Dating: Not a fan of kissing?
I thought I had heard it all when it comes to men, but this is a first: Men who refuse to kiss. Yes, apparently they DO exist – unlike the Keebler elves. These anti-kissers usually provide a laundry list of reasons why they don’t want to smooch their honeys.
I received an email from a woman who says her guy is not a fan of kissing. He downplays this as a hangup that she may have to “get used to” which means “this won’t change.” The phobia of kissing is called Philemaphobia and it is a real issue for some people.
I am a big fan of kissing and I can’t imagine dating someone who was not. I mean, what else are you supposed to do with your lips when you want intimacy? (Actually – don’t answer that). I honestly don’t know what advice to give the young lady! What should she do?
She is unsure if the issue is that her man doesn’t like kissing – or does not like kissing her. Would it bother you if the person you were seeing had some quirky hang up about sex or intimacy?
Have you ever had to tell the person you are dating that there is one thing that you simply refuse to do? Do you think certain hang ups are deal breakers?
By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog
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Exiled!
January 8th, 2013
3:29 pm
@O Ren..
The benefit is sweet pain
SlimNu - More of me, less of you
January 8th, 2013
3:34 pm
I see the menfolk in here keep putting out the disclaimer that they don’t lick the dookie shutes on purpose…It’s been done to me so i’m sure SOMMA yall have had booty juice on your tongues…ijs
O Ren Ichii
January 8th, 2013
3:35 pm
….and I won’t even watch “those” scenes on porn. I love porn, but feel so bad for the poor chic having to “take it.” Fast forward button, please….
Courtside Seats!!! Caught on the Kiss Cam :)
January 8th, 2013
3:38 pm
SlimNu…I aint skeeerd to say it…. when its right, I actively seek out the salad with the sole purpose of making sure it is well tossed!!!!!
MsAtl
January 8th, 2013
3:40 pm
Ex- I am not vanilla, but I am not Red Room of Pain either.
Exiled!
January 8th, 2013
3:41 pm
Lol @ Leggs!
Slim..the way some folks lick and grab rhose booties and thighs on porn sites…??
and lick the bootey…
Blog dudes are just denying for the sake of it,I’m sure.
In the cut,fo real fo real,i think it goes Down!
Leggs
January 8th, 2013
3:45 pm
What’s wrong with licking the booty? You ain’t sucking it like a lime after a shot of tequila. I would think it happen often. IJS….
SlimNu - More of me, less of you
January 8th, 2013
3:51 pm
Court – Well tossed….great!
SlimNu - More of me, less of you
January 8th, 2013
3:52 pm
Leggs – Sucking it like a lime
Leggs
January 8th, 2013
3:55 pm
SlimNu ~ did you see the word “AIN’T?”
Exiled!
January 8th, 2013
3:57 pm
I gotta go….
but I must say,y’all ladies are better than Disco,All of u,can’t lie.
I wonder if Disco even wets up down there. And forget even kissing with eyes closed.
She’s so real bout Everything,Everything!
With Disco it’s just str8 to the bedroom,stick it and Get outta my house!
Jeeeez!
Otherwise what’s the foreplay if no kissing?
SlimNu - More of me, less of you
January 8th, 2013
4:01 pm
Leggs – Yeah I saw it but I couldn’t get pass what came after AIN’T…had me sitting at my computer with the pucker face lol
Celisea
January 8th, 2013
4:12 pm
I come back to a bit of wild I see…..
Ummmmm, no backdoor anything going on other than what the body does to rid it self of the waste…naturally…nooo, no can do.
Toes? Well there’s only been one that sucked the toes. He did it second nature I’d say. Shoot, if that’s what you like and it ain’t injuring anything, HAVE AT IT…lol I though, am not going there!
Night folks!
Leggs
January 8th, 2013
4:12 pm