Breaking up. Again.
Have you ever been in a relationship that went back and forth, on again, off again? It’s one of those frustrating roller coaster rides you end up on and don’t know how to get off. What causes us to keep going back to relationships that we already know we should not be in?
I know a lot women get hooked into the emotional drama that comes with these situations. Men convince themselves that they are happier with the person then without. Yet once you are reunited, all those same problems come barreling back. You end up right where you left off.
Do you think that a relationship with multiple break ups should be saved? It sounds so simple to say, cut ties and move on, but that seems to always get harder each time you reunite.
How do you know when you should break up for good or just take a break? If it is “mean to be” – should it be that difficult to work things out?
By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog
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Celisea.....smoooooove riding
November 8th, 2012
3:54 pm
Lawd, what’s wrong with this thing? Is it broken…lololol
Three pages at almost dern 4:00?? Guess I can’t do my run down today either then. Good thing I’m not addicted…lololol
Celisea.....smoooooove riding
November 8th, 2012
3:55 pm
I stand corrected….4 pages
Jake-Dick Nukem
November 8th, 2012
4:11 pm
Celisea…I was waiting for the daily synopsis….funniest thing I saw today was…Bitter Bobby, it fits so well…lol
comon ¢
November 8th, 2012
4:12 pm
disco~ Who won the lottery twice? I’m like you; I never play. Although a client gave me a scratch off one year and I won $2.
Celisea.....smoooooove riding
November 8th, 2012
4:19 pm
Hey Jake – I cracked up when I read it too. I started to copy and paste, but yeah…that was funny
I like Robert though. Can’t say I agree but I think he’s funny. I think he says some things on purpose.
Celisea.....smoooooove riding
November 8th, 2012
4:25 pm
I purchased a scratchoff one time…only once in my life. Me and the kid’s dad were down on our luck…lol…I’m laughing as I read this. I bought one and he bought a gazillion. I didn’t win and neither did he. He was sooo disappointed cause it was his last few dollars. It wasn’t funny then, I was like HECK NAW, a dollar for a “nope not this time” was too much of a risk for me. I ain’t a big risk taker and being broke? A dollar was sacred back then. Well it still is and I ain’t playing the lotto but I was like, dang I could have done something with that dollar….lol
Celisea.....smoooooove riding
November 8th, 2012
4:27 pm
What’s the game folks play at Christmas where you can switch if you get a higher number? You can take someone else’s gift? Can’t remember the name but folks would giftwrap lotto tickets and folks would be coveting them. Nuh uh, what if you get nothing?? Usually it would be about 7 scratch offs giftwrapped. So that means somebody spent just 7 dollars and on top of that, you don’t win. That means you didn’t get nothing
Bluzgirl
November 8th, 2012
4:30 pm
Had some computer problems.
Comon – I wish I could, but I’m working Saturday evening. Boo!
comon ¢
November 8th, 2012
4:31 pm
Celiesa~ Dirty Santa
comon ¢
November 8th, 2012
4:31 pm
Bluz~ Too bad!
I am out! Read you guys tomorrow!
Celisea.....smoooooove riding
November 8th, 2012
4:32 pm
Yep, that’s it.
Leggs
November 8th, 2012
4:33 pm
Celisea ~ white elephant.
Celisea.....smoooooove riding
November 8th, 2012
4:35 pm
Oh, okay. My old department plays every year.
Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit ;-)
November 8th, 2012
4:36 pm
I think he says some things on purpose.
Cosign…
Do we need to make reservations for Saturday?
Exiled!
November 8th, 2012
4:37 pm
I could use a nite on the town….?
U okay Slim?
Where is Officer….??
As for the
disco
November 8th, 2012
4:42 pm
CC – just came across a couple of news articles today out of south carolina. a couple of folks hit big (couple hundred thousand) on scratch offs, twice.
leggs – that’s what we call it too. white elephant.
Leggs
November 8th, 2012
4:54 pm
Sassy ~ I meant to bring up reservations. Last time we had a meet there, they wouldn’t seat us until all people in our party arrived. With that being said, I think we should make reservations for a table of 5 and seat and pull tables when others come…whatcha think?
Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit ;-)
November 8th, 2012
4:56 pm
Bye gang..read y’all tomorrow
Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit ;-)
November 8th, 2012
4:57 pm
Good idea Leggs…should you or I make them?
Leggs
November 8th, 2012
4:58 pm
Or ask to be seated in a section where we can easily grab a table. You know, plant someone at that table then pull it to the other. Just a thought…
Leggs
November 8th, 2012
4:59 pm
You can make the reservations.
Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit ;-)
November 8th, 2012
4:59 pm
I like the first idea better..but either way is fine with me.
Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit ;-)
November 8th, 2012
5:02 pm
Okay I’ll make the reservations for 8:30..
Leggs
November 8th, 2012
5:05 pm
First idea is good, but what if when people come tables next to us are taken, then we will have folk spread out. I like getting 2 tables right out the gate and some sit at both. Perhaps you need to make a reservation for 4 and I’ll make a reservation for 4…you think that might work?