Yes, I referenced a Billy Joel song. It’s a classic. It also highlights what a lot of men think about the women they pick. Whatever quirky, wonderful quality a man falls for in a woman, he doesn’t want to see it go away. A lot of men prefer that the woman they meet is the truest representation of her. If or when she flips the script, things get complicated. Men don’t like complicated.
I know a friend who has a real fear of marrying one person and then she changes into someone he “used to know.” I don’t think any woman can guarantee that she won’t grow or change, though. Do you think that change and growth can be viewed as a threat to a long- lasting relationship?
Have you ever dated someone who changed a lot over the course of your relationship? Did the change bring you closer together or was it a challenge?
How much change are you willing to handle in a relationship?
By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog