First date? Don’t expect to get lucky
A friend told me she was really offended that a guy moved in for a hook up on their first date. She does not understand how he read any signs that she was willing to have sex on the first date. She asked me, “Is this something that men just expect after one date, now?”
Well, I would not say most men expect a first date hook up. They probably would not turn it down, but I would be surprised if guys want to “get lucky” like that. When most people go on a first date, they usually just expect to have a good time. Now, what does a good time mean to you?
Would you be opposed to getting physical on the first date? Is it something that is even on your mind when you first meet someone you are attracted to?
Guys, have you ever decided to “go there” and make a move on the first date? Would it be something you would attempt if you wanted a relationship with someone?
By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog
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SlimNu
October 29th, 2012
12:39 pm
ITL – A paper came in the mail for Bed, Bath and Beyond and I saw that Ninja in there. How did it turn out for you? Is it just a suped up crock pot? lol
i'm swiss
October 29th, 2012
12:39 pm
Seriously, though, do not sleep on Ole Miss… They played Bammer tough, almost beat A&M and have now won 2 straight, over Auburn (by 3 TDs) and Arky. This will not be an easy game.
Bluzgirl
October 29th, 2012
12:41 pm
ITL – I’ll bet Sat will be great! Our boys will be pumped up and I sure hope for a nice win!!!
Willie Dynamite
October 29th, 2012
12:45 pm
Afternoon all,
Topic- ok, guess I’m the odd man out based on the Convo so far. In the past (b4 marriage-lol) I didn’t date(traditional date) much. I didn’t want a relationship or anything close to that. So with that being said heyal yeah I tried to smash at every available opportunity. I didn’t expect it and very rarely did I push much as that’s just not my style. I can say tho that I have run across plenty of women that pushed more than me for the nite to end later rather than sooner.
Side topic- congrats to the Dogs. A ugly win is still a win. As I stated on Fri I am not surprised. I didn’t hv a good feeling because of the banter leading up to the game. Not a good w/e for football. My gators and my Cowboys lost.
Into the Light
October 29th, 2012
12:50 pm
@Slim: Not really. It has a stovetop setting so it can brown (which is nice, because I like to sear my roast before slow-cooking) and also has an “oven” feature, so that you can steam/roast and also steam bake.
@Swiss: I’m with you. I’m not taking anything for granted. But man oh man it sure is nice to beat the Gators two in a row.
Into the Light
October 29th, 2012
12:51 pm
@Bluz: Yep. Might even go to the Dawg Walk this week.
Bluzgirl
October 29th, 2012
12:54 pm
Jealous ITL!
Into the Light
October 29th, 2012
12:58 pm
Don’t be, Bluz. I say we might go, but we’ll probably just hang at the tailgate and drink until it’s time to go in.
Leggs
October 29th, 2012
1:04 pm
Jarvis Jones was good. Even Mitchell came back and did what he was supposed to do.
Aww sookie sookie, look at me have a football convo.
Leggs
October 29th, 2012
1:06 pm
And, remembering who these folk are! I’m impressed w/myself (lol). Gotta start somewhere.
SlimNu
October 29th, 2012
1:07 pm
ITL – Yeah, I seared mine too before I slapped that joka in the crock pot. But that little gadget sounds nice…When the beau went to Miami a few weeks ago, this fool came back with a toaster over. I’m thinking, out of all the things he could’ve brought back, that’s what he came in the house with.
Lernch time
Into the Light
October 29th, 2012
1:10 pm
Uh oh! Leggs Lundquist is on the case!!
Way to go, Leggs!
@Slim: D’oh. He’s not planning on buying you a vacuum for Christmas, is he?
Gotta go get something to eat…..back later.
Bluzgirl
October 29th, 2012
1:11 pm
Woo hoo Leggs!!! Very impressive!!!
Leggs
October 29th, 2012
1:17 pm
And it was good to see that Murray (??Quarterback) didn’t have to go home looking so forlorn after that messed up play of not throwing the ball. You do realize I’m laughing at myself…
Willie Dynamite
October 29th, 2012
1:19 pm
Toaster oven hahaha somebody bout to be domesticated.
Bluzgirl
October 29th, 2012
1:21 pm
LOL Leggs – I thought Murray was going to hurt himself after throwing three interceptions in the first half. Thank God we picked up some of FL’s fumbles. I can’t believe how long the game was!!! Thanks to the penalties and turnovers. It was such a sloppy game, but I’m just thankful we came out on top. Made me a very happy girl!
Jake-SPJTWB
October 29th, 2012
1:22 pm
Toaster Oven…the man must like his buns hott
i'm swiss
October 29th, 2012
1:29 pm
Leggs — I was about ready to strangle Malcome Mitchell for running his mouth all dang day, until he busted it for that TD. After that, all was forgiven.
And yeah, Murray had another very shakey game against a good defense, but luckily the defense bailed him out and MM turned a short hitch into a TD.
SlimNu
October 29th, 2012
1:30 pm
Je was like, you can put the garlic bread you like to eat in there.
Leggs
October 29th, 2012
1:31 pm
Haaa haa haaa, I actually followed everything you just said, swiss!!!
SlimNu
October 29th, 2012
1:31 pm
He
i'm swiss
October 29th, 2012
1:33 pm
Willie D — I’m still not sold, though. They showed me they can get up for 1 game, against our most hated rival, with literally the whole season’s aspirations riding on it. That should be a given, though. They still need to prove they can bring that team to the stadium every week.
Mrs. SexyCool
October 29th, 2012
1:42 pm
My race recap here if anyone is interested.
Mrs. SexyCool
October 29th, 2012
1:43 pm
That Marcus Lattimore injury was horrific.
Leggs
October 29th, 2012
1:47 pm
It certainly was Mrs. SC! OUCH!!!!!!!! And to think he tore is ACL previously is now another nail into his promising career.
Leggs
October 29th, 2012
1:48 pm
Can’t open your recap here at work. Will do when I get home this evening.
DreamsMaterialize
October 29th, 2012
1:55 pm
They still make toaster ovens?
Oh and congrats Mrs. Cool. I thought about running that relay, but the more reasonable part of me knew that trying to do a run like that during homecoming weekend would be just plain dumb. lol
Mrs. SexyCool
October 29th, 2012
2:03 pm
I use my toaster oven more than I use my microwave.
Thanks, DreamsMat. M wants a medal now, so….I guess I will be doing something that I promised I would never do again in life – run another half.
Oh…and as much as I am a runner, I do not believe a marathon will ever be in my future.
Bluzgirl
October 29th, 2012
2:17 pm
Wow…I could hardly open my car door when I just went to get gas at lunch! When I got out, I had to hold my shirt down so it wouldn’t fly up!
Leggs
October 29th, 2012
2:18 pm
O/T: What do you think of Creflo Dollar asking his parishoners to donate funds to get the family of the man shot out of debt. I believe $234K+ in debt. Ummm, why can Creflo reach into his millions and pay the debt himself??
i'm swiss
October 29th, 2012
2:20 pm
“I had to hold my shirt down so it wouldn’t fly up!”
Bluz — No matter the method of flashing, bare t!tties are a gift from the lord. Let that wind work its will. It’s what god intended.
i'm swiss
October 29th, 2012
2:21 pm
Leggs — I was wondering the exact same thing.
Robert
October 29th, 2012
2:25 pm
@Leggs – “What do you think of Creflo Dollar”
I have been waiting to hear the rest of the story. I heard he is personally donating alot of money. How much? He never disclosed. I guess he will do the right thing and help this family as much as possible.
Single and Happy
October 29th, 2012
2:26 pm
Leggs, Swiss, even better, what about life insurance?
Mrs. SexyCool
October 29th, 2012
2:26 pm
I heard about Creflo’s request this morning. At the time, I did not realize that it was the amount to pay off the family’s bills.
Initially, I called it “rather arrogant.” With the additional knowledge, I call it “arrogance with decent intent.”
Single and Happy
October 29th, 2012
2:27 pm
Mrs SC he was asking for a second offering, wasn’t willing to give up the first!
SlimNu
October 29th, 2012
2:28 pm
I have not used a toaster over since I was in 6th grade. My mom would let me use it to make pizza bread as our after school snack before she got hom from work. lol Any of yall ever made those, pizza sauce, mozzerella cheese and pepperoni.
Bluzgirl
October 29th, 2012
2:29 pm
HaHa swiss – I’m sure there would be a few hoping that they would have been flashed, but with the bra on, it wouldn’t have been so exciting!
Mrs. SexyCool
October 29th, 2012
2:33 pm
Really – the family should just sue the church’s general liability and the congregation wouldn’t have to donate an additional dime.
I am fairly certain that the Reverend Doctor Dollar’s plea will prove productive and will prevent the family from filing suit.
DreamsMaterialize
October 29th, 2012
2:34 pm
I guess I will be doing something that I promised I would never do again in life – run another half.
Mrs. Cool I’m just trying to catch up to you. lol I have my eye on the Publix Half Marathon in March.
Leggs
October 29th, 2012
2:39 pm
SlimNu ~ lil leggs asked that I take the toaster over I got her for her dorm room back home.
I was looking at it when I pulled the car out the garage this morning.
I personally think it is wrong of Creflo to ask his congregation to dig into their wallets and get another family out of debt. This happened in HIS church, was one of HIS parishoners, and even though he may be donating a “hefty” amount (everything is relative), he should donate ALL OF IT!
SlimNu
October 29th, 2012
2:40 pm
Did anyone else get their early voting done? I’s a Georgia Early Voter
Leggs
October 29th, 2012
2:41 pm
“… but with the bra on, it wouldn’t have been so exciting!” – that’s what you think. Men love clevage almost as much as they love seeing the nipple!
SlimNu
October 29th, 2012
2:43 pm
Leggs – Did she say why? Maybe got teased for bringing the 8 track of microwaves
SlimNu
October 29th, 2012
2:46 pm
Leggs – He said his dad gave it to him. LOLOL That’s one thing about going home to visit if your parents or relatives live out of town. No telling what the hell you’ll come back with but you don’t want to say no. The last unwanted thing I got was an old tennis racket that my stepdad bought at a yard sale. When he was helping me put my luggage in the car, he saw that I had some rackets back there. (I only had them because the beau and I went to hit a few balls at the court a few weeks prior) But anyway, here comes my step dad with the racket with the old wooden case that you had to screw the corners loose to get the racket out. Talk about an antique
Bluzgirl
October 29th, 2012
2:52 pm
Slim – I attempted to vote early on Saturday, but the line was way too long for me to stand in it. I heard they had up to 7 hour waits!!! No thank you! I will just wait and vote on the 6th. Hopefully, the majority of people will have early voted so it will be walk in and walk out!
Single and Happy
October 29th, 2012
2:53 pm
Slim I’s one two, but I wouldn’t have waited 2 hours, I would just wait till election day.
Bluzgirl
October 29th, 2012
2:53 pm
What’s wrong with toaster ovens? I use mine all the time! It’s a nice, pretty red one!
Mrs. SexyCool
October 29th, 2012
2:55 pm
Dreams – I’m thinking that may be the one that we do. Either that or I will return to the scene of my demise – Rock and Roll New Orleans. And actually, we could do that half as a relay. That would give him the medal he wants and allow me to not leave New Orleans feeling like a whipped puppy.
Single and Happy
October 29th, 2012
2:56 pm
Mrs Sexy, why would the church be liable? I know the guy was unstable, but he was let go.