Dating: Love thy neighbor?
If you are lucky enough to live in an area of Atlanta that is teeming with good looking people, you probably have thought about dating a neighbor. It’s so tempting, right? With soaring gas prices, who is more geographically desirable than the hot neighbor? Well, as with all things, this decision should be made carefully.
You have to determine the risks and benefits: Are they insane? Would they stalk me if things don’t work out? Are they capable of property damage? Will I wake up to find my poor pet being harmed? I’m making light of it, of course, but I know there are some single people that can give you cautionary tales about dating their neighbors.
My friend Carla said that she would date a co-worker before she dated anything resembling a neighbor again. After things got messy with a fine, fine man in her mother’s neighborhood, she has to drive a decoy car to visit her mother. The fine man wasn’t worth it.
What do you think? Is it a good idea to use your backyard as your dating pool? Is it a recipe for disaster or simply smart strategy?
Have you ever dated someone who lived extremely close to you? Do you think it was a good idea?
Happy Tuesday!
By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog
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MissMoni
February 26th, 2013
8:07 am
GOOD Tuesday Morning MIA!
What do you think? Not a good idea. You all know the saying, too close for comfort. . . There are pros and cons to every situation. However, I view my home as my peaceful sanctuary and I don’t want that disturbed due to a relationship gone wrong. My viewpoint could possible be jaded due to having a stalker before, but yeah I don’t do neighbors!
Is it a good idea to use your backyard as your dating pool? Absolutely NOT!
Is it a recipe for disaster or simply smart strategy? I’ll take a recipe for disaster for $200!
*Same side of town, ok. Same street no can do!*
Button
February 26th, 2013
8:39 am
Good morning!
Have you ever dated someone who lived extremely close to you? Yes and no, he was my sister’s neighbor and we got married. I don’t have anything bad to say about dating neighbors. If it works good if not, then I can only imagine living in close proximity with an ex or someone you used to date. The anxiety alone is deterimental. Especially seeing him/her go on with their life dating other people. The sting!
My beau lives 20 minutes away so actually he’s my neighbor. I consider anything 60 minutes away a long distance relationship. If gas prices continue to rise we’ll have to skpe date..lol
mark
February 26th, 2013
8:49 am
HELLLLL NO! you may as well just give her a Key to your place and put her on the Lease! i made this Mistake once never again.
SlimNu
February 26th, 2013
8:51 am
Good morning,
Living close to someone you’re dating can be good and bad. Of course, if it doesn’t work out I don’t think i’d want to run the risk of keep running into them in all the local stores or whatever. And I most certaintly would not want to run into each other out on a date with someone else. That’s just not something I need to see. AWKWARD!
At one point in time, the ex and I lived only 8 miles from each other and that situation got a little hairy a few times. I’ll never forget how he popped up over there in the middle of the night when he could not reach me. I guess he felt strongly that I had someone over there.
MissMoni
February 26th, 2013
8:55 am
-Button Interesting that you mentioned Skype dating, apparently there is a population of people in long distance relationships that rely on this as their primary means of communication. :-/
-SlimNu Yeah the popping up in the middle of the night, not good and he probably would have thought about it twice if he was further away, LOL!
Leggs
February 26th, 2013
8:59 am
Is it a good idea to use your backyard as your dating pool? – Normally, I would say no, but crazy is everywhere if the relationship doesn’t work out. Close proximity increases the ability to monitor one’s comings and goings if they decide to swallow the infamous stupid pill.
Mem>Is it a recipe for disaster or simply smart strategy? – Probably more a recipe for disaster. Sometimes, convenience is more a negative than a positive.
Have you ever dated someone who lived extremely close to you? – Nope.
Morning!
Button
February 26th, 2013
9:01 am
MissMoni – I’m not good at skyping, I don’t like it! sometimes it’s hard to connect or the other person on the other end looks like a robot.
disco
February 26th, 2013
9:04 am
good morning. I have a dating the neighbor story. it sure as heck didn’t turn out how I expected. a friend of mine starts sleeping with the next door neighbor. I told her it was too close for comfort, trouble/drama waiting to happen. the neighbor was an on again, off again fling. when it was off she was miserable. countless times she’d call crying because she was sitting on her porch looking next door as he brought the next chick(s) in and out. anyway, fast forward a couple of years, she and the neighbor actually got married and had a baby. I’m still shocked by that one. a bit put off too when you think about what all some folks do to meet someone and then a chick buys a house and marries the guy next door. that ain’t right (especially with the janky azz next door neighbor I ended up with). lol.
now, I also have countless tales of folks creeping in the neighborhood. I always wondered why they did that. going out their front door to sneak in someone else’s side door but I guess that’s not quite the topic.
MissMoni
February 26th, 2013
9:16 am
-Button I too prefer face to face communication. Skype is definitely a last resort.
-disco Prime example of things that make you go hmmmm. . .
kimmie
February 26th, 2013
9:23 am
Morning good blog people!!
I wouls say this is kinda like dating a coworker, only a bit worse if things don’t turn out well. One of my former neighbors messed around with guy that lived in the same subdivision. He was living with his fiance’ who traveled alot. He would creep over to my neighbor’s house and vice-versa when fiance’ was out of town. Well, dude had his fun, but decided he wanted to cut it off and start back being faithful to his fiance’( plus word was he couldn’t deal with my neighbor’s nasty living habits, her house was borderline Hoarders). My neighbor was livid and started stalking him and fiance’ found out and dumped his behind!
I’ve never had a neighbor I was even remotely interested in dating.
disco
February 26th, 2013
9:36 am
moni – hmmm is right. lol. for a while I was actually feeling some kind of way. I think I walked around for months going “she’s marrying the next door neighbor”. I was in shock and awe. lol. I had to consciously pull myself back from other people’s how we met stories. she met her man on a plane? shoot, let me book a flight.
hey kimmie.
Leggs
February 26th, 2013
9:36 am
kimmie ~ I never had a desirable neighbor either.
kimmie
February 26th, 2013
9:39 am
Hey Disco, Hey Leggs!!
abc
February 26th, 2013
9:40 am
Is it just me, or is this totally nuts? Apparently everyone is insane, and wants to get with neighbors. Really? What’s up with the hot pants?
Leggs
February 26th, 2013
9:49 am
Hey kimmie
disco
February 26th, 2013
9:51 am
abc – well, let’s kick off today’s controversial back and forth. just what is insane? dating neighbors? and what’s wrong with hot pants? granted not everyone looks good in them but we can’t blame the hot pants for that. lol.
MissMoni
February 26th, 2013
9:52 am
-kiimmie & Leggs I agree, no desirable neighbors either. Just old or already married or both, LOL!!!
-disco I like to hear the “How We Met” stories however they can range to both extremes of the spectrum.
kimmie
February 26th, 2013
9:57 am
Anytime you have able-bodied, consenting adults together in close proximity, something is bound to pop off at one point or another with someone. Work, school, neighborhoods, it’s bound to happen. I don’t see what could be so shocking about the possibility.
Alot of people get together that grew up in the same neighborhood. It just gets a little more complicated when folks are already grown and decide to explore dating each other. So many things can go wrong. Or so much can go right.
In my old neighborhood, an older gentleman lost his wife. A few years later he started seeing a lady down the street and they married. He now rents out his old house and moved in hers. Perfectly respectable.
Hazel
February 26th, 2013
9:58 am
This is a big no no. One should not date co-workers or neighbors. Its not a bad idea over-all. While I dont have any stories to share, i can say that getting too friendly with the neighbors in general is not a good idea. I regret hanging out a bit too much with mine. She started getting on my nerves s I found out that she is NOT my type when it comes to friends and now I completely just ignore her ..making it awkward for both of us. My husband even warned me that one should take time, even when making friends with anyone..let alone your neighbors that u see ALL the time.
disco
February 26th, 2013
10:02 am
moni – I love hearing them too (at least the interesting ones). I admit I get kind of perturbed at the regular ones. those are the ones that give folks false hope. lol. you know the grocery store, the post office, the gas station. stuff that you do all the time on the regular and you never meet a single solitary soul. have you walking around thinking this is some bull.
personally I haven’t dated neighbors or co-workers. once upon a time I would have said it was a definite no-no. now, no longer being a spring chicken and not seeing eligible men every time I turn around, I’d say make it do what it do. be mature and responsible about it. that co-worker could be the man/woman of your dreams. you can always change jobs if you have to. I’ve worked at places that were virtual meat markets. everyone was dating someone on this floor, married to someone on that floor. it wasn’t a big deal but I think it’s mostly because it was handled well.
Hazel
February 26th, 2013
10:03 am
There are positive outcomes however that can come out of dating a co-worker. What about dating the boss? would you be ok with someone in your office doing that? would you be worried about favorism?
MissMoni
February 26th, 2013
10:03 am
-Hazel Your husband is exactly right! Great advice!!!
Button
February 26th, 2013
10:04 am
I live in an active community so I’m always seeing good looking men/women around walking or jogging…. a lot of them looking all hot with ripped muscles working out in the fitness center. whew lemme stop! Nothing wrong with looking.
SlimNu
February 26th, 2013
10:06 am
Now that I think of it, i’ve never had any neighbors that I wanted to date either. There was a guy that lived upstairs from me that attempted to go out with me but Ewwwwww!
kimmie
February 26th, 2013
10:09 am
disco – One of the ladies on my team is married now to a coworker that was introduced to her by another coworker! He works in a different department and now in a different building. They now have 3 kids together.
MissMoni
February 26th, 2013
10:09 am
-disco I’m anti dating co-workers as well, been there done that got 2 t-shirts. The first time was doing my military days and the breakup worked out because he got stationed in Korea. Now my second experience was a little more intriguing. I saw this person every single day for 8 hours and after the breakup he got engaged to his baby’s mama (the child was age 10)!!! I must say that I was very professional. However about twice he said something slick and I had to completely shut him down and suggest that he not come at me like that ever again or it will get ugly. On a much happier note, I got a promotion, so I am in a totally different building and I don’t have to see him at all. Lesson learned!
Leggs
February 26th, 2013
10:10 am
Thank goodness, my neighbors are cool. All of them. I’m single and the lady across the way is single. Other than that, everyone else is married w/children.
I love hearing “how we met” stories, but I especially love hearing “how did he propose” stories more.
Celisea
February 26th, 2013
10:11 am
I don’t see the big deal with close proximity….or not. It’s not the location, it’s the people. If you’re mature, you are mature. Whether it’s next door or the next state over….shouldn’t matter. It’s the people involved the reason things are a bust. Either you ain’t ready and “the norm” can feel smothering or truly a person is smothering and clingy and not respecting boundaries….literally. You can be next door neighbors and still respect each others need for space and time apart. You can live in another state and put on a pamper cause ya don’t wanna stop, you want to get there ASAP to see, snap, get, keep that man or woman!!! lololol
In all seriousness, we’re adults and should be respectful of time and space and allowing one another to breath. It’s all in how both individuals conduct themselves.
On the subject of skyping….ummmm NOT!!! Unless I’m sick and bedridden and he’s stopped by already to see about me and wants to check up midday or something, that ain’t happening. Either show up….or not
Toodles….for now
disco
February 26th, 2013
10:12 am
hazel – truth of the matter is you likely have to be concerned about favoritism whether folks are dating or not. not everyone is as objective and neutral as they are supposed to be.
leggs – well you know about me and my neighbors. lol.
Button
February 26th, 2013
10:12 am
Hazel – I agree with your husband, one should take the time to get to know people esp neighbors. I’ve had the neighbor from hell and let me tell you, I was too happy when they moved! the noise was unbearable, all hours of the night, thomping, dragging and running and some aweful smell! Now my new neighbor is a tab bit talkative so I keep it at hi and bye when I see her, I dare say anything outside of that and it’s on, she’ll talk nonstop for what seems to be an hour.
disco – I love those how we met stories too. Some are so romantic.
MsAtl
February 26th, 2013
10:13 am
Morning All!
I would not want to date a neighbor for the reason many of you pointed out; if it does not work out, I wouldn’t want him to “stalk” me nor would I want to see him with the next boo on a regular basis. When I left my ex, he deliberately moved around the corner from me a month later and brought his mistress to stay with him while she was on maternity leave. Despite having her there, he would constantly show up in my driveway, looking in the garage window when I was out or checking to see if cars were in the driveway and asking my son about the cars. My niece came to visit and he took down the car info to question my son. He asked when he saw a repairman truck in the driveway, he went to our neighbors and asked questions; it was not a good time.
As far as dating a coworker- absolutely not!!! I always say, you don’t get your puddy and your paycheck in the same place. Yes, that is a recipe for disaster.
MissMoni
February 26th, 2013
10:13 am
-kimmie For some people it really does work. A lady at my job married a co-worker (after he divorced his wife who also works for the same company) and it worked out. The man retired and his ex-wife and new wife work in totally different buildings and don’t have to see each other. Now the company Christmas Party is a different story, LOL!!!
MissMoni
February 26th, 2013
10:15 am
-Leggs Those “How He Proposed” stories are the BEST kind!
disco
February 26th, 2013
10:17 am
well if the blog gets slow today (and it likely will) some of you can grace us with your “how we met, how he proposed and, if applicable, I knew it was over when” stories. lol.
Hazel
February 26th, 2013
10:19 am
disco – true. It could happen regardless, but when u r in with the MAN or WOMAN.. you may get a pass or two for things other folks may not.
Button – Yes..Its crazy how folks can be. Trying to compete with the Jones’s. Mine was more of her just getting too creepy about my personal life, asking crazy questions about finances etc. I had to pull the plug and go cold turkey. “I ain’t got time for dat”
Hazel
February 26th, 2013
10:21 am
sorry, it should’ve read, “Ain’t nobody got time for dat”.
kimmie
February 26th, 2013
10:25 am
Disco/Hazel – you are so right about the favoritism. Most if not all of the companies I have worked for have been very careful about guidelines for folks dating & marrying and whatnot. But when it comes to showing favorites, that’s rather obvious everywhere and have nothing to do with romantic entaglements.
Celisea
February 26th, 2013
10:41 am
I actually dated a coworker that lived (still does) about 3 or 4 miles or so from me. It worked out well for years. When the split happened, it had nothing to do with location. Matter of fact, living close ALWAYS seem to be one of the pluses for us
We were together for a few years. I didn’t “show up” at his spot and he didn’t “show up” at mine….well he did after we decided to part ways. Yeah, he did that a couple of times. I just left him out there…lol I get the feeling though he would have done that whether I was there or living in Timbuktu…..lololol
Button
February 26th, 2013
10:42 am
Letter #90 – Three months ago, the woman who was having an affair with my husband died suddenly from an accident. I found out about the affair only two days after her funeral. I thought she was simply a co-worker and I was wondering why my husband was so disturbed and emotional. He quit his job, saying it was too traumatic to go to work. She was in the early weeks of pregnancy when she died and my husband doesn’t know whether he or her husband was the father. So, on top of everything, he’s also grieving for a baby which may or may not have been his. I find it extremely difficult to be emotionally supportive when he wakes up at 3 a.m. crying and trembling—yet I don’t have the heart to yell at him like I want to. He says she’s dead, so there’s no reason for me to feel jealous or threatened, and asks for my understanding as he grieves. We’ve barely talked these last weeks because I don’t know how to respond to my husband when he cries and says he misses her and wishes she were here, then also how much he loves me and that he never intended to leave me. I asked him to visit a marriage therapist together and he said he’s “not ready” to work on our marriage, and thinks he needs to see a grief therapist instead. Do I need to give him time to mourn the loss of his mistress? Or should I demand he focus on our marriage?
Celisea
February 26th, 2013
10:43 am
Celisea
February 26th, 2013
10:45 am
A hoax? Are we on candid camera??? I KID I KID….back to work…lolol
disco
February 26th, 2013
10:48 am
button – really??? that chick is too nice. hubs would be laying in the plot next to old girl. him, her and the maybe baby could all be together eternally. comfort him? ninja please. how’d he like to be grieving and homeless at the same time? it takes all kinds.
SlimNu
February 26th, 2013
10:50 am
Button – DAMN! And I thought I had problems…
MissMoni
February 26th, 2013
10:51 am
Button is this a REAL letter???
Button
February 26th, 2013
10:56 am
That’s my thoughts disco and SlimNu the hubs has some nerve! The wife is too kind and yet still try to work on her marriage. I would be livid with his act alone let alone him crying and moaning in my face everyday for his mistress.
From what I understand it’s real MissMoni.
Celisea
February 26th, 2013
10:59 am
If God don’t/didn’t like ugly, then neither should she, the wife.
Celisea
February 26th, 2013
11:00 am
Button – Are you able to share the site where you’re getting these letters? I would live to save in my favorites and read when it’s slow here.
Leggs
February 26th, 2013
11:00 am
I dated a guy at work moons ago. We worked in the same bldg, but different law firms. He even proposed to me (w/ring in hand). No doubt a Zirconium back then. Got my dumb a$$ all giddy with delight that WE called Mama and he spoke to her for some time then asked for her permission. When I tell you I was naive to the game, that’s an understatement. Got to work late the next day and told my boss and showed him my ring. Mind you now, we dated a little over a year before he asked. Anyway, things quickly shifted after he asked. I saw less and less of him, went to lunch together less and less.
Lo and behold, he was separated and his wife moved back to town (which I heard through the grapevine). Finally got a chance to sit and talk and, of course, ended everything. To make a long story short, there’s a record to this day that I never listen to and always change the station when it comes on = Denise Williams’ “Silly.”
Before anyone throws eggs at me, I was young, foolish and impressionable (22).
disco ~ you can laugh now.
Courtside Seats!!! Caught on the Kiss Cam :)
February 26th, 2013
11:02 am
Morning all……
I had a thing a few years ago with a married woman that lived 3 floors down from me…. We would see each outher at building sponsored events and smiles became flirting and that lead to …… Well long story short, turns out her and her hubby had an open relationship, but she was not cool with me seeing anyone besides her…. Crazy right?????
MsAtl
February 26th, 2013
11:03 am
Button- he would move out and grieve on his own. I would not offer my shoulder for him to cry on; that goes above and beyond, sorry.
Button
February 26th, 2013
11:05 am
Letter # 57—-I am in a long-term relationship with a wonderful and sensitive man. Recently we became engaged and are planning on getting married in the summer. My fiancé and I have always had an open relationship and explored our chexuol interests. However, since getting engaged, my fiancé no longer likes to participate in my chexuol interests. He says since we are getting married now, we should put our youthful fantasies behind us and be responsible. He says he cannot do such things with the woman he will be marrying and who will be the mother of his children. Although I love my fiancé very much, how do I make him understand that I need more than a vanilla future with him?
MsAtl
February 26th, 2013
11:06 am
Leggs- No eggs, it was a learning experience…
MissMoni
February 26th, 2013
11:06 am
-Leggs I won’t even start talking about some of the “SILLY” things I did in my 20’s!!! You live and learn.
-Courtside That is beyond crazy. . .
kimmie
February 26th, 2013
11:07 am
Leggs – What did you do that you think was foolish? You dated someone and fell in love, took him at his word and he proposed. Did you not ask the right questions so you could find out that he was separated?
Albert
February 26th, 2013
11:09 am
Transportation for me is more difficult than for most, so as far as I’m concerned, the closer the better.
disco
February 26th, 2013
11:11 am
leggs – and to think I read it all with a straight face all the way up to the end.
Courtside Seats!!! Caught on the Kiss Cam :)
February 26th, 2013
11:13 am
MissMoni,
She would raise all kinds of hell with me when she thought I was spending time with anyone else…. And we danced that game for like 13 or 14 months….. ( She was a real freak too…I think she was going thru a midlife crisis and I was her lab rat)
Leggs
February 26th, 2013
11:20 am
Button ~ most of the letters you post are crazy, but that one is just plain stupid. I can’t even imagine a woman trying to be so understanding. AND, for him to say she’s dead so no need for her to be jealous deserves a brick upside his head.
Leggs
February 26th, 2013
11:21 am
Because after he finishes mourning and heals his heart, he’s gonna find a replacement and it won’t be his wife!!!!
MissMoni
February 26th, 2013
11:23 am
-Courtside LOL! So you were OK with being her “lab rat”?
kimmie
February 26th, 2013
11:23 am
Leggs – Yeah, that’s a new player move right there – “yeah I messed around on you and got someone else preggers, but I can’t deal with that right now cause I’m grieving”! Get the heck outta here!!!
disco
February 26th, 2013
11:25 am
kimmie / leggs – and we all completely ignored the whole “quit his job” part of the letter. you mean you want to lay up in here and grieve AND you ain’t bringing in no money???
Leggs
February 26th, 2013
11:25 am
kimmie ~ I don’t know. I knew I felt used and foolish. He definitely was a playa! Like MsAtl stated, a learning experience.
disco
February 26th, 2013
11:30 am
leggs – well did you suck it up and charge it to the game or did you go tell his wife that she was married to your fiancée? i think i might have showed my azz.
Leggs
February 26th, 2013
11:30 am
Exactly, disco. You’re going to quit your job because the memories are too painful. The fact that you can twist your mouth to say all of those things to me, will have you sleeping at your dead mistress’ house. Break in, sleep on the back porch, I could give a rat’s a$$. Out of mine you will be.
MsAtl
February 26th, 2013
11:31 am
Disco- Please don’t put that visual in my head, lol. I am laughing at the thought of you banging on the door showing the wife your ring.
Leggs
February 26th, 2013
11:32 am
disco ~ very rare for me to show my a$$. I’ve never acted a fool in public. I chalked it up the game, baby! All game.
DuShawn
February 26th, 2013
11:33 am
I dated a neighbor once. She would often come over and cook for me. Over time she left some cookware and plates etc. at my spot. One evening I had another date at the crib, beautiful Puerto Rican chic I had been pursuing for a while. I thru some steaks on grill, got the Isleys vibin, candles and wine. I’m about to close the deal for the first time. Then about midnight, neighbor starts bammin on my front door. Talkin about she want her pots, pans and plates back……..I guess it goes without saying, it was not a good look and I slept alone that night.
Courtside Seats!!! Caught on the Kiss Cam :)
February 26th, 2013
11:34 am
MissMoni, At the time yeah….. I was late 20’s and wide open!!! She was “Grown woman” fine and feeling experimental… Did not give thought to her husband or her colleg aged kids…. I was ate uo with herr being down and not having any strings attached! ( or so I thought)
kimmie
February 26th, 2013
11:34 am
disco – You right, I guess we were so focused on other ish we missed some ish!!LOL!!
disco
February 26th, 2013
11:36 am
leggs – at his house (him, you, her or just you and her) isn’t in public. lol.
Button
February 26th, 2013
11:36 am
crazy as it maybe Leggs I find it comical.
Leggs
February 26th, 2013
11:37 am
you got a point, disco. I guess making a scene anywhere other than my place is publix.
Leggs
February 26th, 2013
11:38 am
public….
Leggs
February 26th, 2013
11:41 am
What’s comical is that a woman may be going through this and wondering what to do.
Button
February 26th, 2013
11:50 am
lol Dushawn talk about a party pooper!
Courtside Seats!!! Caught on the Kiss Cam :)
February 26th, 2013
11:51 am
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZMpR2MCNarU
Feeling some kinda way this Morning…….
MsAtl
February 26th, 2013
11:53 am
Courtside- Love that song! I would like to see Kem in concert this year.
Dirty Bird (Luvs neighbors and co-workers)
February 26th, 2013
11:54 am
I am always open to dating neighbors and co-workers. I was not always as opened about dating co-workers, until I went out for drinks with a co-worker and she confessed how muched she liked me and proceeded to give me an awesome lube job in the car…Yes she did! Blame it on the alcohol!
Alcohol is a great playa..It will get you the bootay without even trying… Yes it will!
disco
February 26th, 2013
11:55 am
leggs – well here is our good times tie in for the day. thinking about your post with old boy. I was thinking how you are the high road (don’t show out in public type) and I am the get some get back type. so I was thinking about the good times episode where james was ready to whoop azz and florida was talking about “vengeance is mine said the lord”. james responded with “I’m just trying to do the lord’s work”. lol.
Leggs
February 26th, 2013
12:01 pm
Now disco, to be honest, I do enjoy people watching and see some chick doing the lord’s work.
DuShawn
February 26th, 2013
12:01 pm
@Button – Neighbor lived a couple of houses down, she passed by, saw a strange car, prolley smelled the bar b que smoke, came to my door, heard the music and decided the next chic will not be eating off the plates she bought……and blew up my spot. The Puerto Rican chic concluded I was a playa and I never got another shot………..Madaline Arroyo…I still remeber her name twenty years later. Dayum I wanted that azz.
Courtside Seats!!! Caught on the Kiss Cam :)
February 26th, 2013
12:04 pm
LOL…. Yup Dushawn.. And I bet that would have been teh best azz eva!!!! LOLOLOL
Dirty Bird (Luvs neighbors and co-workers)
February 26th, 2013
12:06 pm
It’s time to rate the blog ladies as Dating your neighbor!
O.K. there would be no stalking, coming over late at night or walking by the house if I dated MsMoni, MsAtl or button as neighbors mainly due to they maybe a little stiff in the bedroom. With these fine ladies I would strive to remain friends be so from time to time I could come over for dinner,they throw down in the kitchen lukewarm in the bedroom.
Now Disco, BluzGirl and Slim-Nu I would install a hidden camera in the bedroom to see what new tricks they are performing with their new dates because ya’ll know they like to get busy…. Oh yes they do! lol
disco
February 26th, 2013
12:10 pm
D – that’s funny because I can imagine being both of them. I can see me as the chick talking about give me all my stuff and I can see me as the chick talking bout “naw fool. I’m out. I ain’t got time for this.”
DB – that little “oh yes they do” at the end sounds retarded. lol. it sounds like you are playing with a baby or a puppy. “you’re a good boy. oh yes you are”.
Leggs
February 26th, 2013
12:13 pm
kimmie
February 26th, 2013
12:19 pm
Leggs/Disco – I am like you Leggs, the no-drama chick, but before I met hubs and got married I said if the next dude I met pulled some foul mess on me I was going to turn into that crazy, bust-the-windows-outcha-car chick, just one time! Just do something totally out of character for me!!LOL!!!
disco
February 26th, 2013
12:24 pm
kimmie – you crazy. don’t ask me why (lol) but to this day I keep a brick in the trunk of my car. don’t judge me. you never know when you might need a brick. and for the record, I’ve never cut a tire or bust a car window (though I have … well, never mind). lol.
kimmie
February 26th, 2013
12:27 pm
disco – I used to keep a bat by my bed. Imma find that bat and keep it in my trunk!LOL!!
Bluzgirl
February 26th, 2013
12:30 pm
Good afternoon all! I came in late to work today cause I’m sick yet again! Ugh! I had to come in cause I knew I had work to do…And…I have to work tonight at the Gwinnett Arena.
Anyway…I do have a pretty fine neighbor, but not sure I’d want to do that. We say hello every time we see each other, but we don’t cross paths that often. I know his roommate has a girlfriend, but not sure if he does. I do think it would be awkward, though, if things didn’t work out. At least I know he’s a renter and I’m an owner, so if things got ugly, he could move easily! LOL
Courtside Seats!!! Caught on the Kiss Cam :)
February 26th, 2013
12:31 pm
Got a crazy chick story for ya…..
One of my lodge brothers was dating girl..they were cool enough that she had a key to his place…. Well he was one of those dudes that always had to have a side piece on call and he would hit her up sometimes to make sure she was in play. Well, at the begining of the fall last year he had to go out of town for some business and he had teh side girl take him to the airport. As they were leaving his driveway, Main chick drives by and he does not even see her, But she sees him. She is pissed and to get back at him, she goes inside his house and calls and has a locksmith come over and change all of the locks….. Then she unplugs the fridge and leaves the door open and turns on the heat….. he comes back in town and can’t get in… He breaks a window to get inside and his house is hot as hell and smells like spoiled seafood. Smelled so bad he even had to replace the carpets to get rid of the odor!!!
DuShawn
February 26th, 2013
12:33 pm
Disco- I’m re-living that evening now. I hadn’t thought of it in years. I’m trying to handle neighbor outside, and then go back in and act like everything is cool. I remember when the PR chick was about to leave she said, “As long as she don’t touch me on my way out, I’m cool.” Meanwhile the sista is skraight clowning. As they passed one another on my porch, surprisingly they had a meeting of the minds, a brief woman’s bonding moment, I recall vividly how they shared a knowing glance……..they were both in agreement………that I wasn’t sh&^t.
MsAtl
February 26th, 2013
12:34 pm
Dirty- I do throw down in the kitchen. However, I am so far from stiff. I will just say don’t get yourself hurt and leave it at that, lol.
DuShawn
February 26th, 2013
12:35 pm
Court…dayum..”hell hath no fury………”
Courtside Seats!!! Caught on the Kiss Cam :)
February 26th, 2013
12:41 pm
Yeah. Du…. Stank building up in his crib for like 8 days!!!! Hot outside and the Heat on!!!
disco
February 26th, 2013
12:41 pm
kimmie – I used to keep a small souvenir bat in my car. I think somebody jacked me for it.
court – I have to ask though it seems apparent. did old girl already know about the sidepiece? why automatically jump to the conclusion re seeing him in a car especially since she likely knew he was going to the airport that day. even if she didn’t know that’s one heck of a conclusion to jump to without already knowing something. everyone woman knows that every man has an extraordinary number of female cousins. lol.
Leggs
February 26th, 2013
12:41 pm
kimmie ~ I have a bat by my bed, a box cutter in the window, and a knife under the mattress. I’m cracking up. My child was home sometime ago and we were in my room when we heard something fell. She quickly said “mommy, one of your weapons fell.” We both cracked up.
Courtside Seats!!! Caught on the Kiss Cam :)
February 26th, 2013
12:42 pm
” I am so far from stiff. I will just say don’t get yourself hurt and leave it at that, lol.”
Not sure why my heart just started beating a little faster………
Courtside Seats!!! Caught on the Kiss Cam :)
February 26th, 2013
12:44 pm
disco, Not sure if she had an idea, but she went atomic on his ass from the rip……
Courtside Seats!!! Caught on the Kiss Cam :)
February 26th, 2013
12:47 pm
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P0UYrhYm2Rc
disco
February 26th, 2013
12:47 pm
court – that sounds like dude was set up. sounds like sidepiece chick may have contacted the real woman and the real woman doubted the sidepiece. sidepiece was like “I’m taking him to the airport next week”.
Courtside Seats!!! Caught on the Kiss Cam :)
February 26th, 2013
12:52 pm
Hmmmmm disco…Never thought of it like that…..
Courtside Seats!!! Caught on the Kiss Cam :)
February 26th, 2013
12:54 pm
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H5ut–BZw3M&feature=endscreen&NR=1
disco
February 26th, 2013
12:57 pm
court – it makes sense. if she already knew about the chick there’s a pretty good chance old boy would have known that she knew and he likely would have been a bit more careful re having sidepiece at his house (even if just for a ride). if she didn’t know about the chick she likely wouldn’t have snapped so hard just by seeing him in the car with a woman. sounds like she was clueless until sidepiece filled her in and that’s why she went off like she did. of course, we’ll never know but I love to speculate. lol.
Celisea
February 26th, 2013
12:58 pm
Whoa…grinding music
Get the blog women straight for lunch…lololol Dang, I worked from home yesterday. Do I need to pull up early?
Courtside, the blog women thanks ya!!!
Celisea
February 26th, 2013
12:58 pm
yes “thanks ya”
Courtside Seats!!! Caught on the Kiss Cam :)
February 26th, 2013
1:00 pm
OK Celisea, Let me see if you can go back this far….
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JueoDMvlWa4
Celisea
February 26th, 2013
1:00 pm
Shoot, didn’t someone mentioned webcams??? I KID I KID I KID I KID…. I was “ahem” working yesterday, for real
Leggs
February 26th, 2013
1:00 pm
Interesting spin, disco, and I can definitely see that happening.
Leggs
February 26th, 2013
1:01 pm
No bat or brick in my car, but I do have two knives.
Celisea
February 26th, 2013
1:01 pm
Booooooooy, you better stop!!! lol
Celisea
February 26th, 2013
1:03 pm
Funny y’all talking bout weapons. My alarm kept tripping last night. I had bypass set so I can walk around but everytime I entered the living room, it would set my alarm off. So, I finished the night, uncomfortably with my alarm off. I got a bat though, by my nightstand.
Courtside Seats!!! Caught on the Kiss Cam :)
February 26th, 2013
1:05 pm
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0fKHS7KDHew
Celisea
February 26th, 2013
1:06 pm
mention not mentioned
Celisea
February 26th, 2013
1:07 pm
LOLOLOLOL….Not Morris Day You went waaaaay back.
MsAtl
February 26th, 2013
1:16 pm
Leggs & Celisea- You two reminded me of the night my son-in-law set off the alarm getting a drink @ 3 am. I had two cops visiting on vacation & both jumped up with their guns. Now you know I would have gone down if the only white guy in a house full of folks ended up with bullet holes in him. He never got another drink after midnight, he stayed thirsty! I am laughing just remembering.
Courtside- It should be…
Celisea
February 26th, 2013
1:22 pm
MsAtl – LOL…I’on be playing bout that kind of stuff. Glad they were quick on the draw. Even better they decided to look first, shoot last. Yeah, somebody would have been pinned for that…lololol
Courtside Seats!!! Caught on the Kiss Cam :)
February 26th, 2013
1:22 pm
OK last one….
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4lUnml1wd94
SlimNu
February 26th, 2013
1:23 pm
Dirty – What makes you think i’d be one with all sorts of new tricks?
Celisea
February 26th, 2013
1:24 pm
I’m IMing with a coworker and want to ask how things are going with her dude (she and I haven’t talked or hung out away from work in a minute). Thinking about this though, she’s dating a dude in his 60s and she’s in her 40s. I know we ain’t spring chickens but that’s got the “ick” factor….for me.
Celisea
February 26th, 2013
1:24 pm
Out to lunch!! Imma check out that link on my lunchbreak
MsAtl
February 26th, 2013
1:31 pm
Courtside-
I saw Frankie Beverly in concert last summer. Awesome!
Courtside Seats!!! Caught on the Kiss Cam :)
February 26th, 2013
1:37 pm
MsAtl, I have seen him maybe 6 or 7 times and they have NEVER let me down!!!!
Courtside Seats!!! Caught on the Kiss Cam :)
February 26th, 2013
1:39 pm
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nTiOTv7qQTs
Ok…this is teh last one for real… ( from my quiet kicking it around the house collection
Courtside Seats!!! Caught on the Kiss Cam :)
February 26th, 2013
1:53 pm
Enter your comments here
Courtside Seats!!! Caught on the Kiss Cam :)
February 26th, 2013
2:06 pm
Damn…where did everybody go???? Since I am kicking it here by myself….
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=srUJUWodgyw
MsAtl
February 26th, 2013
2:07 pm
Not Anita- she is bad!
Courtside Seats!!! Caught on the Kiss Cam :)
February 26th, 2013
2:09 pm
Yeah MsAtl… She never seems to have gotten the love she deserved…
Courtside Seats!!! Caught on the Kiss Cam :)
February 26th, 2013
2:11 pm
Here is my favorite Anita song..
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Dh_b8I6FLeU
disco
February 26th, 2013
2:13 pm
court – yeah. looks like you and celisea were enjoying a little mini-concert.
Leggs
February 26th, 2013
2:16 pm
This one of my favorite songs:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FM7burI9lJA
Leggs
February 26th, 2013
2:18 pm
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disco
February 26th, 2013
2:23 pm
something tells me it’s going to be a fairly long afternoon.
disco
February 26th, 2013
2:23 pm
I’d say now folks could tell their “how we met, how he proposed, I knew it was over when” stories except it doesn’t look like anyone’s here.
Dirty Bird (MsAtl I am ready to get hurt)
February 26th, 2013
2:23 pm
MsAtl Dirty- I do throw down in the kitchen. However, I am so far from stiff. I will just say don’t get yourself hurt and leave it at that, lol.
@MsAtl….Don’t you try to come in young buck land, this is where you get sprung…This juice will have you feeding me grapes and cooking in sexy lingerie…
Courtside Seats!!! Caught on the Kiss Cam :)
February 26th, 2013
2:28 pm
Great choice Leggs!!
Courtside Seats!!! Caught on the Kiss Cam :)
February 26th, 2013
2:33 pm
LOL.. I can see it now… Dirty puts it on MsAtl… He has her dancing around the crib singing:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JodY-LQJ_rQ
disco
February 26th, 2013
2:33 pm
DB – you hear so many men talk about what all they learned from older women. I know some chicks who go the young buck route but I’m so not one of them. last time a little boy (yeah I said little boy though he was probably mid-20s) was in my face I asked him did he want me to have to fight his momma. I just don’t see the draw. well, lol, okay. I’ll admit for the most part the young ones got the old(er) ones beat in the body department but, well, their still just too daggone young. lol.
Leggs
February 26th, 2013
2:38 pm
Courside, when I hear that song, I just close my eyes and LISTEN….
Courtside Seats!!! Caught on the Kiss Cam :)
February 26th, 2013
2:40 pm
Every since I was in my like mid 20’s my draw has been to older women…. My pops use to say I had an old soul. Besides, whenyou catch’em in their 40’s there seems to be so much less drama! Not a lot of gamee and whatnot…. I love it that women at that point in thier lives don’t have time for alot of guess work, past the daydreaming stage, They have done teh knight on a white horse thing and are completely comforatble with where they are and what they are doing…besides, There is very little that you can do that will surprise them or scare them away…. In fact ……….
Leggs
February 26th, 2013
2:41 pm
and EMBRACE the song….
Leggs
February 26th, 2013
2:42 pm
Courtside ~ unless you have a penis pump. I digress…
disco
February 26th, 2013
2:42 pm
blog ladies – any of y’all into young’uns? now? in the past? see it in your future?
MsAtl
February 26th, 2013
2:44 pm
Dirty- If I’m in lingerie feeding anyone grapes, it’s by choice, not because I’m sprung, lol.
Disco- I hear you. I will go younger, but I do have a cut off.
Leggs
February 26th, 2013
2:45 pm
I was just talking about this young buck with a friend this morning, disco. I think I need someone younger than myself because those even a little older than myself are very old acting.
kimmie
February 26th, 2013
2:49 pm
I’ve always liked men around my age, no more than 4 or 5 years older or younger. Hubs is 4 years younger. We can relate to each other.
I don’t need another daddy and I don’t want to be nobody’s mama(unless they really are my child!)
disco
February 26th, 2013
2:53 pm
leggs/atl – so what are your ranges going to be. how low can you go?
SlimNu
February 26th, 2013
2:55 pm
How did you know “the one’ was actually THE ONE stories, anyone?
Courtside Seats!!! Caught on the Kiss Cam :)
February 26th, 2013
2:56 pm
Leggs, what would I possibly do with a penis pump????? My back is strong and my Testosterone is flowing like the Mighty Mississippi!!!
MsAtl
February 26th, 2013
2:57 pm
Disco- At this point, maybe 38. It depends on the particular person, though.
I’m out folks. Chat with you all tomorrow.
Bluzgirl
February 26th, 2013
2:59 pm
I’ve always been attracted to men older than me. I don’t know why…
I had a big crush on a younger guy many years ago and landed him in bed and was extremely disappointed! Not that I’m the most mature person, but I get along better with people older than me. People my age or younger tend to be a little too immature…
disco
February 26th, 2013
2:59 pm
kimmie – I kind of think anything from 0-5 in either direction is your own peer group range.
slim – you have to direct that one to those who have “the one”. let me know when we are discussing “I knew he/she wasn’t the one”. lol.
Celisea
February 26th, 2013
3:04 pm
Five years younger than me has been the youngest. That was the stockbroker. The kid’s dad, 3 years younger. Mister silk and smooth was 3 years younger. And my current love is younger as well
Sue me…lololol
I’ve NEVER dated a dude older than me but once. I was in the 11th and he was a junior at Morehouse, another Kappa Man. Those never lasted though (remember Kevin the Kappa), cause I was scary and hanging on to my “good girl, goodie two shoe” image. And really, those dudes weren’t playing during the “sowing seeds” years. It was like move out of the way or become a victim….lolol But it was funny watching them try…lol The Morehouse man was way too pretty for my mama. She couldn’t stomach him…lololol Really, that one was short lived. I was hired by the Atlanta Board of Ed (along with 21 other highschool/college kids) to tutor remedial students during summer school. That’s how we met. We dated just the summer and a bit into the school year. After that, I was in the wind and back to liking the boys at school. You know, the ones you liked as long as school as in session and forgot about during the summer….lololol
Alright, I’m getting out of here a bit early I think. Gonna wrap up my stuff and hit the road
Toodles!!!
Leggs
February 26th, 2013
3:04 pm
Courtside ~ not saying you need one, was commenting on you saying “There is very little that you can do that will surprise them or scare” away women over 40. I said, unless you have a penis pump! Was making a small joke.
disco ~ I would go as low as 40 and as high of 58.
Leggs
February 26th, 2013
3:05 pm
Bluz ~ same here, always dated guys older than me, but now that I’m older, I need someone not older than me (lol).
Celisea
February 26th, 2013
3:05 pm
Oh, I would say 38 is about as young as I’ll go and I’m not sure I can do up as high as 50. If I had to pick a number, it would be 50.
SlimNu
February 26th, 2013
3:06 pm
disco – Not ‘into’ youngun’s but did date a guy 4yrs younger than me when I was in my late 20’s. He was funny, full of energy, aimed to please, had just graduated school…..he ended up moving up north for a new job and we still kept up our communication. He came back here to hangout for a long weekend, went to a club, met a chick and next thing I know I call him back at home and a chick answers the phone. He got her preggo and failed to break the news to me of what happened. The eventually got married, separated, back together, separated and just recently finally divorced.
disco
February 26th, 2013
3:06 pm
my son is 23. said he was having lunch with a chick recently. said chick is 30. apparently she was sizing him up and was maybe feeling him. he mentioned plans for his bday and she asked how old he was. he says that when he told her her entire expression changed. lol. he said the conversation fell off and everything. he said he thought to himself “don’t be mad at me because you’re old”. I laughed because I can imagine exactly how she must have felt.
daddy swiss
February 26th, 2013
3:11 pm
I got an alert saying some of you blog ladies were looking for fresh meat?
Celisea
February 26th, 2013
3:12 pm
One more…Kevin the kappa was younger. Oh, I did date the 38 year old off and on but wouldn’t call that a relationship. And when I was about 25, I had a dude that was an account manager for the National Linen Service fly in for a conference. We met for dinner but that did it for me. Like I said, I was about 25 and I though HECK NAW!!! I thought, at the time, he was as old as Methuselah, when he was mid 30ish…if my recollection is on point. I remember him trying to hold my hand and I was holding back from barfing…..I’m laughing as I type this. What a silly girl I was
Innocence sometimes, is just a good thing to have and keep as long as possible.
Alright….Toddles…for real this time
Celisea
February 26th, 2013
3:13 pm
I was working for Dun and Bradstreet….during that time…with the mid 30ish geezer…yeah, I was green and silly
Leggs
February 26th, 2013
3:14 pm
Cracking up because if anyone got an alert for that, it would be you, swiss. How’s Ms. Swissmocha doing?
disco
February 26th, 2013
3:14 pm
swiss – what? you got a hookup with the butcher? (blog ladies – beware. he probably knows someone hustling horse meat out of his trunk).
Leggs
February 26th, 2013
3:17 pm
horse meat out of his trunk just made me think of nasty junk secreting out of his trunk…..
Leggs
February 26th, 2013
3:19 pm
sorry….
disco
February 26th, 2013
3:21 pm
leggs – sorry for what? having crazy thoughts? lol.
Leggs
February 26th, 2013
3:22 pm
yep (lol).
Leggs
February 26th, 2013
3:22 pm
didn’t want my visual to make anyone queasy.
daddy swiss
February 26th, 2013
3:31 pm
First of all, there has never been, nor will there ever be, meat of any kind in my trunk. Swissy don’t play that.
Second, Little SwissMochette is doing great. Spoiled rotten already, but she’s healthy as can be and quite possibly the cutest little baby ever born (in my totally unbiased opinion).
How’s everybody in Blogville?
Sassy Me...Make it do what it do ;-)
February 26th, 2013
3:31 pm
beware. he probably knows someone hustling horse meat out of his trunk).
I wonder if that’s the same guy IKEA got theirs from for their meatballs…
Sassy Me...Make it do what it do ;-)
February 26th, 2013
3:33 pm
Little SwissMochette is doing great. Spoiled rotten already
Awwwww how sweet swiss!
Leggs
February 26th, 2013
3:34 pm
Glad for the update on Little SwissMochette. Can’t speak for all the bloggers, but I’m doing well.
SassyMe jumps in. No peeping through the blinds, BAM, here I is.
disco
February 26th, 2013
3:34 pm
sassy – the horse meat in the news is why I went with horse meat? lol.
sassy – you thought how sweet. I was thinking they better stop before they can’t find anyone to babysit. lol.
kimmie
February 26th, 2013
3:39 pm
Hey Swiss!! I know your little baby lady is adorable!!! It’s something very special about baby girls!
Leggs
February 26th, 2013
3:55 pm
Enter your comments here
Leggs
February 26th, 2013
3:56 pm
“Sucker Tuesdays” on Michael Baisden…interesting stories of getting got!
Courtside Seats!!! Caught on the Kiss Cam :)
February 26th, 2013
3:58 pm
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JodY-LQJ_rQ
I know I said that was it, But this is my jam……..
Button
February 26th, 2013
3:58 pm
disco – my youngest buck was 12 years my junior, other than that 7 years my junior seems to hold steady.
disco
February 26th, 2013
4:00 pm
yay!!! y’all are still here.
daddy swiss
February 26th, 2013
4:01 pm
Howdy, Leggs, Sassy & kimmie!
disco — Did I hear you offer to babysit?
disco
February 26th, 2013
4:03 pm
swiss – I don’t know what you heard. lol. I just had a conversation with a friend re babysitting. essentially my rule is if I can’t hit your kid, I can’t watch your kid. your kid is still not hitting age so I guess I won’t be babysitting.
Sassy Me...Make it do what it do ;-)
February 26th, 2013
4:13 pm
Heeeeey daddy swiss!!
Sassy Me...Make it do what it do ;-)
February 26th, 2013
4:14 pm
essentially my rule is if I can’t hit your kid, I can’t watch your kid. your kid is still not hitting age so I guess I won’t be babysitting.
Well damn….
daddy swiss
February 26th, 2013
4:17 pm
disco — You’re not secretly this guy are you?
disco
February 26th, 2013
4:28 pm
sassy – what? I think that’s a good babysitting rule. lol.
Dirty Bird (Blog Ladies have been holding back)
February 26th, 2013
4:38 pm
Well, well, well looky here, MsAtl and Button have dipped into young dizzle and with Ms. Button seems to have a regular attraction for young dizzle.
@Slim-Nu I know you invent something new in the bedroom everytime you start a new relationship. U GOT skill sexy Slim-nu..
@Disco I am in the right age range for you , in addition I have the body to match since you like the physical look first.
@Leggs….You are too funny Penis Pump….You need a sign stating, If you need a Penis pump, enhancement pills, viagra pills, etc do not apply… lol
Leggs
February 26th, 2013
4:43 pm
It’s the tag line on my personal email, Dirty!
Dirty Bird (Blog Ladies have been holding back)
February 26th, 2013
4:44 pm
The wrap -up:
We find the blog ladies likem young except BluzGirl who wants experience over youth/drilling.
disco
February 26th, 2013
4:45 pm
dirty – why don’t you tell me my age range and physical preferences? go on. I won’t call you out if you are way off. lol.
Dirty Bird (Blog Ladies have been holding back)
February 26th, 2013
4:46 pm
@Leggs you are too funny! These old dudes in the A cannot handle you…
Dirty Bird (Blog Ladies have been holding back)
February 26th, 2013
4:50 pm
@Disco your age range would be 40 to 50 yrs old You want a man who can hold his own financially and you believe that age range should be where a man should be stable. Your physical preference I would say since you are 5ft would be from 5ft9 to 6ft4 medium build, well built arms and legs.
disco
February 26th, 2013
4:53 pm
DB – I think a man should be stable by 30 (and that’s being generous). I think 5’9” is short. heck, regardless of what the “averages” are I think anything under 6 feet is short, anything over is tall. medium build is elusive. sort of like athletic build. what does that mean? built like a jockey? a linebacker? a sumo wrestler. nice try but if you are going to bring it, bring it. lol.
Courtside Seats!!! Caught on the Kiss Cam :)
February 26th, 2013
5:34 pm
I but disco would really put a hurting on a dude if he did not come correct…. Have his azz hiding in the pigeon coop like Chris Tucker……