Why do nice girls get dumped?
I received an email from one of our readers that asked, “Why do nice girls get dumped for women that torture men?” – a loaded question for sure. “Brenda” is actually considering becoming less of a nice girl to get a little more action. Bad idea or worth a try?
My concern is that pretending to be something you are not is a recipe for disaster. You can only keep the false personality going for so long, right? Why does it seem that nice girls (like nice guys!) get looked over or put on the back burner?
Would you ever project a more “edgy” image in order to get the attention of someone who was into the bad girl/bad boy type?
Guys, when will a man tend to steer clear of the wild girls and be more open to the nice girls? Are women expected to wait till you get that out of your system?
By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog
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168 comments Add your comment
Jake-SPJTWB
October 26th, 2012
3:42 pm
What up wit yall….Charlie Murphy tonight, Magic City Classic tomorrow…gonna be a power packed weekend.
Topic..who wants a bad girl, for more than a hot fugg.
Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit ;-)
October 26th, 2012
3:44 pm
The sweetest woman in the world can be the meanest woman in the world if you make her that way
Yep…good thing she wasn’t cooking a pot of hot grits!!
Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit ;-)
October 26th, 2012
3:52 pm
Man we’ve been pretty tame n clean for a Friday…I’m impressed..
DuShawn
October 26th, 2012
3:53 pm
I bet it would be hard for me to get a date on this blog.
Leggs
October 26th, 2012
3:54 pm
Remember Dushawn, you’re not the same imbecile you were when 20…hope all of us have changed for the better over the years.
Leggs
October 26th, 2012
3:57 pm
sorry, you weren’t an imbecile…just a young, horny guy popping off.
Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit ;-)
October 26th, 2012
4:00 pm
I bet it would be hard for me to get a date on this blog.
Are you serious or just fishing….and if you’re serious why would you think that?
DuShawn
October 26th, 2012
4:00 pm
Now Im just an old played out playa with a lot stories.
Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit ;-)
October 26th, 2012
4:01 pm
Du if you’re still moving like you were when you dogged ol girl then you just might get the side eye….but if you’ve evolved then good for you.
Leggs
October 26th, 2012
4:03 pm
Doubt you’re old. No one on this blog is old.
Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit ;-)
October 26th, 2012
4:04 pm
Have a nice weekend y’all…
Leggs
October 26th, 2012
4:05 pm
You do the same, Sassy!
DuShawn
October 26th, 2012
4:06 pm
Sassy – This forum tends to give a one dimensional perception. You’re not afforded the luxury of vocal inflections or facial expression. I rarely have anything to contribute on the current dating scene. The majority of my post often portray me in a negative light.
Jake-SPJTWB
October 26th, 2012
4:06 pm
What is this???? Confesssions Friday
DuShawn
October 26th, 2012
4:08 pm
im bout to pick up wifey.Ride up to homecoming, check in the hotel and celebrate life….again.
I’m Owt.
Sassy Me...Juicy Fruit ;-)
October 26th, 2012
4:10 pm
The majority of my post often portray me in a negative light.
No it doesn’t Du…as I’ve said if you’re still playing chicks to the left then I understand that statement..but if you’re not then good for you. I’m sure we’ve all done some dumb sht back in the day…so long as it stays back in the day and doesn’t ease into the present scheme of thangs then weee good.
Thanks Leggs…
Peace
Bluzgirl
October 26th, 2012
4:10 pm
Why people gotta try to make me work hard on a Friday?!?! I haven’t been able to keep caught up on the blog. I hate when work interferes with my social life!!!
Leggs
October 26th, 2012
4:14 pm