One of our readers wanted to get advice about when she should bring up the marriage topic. She has been dating her boyfriend for less than a year and feels pretty confident about things. This is why she is anxious to start talking about a future. She just doesn’t want to bring the one to bring it up!
Do you believe that a woman who talks about marriage too soon is a turn off to men? What if he is already thinking of her as his future spouse?
In my experiences, marriage usually makes its way into conversations rather organically. I don’t remember being the one to bring it up. Admittedly, there was a period that I was no interested in marriage at all, so I sort of avoided that when I could.
If you are really excited about a possible future with someone, can bringing marriage into the forefront actually delay or derail a relationship?
Should you drop hints or subtle comments about marriage to get the discussion going?
By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog