It’s funny how you may not be able to pinpoint the traits of someone you consider ideal, but you can definitely describe who is NOT ideal. There is something to be said about knowing what you want and don’t want. I think most people are reasonable about it, while others.. not so much.
We all have different things that “just does it” for us, whatever that means. It’s interesting to think about why some things are complete turn offs while other things could draw you in. It is also funny how one man’s/woman’s turn off can be another man’s/woman’s turn ON.
For instance, I always say that a man with an extensive vocabulary and book collection could make me swoon instantly. Another woman would think he was a complete square, Herb, or nerd. She would assume was dull and boring. I’m here for it. ALL day. Yes.
A guy who feels the need to constantly brag or boast of his looks, sexual prowess, or wealth just makes me twitch. I become overwhelmed with the urge to roll my eyes. I may even start to feels stabby if I am forced to be around him for too long. Turned ALL the way OFF. If you’re awesome, people can tell. No need to be your own hype man, dude.
What about you? Have you ever noticed that your turn ons/offs are quirky or off the wall compared to other people?
By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog