I have been told that a lot of men really don’t mind it if women are attracted to them for shallow reasons. The reason some men work out, drive flashy cars, and sport stylish clothes is because they want to draw women to them for the most superficial things. I guess I never thought of it in that way. I know women like to attract men, but we generally want it to be for the “right reasons” if that makes sense.
Men, do you agree? If you are attracting women solely because of superficial reasons, you don’t mind that at all? If your answer is yes, is it because that kind of attraction leads to you getting laid?
Ladies have you noticed the difference in how you treat men who you are attracted to for superficial reasons and the ones you are drawn to for non-superficial reasons?
By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog