too much, then it needs to be addressed.

disco

May 13th, 2013
9:53 am

court – just yesterday a friend was telling me she was walking and a dude in a pickup was trying to holler and offer her a ride. she said she told him she only had a little ways to go and he drove off, made the block, and came back. I joked with her that getting in cars with strangers is how chicks wound up chained in basements.

abc – I agree that my core personality is the same as it was when I was a child. I’m fairly certain that it’ll be that way until I take my last breath.

SlimNu

May 13th, 2013
10:16 am

MissMoni – No probs ;-)

disco

May 13th, 2013
10:18 am

slim – where is everybody? if it’s just us we can spend the rest of the day talking about them. lol.

abc

May 13th, 2013
10:19 am

Regarding destinations: whether one takes a metaphysical, Zen or strictly Christian perspective, and considering that the constraint of linear time is a dimension that can be eventually removed: we’re already there. We’re just waiting for the time to arrive that allows us to recognize where we are.

DreamsMaterialize

May 13th, 2013
10:20 am

Anyone seen this new Lamborghini Egoista? This joint is SWEET!

http://autos.yahoo.com/photos/lamborghini-egoista-slideshow/

disco

May 13th, 2013
10:23 am

dreams – I’m not into cars. my brother was going on and on about his goal of getting a gangloff concept car (I think). I wasn’t even sure what it was. had to google it. told him that it sure was ugly. he told me that I simply didn’t know what I was talking about.

SlimNu

May 13th, 2013
10:24 am

disco – If they aren’t here, i’d say that’s perfectly fine. Would you like to lead this discussion? :lol:

disco

May 13th, 2013
10:27 am

slim – lol. maybe later. abc and dreams are listening and little pitchers have big ears. lol.

DreamsMaterialize

May 13th, 2013
10:28 am

disco
The Gangloff is sweet, but I’d go with that Lambo all day if given the choice. Did you look at it?

SlimNu

May 13th, 2013
10:29 am

I’m not really into cars but I have always wanted to drive a stick shift in a car that has a super powerful engine. To feel the hum beneath your butt and the power in your hands. (of course, the speed too)

disco

May 13th, 2013
10:32 am

dreams – no. I didn’t look at it. again, cars just don’t turn me on especially teeny, tiny, low to the ground cars built for two that cost way too much money. lol.

SlimNu

May 13th, 2013
10:32 am

Did yall hear about the shooting at the New Orleans Mother’s day parade? WTF is wrong with people????

Celisea

May 13th, 2013
10:41 am

Wasn’t HST, the blog “Thurston Powell, III” the dude that came on pretending and mentioning cars and all his money and perpetrating being some big shot??? hahahaha

On topic: I agree that pretty much your character is formed early on. I always hear the older folks say to parents, cultivate your kids early (i.e. chastise) during the young years, to steer that character in the right direction. I believe people grow and adapt and ajust, but changing from who they are, not so much. Don’t get me wrong, folks that “change for the better” is real. Folks that learn to make adjustments is real but IMO, none of that is changing who they are.

The only thing constant is change. Change in times and seasons, change in fashion (or recycled) and styles, change in our outer phyiscal appearances, stuff like make overs, hair dos, etc. Changes in the economy, etc…….but IMO not so much people.

I had a lovely lovely lovely Mother’s Day, that started a couple of days early :mrgreen: I didn’t coming down until yesterday. Back to reality :)

Mmeello – I read the blog’s comments Saturday and ca-racked up at the “getting dropped by the marriage wagon.” That was fuuuunnneeeee….lolololol

DreamsMaterialize

May 13th, 2013
10:43 am

cars just don’t turn me on especially teeny, tiny, low to the ground cars built for two that cost way too much money. lol.
disco Actually, that Lambo is built just for one. The designer said that’s why he named it the Egoista (means selfish), because it’s supposed to be ALL about you when you’re driving it. lol

Celisea

May 13th, 2013
10:43 am

Howell, not Powell

Courtside Seats (With no PSL's added on!!!! )

May 13th, 2013
10:43 am

The Lambo would look great sitting in my driveway, But where the hell could you drive it and the only way disco could ride is if she sat on my lap…….. :) :)

MsAtl

May 13th, 2013
10:44 am

Morning All!

Do you think that change and growth can be viewed as a threat to a long- lasting relationship? Growth and change are two different things. “Change” can be your true self coming out after your representative has succeeded in getting who/what you wanted. Growth is you maturing/becoming better, etc. I would want my partner to grow as we move on in years. I would not want my partner to change a whole lot because that would evidence that it was an act and he was that “new” person all along. I just don’t think that outside of growth, people change that significantly. Your core belief system and values should remain static.

BTW- I made the Flaming Bob Marley this weekend. It took a few tries (fine!- several!) to get the layers to stay separate because they tended to blend. The yellow layer was the hardest, but I did not give up. By the time I got it exact, we had experimented with at least 3 each! I think I have hair on my chest this morning…

Celisea

May 13th, 2013
10:44 am

Where is Thurston Howell, III anyway? Still under with his love back from Russia??? hahahaha Or watching all his money?

Alright, this is my biggest free spot today. I have 5 meetings and a small window a bit later today….

I’ll peek in on you kiddies later :)

disco

May 13th, 2013
10:47 am

C – who the heck is blogging on Saturday? lol.

dreams – built for one???? ahh heck. cheap chick like me might as well get a smart car. speaking of smart cars. I went shopping the other day and was finishing up a call before going in the store. there’s a smart car parked in front of me. a lady comes out of the store (big girl I might add) and goes to put something in the trunk/hatch of the smart car. boy oh boy, I was like I’m about to see something watching this woman fold up into this car. I swear she and the car were real close to being the same size.

dreams – I get the idea of built for one but don’t you lose some of the joy of taking some special someone for a spin? seems like for a lot of people that’s a key part of getting a new ride.

Celisea

May 13th, 2013
10:49 am

disco – I didn’t say I blogged and I KNEW someone was gonna say that. I said I peeked in and read the comments. Boo, I don’t blog on the weekends…lol Matter of fact, since you insist, I was with my boo, in the car riding and looked from my phone….. Is that okay with you.

That makes me suspect that you jumped on that so quick. Plenty of folks here (well not now, cause we only have shenanigans mostly…from real to fake folks, to taking shots, etc etc etc) have commented on Monday when they had a chance to catch up.

Celisea

May 13th, 2013
10:50 am

Oh, to the doctors and the lawyers….etc etc etc…lolololol

Celisea

May 13th, 2013
10:52 am

disco – I’ve gotten text messages ON THE WEEKEND FROM FOLKS, cause they went in to read on a Friday…

Yeah, you struck a nerve this morning….

Folks always waiting to pounce….

Celisea

May 13th, 2013
10:52 am

They went in to read on the weekends, not Friday….

Dern folks always looking for openings

DreamsMaterialize

May 13th, 2013
10:56 am

dreams – I get the idea of built for one but don’t you lose some of the joy of taking some special someone for a spin? seems like for a lot of people that’s a key part of getting a new ride.
disco Yeah I guess it depends on the person. There are some things a person just likes to experience alone. Of course, a person who can afford that Lambo can probably also afford a car for every mood that suits them, whether rolling solo, for two, or the whole damn crew. lol

Celisea

May 13th, 2013
10:58 am

Well, I’m off to my first meetings in 3 minutes…guess you’ll have to fly solo now, huh?

LOLOLOLOLOLOLOL

Toodles!!

disco

May 13th, 2013
11:03 am

C – read the comments on Saturday read like read Saturday’s comments. Guess it makes sense that you read Friday’s comments on Saturday. O-kay. It’s not that real. Hope you and yo man had a good time.

disco

May 13th, 2013
11:10 am

C – contrary to what you might believe not everyone on the blog is out to get you. Some? Maybe. Me? Naw.

Into the Light

May 13th, 2013
11:11 am

Morning, all!

Dayum, Court…..Fiji????? Jealous over here. :evil:

Courtside Seats (With no PSL's added on!!!! )

May 13th, 2013
11:16 am

ITL….Fiji is one of my bucket list places…Next year I am shooting for Greece, then South Africa…..

SlimNu

May 13th, 2013
11:19 am

Um… cough…cough, what had just happened? I blinked and sh!t starts popping offf???? Well I’ll be dayum.

disco

May 13th, 2013
11:21 am

slim – not really. we’ll just call it a little misunderstanding. C said she was reading the blog on Saturday which prompted me to ask who was blogging on a Saturday. she took it to mean I was coming at her and I had to explain that I wasn’t. no drama.

Leggs

May 13th, 2013
11:27 am

I am the same person. The only thing that will change is my waist line, my bra size and my panty size. Other than that. I remain the same (lolol).

Good morning

SlimNu

May 13th, 2013
11:30 am

disco – That’s what i’m saying…but when you’re having a misunderstanding and call someone Boo, dem’s fighting words lolol Anyway, carry on… ;-)

O/T: I have the sorest ugliest pimple right below my nose. :cry:

Leggs

May 13th, 2013
11:32 am

SlimNu ~ back in the day, we called those “needy bumps” (lolol).

SlimNu

May 13th, 2013
11:35 am

I’ve always heard them referred to as period bumps, although i’m not on the flo – TMI lol This sucker is relentless too because I’ve put a hot towel on it, witch hazel, alcohol…I mean dayum. lol

Leggs

May 13th, 2013
11:35 am

The Bob Marley I had:

Barcardi Lite Rum
Barcardi Dark Rum
Barcardi 151
Malibu Coconut Rum
Myers Dark Rum
DeKuper Blue Curacao
Pineapple Juice
Orange Juice AND
Grenadine.

I get there Friday evening and the female bartender had a on a tee-shirt that would have had EX fuming. It read: “Real Women Drink Beer.” I had to laugh.

Leggs

May 13th, 2013
11:36 am

Try ear wax. Seriously!

disco

May 13th, 2013
11:37 am

slim – I hear you.

hey leggs – nothing attacked you in the kitchen over the weekend?

MsAtl

May 13th, 2013
11:39 am

Leggs- Mine had Bacardi 151; creme de menthe; banana liqueur & grenadine.

SlimNu

May 13th, 2013
11:41 am

nothing attacked you in the kitchen over the weekend?

I know right, :lol:

Leggs

May 13th, 2013
11:44 am

disco ~hardy haa haa (lol). Not this time.

Into the Light

May 13th, 2013
11:44 am

Dang, Leggs! That sounds more like “DUI in a Glass”….. :roll:

MsAtl: I thought it looked good, minus the creme de menthe. I think I would have tried midori…more in keeping with the fruity flavors.

@Slim: pop that sucka!

@Court: Can I be your stowaway?? :lol:

disco

May 13th, 2013
11:47 am

y’all gone make me go out and find a bob marley somewhere.

Leggs

May 13th, 2013
11:54 am

That sounds more like “DUI in a Glass”…..

Yep, especially if you have two! I said it was very strong, even for my taste.

Leggs

May 13th, 2013
11:58 am

When you do, disco, can’t wait to hear what you think about it.

“Do you think that change and growth can be viewed as a threat to a long- lasting relationship?” – I think change and growth shouldn’t be viewed as a threat. If you have change AND growth, that sounds positive all the way around. If one changes for the worse, then there can’t possibly be any growth.

SlimNu

May 13th, 2013
11:58 am

ITL – It’s like mutant zit, it keeps reforming itself lol I might need to stab it in the heart with a stake.

disco

May 13th, 2013
12:04 pm

slim – what home remedies have you tried? I know you tried something. lol. I’m a fan of toothpaste and/or Listerine.

leggs – did we discuss gal by ruthie Bolton? I got a copy this weekend and was looking forward to reading it but so far I just haven’t got into it.

MsAtl

May 13th, 2013
12:05 pm

ITL- Good idea. The creme de menthe is the one thing I did not like about it. Two people said it tasted like cough syrup.

Leggs

May 13th, 2013
12:07 pm

disco ~ I read Gal over a decade ago. I felt so bad for her. She was treated like dirt under the shoe. She even tried to kill her stepfather. I won’t tell you with what, but she was desperate. A slow read, but I think it’s a true story. Let me know if I’m right.

SlimNu

May 13th, 2013
12:07 pm

disco – So far just witch hazel, alcohol and this stuff I used when I got a boil on my butt in Jamaica….it usually works pretty well but this thing is relentless.

Leggs

May 13th, 2013
12:08 pm

disco ~ i’m a fan of toothpaste too. It brings it to a head and then dies (lol).

Exiled

May 13th, 2013
12:08 pm

DUI in a glass?

U stoopid ITL :lol:

I’m in the bathroom dowloading and reading the blog ….my laugh caused the load to unhinge.pop off and kidoo,Splash!…in the pool.
:lol:

Exiled

May 13th, 2013
12:09 pm

SlimNu

May 13th, 2013
12:10 pm

I’m eating lunch for peaksake….Ewwwwwww!

Into the Light

May 13th, 2013
12:12 pm

@MsAtl: Let me know how it is with the Midori….. :)

SlimNu the ZitSlayer. LOL

Beautiful

May 13th, 2013
12:24 pm

no comment on the topic. @Slim… put toothpaste on it

DuShawn

May 13th, 2013
12:24 pm

I think change and growth are somewhat synonymous terms in the context of a relationship. Both are inevitable as time passes. The true challenge is trying to maintain a semblance of what you both were before all the kids, bills and trials and tribulations that caused the change/growth. I agree that one’s moral compass has already been cemented by the time they reach adulthood, but if you’re not mindful of the couple you once were, you could easily lose your way. One commonality that I have noticed in successful unions is the more they change/grow, the more they stay the same.

Exiled

May 13th, 2013
12:34 pm

Why u eat lernch at 11:40 Slim..u prego?

Celisea

May 13th, 2013
12:39 pm

Well, kiddies just out of one meeting, heading to another in 21 minutes…FOR TWO HOURS!!!

Since it’s quiet and the topic seemingly done, here’s what I gave myself for mother’s day…among other for Mother’s Day :) Actually, my boo picked them out. He thought they looked nice on my feet :mrgreen:

http://www.dsw.com/shoe/eurosoft+valma+platform+sandal?prodId=dsw12prod4450077&brand=dsw12brand10100002&activeCats=women,dsw12brand10100002&isBrand=y&categoryName=women

Celisea

May 13th, 2013
12:40 pm

I meant…here’s what I gave myself for Mother’s Day, among other things….

I was erasing and condensing my post… :)

Beautiful

May 13th, 2013
12:43 pm

man! the trolls are thick in here.

Celisea

May 13th, 2013
12:45 pm

Alright kiddies….I have 16 minutes to grab a bite and dial in…

BBL….maybe. If not, (some of) y’all have a fantab rest of the day!

SlimNu

May 13th, 2013
12:48 pm

Beautiful – I’ll throw some crest on there tonight lol

Ex – Um, check the time again…I’m on EASTERN time so it was after twelve numb nuts. :roll:

Exiled

May 13th, 2013
1:03 pm

Slim?

What’s wrong with u today?

U were talking about a stick earlier on and wanting to hold a ’strong’ stick(I say missing it) and now u complement that by talking bout Nutts….. ;)

Me thinks u jes haven’t had a strong jolt in ur mouf in weeks that’s why u talk like that.

feel like u wanna grab sum real strong and throbin?? :lol:

Leggs

May 13th, 2013
1:03 pm

Beautiful ~ where is the troll? I must have missed him or her???

Leggs

May 13th, 2013
1:05 pm

Good grief….

Beautiful

May 13th, 2013
1:13 pm

oh! i thought it was obvious. and the ones that show up at the end of the day get on my nerves.

SlimNu

May 13th, 2013
1:17 pm

Ex – The way you always find ways to flip anything into being sexually makes me think YO azz hasn’t had in this year at all. Queen ought to tie you up and sit on your face for a good 30 minutes and farts in your mouth before she gets up. But no need to concern yourself with what’s been or hasn’t been in my mouf

Into the Light

May 13th, 2013
1:18 pm

I guess I missed the troll, too….

We need a good topic – it’s too slow in here. Everyone must have the Monday blahs……

SlimNu

May 13th, 2013
1:20 pm

corrections: sexual, hasn’t had ANY…fart :-D

MissMoni

May 13th, 2013
1:21 pm

Well if anyone is interested and has a tv in their office, the OJ Simpson hearing is on live on HLN.

Leggs

May 13th, 2013
1:21 pm

Beautiful ~ I don’t detect any trolls because everyone that’s been posters are regulars (lol).

Leggs

May 13th, 2013
1:21 pm

been posting…

Celisea

May 13th, 2013
1:22 pm

I missed the troll! What troll?? lolol Honestly, I thought “Beautiful” was yet another person “trolling” names from the archives. I thought so because she mentioned getting child support but by right, Beautiful’s son should be about 19 or 20. I think back then the old Beautiful said her son was about 14/15. Now, unless the child support rules have changed, I didn’t think you could still collect child support after 18….shrugs

If you’re stealing names to blog and cause trouble, Beautiful, I can ony say…”po thang”….lolol

Beautiful

May 13th, 2013
1:25 pm

blog monster eating my post

Beautiful

May 13th, 2013
1:25 pm

ex is meelloo??

Beautiful

May 13th, 2013
1:27 pm

when i type m e l o’s name the blog monster eats it LOL

SlimNu

May 13th, 2013
1:30 pm

Beautiful – Yes Exiled is Meeeeeeelo. He was actually exiled from the blog a while back and was eventually able to come back under a different moniker. I can’t recall what he did but i’m surprised he hasn’t gotten the boot again by how nasty and raunchy he often is… :roll:

Beautiful

May 13th, 2013
1:30 pm

Leggs… i’ve been reading ex as a troll. and the ones at 5pm obviously

Beautiful

May 13th, 2013
1:32 pm

Slim… i just figured that out while typing and that’s a dayum shame M E L O!!!! nasty heffa

Leggs

May 13th, 2013
1:33 pm

I thought you might be talking about Ex. Yes he’s M E L O. No one posts such unnecessary sexual twists on EVERYTHING like he does.

Leggs

May 13th, 2013
1:34 pm

I think beautiful’s son is one year younger than Lil Leggs???

Exiled

May 13th, 2013
1:35 pm

Beautiful..?

Hold a bible and put your hand on it and answer me this:

Do u work???

Me thinks ur a grown azz welfare baby? am I wrong?

Ok..where do u work?

Slim???
There is a better chance of You being successfully recruited by the Blog BOB brigade than me not getting sum on the regular.

Church! :lol:

Celisea

May 13th, 2013
1:36 pm

Mmeello has been blogging the entire time since Beautiful’s re-entry to the blog, so not sure how he was assumed a troll. Folks have been talking with him and he’s been talking with folks….how did you get “troll” out of that?? Most time “troll” are folks that lurk and wait for a moment to pounce, change names and attack. Oh and ask Raqi once said, or those folks that laugh and talk with you but don’t really like you nor your posts and change names to get it said.

Beautiful

May 13th, 2013
1:36 pm

i have two sons… one is 13yrs and the other is 19yrs

Leggs

May 13th, 2013
1:37 pm

Ex ~ welfare babies can grow up to be wonderful, rich folk. It’s not how you start in life, but how you end.

Leggs

May 13th, 2013
1:39 pm

Celisea ~ I thought the same. Since beautiful’s been back, so was Ex. What made him a troll today???

Beautiful

May 13th, 2013
1:40 pm

a troll to me is a nuisance, a pest, someone you don’t care to read and wish would go away. and they will never be missed. ev1 has their own definition i’m sure.

Exiled

May 13th, 2013
1:40 pm

Leggs…no,I ain’t talking bout ‘welfare babies’

I am talking bout Beautiful being a ‘welfare baby’

U get it?
it’s a question about an adult status :lol:

Not the kids

Celisea

May 13th, 2013
1:41 pm

Leggs – Hmmmm, lol Exactly.

Leggs

May 13th, 2013
1:41 pm

beautiful ~ a troll here is someone who isn’t a regular, comes on trying to start crap, throwing shade over our sunny landscape.

Leggs

May 13th, 2013
1:42 pm

I misunderstood, Ex.

SlimNu

May 13th, 2013
1:45 pm

Ex can be a troll at times…a nasty troll :???:

Celisea

May 13th, 2013
1:45 pm

If you don’t like what you’re reading, then you leave. But again, we’re all grown folks and you can’t mandate and tell folks what to say or not. Name calling and stuff is just amazing. Grown folks at that. Beautiful, it’s not what you’re called, it’s what you answer to.

When will folks get that this is a public blog. That you can’t tell folks what to do? To result to name calling is just beyond me. And that folks may not want to read you no more than you want to read them. I mean really. Just sooo amazing to me. How the heck you gon fall in here out of nowhere (you say) and start saying who you don’t like nor want to read???

I’m saying “HMMMMM” even louder now. Beautiful, honestly, you sound familiar

Beautiful

May 13th, 2013
1:47 pm

i say he’s a troll. 98% of the time i don’t even read him.

Leggs

May 13th, 2013
1:49 pm

beautiful sounds the same to ME as she was when she used to be on the blog. When she came out and said disco co-signed something she had said when she really hadn’t sound to me like it was the same beautiful.

Celisea

May 13th, 2013
1:50 pm

And there you have it, Beautiful. Bypass, but name calling and mess starting ain’t cool.

Leggs

May 13th, 2013
1:51 pm

I hear you, beautiful. I never thought to put a “regular in the “troll” category.

SlimNu

May 13th, 2013
1:51 pm

Celisea – Why are you so quick to get fired up….R E L A X. You had a wonderful weekend so need to get twisted on here. Heyal, there isn’t even anything going on in this camp today. Sadly, it’s making my day longer than it needs to for a freaking Monday. Think happy thoughts :-D

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May 13th, 2013
1:51 pm

wow……..just wow….smh :(

SlimNu

May 13th, 2013
1:52 pm

Leggs – I didn’t know she was even referring to Ex at first…I thought it was something I missed but didn’t have the energy to ask. I figured if anyone else was lost, someone would ask or fill the rest of the blog in. lol

Leggs

May 13th, 2013
1:53 pm

and I won’t. Trolls are vile, viscious, and extremely mean spirited. Ex is a harmless, nasty uncle sitting in the corner scratchng his own balls.

Exiled

May 13th, 2013
1:53 pm

I read u Beautiful.

How am I troll of u don’t read me 98% of the time?

just curious….not that I crave to be read.. :lol:

How u make the call(troll) without reading the troll.

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May 13th, 2013
1:53 pm

Sooooooo…Anybody watch GOT last night????

Exiled

May 13th, 2013
1:55 pm

K I’m gone

When I circle back I know it’s gon be jumpin in herr’ (in my Ryan Cameron voice) :lol:

Beautiful

May 13th, 2013
1:58 pm

M E L O and others back then were always mean to me, so i can call the heffa whatever the heyal i want LOL! and that’s funny Leggs.

SlimNu

May 13th, 2013
1:59 pm

Court – Nope lol What else ya got in your bag of tricks? :oops:

Leggs

May 13th, 2013
2:03 pm

“M E L O and others back then were always mean to me, so i can call the heffa whatever the heyal i want”

Now, THAT WAS FUNNY!

abc

May 13th, 2013
2:04 pm

Leggs

May 13th, 2013
2:05 pm

SlimNu ~ I only went back to top of page 2 to see if someone slipped on that I didn’t recognize. I knew page 1 was full of regulars. It had to have been Ex she was talking about.

DuShawn

May 13th, 2013
2:06 pm

Court – The children are misbehaving today……

Beautiful

May 13th, 2013
2:06 pm

Into the Light

May 13th, 2013
2:07 pm

(waving at Court) I did! I did!

Beautiful

May 13th, 2013
2:08 pm

In Internet slang, a troll (pron.: /ˈtroʊl/, /ˈtrɒl/) is someone who posts inflammatory,[1] extraneous, or off-topic messages in an online community, such as a forum, chat room, or blog, with the primary intent of provoking readers into an emotional response[2] or of otherwise disrupting normal on-topic discussion BOOM!!!!!!!!

Leggs

May 13th, 2013
2:08 pm

uummm,welll, {{cough, cough}}, hmmmm, let me go read this newspaper….

We got it, abc :lol: :lol:

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May 13th, 2013
2:09 pm

Whats the good word Du???

Into the Light

May 13th, 2013
2:09 pm

I have to be honest, that scene with Egret and Jon Snow and the one with Rob Stark and his wife had me feeling some kinda way…..

Celisea

May 13th, 2013
2:10 pm

This blog ain’t been no real blog since foolishess kicked the door wide open, therefore a dictionaried term won’t apply…lolololol

Beautiful

May 13th, 2013
2:10 pm

i love it! thanks abc. and thanks Slim for the support

MissMoni

May 13th, 2013
2:12 pm

-Leggs Are you going to have to pass out “Blog Vests” today? ;-)

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May 13th, 2013
2:15 pm

ITL….. The dragon chick is getting to be my favorite!!! But I was really surprised Jamie stopped oh girl from fighting the bear…LOL

Into the Light

May 13th, 2013
2:17 pm

Dragon Girl has BEEN one of my favorites, ever since she poured that molten gold on her brother’s head. She is going to make a real run for the iron throne.

Nah, Jamie and Briane have an alliance, now. They both begrudge it a bit, I think, but they care for one another in spite of themselves.

abc

May 13th, 2013
2:18 pm

Rule is, don’t feed the trolls. If you don’t react to them, they’ll go away on their own.

Leggs

May 13th, 2013
2:20 pm

MissMoni ~ everyone has their vests, but I may have to give the command to put them on!

disco

May 13th, 2013
2:21 pm

Moni – I say no blog vests today. No helmets, no gloves, no safety goggles, no nothing. Just a blog free for all. Go for what you know. Stick and move, drop and roll, tuck tail and run. Whatever works for you. Lol.

Leggs

May 13th, 2013
2:23 pm

You are so right, abc.

Leggs

May 13th, 2013
2:24 pm

disco wants to see a street fight, anything goes. If you fracture your skull, that’s on you!

MissMoni

May 13th, 2013
2:24 pm

Ok Leggs, while you deliberate on giving the command is it too early for SlimNu to start passing out drinks??? :-D

Into the Light

May 13th, 2013
2:25 pm

Leggs, did you have a nice Mother’s Day?

Exiled

May 13th, 2013
2:25 pm

U drinking Compton water Beautiful!? :lol:

U come back to the blog looking stronger and bossier than Suge Knight. :lol:

Into the Light

May 13th, 2013
2:25 pm

It’s never too early for dranks. Yep – dranks.

I’ll have a vodka and soda with extra lime.

SlimNu

May 13th, 2013
2:27 pm

disco – buket nekkid blog Monday….i’m already taking my stuff off….Who has the vaseline?

disco

May 13th, 2013
2:27 pm

ex – Compton water? is that what they use to make pimp juice? lol.

MissMoni

May 13th, 2013
2:27 pm

-Disco LOL, I’m not surprised by you wanting a “Free For All”. So, anything interesting happen with your fam this weekend? ;-)

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May 13th, 2013
2:27 pm

disco

May 13th, 2013
2:29 pm

slim – you’se a nut. not that you bout to get greased up. lol.

moni – don’t know. haven’t talked to any of them. well, talked to the offspring but he don’t know nothing.

MissMoni

May 13th, 2013
2:30 pm

-ITL OK then, I’ll start with an oversized glass of Moscato!

Leggs

May 13th, 2013
2:30 pm

ITL ~ it was a decent day.

You’re right, ITL, never too early for dranks.

DreamsMaterialize

May 13th, 2013
2:31 pm

buket nekkid blog Monday….i’m already taking my stuff off…
Dang no one told me about this. I don’t even have any singles. Du, Court, Ex Any of ya’ll got change for a 4 dollar bill? lol

MissMoni

May 13th, 2013
2:32 pm

-SlimNu Put that vaseline away and get to the bar, LOL!!!

-Disco Sorry to hear that. :-(

Leggs

May 13th, 2013
2:33 pm

“…buket nekkid blog Monday….i’m already taking my stuff off….Who has the vaseline?”

Heck you need to be asking for bandaids to cover up the areola. If that’s bitten, it can be quite painful when in a fight!

Beautiful

May 13th, 2013
2:34 pm

alcoholic – find any and every reason to drink! lmbo

Leggs

May 13th, 2013
2:35 pm

Ok, you guys have officially gone left.

disco

May 13th, 2013
2:35 pm

moni – sorry I have no tales to tell or sorry my child don’t know nothing? lol.

slim – don’t listen to moni. grease up, braid your hair, go to the bar and order something that will be served to you in a bottle – just in case. lol.

ex – don’t judge slim for sitting at the bar drinking a 40 oz of Schlitz malt liquor.

Celisea

May 13th, 2013
2:35 pm

Vaseline?? Lawd, over someone being called a troll?? R E L A X, Slim, breeeath, I don’t you need vaseline to ward off the supposed trolls :)

Into the Light

May 13th, 2013
2:36 pm

@Beautiful: I’m NOT an alcoholic. they have to go to meetings. I’m just a drinker. LOLOLOLOL

MissMoni

May 13th, 2013
2:37 pm

-Disco All of the above. Why was I thinking of Ex as I cracked open a Corona on Friday? So what did I do. . . Pour it in a wine glass, LMBO!!! *True Story* :-D

Exiled

May 13th, 2013
2:38 pm

Vaseline?

Is Vaseline used a a lubricant?

that’s a sign that ur naturally excreting glands are gone but u still wanna be in the game ! :lol:

Courtside Seats (With no PSL's added on!!!! )

May 13th, 2013
2:38 pm

Dreams, sorry buddy, holding on to my singles…….(just in case), but I do have a roll of nickels I can slip to Leggs if it gets a little rough in the clinches…….

Celisea

May 13th, 2013
2:40 pm

that’s a sign that ur naturally excreting glands are gone but u still wanna be in the game

I feel bad for folks needing “assistance”….lololol

Exiled

May 13th, 2013
2:41 pm

Thinking of EX…and…. crack open?

send me a pic MsMoni! (salivating)
…holy shmockes!! :lol:

We need to get together MsMoni,forget the lame Durty!! :lol:

disco

May 13th, 2013
2:41 pm

moni – that’s funny. I don’t think I’ve ever heard of anyone drinking beer out of a wine glass.

court – you talking about rolls of nickels. I knew a lady one time who even had the judge laughing when she was in court. why? her weapon was a lock and a rock in a sock. as moni just said “true story:” lol.

SlimNu

May 13th, 2013
2:42 pm

disco – All I could find was my cocoa butter stick. I don’t think that’ll be much help :lol: And I appreciate the tip on the bottle ;-)

Dreams – Change for a dollar bill, wow. You could’ve at least said change for a $5. :roll:

Celisea

May 13th, 2013
2:42 pm

FTR, this blog NEVER stays on topic. Let’s see….so far today, I don’t think deets on TV shows, dranking, links of videos, links of shoes, stapping up to fight, lubricants, “mouf fulls” speaks anything to Relationships and Don’t Go Changing…IJS

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May 13th, 2013
2:44 pm

Damn disco!!! all she needed was a phone book chest protector and a plastic shank and she would have been an extra on season 4 of “The Wire”!!!

MissMoni

May 13th, 2013
2:45 pm

-Ex Somehow I knew that you would twist the wording, LOL!!!

-Disco I guess the lady was using what was easily accessible, LOL!!!

Beautiful

May 13th, 2013
2:46 pm

Celisea… everyone and everything changes but God. true story!

SlimNu

May 13th, 2013
2:47 pm

MissMoni – Beer in a wine glass :lol: That’s funny that he made you switch it up.

disco

May 13th, 2013
2:47 pm

court – this was way back in the day. she was the mother of a friend of mine. you should have heard us howling when she was running back her day in court. she got probation.

SlimNu

May 13th, 2013
2:48 pm

Leggs – You’re right about the bandaids….maybe I should bandage up my whole chest with an ace bandage. The vaseline will not keep the regular band-aids on

disco

May 13th, 2013
2:49 pm

where’s itl? I said we could play guess disco baby daddy on a slow day. lol.

Into the Light

May 13th, 2013
2:50 pm

LOL@disco. You always have the best stories. And I know they’re true – that makes it even funnier.

MissMoni

May 13th, 2013
2:50 pm

-SlimNu It’s even scarier that Ex is in my subconscious.

Into the Light

May 13th, 2013
2:51 pm

Ooooh, guess disco baby daddy day.

Give me a hint – is he bigger than a smart car?

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May 13th, 2013
2:53 pm

lol….In my best “Jangle Leg” voice…”I be that baby pappy”….. LOLOLOLOL

Celisea

May 13th, 2013
2:54 pm

Beautiful – I know that God never changes. He’s the same today, yesterday and he changes not!! Heck that’s all that matters anyway :mrgreen:

I can’t speak too much on people. In the context used this morning, the couple of minutes on topic, I still say folks don’t too much change. As far as folks flipping the script on you in a hot second, umm yeah brace yaself, cause it’s likely to happen. If it ain’t, it will. That’s why you shouldn’t get wrapped too tight.

Leggs

May 13th, 2013
2:54 pm

It’s not he’s in your subconscious. More like “people say the darndest things” that’s in your subconscious (lol).

DreamsMaterialize

May 13th, 2013
2:55 pm

but I do have a roll of nickels I can slip to Leggs if it gets a little rough in the clinches… It’s all good bruh. I’ll make it do what it do.

Change for a dollar bill, wow. You could’ve at least said change for a $5
Slim Hey I’m not tryna make it rain up in this joint. I’ll leave that to the big ballers. Shoot I’m not even tryna make it drizzle…more like make it misty/foggy. lol

MissMoni

May 13th, 2013
2:56 pm

-Leggs Thanks for wording that correctly!!! :-D

disco

May 13th, 2013
2:57 pm

court – ahh naw you didn’t go there with jangle – leg. lol. bokeem woodbine is my cat. he doesn’t get enough credit in Hollywood but he’s a bad boy.

ITL – I almost changed baby daddy but I’ll stick with the original one. 1) he’s bigger than a smart car 2) he’s an actor 3) barrel chested type 4) chocolate

cue jeopardy music here. lol.

Into the Light

May 13th, 2013
2:57 pm

LOL@Dreams. For a dollar, you’re not even getting a stray cloud. LOL :lol: :lol:

Into the Light

May 13th, 2013
2:58 pm

MissMoni

May 13th, 2013
2:59 pm

-Disco Is it Idris Elba???

Beautiful

May 13th, 2013
3:02 pm

Celisea… the one or two things that have changed with me regarding dating is my wisdom and knowledge on the subject. much better from when i first started dating. when i started blogging with y’all i didn’t know how to date. i never dated. a man would come into my life, next thing i know he’s my man. *shrugs* oh! and now i protect my heart. i shall not be moved by all these knuckle heads out here. all they do is lie. but i stay hopeful

disco

May 13th, 2013
3:03 pm

no and no. next clue is sitcom actor.

MissMoni

May 13th, 2013
3:05 pm

-Disco James Amos from Good Times, LMBO!!! *Ok, I couldn’t help myself*

Into the Light

May 13th, 2013
3:06 pm

John Amos!!! Oh wait. He’s mine. :oops:

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May 13th, 2013
3:06 pm

Disco, Is it Charles S Dutton??? LOLOLOLOLOL

SlimNu

May 13th, 2013
3:07 pm

Celisea – I was just getting prepared for the blog free for all. Is there going to be a mud wrestling portion to this event? :lol:

Into the Light

May 13th, 2013
3:07 pm

Jinx, MissMoni!!! :lol: :lo:

disco

May 13th, 2013
3:09 pm

moni – I knew ving and james were going to be at the top.

court – you crazy. Charles Dutton – yuck.

next clue: initials for his government name are R.B.

MissMoni

May 13th, 2013
3:10 pm

-Court LOL at Charles S. Dutton!!!

Is it Keenan Ivory Wayans???

disco

May 13th, 2013
3:11 pm

okay. here’s the giveaway clue: I’m not sure if he has a job since he spends so much time “just chilling”. lol.

Celisea

May 13th, 2013
3:12 pm

Beautiful – Well like I metioned this morning, the saying “change is good”, is not a bad thing. My mantra, do you. I don’t really remember a lot you blogged about as it relates to dating aside from ARed, your nemesis and the constant fights. But, as the saying goes, hope springs eternal.

I can’t say I don’t know how to date. Apparently I do :mrgreen: I don’t sweat or get wrapped too tight in who anybody else on here is smashing, smanging dating, marrying, procreating, etc etc etc. I just do me. Don’t get me wrong, I read and recall, but really nothing about this blog is that deep…or at least it shouldn’t be.

Into the Light

May 13th, 2013
3:13 pm

Bruh Man!!!!

MissMoni

May 13th, 2013
3:14 pm

Reginald Ballard aka BroMan from Martin!!!

Beautiful

May 13th, 2013
3:15 pm

i can’t knock this blog! it has taught me some thangs.

DuShawn

May 13th, 2013
3:16 pm

“….Change for a dollar bill, wow. You could’ve at least said change for a $5″ “…….Roll of nickles…….” Bruh, yall over pricing them, I gotta an EBT card I can swipe between their butt cheeks.

disco

May 13th, 2013
3:17 pm

moni – itl beat you but it was close. lol. my alternate baby daddy for the day was going to be allen payne.

MissMoni

May 13th, 2013
3:18 pm

-Disco ITL didn’t know his government name tho, LOL!!!

Into the Light

May 13th, 2013
3:19 pm

I did, too, Moni! I was just trying to be first. :)

Into the Light

May 13th, 2013
3:20 pm

Allen Payne???? He’s so little.

Into the Light

May 13th, 2013
3:22 pm

Well, not little, but he looks short on TV.

Celisea

May 13th, 2013
3:22 pm

i can’t knock this blog! it has taught me some thangs.

Ummm, okie dokie….lol

disco

May 13th, 2013
3:22 pm

moni – okay but truth be told he might not even know his government name anymore.

itl – and he’s light skinned and he’s got curly hair. even with all that I’ve been liking him since way back.

beautiful – if you don’t mind sharing, what has the blog taught you? anyone else take life lessons from the blog? I embraced a few new phrases like “aggressive in the face”. I don’t recall who said it but it was funny as heck.

MissMoni

May 13th, 2013
3:23 pm

-ITL So who’s your superstar crush???

Celisea

May 13th, 2013
3:25 pm

Beautiful – You aren’t the first to say they’ve learned a few things from the blog. I can’t say that I have, but yes, please do, enlighten us :) There are others that have gotten insight from here.

Beautiful

May 13th, 2013
3:25 pm

disco – don’t take that so literally LOL

SlimNu

May 13th, 2013
3:26 pm

DuShawn – Ebt cards buy groceries, and I’ll take that over a roll of pennies. lol

Into the Light

May 13th, 2013
3:26 pm

@Moni: I have several, but Hugh Jackman and Joe Manganiello top the list.

disco

May 13th, 2013
3:29 pm

slim – please don’t let word get out on the skreets that you will make it clap for a food stamp card. lol.

Beautiful

May 13th, 2013
3:30 pm

shoot! food expensive LOL

Beautiful

May 13th, 2013
3:35 pm

as i stated, i never dated only went straight from hi to being in a committed relationship. i’ve picked up things here and there regarding all the topics Wise put out.

Beautiful

May 13th, 2013
3:36 pm

reading Raqi was rewarding

SlimNu

May 13th, 2013
3:38 pm

disco – It’s too late lol But i’m not tooo sure about the making clap part, but I can drudge up a little crop dust if need be. :oops:

Beautiful – Heyal yeah! Sometimes I don’t know which is more expensive, going out to eat or buying food lol

MissMoni

May 13th, 2013
3:45 pm

Well ya’ll enjoy the remainder of your day, it’s about that time! :-)

DuShawn

May 13th, 2013
4:03 pm

SlimNu – Do you take WIC too. I bet you will show out for some Juicy Juice and Cherrios.

SlimNu

May 13th, 2013
4:06 pm

Um, guys, I think MissMoni was the one leaving. She didn’t mean for the rest of yall to dip too.

DuShawn

May 13th, 2013
4:07 pm

“not tooo sure about the making clap part………” I heard the Gap so wide the but cheeks don’t touch.

SlimNu

May 13th, 2013
4:07 pm

DuShawn – I have to have some limits and I draw the line at Juicy Juice and plain azz Cherrios lol

SlimNu

May 13th, 2013
4:08 pm

You heard the gap so wide from who?

disco

May 13th, 2013
4:08 pm

D – you can get cheerios with wic? I know you can get kix and captain vitamin but cheerios? dag.

disco

May 13th, 2013
4:09 pm

slim – hush. you make it sound like you’ll put in work for some honey nut cheerios or some apple cinnamon cheerios. lol.

DuShawn

May 13th, 2013
4:11 pm

SlimNu- I heard it on the internet. So it must be true.

DuShawn

May 13th, 2013
4:12 pm

Disco- she got morals……:)

disco

May 13th, 2013
4:13 pm

D – I heard of what would you do for a Klondike bar but never some honey nut cheerios. lol. I just watched love jones yesterday and cracked up on khalil kain tripping off of his toasted oats. lol.

SlimNu

May 13th, 2013
4:14 pm

disco :oops: Did someone say Honey Nut Cheerios? lol

SlimNu

May 13th, 2013
4:15 pm

Honestly, I couldn’t tell you the last time I had some cereal…but they probably were raisin bran lol

DuShawn

May 13th, 2013
4:16 pm

Slim- you bring the honey………..I’ll bring the nut.

disco

May 13th, 2013
4:17 pm

slim – you clowning but I was thinking maybe I might buy myself some apple jacks at the store today.

dushawn – silly rabbit. trix are for kids. lol.

DreamsMaterialize

May 13th, 2013
4:24 pm

Now you ladies quit frontin’. You all know you like Honey Bunches of O’s Oats. ;-)

Courtside Seats (With no PSL's added on!!!! )

May 13th, 2013
4:27 pm

Honey nut Cheerios is why Carmello wanted to fight KG…. Said that was Lala’s flavoring….. :)

Leggs

May 13th, 2013
4:28 pm

Hope to see you new day, same batcave.

PEACE!

SlimNu

May 13th, 2013
4:33 pm

Dreams – What girl wouldn’t want Honey Bunches of …..? It’s those plain Cheerios nobody wants…

Beautiful

May 13th, 2013
4:36 pm

plain Cheerios is like eating air.

Beautiful

May 13th, 2013
4:37 pm

and i think the game who’s ya daddy is cute

Exiled

May 13th, 2013
4:42 pm

Why what when with who?
Where are we folks?

SlimNu

May 13th, 2013
4:46 pm

Exiting stage left…..

Celisea

May 13th, 2013
4:47 pm

Beautiful, before I go………

One thing you should ALWAYS remember, if there’s a person commenting that you don’t particularly “feel”, the feeling is likely or could be mutual.

My issue today was, (and know I’m not loyal to anyone here cause I don’t see it coming back my way), calling folks trolls goes waaaay to the left. IJS

If we’re gonna mandate folks to stay on topic, it should go for all, let’s practice the do as I do and not as I say…first and foremost. Let’s not pull out the handbook for certain folks and for others it’s all good and giggles and snuggles, etc etc etc

If we call a person a troll that veers from topic, then all are trolls…

Night folks :) :) (I’m on a call with my manager and getting handed “my part” in what I have to speak on in the meeting tomorrow…..ut oh, gotta go home and study)….

Beautiful

May 13th, 2013
4:54 pm

Celisea… there’s no rules on this blog LOL. M E L O getting kicked off permanently just confirms me calling him a troll. oh and he’s always a jerk. M E L O has never apologized to me for treating me the way he did and responding to me the way he did. a handful of ppl have. he can go kill himself or drop off a cliff for all i care. i feel sorry for Queen. what a horrible human being.

SlimNu

May 13th, 2013
4:59 pm

Peeped back in….oops, sounds like a two-way convo. Yall have a good night. I’m OUT!

Courtside Seats (With no PSL's added on!!!! )

May 13th, 2013
5:00 pm

“he can go kill himself or drop off a cliff for all i care.”

Wow…..kinda harsh…..

Hello beautiful.. I hope you had a fantastic Mothers day weekend…..

Celisea

May 13th, 2013
5:03 pm

Celisea… there’s no rules on this blog

Beautiful, while I’ll say that statement in and of itself is the reason you nor anyone else can tell folks what to do, iiiiinnnnttt, wrong, there are rule…top right corner.

Am I at a staged play or on candid camera??? Seriously, you going HAM on someone, saying “go kill himself” and “drop off a cliff”, all sounds scripted…lololol If you say so, sweetie. Can you say okie doke???

But, it’s neither here nor there. I was only making a point that if we’re gonna hold fire to folks’ feet, start with self.

Celisea

May 13th, 2013
5:05 pm

Taking the laptop off the dock, laptop in bag, turning out the lights (well not really cause folks still working), taking out my car keys, getting my purse, unplugging my phone charger….

Beautiful

May 13th, 2013
5:07 pm

i hear you Celisea! even though i forgive him, my previous comment still stands.

Beautiful

May 13th, 2013
5:09 pm

it’s 2:08pm, good night bloggers.

Shady Grady

May 13th, 2013
6:21 pm

Bootiful, where u at gul? Sup

LOL

May 13th, 2013
7:52 pm

shhhhhh…….listen gurl still beating her lips!

Tee Tee

May 13th, 2013
11:24 pm

I have changed.