What makes a woman sexy?
After Beyonce rocked the halftime show at the Super Bowl, I have heard a lot of people comment about her sex appeal. It’s always so interesting to see what people classify as beautiful and sexy. Especially when it comes to what is sexy for women of color, the standard of beauty seems different.
Many people believe that attractiveness and beauty is subjective, but what about sex appeal? Have you ever met someone who just seem to ooze sex appeal? Something about the way they carried themselves or their confidence that grabs your attention.
What do you consider sexy? What makes a woman sexy? What makes a man sexy? Do you think there is such a thing as being too sexy? Too provocative?
By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog
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Button
February 7th, 2013
1:34 pm
@ Exile – huh? by my eyes she has big thighs, whether it was an illusion to make them appear that way or not @ SB it was HUGH!
Leggs
February 7th, 2013
1:38 pm
I agree with Bey being an entertainer. Her voice has improved tremendously since she’s launched her solo career.
Exiled
February 7th, 2013
1:45 pm
Button..u jealous!
they look big coz she flaunts them..they aint big…actually,to us dudes, ALL chics look big in the thighs anyway coz flaunting them thighs makes our eyes …haaaa,drooling….
Bey’s thighs are ok..why, u not female? why u drooling on Bey’s thighs anyway…u switch?
Bluzgirl
February 7th, 2013
1:53 pm
I’ve never been a fan of Beyonce’s voice…I like some songs, but just not crazy about her. She does know how to work it, though!
Leggs – It is fun getting to work shows that I would never be able to afford to work. Tonight, I’m working MMA at Gwinnett Arena and I’m kind of dreading it because it will be a late night…
kimmie
February 7th, 2013
2:02 pm
I like JHud slimmer. I don’t want her to lose too much weight, but before she looked uncomfortble in her clothes, like she was bloated. Now she seems happier and like she just feels good about herself and her health. She dresses more stylish also.
I’ve never been a fan of her singing, however. She yells and sounds hard to me.
Now Kelly, I read where she’s been working with a personal trainer for the last 3 years, so her arms and thighs are more cut than before. Those leather shorts she wore at the halftime show made her thighs look bigger.
I actually read Michelle admitted to suffering from some depression. She may not be eating much, tho she’s always been on the slim side.
Exiled!
February 7th, 2013
2:06 pm
@Kimmie..u proly confirmed it coz Michelle didn’t look happy..her frail look also was obvious to me.
Ok no more jokes about her then.
Kelly has a better voice than Beyonce. Beyonce is a better entertainer.
disco
February 7th, 2013
2:12 pm
I’m not much of an Alicia keys fan. I respect her talent, I’m just not feeling her that much.
beyonce has grown on me more in recent years.
I like Jennifer Hudson. the weight loss initially made her head look too big but I guess I’ve gotten used to it. lol.
Dirty Birds I am rising up!
February 7th, 2013
2:14 pm
Kelly was looking a little more healthier in the thighs than usually..Kelly and Michelle are really very skinny women, T.V. adds about 10 pounds to your body . Now Kerry Washington is really skinny.
I luv to grip a big ripe bootay and Beyonce possess a big ripe bootay. Yes she does!
Note to self…BluzGirl is going to MMA tonight to work…An opportunity present itself for some water sports after 2pm.
disco
February 7th, 2013
2:16 pm
DB – you are right about Kerry Washington. she and halle berry both have the clavicle thing going on. I’ll put that on my not sexy list. lol.
Button
February 7th, 2013
2:18 pm
wow @ Exile you sound so immature, who said anything about being jealous, why would I be jealous of a woman I know nothing about outside of her performance, heck anybody can swirl/gyrate their hips and spread em eaglel style!
kimmie
February 7th, 2013
2:20 pm
disco – I kinda feel ya on AK. She is super talented, especially on the piano, and I like a lot of her songs, but I never thought she was that great of a singer live. She always sounds like she’s straining a little.
Dirty – Those shorts Kelly had on were made kinda like granny panties, and that particular cut makes everyones thighs look bigger!
Button
February 7th, 2013
2:20 pm
matter of fact I have thick thighs myself, we’ve been cursed with the thick thighs in my family. Wanna see Exile?
Exiled
February 7th, 2013
2:41 pm
@Button..yes, wanna see..got a pic?
Dirty Birds I am rising up for BluzGirl!
February 7th, 2013
2:42 pm
@Button I would like to see if exiled does not want to see.
@Kimmie….A.K. is an great singer, she just has the majic touch.
@Disco…Even though Halle B is thin, I like her a lot, that girl has the freak in her…Yes she does!
disco
February 7th, 2013
2:44 pm
DB – freak and crazy are sometimes interchangeable. lol.
kimmie
February 7th, 2013
2:45 pm
Dirty – To me, AK can sing, just not great LIVE.
disco
February 7th, 2013
2:48 pm
a friend of mine has girl on fire (or whatever it’s called) on her phone. it irks the heck out of me when I call her. I urged my friend to change her ringtone but my friend ain’t thinking about me. needless to say, I do not like that song.
Bluzgirl
February 7th, 2013
2:50 pm
Dirty – You can keep on rising up for me, but that don’t mean I’m gonna do anything…
Exiled
February 7th, 2013
2:55 pm
@Button, dont get me glued to the screen like a troll..
waiting on pic(s) 
hurry..takpat78@gmail.com
@DirtyB..u jealous..u wanna know a man with sex appeal…..Exiled..hisself, Yes sir!
kimmie
February 7th, 2013
2:55 pm
Disco – Guess what song has been going on in my head today?
Melanie Fiona – It’s 4am and my lover won’t answer
Probably somewhere with a dancer!
Exiled
February 7th, 2013
2:56 pm
Dirty..i hope u be lucky to land Bluz…her numerous Osin one sexaul session are legendary and have blog chics green with envy…..
disco
February 7th, 2013
2:57 pm
LOL. ex – you kool and the gang and all and you might even be sexy in your own right but I’d swear you’d probably have to stay quiet to stay sexy. LOL. this coming from me with everyone telling me I talk too much. lol.
kimmie
February 7th, 2013
3:01 pm
Disco – Girl on fire is not my favorite either. But how about one of those idiot radio announcers, can’t remember which, was tripping on her because she sang it at one of the inaugural balls. He said the term “on fire” referred to having an STD, so that was totally inappropriate to sing for the Prez!!
Exiled
February 7th, 2013
3:03 pm
on fire” referred to having an STD
sounds like the announcer wld be Dom Imus and his creaky self..
disco
February 7th, 2013
3:04 pm
I honestly don’t think I’ve liked anything she’s done recently. I think the last AK song I remember liking was “you don’t know my name” (if that’s the name of it – lol). y’all see I don’t like her enough to even know the names of her songs. lol.
Leggs
February 7th, 2013
3:06 pm
Ex ~ did you not sense the sarcasm in her post asking if you wanted to see?? She yanked your chain and you fell for it.
Leggs
February 7th, 2013
3:06 pm
She knew of all people, you would bite (lolololol).
Bluzgirl
February 7th, 2013
3:07 pm
Sorry guys, but I don’t care to hook up with anyone on this blog…when you try that hard without ever meeting me or knowing my true identity, then it makes me question you…
kimmie
February 7th, 2013
3:09 pm
Disco – I liked Unthinkable, that was about a year ago I think.
kimmie
February 7th, 2013
3:10 pm
Exiled – No, it was either Ryan Cameron or someone on the Ricky Smiley show.
Leggs
February 7th, 2013
3:11 pm
AK’s worse performance by far for me was when she sang at Whitney’s funeral. I just knew she was going to rupture a lung or something with all that screaming of the word Angel when she sang…UUGHH!
disco ~ the song you don’t know my name grates my nerves for some reason. Not sure why, but the part when she calls dude up and starts talking irritates me.
Exiled
February 7th, 2013
3:12 pm
@Leggs..i know…but u know u ladies dont tell…(put ur bizz out there) so i knowingly fall for it coz women front big time when there is company.
Disco agrees with me……
reminds me of back in the day..u chat with the lone chic @ the bar as she is buying dranks etc..seems to work..the moment u try to follow up and try isolate her for a dance and some slow dance,she is sitting by the table with a bunch of other girls… and u tap ur girl at the shlder…her ugly friend cork blocks begfore she even responds,”girl, look who is here,she aint talking to u, she got a boyfriend”
feel like smacking her(the friend) mouthing…”I aint talking to ur ugly self,shet it up”
disco
February 7th, 2013
3:13 pm
leggs – I too can do without the talking part but I like the song. I think I can tolerate the talking with the video. isn’t mos def in the video? I like mos def. he’s one of those fellas that’s not really good looking or sexy but you still just like something about him. sort of like Q-tip.
Leggs
February 7th, 2013
3:16 pm
Why haven’t one of the WLB’s given Ex their email address and ask HIM to send a pic of himself.
M Kerry
February 7th, 2013
3:16 pm
Interesting topic. I’ve dated women who have broken up with me because, in their words, “I’m always well-dressed” or “I always wear nice clothes”. I don’t dress in expensive, designer clothes, just well-fitted ones and in colors that complement my skin tone. One girl was said she loved it when I wore a t-shirt with holes and jeans with holes (I purposely tore a couple of holes in an old t-shirt since she was giving me a hard time about the way I dressed).
I never understood that. Anyone want to enlighten me? Seriously!
kimmie
February 7th, 2013
3:16 pm
Leggs – So you think we could get togeder outside da restaurant? Cause I do look a lot different outside my uniform!
Leggs
February 7th, 2013
3:18 pm
OMG that was funny, “sort of like a Q-tip.” You are CRAZY!
disco
February 7th, 2013
3:18 pm
kimmie – lol. you funny. she was hooking old boy’s hot chocolate up and everything and she still couldn’t get no play. ninjaz. lol.
kimmie
February 7th, 2013
3:18 pm
colors that complement my skin tone
Kerry – Sounds a little suspect, a little feminine if you ask me! That’s probably why they dumped you!
Leggs
February 7th, 2013
3:19 pm
Yeah, it’s me, the waitress with the braids….UUUGGGHHHH to all of it!
disco
February 7th, 2013
3:19 pm
leggs – what? I like q-tip. he had me walking around thinking I was a vivrant thang.
kimmie
February 7th, 2013
3:22 pm
Leggs/Disco –
Disco – I like Mos Def too!!
Celisea
February 7th, 2013
3:25 pm
What’s crackalackin in here? Folks still tryna hook up huh? We need to ban that type of activity from this blog….lol Lawd Jesus
On Beyonce being talented. I can’t say I’m her biggest fan, but I gotta say, she’s got some pipes on her. She’s a natural talent. Grant it, I still say all the skimply outfits and tail shaking is a part of her, her image and what she’s know for. But, aside from that and just plain ole sitting still….SHE CAN SANG!!! Now if all she did was shake in the skimpy and couldn’t sing, that would be awholenuther story.
Alicia Keys, IMO is talented instrumentally, but she’s not all that great when it comes to singing.
Jennifer Hudson, is another that can SANG!!! Sometimes she’s leaning towards “yelling” and sort of grates on my nerves, but calmly singing…yeah, she’s got it
What else?
Button
February 7th, 2013
3:25 pm
Exile do you really think I’m going to send a total stranger a pic of my thighs?? c’mon man get real!
Exiled
February 7th, 2013
3:30 pm
@Leggs..i have send some pics…to some undisclosed locations of WLBs..not many but few…
I handle that bizz like i handle ur social security number..so any WLBs intending to interract with ur boy will have that info handled with utmost confidentiality….
Exiled
February 7th, 2013
3:31 pm
@Button…no..but uummmm..semd me what u think is appropriate…..can i see a face,if not a thigh?
(Ex is persistent!)
kimmie
February 7th, 2013
3:33 pm
I thought all of it was a joke, the requests for pics & hooking up and all!!!LOL!!!
Exiled
February 7th, 2013
3:34 pm
with this rain,im craving for some roastred nutts
M Kerry
February 7th, 2013
3:35 pm
kimmie, nothing like that. I usually wear light (not baby) blue and white shirts, no loud colors or patterns.
Leggs
February 7th, 2013
3:40 pm
Someone broke up with you because you were “always dressed.” Second foolish thing I’ve read today!
Ex ~ did you send a pic of yourself? You know, there’s a slew of “cat fishing” going on.
disco ~ I like Mos Def too. He seems down to earth.