You want to know how to really lose a guy in 10 days? Just go through his phone and get caught. My friend Henry dropped his date off and deleted her number after he found her snooping on his phone. It’s unfortunate because he was quite impressed with her up until that moment.
Nothing is scarier to men than an insecure chick with a penchant for using CSI skills in dating. He said he thought that was just a preview to what kind of behavior she would show in a serious relationship. If she was already looking through his phone this early in the game, it was probably a symptom of something deeper.
I tried to argue that some people are just nosy and aren’t cool with letting things unfold. They have this strong urge to know every single thing about the person they are dating right away. I kind of respect him for cutting his losses early, though. Hopefully the young lady learned her lesson and won’t snoop on the next guy.
If you had the opportunity to do a little recon on your date, would you take it? Do you think snooping is a bad habit that is harmless or can it mean there is a deeper issue?
Have you ever been caught snooping on your date? What would you do if you were on a date and spotted them looking through your phone, laptop, etc.?
By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating