I will probably never totally understand men but I won’t ever stop trying. I just get so perplexed at male logic sometimes. I am sure men say the same about chick logic! I actually believe we are not that different fundamentally. We all want the same thing – to be accepted and loved.
The latest perplexing thing a man was actually something I spotted on Facebook, from a relationship expert. (Sidenote: It is hard not to write a snarky joke here but I won’t.) He was trying to make the point that women who carry their own condoms are sending the wrong message if they want to be taken seriously. He believes that “women of substance” should be valued and carrying a condom would make it difficult for a man to value her worth.
I have to ask – what kind of guy judges a woman who carries her own condoms? If you are too lazy, forgetful, unwilling to carry them, are you in a position to judge a woman for having them?
Ok, before I go off on a nonsensical rant on double standards, I will let you weigh in. What say you, friends? Should women carry condoms? Do you think there is some risk of being viewed as promiscuous?
P.S. Let’s keep the discussion PG and friendly today, please and thank you.
By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog