Is this a bad time?
I think many failed romances are a result of bad timing. You can appear to be very compatible and show great potential, but if the timing is wrong, it all falls apart. We don’t always realize that it is the wrong time, though. I believe we get caught up in attraction and end up realizing it way too late that it’s the right person, wrong time.
This is especially true when someone is nursing a heartbreak, mourning the end of a long relationship or marriage. I think people need to just have fun and let dating be about the “palate cleansers” to clear the lingering bad taste you may have from the ex. Even when we feel ready, it’s not until things get hot and heavy with the rebound relationship that we can see how important timing is.
Have you ever met someone really great at a really bad time in your life? How did you handle it?
I think if we were more honest with people we date about where we are – emotionally, it could save a lot of heartache. When you let folks know what head space you are in – you would be surprised at how understanding some people can be. Many of us have been there and know that it takes time to be in the right place to start something new.
How do figure out if it is a bad time to start a serious relationship? How do you let the person you just met know that? Is it fair to ask them to wait until the timing is better for you?
By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blof
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Exiled!
January 30th, 2013
6:39 am
Is it fair to ask them to wait until the timing is fair for you?
….ha ha ha….
Atlanta women are reeeallyy emotionally creeeeeezeeey!!!!
Do u have company in this thinking Diva?
Dating for fun might be….wait! Dudes actually do that….until the Right one crosses their path.
Ofcourse dudes ‘waste’ time and have fun with the emotionally crazeeeeey!
Hello MIA!!!
lee
January 30th, 2013
6:42 am
Never heard of a bad time to start anything. People are always great in the beginning…Lies are the biggest obstacle in any relationship, if you start out that way it will not end well.
Don’t mix up someone being great with someone being nice those are two different things, because if they were that great ==wouldn’t they still be by your side?!
Everyone walks into your life I believe for a reason, some stay some don’t , try to learn from it so you will not repeat those same mistakes again.
hazel
January 30th, 2013
8:27 am
It would be nice to let the other person know if you are just dating casually and not looking for anything. Hopefully in the first date or two. Either he/she will be cool or #ain’t got time for dat.
And No its not fair to ask them to wait. That would be selfish.
Button
January 30th, 2013
8:37 am
Happy Hump Day! I’ve met some really great guys and the thought always ran across my mind saying great guy but bad timing. It comes with the territory of dating. There was this one guy, he possessed all the trimings of what I was looking for, he had a great sense of humor, empathic, nice personality, polite, he was a very high calibre type of man but, I was not in the place where I would have been good for him. My mind was on what I was dealing with at the time and going forward with him would have been a waste of his time. Timing is everything.
Alberta
January 30th, 2013
8:51 am
Looks like we’re back to a communication issue. Here’s how I see it. If you are a good communicator, you’ve probably married to a wonderful person right now. If not, you’re probably 30+, single and read blogs about timing in a relationship.
“How do you figure out if it is a bad time to start a serious relationship?” As an adult, if you haven’t figured out how to do this by now you never will.
“How do you let the person you just met know that?” Tell him or her. In know that sounds complicated, but I promise you it works.
“Is it fair to tell ask them to wait until the timing is ready for you?” Not if you have any self-respect.
Celisea
January 30th, 2013
9:06 am
I’ve used the term “bad timing” myself in the past, as I can only recall one time in my life that I’d consider such….mmm mmm mmm But to think about it, who is meant for you is yours. No such thing as bad timing. You get to have one person, not one and a possibility….lol I’m sure most have met someone where there was either magnetic attraction (can I use that) or crazy electricity…I know I have….but, the person or me was already with someone. Now, having said that, I think I or you or them or he or she probably talked or interacted a little too long to even know that (they’re booed). Y’all get what I’m saying? I think that’s why the can’t have your cake and eat it too saying comes into play. They’re booed or married and I or you or them or he or she is already taken or spoken for. If (and I use that lightly) there is a such thing as bad timing I would say it’s due to not finding a way to come together yet each person is open and available. And that brings me back to saying (of course just my humble opinion), no such thing as bad timing because if you’re not “booed”, then if either you want it bad enough you will make it happen. Plenty of folks eventually come together or find a way.
Okay, that was a bunch of rambling….lol I think I believe what I just wrote….I think
I was looking for an old email from my manager for a link on getting a task done and did a search on my entire Outlook, and lookie lookie what I found. Emails from someone way back when. I started reading through some of them and came across the word “bama”…..lolololol Guess it’s not just Robert huh?
Alright, I gotta get to work. I’ll stick my head back in later.
Celisea
January 30th, 2013
9:11 am
Oh, my bad timing almost got me. He was mmm mmm mmm, what can I say? I ran into a mutual friend (the IT guy I mentioned) and then another mutual friend Monday. He was coming out of his building (downtown), heading to a meeting in another building. All things happen the way they should. Just reminscing bout the old days while sitting here….aaaaaah yeah
But, I’m quite happy these days
I wouldn’t change a thing!
K….gotta get coffee, and work
disco
January 30th, 2013
9:20 am
good morning. yes celisea, you did get your ramble on but if it’s any consolation I understood exactly what you were saying or attempting to say. it is what it is.
some would make the argument that there is no bad timing while others would make the argument that there is no good timing. it’s all perspective. some times you have to do just step up and do something and try to make it work. maybe if you sit around waiting for the perfect timing you’ll never have/accomplish anything. flip side, if you are always jumping into things without giving them any thought or preparation you’ll never have/accomplish anything.
Leggs
January 30th, 2013
9:29 am
Morning.
It boils down to communication, more so the non-verbal form. If one is really astute, one can quickly determine their lane. Booty call, FWB, lunch partners only, etc. It’s only bad timing if you linger.
I is tired….
Celisea
January 30th, 2013
9:29 am
disco – Good you understood, as long as I didn’t sound crazy….lol
Button
January 30th, 2013
9:30 am
lol @Celisea
DuShawn
January 30th, 2013
9:34 am
Just like being the 1000th shopper at a store and you win the grand prize; I believe timing is everything when it comes to relationships, especially regarding men and marriage. I can remember dating three women that would’ve made great wives. They were beautiful, we had great chemistry, they looked good on paper and I loved them. However, I didn’t want to get married at the time. Years later, after participating in several of my friends weddings, and growing tired of bachelorhood, I was ready. I had no prospects in sight. I decided the next chick I fell in love with I will marry. I met wifey, fell in love and we have been happily married for well over a decade. Over the years, I have run into those three great women that I mentioned earlier. Not surprisingly, the next dude they got with after our thing ended wifed them up. One however, was still available. She asked me why I didn’t search for her when I was ready. I told her “ Baby, our timing was off.”
Exiled
January 30th, 2013
9:38 am
If u go out and date with an AGENDA in mind..THIRSTY…u gon be dissappointed and then lament BAD TIMING…coz in ur warped thinking, its like every dude u meet..its gotts work…..see..pushing it…
If u date to date and let the chips fall where they may…..see..ur Auntie flow is gon be smoothless every month..no high blood pressure this or that..no THIRST in your game…..
Make the mistake of having an AGENDA..and THISRT..ohhh my GOD…thats when u start lamenting BAD TIMING Blah blah nonsense coz in ur mind..its like every dude u meet…its gotta work….! No maammmm…it dont work that way….
This thing is part Luck,part fate..part ur vibe,part ur looks..part how u mouth stuff etc etc etc..a concocorpia of some intricate gumbo….New Erleans(not a typo!) gumbo aint even close!
So LADIES…no THIRST…and its gon be aaalright…Just date,have fun. and dont take every SMASH like dude has signed a Binding, Obligatory Note…jeeeez(Can we talk…after the smash)..it aint that serious ladies..its just a smash!..its gotta be fun all the time….coz i tell u it is fun for dudes….
When a dude sees some they like….they gon SNAP U OFF THE MARKET with the Quickness!!
And if u a Late Draft….Dont PANIC!!! (I know,easier said than DONE..Meelo!!)
Good Morning!
Exiled
January 30th, 2013
9:38 am
its gotta work
Celisea
January 30th, 2013
9:42 am
And if u a Late Draft….Dont PANIC!!! (I know,easier said than DONE..Meelo!!)
Boy stop….
disco
January 30th, 2013
9:49 am
dushawn – thanks for confirming what I always say – men can get married pretty much anytime they decide to. even a no good, worthless, low level brother can find a chick to “I do” him.
ex – I don’t think having an agenda translates to thirsty. I think having an agenda translates to knowing what you want, determining what steps are necessary to get what you want and being willing to do what it takes. nothing wrong with having an agenda. now I do admit some folks can be ruthless in implementing their agendas but that’s a different topic altogether.
Exiled
January 30th, 2013
10:01 am
@Disco..i beg to differ…
Dating with Thant kind of Agenda..is for “late in the game” folks..the ones who have always wanted to get married,hasnt happened and now thinkg the clock is ticking away..those folks..YES..im ALL for the AGENDA coz look here…unless it happens fast..then u know the attraction factor etc is fading and their chances dimnish quick….
Everybody else..just date a dude u think u vibe with, has got the basics u look for,aint crazy,holds down a j o b,dont scavenge u for money..and Keep it Moving…..U cannot hide a Lamp under a bushel(cover) the good book, i think says..cant remember the Verse(Celisea?) so if dudes see a viable chic to wife,they will wife. NO need for u to be hollering so as to be made a STARTER….
Now if u aint STARTER Lebron/Kobe material….thats when an AGENDA is called for maybe…..but still..if u young..no need to panic……panic breeds panic and confusion…and dudes smel a Thirsty chic quick.. and u know, Thirsty chics give it up quick then go bongas when dudes bench them…
Thirst (AGENDA) is for the one with a long shot.
Exiled
January 30th, 2013
10:04 am
bonkers
disco
January 30th, 2013
10:10 am
ex – I don’t even think it’s an age issue. there are many young chicks who know they want to be married young. for instance the ones who go to college to get their “M.R.S.”. these chicks date with an agenda and it has nothing to do with their biological clocks. it’s all about knowing what they want and taking the steps to make it happen. all I’m saying to you is agenda doesn’t translate to thirsty. NOW maybe a man who isn’t trying to be party to said agenda will call it thirsty because he feels like he wants to play “victim” and claim some trick is trying to trap him or hem him up.
DuShawn
January 30th, 2013
10:10 am
Disco- “even a no good, worthless, low level brother can find a chick to “I do” him” That’s because every woman wants to be a wife at some point. I have always found it interesting how men and women have such a different perspective on marriage. For females, it’s a new beginning. For guys, it’s the end. When a chick tells her friends of her pending nuptials, her girlfriends are so happy and excited for her. They say things like: “Congratulations girl!!!” When a dude tells his friends, it’s like a death in the family. The mood is somber and they say things like: “Dayum dog, you sure you want to do this?”
Celisea
January 30th, 2013
10:13 am
disco – Your 10:10 is spot on, especially the last sentence. Mmeello, chile stop with that foolishness…lol There are just some men that think (being a) woman = thirty and if you say you’re NOT thirsty and quite happy, yousa lie!!! lololololol
disco
January 30th, 2013
10:19 am
thanks C. we know how ex can be. I ain’t mad at him though. he’s entitled.
dushawn – sho you right. ties in to men getting married hoping the women stay the same and women getting married hoping the men will change. it’s always something.
Button
January 30th, 2013
10:19 am
Ex who in their right mind would want to date for the fun of it? Why put energy in getting to know someone just for the heck of it? wounded hearts don’t make for a happy person. An agenda does not constitute thirst. With thinking like that is why the marriage rate amongst AA is lagging behind others.
Leggs
January 30th, 2013
10:23 am
“That’s because every woman wants to be a wife at some point. ”
DuShawn, not even true. Not all little girls aspire to be a wife or a parent!
DuShawn
January 30th, 2013
10:25 am
“-who in their right mind would want to date for the fun of it?- ……..WHAT? I thought that was the purpose. People date to have fun. If you get to know and like the person in the process, that’s a bonus. The main goal is to have a good time, not evaluating your guest as a potental mate.
Celisea
January 30th, 2013
10:27 am
Leggs – I’m agreeing as well, with you 10:23. These general statements are men that THINK they know all women. For the most part in areas, all women are the same but there are some places that set us apart.
And contrary to what SOME may think, some of us don’t wallow over things that could have been done different (i.e. kids sans marriage, etc), but are proud of making strides and overcoming. Who’s got time to stuck like chuck? I for one can’t hardly remember “stuff” from way back when (I guess y’all say y’all beg to differ according to all my long posts…lol). My point is you learn and grow and adapt to life. Because I didn’t do it the way Becky did (well not “Becky”), does not mean I didn’t something wrong or didn’t get it right. Contrary to what many may think, no person in their right mind (well some might), will spend years pining and moaning over coulda woulda shoulda. I am one that’s happy happy happy with my station in life and aside from enjoying, am making no plans to switch things up. Now, if that’s not the norm or don’t sound on the up and up, well just too dang bad then….lololol
disco
January 30th, 2013
10:27 am
leggs – I didn’t even argue that point with dushawn because it works in his favor re the sorry, worthless, no count dudes still landing wives. some chicks will take any old piece of a man just for the sake of having one. for that reason alone I’ll let dushawn have the point. lol.
o/t – I just read a column written by a guy with locs shouting out his shampoo girl at the salon. I couldn’t help but feel him. boy oh boy there is something to be said about a good scalp scrubbing. there was a shampoo girl at my current stylist who was the absolute bomb. she went away but I still ask about her every now and then.
Celisea
January 30th, 2013
10:29 am
because it works in his favor re the sorry, worthless, no count dudes still landing wives. some chicks will take any old piece of a man just for the sake of having one
Mmm hmmm, and boy, what a prize. Trifling, lazy, wondering eyes, wondering heart, ain’t worth nothing, can’t get nothing, can’t buy nothing…..etc etc etc
And we’re missing on on what now? Iggg zackly!!!
DuShawn
January 30th, 2013
10:30 am
@Leggs- Not all, but generally speaking, I believe that to be true. Most girls dream of a “Barbie” wedding, with Daddy walking them down aisle.
Exiled
January 30th, 2013
10:30 am
@Disco…many young chicks who know they want to be married young. for instance the ones who go to college to get their “M.R.S.”..
Yes, there are many who are not the majority,in my view, who do this..but if u want to see some crazy ladies or unhappy chics when they get older and are still single..its these same folks you describe…..coz an AGENDA Has the unfortunate thing of transforming itself into Unhappyiness when the AGENDA fails!.
Robert
January 30th, 2013
10:31 am
” Is it fair to ask them to wait until the timing is better for you? ”
As a single Man I am a great “time manager”. Just like Celisea said “I’m sure most have met someone where there was either magnetic attraction (can I use that) or crazy electricity”….I have too.
When I was younger I would have a dating schedule to avoid good or bad timing issues (breakfest, lunch, dinner, midnite snack).
Guys, how many times have you had to tell someone to leave because they were overstaying their welcome?
Guys, how many times have you had someone to come over too early?
Guys, how many times have you had to fake a phone call to excuse yourself and leave for another date?
Guys, how many times do you have your normal routine schedule disrupted because someone does not want to leave, is to early and/or just does not want to go home?
Guys, how are you managing your “timing issues” with women?
Celisea
January 30th, 2013
10:32 am
Missing out = married, using in this context
…..and 5, 4, 3, 2, 1
Imma stop now cause it will be a matter of pages before someone changes their name to take a
stabjab at me….lolololLeggs
January 30th, 2013
10:33 am
Gotcha disco. Like Celisea, some blanket statements need to be addressed (lol).
Well, Celisea, I’m wallowing in missing Cash 3 yesterday and last Monday. That money should have been MINE!
disco ~ high five on a good scalp scrubbing. My current hair stylist had a guy to shampoo our heads and at one point I got lost in thought (lol).
Celisea
January 30th, 2013
10:36 am
Leggs – Lotto is something you can try try try again…lol
Did I spit on the screen with my “iggg zackly!!!” lolololol
Exiled
January 30th, 2013
10:37 am
Ex who in their right mind would want to date for the fun of it?
@Button..most young folks with a future ahead of them date for fun……they may not even be messing with the chics/guys coz they just dont..but thats the Whole idea….
Dating with salt in ur pocket(hunting with salt in ur pocket
) is for those who have pressure of some sort…..
And im not even saying ALL women dream of marriage..some just wanna date..i take that….but quit the AGENDA..just go for the man u vibe with and quit building castles in the air…..Unless of course…u creezy like that…
and i can tell u Disco,in my dating days..chics with an AGENDA had the most drama…sleep with her once..she is coming to ur crib at nite,knocking on the window,unannounced…
Comeon Man!
Celisea
January 30th, 2013
10:40 am
I just googled hunting salt. Never heard of that
Courtside Seats!!! Caught on the Kiss Cam :)
January 30th, 2013
10:41 am
“Ex who in their right mind would want to date for the fun of it? Why put energy in getting to know someone just for the heck of it?”
Wow…… So Button, in your estimation, all dates are nothing more than expensive job interviews????
Leggs
January 30th, 2013
10:43 am
Guys, how many times have you had to tell someone to leave because they were overstaying their welcome? – DAMN, glad that never happened to me.
Exiled
January 30th, 2013
10:44 am
Celisea..ima go to work but thats an expression..u know these hunters go in the wild to hunt..right..and if u assume u gon catch..then u gon have some salt,pepper etc.kill and eat the food whilst still out there…….thats a hungry hunter right there…most though wil bring the foood back to the crib and share with the fam…:lol:
Leggs
January 30th, 2013
10:45 am
O/T ~ when eating a banana, how many of you spit out the tip on top and throw away the bottom tip?
Celisea
January 30th, 2013
10:46 am
Dang Robert, yousa a playa for real. All of your questions were posed with “how many times….” Alright now, you go boy…I think Not as bama as perceived huh?
Celisea
January 30th, 2013
10:47 am
Mmeelo – Imma go to work too, after this and yeah, if you say so. I don’t know too many that walk around with hunting salt. I got the point though.
Courtside Seats!!! Caught on the Kiss Cam :)
January 30th, 2013
10:48 am
“O/T ~ when eating a banana, how many of you spit out the tip on top and throw away the bottom tip?”
Oh the possiblities for this one……..
Leggs
January 30th, 2013
10:50 am
Lee
January 30th, 2013
10:50 am
I agree with EX for the most part.. I think one part should read, have fun dating , not dating for fun.. Cause if you are dating someone who wants to just sit there and look at each other, there should be some fun factor in there. No?!
Courtside Seats!!! Caught on the Kiss Cam :)
January 30th, 2013
10:54 am
LOL..Leggs, I am sure EVERY dude in your office that can see you is also focused on the banana….
Leggs
January 30th, 2013
11:00 am
You have me cracking up. I have a warped, sometimes gutter mind, but I didn’t even think of that. Poor banana…
Courtside Seats!!! Caught on the Kiss Cam :)
January 30th, 2013
11:02 am
Poor banana??? Sounds like the luckiest Banana in town to me!!! LOLOLOLOL
disco
January 30th, 2013
11:05 am
ex – this is going to be my last time addressing you (I hope). I think you are taking agenda to mean someone is out to get you. they are scheming on you. they won’t go with the flow because they are so busy trying to obtain their finish line blue ribbon. I get it. now when I say agenda I mean nothing more than having a defined notion of what you want and a list of tasks to help achieve what you want. quite frankly I prefer that method rather than the method of “kissing frogs” and hoping one of them turns into a prince.
courtside – why y’all got to mess up our culinary experiences? a sister can’t enjoy a banana, an ice cream cone, a popsicle, an ear of corn on the cob. just stop it I tell you.
DuShawn
January 30th, 2013
11:08 am
“….had to tell someone to leave because they were overstaying their welcome?”….. I remember this one chick, I used to call her “Legs” (no disrespect to the one on here). Man, she had some gorgeous legs, and in bed she was a champ! She would cross those pretty long legs Indian style over her breast while lying on her back with her ankles crossed. Whew!.. My boxers gettin tight in the front just thinking about her. Anyway I digress; it was a hurricane threatening to hit south Florida. She lived in a high rise, I had a house. She asked if she and her two little boys could ride out the storm at my spot. I agreed, they came thru, the storm went around us. About three days had passed, the storm been gone. She shows no sign of leaving. Her little boys tearing my house up, my classic cd’s all out the case on the floor, they running back and forth everywhere, driving me crazy. I would leave and hang out for hours not wanting to return to my own sh&*t. I dropped as many hints as I could with no success. Finally, I just said it’s time for you to leave. After that, my visits became less frequent and when she started asking me for bread…it was a wrap.
Mark
January 30th, 2013
11:09 am
disco @9:49: A guy would be crazy to marry just anyone these days. Remember the alimony/child support, etc?
disco
January 30th, 2013
11:13 am
mark – most of these jokers that I’m referring to are living off of their women anyway. alimony, child support, shoot paying the cable are the furthest things from their minds.
Leggs
January 30th, 2013
11:19 am
disco ~ every time I eat an ice cream cone I think of the little perverted man that used to take pictures for Jet magazine. I was walking downtown eating a cone when this man approaches me about being in the magazine. I knew he was talking smack because I was too skinny to be one the ladies of the week featured therein. I thanked him and said no thanks. He then asked what flavor ice cream I was eating with his gleaming eyes. I told him it doesn’t matter, he can’t have any and walked off.
Courtside Seats!!! Caught on the Kiss Cam :)
January 30th, 2013
11:21 am
disco, Not tryin to fugg up your meal time, but Leggs dropped all of the key words that feed into the visual….
kimmie
January 30th, 2013
11:21 am
Morning All!!
I have been in some “bad timing” situations and they are heartbreaking. What I would call bad timing is meeting someone a few months before they are getting ready to move to California or to Paris France, or shipping off to take that contract postition in Saudi Arabia. You have gone out and gotten to know each other enough that you hit it off and the chemistry is off the chain and this is a great person. But not enough to be making plans to get engaged and move with this person. So you try the long distance thing, but of course that does not work. That’s what I call bad timing, not the agenda stuff.
This “agenda” stuff has been coming up alot lately from you blog dudes. Some of you really have a problem with some women that know what they want and don’t want to waste their time “just seeing how it goes” for months and years on end and not buying your BS!!! LOL!! Sucks to be you, don’t it?LOL!!
DuShawn
January 30th, 2013
11:22 am
@Leggs – just curious, can you eat a banana in on bite
Celisea
January 30th, 2013
11:23 am
Just wow…..just dang wow
disco
January 30th, 2013
11:24 am
courtside – it doesn’t really mess up my meal time (I live alone, I eat alone, I can go at it – lol). just saying how it is kind of trifling how fellas get caught up in something so basic and innocent. dang. a chick can’t enjoy a popsicle or ice cream cone on a summer day if she’s in a man’s presence. that’s jacked up. what’s funny though is when you tell a man he’s tearing that popsicle up. dude be ready to just throw it I away. lol.
Leggs
January 30th, 2013
11:31 am
I used to call her “Legs” (no disrespect to the one on here). – Then let’s keep it that way!
DuShawn
January 30th, 2013
11:32 am
@disco ..lol…Real men don’t eat popsicles.
Leggs
January 30th, 2013
11:33 am
Forgot the lol
Leggs
January 30th, 2013
11:34 am
Real men eat popsicle toes….
Courtside Seats!!! Caught on the Kiss Cam :)
January 30th, 2013
11:37 am
LOL…. Come on disco, What do you think of that grown azz man you see walking around the park slow eating a popsicle???? For us, seeing women doing things that carry suggestive double meanings is FUN…. Women eyeball guys the same way…
Leggs
January 30th, 2013
11:40 am
When I see a man eating a banana, I think and see a man eating a banana. No suggestive double meaning there (lolololol).
disco
January 30th, 2013
11:46 am
dushawn – uh huh. I know fellas be having at the popsicles, the bomb pops, the push ups, all that. still you remind me of an episode of jenny jones. yes I said jenny jones. this is going way way back. she had some kind of sexy man show and there was one guy who was incredibly sexy. tall, thick, muscular, chocolate brown. mmm he was nice. anyway, how come there was a talent portion and old boy’s talent was licking ice cream out of a bowl. yep. licking ice cream out of a bowl. the audience went wild. mm mmmm mmmmm.
Celisea
January 30th, 2013
11:46 am
This is my new Hollywood crush. Alongside Laz
http://www.google.com/imgres?imgurl=http://handson.provocateuse.com/images/photos/michael_vartan_05.jpg&imgrefurl=http://handson.provocateuse.com/show/michael_vartan&h=576&w=735&sz=57&tbnid=VoFSjXVtkJXg9M:&tbnh=82&tbnw=105&prev=/search%3Fq%3Dmichael%2Bvartan%26tbm%3Disch%26tbo%3Du&zoom=1&q=michael+vartan&usg=__j8o4AbU23snG_l50jHJrAP1tbn4=&hl=en&sa=X&ei=_k0JUeO8NeP7iwK224GYDw&ved=0CDEQ9QEwBA
Celisea
January 30th, 2013
11:47 am
He’s digging ethnic chicks. He’s done a couple of onscreen “black” loves. That just makes me dig him that much more
Celisea
January 30th, 2013
11:48 am
Please pardon me. Y’all was having the banana discussion. Okay, back to work. Or back to looking at stuff on the net, while working…lololol
Leggs
January 30th, 2013
11:49 am
Courtside ~ disco beat you in the visual department!!!
DuShawn
January 30th, 2013
11:50 am
I can’t lie, them bomb pops are the joint. But I bite mine and chew hard like a man!
Courtside Seats!!! Caught on the Kiss Cam :)
January 30th, 2013
11:58 am
Ok….. Here we go…. Just got a text from a “friend”…. Says she is feeling some kinda way and wants to know if I can swing by afterwork and “hang”…. No problem, except she has “company” in town… Thoughts???? How big are you ladies on that level of taboo????
Exiled!
January 30th, 2013
12:01 pm
@Leggs? ..how bout when u see a tall man with long pair of feet?
U just think,’damn he is so proportionally created?’
No double meaning for ya?
Leggs
January 30th, 2013
12:03 pm
That text is laden with mixed signals. See that “feeling some kinda way” needs to be voiced so you can hear the inflections in her tone to pick up on the true meaning. Is her company staying with her? Is her company someone she used to sleep with, still sleeping with, but wants you?
kimmie
January 30th, 2013
12:03 pm
Courtside – I don’t understand, is she talking threesome?
Exiled!
January 30th, 2013
12:04 pm
Court? Company as in her girlfriend or boyfriend?
If gifriend maybe a 3sum in the offing.
If guy friend maybe she gon use u to dump him
Sassy Me...Feeling like New ;-)
January 30th, 2013
12:05 pm
yawn…
Leggs
January 30th, 2013
12:05 pm
No, Ex, because I usually don’t think that. I usually think “that’s one tall dude” and k.i.m.
Courtside Seats!!! Caught on the Kiss Cam :)
January 30th, 2013
12:06 pm
Company and in Aunt Flow….. Hence the taboo…..
Celisea
January 30th, 2013
12:07 pm
eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeerrrrrrkkkkkkkk…..Aunt Flow is a no no
Leggs
January 30th, 2013
12:08 pm
If guy friend maybe she gon use u to dump him – good one.
Or, Courtside is about to get ambushed!! Why would she be inviting another man to handle her “feeling some kinda way” while she has company in town? Is company the jealous type. Is she trying to make him jealous. Just stay away!
Celisea
January 30th, 2013
12:09 pm
I thought “company” was that time of the month??? Maybe I misread
Leggs
January 30th, 2013
12:09 pm
Pump your brakes….no one thought Aunt Flow. Again, just stay away! She shouldn’t be calling you up to handle her. I digress, I know some women don’t care and use that time to let the body to do what the body needs to do. To each their own….
Leggs
January 30th, 2013
12:10 pm
Well, Celisea thought that. The rest of us went left…
kimmie
January 30th, 2013
12:11 pm
Imma go on to lunch. Aunt Flow & banana’s are snooze topics for me. The topic discussion was interesting before all that mess.
disco
January 30th, 2013
12:11 pm
leggs – uhn huh. especially since we know that all those “tells” are often just a myth anyway. tall, big hands, big feet none of it matters. dude can still be packing cocktail shrimp.
courtside – you might want to clarify some thangs. you might be getting set up for the okey doke. lol.
Celisea
January 30th, 2013
12:12 pm
I agree. I was just sitting here thinking, the body is doing what it needs to do. Don’t mess with that.
Don’t shoot me, but there’s a place in the scripture that speaks to a man not laying in a woman’s blood…IJS
Celisea
January 30th, 2013
12:13 pm
I didn’t think it. I wasn’t gonna comment case I was “yawning” like Sassy. When he said company as in Aunt Flow, is when I jumped in. Frankly I thought it was to spark convo….lololol
Celisea
January 30th, 2013
12:15 pm
Frankly, it’s just nasty….in my humble opinion. Folks say it helps with cramps. She ain’t cramping, she’s just wanting some. She can wait! My face is twitching up as I type this.
DuShawn
January 30th, 2013
12:15 pm
@Court- Man, ain’t no taboo. Just lay a towel down. It’s biblical, even Moses parted the Red sea. Just don’t wake up with dried up tomato sauce in your mustache the next morning.
Sassy Me...Feeling like New ;-)
January 30th, 2013
12:17 pm
Aunt Flow & banana’s are snooze topics for me. The topic discussion was interesting before all that mess.
I sooo cosign…
disco
January 30th, 2013
12:17 pm
OOO-kay. y’all done went left and turned the corner with it. courtside, just leave it alone. all coochie ain’t good coochie. how bout that? lol.
Exiled!
January 30th, 2013
12:26 pm
Moses parting the red sea! Lol
@DuShawn!!
Craazy!!
Court wld have to be real hengrrrry to have to lay a towel to get sum
Gross!
Celisea
January 30th, 2013
12:27 pm
Don’t be misled….
Leviticus 15 (read it all), Letivicus 18:19, Ezekiel speaks of it as well….IJS
Celisea
January 30th, 2013
12:28 pm
I know for the most part we’re anonymous, but that ain’t cool man. IJS Some things are TMI…for real!!! lololol
I thought it was a pretty good flow going as well, until we were brought to a screeching halt. I was doing good lurking and working
Exiled!
January 30th, 2013
12:31 pm
But I won’t lie,in my single hungry days,we could work that out,hit a home run then take a shower soon after..
Please don’t judge me too harshly!
Leggs
January 30th, 2013
12:33 pm
I do too, Celisea. The body is cleansing itself. Let it do what it’s designed to do. I would like to read that scripture. Do you know where it is?
Leggs
January 30th, 2013
12:34 pm
Just don’t wake up with dried up tomato sauce in your mustache the next morning. – EEWWWW!!! Who does that!!!!
disco
January 30th, 2013
12:35 pm
so… is it too soon to turn the topic to valentine’s day or do we want to avoid that topic altogether?
Leggs
January 30th, 2013
12:43 pm
Tornado has hit Bartow County:
http://www.ajc.com/news/news/local/tornado-watch-issued-for-northwest-georgia/nT9xH/
Courtside Seats!!! Caught on the Kiss Cam :)
January 30th, 2013
12:47 pm
wow…did not mean to kill the blog flow….. Just wanted to know what some of you ladies thought about that… had no idea I would be hit in the head with the good book….
Celisea
January 30th, 2013
12:52 pm
Leggs – Leviticus 15 (read the entire chapter), Leviticus 18:19. There are other places, but those two chapters are what I recalled. Also, Rachel (Jacob’s) wife stole Laban’s image and when he went chasing after Jacob (cause he just needed a reason), he said someone stole his image. Jacob, not knowing Rachel had stolen, said if you can find it, the person will be punished. Well, when he came to her tent to search for it (cause he was searching everybody), she told him she was on her period, so he wouldn’t make her get up. She was sitting on it.
Sassy Me...Feeling like New ;-)
January 30th, 2013
12:56 pm
kimmie
January 30th, 2013
12:59 pm
This is the stuff that turns people off the blog.
Celisea
January 30th, 2013
1:00 pm
What, the nasties or biblical stuff??? Leggs asked so I provided.
Willie Dynamite
January 30th, 2013
1:04 pm
Afternoon all,
Just read the last few posts and talk about bad timing, touché~
kimmie
January 30th, 2013
1:06 pm
Celisea – I’m not a prude, but I’ve just never found discussing body fluids entertaining, especially with men.
Button
January 30th, 2013
1:06 pm
Courtside yes dates should be an interview and you should but some thought behind why you are spending x amount of time and money with said person other than just because. I agree you should have fun while dating but not dating just for the fun of it. Most people invest emotions and bonds are made quickly for some so taking those two things into conderation should be the kept in mind. I don’t know about most people but as for me I date for a reason not because a man asks me out. Call me old fashion but that’s how I date.
Celisea
January 30th, 2013
1:09 pm
kimmie – Me either but it’s kind of gross….IMO
Okay changing the topics
Exiled!
January 30th, 2013
1:16 pm
I hope u folks are safe by the time u drive home coz the weather has gon real left right quick…wet,windy and cold…dark!!
but for us Lucky folks fuggin tonite…it’s Heaven!
Sassy Me...Feeling like New ;-)
January 30th, 2013
1:28 pm
Random O/T I just had a creepy/funny experience. I was waiting on the elevator here @ work and another guy who was also waiting turns to me and starts trying to mack me. One of his eyes was moving around(like it had a mind of it’s own) and the other was looking at me(I think)…and the more he talked it seemed like that wayward eye would move more. I tried not to laugh…and that fact that his game was wiggety-whack made it even funnier…I know he heard me laughing when I got off of the elevator. Don’t judge me
Alright…back to lurking…
Leggs
January 30th, 2013
1:29 pm
Ex, you never cease to amaze.
kimmie
January 30th, 2013
1:31 pm
Sassy –
Leggs
January 30th, 2013
1:31 pm
Your beauty had the eye jumping….
Celisea
January 30th, 2013
1:32 pm
One of his eyes was moving around(like it had a mind of it’s own) and the other was looking at me(I think)…
I just burst out laughing. Wasn’t expecting that. Folks should know their lanes….lololol
Gotta grab luch
Exiled!
January 30th, 2013
1:37 pm
@Leggs…this weather is fuggin weather..u disagree??
Cnbc got some nice bimbos…very pretty white chics…we need more sisters doing business reporting..
I am sure African Americans will proly be encouraged to invest even more if that were to happen.
Sassy Me...Feeling like New ;-)
January 30th, 2013
1:37 pm
Your beauty had the eye jumping….
Awww thank you chica
DuShawn
January 30th, 2013
1:39 pm
..is it too soon to turn the topic to valentine’s day……Last Valentine’s day I didn’t spend much. I picked up some seafood, and cooked some lobster tails, mussels, and a cajun pasta dish, with a salad and dessert. The kids turned our dining room into a 5 star restaurant. We all dressed up and had a candle light dinner. My son was our waiter and my girls played their violins softly for ambiance while we ate. Wifey really enjoyed it. This year Imma take her to check out Laylah Hathaway at the Variety playhouse. I’m still working on the rest of the evening.
Sassy Me...Feeling like New ;-)
January 30th, 2013
1:39 pm
Kimmie?!…what’s a girl to do?…it was just the two of on that elevator and the ride up seemed extra long for some reason…bleck
Leggs
January 30th, 2013
1:41 pm
I don’t disagree, Ex. That wasn’t the point I was making. It’s not important.
Willie Dynamite
January 30th, 2013
1:42 pm
Sassy- ill leave the eye thing alone cause that’s just funny. Far as dude tho they say nothing ventured nothing gained. Some dudes take the shotgun approach and just spit at 100 chicks. 1 or 2 bound to fall for it. Then some dudes are like snipers. Ole boy sounds like a shotgunner. He’s use to and comfortable with the rejection. He will try you again every time he see you.
Leggs
January 30th, 2013
1:43 pm
Sounds like it was a nice evening, DuShawn. Cute son as waiter and girls providing background music.
kimmie
January 30th, 2013
1:46 pm
Du – That sounds fabulous!!
It’s actually hubs birthday today! I got him a really nice jacket he has been wanting and the kids gave him cards. We’re going out for lunch with the rest of his family on Saturday, but I am grabbing him some Smashburgers & fries for dinner tonight with the kids. He loves burgers.
Sassy Me...Feeling like New ;-)
January 30th, 2013
1:49 pm
He will try you again every time he see you.
He just might…but I’ll shut him AND his wayward eye
down every time,too.
Exiled!
January 30th, 2013
2:11 pm
It’s pouring!!
Exiled!
January 30th, 2013
2:16 pm
U like Pouring ladies?
U like Pouring gents?
disco
January 30th, 2013
2:18 pm
sassy – I feel you on the stray eyed brother. to that experience I say better you than me. lol. I probably shouldn’t laugh though. I’ll be on here next week talking about the lazy eyed fellow at the grocery store who asked me what I was cooking. my laughter is hereby withdrawn.
Exiled!
January 30th, 2013
2:21 pm
@Disco? U mocking the disabled?
DuShawn
January 30th, 2013
2:22 pm
Why yall so shallow. That man could be a good brother. Women always talkin bout there are no good men left. You could learn to love that eye.
Leggs
January 30th, 2013
2:26 pm
Ok, along with stank boy and lazy-eyed fellow, we now have jumping eye guy to join the club.
kimmie
January 30th, 2013
2:31 pm
Dushawn – I don’t see yall checking for no lazy eyed women, unless it’s just to smash & run!LOL!! Plus she didn’t say he wasn’t a good man, but his mack was wack on top of the lazy eye! Plus, Sassy got a good man!!
kimmie
January 30th, 2013
2:32 pm
Excuse me, not lazy eyed, jumping eyed!
disco
January 30th, 2013
2:36 pm
kimmie – one of my cousins married a chick with what the family refers to as “scattered eyes”. lol. she loves his dingy azz drawers. we joke that that’s part of the reason why she feels like he is such a prize when the truth is he’s not worth the spit it would take to cuss him. she loves him though and I guess that’s all that matters.
Sassy Me...Feeling like New ;-)
January 30th, 2013
2:37 pm
I’ll be on here next week talking about the lazy eyed fellow at the grocery store who asked me what I was cooking.
You going down Kimmie
I was trying not to look at the wandering eye…but kinda kept looking at it anyway. I wonder if he ever thought about a patch?
Sassy Me...Feeling like New ;-)
January 30th, 2013
2:38 pm
“scattered eyes”.
I almost sprayed my monitor
disco
January 30th, 2013
2:39 pm
D – I own my shallow. I went out with a guy once that had a deformed leg left over from some childhood illness or other. I was so not feeling that. didn’t take away from the person he was but I was always telling him he needed to wear pants (all the time) and he insisted on wearing shorts. it was not a good look. I know. I’m wrong. oh and don’t get me started on the “fatties”. again they can have the best hearts/character/personality in the world but I don’t want to be laid up under no 400 pound somebody. ewww.
kimmie
January 30th, 2013
2:39 pm
Sassy, that was Disco talking about the grocery store dude!!LOL!!
disco
January 30th, 2013
2:40 pm
sassy – her eyes are scattered and she wears pop bottle glasses to boot. she’s a cool chick and all but she’s most definitely not a looker. or maybe she is since she can see in so many directions at once. lol. okay. my bad. I’m sorry.
Celisea
January 30th, 2013
2:41 pm
oh and don’t get me started on the “fatties”. again they can have the best hearts/character/personality in the world but I don’t want to be laid up under no 400 pound somebody. ewww.
_________________flatline________________________
kimmie
January 30th, 2013
2:41 pm
Disco – Actually, that leg probably would not have bothered me. I can’t do fatties either though.
Celisea
January 30th, 2013
2:43 pm
I’m still laughing…..lolololololol
It’s always the cockeyed, fat, “just shouldn’t” dudes that tryna holla or commenting or looking….
Back to lurking and working….I’m still laughing
DuShawn
January 30th, 2013
2:43 pm
How bout this brother in IT is overly sweating Ms. Office New booty. My man don’t have any covert office decorum with it. She and I came in the office the same time this morning. She bent the corner towards her area and I was walking to my office when Buddy appeared from nowhere huffing and puffing like he’d been running, looking for her. He saw me and asked “Did that female go this way”. I chuckled and said “ yeah man, she went that way” he tore out after her.
Celisea
January 30th, 2013
2:46 pm
I just re-read that statement and burst out laughing again…
Whew Lawdy, back to work
disco
January 30th, 2013
2:46 pm
celisea – they don’t even have to be full fledged fatties for me. I can’t even get with an average size guy with an above averaged size belly. that just turns me off. nothing sexy about the stomach hanging. throw some man boobs in the equation and the whole thing is just wrong.
Celisea
January 30th, 2013
2:49 pm
throw some man boobs in the equation and the whole thing is just wrong.
I just hollered…..whew buddy. But it’s all soooooooo true. Cannot do fatties…no way
Sassy Me...Feeling like New ;-)
January 30th, 2013
2:51 pm
My bad kimmie….
her eyes are scattered and she wears pop bottle glasses to boot.
Awww then…the poor baby
throw some man boobs in the equation and the whole thing is just wrong.
that’s a sho nuff deak breaker…
Courtside Seats!!! Caught on the Kiss Cam :)
January 30th, 2013
2:56 pm
Damn….. Dude pick up a few extra pounds and He gets NOTHING for you ladies…… Haven’t you heard…Fat can be fixed……
kimmie
January 30th, 2013
2:59 pm
You all are cracking me up now!LOL!!
disco
January 30th, 2013
3:01 pm
courtside – if it makes you feel any better I’m equally biased against petite men. you know the ones that are too thin. if my legs or arms are bigger than dude’s then it’s not going to work. lol. I’ve joked about trying to do the do and feeling like you are playing pick up sticks with his little teeny tiny legs. naw. I can’t get with that.
Sassy Me...Feeling like New ;-)
January 30th, 2013
3:06 pm
. if my legs or arms are bigger than dude’s then it’s not going to work.
————flatline———
Leggs
January 30th, 2013
3:15 pm
she’s most definitely not a looker. or maybe she is since she can see in so many directions at once.
disco ~ off to corner!
disco
January 30th, 2013
3:21 pm
sassy – don’t flat line. you know there’s some truth in it. I know there’s someone for everyone and all that but I always kind of feel bad for the big girls that have little tiny men (you see that a lot). I just don’t now how you are supposed to feel that strength and comfort from a guy when you are bigger than he is. just me though.
leggs – do I have to go to the corner? I already apologized.
Leggs
January 30th, 2013
3:25 pm
Yes ma’am. 10 mins!
Celisea
January 30th, 2013
3:28 pm
but I always kind of feel bad for the big girls that have little tiny men (you see that a lot).
Maybe it’s just a coinkidink but couples with big hers and lil hims always seems to be where she’s bossing him around and beating him up. She won’t let him speak unless spoken too either. I don’t frequent TrashMart, but the times I’ve gone in and got a glimsp of big her lil him love, that’s what I’ve witnessed. It ain’t funny but I’m laughing as I type this.
disco
January 30th, 2013
3:28 pm
leggs – aww man. that’s why I can’t stand her with her old scatter-eyed, pop bottle glass wearing self. this is all her fault. (mumbling as I make my way to the freaking corner. this is some bull).
Leggs
January 30th, 2013
3:29 pm
Bellies can be fixed, if the person wants to fix it. Crossed eyes, not so much! I don’t understand how all these pot belly, beer drinking, fat stomachs walking around can be comfortable. I always picture one pending over to tie his shoes and falling over like a weeble wobble. “Weeble woobles but they don’t fall down” unless they’re already down then they rock from side to side trying to gain footing.
Celisea
January 30th, 2013
3:30 pm
I’ve been feeling silly since I started blogging….with my first post of the day…rambling and stuff.
When I saw Court’s name a minute ago, I thought Little Red Rid’em then the song Naaaaasteee, nastee girl, don’t mean a thing…by JJ
Celisea
January 30th, 2013
3:36 pm
I feel cockeyed today….lol My contacts ain’t acting right. I think I have “dry eye”….by the time I get home they’re moving around. I fell asleep and one of those bad boys popped out on it’s own.
Leggs
January 30th, 2013
3:40 pm
disco ~ your time is up. I added a few minutes due to your mumbling out loud!!!
disco
January 30th, 2013
3:40 pm
leggs – see. you brought me back to wanting to be the fashion police. it all started innocently enough with “jeans day”. thing is folks assume that if they can wear jeans they can wear sneakers and I’m like that is so a violation. you still need to wear work appropriate footwear. lol. that led me to bring up the fact that the pregnant chicks, the injured and the overweight wear sneakers. I’m all for pregnant person and broken toe person wearing sneakers but I think the overweight should take their paycheck to the wide shoe warehouse and get some real shoes. just breaking dress codes all willy nilly. it’s wrong I tell you.
okay. somebody bring a topic. I’m starting to talk about people too much.
Celisea
January 30th, 2013
3:40 pm
I’m listening to a song titled “Imma stay saved” and ummm, it sounds like it should be played on the Vee
Courtside Seats!!! Caught on the Kiss Cam :)
January 30th, 2013
3:43 pm
disco…. Why you gotta go and call teh dude “petite”….. Thats is an ego killer by itself!!! I have a that loves ,loves loves the big ones…He is a short dude… Like 5′5″, maybe 165 or so…. Says he is always looking for the next mountain to climb.
Courtside Seats!!! Caught on the Kiss Cam :)
January 30th, 2013
3:46 pm
Where is this ” wide shoe warehouse” you speak of???
Leggs
January 30th, 2013
3:46 pm
Anybody remember the song Soul Makossa? It just popped in my head. Michael Baisden has people calling in requesting old school songs. Rock Creek Park played a few minutes ago. Hadn’t heard that in years.
Leggs
January 30th, 2013
3:47 pm
Celisea
January 30th, 2013
3:48 pm
Most of the songs played on the gospel station almost make you feel like getting your freaky sneaky. Ain’t hardly no more soul stirring songs
Groin stirring maybe, but not soul stirring…lol
disco
January 30th, 2013
3:50 pm
courtside – he better seek a mountain. i weigh 165 and ain’t no way I’m playing with a little me-sized man. no way, no how.
courtside – I don’t know where the wide shoe warehouse is. I do know that it is way easier (and cheaper) to buy wide shoes than narrow shoes. my mom has narrow feet. I never thought much of it until I was on a quest to buy her shoes. I was like this is some bull for real. narrow shoes are hard to find and overpriced when you do find them.
Leggs
January 30th, 2013
3:52 pm
I felt that way when Kurt Frankin’s song came on at a club. Didn’t feel like it should be played in a club (lol). I know I couldn’t dance to it.
Celisea
January 30th, 2013
3:55 pm
Nearly all of KF’s songs seem more so secular than gospel. Even though I like him as an artist and feel he’s super talented (with his little bitty self), I can’t take him seriously as a gospel singer.
Celisea
January 30th, 2013
3:58 pm
There’s another I like God’s Got It, I think by J Moss. It’s very upbeat. I wanna wiggle when it’s playing in the car.
DuShawn
January 30th, 2013
3:59 pm
@disco….you got a slick azz mouth. You will cut a man deep with that tongue. Just think if she called you that in person ” ole petite, little me-size, pick-up stick, teeny tiny leg having azz” . A man would need therapy after that sh&^t to get his self esteem back.
Celisea
January 30th, 2013
4:00 pm
Alright, 1 hour. I’ve violated all kinds of rules. I’ve talked on here too much today. Tomorrow, I’m back to keeping with my work and blogging very little, unless someone comes again with some jokes…lol Hope I can get to the gym tonight…weather permitting I mean
Toodles
Sassy Me...Feeling like New ;-)
January 30th, 2013
4:02 pm
I just don’t now how you are supposed to feel that strength and comfort from a guy when you are bigger than he is. just me though.
No it’s not…that’s one of the reasons I don’t date short men…
Sassy Me...Feeling like New ;-)
January 30th, 2013
4:03 pm
Has anyone seen that show about the preachers’ wives here in the Atl…I think it’s called The Sisterhood or Sister-something…
disco
January 30th, 2013
4:04 pm
dushawn –I literally just had to stifle a giggle. lol. anyway, I agree with you. I am a mouthpiece. this is why I try to avoid men that will make me want to talk about them like that. my self control is limited sometimes. this is why I say I’m checking for the man that will say “disco hush” and instead of verbally assaulting him I will actually just pull back and hush.
sassy – thanks for your support.
Sassy Me...Feeling like New ;-)
January 30th, 2013
4:18 pm
this is why I try to avoid men that will make me want to talk about them like that. my self control is limited sometimes
Yep..been there and working on that. Sometimes it’s just too easy to go the hell off on a dude…too easy and that’s not a good thing when they give you ALL types of fodder and ammo to use. I’m a work in progress…
You’re welcome disco…we got to stick together in this thang..
disco
January 30th, 2013
4:32 pm
hmm. I guess the blog well done run dry.
Leggs
January 30th, 2013
4:39 pm
Anybody still here?
DuShawn
January 30th, 2013
4:53 pm
The three of us always end up together……don’t fight it.
disco
January 30th, 2013
5:02 pm
shut up dushawn.
Leggs
January 30th, 2013
5:04 pm
HUSH!
Exiled!
January 30th, 2013
5:55 pm
I know you can handle a 3 sum but a four seems like Rumble in the Jungle Big boy!
@DuDhawn
I wonder if Disco is greedy when freasky..hmmmmm