Recently, a guy on twitter declared “Women, you really want to impress me? Don’t post pictures of you in a sexy pose. Post up your credit reports from the top three credit bureaus!”. I’m paraphrasing, but it was pretty funny and kind of telling!
With today’s economy, men are working harder and harder for their money. They are just as impressed by financially healthy women as they are by women who are physically healthy! Perhaps even more impressed! If this isn’t a sign of the times, I don’t know what is!
How compatible you are is very important – and comparing credit scores could reveal a lot about what and how you two value the same things. There are even online dating sites that are catering to this notion. These websites let you sign up with your credit score rating as your main attraction!
What do you think this means for the state of dating? Is this yet another reminder of how much dating has changed?
Would you ever ask a date about their credit score?
By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog
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Courtside Seats!!! Caught on the Kiss Cam :)
January 15th, 2013
4:24 pm
excuse me…… does anyone have a wee bit of lotion I can borrow for just a couple of minutes???
OK ladies, continue……….
disco
January 15th, 2013
4:24 pm
dushawn – I just finished reading zora neale hurston’s jonah’s gourd vine. in the book she used the expression “god don’t like okra”. guess it’s a version of god don’t like ugly but the context was that he didn’t like slick/slimy people. lol.
Leggs
January 15th, 2013
4:26 pm
Yes, you are Raqi. And guys, we know your tricks too!
Raqi
January 15th, 2013
4:28 pm
But Leggs I sadly admit the “baby please. I am dying over here. I can’t take it anymore. please.”
Raqi
January 15th, 2013
4:29 pm
“Nevermind. I ain’t begging you. I’ll do it myself. I was just kidding, pleeeeaaase.”
Leggs
January 15th, 2013
4:30 pm
Bluz, just in case you haven’t noticed and want to participate next horny day on the blog, the last sentence of the freaky post is what you continue your freaky post with. Just an FYI…
Don’t know how long my zipper has been down, but I have on a skirt that zippers in the back just got up to get some water and swiped my behind like we ladies do and
How long has my damn zipper been down???
Raqi
January 15th, 2013
4:31 pm
Yeah Leggs like “holding out” on us while they get off in the shower. Making it be us that ask first.
disco
January 15th, 2013
4:35 pm
okay. so a year or two ago a co-worker went gung ho, die hard on her diet/exercise/fitness plan. walking around talking about “get thin or die trying”. would I be terribly wrong if I asked her how much time she was giving herself before she keels over? just a random thought. lol.
Bluzgirl
January 15th, 2013
4:37 pm
Thanks Leggs – wasn’t quite ready to jump in today…maybe next time
daddy swiss
January 15th, 2013
4:41 pm
Thanks for the heads up, @Me.lo, but this is the Aussie open — that booty you were watching was on tape delay, my friend. Your boy already saw it in live action overnight while on feeding & diaper patrol. Lol
Not to mention my new tennis eye candy, Sloane Stevens. Mmm mmm, that little chick has quite the tight little package working…
Oh, and howdy folks!
SlimNu - More of me, less of you
January 15th, 2013
4:43 pm
Off topic: I think the person that went in the bathroom last must’ve combed their pubic hair while in the stall. There were little curly hairs all over the damn seat
Bluzgirl
January 15th, 2013
4:49 pm
Thanks for that visual Slim! Ewwwww!!! I can not understand why people don’t check the seat when they are finished…
DreamsMaterialize
January 15th, 2013
4:49 pm
Ladies you don’t even know, you all have set in motion for some chick you don’t even know to get a thorough thrashing. I’m sure the fellas agree that, whoever the chick is, she thanks you in advance. lol
swiss You’re a daddy now?!? Dang, I guess I was gone longer than I thought. Congrats man! Let the sleep deprivation commence. Even if she is breast feeding, know that if she can’t sleep, neither can you. lol
Bluzgirl
January 15th, 2013
4:52 pm
Good night ya’ll! Thanks for getting me all worked up again!!! LOL
SlimNu - More of me, less of you
January 15th, 2013
4:56 pm
Bluz – I had to snap yall back to reality…
Have a good night all…i’m ready for bed
Sassy Me...Feeling like New ;-)
January 15th, 2013
4:56 pm
thorough thrashing
Those two words put it aalllll into perfect perspective…couldn’t have said it any better..
WOOOOSAAAAAHHH!!!
Read y’all tomorrow and have a good night
daddy swiss
January 15th, 2013
5:04 pm
Thanks, @DM! Trust me, the sleep deprivation has already commenced in earnest! Lol
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Pauline
January 17th, 2013
9:51 am
I want a financially healthy partner. Not a millionaire but someone who works, manages a budget and is able to enjoy life once in a while. Having a peek at his credit score before hand may save many useless dates.