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Why is size important? Seriously!

Welcome back to another year of Misadventures in Atlanta! I’d like to give a warm greeting to new readers and a great big church lady hug to all our regulars. I thought I would start things off with a bang (no pun, really!) and explore the topic of “package size.” To maintain the integrity of our search engine optimization, I will say package, alright?

Men and women have debated ad nauseam if size matters. Regardless of what side of the issue you stand, I have always wondered why it is actually important in the first place. I was watching an episode of Misfits (science fiction-esque show) and one of the characters had his package..stolen. He literally did not want to live any longer.

Science fiction aside, what would happen to a guy if he did not have his package to define his manhood? There are so many other things about men that make them wonderful, why is their size so important?

I think of how – in comparison – many women feel the same when they have their breasts removed. They feel less of a woman, less feminine, etc. How are these body parts perceived as so much of who we think we are and how we see ourselves?

Let’s Discuss!

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog

245 comments Add your comment

Single and Happy

January 2nd, 2013
6:56 am

Hello all

Losing my “package” would me no more sex, you have to ask! If a man lost his “package” or a woman loses her breast. They are not viewed the same way sexually anymore. Regardless to how we think things are supposed to go in life, even elderly people have the urge every once in awhile!

oddmanout

January 2nd, 2013
7:56 am

Happy 2013!!!

Indeed that episode was hilarious!! OMG Diva, its rare to find someone that has watched “Misfits” or at least heard of it. ^_^ But if I was to lose my equipment, Im sure that I would feel less of a man, also Im sure that most women would not want a man that is unequipped

Big Al

January 2nd, 2013
8:13 am

The only size that matters is the size of his bank account. I think Hugh Hefner just proved that once again.

Button

January 2nd, 2013
8:18 am

When a woman have her breast removed it’s because of breast cancer!! how insensitive Wise Diva

disco

January 2nd, 2013
9:08 am

good morning. why is size important? really? why is water wet? lol. personally, I’m on team size is important but that’s because I’m on team sex is important. of course those things aren’t important to everyone. do I think size has any bearing on a man displaying man qualities? nope. he’s either about his business or he’s not.

kimmie

January 2nd, 2013
9:36 am

Morning All! Happy New Year!

Speaking only technically and practically, size matters if it’s an extreme one way or the other – very large or small. Other than that, it gets down to being able to work with what you have. Some got the equipment and don’t know how to use it. Some don’t have the equipment, but are able to make up for it in other ways. Some rely too much on their abundance of equipment and neglect other things. Such is life though.

As for “losing” parts, male or female, something like that is usually due to a trauma of some sort. Naturally there will be psychological problems associated with such a trauma, not to mention, physical.

What fun did you guys get into over the holidays? I want details!!

Leggs

January 2nd, 2013
9:38 am

Good morning.

As been said ad nauseam, size is important, but not the end of all things sexual or sensual. Some men are heavily endowed and don’t know how to use it, while there are some men who are truly, truly small and can rock the boat. Your confidence level certainly helps when navigating the rough waters of a woman’s sugar walls.

Exiled!

January 2nd, 2013
9:57 am

Happy New Year to Everybody!

I hope We All Crossed across safely. If anybody didn’t make it,my condolences.

On topic:

I’m with Kimmie..not for too big(belluga tatatas nor gaping vj) nor too small( bare chest nor key hole size vj)

Size matters because it’s about the feel factor!

Not to mention that u can’t mouth a bare chest,where do u touch,what do u squeeze?

Come in Diva!

Exiled!

January 2nd, 2013
9:58 am

disco

January 2nd, 2013
10:04 am

hey kimmie!!! leggs!!! and even big ups and happy new year to you ex. lol.

Bluzgirl

January 2nd, 2013
10:05 am

Happy New Year all!

Really? This is the first topic of the year? I believe that we have discussed many times last year…

Size only matters to an extent. It’s more about what can be done with it…

How did everyone celebrate the New Year? I actually stayed home alone and drank a bottle of wine. Was a little bummed at first, but I chose to stay home. I could have gone to a couple of places, but didn’t really want to drive far.

Leggs

January 2nd, 2013
10:07 am

hey disco! How you doing?

kimmie

January 2nd, 2013
10:08 am

Bluz – Happy New Year Sis!! Too much hype is made out of NYE to me anyway. You did about what me & my fam did. We had good food and drinks safely at home!

disco

January 2nd, 2013
10:11 am

hey bluz. I, too, spent new year’s home alone. I’m not even mad though. I fell asleep in the recliner. woke up feeling like it was the middle of the night. checked the time and it was only 10:30. I turned my phone off (you know folks like to call at midnight) and went on up to bed. I had to have got in a good 12 hours. I brought the new year in well rested. lol.

leggs – I’m good.

Bluzgirl

January 2nd, 2013
10:21 am

I agree that there is too much hype about NYE…really, it’s just amatuer night! I could have gone out and not had a drop to drink, but I don’t trust the other drivers! I spent about an hour and a half on the phone with my mom until just after midnight. We had some great talks. My parents came over yesterday and we did some major cleaning around my house.

Heck…I basically spent last NYE alone. I was in Charleston…the ex and I had gone up to spend the weekend with my best friend (he had to put down a pet) and the ex ended up leaving me to go back to Atlanta to play a gig. My best friend had passed out around 10:30. It was kind of funny that my New Year’s kiss was to my passed out gay best friend! LOL!!!

DuShawn

January 2nd, 2013
10:27 am

Health, Wealth and Happiness in the New Year…
I brought in the New Year in church with the family. It felt a little weird because me and wifey had a few cocktails, but at least we were there. On another note, remember the childhood sweetheart chick. How about she sent a Christmas card to my home. I never gave her my address. I’m playing with my kids, enjoying the holidays, wifey checks the mail and it changes the whole vibe in the crib. I had just squashed the last incident and it was almost healed. Those free meals I had at her house have proven to be quite costly.

Bluzgirl

January 2nd, 2013
10:33 am

DuShawn…Wow…kind of seems like chick is trying to stir the pot at this point.

disco

January 2nd, 2013
10:33 am

dushawn – what’s up D? that reminds me. I have to holler at my girl that said she was going to send mail to her creeping man-friend’s house for the wife to intercept. I wonder if she followed through.

Leggs

January 2nd, 2013
10:33 am

Bluz ~ I spent NYE with a good book, glass of wine and flipping channels. However, I didn’t watch any of the NYE festivities on TV, none of the musical tributes, etc. Same thing every year (lol). I enjoyed the quietness of the night and the comfort of being home.

kimmie ~ never liked the hype over NYE either. Entrance fee into many place is inflated just to be packed in like sardines. Not appealing.

DuShawn ~ you need to need put your childhood sweetheart in check, quickly!

Bluzgirl

January 2nd, 2013
10:40 am

Leggs – the NYE festivities on TV stunk!!! My mom and I were flipping back and forth to the different shows and having running commentary on how bad the music was!

Oh…here’s one thing that kind of bummed me out on NYE. Even my brother had a booty call that night and I didn’t!!! LOL!

Leggs

January 2nd, 2013
10:45 am

Why get bummed over a “booty” call? If they ain’t calling you at other times, why feel bad that you didn’t receive a “booty” call (lol). Be thankful.

DuShawn

January 2nd, 2013
10:48 am

Leggs – I’m not even going to respond. Imma just erase the chick.

Bluzgirl

January 2nd, 2013
10:50 am

I guess I wasn’t really bummed that I wasn’t getting any booty…it was more that my brother was and I was home alone! If you knew my brother, you would understand why it was a bit amazing and bumming to me at the same time! :-)

disco

January 2nd, 2013
10:51 am

ahhh leggs. I’m sure that’s not what she meant or at least not how she meant it. lol.

bluz – I’m bummed too. I didn’t get one either. lol. this morning on the radio they had a call in re what just had to change this year. the very first caller was a woman saying that her husband had to break her off more than he already was. apparently they do it like twice a month. lol. I had to laugh because I considered a similar resolution myself but figured I’d just be setting myself up for failure. I need to stick with things I have some kind of control over.

Leggs

January 2nd, 2013
10:51 am

Meant “aren’t”…not ain’t.

kimmie

January 2nd, 2013
10:55 am

Bluz & Leggs – Ditto on the NYE TV – horrible!!! I was flipping stations and shaking my head!!

Leggs

January 2nd, 2013
10:56 am

disco ~ ok. Came across that she wanted the D w/o anything else (lol).

Dushawn ~ while erasing her, be thankful you don’t own a pet rabbit!! IJS….

Bluzgirl

January 2nd, 2013
10:56 am

disco – I couldn’t set a resolution like that…I’d end up sleeping with too many men who weren’t good for me! LOL!!!

This year, I resolve to be a little bit pickier with men… :-)

Leggs

January 2nd, 2013
10:59 am

disco ~ what would you do if you received the call, they never said anything about booty, but you knew that’s why they were calling, feeling you out. Would you let them get off the phone w/o them saying anything, or would you extend an invite or let them off the phone since they weren’t man enough to actually speak up???

Robert

January 2nd, 2013
11:01 am

“what would happen to a guy if he did not have his package to define his manhood?”

Times have changed. Men can know “keep the power” all the time. Perscription pills such as viagra, cialis, etc., have virtually guaranteed a happy sex life with increased stamina and staying power, regardless of the size of the guys package. My woman keeps a close tab on my pill box.

From my experience a large package (10″ or more) could be problem. For example as a woman matures she is reluctant to have sex with a man with a large package because of pain and other problems. “Too much” package can be just as much as a problem as “too little” a package.

DuShawn

January 2nd, 2013
11:02 am

Leggs – Wifey just orderd us two new Glock nines. Her’s is stainless with black grip and a pink Hello Kitty emblem in the handle. I’m ignoring this chick for her own good. She don’t want to play crazy with the Mrs.

disco

January 2nd, 2013
11:04 am

bluz – guess that’s where we are opposites. you aren’t picky enough and apparently I’m too daggone picky. it is what it is.

re NYE tv, I guessed I missed it all since I was asleep. I will say that the western channel has been bout it recently. I laid back and watched some good “shoot em ups”. lol.

leggs – not enough info to answer but I would say if it was someone on my approved hit list and I wanted some I would go ahead and make it happen.

disco

January 2nd, 2013
11:05 am

dushawn – tell the truth. you are ignoring that chick for your own good moreso than hers. lol.

DuShawn

January 2nd, 2013
11:14 am

disco- no doubt. I’m just thankful I didn’t hit her. She spazzin out already, imagine if I would ‘ve put that D on her. Anyway, that’s just negative energy.

Leggs

January 2nd, 2013
11:18 am

To be honest, you should have known it would have been negative energy simply having dinner with her in her home! Nonetheless, you learned, and that’s all that matters.

Sassy Me...Feeling like New ;-)

January 2nd, 2013
11:26 am

From my experience a large package (10″ or more) could be problem

Too easy…soo not going there :lol:

On the matter of size it’s aleady been said…work with what you have and confidence is key.

I think alot if it is all about preferences…some women prefer a lil more than others(raising my hand)…don’t judge me ;-)

Side note: When did Mrs.Swiss have her baby?…anybody know? My sister’s in the hospital now…she’s 6cm and we all super excited!!!

Leggs

January 2nd, 2013
11:27 am

Sassy ~ pretty baby girl born 12/24, I believe.

Sassy Me...Feeling like New ;-)

January 2nd, 2013
11:33 am

pretty baby girl born 12/24, I believe

Kool!!…how about that(I hope it’s true)…my BFF had a nephew the same day,too! Now we’ve all got the same birthday :mrgreen:

Leggs

January 2nd, 2013
11:37 am

some women prefer a lil more than others(raising my hand)…

Sassy ~ reminds me of a time when I tried “a lil more” and had to buck off that stallion. That was entirely TOO much!

disco

January 2nd, 2013
11:41 am

leggs – I just thought of girlfiends again. the episode when William discovered that joan was an “ooh ahh” girl. lol.

Sassy Me...Feeling like New ;-)

January 2nd, 2013
11:41 am

Leggs I totally understand…I’ve been there a time or two but I like a good challenge once in a while :oops:

Leggs

January 2nd, 2013
11:59 am

I hope many likes a good challenge once in a while. Part of the spice!

SlimNu - More of me, less of you

January 2nd, 2013
12:01 pm

Happy New Year to yall folks…

I have not caught up on the comments but i’ll check in with yall shortly.

SlimNu - More of me, less of you

January 2nd, 2013
12:02 pm

And before I go, it don’t mean a thang if he ain’t got no wang. ;-)

DuShawn

January 2nd, 2013
1:11 pm

Wow…is this thing on?

Bluzgirl

January 2nd, 2013
1:12 pm

Where did everyone go?

Leggs

January 2nd, 2013
1:14 pm

If he got a wang and don’t want to use it, Houston, we have a problem!

DuShawn

January 2nd, 2013
1:15 pm

We need to talk about something. I got hours to kill.

Sassy Me...Feeling like New ;-)

January 2nd, 2013
1:16 pm

MY SISTER HAD HER BABY!!!

BABY AMIR!!!!

YAAAAAAAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!

:lol:

:lol:

Into the Light

January 2nd, 2013
1:16 pm

Afternoon, all!

Hope all are happy and well and looking forward to a great 2013!

Nothing to add on topic that hasn’t been said before.

As for NYE, I stayed home (alone) and after I treated myself to an at-home spa day, I crocheted and watched football. I must be getting old, because I found it rather enjoyable….