You know things have become serious when you get access to someone’s home. I can remember the feeling of glee when a guy says, “Let yourself in, I will be home later.” Men don’t trust their homes, cars, or precious possessions with just anyone!
I know many people who wait a very long time before they feel comfortable with someone. One of my friends is dating a guy who is “really great, but has a hang up with trusting women.” I didn’t think it was anything abnormal until the dude asked for the passwords to her cellphone, email, and social media accounts.
Now, why would anyone think this is a good thing to ask for? Apparently, he believes that she needs to prove that she trusts him. The only way to do this is to give full access to him for “spot checks.” The most disturbing thing is that she is actually considering it.
Have you ever dated anyone who went a little overboard with their trust issues? How did you handle it? We all have our hang ups but is this something you think you could deal with?
What would you do if the person you were dating wanted to get access to your personal information?
Do you think that you should have to prove that you trust someone – or is this a jedi mind trick about control?
By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog