There is a lot to be said for being cautiously optimistic. Actually, I think a healthy does of cynicism could prevent a lot of heartache for some of us. Those dating misadventures that have some sort of betrayal or deceit usually happen when people are way too trusting. I truly believe some of us are too gullible!
It’s the reason shows like Catfish exist. It’s why someone can have a husband/wife at home, while they date you. I get so fighting mad when people don’t think to ask the right questions. You don’t have to have an interrogation on a date, but if you feel something is off – why not just ask questions outright?
Why do you think so many people are gullible in dating? Are we so ready for a fairytale that we will buy any story that is sold to us?
How can you find a balance between being too gullible and becoming distrustful of everyone?
By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog