What stops you from approaching?
We can never explain why we are attracted to certain people, while others just don’t do it for us. A lot of the reasons we pass people up are completely superficial and nonsensical, but sometimes we have valid reasons to pause.
Call it instinct or intuition, but we often have to let our gut tell us when to keep it moving. I know for me, the minute I don’t go with my instinct, I end up regretting it later on. So how do we know when to follow our instinct and when to proceed with caution?
Have you ever noticed someone and was contemplating checking them out but decided not to? What was it that stopped you from approaching?
What turn-offs do you spot that immediately makes you rethink pursuing someone you initially thought was someone cool or a “great potential”?
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356 comments Add your comment
Amelia
November 19th, 2012
7:55 am
Dishonesty. You can’t be honest? You can’t have me. Playing games, still a playa playa? Immature? Selfish? Never wrong? Constantly need stroking? No equality? Everything is about you, you, you, and you? Jaded against all woman because of a past relationship? Nah, I’ll pass.
Single and Happy
November 19th, 2012
8:06 am
Hello all
For me it’s about attitude! If I smile at them, and they smile back, they are approachable, if they have to look at me from head to toe, then it’s on to the next one.
Button
November 19th, 2012
8:48 am
Good Morning, I have to agree with Amelia and say the misogynitic overtone and add the se&ual innuedos, negative attitude, sleezy and greasy disposition, player mentality, that’s it for now.
lee
November 19th, 2012
8:50 am
What stops me from approaching? I’m shy.
Comon Cents
November 19th, 2012
9:06 am
Hate to say this, but I have to find you physically attractive to even begin the approach. If your looks don’t fly with me, I will never find out if you are the dishonest, playa, etc. Most people don’t like to admit that, but if there is no chemistry, it’s never gonna happen.
Comon Cents
November 19th, 2012
9:13 am
Oh and Good Morning, bloggies!
MsAtl
November 19th, 2012
9:18 am
Morning All,
What turnoffs do you spot immediately that stops you from approaching?
A man does not have to be drop-dead gorgeous and decked out in a suit, but if your pants are sagging or you look like a gang banger or dealer, I am not going to give you the time of day. It may be judging based on your appearance, but it is what it is. I think that after a certain age, you should pull your pants up and put aside the hustle. A gold grill is another turn-off.
SlimNu: Life always happens
November 19th, 2012
9:19 am
Morning gang!
How was everyone’s weekend?
Comon Cents
November 19th, 2012
9:27 am
MsAtl~ Agreed. LMAO @ gold grill. Do people who are not rappers or under the age of 25 even have those anymore?
Comon Cents
November 19th, 2012
9:29 am
Morning, Slim!
My weekend was great! Breaking Dawn on Friday, Georgia game on Saturday and laid around watching football with the hubs on Sunday. What could be better?
SlimNu: Life always happens
November 19th, 2012
9:40 am
CC – Sounds good to me! The beau threw some hamburgers and weenies on the grill yesterday. So it was football, food, and beer/Goose
WrightIdea
November 19th, 2012
9:43 am
The waitress test: If they aren’t nice to the waitress, then they just aren’t a nice person. If they are “too nice” to the waitress, they don’t understand boundaries. The naked test: Can you ever imagine wanting to be naked with the person. The friend test: Would it be embarrassing to introduce them to your friends.
MsAtl
November 19th, 2012
9:47 am
Common- sadly, I think so.
Leggs
November 19th, 2012
9:55 am
Single ~ I have to agree with you. Attitude is front and center. A sincere interest gets the conversation flowing effortlessly.
“What turn-offs do you spot that immediately makes you rethink pursuing someone you initially thought was someone cool or a “great potential”?” = Loudness, drawing attention to himself.
Good morning.
Comon Cents
November 19th, 2012
9:55 am
Te hee hee~ weenies…
Celisea
November 19th, 2012
9:59 am
I really try not to judge a book by it’s cover. That is often the one thing folks do and is just so misguided with it. But, on topic if there are any apparent turn offs it would be:
Thugged out
Potty mouth
Mr. Freaking Wonderful
God’s gift (to every woman in the establishment)
Adonis…wannabe
Old cats (and no, I’m no teenager but I ain’t delusional either…lol)
My mantra is, nothing wrong with a nice looking dude but really, that ain’t a hangup of mine. If you’re polite, a gentleman, wellgroomed….IJS
Celisea......mini vacay bound
November 19th, 2012
10:02 am
I was sick Saturday night and all day Sunday. My hon brought meds AND surprisingly kept his word, HE ATTENDED OUR CHURCH SERVICE YESTERDAY
Now, THAT’S Mr. Freaking Wonderful….in my book!!
I just dern got here, let me get to work….ugh One more day and it’s mini vacay! Yaaaay!!
Leggs
November 19th, 2012
10:03 am
Comon ~ speaking of Breaking Dawn, Lil Leggs is home so I snatched her and one of her friends up before they could make plans and took them to a nice dinner in Buckhead then over to Phipps to see Breaking Dawn. Those leather recliner seats are the bomb!!! All I needed was a drink and a little blanket and I would have felt right at home (lolol).
Leggs
November 19th, 2012
10:10 am
“Do people who are not rappers or under the age of 25 even have those anymore?” – I was watching Sweetie Pies wondering why one of the older cooks has a grill. His mouth looks HORRIBLE. Already a country bumpkin who has a lazy tongue now his teeth are shiny!
Comon Cents
November 19th, 2012
10:15 am
Leggs~ The theater we went to had drinks (sadly, no blankets) but all in all it was an enjoyable experience. Gave me some quality time with my SIL’s too.
Comon Cents
November 19th, 2012
10:16 am
Leggs/MsAtl~ I was never into grillz even when I was younger and they were supposedly the style. Every man I have ever met who had golds in his mouth has stank breath. True TUNOFF!
Leggs
November 19th, 2012
10:20 am
I’ve never been interested in anyone with a gold tooth, a shiny grill or sagging pants. And, I dislike men who wear those long shorts that touch their ankles…horrible look.
kimmie
November 19th, 2012
10:21 am
Morning Gang!!!
ANY reason you have for not wanting to approach someone is VALID, Wise! That urks me to no end! What YOU may deem superficial is just another person’s preference. And people have a right to their preferences – period point blank. Nobody is owed an approach just because they are out! You are not everyone’s cup of tea. But I truly believe there is someone for everyone.
Leggs – I saw that dude on Sweetie Pies!! It looked a hot mess. I personally would be turned off by it, but I bet he’s probably got a wife that loves him, jacked-up mouth and all. I personally have always loved men with nice teeth. I’ve had folks trip on me because I’ve passed up some dudes that had grills and jacked-up teeth! Fine, then you kiss him, I’ll pass!LOL!!!
Celisea......mini vacay bound
November 19th, 2012
10:23 am
And you reasons may not be another’s
One man’s famine is another man’s feast 
Toodles!!
Celisea......mini vacay bound
November 19th, 2012
10:23 am
your not you
To each his own!!
Comon Cents
November 19th, 2012
10:24 am
kimmie~ Amen to that! Oral hygiene is EXTREMELY important to me. There are some people that I just want to throw a breath mintin their mouth while they’re talking. Just UGHHH!!!
MsAtl
November 19th, 2012
10:28 am
Comon- I’m right there with you; I have never been impressed by grillz.
Leggs- short that touch their ankles? Those aren’t shorts, those are pedal pushers, lol.
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
November 19th, 2012
10:31 am
What stops me is a grim face displaying disdain and contempt. When I say hello that’s not a suggestion I want to take you home, therefore don’t give me a look as if I ruined your day. I live under the premise nobody is obligated to say anything when they don’t want, but silence may speak louder than words in some instances. I get the feel sometimes women are just tired of being approached if they like what they see in a man she will approach him.
Good Morning:
SlimNu: Life always happens
November 19th, 2012
10:36 am
Every man I have ever met who had golds in his mouth has stank breath. True TUNOFF!
Sometimes the troof smells
Celisea......mini vacay bound
November 19th, 2012
10:38 am
Honestly, I ain’t never been chatted up by mr. yuck mouth…lol So, I guess that’s one experience (funky breath), that I’m proud to say I’ve never had…lol
Okay, I’m suppose to be gone and working. I’m just so dang tired from being up all night. I can’t concentrate cause I’m soooo sleepy. I should have taken a sick day today.
Leggs
November 19th, 2012
10:41 am
BF ~ I have a friend that doesn’t readily wear a smile, but she doesn’t seem to understand how her stoicism emits a strong “don’t approach” signal to men. She laughs at me, but I told her many times she needs to loosen up. She doesn’t think she’s mean mugging, but she is. We were out and I walked away and stayed gone for a good 10 mins. Went off and took a picture of her w/o her knowing. She laughed and finally understood what I was saying. A visual worked for her (lol).
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
November 19th, 2012
10:41 am
Leggs:
I said it lon time ago I cannot wear those shorts, to me it’s a fad that’s now starting to fade out. The others I can’t wear FUBU, Coogie, and Sean John, they are fine for folks that wear them but I don’t. Sort of like the designer wear in my day was Sasson, Sergio Valente, Georgio Armani, Pierre Cardin.
SlimNu: Life always happens
November 19th, 2012
10:44 am
I’m almost embrassed to say that I had a super duper crush on this dude in 8th grade that had one gold toof. His toof had his initial carved in it too. I don’t know what the heyal I was thinking but glad that one didn’t go anywhere. Well, actually my ex-friend ended up getting with him behind my back. So even though we are no longer friends, she took a bullet for me on that one
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
November 19th, 2012
10:45 am
Sassoon left out out an o.
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
November 19th, 2012
10:46 am
I’ll take one of those outs back please.
Celisea......mini vacay bound
November 19th, 2012
10:48 am
Anything “thugged” related, I have ALWAYS been a chicken and ran from…lol From the mouth, to the clothing, to the mannerisms, to the lingo…all of it. I dunno, was always scared it would cause an adverse effect on me…lololol
MsAtl
November 19th, 2012
10:49 am
Whoa,Slim- 8th grade??? I blame that one on the parents! WTH?
kimmie
November 19th, 2012
10:49 am
Leggs/BF – My expression is something I had to work on! Some friends brought it to my attention in college. A guy told me at parties how I would look mean. When people would see me on the street, they would say I looked mean and tell me to smile. I realized when I am just minding my own business or thinking about the place I’m going or what I have to do, I have a serious expression that could be taken for mean-mugging. So while I don’t walk around with a stupid grin like Suzie Sunshine all the time, I do make the effort to look pleasant, approachable. Not for meetting a dudes sake, but just to the world in general. I practiced it so much it is now second nature!!
Celisea......mini vacay bound
November 19th, 2012
10:49 am
I knows what I knows what I knows what I know!! I’m just cutting up before I dig in
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
November 19th, 2012
10:52 am
Yeah Leggs, a stoic look will make a guy keep on passing by. She don’t know she could have had her drink or dinner paid for and the dude may not even wanted to know her name.
Leggs
November 19th, 2012
10:54 am
I too do not care for Coogi’s colorful jeans. We’re from the same era, BF. Those were my designers back then to, along with Pucci. I loved my white Sasson jeans ($50). That was a lot of money for a pair or jeans back then (lol).
Celisea......mini vacay bound
November 19th, 2012
10:55 am
Alright I’m out for real
I’ll be here at 6:00 if I don’t get crackin.
VACAY just around the bend! Yay…
I hope I don’t take in more cold getting my hair done Wednesday. Guess I’ll have to wear a hat. Not feeling that
SlimNu: Life always happens
November 19th, 2012
10:56 am
MsAtl – Well, I don’t think she slept with him until 10th grade lol
MsAtl
November 19th, 2012
10:58 am
Slim- Lol. Thank goodness for that, but I was talking about the gold “toof.” Why would a parent get a child a gold tooth?
Sassy Me...I'm so ready ;-)
November 19th, 2012
10:59 am
when I am just minding my own business or thinking about the place I’m going or what I have to do, I have a serious expression that could be taken for mean-mugging.
I’m oh so guilty of this. Actually just this past Saturday a girlfriend of mine told me I had this look that could shoot daggers and all I could do was laugh b/c I was clueless that I was even doing it. I’m still working on that part…I make an effort to look approachable and when I’m on it works but there are those times that depending on where I am(i.e. the hood or somewhere I have no call being) I might have that “don’t eff with me” look going on.
Leggs
November 19th, 2012
10:59 am
Possibly, BF…possibly. I too have a serious look on my face when I’m out alone, but I’ve learned to break it up by thinking of something that makes me smile, looking around me to find something to smile at, etc. Yeah, kimmie, I had to train myself as well. When I first moved here I was considered a “hardened NYer,” so I was mindful of all the phoney smiles and fake waves (lol).
Sassy Me..I'm so ready ;-)
November 19th, 2012
11:02 am
Why would a parent get a child a gold tooth?
When I was younger I knew a family where it seemed like ALL of them had an open faced crown and the youngest one was in middle school with me. We all thought he was sooo cool and the fact that he had a gang of fine brothers was a recipe for disaster…but we had alot of fun though
kimmie
November 19th, 2012
11:02 am
I’ll never forget this Nick Ashford looking dude with gold teeth that was trying to talk to me at this club when I was out with my friends. I was about 22 at the time and he looked at least 40. My friends kept telling me I should give him a chance cause “he might be nice”!! Mind you they had all these fine cuties sweating them. I told them he may be nice, but I’ll take the loss and they were welcome to have at him. Of course, there were no takers. I said no thank you to his drink offer too – I was not that thirsty!!
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
November 19th, 2012
11:05 am
I feel you Kimmie I have the expressionless look on my face at times, people ask me why am I looking mean. Folks always tell me I look like the police, a Marine drill seargent, or something sneaky……………….LOL
kimmie
November 19th, 2012
11:06 am
Sassy – Yeah, I got my “don’t eff with me look” too I have to pull out at times!! Especially when I’m where I can’t just cover my eyes with sunglasses.
Leggs
November 19th, 2012
11:09 am
I’m laughing at you BF!
MsAtl
November 19th, 2012
11:10 am
Leggs & Sassy- I admit I am guilty of that as well. A man told me that he would not have spoken to me if he met me on the street because I had that “get out of my face” look. I was also told I looked like the “typical New Yorker” with an attitude. I’m working on it. I chalk it up to being preoccupied, constantly thinking about my next move and what needs to be done.
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
November 19th, 2012
11:12 am
Leggs, don’t forget Gloria Vanderbilt. Jeans that were built for black women. I aint racist y’all but women of color wore them so splendidly where did they go?
disco
November 19th, 2012
11:13 am
hey y’all. not the gold tooth talk. btw, they had – i don’t know what to call them – clip on / slide on gold teeth back in the day. the look without the cost or committment.
O/T – don’t recall who suggested i watch cadillac records but i wasn’t overly impressed. like the cast, liked the storyline just not impressed with it overall.
also O/T – what’s up with olivia pope tearing up in practically every episode?
Sassy Me..I'm so ready ;-)
November 19th, 2012
11:16 am
I chalk it up to being preoccupied, constantly thinking about my next move and what needs to be done.
True…it’s like you’re lost in so many thoughts at the same d@#m time the last thing you consider is your facial expression.
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
November 19th, 2012
11:20 am
LOL………@Kimmie
Nick Ashford look alike with gold teeth that’s a visual that makes me think of the song black and yellow, black and yellow.
kimmie
November 19th, 2012
11:20 am
BF – Sorry, but those GV were made for anyone but the sisters in my book!
disco – I watched the last Scandal episode yesterday and I was thinking the same thing! I’m love the show but I’m bout sick of her bout to holler every episode!! I felt sorry for the dude Abby WAS seeing. He a nice guy just trying to get to the truth. He can do better than Abby though!
i'm swiss
November 19th, 2012
11:20 am
Morning, blogville.
Kind of on topic (at least corollary to the topic of instinct): Did anyone catch this story on 60 minutes? Pretty fascinating…
kimmie
November 19th, 2012
11:21 am
I chalk it up to being preoccupied, constantly thinking about my next move and what needs to be done.
Yep, that’s me all the way!!!
Comon Cents
November 19th, 2012
11:24 am
BF/Leggs~ What about Cross Colours? Or those ugly Coogi sweater from back in the day?
Comon Cents
November 19th, 2012
11:28 am
swiss~ Fascinating yes, but not sure I agree 100%. If environment were that much of a factor, you wouldn’t have children from the same household raised by the same parents who turn out completely different. There was a family at my dad’s old church who had one son who turned out to be a well-respected doctor and the other son turned out to be a drug dealing murderer. Same parents, same household witha 3 year age difference between the boys. The mother said that the younger child was ALWAYS difficult.
SlimNu: Life always happens
November 19th, 2012
11:28 am
MsAtl – Oohhh, yeah you have a point there and I didn’t even think about that as far as having a good that early. lol Well, this was Decatur so it isn’t too unheard of lol
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
November 19th, 2012
11:29 am
Comon
Isn’t Alexander Julian the creator of Cross Colours? Coogi may be cool for the other guy but I couldn’t find anything I liked about them.
Leggs
November 19th, 2012
11:31 am
BF, Gloria Vanderbilt is a jean I couldn’t wear back then. I had virtually no hips, no butt cheeks to put in a pair of pants. They looked horrible on me. Jordace fit me better.
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
November 19th, 2012
11:36 am
Jordache that’s who I was trying to think of that built jeans for black women.
mark
November 19th, 2012
11:36 am
some Sistas have a look that will make a stop Dead in his Tracks. Like dont E’;ff with me, But Hell i have been dissed so many times Sistas you have to do more than give me the Stink Face to stop me
kimmie
November 19th, 2012
11:38 am
Leggs – I’ve always had “junk in my trunk” and the one pair of GV’s I had I had to have practically remade. By the time I got jeans to fit over my butt, the waist part was huge and had to be taken in. Jordache and Calvin Kleins fit me much better.
CoolShadow
November 19th, 2012
11:38 am
Have you ever noticed someone and was contemplating checking them out but decided not to? What was it that stopped you from approaching?
Mostly, pure instinct but sometimes it’s a turn-off or later discovery that she’s not single.
What turn-offs do you spot that immediately makes you rethink pursuing someone you initially thought was someone cool or a “great potential”?
Smoking, disrespect to waitstaff & other service workers and sometimes the mean mugging discussed previously.
The other issue is that some women only want to be approached by men they’re attracted to, and they can be less than cordial if you don’t meet their standards.
i'm swiss
November 19th, 2012
11:38 am
Comon — Hmm, my takeaway from that was actually that environment was not as big a factor as we might think. Rather, that we are born with pre-disposed notions of morality as well as pre-disposed biases in favor of those perceived to be like us.
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
November 19th, 2012
11:39 am
Shoot any jeans will do, pour them on if you have to they look good on you..
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
November 19th, 2012
11:43 am
I still can visualize that horse on those Jordache jeans.
kimmie
November 19th, 2012
11:44 am
Coolshadow – That’s what I couldn’t put my finger on – Smoking! That’s always been an instant turn-off!!
i'm swiss
November 19th, 2012
11:46 am
I can still visualize a topless Heidi Klum riding that horse in her Jordache jeans…
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
November 19th, 2012
11:47 am
Can’t count the times the fellas and I would say we want to ride that horse in those jeans……LOL
Leggs
November 19th, 2012
11:47 am
BF – Sorry, but those GV were made for anyone but the sisters in my book! – Yep.
disco ~ you’re simply hard to please on many facets. Pray tell, how did you like Beyonce singing the song as he was leaving. swiss’ told me the title but I forgot it again.
Comon Cents
November 19th, 2012
11:47 am
swiss~ maybe I am misinterpreting as I was watching while working
If that is the case, then I do agree with that. I think some kids are just bad seeds, born that way. But in some cases, environment (especially a bad one) will influence how a kid turns out.
Robert
November 19th, 2012
11:56 am
“What was it that stopped you from approaching?”
Robert’s Rules On Datings – Top 10
I will not approach;
1. Women who dress inapropriately for their age
2. Women with hair weaves
3. Women with fake nails
4. Women with tattoo’s
5. Women under 30 years old (no more mama babies = $$$)
6. Women over 30 with little children (already raised kids)
7. Women over 45 years old (no cougars)
8. Women not working for over 5 years(no free loaders)
9. Women with no car ( No taxi cab)
10. Women with no money ($$$$)
Leggs
November 19th, 2012
11:58 am
I think someone is in trouble!!!
Celisea......mini vacay bound
November 19th, 2012
11:58 am
Robert – I passed all ten! :MRGREEN:
Celisea......mini vacay bound
November 19th, 2012
11:59 am
I passed but really I’m just funning….lololol
MsAtl
November 19th, 2012
12:02 pm
Robert- your list seems more like a “won’t date” list because you have to approach in order to find out the things on your list even apply.
kimmie
November 19th, 2012
12:03 pm
Robert – How would you know most of that just on an initial approch?
kimmie
November 19th, 2012
12:03 pm
Robert – Also, do any of those things on the list apply to YOU?? LOL!!!
Celisea......mini vacay bound
November 19th, 2012
12:04 pm
How are you going to know nails, hair, boobs (etc) are fake without approaching? How are you going to know whether or not little kids, baby mama/daddy is you don’t approach? How are you going to know whether or not they have a car/job if you don’t approach?
All rhetorical of course but just wondering out loud.
CoolShadow
November 19th, 2012
12:04 pm
kimmie – so true, and I forgot to mention the chest & neck tats.
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
November 19th, 2012
12:05 pm
LOL………….@Robert
Leggs
November 19th, 2012
12:06 pm
Robert ~ your lists reminds of Tough Lough New Orleans when the host had a room full of men and when asked if they had certain attributes to stand or sit, only one man was left standing!
Leggs
November 19th, 2012
12:07 pm
Celisea ~ I passed only 9 (cracking up).
Celisea......mini vacay bound
November 19th, 2012
12:07 pm
Actually, I think Robert’s list is “funning.” I don’t think he’s serious.
Celisea......mini vacay bound
November 19th, 2012
12:08 pm
Leggs – I almost didn’t make all ten…lol
Celisea......mini vacay bound
November 19th, 2012
12:10 pm
How old is Robert? He’s got a 21 year old. Surely over 45
Celisea......mini vacay bound
November 19th, 2012
12:12 pm
A woman ain’t a cougar (to you) if y’all the same age or you’re older. A woman is a cougar if you (being the man) is younger. A boy toy is a boy toy if she’s older. Again, if y’all around the same age or in the same age bracket, ummm (IMO) she ain’t a cougar to you.
Celisea......mini vacay bound
November 19th, 2012
12:12 pm
Okay, enough talking…back to work Celisea
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
November 19th, 2012
12:13 pm
LOL………that’s the funnies of the day.
SlimNu: Life always happens
November 19th, 2012
12:14 pm
I guess 2 out of ten isn’t too too bad. How many cat’s does that equate to?
Leggs
November 19th, 2012
12:15 pm
Robert ~ are you still dating your clingy gf who insists on spending more time with you and your kids? That is, if your the same Robert? You sound like him.
Celisea......mini vacay bound
November 19th, 2012
12:15 pm
IMO, an old cat REQUIRING a young chick and swearing off older women (i.e. cougars) is equivalent to a cat with a big belly but wanting a dime piece….IJS
Okay, I’m gone for real. Out to lunch.
AGAIN, JUST FUNNING!!! :MRGREEN: Don’t get in a tizzy
Leggs
November 19th, 2012
12:16 pm
you’re
Celisea......mini vacay bound
November 19th, 2012
12:16 pm
What’s wrong with my
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
November 19th, 2012
12:19 pm
Cely you’re not helping me calm down with the little green man.
Comon Cents
November 19th, 2012
12:22 pm
Hence, the reason Robert will be single forever… I kid, I kid (b/n/r)
No tattoos?
I’m out! 
What about piercings Robert? 
MsAtl
November 19th, 2012
12:23 pm
Leggs & Cel- I only passed 8, lol.
Celisea
November 19th, 2012
12:33 pm
Blackfoote – lol
Ms Atl – I wonder “what’s passing”……the entire 10???
Comon Cents
November 19th, 2012
12:33 pm
BF~ Better late than never
, but no, Cross Colors was started by Carl Jones and it was worn by the likes of Kriss Kross etc. (Think the Karl Kani era) Alexander Julian made a line of men’s sportswear called Colours. I think it’s still around…
Comon Cents
November 19th, 2012
12:34 pm
C~ I would look at the entire 10 as failing if Robert is the prize… IJS
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
November 19th, 2012
12:34 pm
Lets see Georgia can win a national championship title if they win the next three games.
MsAtl
November 19th, 2012
12:35 pm
Cel- I would say 10; looks like an all-or-nothing to me.
Leggs
November 19th, 2012
12:36 pm
Ms Atl – I wonder “what’s passing”……the entire 10??? – Ummm, you might have a jerk and/or snob on your hands. IDK…
Leggs
November 19th, 2012
12:36 pm
But seriously, we like and want what we like and want.
Celisea
November 19th, 2012
12:38 pm
CC – ouch!!
Ms Atl – I was so hoping not
Comon Cents
November 19th, 2012
12:40 pm
True, Leggs, but there has to be some room for negotiation. If your list is that strict and you are not willing to waiver at all, you have excluded the very person that might be your soul mate.
SlimNu: Life always happens
November 19th, 2012
12:40 pm
I would look at the entire 10 as failing if Robert is the prize
Into the Light
November 19th, 2012
12:42 pm
Afternoon, all and Happy Monday!
Shhhh, BF. As a child of the Munson/Dooley raising, we don’t talk about that stuff. We have to take it one game at a time.
But I will admit that I was giddy as a kid on Christmas morning when I saw the sports news on Sunday morning. To know that we have a chance….WOW!
GO DAWGS!
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
November 19th, 2012
12:42 pm
Comon yes I like the Colours by Alexander Julian designs.
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
November 19th, 2012
12:49 pm
Hey Light, I know don’t want to jinx the boys but it is a novelty for them to be in this position. I thinks it’s great. Suppose Notre Dame loses to USC and Bama loses to Auburn that’ll turn the BCS on it’s head…………LOL
Into the Light
November 19th, 2012
12:51 pm
@BF: Oh, law. That would be a mess. I don’t see the Tide losing to Auburn, and now that Barkley is out, I think the Irish will take care of USC. But you never know…..
Comon Cents
November 19th, 2012
12:52 pm
BF~ While you’re joking, a Notre Dame loss to USC is entirely possible. USC is going to have an ax to grind after their loss to UCLA and, honestly, Notre Dame is not that good they just haven’t really played anyone yet. IJS.
Light, I looked for you on Saturday but my phone was dead and I didn’t bring your number. We ended up leaving early anyway because some little Heathen above us was spitting chewed popcorn over the railing. But it was a good game. Then I went home to watch Kansas St and Oregon lose! What a good night!
Into the Light
November 19th, 2012
12:54 pm
@CC: No worries. Things happen.
Celisea
November 19th, 2012
12:54 pm
Robert??
Into the Light
November 19th, 2012
12:59 pm
Okay, back to work. Happy Thanksgiving, all!
Leggs
November 19th, 2012
1:04 pm
Comon ~ yep on your 12:34.
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
November 19th, 2012
1:06 pm
Light:
Happy Thanksgiving I’m doing a turkey breast, need to take that thing out today so it can defrost. Gonna inject it all over to add flavor and throw it in the crock pot.
Comon Cents
November 19th, 2012
1:08 pm
Happy Thanksgiving, Light!
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
November 19th, 2012
1:10 pm
Comon I think USC gonna knock the Irish off, I really do.
Into the Light
November 19th, 2012
1:12 pm
Thanks, y’all!!
I’m going to Carolina. My mouth is all set for some fried turkey, ham, dressing, macaroni pie, etc, etc…. can’t wait!
Leggs
November 19th, 2012
1:14 pm
Happy Thanksgiving, ITL! All I need to buy are my collards and some vanilla ice cream. All, gotta get the likka too. That’s all (lol).
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
November 19th, 2012
1:20 pm
Thanks Leggs for reminding me I got to make a stop at the likka store too.
Celisea......mini vacay bound
November 19th, 2012
1:22 pm
I ain’t did a thing today. I was actually blogging from the restaurant with my group (they were talking sports)…
I’m gonna pay dearly for dragging tail today
i'm swiss
November 19th, 2012
1:22 pm
I actually hope ND wins, because should UGA manage to get through Tech & Bama, I’d much rather face ND than Oregon.
Having said that… My DAWGS need to focus on nothing but those annoying little NATS. While they are a bag of flaming poop this year, we’ve already demonstrated that we are capable of playing down to the crappiest level of competition (Kentucky!) if we aren’t focused. Take care of business this week. Nothing else matters.
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
November 19th, 2012
1:25 pm
Oooh just saw the most beautiful eyes, when eye lashes are real and the eye liner put on right that’s make a woman very sexy.
Comon Cents
November 19th, 2012
1:25 pm
I actually hope ND wins, because should UGA manage to get through Tech & Bama, I’d much rather face ND than Oregon
Agreed. Even though Oregon got beat by Stanford, I think that they are gonna come back with an ax to grind too!
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
November 19th, 2012
1:27 pm
“we’ve already demonstrated that we are capable of playing down to the crappiest level of competition”
@swiss sound like you’re talking about the Falcons from yesterday………..LOL
SlimNu: Life always happens
November 19th, 2012
1:30 pm
Not that anyone asked me but I’ll be going to the Gump and we ordered our turkey breast from the Honey Baked Ham store.
Leggs
November 19th, 2012
1:34 pm
What or where is the Gump???
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
November 19th, 2012
1:35 pm
I’ll ask you Slim1 where and what is the Gump?
Into the Light
November 19th, 2012
1:35 pm
Ahhhhh, I had to peek back in to see if my brotha from anotha motha popped in. Hey Swiss! I co-sign your post! Can’t you just hear Munson now?
And, in case you haven’t heard, Miami recused themselves, so the Trade School is playing for the ACC Championship.
i'm swiss
November 19th, 2012
1:36 pm
BF — Yeah, the subjects are pretty much interchangeable in that statement.
Here’s my absolute dream scenario:
1) DAWGS, Gators & Cocky all win BIG this weekend (over their respective ACC in-state rivals).
2) DAWGS beat Bammer in SECCG
3) Tech beats FSU in ACCCG & gets Orange Bowl berth (highlighting the cosmic clusterf__k that is the ACC)
4) DAWGS beat the ever-loving crap out of ND
5) Tech loses by 5 TDs to Louisville in the Orange Bowl (reinforcing what a cosmic clusterf__k the ACC is).
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
November 19th, 2012
1:36 pm
Leggs great minds think a lot, now you know what I’m thinking………….LOL
SlimNu: Life always happens
November 19th, 2012
1:36 pm
Montgomery, AL….aka the GUMP
Into the Light
November 19th, 2012
1:37 pm
ITL’s Holiday Lesson #136: DO NOT eat 3 cheese biscuits at Red Lobster during lunchtime if you have to go back to work. Three shots of espresso, and I’m still dragging…. Darn carbs.
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
November 19th, 2012
1:38 pm
LOL……@swiss and it’s all possible.
SlimNu: Life always happens
November 19th, 2012
1:40 pm
ITL – At first I thought you were going to say you’re walking around with that garlic breath from the biscuits lol.
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
November 19th, 2012
1:40 pm
Dang Leggs how come you didn’t tell we think a like and not a lot…………LOL
Robert
November 19th, 2012
1:49 pm
@kimmie – ” How would you know most of that just on an initial approach?”
Most Men can spot a hair weave, fake eyelashes, finger nails, etc., when they first approach a woman. For example some women;
1. keep their hair in braids too long and have a receding hair line
2. are going bald
3. changes style from braids to a weave to hide problems
4. you can see were the hair line starts to recede
5. she has too many layers of hair sewed or implanted into her head
Everybody can not have hair like Chaka Khan.
Leggs
November 19th, 2012
1:52 pm
BF, I’m getting much better at reading minds. Yes sir, I know whatcha thinking (lololol).
Leggs
November 19th, 2012
1:55 pm
Sorry, BF, didn’t even see the mistake until you pointed it out.
I never thought all that was Chaka’s hair. How do you know it’s her hair, Robert? Have you run your fingers through it and touched her scalp???
Celisea......mini vacay bound
November 19th, 2012
1:58 pm
Ummm, Chaka wears a weave….at least I always thought. Chaka’s hair ain’t been exactly the model…IJS
Robert – I’m a woman and really weave wear has been perfected. It’s hard to tell (some) at just a glance.
Into the Light
November 19th, 2012
1:59 pm
LOL@Slim’s 1:40. No ma’am, I keep a toothbrush, toothpaste, and Listerine here for that very reason. To be honest, though, the garlic and the espresso were duking it out. LOL
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
November 19th, 2012
2:00 pm
LOL………@Robert spotting weaves a mile away.
Comon Cents
November 19th, 2012
2:01 pm
And, in case you haven’t heard, Miami recused themselves, so the Trade School is playing for the ACC Championship
I had not heard this! Going to read now…
i'm swiss
November 19th, 2012
2:04 pm
Howdy, ITL! Yeah, I did see that the Trade School found themselves division champs this morning…
Whew… Sorry, for the pause. I had to suppress my laughter there…
Comon Cents
November 19th, 2012
2:06 pm
Nope, Chaka’s hair is not weave.
http://www.curlynikki.com/2012/02/chaka-khan-talks-natural-hair.html
FYI…
SlimNu: Life always happens
November 19th, 2012
2:06 pm
Have you run your fingers through it and touched her scalp???
Leggs – I know a lot of folks here don’t too much care for Robert but you gonna get ole boy killed
SlimNu: Life always happens
November 19th, 2012
2:08 pm
ITL – That’s the one thing I hate about eating habachi…that ginger stays on your tongue
i'm swiss
November 19th, 2012
2:10 pm
“that ginger stays on your tongue”
Slim — That’s the same reason I don’t like to eat redhead’s p_ssy.
Leggs
November 19th, 2012
2:10 pm
Single and Happy
November 19th, 2012
2:11 pm
comon, I find it odd that now anyone that’s had long hair has to have a weave, just not possible to have natural hair anymore (LOL)
Comon Cents
November 19th, 2012
2:13 pm
swiss/ITL~ I have to say on the subject of the “self-imposed” ban, this smacks of the fact that Miami is all but admitting that they are out of compliance. I wonder how bad it is?
kimmie
November 19th, 2012
2:15 pm
Robert – That stuff is obvious. I’m talking about stuff like #5 thru 10 on your list.
Single and Happy
November 19th, 2012
2:16 pm
Kimmie, don’t you find it odd that there’s always 10 things on the list (LOL) but hey to each his on (LOL)
Leggs
November 19th, 2012
2:16 pm
that yum yum sauce will knock the ginger taste away. No, I’m not talking about yum yum swiss is seeking.
kimmie
November 19th, 2012
2:17 pm
Single – I agree. Forget even long hair, even chin length is suspect now, and don’t let it be thick and full!LOL!!
Willie Dynamite
November 19th, 2012
2:18 pm
Afternoon all,
Topic- the only thing that stops me from approaching is ME. Ole or no smile, just depends on whether or not I feel like it. I can say that I doubt I’d waste my time if I knew I could get her easily. I like the challenge.
SlimNu: Life always happens
November 19th, 2012
2:18 pm
swiss
kimmie
November 19th, 2012
2:18 pm
Single – LOL!!! I guess he likes David Leterman’s Top Ten lists!!!
Speaking of which, I have not watched Letterman in awhile. I used to love his show.
Single and Happy
November 19th, 2012
2:20 pm
kimmie i’m starting to suspect the ones with the short natural fros are wearing Steve Harvey wigs (LOL) just aint natural for a woman to have any hair (LOL)
Celisea......mini vacay bound
November 19th, 2012
2:20 pm
Nope, Chaka’s hair is not weave.
That’s a shame then, cause I always sort hoped it was…lol It was always all over the place, no rhyme or reason, no style…just there
Single and Happy
November 19th, 2012
2:22 pm
The day just doesn’t seem right with out Roberts top ten, wonder when he’ll start getting celebrities to write it (LOL)
Celisea......mini vacay bound
November 19th, 2012
2:22 pm
Well, maybe that was Chaka’s style…maybe that’s what she liked
Rock on then Chaka…lol
SlimNu: Life always happens
November 19th, 2012
2:24 pm
kimmie – When I used to get my hair done on a regular basis, folks would ask me if I wore a wig…especially when I had my bangs cut.
Willie Dynamite
November 19th, 2012
2:25 pm
Chaka weave or no weave is just too dayum much hair.
Leggs
November 19th, 2012
2:25 pm
That’s what made her style, Celisea…hair everywhere. Her and Ms. Ross!
kimmie
November 19th, 2012
2:27 pm
Slim – Same here. I’ve had hair of all lengths, from around my elbows to Halle-short, and it’s thick. So I get asked if it’s a wig all the time. Almost never asked if it’s a weave, always a wig! Wonder why?LOL!!
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
November 19th, 2012
2:27 pm
Y’all give Robert a break I can relate to no.1 on the list. I saw a lady that looked like she was in her forty’s wearing a mini skirt up to her crouch. Mouths were dropping guys looking at each other from all around cause you could see her butt cheeks and she had nary a care in the world who was watching………….LOL
Leggs
November 19th, 2012
2:27 pm
If Chaka went down on you, you’ll be looking at a different kind of bush.
Sorry, I’m being bad!
SlimNu: Life always happens
November 19th, 2012
2:29 pm
BF – I would put Keyshia Cole’s mother under #1
Leggs
November 19th, 2012
2:29 pm
Note to self: You too damn old to be wearing mini skirts. True, but can still wear skirts above my knee (lol).
Single and Happy
November 19th, 2012
2:29 pm
Black, like you said, looked nearly 40, could have been a rough looking 20 year old (LOL)
i'm swiss
November 19th, 2012
2:30 pm
RE: Chaka… The real question is, does the carpet match the drapes?
Into the Light
November 19th, 2012
2:30 pm
Hey, Swiss. Yeah, I’ve known it was a possibility for a couple of weeks, but to actually have it play out?
I’mma say this, though….if those NATS come in and try to stomp on the G and tear off pieces of the hedges like they did a few years back there will be some Nerd Mommies and Nerd Daddies getting a next of kin phone call. 
kimmie
November 19th, 2012
2:30 pm
BF – A mini skirt up to one’s crotch is inappropriate at any age, unless you’re a toddler and showing your diaper!!
Comon Cents
November 19th, 2012
2:31 pm
That’s a shame then, cause I always sort hoped it was…lol It was always all over the place, no rhyme or reason, no style…just there
C~ I felt the same way. I always said if it was weave then it was some kind of publicity thing like they were trying to make her hairstyle the talk (kinda like Nikki Minaj) but you just don’t comb your hair?!?
Where dey do dat at? 
Celisea......mini vacay bound
November 19th, 2012
2:31 pm
Leggs – I thought of Diana while I typed that.
I don’t dislike Robert. Like I said before, some things I think he does for attention. I don’t know who Robert is, but as “Robert”, I don’t have a reason to not like him. If what he lists are really things to his liking, I guess then no matter how unrealistic (to me), it’s what he likes.
But, I don’t get the “not liked by many” dynamics of this blog.
Single and Happy
November 19th, 2012
2:32 pm
Kimmie it all depends on who’s doing the looking
kimmie
November 19th, 2012
2:32 pm
I don’t want to jinx my Dawgs, so I’m not claiming victory until it’s OURS!!!
SlimNu: Life always happens
November 19th, 2012
2:32 pm
A mini skirt up to one’s crotch is inappropriate at any age, unless you’re a toddler and showing your diaper
kimmie – You’re right about that…that chick on Couple’s Therapy who is only like 17yrs old married to a 50yr old is always inappropriately dressed if you ask me.
Celisea......mini vacay bound
November 19th, 2012
2:33 pm
CC – Yeah, I just thought she thought it was her signature
Comon Cents
November 19th, 2012
2:33 pm
Y’all give Robert a break I can relate to no.1 on the list.
BF~ 1 out of 10?!?
I could relate to 1 out of 10, but that does not mean he needs to be given a break… 
Single and Happy
November 19th, 2012
2:34 pm
Chaka has been wearing her hair like that since the 70s, they weren’t too much in to publicity stunts in those days. To hard to get it out there.
Into the Light
November 19th, 2012
2:34 pm
unless you’re a toddler and showing your diaper!!
And even then it’s not cute. Kimmie, did you see the episode of Project Runway where they were designing kids’ clothes? One of the the things Heidi stressed was how “uncute” it was for a little girl to be wearing a dress with her diaper showing.
Celisea......mini vacay bound
November 19th, 2012
2:35 pm
I will say this and yeah, to each his own, 40 year old legs (no matter how much gym time), just ain’t the same as 20 year old legs. You might wanna cover up.
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
November 19th, 2012
2:35 pm
Slim1 if I recall correct wasn’t her boyfriend a twenty something thuggy.
Leggs that’s a difference of 4 inches from sexy to just plain whorish……….LOL
Leggs
November 19th, 2012
2:35 pm
does the carpet match the drapes? – I doubt she’s coloring that like she colors her hair so HELL NO!
kimmie
November 19th, 2012
2:35 pm
Cel – Robert has a right to his preferences like everyone else, like I mentioned in my first post. I was just curious as to how he can gather 5-10 out of a woman just on an initial approach. I like his little lists, they are always quite comical!!
Into the Light
November 19th, 2012
2:36 pm
@Kimmie’s 2:32: Spoken like a DGD!!!
Celisea......mini vacay bound
November 19th, 2012
2:36 pm
I dunno, even with a great body, IMO women just look so much nicer covered up. Annnnd, gives a bit of incensive to a man’s imagination.
My day is just shot. I’ve been a bad bad girl today.
DuShawn
November 19th, 2012
2:37 pm
“-To be honest, though, the garlic and the espresso were duking it out”…… On that note, I keep the toothpaste and the Listerine in my office to kill that coffee and after lunch breath. Currently, we have two sets of auditors roaming around with request after request. Consequently, I stop using the breath fresheners. When they come in my office asking me for sh^*t, I hit them with a heavy dose of the curry goat, coffee and Doritos breath. “How can I HHHHelp you.” It appears to be working. No one has asked for anything since Thursday. They didn’t teach that in business school.
“-…..What was it that stopped you from approaching?” A lot of the fellas probably won’t admit it, but occasionally you see a chick that’s so bad, you know she is way out of your league. You don’t approach because you don’t think you deserve her nor stand a snowballs chance in hell of getting her. It’s actually not a self esteem or confidence issue; it’s more a matter of situational reality. One must know his target market. If you are a ground beef dude and you consistently pursue prime rib chicks, you will starve to death.
Single and Happy
November 19th, 2012
2:37 pm
does the carpet match the drapes? probably keep that waxed
Leggs
November 19th, 2012
2:37 pm
SlimNu ~ Courtney has issues. But now seeing her mother on the show, I now see why Courtney fixes her mouth the way she does. She’s her mother’s clone. Both airheads.
Celisea......mini vacay bound
November 19th, 2012
2:39 pm
Kimmie – I think I said the same thing as your 2:35
kimmie
November 19th, 2012
2:40 pm
Light – Not cute, but not unappropriate and offensive, for a toddler!LOL!!! I only saw bits of that episode, but I agree. Diapers showing, no shoes or even little booties on the feet, I have a few Baby Fashion Police offenses I could list for the parent violators!!LOL!!
Leggs
November 19th, 2012
2:41 pm
Your answer is better than mine, Single!
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
November 19th, 2012
2:42 pm
LOL……Cely @2:35
Leggs
November 19th, 2012
2:44 pm
Anybody here been on blackpeoplemeet? Have you seen the commercials about ourtime.com? Same damn site. Commercial geared toward white people, but it’s the same damn site with different color tabs (lol).
i'm swiss
November 19th, 2012
2:45 pm
“probably keep that waxed”
S/H — Bet she didn’t in the ’70s. That puddy might’ve looked like Sideshow Bob.
Into the Light
November 19th, 2012
2:46 pm
LOL@Kimmie. Me, too!
Into the Light
November 19th, 2012
2:47 pm
@Swiss: With or without the bone????
i'm swiss
November 19th, 2012
2:48 pm
“With or without the bone?”
ITL — That depends on whether I’m in the photo or not.
Sassy Me..I'm so ready ;-)
November 19th, 2012
2:48 pm
You don’t approach because you don’t think you deserve her nor stand a snowballs chance in hell of getting her. It’s actually not a self esteem or confidence issue; it’s more a matter of situational reality.
Now that’s some real talk Du. ALOT of men won’t admit that…even the ones that act like they’re all together…player puhleaze.
One must know his target market. If you are a ground beef dude and you consistently pursue prime rib chicks, you will starve to death.
Worth repeating…sometimes the ones talking the loudest are the ones who should be listening. Yep I said it….get at me
kimmie
November 19th, 2012
2:49 pm
I remember being in line at Kroger years ago. There was this chick that was tall and statuesque, pretty chocolate skin. Just a little heavy on the makeup & weave, but not crazy. What took her over the top, though, was her white, almost see-thru mini skirt she was wearing with the thong and the stillettos. Her man was there with her holding her hand and seemed so proud!
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
November 19th, 2012
2:49 pm
No Leggs haven’t been there. Is blackplanet.something still up and running?
kimmie
November 19th, 2012
2:51 pm
Du – good post!!LOL!!
Into the Light
November 19th, 2012
2:52 pm
smh. As soon as I clicked “Submit Comment” I realized my mistake. Leave it to Swiss….
Celisea......mini vacay bound
November 19th, 2012
2:52 pm
The chick that does hair next to my stylist wear knitting tank dresses and stuff. She’s got a badonkadonk for days. She wears thongs that look like they’re digging into her skin. You can see the imprint of the entire thong….the whole thing. from the waist down to where it disappears. I think she should probaby go up a size…or two. She’s not fat at all but with all that in the back, she’s defeatng the purpose of the thong.
Celisea......mini vacay bound
November 19th, 2012
2:52 pm
knit not knitting
Sassy Me..I'm so ready ;-)
November 19th, 2012
2:53 pm
Commercial geared toward white people, but it’s the same damn site with different color tabs
Wow…really?! I’ve been on Black People Meet and I felt that it was a meat market for hook ups…I mean you’ve got people genuinely looking for relationships and then you’ve got those looking for a quick piece. There are even MARRIED MEN with profiles on some of those sites…really?!…take your “I wish I were single cause I really like you”, lying azz the fck home.
Sassy Me..I'm so ready ;-)
November 19th, 2012
2:55 pm
Her man was there with her holding her hand and seemed so proud!
He was walking around like, “Looky what I got”…cheesing extra hard all the while…
kimmie
November 19th, 2012
2:55 pm
she’s defeatng the purpose of the thong
Single and Happy
November 19th, 2012
2:56 pm
Question to everyone, with social media these days, everyone is so quick to voice their opinion on everything about everyone. Do you ever stop to think what these same people may think of you? And if your answer is I don’t care what they think, then why are you voicing your opinion about them.
Sassy, Du. umm so you guys never seen the couple that you would say one was out of the others league, but they are very happy together? I may not be their type? yes, out of my league, is there really such a thing? If you think someone is out of your league, it is a self esteem problem!
Celisea......mini vacay bound
November 19th, 2012
2:57 pm
The IT guy we use to have (with his fione self), use to be on BPM. I wouldn’t have known except for I was having issues with my computer so he told me to use his while he fixed mine. Well, he was (I guess) working on several as there were about 3 laptops on his desk and a desktop. Ummmm, why did he have BPM up???? He was MARRIED!!
Also, he was that brother that was married but always cheated with “his type.” His wife was as sweet as ever but soooo no the type of the women he messed around with. Don’t know where I heard that, but I heard it recently. Dudes that marry but mess around with their type. Oh, I know, I was reading VSB
Single and Happy
November 19th, 2012
2:58 pm
Black, BP is still going strong
kimmie
November 19th, 2012
2:59 pm
then why are you voicing your opinion about them.
Single- So I guess why should there be anything such as blogs or Facebook at all then??
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
November 19th, 2012
2:59 pm
Cely she defeated the reason for wearing a thong………….LOL
Are you rehearsing for a spot at the comedy club today?…………………LOL
Celisea......mini vacay bound
November 19th, 2012
3:00 pm
take your “I wish I were single cause I really like you”, lying azz the fck home.
LOLOLOLOL…this places me in the mind of dudes that say “I can just talk to you”….as opposed to their wife??? Umm, yeah and okie dokie then
Celisea......mini vacay bound
November 19th, 2012
3:02 pm
Blackfoote – Not trying to be funny at all. She’s a chocolate nice looking sister. She’s gained a few pounds since she started working there but she’s got a nice body (from how she appears in her clothing). I just don’t get the “tight” panties. That’s some uncomfortable stuff right there….lol And then thongs at that. That’s like when folks give you a wedgie, you’re having that thing pulled all day. I like nice fitting panties but not digging in. Noooo, that’s uncomfortable.
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
November 19th, 2012
3:04 pm
Thanks Single always wondered if they still had staying power.
Good night everyone have a pleasant evening.
Celisea......mini vacay bound
November 19th, 2012
3:04 pm
Oh, I don’t like chicks either but she’s like a couple feet away from me when I’m getting my hair done. I’m sitting, she’s standing so she’s always right in my face…just about….lol
Single and Happy
November 19th, 2012
3:04 pm
Kimmie correct me if I’m wrong, but wasn’t Facebook started as away for people to network, and get to know people at school? and blogs, just some way for some people to feel their lives are important?
kimmie
November 19th, 2012
3:05 pm
Cel – I’ve seen that alot – folks that marry one type but cheat with another type and usually the type they cheat with is what you’d think they go for. One theory I have with some is that they don’t have the guts to go for what they really want. They married the nice girl the family expected them to marry, when really they wanted that girl from the wrong side of the tracks. At least, I’ve seen that up close. Some may think a certain type is okay to fool around with, but to marry and raise their kids they want another type. Either way, they aren’t doing anyone any favors. The “nice one” certainly doesn’t have any prize in a cheating spouse.
SlimNu: Life always happens
November 19th, 2012
3:06 pm
Damn blog monster ate my posts…
Cel – I was saying that “not being like by many’ is not restricted to just this blog. I’m sure that flows over into real life when it comes to some people.
Leggs – I agree with you regarding Courtney and her mother…both born with sh!t for brains.
Celisea......mini vacay bound
November 19th, 2012
3:08 pm
Kimmie – I have NEVER understood that. He was a really really handsome dude. Matter of fact, I told him one day that he and eyecandy (on my current floor) favored one another and he said “naaaah, no way I’m as good looking as he.” Yeah, like he didn’t believe me. The could go for brothers. Anyhoo, his wife was a really beautiful person to me. Always pleasant, would bring the girls up, would meet him for lunch. She was very heavy. The women he cheate with? Very thin or voluptous (sp) but never heavy, most of them tall with long hair. Nothing, absolutely NOTHING like the wife. I agree, if that’s what you like, why didn’t you go for it???
kimmie
November 19th, 2012
3:10 pm
Single – I saw the movie about how Facebook started. As for blogs, I thought they were a way to voice opinion on things in the news or whatever the subject matter was. Your comment about blogs being a way for some to feel their lives are important is silly and sad to me.
SlimNu: Life always happens
November 19th, 2012
3:10 pm
I wonder if Robert can come up with ten uses of the thong
Sassy Me..I'm so ready ;-)
November 19th, 2012
3:12 pm
this places me in the mind of dudes that say “I can just talk to you”….as opposed to their wife???
I know right?!…I can smell that bullisht a mile away. Miss me with that…
If you think someone is out of your league, it is a self esteem problem!
Single I agree with your point and it shows that there are cases where someone may be out of another’s league(I’ve seen it first hand) AND there are other situations where it works out despite the differences. It can go either way.
Do you ever stop to think what these same people may think of you? And if your answer is I don’t care what they think, then why are you voicing your opinion about them.
I’m voicing my experiences from BPM. I was approached by guys wanting to come to my house(dudes I’ve never met mind you), those only wanting to hook up and YES by MARRIED men.
And as far as opinions go..they’re just like azzholes…WE ALL have one….so who’s to say what we can/can’t give an opinion about.
Single and Happy
November 19th, 2012
3:14 pm
Kimmie when I first heard about blogs, it was always an Individual, writing about things that go on in their lives, and their thoughts, not really wanting anyone else’s opinion, unless it agreed with theirs. It was always read my blog.
Sassy Me..I'm so ready ;-)
November 19th, 2012
3:15 pm
and blogs, just some way for some people to feel their lives are important?
I’m sure everyone has their reason…give us yours. Do you feel that your life has more purpose when you blog?
For me, it helps pass the day plus I’ve met two really cool ladies that are quite funny if I must say..
Sassy Me..I'm so ready ;-)
November 19th, 2012
3:16 pm
Your comment about blogs being a way for some to feel their lives are important is silly and sad to me.
cosign…
Leggs
November 19th, 2012
3:17 pm
black planet is still up and running. Same people they’re picking for me on outtime.com are the same guys that were on black people meet. Naw, they’re not getting my $$.
“He was walking around like, “Looky what I got”…cheesing extra hard all the while…” – Looks like Courtney’s husband feels the same way about the wife he’s raising. She looks like she’s horrible in bed (whatever that looks like, it’s her).
Celisea......mini vacay bound
November 19th, 2012
3:20 pm
When I first started reading this blog it was like the fast and the furious. Get in where you fit in. Nothing politically correct. Everything talked about, from politics, to religion, to relationships, to shenanigans, so forth and so on. Disagreements yes, but kept to the same day. Nobody came back the next day gunning for folks. Nobody came on trying to make this a world of peace…cause that just wasn’t the nature. Folks commented on whatever you put out there….good and sometimes bad. You had to REALLY be thick-skinned. No gate keepers, no “making this a place of peace.” It was what it was but it was fun and I know, I for one lurked about a year. Heck, I was honestly nervous about jumping in and getting eaten alive. Even so, the feel of it wasn’t personal. There were anonymous attacks but even so it wasn’t what I’ve seen here of late. It was fun, no rules, no restrictions, nothing off limits and it vibed and flowed and the pages turned effortlessly.
Comon Cents
November 19th, 2012
3:20 pm
kimmie/Cel~ I’ve seen that alot – folks that marry one type but cheat with another type and usually the type they cheat with is what you’d think they go for. One theory I have with some is that they don’t have the guts to go for what they really want
That was my 1st husband. He married the first wife who is almost a twin for me. She put him out over the same woman I put him out over. (He actually knew her before he knew either one of us) And let’s just suffice to say that she was not like either of the two of us. Ghettofabulous hoodrat would be an understatement! He finally married her after I divorced him, and chick dragged him straight through hell while they were married and then took him to the cleaners when she left.
Where is he now? Back living with the 1st wife… SMDH Everything that looks good to you is not good for you. IJS
MsAtl
November 19th, 2012
3:21 pm
I agree with the mini skirt comment. I always say you can be sexy without showing the crack of your a$$ to strangers. sexy (to me) is the way you carry yourself not the lack of clothing.
Cel- I saw a female with a dress on & she had a wedgie. Explain that one!
kimmie
November 19th, 2012
3:21 pm
Single – Okay……
There are different blogs for different purposes. They are several associated with this very newpaper, for example. I’ve known people that have started blogs because they wanted to get into writing and it’s easier to start a blog than get a column in a newspaper or magazine. Some do it to communicate with others that have a similiar interest.
People do different things to give their lives meaning, I guess…..
Celisea......mini vacay bound
November 19th, 2012
3:21 pm
I guess in essence, it was a great passtime and just not that deep. Folks hooked up, fell out and refriended (can I say that), and K.I.M.
Leggs
November 19th, 2012
3:23 pm
Did you go up to her and tell her she had a wedgie?
Single and Happy
November 19th, 2012
3:24 pm
Sassy, they call this blogging, didn’t know that. when you used to have back and forth banter it was called chatting. When I said give an opinion, I mean on what others are doing with their lives, and 90% of these people we know nothing about just have seen then once in passing. On your BPM that wasn’t an opinion, that was an experience.
Comon Cents
November 19th, 2012
3:24 pm
I saw a female with a dress on & she had a wedgie. Explain that one!
Her azz was hungry…
Celisea......mini vacay bound
November 19th, 2012
3:25 pm
CC – Everything that looks good to you is not good for you.
Boy ain’t that the truth!
MsAtl – The dress was too small…maybe?? You shouldn’t have a wedgie in a dress. At least I don’t think you should.
Sassy Me..I'm so ready ;-)
November 19th, 2012
3:26 pm
Where is he now? Back living with the 1st wife…
Looks like Courtney’s husband feels the same way about the wife he’s raising.
He looks exactly like that…like, “Hah looka MY trophy”. Even their wedding photos look like that…it epitomizes that very sentiment.
Leggs
November 19th, 2012
3:28 pm
For me, the vibe is still good, still talk about anything and everything, no restrictions…more participants and their thoughts will again help the pages flow faster.
Sassy Me..I'm so ready ;-)
November 19th, 2012
3:30 pm
On your BPM that wasn’t an opinion, that was an experience.
That’s true Single… I stated that in my 3:12.
Leggs
November 19th, 2012
3:30 pm
Sassy, they call this blogging, didn’t know that. when you used to have back and forth banter it was called chatting – isn’t chatting done in person or over the phone. When using a keyboard, it’s blogging (lol).
Single and Happy
November 19th, 2012
3:33 pm
Leggs, no, in the beginning they were called chat lines, just like the ones on the phone, blogging was done by a single person and usually if anyone posted anything, it was one post and moved on, no back and forth chatter.
kimmie
November 19th, 2012
3:33 pm
Leggs – I guess he’s talking about Internet chat rooms, which are different from a blog.
Single and Happy
November 19th, 2012
3:34 pm
Leggs and everything usually stayed on topic with the blogs
Sassy Me..I'm so ready ;-)
November 19th, 2012
3:34 pm
more participants and their thoughts will again help the pages flow faster.
Yes it surely will…
sexy (to me) is the way you carry yourself not the lack of clothing.
I think so,too. Speaking of that guy that’s raising his wife…a dress code was instituted for her and she looked much better in more clothes and not the hyper sexual nothings she’d wear all the time. It was a vast improvement but of course she bucked and they got booted from the show. I haven’t seen any new episodes yet but I know they came back recently.
kimmie
November 19th, 2012
3:35 pm
Leggs, did you watch Scandal last week?
Celisea......mini vacay bound
November 19th, 2012
3:37 pm
Outside of this place and reading VSB, and abcnew.com (and a couple of other news sites), I haven’t done the chatting/chat lines/internet dating thingy. I’ve talked to a couple of folks from here, but I don’t really consider that “internet” dating. I’ve had wings and met a few but I wouldn’t consider that the same as building a profile for the sake of meeting a love.
SlimNu: Life always happens
November 19th, 2012
3:37 pm
Random: OMG!! I know you’re new and all but if you see i’m on the phone, PLEASE do not interrupt me asking me questions…Then you ask me, in the middle of my phone call with a customer, how to spell Angle.
I really want to cuss you out but i’m just going to woosah it out for now.
Single and Happy
November 19th, 2012
3:38 pm
Don’t get me wrong, I do enjoy chatting/blogging with you guys, was just asking a question.
Celisea......mini vacay bound
November 19th, 2012
3:40 pm
I just pop over to VSB cause they have really interesting topics and there’s always a large audience. I will say the moderators are fairly young but I think quite intelligent none the less. They really bring it…IMO
Sassy Me..I'm so ready ;-)
November 19th, 2012
3:40 pm
I really want to cuss you out but i’m just going to woosah it out for now.
Woooosaaaaaaaah Don’t cuss ‘em Slim…
Robert
November 19th, 2012
3:40 pm
@Common Cents – “No tattoos? I’m out!”
Why would any women put a “bumper sticker” on a “corvette” body.
Celisea......mini vacay bound
November 19th, 2012
3:40 pm
There bloggers are funny as heck though on most days
Celisea......mini vacay bound
November 19th, 2012
3:41 pm
their not there
MsAtl
November 19th, 2012
3:42 pm
Leggs- I didn’t tell her; she was with a group of friends & pulled it out before I could tell her. I knew she had to feel it.
Cel- The dress was not too small. I am thinking a thong or lack thereof.
Comon- That was my ex also. He married me but ran around with light skinned, “good hair” chicks. After I divorced him, his brother informed me that the ex had said I was safe because no one would mess with a dark female. His aunt called me upset because he posted a picture of his baby by his mixed patient on FB & wrote that he was putting his family back on the right side of the genome away from the apes. (the aunt is dark and took it personally). I am thinking crazy and slave mentality, but that way off topic for today.
Single and Happy
November 19th, 2012
3:43 pm
Robert, what if that tattoo is on the engine block of the corvette, and you don’t see it until you open the hood, would you still be out?
Celisea......mini vacay bound
November 19th, 2012
3:45 pm
MsAtl, I’ve seen a couple of older ladies in church will stand up and have their skirts/dresses pulled/tucked in, unbeknownst. Somebody will do an “alert” and pull or let them know to check their clothing, but I dunno, I think that comes from commando or underwear but maybe spanks or something is needed. I don’t really think those, those ladies are commando at church. I could be wrong though. Stranger things have happened.
Leggs
November 19th, 2012
3:46 pm
“…blogging was done by a single person and usually if anyone posted anything, it was one post and moved on, no back and forth chatter. Sounds like you miss those days, Single??? That was in itsinfancy…nothing stays the same. Heck, first time the wheel was invented bet if fell off often. Now, the wheel is running nice and smoothly, just like blogging in the 21st century.
Celisea......mini vacay bound
November 19th, 2012
3:46 pm
“….or wearing underwear but maybe the extra of spanks is needed” is where I was going
Leggs
November 19th, 2012
3:47 pm
Single, maybe some blogs are geared toward you staying on topic. Since day one I ventured into Blogsville, never stayed on topic (and I’ve been here a long time).
Leggs
November 19th, 2012
3:50 pm
kimmie ~ missed Scandal. Will catch in On Demand.
kimmie
November 19th, 2012
3:51 pm
Cel – I’ve had certain fabrics not “agree” with each other and stick, like have on cotton undies and a t-shirt like cotton sundress and have to costantly make sure it doesn’t gather up, even though the dress is not tight at all.
SlimNu: Life always happens
November 19th, 2012
3:51 pm
Sassy – I did let her know when I got off the phone that i was in the middle of a call with a client. She’s like, “oh wow i’m soooo sorry”…I guess when you have a phone to your ear and words are coming out of your mouth in a conversational manner, it can still be misunderstood that one is NOT on the dayum phone lol
Comon Cents
November 19th, 2012
3:53 pm
Why would any women put a “bumper sticker” on a “corvette” body
Because it is something that they feel very strongly about. All of my tats are symbolic of something in my life that is extrememly important to me.
I guess that is one of the biggest differences between people with tattoos and people without; I don’t judge you because you don’t have tattoos.
Robert
November 19th, 2012
3:53 pm
@Single and Happy – “what if that tattoo is on the engine block of the corvette”
All Men want to know if they are the only one driving that car with the factory installed engine. If the Man found out that the engine was used he should remove the “bumper sticker” from the engine block and replace any broken or worn out parts. Hopefully the engine had low mileage.
Comon Cents
November 19th, 2012
3:55 pm
After I divorced him, his brother informed me that the ex had said I was safe because no one would mess with a dark female
Did you tell him how sadly mistaken your ex was?
kimmie
November 19th, 2012
3:55 pm
Robert – A virgin could get a tattoo on their butt if they wanted….
SlimNu: Life always happens
November 19th, 2012
3:56 pm
Since day one I ventured into Blogsville, never stayed on topic (and I’ve been here a long time).
Leggs – Yeah you’re right about that…i guess it’s sort of hard to say on the original topic ALLLLLL day long…especially since most of us are in here all day while working. Some topics just don’t have enough gas to keep us going for 7-8+ hours
Celisea......mini vacay bound
November 19th, 2012
3:56 pm
Kimmie – Yep, sometimes that happens. The only time I’ve had that to happen is when I’m not wearing a slip. One of the reasons I wear one. I NEVER wear hose unless it’s on Sundays. The rest of the time (if not cold), I’m barelegged. Sitting a long period of time, will sometimes have lining or fabric to do that.
Comon Cents
November 19th, 2012
3:57 pm
All Men want to know if they are the only one driving that car with the factory installed engine. If the Man found out that the engine was used he should remove the “bumper sticker” from the engine block and replace any broken or worn out parts. Hopefully the engine had low mileage.
Sticking with your “car” analogy, just because there are no bumper stickers, dosen’t mean that the previous owner did not rag the car out. I would rather have a well maintained Honda with a bumper sticker than a Porsche that the owner treated like crap and left with internal damage to the motor. IJS
Sassy Me..I'm so ready ;-)
November 19th, 2012
3:57 pm
it can still be misunderstood that one is NOT on the dayum phone lol
Well you know some folks need things spelled out…literally.
Celisea......mini vacay bound
November 19th, 2012
3:58 pm
Some topics just don’t have enough gas to keep us going for 7-8+ hours
Especially if you’ve “been there done that”
Comon Cents
November 19th, 2012
3:58 pm
A virgin could get a tattoo on their butt if they wanted….
Exactly! I was tattooed before I was deflowered.
Leggs
November 19th, 2012
3:58 pm
If topics didn’t change, less and less participants!
Leggs
November 19th, 2012
3:59 pm
Comon ~ your entire post (3:57) sounds so, so very painful.
Celisea......mini vacay bound
November 19th, 2012
4:01 pm
I can’t wait to get home and eat. I have left over chicken, roll, green beans and mac n cheese!! Yuuum
Into the Light
November 19th, 2012
4:01 pm
@CC’s 3:58: Really??? That’s interesting. No judgment here, just thinking that you must be a real trailblazer, because tattoos were not really “mainstream” like they are today say 20 years ago.
Celisea......mini vacay bound
November 19th, 2012
4:01 pm
I meant to ask Blackfoote if he went to Publik when he did the Price is Right. I had the best green salad from there today, but I’m hungry.
MsAtl
November 19th, 2012
4:03 pm
Comon- I didn’t need to explain to his brother; his brother knew how he was & they were barely speaking. He constantly put himself above the other members of his family. He is perpetuating the same thing his grandfather did by favoring his lighter children over his darker children.
kimmie
November 19th, 2012
4:03 pm
Leggs – Even some one-topic blogs run out of gas after awhile. I mean, there are only so many things one could say about yesterday’s Falcons game, or how to bake a ham!!LOL!!
MsAtl
November 19th, 2012
4:04 pm
Cel- yum! Sounds good.
Willie Dynamite
November 19th, 2012
4:05 pm
Stepping back in, so what are y’all jaw jacking about now?
Leggs
November 19th, 2012
4:05 pm
ITL ~ you don’t know what age she was “deflowered.” She may not have been a trailblazer.
Single and Happy
November 19th, 2012
4:05 pm
Leggs, when I said give opinions about everything, I meant have an opinion on someone you see in the supermarket that you know nothing about. Or like a girl I work with that we call Chef Ramsey because she has an opinion on everyone’s food. It’s got so bad that people have no problem telling others, I don’t like what you’re wearing, I wouldn’t eat that. Okay, you’re not wearing it, and your not eating it, so why does it matter? Some how this turned into about blogging and Facebook, but that’s not what I was talking about.
Single and Happy
November 19th, 2012
4:07 pm
Robert, what does a tattoo have to do with someones sex life?
Sassy Me..I'm so ready ;-)
November 19th, 2012
4:08 pm
Even some one-topic blogs run out of gas after awhile
Sometimes it happens on the first page…most topic changes are pretty good and definitely keeps things going.
Into the Light
November 19th, 2012
4:08 pm
@Leggs: Seems to me like I remember her saying she and the hubs now lived together when they were 20 ish. If she’s late 30s, that’s 15-20 years. Unless of course they lived in separate rooms. IJS….
Comon Cents
November 19th, 2012
4:11 pm
Really??? That’s interesting. No judgment here, just thinking that you must be a real trailblazer, because tattoos were not really “mainstream” like they are today say 20 years ago.
Got my first tat at 18 (Purple rose) and my second at 22 (DST on my back) Got married later that year (1996) and lost my hymen. I had been 23 for a few months.
Celisea......mini vacay bound
November 19th, 2012
4:11 pm
MsAtl – I can’t wait. I’m gonna put my chicken in my toaster oven to warm. I heard folks talking about toaster ovens the other day but I wouldn’t be without one. You can buy some really great ones….top of the line. Heck you can “cook” in those bad boys. My does everything. I NEVER use my microwave outside of popping popcorn.
kimmie
November 19th, 2012
4:12 pm
I think the point is that one can’t make assumptions about a person’s sex life just because they have a tattoo on their butt, like Robert was implying.
Single and Happy
November 19th, 2012
4:12 pm
Sassy, leggs, would this be considered the same as a forum, where someone poses a topic and people comment on it? Because I’ve seen some of them that go on for years, and stay on topic because the moderators will come in and delete anything off topic.
Comon Cents
November 19th, 2012
4:14 pm
ITL~ Current hubs and I lived togther when I was 26 (after my first marriage ended) when we broke up (March 02) I met and married the 2nd husband (Sept 02) we divorced in 2010. Married the current hubs in January.
Single and Happy
November 19th, 2012
4:15 pm
since my girl has a tattoo on her arm, shouldn’t be getting alot of hand action (LOL)
Comon where are your tattoos? so we can figure out what you like sexually (LOL)
Into the Light
November 19th, 2012
4:15 pm
@Kimmie: Exactly right!
Leggs
November 19th, 2012
4:15 pm
“It’s got so bad that people have no problem telling others, I don’t like what you’re wearing,….” – I don’t know any of those people, and I’m pretty sure they’re glad they don’t know me.
Sassy Me..I'm so ready ;-)
November 19th, 2012
4:15 pm
Give us your opinion. What do you think Single?
It seems as though there are different ways to look at the same thing.
kimmie
November 19th, 2012
4:16 pm
Back to teeth – I know some people think they are cute, but don’t think a front gap is cute at all, especially on an adult.
Into the Light
November 19th, 2012
4:16 pm
@CC: Okay. Now, I’m gonna need your full name, SS#, height, weight, birthdate, and PIN number.
Into the Light
November 19th, 2012
4:18 pm
@Kimmie: I am SO with you on that one. I have wondered a million times why Whitney didn’t get Bobbi Kristina’s teeth fixed. Or why Bobby didn’t get his own done. I am not on Team Gaptooth. Nope. Not Lauren Hutton, not Bobby Brown, not any body.
Leggs
November 19th, 2012
4:18 pm
But kimmie, that’s Michael Straham’s trademark. He’s easily recognized due to this gap. And, back when I was growing up, gap in one’s teeth had a meaning to the nasty, horny young boys. Just like a woman’s gap got men going crazy and still do to this day.
Leggs
November 19th, 2012
4:19 pm
I’m sorry, I so went left with the “gap.”
MsAtl
November 19th, 2012
4:19 pm
Single- my tat is on my left shoulder.
Comon Cents
November 19th, 2012
4:19 pm
Comon where are your tattoos? so we can figure out what you like sexually
I have a rose on my left b00b, DST on my back, heart with a chain & key across my hip, line name on my inside right ankle, tramp stamp with my kid’s & my zodiac signs in the buds of the flowers, and chinese characters on my upper left shoulder.
Comon Cents
November 19th, 2012
4:20 pm
Okay. Now, I’m gonna need your full name, SS#, height, weight, birthdate, and PIN number
DuShawn
November 19th, 2012
4:20 pm
………..”a front gap is cute” I agree whole heartedly.
Celisea......mini vacay bound
November 19th, 2012
4:21 pm
………..”a front gap is cute” I agree whole heartedly.
They’re talking teeth not leggs
Leggs
November 19th, 2012
4:21 pm
DuShawn ~ you beat swiss!
Celisea......mini vacay bound
November 19th, 2012
4:22 pm
legs not leggs
Leggs
November 19th, 2012
4:23 pm
Celisea ~ correction. He’s not talking about me. He’s talking about legs (lol).
Leggs
November 19th, 2012
4:23 pm
Single and Happy
November 19th, 2012
4:23 pm
Leggs, I know some, but they won’t tell me because they already know my first answer, is “okay”, second “and, third “why should I care” but these are usually people that I would call acquaintances also, not my circle of friends. You know the ones that think they know you, but they really don’t.
Sassy this is a blog where people come to chat, it wouldn’t stay on subject because it’s mostly the same people here everyday. You can tell when someone is new, because they either post early and never respond, or they post on subject late in the day when the subject has changed many times.
Celisea......mini vacay bound
November 19th, 2012
4:23 pm
ba domp domp…good one Leggs
Celisea......mini vacay bound
November 19th, 2012
4:24 pm
never mind
SlimNu: Life always happens
November 19th, 2012
4:24 pm
“Hymen” Now that’s a word you don’t hear often lol
DuShawn
November 19th, 2012
4:25 pm
Dayum sorror you tat..tat…tatted up for real. You forgot to mention the one on your left butt cheek.
kimmie
November 19th, 2012
4:25 pm
Single – There have always been folks that commented on stuff they only have limited info about, or stuff that does not concern them or offer unsolicited opinions. The Internet is just another avenue to do it and be rather anominous. If it’s stuff I don’t care about or don’t want to know, I don’t read it. Real simple. Where I have the problem is when folks do have the nerve and the lack of class to make certain comments to my face and get miffed at my reaction if I take offense.
Leggs
November 19th, 2012
4:26 pm
“You know the ones that think they know you, but they really don’t.”
Single, I know plenty like this!
Leggs
November 19th, 2012
4:27 pm
PEACE!
Gotta go exercise to keep these legs in shape for my skirts (lolol). I kid…
SlimNu: Life always happens
November 19th, 2012
4:27 pm
Leggs/kimmie – I was just having this convo last week about Bobbi and Bobby’s gaps. I said, maybe it’s what’s they are known for or something. And with regards to Bobbi Kristina, I don’t see how her folks couldn’t tell she was on something. She always looks drugged up to me on their new show.
Sassy Me..I'm so ready ;-)
November 19th, 2012
4:28 pm
Dang Comon…you tat,tat,tatted up
I’ve got a few myself…I got a panther on my left breast, my name on my thigh(in really pretty cursive), I have a Chines character on my upper right arm and a tatto on the base of my spine that branches out to the left and right with roses on each end. Oh and I have my navel pierced.
All of my tats have sentimental meanings…some I got with my siblings and the others I got during certain special times in my life.. The navel ring…I thought was sexxy.
kimmie
November 19th, 2012
4:29 pm
Leggs – I just saw a pic of Strayhan on another site and that got me on it. It is such a hillbilly look to me!!
Single and Happy
November 19th, 2012
4:29 pm
Kimmie and that’s usually how stuff got started, because they didn’t know the person they were talking to was somehow associated with the person they were talking about. (LOL)
Comon, I was just kidding, I know one has nothing do to with the other.
Single and Happy
November 19th, 2012
4:31 pm
Time to go, catch you guys tomorrow
Single and Happy
November 19th, 2012
4:31 pm
Time to go, catch you guys tomorrow
DuShawn
November 19th, 2012
4:32 pm
Sassy. That panther is going to get longer and longer as gravity take its toll.
kimmie
November 19th, 2012
4:34 pm
Single – It’s a very small world!! I’ve said stuff on this blog and foks that lurk have put 2 and 2 together. Good thing it was nothing bad. I did comment years ago about what this lame dude that approached me in a popular furniture store did and said. He came on and commented on what I said and tried to defend himself under an anonomous moniker. It was definitely his loss!!! LOL!!!
Comon Cents
November 19th, 2012
4:35 pm
You forgot to mention the one on your left butt cheek.
That’s part of the one on my hip, smartazz…
kimmie
November 19th, 2012
4:35 pm
Read ya tomorrow Gang!!
Comon Cents
November 19th, 2012
4:36 pm
“Hymen” Now that’s a word you don’t hear often lol
I actually just got to play that in one of my WWF games so it was fresh in my mind…
Sassy Me..I'm so ready ;-)
November 19th, 2012
4:37 pm
Du I would crack back and ask you what you’re trying to say nugga cause you don’t know me buut I’m not.
Seeing as you’ve never met me and probably never will I’d like to know how you surmised such an astute observation. Then again you’d be giving your opinion and you’ve read what I’ve said about those…
SlimNu: Life always happens
November 19th, 2012
4:37 pm
I only have 3 tats and one navel piercing…
Comon Cents
November 19th, 2012
4:38 pm
Sassy~ ditto on your 4:28. I did not pierce my navel. I chose to go a little further south…
Sassy Me..I'm so ready ;-)
November 19th, 2012
4:40 pm
He came on and commented on what I said and tried to defend himself under an anonomous moniker. It was definitely his loss!!!
It was his loss and some very moist behavior from/by a man…
DuShawn
November 19th, 2012
4:40 pm
Kimmie- All the things I have shared on here, I’m thoroughly surprised one of the people I have written about has not recognized themselves in the story and commented.
Sassy Me..I'm so ready ;-)
November 19th, 2012
4:41 pm
I chose to go a little further south…
Comon you know Swiss just fell in love with you
DuShawn
November 19th, 2012
4:41 pm
Sassy – Im just messsing wit you ma.
Comon Cents
November 19th, 2012
4:44 pm
Sassy~ swiss and I have had the convo about my Albertina. And, yes, he and Exiled are fascinated by it.
So, for the grand total: I have 6 tats and 2 piercings. But I only keep hardware in 1 of my piercings routinely.
Comon Cents
November 19th, 2012
4:44 pm
It was his loss and some very moist behavior from/by a man…
Worth repeating!
Willie Dynamite
November 19th, 2012
4:48 pm
Dang I’ll have to start measuring winning a different way now. Use to be 1st base to home. Now its going to be 1 tat at a time. How does “oh my dayum” look in Chinese? Lol
Sassy Me..I'm so ready ;-)
November 19th, 2012
4:48 pm
And, yes, he and Exiled are fascinated by it.
I’m soo not surprised. You’re a braver woman than me Comon….I couldn’t even begin to imagine….hell I’m still on the fence about a Brazilian, let alone a piercing… The thought alone gave me the chills and not in a good way…
Alrighty y’all I’m ooout!!
Comon Cents
November 19th, 2012
4:50 pm
Sassy~ It is rough for the first week-week and a half, but if you can get through that, it is DEFINITELY worth it. I love mine!
Sassy Me..I'm so ready ;-)
November 19th, 2012
4:55 pm
<em I love mine!
I’m sure you do
I just can’t do it…my navel was enough and that isht hurt so i couldn’t even imagine that happening to the jay-jay.
Sassy Me..I'm so ready ;-)
November 19th, 2012
4:56 pm
Okay read y’all tomorrow!!
Comon Cents
November 19th, 2012
4:57 pm
Goodnight, Sassy!
I’m out too gang! Read you all tomorrow!
Bluzgirl
November 19th, 2012
5:01 pm
Dayum…was too busy today to chime in. Oh well…hopefully, tomorrow will be a little slower at work so I can play!
Mrs. SexyCool
November 20th, 2012
3:10 pm
Hey, y’all…
They’ve been getting their money’s worth lately.
I need a vacation.
Happy Birthday, Swizzbeats!!