Can I date more than one person?
One of our readers, who is new to Atlanta, emailed me to get the MIA blog’s opinion about juggling dates. She has few friends in the city and has decided to do a little online dating. So far, she has met a few good men that have great potential. The trouble is, she doesn’t want to narrow it down right now.
They are all actively pursuing her and expressing interest in something serious. It’s a great problem to have, no! While she tries to figure out her best option, she is feeling a little guilty about dating so many guys at one time. She asks, “Can I date more than one guy? Should I let them know they aren’t the only one I am seeing?”
Personally, I like to go by the Golden Rule, do unto others. Would I want to know if there were multiple women jockeying for time with the same guy? (I would). What do you guys think?
Does it bother you when the person you are actively dating is seeing other people? At what point would you expect to be the only one?
If a guy finds out that there is another man interested in the same woman, do they usually back off or step up their efforts?
By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog
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327 comments Add your comment
Sassy Me...Disco Lady ;-)
November 1st, 2012
4:27 pm
Well glad it’s over for you Slim…
DuShawn
November 1st, 2012
4:29 pm
@Dreams…Our next meeting is this Saturday. We will be discussing ejaculation etiquette. The theme of the meeting is “Her eye is not a bulls eye”
Jake-SPJTWB
November 1st, 2012
4:30 pm
I forgot your name was S(ass)y, dayum Gina, calm down it was a joke microbootyologist!!
Sassy Me...Disco Lady ;-)
November 1st, 2012
4:31 pm
Oh I laughed…
Comon Cents
November 1st, 2012
4:32 pm
Su~ Wasn’t it you saw out at the bar with a shirt on that read “Millions of my potential children died on your daughter’s face last night.”? I don’t think you’re qualified to be the moderator of said meeting… IJS
Comon Cents
November 1st, 2012
4:32 pm
Or are you in recovery?
Jake-SPJTWB
November 1st, 2012
4:33 pm
Ex-I gave up on GIN some time ago,…if I get on it…..its time to fugg or fight, either one is fine, but something exciting got to happen?
Jake-SPJTWB
November 1st, 2012
4:36 pm
“Her eye is not a bulls eye”
Worth Repeating
SlimNu
November 1st, 2012
4:41 pm
“Her eye is not a bulls eye”
The ex learned that the hard way….what do they say about experience being the best teacher?
Sassy Me...Disco Lady ;-)
November 1st, 2012
4:43 pm
The ex learned that the hard way….
Nooo Slim…not in your e-y-e…
You gone learn today…
Willie Dynamite
November 1st, 2012
4:43 pm
Dreams to be on the safe side you might wanna have a few ones handy.
Exiled!
November 1st, 2012
4:46 pm
Ejaculation etiqutte!
Du?
Leggs
November 1st, 2012
4:46 pm
Jake ~ I’ve always called Gin “Old Man’s Horny Juice.” Back in my mother’s day, those nasty men seemed to always be drunk on some damn Gin!
DreamsMaterialize
November 1st, 2012
4:46 pm
@Dreams…Our next meeting is this Saturday.
Du Sign me up man.
Dreams to be on the safe side you might wanna have a few ones handy.
Willie Ohhhh right, for donations to the Keep Valentine’s Day Alive Foundation. (wink wink) Thanks.
Comon Cents
November 1st, 2012
4:47 pm
Leggs~ Wine will make you fine but Gin will make you sin. You ain’t wrong, girl…
SlimNu
November 1st, 2012
4:48 pm
Sassy – Not my eye…HIS
Tombout some trajectory hehehehehehehehe POW! Right in the kisser! (as the old folks say)
Jake-SPJTWB
November 1st, 2012
4:49 pm
Leggs-well I guess that would be accurate, that GIN gonna make you SIN one way or the other!!
i'm swiss
November 1st, 2012
4:51 pm
Well d@mn, Slim. Sounds like your CT pumped that thing up like an air rifle…
Comon Cents
November 1st, 2012
4:51 pm
Read y’all tomorrow! I’m out!
DreamsMaterialize
November 1st, 2012
4:52 pm
Not my eye…HIS
slim safe to say you don’t take one for the team huh. lol
Exiled!
November 1st, 2012
4:53 pm
Jake..none wrong if u fudging ur mrs
Ur a good boy right?
Jake-SPJTWB
November 1st, 2012
4:54 pm
So Slim, you are saying……skeet,skeet, gotdayum!….squirt on girl
Y’all have a good one folks!
i'm swiss
November 1st, 2012
4:54 pm
DM — Yeah, apparently Slim pulled the pin, then jumped off of that grenade just before it went BOOM…
Sassy Me...Disco Lady ;-)
November 1st, 2012
4:54 pm
Have a great evening blog…read y’all tomorrow
Jake-SPJTWB
November 1st, 2012
4:57 pm
No doubt Ex, Scouts honor…….. drink as much as you like brother…Tanguaray is a good brand
SlimNu
November 1st, 2012
5:00 pm
Nite john boy, nite mary ann, nite yall
Leggs
November 1st, 2012
5:01 pm
Nite nite!