What makes a woman sexy?
After Beyonce rocked the halftime show at the Super Bowl, I have heard a lot of people comment about her sex appeal. It’s always so interesting to see what people classify as beautiful and sexy. Especially when it comes to what is sexy for women of color, the standard of beauty seems different.
Many people believe that attractiveness and beauty is subjective, but what about sex appeal? Have you ever met someone who just seem to ooze sex appeal? Something about the way they carried themselves or their confidence that grabs your attention.
What do you consider sexy? What makes a woman sexy? What makes a man sexy? Do you think there is such a thing as being too sexy? Too provocative?
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Celisea
February 7th, 2013
6:57 am
Yes, I have definitely met someone that oooozed sex appeal!!! IMO, as it relates to sex appeal, looks sort of rounds it out last, but on top, for me would be confidence, how they carry themselves, how they hang a suite, chiseled, etc etc etc.
I know I’m not a man but IMO and as I’ve been complimented….even with all my squareness (ha ha ha)…..the same holds true for a woman. The walk, the talk, the confidence….so I’ve been told. Also, for women that possess sex appeal, I wouldn’t equate that to showing skin, again IMO. Being able to wear the heck out of that little black dress or suit is where it’s at (yes, “at”). IMO, t & a hanging out does NOT equate to sexy. But if that’s how you define sexy, do you
And again, yes yes, I’ve seen a couple of brothers make me do the exorcist’s head spin (lol) cause they had going on….from the suit hanging just right, down to their shoes being on point (hitting the wrists just right, pants hitting the shoes just right), back up to the perfect hairline, to just being on top of theirs and how they handle their business….. Whew buddy and IJS lololol
Anyhoo, I have client visits today and need to grab a cab in about 45 minutes. I have to meet up with my portfolio team for heading out. I’z tired this morning but I’ll be alright. Had a blast last night. Annnnd I got in 3 miles on the treadmill when I got back to the hotel
I’m excited about hanging out tonight. It’s gonna be fun!!!
Celisea
February 7th, 2013
7:00 am
suit not suite…
Whoever mentioned the Alofts, I couldn’t do it. It was a bit too “trendy” for my taste. There goes my squarenss again…lolololol Just funning.
Toodles!
LeeH1
February 7th, 2013
8:32 am
Energy and confidence are twos sexy attributes. Those women, whatever their color, who are energetic and confident are sexualy appealing. Those women who are depressed and lack energy, no matter how attractive, are not sexy. Beyonce is energetic in her movements, and confidence in the way she holds herself and her posture. That makes her, and any woman, sexy.
Exiled
February 7th, 2013
8:43 am
What makes a woamn sexxeeeey?
her dress(all her clothes fit her in some kinda sexxy way_undescribable),her walk,her ohh, soo sexxy figure,good, and measured booteey’ (not too much hanging out too bigg,like its contrived),…her demeanor…u lay eyes on her,u just wanna ugghhhh….say come her’ babey..lemme see ur…her back..ughh,my God…..a sexxy woman to me is that woman that seems toi have the right outfit in her wadrobe coz All the damn time is see her,she is on point…….!!
A non sexxy woman, seems to be dressed on a Recession budget most times!
IMissAtlanta
February 7th, 2013
8:47 am
Im not a man, but from my perspective and what my husband tells me.. its all about how you carry yourself. By showing clevage, one doesn’t become attractive. I feel attractive when I am feeling confident and feel that I look like I’m all that a bag of doritos. Mind you, Im not wearing a revealing attire necessarily.
There are times however, when my husband will ask me to wear “those” jeans that make my booty look great and wear a tank top etc etc.. when we are about to go hangout with his friends.
IMissAtlanta
February 7th, 2013
8:48 am
One more thing… a woman who can take care of herself is also deemed to be attractive
Button
February 7th, 2013
8:54 am
What makes a man sexy? his brains, his confidence, his culinary skills, and a goatee.
Do you think there is such a thing as being too sexy? never heard anybody complaining about that.
Too provocative? yes I call it as being sleazy.
disco
February 7th, 2013
9:12 am
good morning.
celisea – I didn’t think aloft would suit you. lol. you are right it is trendy. extremely trendy. almost to the point of being young and hip hop-py. I think that’s why they can get away with those microscopic rooms. they make it up for it with happy hour and pool tables and karaoke, etc.
on topic – I knew confidence was going to get put out there early and while it plays a part I always think of that overly confident somebody who ain’t got a daggone thing going on but still you can’t tell them nothing.
button – is there such a thing as too sexy? heck yeah and I have met it. too sexy is a dangerous thing. too sexy might make you ignore a whole bunch of bells and whistles that you might not ordinarily ignore.
Courtside Seats!!! Caught on the Kiss Cam :)
February 7th, 2013
9:13 am
Morning peeps….
What makes a woman sexy….. lets start with her walk…Then her voice…Eyes are cool too, but the walk and the voice tells me right away if I am prepared to take a shot at her….
SlimNu - Out from under a rock
February 7th, 2013
9:14 am
Button – I was reading your list of what makes a man sexy and I didn’t see that last one coming, Goatee.lol But my oh my, do I love a man with a goatee
disco
February 7th, 2013
9:17 am
slim – re the goatee. in general I can take it or leave it but for some reason a sexy Puerto Rican or Dominican man with a goatee… ooh-wee. those men most def rock the goatee like nobody’s business.
Bluzgirl
February 7th, 2013
9:22 am
I agree that confidence (but not over confidence) makes a person sexy. I’m not the most attractive woman, but the nights that I’ve felt super confident are the nights I’ve gotten the most attention, whether dressed up or just in jeans and a t-shirt…
Bluzgirl
February 7th, 2013
9:24 am
I love a nice goatee on the right man…for some reason, I tend to gravitate to bald men with a goatee!!! The ex had long hair and just didn’t look right with a goatee…I should have known then! LOL!
SlimNu - Out from under a rock
February 7th, 2013
9:38 am
A goatee with a little salt-n-pepper going on is quite nice too
Now as far as sexiness for a woman, showing all your goodies or wearing stuff CLEARLY too small for you or not age appropriate is sooooo not sexy to me. Take Keyshia Coles mother for instance, I think she dresses too young looking for her age.
disco
February 7th, 2013
9:43 am
slim – don’t get me started on a list of “NOTS” this morning. lol. you know that’s right up my alley.
Button
February 7th, 2013
9:57 am
lol @disco I haven’t seen too sexy, my eyes might can’t handle it.
^5 for the goatee! it’s so masculine and sexy, double trouble for me.
SlimNu - Out from under a rock
February 7th, 2013
9:59 am
disco – lol
disco
February 7th, 2013
10:08 am
button – let me tell you about too sexy. the guy that recently advised me that he has a girlfriend is too sexy. so sexy that I’ve even pondered encouraging the man to go home, start a fight and break up with his girlfriend for two days. just two days. lol. granted I’ve said nothing but the fact that I’ve contemplated it indicates that he is just too sexy.
slim – well since things have fallen off let’s talk about what’s sexy and what’s not.
tattoo on a nicely muscled bicep – sexy. tattoo on one’s face – not sexy.
pretty, straight, white teeth – sexy. scattered, crooked, chipped, missing teeth – not sexy.
kimmie
February 7th, 2013
10:08 am
Morning All!!!
Yes, I love confidence and dare I say it, swag, in a man. Some just have a presence about them that I cannot describe. They may not be considered handsome by most standards, but it’s all in how they work with what they have. They command respect yet at the same time put everyone around them at ease. Part of that self-confidence is not making the women they deal with feel they have to dumb themselves down to build him up or stroke his ego. I love intelligent men. They know their stuff, but they don’t talk down or make others that might not be as knowledgable on something feel bad.
I love muscular arms and chests on men. Where you can see the rips under a well-tailored dress shirt! Like my hubs!
disco
February 7th, 2013
10:13 am
smelling fresh like soap and a good masculine fragrance – sexy. smelling like what my grandma used to refer to as simply “outdoors” – not sexy.
being caressed by strong hands – sexy. being cut up by hard, calloused hands – not sexy.
SlimNu - Out from under a rock
February 7th, 2013
10:16 am
On the topic of tattoo’s, I do not dig the neck tattoo’s or being covered in them. Don’t dig the long finger nails on a dude, holding onto cornrolls at this day in time, or looking unkempt in general
Leggs
February 7th, 2013
10:25 am
Morning.
I’ve been told I’m sexy by the way I walk, my confidence, the way I wear my clothes and it helps that I’m cute (lol). Yeah, I said it.
Now, Beyonce is very sexy and a beautiful woman. Her marketing team is on point marketing her that way. However, she’s a wife and now a mom. IMO, she needs to tone down the puddy thrusts!
SlimNu ~ forget about Keyisha Cole’s mom, look at Jim Jones mother! I think his first name is Jim (Chrissy and Mr. Jones)
Sassy Me...Feeling like New ;-)
February 7th, 2013
10:27 am
being caressed by strong hands – sexy. being cut up by hard, calloused hands – not sexy.
True!!
kimmie
February 7th, 2013
10:34 am
smelling fresh like soap and a good masculine fragrance – sexy.
Amen Disco!!
Bluzgirl
February 7th, 2013
10:40 am
I think I’m one of the few people who didn’t think Beyonce looked all that great. I really don’t think her outfit flattered her. She looked huge next to her dancers and the Destiny’s Child girls…Just my opinion
Leggs
February 7th, 2013
10:40 am
I agree disco!
Bluzgirl
February 7th, 2013
10:41 am
Now…the hard, calloused hands may not feel good, but it can be sexy to be with a man who works hard with their hands!
SlimNu - Out from under a rock
February 7th, 2013
10:44 am
Leggs – Yeah, I forgot about Jim’s mother….she sounds like Weezie from the Jefferson’s to the 10th power
Button
February 7th, 2013
10:45 am
Not a fan of tattoos, look dingy dirty.
I agree Bluzgirl Beyonce is not sexy, she’s an entertainer who throws her waist around gyrating like a wilderbeast. not sexy at all. to me she tries too hard jmo.
disco
February 7th, 2013
10:46 am
bluz – I did not watch the superbowl or the halftime show and have yet to even see any clips but the fact that you thought beyonce looked huge is one of those cultural things. you know (generally speaking I know there are exceptions) our folks go more for thick. the guys want thick and the girls want to be thick. here I go with my momma-isms again but “nobody wants a bone but a dog and even a dog wants a little bit of meat sometimes”.
hey leggs. kimmie.
Leggs
February 7th, 2013
10:49 am
Bluz ~ you are the epitome of what’s wrong with people. To even use the word “huge” in describing how she looked next to anybody is blasphemy.
Bluzgirl
February 7th, 2013
10:50 am
I get it that she’s thick and generally looks pretty good, but the outfit she was wearing wasn’t flattering in my opinion. Some think it was super sexy. She does have a nice body, but what she was wearing made her look bigger than she is, I think…
Leggs
February 7th, 2013
10:51 am
“… throws her waist around gyrating like a wilderbeast.” – Now, that was funny.
HEY DISCO!!
Button
February 7th, 2013
10:53 am
Letter from a guy — My girlfriend and I have been seeing each other for four months. When we started dating she told me she usually doesn’t go for guys as physically attractive as me, which I found odd. She is very cute but not the hottest girl I’ve dated. Her intelligence, personality, and character are why I’ve fallen for her. Things have been great until the last two weeks when she started becoming more distant and less affectionate toward me. Last weekend she went with her single girlfriends to the Caribbean for a brief vacation. I barely heard from her the week after she got back, but we both have demanding jobs. I ordered flowers to be delivered to her office. She then called me and said she no longer wants to be in a relationship, and that I’m way more attractive then her previous partners. I asked had I done anything wrong and she replied I’ve been perfect. But she said while on vacation she barely missed me. She said she fears if we continue, I’ll find someone better looking, or worse cheat on her like her last boyfriend. I asked her to reconsider since a weekend of no communication is too short a time to make such a huge decision and she agreed. I feel like I am being dumped based on my looks. I don’t want to lose her but I wonder if it’s worth it to get back together if she reconsiders. Do her girlfriends have something do with this? What should I do?
SlimNu - Out from under a rock
February 7th, 2013
10:54 am
Bluz – She’s a curvy woman….not every chick is meant to be rail thin like Michelle lol
disco
February 7th, 2013
10:55 am
leggs – what was wrong with bluz saying huge? I’m not agreeing that beyonce is or looks huge but goodness knows there are some folks out there that I have called huge (and worse).
Button
February 7th, 2013
10:55 am
I see wherer Bluzgirl is coming from, I said the same thing to myself. She has some huge hips/thighs and her outfit didn’t do her any justice. Maybe she was going for that look for all we know. it is what it is.
Bluzgirl
February 7th, 2013
10:56 am
Many folks would call me huge…I’m not saying that Beyonce is huge, but the outfit made her look it…
kimmie
February 7th, 2013
10:57 am
Disco – I agree, cultural.
Beyonce is all that and a bag of chips to me! I can appreciate what she offeres in her own right. Her tunes are catchy and hip-hop and fun. I like the fact that she’s empowering by hiring women musicians and yeah, she’s sexy as H and I’m straight as they come! I hate when folks try to compare her to others, especially singers in a totally different musical category. It’s room at the top for many different kinds.
SlimNu - Out from under a rock
February 7th, 2013
10:57 am
gyrating like a wilderbeast
I enjoyed the half-time show…The way ticket prices are for concerts and such, I wouldn’t regret paying to see her because I know she’s going to go hard the entire show. I this isn’t on the same level but I paid to go see Mike Epps and once to see Kevin Hart and I felt jipped. The shows started late but ended early for the next show. Then he has the nerve to be back in the A already??? Guess he figures he came up pretty good from getting over us suckers just a few months ago. Not falling for that okie doke again.
Button
February 7th, 2013
10:58 am
I did a lil dabb in the fashion industry and there are tricks that you can do to alter your appearance. Take for instance drag queens. They can make a little strony (sp) hip look curvy, and let’s not forget cleavage.
disco
February 7th, 2013
10:59 am
button – dude is a buster. first off I don’t think his letter is legit. I think he’s tooting his own little horn and wanting to gas himself up. perhaps it’s the opposite. perhaps he’s not the most attractive guy she’s ever dated but the least attractive guy she’s ever dated. perhaps she figured she’d give it a shot but decided later for that. perhaps while on vacation she realized she could do better. LOL.
Dynamic
February 7th, 2013
10:59 am
sexy on a man- dress shirts, good credit, the right cologne, a fresh hair cut
Bluzgirl
February 7th, 2013
11:00 am
Button – Wow…that girl has some serious self esteem issues. I’m sure it can be a little difficult to date an extremely attractive man (I don’t know first hand), but sheesh…be excited that he chose you! I had a girlfriend a few years ago who ended up marrying a gorgeous model. He made every woman’s heart skip a beat. She is cute, but they were kind of an odd couple. She had some trust issues because every girl and guy would stare at him when they went out together. She did feel like people were thinking to themselves “what is he doing with her?”. Eventually, she started cheating on him and they lived in separate apartments. I haven’t talked to her in about a year and a half, so I don’t know where they stand now…
kimmie
February 7th, 2013
11:03 am
Slim – My neice went to see her up in VA and she said her show was off the chain.
SlimNu - Out from under a rock
February 7th, 2013
11:07 am
kimmie – I’ve never seen her in concert but when I think about folks that actually entertain during a show, Janet & Michael Jackson rings up there with Beyonce. I’m sure there are others but they come up first for me. Too bad i’ll never see Michael perform…and what’s up with Janey these days anyway?
Leggs
February 7th, 2013
11:09 am
disco ~ what I felt was wrong with it is not necessarily with Bluz but how people tend to focus on a person’s size. The media rips people apart and our children listen to this and take one’s “physical image” to be the end all of everything. Anorexia, Bulimia, Suicide. Words cut deep and although I realize Bluz wasn’t saying that, that is in fact what I heard and felt.
disco
February 7th, 2013
11:10 am
kimmie – speaking of folks comparing beyonce. the other day on the radio someone said she is the modern day tina turner. thinking about it I said I can get with that comparison.
slim – B is supposed to tour this year. I’d always heard mike epps wasn’t worth the money. surprised to hear that about Kevin hart.
Button
February 7th, 2013
11:11 am
Bluz I don’t know the guy. It’s a letter I got from another site.
kimmie
February 7th, 2013
11:12 am
Girl, when it comes to shows, I only go top shelf unless I am going to something at a smaller venue, like a jazz show at Chastain. I saw MJ 5 times, 3 with his brothers and it does not get any better! You got every last penny worth, like a 2 hour long video, dancers, stage show, sound on point, the whole nine! Same goes for Janet, Prince & Sade. Jill Scott & Maxwell were good too. I judge all shows on those standards now, so Beyonce is the next one I see that could bring it.
Leggs
February 7th, 2013
11:14 am
Button ~ that girl is bonkers. Her last bf did a number on her by cheating. Her low level of self esteem is going to crush her as she moves along in life. Who in their right mind throws away an attractive man, treats her wonderfully, and is into her with nothing wrong with the relationship other than he’s attractive?
kimmie
February 7th, 2013
11:15 am
Disco – Yeah, I can see that comparison too. But someone on some blog I was reading was trying to compare her to Aretha & Gladys Knight and someone even threw Lena Horne in there – I’m like “be serious, totally different music genres!”.
disco
February 7th, 2013
11:16 am
leggs – okay. I just wasn’t sure where your statement came from or where you were going with it.
Button
February 7th, 2013
11:18 am
B-I-N-G-O! @ LEGGS! That’s what I said to myself while I was reading the letter. Who throws away an attractive guy and he treats her right? Nobody sane!
Leggs
February 7th, 2013
11:19 am
kimmie ~ I took my niece to see Janet Jackson Rhythm Nation Tour when it came to Atlanta. You’re right, she’s a dynamic performer.
Dynamic
February 7th, 2013
11:19 am
sexy on a man- a man that knows how and when to take control
SlimNu - Out from under a rock
February 7th, 2013
11:20 am
disco – Kevin Hart is funny but it’s like he didn’t spend a whole lot of time during his session. I would go to another one of his shows before I would Mike Epps. Other folks said the same thing about him too lol Oh well.
kimmie
February 7th, 2013
11:33 am
But she said while on vacation she barely missed me.
This is the line in Button’s letter that stuck out to me. Regardless of all the “he’s more attractive” stuff, she’s just not feeling him for whatever reason. I’m kinda with Disco on this too, I think dude is tooting his own horn, a little too much for my taste. He might be one of those dudes that are in the mirror more than most women and that could have turned her off. I know it would have turned me off, a dude that’s just too “pretty” and knows it. That’s the vibe I got from the letter.
Leggs
February 7th, 2013
11:35 am
A good smelling man who wears his clothes well is sexy to me. How he treats his friends and family is sexy to me.
Dirty Birds (Wearing Scuba Gear today)
February 7th, 2013
11:36 am
Hello,
I think a really nice smile on a women is very sexy. The smell, the walk and a women who is in good physical shape that wear clothes that fit her body is very sexy. Some women can rock a short hairstyle and look very sexy. I like thick, thin and in between.
Beyonce is a very sexy woman with a dynamic personality and a will to succeed. Me likey her a lot!
kimmie
February 7th, 2013
11:39 am
Pretty isn’t always with pretty, if you really think about it. Most really good-looking men I don’t see out with what I would consider their female equal in the looks department. She may be at the most very cute, most times she’s average, but I see very few equally stunning together. Those women seem to do just fine, so I don’t know what dude in letter problem is.
abc
February 7th, 2013
11:41 am
Aside from obvious matters of appearance, I don’t think sex appeal is a tangible thing that is measurable. What makes someone a movie star? It isn’t their acting talent; it isn’t necessarily even their good looks; I don’t think you can really say what makes you want to watch them. It’s just there, you just do, it’s intangible.
Likewise with music. Aside from idiomatic or genre preferences, what makes you want to listen to some more than others? It’s not to do with their technical abilities. It’s intangible.
What makes you hot for that one rather than the other? Who cares? You just do.
Button
February 7th, 2013
11:42 am
Letter from unspeakable — not me—- My boyfriend and I have been dating for six months but have known each other for more than two years. I am black and he is white. This has never been a problem and our parents, families, and friends are fully supportive of our relationship. Amazingly, we have had precious few arguments or problems. Until now. In a moment of extreme frustration, my boyfriend used the “N-word” in reference to one of my friends. We were alone so no one else heard the comment. I was stunned, shocked, and appalled. I immediately left the room because I was so disturbed. It is a word that neither I nor my family or friends use in any sort of context because I have been raised to view it as incredibly offensive. He came to me and apologized profusely and had tears in his eyes while doing so. I accepted his apology because it was completely out of character for him, but I am now questioning our relationship. What do you think?
kimmie
February 7th, 2013
11:44 am
It’s just there, you just do, it’s intangible.
abc – I agree.
disco
February 7th, 2013
11:47 am
abc – I agree as well but heck, it’s fun trying to put a finger on it.
disco
February 7th, 2013
11:50 am
abc / kimmie – for instance I have a thing for adam sandler. he’s not that cute. he’s not even that funny. most of his movies are corny as heck (although I truly love big daddy). still there is something about adam sandler that I just love.
kimmie
February 7th, 2013
11:50 am
Button – I’m not touching that one.
kimmie
February 7th, 2013
11:52 am
Disco – That reminds me of Exiled’s crush on Diane Sawyer!LOL!!
Leggs
February 7th, 2013
11:53 am
I don’t use the N-word, never called another person one. Had to correct a few when it’s been used in my presence. Don’t know why some think it’s a term of endearment. My N…… BS!
Bluzgirl
February 7th, 2013
11:54 am
I’ve always had the hots for Steve Buscimi and get made fun of all the time! I know he’s not very attractive, but there’s just something…
Exiled
February 7th, 2013
11:54 am
she needs to tone down the puddy thrusts!
@Leggs…is the puddy thrust a “come smash this” sign resereved for single ladies ?
any meaningg in the puddy thrust?
disco
February 7th, 2013
11:56 am
leggs – it’s funny that you typed “my N”. just this morning driving in I was thinking about a cousin of mine who got a dog last year and named it “my N”. I was thinking I hadn’t heard anything about the dog lately and needed to ask if they still had it. lol.
kimmie
February 7th, 2013
11:56 am
Bluz – Girl, you wrong for that, he looks like a corpse!! But hey, you like what you like!!!
Exiled
February 7th, 2013
11:59 am
Beyonce looked real sexxy too me…I tbhought Kelly looked a little on the fat side,especially her thighs..she is still fine by me though..i rate her more beautiful than Bee..Bee has more resources and puts herself real nice though……both girls are good by me….
Now Michelle Williams..the gospel chic….chic needs some chicken,seriously…
Exiled
February 7th, 2013
12:00 pm
to me
Bluzgirl
February 7th, 2013
12:03 pm
kimmie – Like I said, I can’t explain it because I know he is funny looking, but I just have a thing for him! Maybe it’s more of his characters he has played. Who knows? LOL
disco
February 7th, 2013
12:04 pm
kimmie – I think Nicole kiddman looks like a corpse. all the time. every time I’ve seen her ever. lol.
Exiled
February 7th, 2013
12:04 pm
@Button..ur 10:53….why would a dude want a chic to reconsider her decision to dump u? that boggles my mind.
If somebody says they dont want to be with u anymore(men or woman) just take it on the chin and KIM…..
now, i cant lie that i havent even cajoled a chic to be with me after she said NO….but it wasnt about love,it was puddy I was after….
Exiled
February 7th, 2013
12:07 pm
@Disco..AMEN…to 12:04!!!
which makes Tom Cruise kinda real suspect..i mean what were u thinking, if not to because he wanted to way lay the gay whisper rumours? ..look at me, im married
kimmie
February 7th, 2013
12:09 pm
I can think of a few every day guys I’ve known that, while not what most would consider handsome, just had that certain something I like.
I’m trying to come up with a singer/actor/athlete in the same category, but all of them end up being cute!LOL!!
kimmie
February 7th, 2013
12:13 pm
Exiled – Him being married to her doesn’t make him suspect in my book. She doesn’t count as attractive in our book, but to some, alot, she is. Her new hubby is kinda cute in a scruffy way himself, Keith Urban.
I’ve just never liked Tom Cruise, so any and everything makes him suspect in my book though. Especially that Scientology weirdness!
Leggs
February 7th, 2013
12:13 pm
disco ~ I have to second your comment on Nicole Kidman. Her alabaster skin looks painful (lol).
Loved her in “The Others.” I thought she fit that role nicely with her pasty looking skin.
Leggs
February 7th, 2013
12:17 pm
That has got to be the oddest name I’ve ever heard for a dog, disco.
chevygal
February 7th, 2013
12:17 pm
I think what makes a man sexy is all in how he make me feel.
Leggs
February 7th, 2013
12:24 pm
chevygal ~ you nailed it!
disco
February 7th, 2013
12:27 pm
not to bring it back to beyonce but I just saw a pic and I’m curious. anyone know about how tall she is? how much she weighs? measurements? anything? I know size is relative but I’m thinking bluz is way off by thinking she looks huge.
SlimNu - Out from under a rock
February 7th, 2013
12:33 pm
Ex – I know i’m a small chick but the way Michelle carries herself comes off ‘fragile’ to me…but some may see it as dainty lol
chevygal
February 7th, 2013
12:36 pm
Thanks Leggs…that’s what matters.
Bluzgirl
February 7th, 2013
12:39 pm
Seems like in the pics, she doesn’t look quite as big, but if you pull up video, maybe you’ll see what I’m talking about? Again…it’s just my opinion and not everyone shares it. I was talking to my mom on the phone when it was on and we both agreed that she should not have worn that outfit because it didn’t flatter her. I know she has a nice body, but just didn’t quite look right in that…
Leggs
February 7th, 2013
12:42 pm
I felt Kelly stole the show. She looked sexier than ever.
Ex, I had to laugh and have to agree with you, Michelle needs some chicken (lol).
disco
February 7th, 2013
12:42 pm
bluz – I wasn’t knocking your judgment. you are entitled to it. I’m trying to size myself up. see if I’m beyonce-esque. lol. I’ve passed a mirror or two or three and had to double take “dang. that all me”? I’m sure she’s taller than I am (who isn’t?)
Exiled
February 7th, 2013
1:00 pm
Disco..Bdeyonce’s thighs look like theyre big but not the big Button is referring to..if Beyonce were to have any deficiency on her,she wld hide it real well…she comes across to me as someone with a nice body.
Now leme askuall this..how did u see Jennifer Hudson..good,akward what.?? opinions…..? I know she has lost some weight but to me,she looks better when her weight is more than what she looks now…not too much but still….
A think Jennifer dont look good to me..
Exiled
February 7th, 2013
1:01 pm
I mant ” a thin Jenniffer”
cba
February 7th, 2013
1:14 pm
Beyonce will be in the ATL (Gwinnett) in July. Tickets go on sale this month.
Bluzgirl
February 7th, 2013
1:15 pm
Ex – I think Jennifer looked better with some more meat on her bones!
Leggs
February 7th, 2013
1:16 pm
Time for me to play and try to win. Haven’t been liking the prizes lately Didn’t want to have lunch with Uncle Charlie, and didn’t want to go see Alicia Keys.
Bluzgirl
February 7th, 2013
1:18 pm
I’ll probably sign up to work that show so I can see how she is…
Leggs
February 7th, 2013
1:21 pm
Bluz ~ I was at Alliance Theatre last week and I thought of you in terms of registering to volunteer so I can see some shows for free.
cba
February 7th, 2013
1:29 pm
Leggs~ I think one my friends is a little pissed with me because I said Beyonce is more of an entertainer/performer than a vocalist; sorta like Janet in her heyday. I said Alicia sings better than she performs/entertains. She said I like AK because she’s high yellow but I told her they both are in the “red bone” category. I think India Arie is a better vocalist than both….shot that theory down lol.
The best comment I read about AK singing the national anthem is that she did stand up
cba
February 7th, 2013
1:30 pm
DIDN’T
Button
February 7th, 2013
1:34 pm
@ Exile – huh? by my eyes she has big thighs, whether it was an illusion to make them appear that way or not @ SB it was HUGH!
Leggs
February 7th, 2013
1:38 pm
I agree with Bey being an entertainer. Her voice has improved tremendously since she’s launched her solo career.
Exiled
February 7th, 2013
1:45 pm
Button..u jealous!
they look big coz she flaunts them..they aint big…actually,to us dudes, ALL chics look big in the thighs anyway coz flaunting them thighs makes our eyes …haaaa,drooling….
Bey’s thighs are ok..why, u not female? why u drooling on Bey’s thighs anyway…u switch?
Bluzgirl
February 7th, 2013
1:53 pm
I’ve never been a fan of Beyonce’s voice…I like some songs, but just not crazy about her. She does know how to work it, though!
Leggs – It is fun getting to work shows that I would never be able to afford to work. Tonight, I’m working MMA at Gwinnett Arena and I’m kind of dreading it because it will be a late night…
kimmie
February 7th, 2013
2:02 pm
I like JHud slimmer. I don’t want her to lose too much weight, but before she looked uncomfortble in her clothes, like she was bloated. Now she seems happier and like she just feels good about herself and her health. She dresses more stylish also.
I’ve never been a fan of her singing, however. She yells and sounds hard to me.
Now Kelly, I read where she’s been working with a personal trainer for the last 3 years, so her arms and thighs are more cut than before. Those leather shorts she wore at the halftime show made her thighs look bigger.
I actually read Michelle admitted to suffering from some depression. She may not be eating much, tho she’s always been on the slim side.
Exiled!
February 7th, 2013
2:06 pm
@Kimmie..u proly confirmed it coz Michelle didn’t look happy..her frail look also was obvious to me.
Ok no more jokes about her then.
Kelly has a better voice than Beyonce. Beyonce is a better entertainer.
disco
February 7th, 2013
2:12 pm
I’m not much of an Alicia keys fan. I respect her talent, I’m just not feeling her that much.
beyonce has grown on me more in recent years.
I like Jennifer Hudson. the weight loss initially made her head look too big but I guess I’ve gotten used to it. lol.
Dirty Birds I am rising up!
February 7th, 2013
2:14 pm
Kelly was looking a little more healthier in the thighs than usually..Kelly and Michelle are really very skinny women, T.V. adds about 10 pounds to your body . Now Kerry Washington is really skinny.
I luv to grip a big ripe bootay and Beyonce possess a big ripe bootay. Yes she does!
Note to self…BluzGirl is going to MMA tonight to work…An opportunity present itself for some water sports after 2pm.
disco
February 7th, 2013
2:16 pm
DB – you are right about Kerry Washington. she and halle berry both have the clavicle thing going on. I’ll put that on my not sexy list. lol.
Button
February 7th, 2013
2:18 pm
wow @ Exile you sound so immature, who said anything about being jealous, why would I be jealous of a woman I know nothing about outside of her performance, heck anybody can swirl/gyrate their hips and spread em eaglel style!
kimmie
February 7th, 2013
2:20 pm
disco – I kinda feel ya on AK. She is super talented, especially on the piano, and I like a lot of her songs, but I never thought she was that great of a singer live. She always sounds like she’s straining a little.
Dirty – Those shorts Kelly had on were made kinda like granny panties, and that particular cut makes everyones thighs look bigger!
Button
February 7th, 2013
2:20 pm
matter of fact I have thick thighs myself, we’ve been cursed with the thick thighs in my family. Wanna see Exile?
Exiled
February 7th, 2013
2:41 pm
@Button..yes, wanna see..got a pic?
Dirty Birds I am rising up for BluzGirl!
February 7th, 2013
2:42 pm
@Button I would like to see if exiled does not want to see.
@Kimmie….A.K. is an great singer, she just has the majic touch.
@Disco…Even though Halle B is thin, I like her a lot, that girl has the freak in her…Yes she does!
disco
February 7th, 2013
2:44 pm
DB – freak and crazy are sometimes interchangeable. lol.
kimmie
February 7th, 2013
2:45 pm
Dirty – To me, AK can sing, just not great LIVE.
disco
February 7th, 2013
2:48 pm
a friend of mine has girl on fire (or whatever it’s called) on her phone. it irks the heck out of me when I call her. I urged my friend to change her ringtone but my friend ain’t thinking about me. needless to say, I do not like that song.
Bluzgirl
February 7th, 2013
2:50 pm
Dirty – You can keep on rising up for me, but that don’t mean I’m gonna do anything…
Exiled
February 7th, 2013
2:55 pm
@Button, dont get me glued to the screen like a troll..
waiting on pic(s) 
hurry..takpat78@gmail.com
@DirtyB..u jealous..u wanna know a man with sex appeal…..Exiled..hisself, Yes sir!
kimmie
February 7th, 2013
2:55 pm
Disco – Guess what song has been going on in my head today?
Melanie Fiona – It’s 4am and my lover won’t answer
Probably somewhere with a dancer!
Exiled
February 7th, 2013
2:56 pm
Dirty..i hope u be lucky to land Bluz…her numerous Osin one sexaul session are legendary and have blog chics green with envy…..
disco
February 7th, 2013
2:57 pm
LOL. ex – you kool and the gang and all and you might even be sexy in your own right but I’d swear you’d probably have to stay quiet to stay sexy. LOL. this coming from me with everyone telling me I talk too much. lol.
kimmie
February 7th, 2013
3:01 pm
Disco – Girl on fire is not my favorite either. But how about one of those idiot radio announcers, can’t remember which, was tripping on her because she sang it at one of the inaugural balls. He said the term “on fire” referred to having an STD, so that was totally inappropriate to sing for the Prez!!
Exiled
February 7th, 2013
3:03 pm
on fire” referred to having an STD
sounds like the announcer wld be Dom Imus and his creaky self..
disco
February 7th, 2013
3:04 pm
I honestly don’t think I’ve liked anything she’s done recently. I think the last AK song I remember liking was “you don’t know my name” (if that’s the name of it – lol). y’all see I don’t like her enough to even know the names of her songs. lol.
Leggs
February 7th, 2013
3:06 pm
Ex ~ did you not sense the sarcasm in her post asking if you wanted to see?? She yanked your chain and you fell for it.
Leggs
February 7th, 2013
3:06 pm
She knew of all people, you would bite (lolololol).
Bluzgirl
February 7th, 2013
3:07 pm
Sorry guys, but I don’t care to hook up with anyone on this blog…when you try that hard without ever meeting me or knowing my true identity, then it makes me question you…
kimmie
February 7th, 2013
3:09 pm
Disco – I liked Unthinkable, that was about a year ago I think.
kimmie
February 7th, 2013
3:10 pm
Exiled – No, it was either Ryan Cameron or someone on the Ricky Smiley show.
Leggs
February 7th, 2013
3:11 pm
AK’s worse performance by far for me was when she sang at Whitney’s funeral. I just knew she was going to rupture a lung or something with all that screaming of the word Angel when she sang…UUGHH!
disco ~ the song you don’t know my name grates my nerves for some reason. Not sure why, but the part when she calls dude up and starts talking irritates me.
Exiled
February 7th, 2013
3:12 pm
@Leggs..i know…but u know u ladies dont tell…(put ur bizz out there) so i knowingly fall for it coz women front big time when there is company.
Disco agrees with me……
reminds me of back in the day..u chat with the lone chic @ the bar as she is buying dranks etc..seems to work..the moment u try to follow up and try isolate her for a dance and some slow dance,she is sitting by the table with a bunch of other girls… and u tap ur girl at the shlder…her ugly friend cork blocks begfore she even responds,”girl, look who is here,she aint talking to u, she got a boyfriend”
feel like smacking her(the friend) mouthing…”I aint talking to ur ugly self,shet it up”
disco
February 7th, 2013
3:13 pm
leggs – I too can do without the talking part but I like the song. I think I can tolerate the talking with the video. isn’t mos def in the video? I like mos def. he’s one of those fellas that’s not really good looking or sexy but you still just like something about him. sort of like Q-tip.
Leggs
February 7th, 2013
3:16 pm
Why haven’t one of the WLB’s given Ex their email address and ask HIM to send a pic of himself.
M Kerry
February 7th, 2013
3:16 pm
Interesting topic. I’ve dated women who have broken up with me because, in their words, “I’m always well-dressed” or “I always wear nice clothes”. I don’t dress in expensive, designer clothes, just well-fitted ones and in colors that complement my skin tone. One girl was said she loved it when I wore a t-shirt with holes and jeans with holes (I purposely tore a couple of holes in an old t-shirt since she was giving me a hard time about the way I dressed).
I never understood that. Anyone want to enlighten me? Seriously!
kimmie
February 7th, 2013
3:16 pm
Leggs – So you think we could get togeder outside da restaurant? Cause I do look a lot different outside my uniform!
Leggs
February 7th, 2013
3:18 pm
OMG that was funny, “sort of like a Q-tip.” You are CRAZY!
disco
February 7th, 2013
3:18 pm
kimmie – lol. you funny. she was hooking old boy’s hot chocolate up and everything and she still couldn’t get no play. ninjaz. lol.
kimmie
February 7th, 2013
3:18 pm
colors that complement my skin tone
Kerry – Sounds a little suspect, a little feminine if you ask me! That’s probably why they dumped you!
Leggs
February 7th, 2013
3:19 pm
Yeah, it’s me, the waitress with the braids….UUUGGGHHHH to all of it!
disco
February 7th, 2013
3:19 pm
leggs – what? I like q-tip. he had me walking around thinking I was a vivrant thang.
kimmie
February 7th, 2013
3:22 pm
Leggs/Disco –
Disco – I like Mos Def too!!
Celisea
February 7th, 2013
3:25 pm
What’s crackalackin in here? Folks still tryna hook up huh? We need to ban that type of activity from this blog….lol Lawd Jesus
On Beyonce being talented. I can’t say I’m her biggest fan, but I gotta say, she’s got some pipes on her. She’s a natural talent. Grant it, I still say all the skimply outfits and tail shaking is a part of her, her image and what she’s know for. But, aside from that and just plain ole sitting still….SHE CAN SANG!!! Now if all she did was shake in the skimpy and couldn’t sing, that would be awholenuther story.
Alicia Keys, IMO is talented instrumentally, but she’s not all that great when it comes to singing.
Jennifer Hudson, is another that can SANG!!! Sometimes she’s leaning towards “yelling” and sort of grates on my nerves, but calmly singing…yeah, she’s got it
What else?
Button
February 7th, 2013
3:25 pm
Exile do you really think I’m going to send a total stranger a pic of my thighs?? c’mon man get real!
Exiled
February 7th, 2013
3:30 pm
@Leggs..i have send some pics…to some undisclosed locations of WLBs..not many but few…
I handle that bizz like i handle ur social security number..so any WLBs intending to interract with ur boy will have that info handled with utmost confidentiality….
Exiled
February 7th, 2013
3:31 pm
@Button…no..but uummmm..semd me what u think is appropriate…..can i see a face,if not a thigh?
(Ex is persistent!)
kimmie
February 7th, 2013
3:33 pm
I thought all of it was a joke, the requests for pics & hooking up and all!!!LOL!!!
Exiled
February 7th, 2013
3:34 pm
with this rain,im craving for some roastred nutts
M Kerry
February 7th, 2013
3:35 pm
kimmie, nothing like that. I usually wear light (not baby) blue and white shirts, no loud colors or patterns.
Leggs
February 7th, 2013
3:40 pm
Someone broke up with you because you were “always dressed.” Second foolish thing I’ve read today!
Ex ~ did you send a pic of yourself? You know, there’s a slew of “cat fishing” going on.
disco ~ I like Mos Def too. He seems down to earth.
cba
February 7th, 2013
3:40 pm
roast red nutts =nutts on fiiiiiire???
Leggs
February 7th, 2013
3:42 pm
kimmie ~ Ex never jokes about pics. He’s serious. He wants to see something, anything.
Now the hook up requests I feel are jokey jokes.
kimmie
February 7th, 2013
3:44 pm
Kerry – I just don’t hear many MEN talking about “complimenting their skin tone”. I like a well-dressed man myself, not the bad-boy rapper thing, but at the same time I don’t want a guy that primps more than I do either.
M Kerry
February 7th, 2013
3:50 pm
By “complementing skin tone” I meant, for example, browns look good on a light brown skin tone like mine, that’s all. Obviously you got the wrong, unintended message… :=)
Exiled!
February 7th, 2013
3:51 pm
Leggs,I have actually send pics of me or and my family to some.
It has happened.
I have actually send a pic of me and Queen to Swiss and he has done same….
Dirty Birds I am rising up for BluzGirl!
February 7th, 2013
3:51 pm
M-Kerry… You have woke up Celisea she luvs a well dressed man, it smells of success to her. M-Kerry you will need to provide salary information to Celisea as well. lol
@BluzGirl…That would not be the route I would take, I would invite you to have a conversation with me first in order to get to know you. On the blog I like to make jokes,nothing serious. If I was coming after you my approach would be totalling different.
Button
February 7th, 2013
3:51 pm
no face, no thigh, no toe or thumb Exile.
Exiled!
February 7th, 2013
3:52 pm
Now uall other blog chics want to be undercover…
Come on man!
No hook ups yet Kimmie!
Leggs
February 7th, 2013
3:53 pm
cba ~ I’m sitting here saying “leave it alone, Leggs, leave it alone!” And here you come (lol).
disco
February 7th, 2013
3:53 pm
Kerry – not that we are tag teaming but it sounds like you are trying to go back and clean up. even knowing what you meant kimmie was simply stating that most men don’t even talk about such issues. I can’t even imagine hearing a man talking about he was going out looking for a shirt/tie/suit/whatever to compliment his skin tone. he might make sure it compliments his skin tone but he won’t be talking about it.
Leggs
February 7th, 2013
3:54 pm
I’m laughing that Kerry really thought he needed to breakdown what “complement skin tone” meant. That’s rich.
kimmie
February 7th, 2013
3:56 pm
Kerry – I was trying to show you the message THEY, the ladies you refer to, MIGHT be getting from the image you are putting out there. You sound kind of metrosexual, but these ladies seem to be looking for a rougher image.
Exiled!
February 7th, 2013
3:57 pm
Dirty B = Elijah
M Kerry
February 7th, 2013
3:58 pm
Way to get hung up on a small part of the post and ignore the rest of it. No worries. I was just making a light-hearted conversation anyway…
Celisea
February 7th, 2013
3:58 pm
Dirty Bird – Boy stop…lolol I’m vesatile! I loves a man in jeans and a tshirt.
Especially if he’s wearing it well, smelling good, clean shaven. See? 
Actually Dirty, I wasn’t luring and sleeping. I just got back and logged in. Now, I gotta run.
Night folks!
kimmie
February 7th, 2013
3:58 pm
disco – Right. They may say they are looking for a tie to “match” or “go with” a suit or shirt, but not “compliment my skin tone”!
disco
February 7th, 2013
3:59 pm
Kerry – you now how we do. lol.
Button
February 7th, 2013
4:00 pm
T shirt with holes? like cigarette burn holes or knife holes? as for dressing to complement one’s skin tone (for a man) I’ve heard that more than a few times. Just because you haven’t heard it said doesn’t mean it’s not being said or done.
cba
February 7th, 2013
4:01 pm
Leggs~ if you only knew how hard I tried not to……just couldn’t…..maybe I’m sleep deprived
kimmie
February 7th, 2013
4:01 pm
Exiled – Elijah all the way!!!LOL!!!!
disco
February 7th, 2013
4:01 pm
all this skin tone talk reminds me of ced the entertainer talking about the power of the deep dark chocolate brother. lol.
Exiled!
February 7th, 2013
4:01 pm
Maybe Dwight(Atlanta housewives) told Kerry about that complementing of skin tone as he sat in Dwight’s chair?
@Leggs,Disco
Have u heard about this ex cop in L A killing folks coz he was fired and says L A cops are corrupt blah blah.
I am hoping they catch him and he agrees to go to trial
Leggs
February 7th, 2013
4:03 pm
Button ~ you’re mighty confrontational today (lol).
M Kerry
February 7th, 2013
4:03 pm
Sorry, Celisea. I don’t wear expensive, designer clothes, just ones that fit me well. My salary information may not impress you… :=)
disco, “he might make sure it compliments his skin tone but he won’t be talking about it.” What’s the difference between wanting to make sure something compliments one’s skin tone and talking about it?
The fact that he wants to make sure it complements his skin tone doesn’t make him metro, but talking about it does? Talking about it is just putting your thoughts into words. I wanted to give you guys the whole picture, which is why I “talked” about it… :=)
Button
February 7th, 2013
4:03 pm
Nothing like a well dressed man! @KERRY keep doing you and forget the nay sayers. You’ll find someone who will appreciate a well dressed man! I know I do!
disco
February 7th, 2013
4:04 pm
button – agreed but that fact alone may tie in to why these chicks are bailing. like kimmie said, it sounds metro. some chicks may take metro as a sign and dip.
Kerry – by no means am I implying anything. simply speculating. again, you know how we do. lol.
M Kerry
February 7th, 2013
4:04 pm
Button @4:00 pm. Exactly!!! Thank you, sir/ma’am!
Button
February 7th, 2013
4:05 pm
me confrontational @ LEGGS! lol
kimmie
February 7th, 2013
4:05 pm
Just because you haven’t heard it said doesn’t mean it’s not being said or done.
Button – That goes without saying. I can’t imagine a rough-around-the-edges type saying or worrying about such things as complimenting their skin tone, but hey, stranger things have happened!!
SMH
Button
February 7th, 2013
4:06 pm
I’m a MA”AM @ KERRY —-you’re welcome
disco
February 7th, 2013
4:07 pm
here’s a for instance. I know many men who get manicures. I don’t have a problem with men getting manicures. I would likely take issue with a man who was constantly talking about “needing to get his nails done”. lol.
Button
February 7th, 2013
4:08 pm
Imagine that @ KIMMIE it does happen!
Leggs
February 7th, 2013
4:09 pm
Ex ~ that cop is not going to trial. They are going to kill him. He snapped big time!
Leggs
February 7th, 2013
4:11 pm
kimmie
February 7th, 2013
4:11 pm
To be quite frank and honest, I was being nice in saying metro. You asked Kerry, sorry you didn’t like the responses! You wanted insight for why these chicks are bailing, I told you what I thought, just making convo, don’t really care. My man is well-dressed and professional, but metro he’s not, not that there is anything wrong with being metro or otherwise. Metro does come off as a bit effeminate to me, but hey, do you.
kimmie
February 7th, 2013
4:12 pm
I don’t have a problem with men getting manicures. I would likely take issue with a man who was constantly talking about “needing to get his nails done”.
Disco – BINGO!! Post of the day!!!!
Button
February 7th, 2013
4:13 pm
lol. men are people too! most men who take pride in their bodies/appearances and it doesn’t mean he’s metrosexual or any other negative tone if he does.
Leggs
February 7th, 2013
4:18 pm
Yeah, it does. A manly man will be a manly man, conscious of his appearance, but not running his mouth about it. A metrosexual will be concerned with his appearance like a woman would and getting bent out of shape about it!!!
disco
February 7th, 2013
4:20 pm
button – we get it. we do. (excuse me kimmie if I’m speaking for you). all we are saying is that even though men do take care of themselves and their appearance (and that is a good thing) there are certain aspects of that that men just do, they don’t discuss. now, if they do discuss them with friends, family, girlfriends, whatever. that’s all good. but there are some women (myself included and perhaps kimmie) that are going to side eye the fellow that is talking too much about his “fashion and beauty” habits. simply said, it’s not a good look.
Exiled
February 7th, 2013
4:20 pm
Queen actually sugested i go for a minucure with her..she said my hands were rough ..i was trying to get her into a sexual cramp when she felt my rough hands etc…..
I been to the salon with her and sat as the asian ladies did her nails and feet…
I dont see myseldf being in there for my feet though…..
@Leggs..i was hoping maybe we can have Tupac Shakur’s murder solved then…im deflated.
M Kerry
February 7th, 2013
4:20 pm
Ah, Button, I agree! Heterosexual men shouldn’t have to look like crap just because they are sterotyped as metro or gay (in media and in society in general).
kimmie, I just thought you just focused on that one phrase and missed the entire gist of my post, that’s all. By the way, I have never gotten a manicure or pedicure. I cut my own nails (now don’t tell me that’s metro lol)
Button, I haven’t followed your posts so I wasn’t sure if you were male or female, so that you, MA’AM!!!
kimmie
February 7th, 2013
4:23 pm
Well Kerry, with the picture you painted, we gave you what those chicks might be thinking. It sounds like you’re going beyond just taking pride in your appearance, to them. It’s to the point they are suggesting you go to the complete other side of the spectrum. Either that, or you need to upgrade your selection process and find ladies who can appreciate what you have to offer.
We’re pretty blunt in here!
M Kerry
February 7th, 2013
4:24 pm
disco, “there are certain aspects of that that men just do, they don’t discuss”. Those are called men who cannot communicate their thoughts, but I digress. Let’s get back to the topic “what makes a woman sexy”.
disco
February 7th, 2013
4:24 pm
ex – the only thing worse than an ashy, crusty foot is a BIG, ashy crusty foot.
Elijah (Dirty Bird Rise-Up)
February 7th, 2013
4:24 pm
@Exile and Kimmie snoop detectives, you two are funny!
M-Kerry… Dude stop with the matching skin tone comments. Now when you speak to the ladies of the ATL speak with a little force like u are going to make them smoke a cigarette after you bring the dizzle.
I dress well in the office at all times and I am a gentlemen at all times. But sometimes that fine one that likes to be spanked, U just let her know you will bring like no other! YEA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Button
February 7th, 2013
4:25 pm
@ disco who says so? you and kimmie? Is it written in stone anywhere that a man can’t talk about wanting his clothes to complement his skin tone without making him look/sound metrosexual?
kimmie
February 7th, 2013
4:25 pm
Disco/Leggs – You both said it just like I was thinking! Thanks blog sisters!!
Exiled
February 7th, 2013
4:25 pm
M Kerry
February 7th, 2013
4:26 pm
kimmie, wearing a clean white shirt and dark denim is going beyond taking pride in my appearance but wearing an old t-shirt with holes and jeans with holes is appropriate? Hmmm. Anyway, back to original topic…
disco
February 7th, 2013
4:26 pm
guess we are on two teams re this matter. personally, I don’t think it’s a communication issue though. just because a man doesn’t tell me about his “daily constitutional” doesn’t mean he couldn’t if he wanted to. lol.
Button
February 7th, 2013
4:27 pm
Bloop Bloop I’m out — peace!
Leggs
February 7th, 2013
4:27 pm
I think this is the first time in a long time that I’ve listened to a convo where the man is constantly talking about his appearance, neatness, colors complementing his skin tone.
I do have a question, are you red bone, white, bald head?
Exiled
February 7th, 2013
4:28 pm
@Disco…i have been getting my hands cut these past few months..doing errands around the house…my hands are unusually chippy and rough and i forget to lotion them sometimes…..
Elijah (Dirty Bird Rise-Up)
February 7th, 2013
4:28 pm
@Exile get those feet done Man! In fact I am going tomorrow to get them done. The ladies like men with non crusty feet as Disco put it.
M Kerry
February 7th, 2013
4:28 pm
Button “Is it written in stone anywhere that a man can’t talk about wanting his clothes to complement his skin tone without making him look/sound metrosexual?”
Oprah probably did :=)
Elijah, I mentioned it once, as a harmless side-comment.
Leggs
February 7th, 2013
4:29 pm
But of course, kimmie!
cba
February 7th, 2013
4:29 pm
There was a Falcons player from the ‘98 superbowl team, Big Chuck Smith,DE and on his radio show about 5 or 6 years ago said proudly he was metrosexual. I was like
M Kerry
February 7th, 2013
4:29 pm
Leggs, I asked that question once and once only.
Leggs
February 7th, 2013
4:31 pm
“Is it written in stone anywhere that a man can’t talk about wanting his clothes to complement his skin tone without making him look/sound metrosexual?” – Ye[, it’s one of those unwritten laws. You know some of those laws, right?
Leggs
February 7th, 2013
4:32 pm
What question, the one I just asked you??
disco
February 7th, 2013
4:33 pm
leggs – now that you mention it… fellas, is that not a man-law? lol.
kimmie
February 7th, 2013
4:33 pm
Button – Yeah, it’s written in the Man Law handbook!!! LOL!! It’s available in stone, hardback and paperback!
Hey, if you’re cool with chatting up dudes about beauty rituals and such, do you. It’s a turnoff for me, but if you like it, I love it! My man is a manly man that dresses well and takes good care of himself. His appearance speaks for itself, he doesn’t have to say anything.
M Kerry
February 7th, 2013
4:35 pm
Leggs, no, my original, detailed post.
disco
February 7th, 2013
4:36 pm
kimmie – jinx.
M Kerry
February 7th, 2013
4:39 pm
Leggs, my original, detailed post was the only time I talked about dressing. The rest of my posts were trying to explain what I meant. Anyway, nice convering with you guys. Thanks to everyone for their comments and have a great evening!!!
M Kerry
February 7th, 2013
4:41 pm
kimmie, just read your post: “His appearance speaks for itself, he doesn’t have to say anything.” Yes, that’s because you have SEEN him but you have not seen me. That’s why I described in detail, because nobody here has seen me, I thought being as descriptive as possible would make more sense.
Thanks again and nice evening!
Leggs
February 7th, 2013
4:44 pm
Oh, I forgot there was even a question there. Gotcha.
Hope you come back.
disco
February 7th, 2013
4:47 pm
thanks Kerry for carrying the afternoon.
well leggs – we got anything else to hold us over?
Courtside Seats!!! Caught on the Kiss Cam :)
February 7th, 2013
4:49 pm
damn….. Popping in to check the spot and I find out that being “Metro” is really bad in the eyes of the blog ladies…. Not sure that I understand why…But hey If thats where you are then…..
Leggs
February 7th, 2013
4:51 pm
Your mama’s so fat she turned your laptop into an IPad.
disco
February 7th, 2013
4:54 pm
the dozens are always a suitable pastime. lol. your momma’s hair is so short you can read her mind.
disco
February 7th, 2013
4:54 pm
your momma is so fat she jumped in the air and got stuck.
disco
February 7th, 2013
4:57 pm
your momma is so black she leaves fingerprints on charcoal.
Courtside Seats!!! Caught on the Kiss Cam :)
February 7th, 2013
4:59 pm
Ok disco….Here you go….I have a dinner date tonight with a lady I been kinda seeing of and on since November…… W slep together once and it was cool but nothing spectacular. I am going to meet a couple of friends and their wives in Hilton Head this weekend . If Oh girls puts it on me right tonight, I will ask her if she wants to come along….. What do you think????
disco
February 7th, 2013
5:07 pm
what do I think? I think you might as well just ask her to go. you can really take getting some out of the equation because it sounds like to me you don’t want to be the odd man out at Hilton head. besides that, don’t even press for any tonight. trust me, it will be better in Hilton head. something about being away.
Courtside Seats!!! Caught on the Kiss Cam :)
February 7th, 2013
5:30 pm
Kinda what I was thinking…and yeah.. don’t wann be the third wheel….