Best way to break up?
I saw a really sweet video of a couple who broke up, wrote a song about it, then filmed a music video about it. This is Breaking Up 2.0 people. The mature, totally hip and cool way to end a relationship, complete with a video that goes viral.
If only all break ups can be so thoughtful and coordinated. I’d settle for just making it mutual! There really is no right or wrong way to break up a relationship. There is a way to make it as painless as possible, though. Clearly, sleeping with someone else or sending a random text message does not qualify as painless. Yet, I know two people who were dumped in this way recently.
Breaking up is hard to do, but does it really have to be? What is the most humane and kind way to dump someone? Should the length of time you were together make a difference in how you should end things?
By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog
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167 comments Add your comment
Robert
February 6th, 2013
3:23 pm
@Bluzgirl – “I’ve counted double digits many times.”
Once upon a time I had a friend who was a “squirter” and I love to watch her climax. It takes time for a woman to reach that level of pleasure. I was glad to assist her in reaching her climax. She taught me alot about women and what pleases them. A man with a slow hand can give a woman a lot of pleasure if he knows what to do. Most guys know a days don’t take the time to learn a woman’s body and waste a lot of time going through the motion.
Ladies, Men fake the act too just to please their woman especially if she is reluctant to explore different ways of sexual pleasure in the bedroom.
Leggs
February 6th, 2013
3:25 pm
Who thought of The Pointer Sisters with Robert’s post (lol).
A man with a slow hand and can take the southern route will always be given the Red Light Special…love that song!
Leggs
February 6th, 2013
3:33 pm
SCREECH……
Bluzgirl
February 6th, 2013
3:47 pm
Where’d everyone go? Trying to see how many O’s you can have?
SlimNu - Out from under a rock
February 6th, 2013
3:47 pm
I’m trying to catch up and we have Multi O’s going on…but Leggs you tripped me out asking BLuz if she even knew what an O was lolol
Leggs
February 6th, 2013
3:51 pm
I think the talk about O’s, doing moms for the kids to play, then penis envy has put a sour taste in some mouths.
Courtside Seats!!! Caught on the Kiss Cam :)
February 6th, 2013
3:54 pm
LOL..@ Leggs…….. Nothing anybody put in their mouth has been sour!!! Unless Button and Bluz are not telling the whole story!!!
Leggs
February 6th, 2013
3:55 pm
I was just checking, SlimNu. Just checking…..it sounds so farfetched, but I see I was wrong. Freaky deaky disco has the same affliction (lolol)
Leggs
February 6th, 2013
3:55 pm
No offense meant with that post, disco. I was actually laughing, but forgot the LOL
disco
February 6th, 2013
4:01 pm
no offense taken leggs. I wish I could be the old me for one good solid weekend. you wouldn’t be able to tell me nothing. y’all might not even recognize me on the blog. I wouldn’t be disco anymore. I’d be – I don’t know. what’s the cool, hip thing right now? I know it ain’t disco. lol.
Leggs
February 6th, 2013
4:07 pm
what’s the cool, hip thing right now? = softness (roflmao).
Courtside Seats!!! Caught on the Kiss Cam :)
February 6th, 2013
4:10 pm
I would love to have a chance to “rassle” with the old disco…. I bet you were a hand full!!! (Good thing I have BIG, STRONG HANDS)…..
disco
February 6th, 2013
4:13 pm
leggs – I must say that when I typed that I was thinking more along what’s the cool, hip dance right now. you know kids keep you up on that stuff and I don’t spend much time around kids. I’m just an old fogey these days. as for softness (and please no one get offended – it’s just words – lol) one time a friend of mine got broke off real good over the weekend. in trying to explain how good it was she said it was so good that it had her walking around the office like a happy white woman just “good morning sunshine-ing” everybody.
disco
February 6th, 2013
4:20 pm
courtside – I generally shy away from TMI but this one’s for you. there was a guy from my past (teens thru early 20s) who told me way back when that I might have drowned some of those other cats but I couldn’t drown him. who says that? well besides this guy? lol. i saw him a few years ago and asked if he remembered saying that to me. he remembered. lol.
Leggs
February 6th, 2013
4:35 pm
Gotta go…nite!!!
Courtside Seats!!! Caught on the Kiss Cam :)
February 6th, 2013
4:42 pm
Damn….Its a good thing I am an excellent swimmer!!! Breast stroke is my specialty!!!
Bluzgirl
February 6th, 2013
4:54 pm
Good night ya’ll!!! Gotta go meet some men tonight! LOL