Cody has been only been seeing Sabrina for a couple of weeks now and he already has to adjust his budget. Why? Apparently, Sabrina likes the finer things in life. Cody likes the fine Sabrina. Now he is doing way too much to pursue her. He feels that she is worth it. I don’t think any man should go to these kind of lengths to get a woman.
Eventually, she will find out he is strapped for cash. If this is the kind of thing that would be a deal breaker, he needs to know it sooner than later. Why would anyone want to go broke trying to date someone? I understand wanting to impress a person. I even get that men want to show that they can be a provider. Where do you draw the line, though?
Cody felt that Sabrina was out of his league from the moment he met her. Instead of letting her see him for who he is, he took the impress her with shiny things route. What happens if (when?) she gets distracted by the next man offering her more? Is he going to regret the money he invested in pursuing her?
I have met men like this before after they have been used by women who like to date men for sponsorship. They end up questioning the motives of every woman they meet after that. They also suddenly become a lot more selective about spending money on women to impress them.
What happens when you spend too much money dating? What kind of impact does that have? What is the most money you have spent on one date?
Do you think it is possible to date someone without blowing a lot of cash and still manage to impress them?
By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog