Dating just for fun?
I find it fascinating how the same people who claim not to want a serious relationship turn out to be the first person to catch feelings. It’s sort of like “protesting too much” because they are quick to say it’s all good with no strings. The reality is that they are actually wearing their heart on their sleeves, hoping things get serious!
Men crack me up claiming they are not that type of dude or proclaim “they won’t trip over some broad” because they like things casual. These are the ones that start stalking you at Kroger when you don’t return his phone calls!
How does dating for fun work, then? When people are truly only interested in companionship and/or sex with no commitment, how does it get so complicated?
If you follow the dating for fun approach to dating, do you find that people are apprehensive about seeing you again?
Is it necessary to actually say you are just dating for fun or will your actions kind of show it?
By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog
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MissMoni
February 28th, 2013
8:05 am
GOOD Thursday Morning MIA!!!
I’ve personally heard a guy say “I don’t want anything serious” yet got highly UPSET when I chose not to spend MY free time with him. I quickly had to remind him of his words and of course I added one of my fav sayings: Say what you mean and mean what you say!
I’m interested to see what the guys have to say about this topic. . .
Exiled
February 28th, 2013
8:13 am
Diva….men trip u when they say they want a casual …but they stalk u at Kroger…
It shouldn’t be a surprise to you Diva but lemme tell u…
Men luv their toys! Get it?
It maybe something as simple as a soccer ball or as valuable as a car or even a woman with banging body and swiveling waist that’s a real biaaatch in bed.
The stalking if it happens in a casual relationship is a testament to ur AAA+ rating where it counts.
He ain’t trying to wife u.
He wants to continue enjoying u!
Good morning MIA!
SlimNu
February 28th, 2013
8:49 am
Morning Folks,
When people are truly only interested in companionship and/or sex with no commitment, how does it get so complicated?
I think it is easy to start off with “no intentions other than fun” but often times, you begin to get more comfy around someone, begin to really EXPECT more from them due to the frequent interactions (regardless of it that was agreed upon or no), jealousy may kick in when the other person is not choosing you to spend all their free time with and feelings slowly seep in.
Button
February 28th, 2013
8:58 am
When people are truly only interested in companionship and/or sex with no commitment, how does it get so complicated? when feelings get involed. That’s when more time is demanded or expected. You start getting territoral, making plans and such.
Not sure how dating for fun work. I guess you’re not serious about the other person or their time? Just having fun without any accountability.
MsAtl
February 28th, 2013
9:08 am
Morning All!
I agree with Slim. Even if you start out dating for fun, in time you may start to have feelings for the person. In that case, you need to have a conversation. If the other person does not feel the same way, then you need to evaluate whether you want to continue to “play” or whether it is time to call it a wrap.
Moni-That is what I always tell folks: say what you mean and mean what you say. I am not a mind reader and I don’t have time to spend trying to decipher what you are saying.
Button
February 28th, 2013
9:12 am
Is it necessary to actually say you are just dating for fun or will your actions kind of show it? Yes it’s necessary to say that you’re dating for fun even if you don’t say it your actions will show by you’re lack of attention or being nonchalant about everything. I like to have fun but not at another persons expense. If I know I’m in it just for some fun/thrill then I’ll let be known.
Bluzgirl
February 28th, 2013
9:22 am
Doesn’t everyone date for fun until the meet the “one”?
Morning…
The man formerly know as Dan - still...Superior
February 28th, 2013
9:24 am
For me, it was the fact that they did that ‘one thing’ that, even in my experience, was new/interesting. That made me at least want to go back for that feeling. It was also that ease that some of them showed, (sometimes) fooling me into believing that they could act like that when the relationship got more serious.
It was part me fooling myself and part them lying to me and themselves. In truth, when they had expectations they didn’t express them to me – whether for fear of losing whatever we had or just the companionship.
I respected the women that could be honest with me (and themselves) and express those emotions.
disco
February 28th, 2013
9:29 am
good morning. I’m starting to wonder if my feelings are broke. they obviously don’t work properly. lol. what is this “catch feelings” that you all speak of?
bluz – does your therapist have any openings? maybe I should go and see if he can figure out who detached my emotions and what they did with them.
Courtside Seats!!! Caught on the Kiss Cam :)
February 28th, 2013
9:36 am
Mornign folks!!!!
I too am amazed at how quick some folks catch feelings when playing the dating game…. I always assumed it was / is the results of our mircowave society. Start out just trying to spend some time with her because she had great taste in shoes and was not afraid to showcase them.. and before long, BAM…. Nose wide open!!!!
Bluzgirl
February 28th, 2013
9:39 am
LOL disco! I’m sure he can take on new patients!
SlimNu
February 28th, 2013
9:44 am
I think when I was younger and not looking for the whole house, picket fence, 2.5 kids and the dog, dating for “fun” was much easier to do. As I’ve gotten older, i’m looking for more substance and stability that relationships usually provide as opposed to going out with someone just for the sake of being out doing something. Really getting to know someone, communicating on a deeper level and sharing in creating more meaningful experiences is what I find more fulfilling now.
Once this topic dwindles, I want to share a WTF article that I read online this morning. lol
Bluzgirl
February 28th, 2013
9:45 am
Come to think of it…I don’t think I want to “catch” anything during this dating game…
Bluzgirl
February 28th, 2013
9:51 am
All joking aside…I would like to just date for fun, but while doing that, it would be nice if I met the one. I’m ready to get out there and just date. If I meet the man of my dreams, I do…if not, then I keep dating until I find the one that makes me stop dating…
disco
February 28th, 2013
9:51 am
slim – I often joke that I met my allotment of “good men” when I was too young to want or appreciate them. by the time I was ready they were already married/divorced/remarried. by the time I was ready everything out here seemed worthless and picked over. a friend and I were discussing the antics of her 22 year old daughter yesterday. in the end we decided everything was all good because she was “22”.
Celisea
February 28th, 2013
10:04 am
Dating for fun has never been my thing. I think you can have fun while dating. See, just switching words around can make or break. Let’s see, Dating for fun, fun while dating, date and have fun, fun dates, and lastly “dating just for fun.” Yeah, we split hairs all day with this one…lol
Anyhoo, nothing wrong with wanting to get out there and enjoy yourself. The problem, IMO, comes in when folks don’t or won’t state their intentions or just start out going in different directions. I don’t think any one couple starting out wanting to marry, say date one. But I can bet there’s been times when she maybe hoped to see where things could go and he was in it “just for fun”…and vice versa. I’ll say all day long, to anybody….do you. Just make sure while you’re doing you, things are crystal clear.
Me personally? I’ve never dated just for fun…lol Suprise suprise, huh? I can’t say ever that I’ve dated thinking marriage, but I just don’t feel like wasting my time or yours for that matter. When I met current boo I decided to just relax, enjoy the date, have fun. Not the same though as doing it “just for fun.” In my experience, if you can get through the first few initial dates, vibing and things are good, I don’t think it’s too early to then decide if you want to see where things will go. Again, as long as the plan unfolds and folks are on the same page, make it do what it do. If it’s just for fun, FWB, etc etc etc, just make sure nobody is mislead or mistaken.
Celisea
February 28th, 2013
10:07 am
I’m a little irked this morning. How bout I split my DD and one bank is receipt and the other not. My job is saying we processed and released, so ask the bank. The bank is saying we don’t have it, ask your job
They better be glad I got money in my account…IJS Imma see how long this is gonna go on before either side decides to take responsibility.
Celisea
February 28th, 2013
10:10 am
On catching feelings, I do. What else should folks do? lol Isn’t that natural? Now, I’m not gonna display what’s behind the curtain or just slap it on my sleeve, but you can’t control when you start liking a person. It just happens. You can control though how much you reveal. That, IMO is key.
disco
February 28th, 2013
10:17 am
hmm. just for fun. some of the stuff we did just for fun was no joke. we broke bottles just for fun. started fights just for fun. skipped school just for fun. lol. I even remember distinctly responding to why did you do that with “just for the fun of it”.
Leggs
February 28th, 2013
10:24 am
WD ~ I’m surprised you used the word “broad.”
Guys trip over good nu nu and catch feelings, then the stalking begins.
Ok, I just arrived. Jacked up morning and Publix is STUPID!
disco
February 28th, 2013
10:29 am
we used to hop trains and drag on the back of buses in wintertime just for fun. it’s a wonder just for fun didn’t break our necks. i was throwing rocks once (just for fun) and broke a neighbor’s window.
leggs – what did publix do to you?
Celisea
February 28th, 2013
10:33 am
If you follow the dating for fun approach to dating, do you find that people are apprehensive about seeing you again
Again, I can’t say I’ve dated for fun but I can’t speak for all the dudes I’ve dated…lol I will say this, “dating for fun” will show, most definitely. Dudes getting all defensive when placed on the spot for answers. I don’t feel bad not one iota for a dude getting testy when I’ve wanted answers. If you have good intentions you have no problem answering. You’re all evasive and stuff? I translate that to you playing games. That right there the tell tale sign to K.I.M. And really, in my experiences, dudes wanting to date just for fun, almost NEVER had the cojones to just say…put it out there. Yeah, they knew the response would be “see ya!” lol
SlimNu
February 28th, 2013
10:37 am
Leggs – Sorry your morning is starting of rocky but you have a lot more hours to make it a better day.
Okay, i guess all yall went back to sleep. So I came across this article this morning:
http://shine.yahoo.com/parenting/transgender-girl-s-parents-sue-for-her-right-to-use-the-bathroom-201415013.html
I just really do not know what to say to this. (not that my opinion is required or requested)
Celisea
February 28th, 2013
10:38 am
Is it necessary to actually say you are just dating for fun or will your actions kind of show it?
Heck, this should be a requirement…lol You ain’t gotta say it though, it’s hard to walk forward and backwards at the same time. You can “insinuate” you want something, but if you don’t, you won’t “act” like it.
Celisea
February 28th, 2013
10:38 am
Guess the topic has changed….off to work
BBL….maybe
Courtside Seats!!! Caught on the Kiss Cam :)
February 28th, 2013
10:41 am
Wow…. are women meeting that many guys that will not just say…. ” I am not looking for anything serious”?.. I have never had a issue with that and very rarely have I come across a woman that was just like “ok, I am out!”……
abc
February 28th, 2013
10:41 am
When people are truly only interested in companionship and/or sex with no commitment, how does it get so complicated?
It’s that way because the purpose of dating is to find a mate. It’s a natural order. Avoidance of that is not natural. People who claim dedication to the casual are themselves worth avoiding on that account — they mostly represent a waste of time on the leisurely.
MsAtl
February 28th, 2013
10:43 am
Slim- “Coy asked, at age 4, “When are we going to go to the doctor to get me fixed so I can be a girl?” Really??? What 18 month old doesn’t play with both girl and boy toys? If this was a 15 year old, that would be one thing, but a 4 year old? That was the parents imposing this on the child for whatever reason. All I can say is WOW! Go sit down somewhere.
SlimNu
February 28th, 2013
10:48 am
MsAtl – EXACTLY!!! Then to go ahead with a sex change that early on seems outrageous to me!!!! I have younger male cousins that I recall trying to walk around in their mom’s high heels but there are regular men now. No need to seek out sex changes in them
Courtside Seats!!! Caught on the Kiss Cam :)
February 28th, 2013
10:51 am
abc…This is where you are off….. In nature there is no dating. There is mating to continue the species. Dating is specific to humans. The concept of datings is built on enjoyment beyond the need to mate. In fact in nature sex is ONLY for reproduction…. We are the only creatures that seek out sex for enjoyment… And according to your rules of nature, that is unnatural too…..
Leggs
February 28th, 2013
10:51 am
disco ~ we used to ride the back of the bus to to Woolworth’s for their delicious chicken wings (.25). The fun we had growing up was quite dangerous. We used to ride between the subway cars. So surprised no one ever fell off.
O/T: Ordered a cookie cake Tues for bday celebration this afternoon. I specifically asked if I had the Publix in the shopping center that Party is in and they said yeah so I placed the order. Traffic was a nightmare so I get to the store at 8:55. They don’t have my order. They call and it’s at another location off Huge Howell Road
I drive there and the lady apologizes. I state that I don’t see a Party City and this woman looks at me, laughs and says Party City is in the Ingles shopping center behind them. 
I asked her to never tell another soul they are next to Party City. I arrive at work at 9:45 and I left my house at 7:55. NO BREAKFAST. Only rotten bananas on the fruit self. So, early lunch for me.
Celisea
February 28th, 2013
10:52 am
abc – I’on know who you are, but 99.9 percent of the time, I’m in agreeance
Celisea
February 28th, 2013
10:53 am
I agree with “natural order”
abc
February 28th, 2013
10:54 am
No, lust is natural and there for a reason: propagation of the species. Dating is the equivalent of gooney birds dancing — dating is, in fact, a dance. Does the dance attract the other, or not? Does the alpha run off the other males?
Celisea
February 28th, 2013
10:56 am
abc…This is where you are off….. In nature there is no dating. There is mating to continue the species. Dating is specific to humans. The concept of datings is built on enjoyment beyond the need to mate. In fact in nature sex is ONLY for reproduction…. We are the only creatures that seek out sex for enjoyment… And according to your rules of nature, that is unnatural too…..
This is splitting hairs…
Finding a mate, looking for a mate, finding a spouse, dating to marry…it’s all the same.
Leggs
February 28th, 2013
10:59 am
BTW, I date to have fun and to connect with someone.
Courtside Seats!!! Caught on the Kiss Cam :)
February 28th, 2013
11:02 am
I assure you, the animals on the Serengeti are not spending BILLIONS on birth control so that they can get their freak on withouf consiquence…….
Durty Bird (Date Msatl would be fun)
February 28th, 2013
11:02 am
Good Morning!
Unless you have alredy reached that stage where you want a mate, then the dating mindset should always include enjoying the moment and having lots of fun.
I will date Msatl for fun and sex, then once msatl catch feeling, I will have to remind her I was dating for fun.
If someone is stalking you in Kroger they have a mental problem, do not try to converse with this individual just call the Police.
SlimNu
February 28th, 2013
11:14 am
A guy stalked me in Wal-mart once and I have never seen him prior to that day. So good good puddy is not always the culprit or cause.
Albert
February 28th, 2013
11:14 am
It is necessary to say that you are dating for fun, because if you date a guy more than three times, he will begin hoping that you will get serious.
Even if you aren’t kissing him goodnight yet.
Trust me
Courtside Seats!!! Caught on the Kiss Cam :)
February 28th, 2013
11:16 am
hey Albert…. You have not been hang around Kroger or Wal-Mart lately have you??????
disco
February 28th, 2013
11:17 am
DB – why a stalker gotta have mental problems? why can’t they be stalking someone just for fun? think about it. stalking might just be fun. it could be like being a spy/cia operative/ninja warrior or something. maybe I’ll open a stalker training center. I’d imagine that there are some people out there who just might enjoy the stalker experience (both stalkers and stalkees).
disco
February 28th, 2013
11:20 am
slim – I don’t know if you watch the George lopez show but there was an episode where his mom said today they call it stalking. in her day they called it keeping an eye on your man. lol.
Bluzgirl
February 28th, 2013
11:27 am
My brother showed me a documentary the other night called “I Think We’re Alone Now.” It was about two people who were obsessed with Tiffany (yes, the 80’s pop queen). One of the men has had restraining orders against him from her, but he still thinks they are close friends. It was disturbing…
MsAtl
February 28th, 2013
11:28 am
Durty- Are you referring to dating or just hanging out? Lol. Hanging out does not involve sex and can be done with either gender. If I am sexing someone, it is only that one person and we had a conversation beforehand to “set the rules”. I don’t do the multiple toys in the sandbox thing.
Besides, didn’t we talk about not dating neighbors a few days ago???
Disco- I’ll sign up for your class just for something different to do. Are you offering a Groupon?
SlimNu
February 28th, 2013
11:30 am
disco – Have you gotten that therapist contact info from Bluz yet?
(11:17)
Courtside Seats!!! Caught on the Kiss Cam :)
February 28th, 2013
11:31 am
A few years ago, an employee of our company was arrested a charged after he was caught hiding in the bushes outside of some girls house…. According to him, they had gone out and he just wanted to see if she was worth him investing his time on…. Funny thing is, she heard someone outside and while she called the police, the guy she was inside kicking it with held him at gun point until the cops came….
kimmie
February 28th, 2013
11:32 am
Morning All!!
THe first time a guy told me upfront that he didn’t want anything serious, I still continued to see the dude and after a point started catching feelings. His actions – calling and going out with me regularly and the way we interacted- told me he was starting to feel the same. I learned my lesson, though, when he reminded me of his initial delaration. Cool, lesson learned. After that, any time a dude said that to me, he basically ruined any chances of anything more happening between us, even if, as most did, changed their mind down the road. It was over before it began with me because I treated the situation accordingly – nothing serious. I don’t need to consider him in any way in my life other than someone to pass the time with occasionally until someone that wanted what I wanted came along. Oh, and sex was totally out! Poor things, their little feelings would be so hurt when I took them at their word!
disco
February 28th, 2013
11:34 am
ms atl / slim – no groupons yet. still working on my prototype. I’m thinking about a simulated stalker experience and a class entitled “how to stalk a stalker”. lol. (hey y’all know by now I’m throwed off).
Celisea
February 28th, 2013
11:35 am
I think folks should define stalking. Just because you saw a person in passing twice, say in a store or in the neighborhood don’t mean it’s stalking…lol
I have an email stalker. I’m getting dirty emails…lol I just laugh and delete. I can see the subject and first line and some are just filthy. So, I don’t open them…well a couple I have cause the first line is sometimes catchy. Over the weekend I got I know at least 50. Funny thing too, they’re timed and, at least over the weekend they were. Every two hours exactly on the nose….7:01, 9:01, 11:01…so forth and so on.
I think someone said before I had paranoia for getting stalked…lol
Leggs
February 28th, 2013
11:37 am
Albert ~ you sound jilted. But if I remember correctly, you’ve had a bad run at dating lately?
Celisea
February 28th, 2013
11:41 am
I had the Mr. Silky Smooth to follow me a couple of time, but I wouldn’t call that stalking. I had resolved at that point to not talk to him, so he was intentional about trying to get us to meet and talk. Stalking is a strong word.
abc
February 28th, 2013
11:47 am
I’ve been stalked. Even with the chick in another state, she could tell me of comings and goings around my house. Threats from local friends. Obviously, I didn’t appreciate it. It only had the effect of making a bolder period following The. End.
Durty Bird (Dating Msatl would be fun)
February 28th, 2013
11:47 am
@Disco…too funny!
Speaking of doing stupid things when you were a kid. There was an old potato chip factory in the neighborhood that was closed on the weekend. They did not have security, so me and my boys would climb the fence go thru one of the windows they would leave open and proceed to load-up. We would bring home boxes of potato chips and sale them to the kids in the hood for a dime.
Leggs
February 28th, 2013
11:51 am
Good grief, Celisea. Have you reported to your IT Dept?
kimmie
February 28th, 2013
11:51 am
I think people do over-use the term stalking now, and I agree it is a very strong accusation.
disco
February 28th, 2013
11:53 am
DB – we would climb the fence (or squeeze through if you were thin enough) of the frito lay company. we’d take boxes of stuff out of the dumpster. it was the stuff that the trucks tossed at the end of the day apparently pulled from store shelves because of the expiration date. we then sold stuff at school for a quarter. lol.
HST
February 28th, 2013
11:55 am
I was a master at dating casually, and had many casual relationships that were for over 2 decades. That’s right 2 decades – since HS.
My rules were simple.
1. Never tell or brag about a conquest unless it it with the other participant.
2. Always be a gentleman.
3. Never lie.
4. Always keep your obligations. (At one point I felt like the obligatory Marriage Ceremony date. Was it because I was an educated man, well-groomed, well spoken, self-reliant, dependable, and owned a tux or an assortment of proper suits? You bet.)
5. Never ignore another woman even if you happen upon her while out with another – address her properly, it won’t be awkward, and she’ll (the woman not with you) be thinking of you after it 90% of the time, after the introduction.
6. Always respond within that 72 hour period women set for us men to respond by.
7. take her somewhere nice, or a place with thought with personal involvement to make the date happen.
8. Always keep it casual, but that isn’t to mean to not be romantic.
9. Like every human, women especially want to feel wanted. Pay attention to her, and give her that attention she deserves.
9. I know I said it, however, one again, BE A GENTLEMAN.
I never had a problem following these rules, and I’m sure there’s a few more that are more my quirkiness, but those rules of engagement have never failed or kept a woman around casually.
Celisea
February 28th, 2013
11:56 am
Heeey, where’s my email
Celisea
February 28th, 2013
11:57 am
Leggs – I was pretty much saying, the emails are coming to my personal emails and that if I could delete the spam folder from my phone that would be perfect. I would just delete from my computer every now and then, when I go in and clean out spam. But I’m seeing each and every one as they come in.
Courtside Seats!!! Caught on the Kiss Cam :)
February 28th, 2013
12:01 pm
Damn HST…. Sounds alot like my playbook…. Sincerity,honor, and respect will take you along way when properly applied……
disco
February 28th, 2013
12:03 pm
sincerity, honor and respect? pssst. that ain’t nothing but game. lol. that’s that “gentleman game” right there. LOLOL.
Celisea
February 28th, 2013
12:04 pm
I’m hungry
Leggs
February 28th, 2013
12:06 pm
Oh, coming to your personal account. That makes sense. Well, since you’re shouting out for your email, MLB is now under the spotlight. Wasn’t sure if you dubbed someone here in Atl Silky Smooth.
Durty Bird (Dating Msatl would be fun)
February 28th, 2013
12:06 pm
Msatl….I am just saying what I mean and plan on doing what I say….As adults of course we would have that conversation if during the dating process we progressed to another level. P.S. I can only handle one woman at a time.
@Celisea can I have your personal e-mail address I need to send you some scriptures… lol
Celisea
February 28th, 2013
12:08 pm
Durty – You sure you ain’t already got it? lololololol
Not that Silky Smooth…lol I just naming an ex as that…lol
HST
February 28th, 2013
12:09 pm
Courtside, how would you not apply sincerity,honor, and respect properly? besides lying or pretending? Maybe that just just answered my question, and with Disco’s remarks it seems I might be on target.
Disco, jaded or bitter much, or do you just choose the biggest looser?
Courtside Seats!!! Caught on the Kiss Cam :)
February 28th, 2013
12:09 pm
Come on disco….. it’s not game if you are legit when you apply it…
Robert
February 28th, 2013
12:09 pm
“How does dating for fun work ? ”
I can only speak for myself. I am very careful not to send the wrong signal to women. From my experience women are emotional and can easily mistake a casual relationship for a serious relationship if they find you appealing and worthy of their love and affection. I try to be honest and tell my date how I feel regardless.
HST
February 28th, 2013
12:11 pm
Celisea, eat something girl.
How’s the M car doing?
disco
February 28th, 2013
12:12 pm
HST – jaded? bitter? naw. just comical. I got jokes.
HST
February 28th, 2013
12:14 pm
Never had that problem Robert. I always was up front with my intent, and if she thought differently – that’s her issues not mine. I certainly wouldn’t entertain even listening to such dribble. I kind of think women like that as well. If they didn’t then that was the end of that.
HST
February 28th, 2013
12:15 pm
Disco, you do have jokes.
Celisea
February 28th, 2013
12:16 pm
I don’t think I’m shouting out, and certainly not to the MLB. I’m speaking solely to stalking. Real stalking versus bumping into someone on the bread aisle, say twice in one ain’t the same.
Celisea
February 28th, 2013
12:17 pm
HST – I’m on a call but as soooon as we’re done, I’m eating…lol
Celisea
February 28th, 2013
12:18 pm
twice in one visit….ain’t the same
is how that should have read
Celisea
February 28th, 2013
12:18 pm
HST – Oh the car is fantab!!
SlimNu
February 28th, 2013
12:18 pm
Celisea – Well why haven’t you simply had their email address blocked?
MsAtl
February 28th, 2013
12:20 pm
Durty- First time I heard a man say he can only handle one woman at a time.
Celisea- Lol. Do your stalker emails contain scriptures? If so, you might be on to something.
Celisea
February 28th, 2013
12:20 pm
SlimNu – Cause I can just delete them
I just don’t want them coming to my phone. Otherwise, I’m good at putting the ig on whomever it is and hitting delete. Really, I’m not bothered. I just mentioned the stalking.
Celisea
February 28th, 2013
12:21 pm
Did you miss where I said I don’t read them? I don’t,I just hit “empty”
Celisea
February 28th, 2013
12:22 pm
MsAtl – I don’t read them. They might!!
MsAtl
February 28th, 2013
12:26 pm
D’oh! I missed that part…
SlimNu
February 28th, 2013
12:28 pm
Um….okeeyyyyy ???
SlimNu
February 28th, 2013
12:32 pm
You said you read some of them because the 1st line or subject line is catchy…seems like you can save yourself the trouble of deleting the frequent emails by just blocking them. But whatever works for you
Leggs
February 28th, 2013
12:34 pm
Celisea ~ oh, gotcha. Why you asking for your email. Thinking out loud (lol).
Celisea
February 28th, 2013
12:35 pm
Slim – Yep, it works for me to igg whomever it is…lol If a person wants to spend their time sending timed naughty emails (who does that), then knock yaself out. It’s much much much easier to just empty the trash, rather than going through blocking folks. Too, I’m sure the sender knows how to do ghost addys.
That is all
Celisea
February 28th, 2013
12:36 pm
Leggs – I didn’t ask for my email. Durty asked being funny and I asked him if he’s sure he ain’t already go it.
BTW, like I said yesterday, I don’t jokie joke or make mockery of the Word. I know it was suppose to be a joke, but um I’on go there with that. That’s where my health and strength, blessings, uplifts, encouragement….all of it come from. Some things, IMO and for me solely, you shouldn’t play with.
Not tryna tell folks, just saying I can’t engage on the scriptures jokie jokes.
HST
February 28th, 2013
12:39 pm
Nice Celesiea, I’ll admit I never had anything but problems with M cars, but they were all AMG. One had more warranty work than I paid for the car. I would lease them, and trade them in for a new one when the lease/warranty ended. That made me dislike M AMG cars, but then my GF got the C350. What a world of difference, everything always worked, ran like a scolded dog everytime I drove it (my GF is a speed freak as well, so she gave it no quarter either), and it had zero warranty or problems.
Now she has taken over my R8 (it’s the V8 not V10) as her daily. Whatever, it’s a piece of crap like an AMG. She’s already had to have 3 major warranty jobs done in less than a year. I’m kind of glad, because the car was just sitting in my garage, and I would have never put the mileage on it to get to those problems before warranty was over. Just so all you guys can be like “Biotch is driving his R8 daily”…it gets better…it’s a manual. She recently handed my buddy his arse in his new P car on some back roads. I still dislike all sport/super German cars due to reliability.
A C350 could be used as an underground bunker that car is so tuff.
HST
February 28th, 2013
12:43 pm
How does luxury items increase annually, but the economic state of the world is in trouble? How conglomerates get away with price increases in this economy is beyond me…
Celisea
February 28th, 2013
12:45 pm
HST – I bought the extended warranty…to be on the safe side. Funny though you mentioned AMG. How bout I hit something on raggedy 285 and thought I had a flat. Well how about I cracked my rims. I’m thinking oh $400 or so. Nooooo, the dealer said, “oh the new C350s have AMG rims and it’s gonna be $900
Of course that wasn’t covered under warranty.
Celisea
February 28th, 2013
12:46 pm
Rim…just cracked one. Of course I know the manager at one of the Kaufman Tire locations and he knows a dude that repaired for me for $150…but yeah, bad car….smooth ride. Feels more like a BMW than a benz.
Leggs
February 28th, 2013
12:49 pm
You asked at 11:56, that’s why I asked (lol). Gotcha…
abc
February 28th, 2013
1:14 pm
Just say “Lexus”. Actually, I’m over Lexus. I want a Tesla S.
Celisea
February 28th, 2013
1:22 pm
Every woman should learn how to drive an automatic….of course and again (disclaimer), just my opinion.
My daddy taught me, partly. My little dumb self went out and bought a brand new 5 speed Corolla…lol And on the Saturday I was maid of honor in my bff’s wedding. Naturally, I jerked all the way back from yondersville, I think it was Alpharetta where I bought the car. Needless to say after that, I knew WELL how to drive an automatic
Celisea
February 28th, 2013
1:23 pm
I could smell the clutch burning though, by the time I made it back to Atlanta….
Off to lunch
SlimNu
February 28th, 2013
1:28 pm
My first NEW car was a stick and my stepdad taught me in one weekend how to drive that thang. Sometimes I miss driving a stick but the minute I hit traffic, i’m greatful that i don’t drive one anymore.
DuShawn
February 28th, 2013
1:37 pm
Just confirmed my Jazz in Gardens transportation and accommodations. I am so looking forward to that weekend.
MsAtl
February 28th, 2013
1:41 pm
I learned how to drive a stick, but those hills in Germany had me stalling all over the place! I haven’t driven one in 20 years and probably couldn’t today.
Albert
February 28th, 2013
1:48 pm
Leggs, I haven’t dated in years. Every woman I meet is either married or otherwise taken. And yes, I have been jilted.
Durty Bird (Assessing the MIA blog ladies)
February 28th, 2013
1:56 pm
The 2pm review:
Celisea likes to be stalked, plus she likes reading dirty e-mails..
Slim-Nu wants me and does not know how to tell me….lol
MsAtl is playing hard to get but I am wearing her down.
Disco…Has been hit upside the head toooo many timesss…
Button was a playa as recently as 2012.
Leggs is just trying to figure out what is Celisea is blogging about deleting those e-mails…Celisea statements make you go…. hummmm
Kimmie states the term stalking is over used…Translation she would like a part time stalker…
kimmie
February 28th, 2013
2:00 pm
Durty –
DuShawn
February 28th, 2013
2:06 pm
“Dating for fun”…… I’ve always been of the opinion that the purpose of dating was to have a good time. I never quite grasped the concept of the relationship must be “going somewhere” or it’s a waste of time. That entire ideology is estrogen based. I never broadcasted my casual intentions, but if asked I was truthful. What you don’t say, says it all. If I didn’t mention it, my position should be obvious. Then again, I have always had the ability to make the cootchie easy and the obvious invisible.
MsAtl
February 28th, 2013
2:10 pm
Durty- Didn’t we blog about wearing someone down a couple of weeks ago?
DuShawn- Yes, the purpose of dating is to have fun, but I thik MIA is distinguishing between serious dating and FWB (I think).
Btw- Remembering our convo the other day, check out this article. http://blogs.ajc.com/news-to-me/2013/02/28/poll-12-of-employees-have-sex-at-work/
Bluzgirl
February 28th, 2013
2:16 pm
Durty – LOL! You ain’t right. What’s up with you hitting on all the blog ladies? I thought I was special.
Courtside Seats!!! Caught on the Kiss Cam :)
February 28th, 2013
2:18 pm
MsAtl…. I checked out that article…. Based on some of the places I have worked, those numbers seem really low!!! Lots of attractive, big ego, type A’s in my industry……
HST
February 28th, 2013
2:20 pm
That suxs Cel, but at least you got it repaired. I laugh at my buddies with large expensive 2-3K a piece and ride on 30’s (side wall height) in Atlanta. I’ve had many rims repaired, it’s as natural as humidity around here. FTR, my GF is on the second clutch (less than 25K), but Audi says they’re good for 18K. Pffftt! That stupid clutch is 9K installed; whatever, she’s maintaining it.
on to page 3…
HST
February 28th, 2013
2:21 pm
*edit* expensive RIMS that are 2-3k
Button
February 28th, 2013
2:25 pm
lol @Durty I wouldn’t know where to begin @being a playa.
disco
February 28th, 2013
2:26 pm
durty – why you bringing up old stuff?
Button
February 28th, 2013
2:28 pm
I don’t like rims. I’m good with just having hub caps. Rims are too expensive and when it’s damage it makes the car look raggy. Rims don’t look good on every car. Whatever happened to the spinners tims? lol
SlimNu
February 28th, 2013
2:34 pm
Durty – I’m not into being Catfished so send pics
SlimNu
February 28th, 2013
2:39 pm
Speaking of work and sex, I got privy to some info just yesterday about a married chick getting it on with a married manager. Apparently, a few folks went out to a bar and got trashed…next thing you know folks are dancing around naked and waking up in the bed next to a co-worker…That’s one reason I would not want to mess around with anyone here because it’s like high school…Gossip forever traveling.
daddy swiss
February 28th, 2013
2:42 pm
When’s your next office party, Slim?
disco
February 28th, 2013
2:42 pm
slim – well, ummm, you see, what had happened was….
HST
February 28th, 2013
2:47 pm
Botton, curb rash or dings do seem to show extra on a rim. I powder-coat some and even that can’t with stand the “ish” Atlanta’s street can dish out.
SlimNu, as a rule I never fraternize with co-workers in any way. I also don’t fraternize with my neighbors either. I mean I say hey, watch their house, watch their teenagers (not that way creepy), and will do anything neighborly, but never fraternize. I think neighbors gossip worse than co-workers…
HST
February 28th, 2013
2:50 pm
O/T How many of you out here are using Windows 8?
Button
February 28th, 2013
2:54 pm
HST that’s why I prefer hub caps because of the curb rashes! I get them everytime when I’m leaving the boa near my job. After a few curb rashes I simply replace em and KIM!
disco
February 28th, 2013
2:55 pm
HST – I can’t speak for neighbors in general but I know that nosey bastid next door to me must be trying to take home the nosey neighbor gold. I have never come across a more busy body, gossip-y grown man in all my days.
DuShawn
February 28th, 2013
2:59 pm
There are quite a few beautiful, elegant, intelligent women at the gig. I would never sleep with any of them. I learned the dangers of those decisions years ago. Then still did it again and it ended badly….again. If I were to secretly get it in with a chick in the workplace, I would choose the young Mexican girl that comes around late evenings and empties the trash in my office. She speaks very little English, I always thank her, she always smiles…..and she wears the fragrance I love to smell on a woman………..Pine sol.
Bluzgirl
February 28th, 2013
3:02 pm
I had an FWB at work many, many years ago. It was fun while it lasted and we would go to a park during lunch time to have some fun! A couple of people figured it out, though. I didn’t know that until well after he left to work at another credit union. Was embarrassing to know that it got spread around. Won’t do that again!
HST
February 28th, 2013
3:09 pm
Bluz, you just won sooo many points with me for lunch debauchery in a car.
MsAtl
February 28th, 2013
3:12 pm
DuShawn- You are wrong for that one. Although Pine Sol does smell good, lol.
disco
February 28th, 2013
3:12 pm
HST – thank you for saying that. I was sitting here wondering just what the heck bluz was up to. I was thinking park benches and bushes and seesaws and swings but the car never crossed my mind.
HST
February 28th, 2013
3:14 pm
Leggs
February 28th, 2013
3:14 pm
Awww, Albert. If you don’t mind answering, how old are you?
I dated this guy who drove a truck and would leave is 200SX with me. He said if learned how to drive it I could drive it. So, I taught myself to drive it. First time I heard about Perrili (sp?) tires. It had a fabulous sound system. I drove that car back from an interview in Marietta and sweated so much my poor silk blouse had some serious sweat stains. I was so afraid of stalling and jerking, which I did a few times.
Durty, funny, but on point with one of the statements, maybe even two (lol)
This afternoon is proving to be as hellish as my morning.
Exiled
February 28th, 2013
3:15 pm
That’s one reason I would not want to mess around with anyone here because it’s like high school…Gossip forever traveling. –
@Slim..u can always mess around with any of us worthy blogs menfolks,Slim…we keep it on the Low_low here,u knw dat.
Leggs
February 28th, 2013
3:17 pm
“…few folks went out to a bar and got trashed…next thing you know folks are dancing around naked and waking up in the bed next to a co-worker….” – WTH, grown folk don’t know how to control themselves and get so drunk they’re sexing their co-workers. Boy, sounds like poster people for AA!
Celisea
February 28th, 2013
3:18 pm
Well, I’ve done the office romance and it was ultra private and well kept. The “wonderment” came because we spent so much time together (i.e. lunch, stopping by, etc), no kidding, my manager called me and asked what was up, if we were an item (caue he was at my desk allllllll the time). But to that, most folks knew we were super super cool, so some went one way with their ideas and others that didn’t know either of us too well, went another way. We never crossed any lines at work and like I said kept things hidden and private…NOT A SINGLE SOLITARY PEEP FROM ME OR HIM. Of course he was a gentleman always and I was a lady always. That makes a world of difference. You can’t be all janky and play durty and expect folks to be nice about it and expect no backlash…lolol Just one of those things folks have to stay mindful of when hooking. Especially folks that’s tryna do the durty (not sex) and lowdown and playing games and tricks. Can’t get mad if he or she ups you one…lololol Matter of fact though, me and silky stayed together longer after he left than while here.
DuShawn
February 28th, 2013
3:19 pm
I do remember this one office affair I had decades ago. My potnahs and I used to call the girl Married Tall. As the name implies she was married….and tall. A fine dark-skinned Amazon. She was still in Grad School. After work, I would meet her at the University Library, take her to my spot, do the dirt and drop her back off, so she could make it home to hubby and the kids. It was cool at first, but then she started self-snitchin. We worked on different floors, so nobody knew. I would get to my office in the mornings and she started leaving me little teddy bears, muffins, cards and stuff. Then she started coming by office and hanging out, making it so obvious to everyone what the business was. I had to end that quickly before her husband killed my azz.
Celisea
February 28th, 2013
3:20 pm
Slim – Does your coworker know you told it here? lolololol
Leggs
February 28th, 2013
3:23 pm
..and she wears the fragrance I love to smell on a woman………..Pine sol.
Thanks so much for the hearty laugh. I wasn’t expecting that!!!
Celisea
February 28th, 2013
3:25 pm
Matter of fact, I’ve had two work romances. The stockbroker back in 1998-99 and Silky…that lasted yeeeeeeeears
Exiled
February 28th, 2013
3:26 pm
and she started leaving me little teddy bears, muffins, cards and stuff. Then she started coming by office and hanging out –
self snittching…..
For a moment, u lost me there untill u defined it later there… oh boy…
My Publisher!
Leggs
February 28th, 2013
3:27 pm
I am just eating lunch…
Durty Bird ( Rise-up Hawk fans)
February 28th, 2013
3:31 pm
Speaking of stalking back in 2009 Kimmie was blogging so strong I almost wanted to drop the 2 ladies I was dating so I could stalk Kimmie on a part time basis…Kimmie is my favorite MIA blogger
@BluzGirl…. U know u are special….Just be careful with office romances.
Speaking of sex in the office. I worked in an office about 3 yrs ago where the ratio of women to men was about 5 to 1. The building was under going construction and low and behold we find out one of the men in the office had been taking several women in the construction area and was getting busy.
I will admit I did have sex in the bosses office once.
MsAtl
February 28th, 2013
3:32 pm
I’ve never had an office romance. However, when I worked at Steinmart, I was called by management and questioned why security was at my register several times a day. I responded honestly- he knew I kept a stash of Sour Patch Kids at my register and he was too cheap to buy his own!
disco
February 28th, 2013
3:32 pm
leggs – girl if someone opens up the blog bar I’m going to buy you a drink. heck, I’ll buy you two. seems like you really have had one of those days.
disco
February 28th, 2013
3:33 pm
DB – did you say several women? who was this man? what was his super power? lol.
Celisea
February 28th, 2013
3:33 pm
Sometimes office romances are fun!!! That is if they ain’t slumming all over the place and getting trashy with it. I remember after my manager (supervisor’s manager) asked if we had a thing, ole boy started do invites with me and the supervisor (cause all of us were sort of in this “inner circle”). He was a slick one. That was his way of disspelling rumors…lol I remember her (and all the women) saying how “he was such a good guy” cause he played the “moral” thing to the hilt. I didn’t say a word, but away from work I was like you need to stop… All he could do was flash them pearly whites. Killer smile!! Let me stop, I just felt my groin stir…
disco
February 28th, 2013
3:34 pm
ms atl – you didn’t hit him with a “no my brother…. you’ve got to buy your own”. lol.
Exiled
February 28th, 2013
3:35 pm
I just felt my groin stir…
LOL
Celisea
February 28th, 2013
3:36 pm
My nether regions…whew buddy.
I’m getting back to work….later
Courtside Seats!!! Caught on the Kiss Cam :)
February 28th, 2013
3:39 pm
“just felt my groin stir…”
I guess dude was really putting in work!!! Just a mere thought and there you go…..
Bluzgirl
February 28th, 2013
3:41 pm
There hasn’t been anyone here worthy of an office romance since that dude and that was about 12-13 years ago! We still chat every once in a while and he hints at hooking up sometimes, but I’m not attracted to him anymore. Good memories, though! It’s just a shame that I confided in a “friend” and she spread the word.
I did have the hots for the president of the CU years ago and we had a flirty thing after he left, but nothing real came of it. He was married with two kids anyway. He was absolutely beautiful!!!
Celisea
February 28th, 2013
3:42 pm
Courtside – My boo might would leave me if he knew of the flashbacks I just experienced. Whew buddy
Imma leave this alone
Byyyye
Exiled
February 28th, 2013
3:45 pm
Cel..of ALL the dudes in ur escapades, who takes the prize for hitting the spot the best?
Courtside Seats!!! Caught on the Kiss Cam :)
February 28th, 2013
3:45 pm
I am in the process of setting up a workplace thing right now….. She is one of our outside sales reps so she only comes into the office a few times a month.. But she is that worldly (speaks like 3 or four languages), mysterious type…. Always wears the most fly pumps.. I onces asked her why she never wears stockings , and she told me that saves her stockings and her garters for after hours activities… She is married but her hubby is like 60 and and she is a prime 52…….
MsAtl
February 28th, 2013
3:47 pm
Disco- I shared them until I realized how much he ate, lol. That’s when I told him there was a candy store in the mall.
Exiled
February 28th, 2013
3:47 pm
oghhh, uall ladies(I aint forgetting u at all..even the now married chics) can participate if u, like Cel..feel there is somebody in ur casual past who was fiiiiiiiiiiiiire!..in bed
Durty Bird ( Rise-up Hawk fans)
February 28th, 2013
3:48 pm
Celisea so silky smooth been the one who has been hittin for years….Silky smooth is my name and sexing Celisea for years is my game….
Exiled
February 28th, 2013
3:49 pm
I onces asked her why she never wears stockings
and shes not ur girl, u ask this question?
u have hit?
@Court
Leggs
February 28th, 2013
3:49 pm
Thanks, disco! Leaving work, I’m driving around the corner to the Mexican restaurant and get a large, frozen margarita!!!
DuShawn
February 28th, 2013
3:50 pm
He worked with her, she was his lady’s best friend
Even if they don’t try some ladies test men
And this was a test that was bigger than him
Some believe its the nature that is given to men
He had a good gig, a wife, a kid, a decent home
One reason or another couldn’t find peace at home
She asked, “Why do men always have to stray?”
He said, “I’m bad, not as bad as Eric Benet”
“I used to take ‘em out to eat but they wasn’t really eatin’
Might a got a little head but I wasn’t really cheatin’”
It’s hard when your lady don’t believe what you say
And what you did in the past you gotta live with today
She asked if they could spend the night together
He thought, and said, “I’m tryin’ to get my life together”
Went home to his lady, these were his confessions
“Baby you a blessin’ and my best friend”
SlimNu
February 28th, 2013
3:51 pm
u can always mess around with any of us worthy blogs menfolks,Slim…we keep it on the Low_low here,u knw dat
Exiled – As much as I do not believe you anyway, it doesn’t matter because I have No desire to do so. lol
Celisea – No the co-worker doesn’t know I told it here…matter of fact, the person who did it doesn’t even know I know
I remember at my first job which was a cashier at a grocery store, the manager had a thing for me. He would flirt and say little borderline inappropriate things to me and he was married. I wonder what ever happened to him?
Celisea
February 28th, 2013
3:53 pm
MMeelo – Raw skills and that’s all would go to kid’s dad. We were young and both rough around the edges and had much much much growing and learning.
Silky though (took me a looooooooooooooong time to get over him) was top notch. A man’s man. Not only was he skilled, he used love and tenderness in not just the bedroom, but that was his character. He knew how to get “bucky” and stay collected…that mess was the funniest to watch. Silky wins hands down!!!
Celisea
February 28th, 2013
3:54 pm
Durty – Naw, me and Silky ended it. Well I ended it and Silky made it hard cause he kept coming back and wanting to talk. Naw, once I’m done, I’m done. None of that creeping back over. Too old for that. That falls under head games…IMO…lol
SlimNu
February 28th, 2013
3:55 pm
Dushawn – How did ole girl take the break-off???
Durty Bird ( Rise-up Hawk fans)
February 28th, 2013
3:56 pm
Disco…I am not sure what his super power was but the age range was from 22 to 40. Dude was in the mid 30’s. One of the ladies told me after about one week of talking to the ladies he would tell them I love you. I’m like damm that still works. On 2 seperate occasions I saw to different ladies with sweat on their foreheads, he was able to convince the ladies that he needed the becky everyday.
Breaking news…North Korea has stated they will give up their nuclear weapons if the United States of America take Dennis Rodman back!
President Obama is now going to campaign around the country to see if the citzens of the U.S. want Dennis Rodman back into the U.S.
HST
February 28th, 2013
3:57 pm
Celisea, I wish I would’ve met you when I was single, or got an idea of whom you are like I do now (at least in types words
).
There’s no hidden implications in that statement bloggers – it’s just an observation.
Courtside Seats!!! Caught on the Kiss Cam :)
February 28th, 2013
3:57 pm
Ex, Naw… have not hit yet..But we are doing that dance…. inuendo dropping… leaving isht to my imagination….just enough to let me know that when the time presents itself, its gonna be on….
Celisea
February 28th, 2013
3:58 pm
Awwww, HST…ain’t you sweet
HST
February 28th, 2013
3:58 pm
BTW, no responses to users of Windows 8?
SlimNu
February 28th, 2013
3:59 pm
It’s just a shame that I confided in a “friend” and she spread the word.
Bluz – I’m amazed by the many mentions of folks you thought were your ‘friend’….errrrrbody can’t be privy to your insider’s info or your goodies.
disco
February 28th, 2013
3:59 pm
court – that 60 year old husband… how’s his trigger finger?
Celisea
February 28th, 2013
4:00 pm
just enough to let me know that when the time presents itself, its gonna be on
That’s the dance we danced!!! I have to be honest. Silky was the first dude where I felt no hold backs, AND GAVE OFF SIGNS, no timeframe, none of that…. I pretty was in the same place, right time? It’s going dooooownnn!!!
disco
February 28th, 2013
4:02 pm
slim – and to take it a step further bluz, you especially have to look out for those so-called work friends. that’s a whole different level of phoney bs.
C – I thought you was gone pull up. keep on and your boo gone be wondering what’s different with the cat. lol.
Leggs
February 28th, 2013
4:03 pm
Like I said the other day, Celisea, when a woman is done, SHE’S DONE!
Bluzgirl
February 28th, 2013
4:04 pm
Slim – I was young and really trusted this “friend”. If I had known then that she was spreading my business, I would have spread hers also. Hers was much worse than mine! As I get older, I’m learning more and more about what makes a good friend!
HST
February 28th, 2013
4:05 pm
Just as a thought because Disco made her funny.
I would never kill or even be able to fight someone if I found my significant other in the act of coitus. I’d seriously just have to walk away.
I would be stewing for the conversation with her.
Still no Window 8 users?
Leggs
February 28th, 2013
4:05 pm
Still on 7, HST.
DuShawn
February 28th, 2013
4:05 pm
@Slim: It went down smoothly. I was single, she was married. We remained friends afterwards. She was just to messy with it.
Celisea
February 28th, 2013
4:06 pm
disco – I ain’t gone lie, I’m feeling a lil bit guilty over here for reminscing so hard….lol I almost typed (cause I can get raw with it now) about glad I didn’t wear those sexy sexy undies today…lol Yeah, Imma leave that alone
Leggs – Yep so so true. Silky was alllll that and a bag of chips and I cannot EVERY remember a bad moment between us….in seven years, ever. A couple of slightly heated but soon resolved disgreements. But, the moment I feel like trust is compromised and you ain’t talking and splaing quick, I’m done.
Celisea
February 28th, 2013
4:07 pm
HST – I don’t have it but I may be getting it. I was just told a couple of days I’m up for a new laptop. We get them every 3 years.
disco
February 28th, 2013
4:07 pm
HST – you would want a conversation with her? what do you want to hear? why, how long? just curious.
Courtside Seats!!! Caught on the Kiss Cam :)
February 28th, 2013
4:10 pm
disco, I ain’t skeeeered of his old azz…. He does not look like he could pull a trigger if his life depended on it…But he does look like and I know he has the means to hire somebody that could and would enjoy doing it!!!
@ Celisea, I won’t lie, i have actually prepped for that day…. wiating for her to tip her hand before I jump all over her “like a spider monkey” ( In my Ricky Bobby voice)
Celisea
February 28th, 2013
4:10 pm
The mind can be awfully wicked
Celisea
February 28th, 2013
4:12 pm
Courtside – Dang, I jumped at that….lololol Pace yourself, patience my brother…lol Oh wait, she’s married. Naw I can’t tip my hat to that…lol
HST
February 28th, 2013
4:15 pm
Disco, really?
Not a chance I’m ‘opening that can of worms.’
Leggs, from watching my poor sap buddies, and even pleading on their behalf there’s no getting around “When a woman is done, SHE’S DONE!”. I just got 8 a couple of weeks ago, I really love it now.
Celisea, it takes a sec, but it’s much better, IMO.
Exiled
February 28th, 2013
4:16 pm
Cel…if u reminscing about the past flavors, it means Mr Current aint got a handle on his New engine yet….? Right.
coz i will tel u,all my exes, if they saw me today and im walking across the street and she walking on the other side with current Mr man,they will ALL,like on q,have to put Mr on standby,”baby, hold on and wait right here, i got run and greet Ray over there across,we grew up tgether and go waaay back? ….
and if Mr makes the mistake of giving us his backside while he window shops..she will gladly plant a Big one on my forehead….
I guess that what Silky did to u, Right?
SlimNu
February 28th, 2013
4:16 pm
Bluz – Yeah, I hear ya so take your time to get to know folks before you want to trust them in a ‘real friend’ fashion. I have very few folks I call my friend…
Celisea
February 28th, 2013
4:17 pm
HST – Okay…hopefully with the new laptop I’ll get all the good stuff. I’ve Dell for a couple of upgrades. I opted for HP this time.
Exiled
February 28th, 2013
4:18 pm
thats what
Exiled
February 28th, 2013
4:19 pm
@Bluz..just call them work aquantances not friends….what if u change jobs….?….new friends….. lol
disco
February 28th, 2013
4:20 pm
hst – what??? you said you’d walk away and then you said you’d be stewing for that conversation with her. I was just curious about the exchange during that conversation. anyway, the can of worms is way in the back of the shelf.
Celisea
February 28th, 2013
4:21 pm
Mmeello – Not at all. Me and Silky was really really tight and was equally friends as lovers. We had something I’ve had with no one before him, and yet to get to with the current boo. The current boo is a good dude but you gotta understand, we’ve not been together long enough to establish the bond Silky and I shared. That’s gonna take a minute. Hopefully we’ll not only get there but surpass
Leggs
February 28th, 2013
4:22 pm
“…it means Mr Current aint got a handle on his New engine yet….? – Finally, I like the way you said something!
Celisea
February 28th, 2013
4:24 pm
MMeello – Let’s just say I believe in “respecting” my dude. I ain’t gonna drop him and cross traffic to speak to a former…lolol and he better not do that to me or it’s a wrap (for real). IJS Now, I wouldn’t take issue introducing the former to the new. But I would be a lady in how I pulled that off. It would be no disrespect to the past and definitely no disrespect to the new.
Celisea
February 28th, 2013
4:24 pm
I like “Mr Current” better than champ. Champ never grew on me. Imma take “Mr. Current”
MsAtl
February 28th, 2013
4:25 pm
Excuse me- I have to interrupt for a moment! I was in a co-worker’s office & he handed me a pen so we could write notes on a case. I was using the pen when I looked down & realized that he chewed the top of it all up. Damn! My hands are tingling and I have already cleaned them. Just ick!
HST
February 28th, 2013
4:26 pm
I hear ya on that SlimNu. I have lots of acquiescences, but few friends. I also like the word pal, and use that for hobby and common interest acquiescences. specific
Leggs, from watching my poor sap buddies, and even pleading on their behalf there’s no getting around “When a woman is done, SHE’S DONE!”. Thanks for the response on Windows, I just got 8 a few weeks ago, and I love it.
Celisea, it takes a second to warm up to it; but it much better, IMO.
Exiled
February 28th, 2013
4:27 pm
Cel…I give u that….goood answer..at least u protected his rep!(current) lol
Celisea
February 28th, 2013
4:29 pm
HST – I’m keeping my fingers crossed that I’ll have it on the new laptop
HST
February 28th, 2013
4:29 pm
Sorry for grammar today, I’ve been on my iPhone all day. No matter how hard I try – it’s never right – I think the screen layout gets me.
Courtside Seats!!! Caught on the Kiss Cam :)
February 28th, 2013
4:30 pm
@MsAtl…… LOLOLOLOLOL…Yeah, Thats nasty!!! Amazing how the smallest things just make you say ewwwwwwww…..
Celisea
February 28th, 2013
4:30 pm
Mmeello – Everything can be pulled off with decency and decorum and respect. I’m BIIIIG on that. I give it because I expect it in return.
Celisea
February 28th, 2013
4:31 pm
HST – Don’t sweat the grammar….I don’t and I’m sure most don’t either. It’s just a blog
HST
February 28th, 2013
4:34 pm
@4:25
MsAtl, I would be panicking inside as well. Ick is right…tell me you have some mouthwash at the desk…
Exiled
February 28th, 2013
4:37 pm
Cel..next time we meet and u introduce me to Mr Current, ima squeeze his hand a lil tighter and look him str8 in the eye, as if to say,”better get ur act right bwa, and fast coz u on probabation and got Big, Long and Wide shoes to fill” ..
HST
February 28th, 2013
4:39 pm
I’m dying laughing, because I said ‘Sorry for grammar today’ there’s little hope for me today. I hear ya, but I personally like grammar – I’m sure some out here have seen me be a “Grammar Nazi” – even if it’s just for me. I oddly get off on good grammar.
Celisea
February 28th, 2013
4:40 pm
MMeello – We haven’t met…have we
I’ve met a few folks on here but I don’t remember meeting you. No matter, I got your point though…lololol Yeah, some big shoes, but if you must know I don’t reach back and compare. Like I said, cut it off, move on and allow the new dude (or woman) the opportunity to live up to their fullest potential. Let them create their own footsteps and impressions.
Oh, and it wasn’t a “casual” thing…not at all
HST
February 28th, 2013
4:42 pm
Exiled, you and Celisea hang out? Moreover, I like your approach to “Mr. Current.”
Exiled
February 28th, 2013
4:44 pm
HST…i will never answer that, esp if i have hit!
oh boy..just laughing!
MsAtl
February 28th, 2013
4:45 pm
I have a personals bag in my desk, but my mouthwash won’t help him. I washed my hands, but the mental damage is done! I will NOT use one of his pens again!
HST
February 28th, 2013
4:45 pm
Well got the answer, and stand firm on that handshake – I’d do that for any of my ‘girl friends.’ Heck, if I thought I got a weak handshake from a friend’s business colleague I’d tell him.
Courtside Seats!!! Caught on the Kiss Cam :)
February 28th, 2013
4:47 pm
Gotta remember…. Send MsAtl a box of pens for Christmas…. Make sure to include commercial strenght hand sanitizer…..
Celisea
February 28th, 2013
4:47 pm
Mmeello and I have never met…not as him being Mmeello. Now if he’s truly another, maybe we have. No one though has ever seen a brastrap let alone skin. Did I misunderstand something? lololol
Exiled
February 28th, 2013
4:49 pm
Ms Atl…u really mean pens not penis Right?
IM trying to understand the outrage…
HST
February 28th, 2013
4:49 pm
Exiled, I didn’t think the ambiguous was a factor, or if it’s the obvious funny.
MsAtl, get yourself a nice pen, everyone will notice it, this won’t happen again, and it’s a solid business accessory.
HST
February 28th, 2013
4:50 pm
NVMD, I forgot Exiled is the local perv the ladies love.
HST
February 28th, 2013
4:51 pm
Gotta go. Have a great night everyone.
Exiled
February 28th, 2013
4:53 pm
we havent had an end of day in a loong time Leggs!
good nite
Celisea
February 28th, 2013
4:53 pm
I think I just caught what I’ve always suspected. Always….just never knew exactly who. I do now
Night folks!!
MsAtl
February 28th, 2013
4:55 pm
Exiled- Yes pens, lol. If he handed me his penis this post would have been a whole lot different. The outrage is that I do not want his saliva-infested pen. That’s just nasty.
HST- Normally I would have taken a pen, but I went in to ask him a question & he wanted to discuss a case, so I needed to write down a few things.
Leggs
February 28th, 2013
5:03 pm
First, I can’t believe it’s 5:03.
Second, Celisea blew Ex out the water w/him making it sound as they’ve met. That was funny.
I’m getting closer to my margarita. Just one before I drive home.
Leggs
February 28th, 2013
5:04 pm
HST, please never forget that again!!! Thank you kindly.
Leggs
February 28th, 2013
5:06 pm
Here you go Ex
“Faith is a knowledge within the heart, beyond the reach of proof” ~ Khalil Gibran
Leggs
February 28th, 2013
5:13 pm
{I hope someone reads my E.O.D}
Albert
February 28th, 2013
6:34 pm
Leggs, I’m 59.
Albert
February 28th, 2013
6:35 pm
And no, I don’t like the idea of being 59, single, and disabled one bit.