First date? Don’t expect to get lucky
A friend told me she was really offended that a guy moved in for a hook up on their first date. She does not understand how he read any signs that she was willing to have sex on the first date. She asked me, “Is this something that men just expect after one date, now?”
Well, I would not say most men expect a first date hook up. They probably would not turn it down, but I would be surprised if guys want to “get lucky” like that. When most people go on a first date, they usually just expect to have a good time. Now, what does a good time mean to you?
Would you be opposed to getting physical on the first date? Is it something that is even on your mind when you first meet someone you are attracted to?
Guys, have you ever decided to “go there” and make a move on the first date? Would it be something you would attempt if you wanted a relationship with someone?
By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog
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SlimNu
October 29th, 2012
2:58 pm
Bluz – I’m thinking they are going to be worse come election day. The beau voted in Fulton and he said there was a major line. Folks were even handing out snacks and bottled waters. I had to vote in Newton Co so I was in and out in about 15 minutes…no snacks, no bottled water, just two fully dressed Sheriff’s lol
Into the Light
October 29th, 2012
3:01 pm
I haven’t voted yet – I’m a “day of” kind of girl.
And, all jokes aside, I use my toaster oven often, especially in the summer. I hate heating up the kitchen if I don’t have to.
Mrs. SexyCool
October 29th, 2012
3:06 pm
S&H – I see it as being no different than Cinemark being sued for the Batman shooting.
Leggs
October 29th, 2012
3:07 pm
SlimNu ~ no 8 track of anything (lol). She said they had a microwave and won’t need a toaster oven. Young minds are full of foolish thoughts.
Single ~ even though the guy was unstable don’t you think the church would have to prove/show they implemented proper and effective security for the safety of the parishioners. If they knew he was unstable and let him on the grounds, let alone allowed him to get that close to one he shot, liability issues may be on the litigation table.
SlimNu
October 29th, 2012
3:09 pm
I secretly kept a microwave in my dorm room. Whenever the RA was making rounds, we’d cover it up to make it look like a table with a table cloth and pictures…the whole nine. LOL
Bluzgirl
October 29th, 2012
3:09 pm
Slim – My thinking is that maybe it won’t be so bad on the 6th since there are many more places to go. With the early voting, Gwinnett only had a few places and apparently had very few machines in each place. This is a big county and they should have set up more locations. I just couldn’t believe the amount of cars. It took me about 20 minutes just to get back out of the place!
disco
October 29th, 2012
3:09 pm
hey y’all. who’s suing who? please. this is the good old US of A. everybody’s suing everybody. a friend of mine sued a restaurant (and got a little settlement money) because her daughter was up running around and fell. nevermind that the momma sat there the whole while her daughter was running around like there was nothing wrong with that picture.
SlimNu
October 29th, 2012
3:14 pm
disco – That’s funny…let’s not forget the person that sued McDonald’s because the coffee was too hot.
Into the Light
October 29th, 2012
3:14 pm
Completely O/T: Why, when it’s 2 degrees outside am I craving a popsicle???
Into the Light
October 29th, 2012
3:15 pm
Or the people that sued Winnebago bc they put the RV on cruise control and went in back to make a sandwich and crashed.
Leggs
October 29th, 2012
3:17 pm
ITL, ummm, which flavor would you like I still have some in the freezer here at work.
disco
October 29th, 2012
3:19 pm
Slim – it’s funny but it’s not. some folks are just money hungry. one of my aunts filed a claim with my grandmother’s insurance company and essentially sued my grandmother (her own mother mind you) because my grandmother bumped into her parked car. it didn’t matter that several family members told her not to worry about it, they would cover it. she was convinced she’d get more if she filed the claim. just plain greedy.
Leggs
October 29th, 2012
3:20 pm
put the RV on cruise control and went in back to make a sandwich and crashed -HUH??? WOW, people should not get paid because they are beyong dense!
Single and Happy
October 29th, 2012
3:22 pm
Mrs Sexy, Leggs, the church is no more liable than the theater is in Colorado, you can file suit against anybody, winning and collecting your money is another story.
Mrs. SexyCool
October 29th, 2012
3:24 pm
Okay, gotcha. Thank you for the legal lesson.
SlimNu
October 29th, 2012
3:24 pm
Or the person that sued a fast food joint when their car cascaded into the side of the building because the cement parking bumpers weren’t high enough to stop the car.
Ok, ok, ok I made that one up but i’m sure someone somewhere will try to sue for that if they haven’t already.
disco
October 29th, 2012
3:25 pm
and don’t y’all just love these celebrity/paparazzi fights where someone starts some mess and then wants to sue someone for busting them over the head? shoot sometimes I be sitting at home thinking I would take a hundred thousand dollar butt whooping. lol.
Single and Happy
October 29th, 2012
3:26 pm
Mrs Sexy, not a legal lesson, i’m not a lawyer, just an opinion.
Single and Happy
October 29th, 2012
3:27 pm
Slim, there the famous Mcdonalds hot coffee case
(LOL)
Mrs. SexyCool
October 29th, 2012
3:27 pm
As was mine.
disco
October 29th, 2012
3:28 pm
S/H – I just knew you were going to say “I’m not a lawyer but I play one on the blog”.
Single and Happy
October 29th, 2012
3:30 pm
Disco, the thought did cross my mind, but to many real lawyers on the blog, surprised one hasn’t called me out yet (LOL)
SlimNu
October 29th, 2012
3:30 pm
Yeah, where is CC anyway….court I suppose. She is our blog legaritan (I think i made that word up too) lol
Leggs
October 29th, 2012
3:33 pm
Especially since you left out the “l” SlimNu (lol).
Gotcha Single, I just don’t know.
disco
October 29th, 2012
3:34 pm
here’s my public service announcement for those of you who aren’t opposed to Halloween. try to be nice and take the time to “treat a trick” this Halloween season.
Leggs
October 29th, 2012
3:35 pm
How can I ask this…ummm, ummm, ladies, how do you protect your ta tas from jiggling when you wear a backout dress that would make wearing a bra ractically impossible. I want to buy this dress, but going braless is not my thing (on any occasion).
SlimNu
October 29th, 2012
3:41 pm
Leggs – They have those things that adhere to the boobs to help give you support some kind of way. Try a lingerie store or a place specializing in that kind of thing…Briday shop perhaps.
i'm swiss
October 29th, 2012
3:41 pm
Leggs — I’ll hold ‘em for you.
SlimNu
October 29th, 2012
3:42 pm
Bridal shop…sorry
Leggs
October 29th, 2012
3:44 pm
swiss, swiss, swiss…Man, you are definitely cut from a different cloth.
Leggs
October 29th, 2012
3:45 pm
disco ~ do you have a PSA for the ladies???
Single and Happy
October 29th, 2012
3:49 pm
Slim they call those thing, my hands and my lips
disco
October 29th, 2012
3:52 pm
leggs – they make bras for that. depending on how low the back is there may be a lower strap option or they have the petal type thingies that you can wear.
leggs again – shoot the ladies can treat a trick too. treat a trick can mean many things. maybe you’ll bite your tongue instead of cussing a chick out. that there is considered treating a trick.
SlimNu
October 29th, 2012
3:52 pm
Leggs – I just thought about it, you probably don’t want to take any boob support advice from me….I’m only sitting on B’s over here. Whenever I go to Mcdonalds and they ask if I want a super-size, i almost always say yes. “Throw some D’s on this b!p!”
Leggs
October 29th, 2012
3:54 pm
disco ~ the dress is SEXY, SEXY. The entire back is out down to the lower back.
SlimNu ~ darling, naw, you can’t give any tips on this one (lolol).
Leggs
October 29th, 2012
3:54 pm
Like the treat a trick meaning, disco!
disco
October 29th, 2012
3:56 pm
re swiss helping leggs out. I can just hear her explaining to someone how her new 18 hour super support system works.
slim – in my “old age” I’ve blossomed to a D. folks who knew me when are always asking when I got them done. my only real regret is that I didn’t grow up with these bad boys. I never learned how to work cleavage. I could be missing out on some real perks.
i'm swiss
October 29th, 2012
3:56 pm
“I’m only sitting on B’s over here.”
Slim — Maybe you should quit sitting on them. Let them titTAYS breeeeeeeeeeve.
Leggs
October 29th, 2012
3:59 pm
disco ~ I definitely understand that regret. Ever since I saw clevage during my pregnancy, I loved it. I somewhat cried when it went away after I lost all that baby fat. What I have now is not a lot, but man I would have enjoyed another enjoying them back in the day. I’m cracking up…
Into the Light
October 29th, 2012
4:01 pm
@Leggs: I want a red one!! If you don’t have red, I’ll take purple.
Leggs
October 29th, 2012
4:05 pm
I always try to give the red ones away. Catch….
Into the Light
October 29th, 2012
4:06 pm
And I think Wally World sells the petal things, too, although duct tape will work in a pinch (don’t ask me how I know).
Leggs
October 29th, 2012
4:07 pm
I was told duct tape would help with the support/jiggling (lol).
Into the Light
October 29th, 2012
4:09 pm
It will.
The peeling off is not a lot of fun, though…. 
DreamsMaterialize
October 29th, 2012
4:12 pm
If you own a home, and someone injures themselves on your property, they can sue and collect. Homeowners insurance has provisions for this scenario. I don’t know if it’s completely analogous, but I would think if someone gets shot on your property (your church), then you could be considered liable in the same way. Poppa G, Comon, what say you?
I’ll hold ‘em for you.
swiss You’re a consistent dude man. lol
DreamsMaterialize
October 29th, 2012
4:13 pm
Hey ITL. How’s it going?
Into the Light
October 29th, 2012
4:14 pm
Hey there, Dreams! I’m doing well. How are you???
DreamsMaterialize
October 29th, 2012
4:16 pm
Hey there, Dreams! I’m doing well. How are you???
ITL Been busy as he!!, but things are starting to slow down a little bit at work. 5pm can’t come fast enough though. lol
Into the Light
October 29th, 2012
4:19 pm
LOL@Dreams. I know what you mean. I was on vacation last week, and my brain is not completely back in work mode yet.
How’s the little miss? Ready for trick or treating?
disco
October 29th, 2012
4:21 pm
we’re back on law again. why isn’t “watch where you going” a suitable defense to slip and falls, car accidents, etc.? the concept is so simple. so much could be prevented if folks would just watch where they are going. lol. and as for defenses, will “playing too much” ever make the list of acceptable defenses? why did you slap the plaintiff? she was playing too much your honor. lol. I laugh at that one because a friend’s daughter used that very excuse when she got ISS for fighting.