Why no second date?
Have you ever had a really great introduction or first date with someone and felt a strong connection? You can literally sense the attraction and feel the chemistry spark. If you had to place a bet, the odds of hearing from them again were in your favor! Then nothing happens…ever.
It is SO frustrating but it actually happens a lot. People flirt, mix and mingle all the time. You won’t always have what you feel reciprocated, and you can’t take that personally.
Think about the last time you met someone and immediately realized they were not a good match for you. What was it that made you think that they were better suited for somebody else?
When was the last time you met someone or had a first date – but decided not to pursue it?
I heard a guy say that he refused to ask for a second date because the woman’s car was a mess inside and out. That made me wonder if our reasons are always valid? How can know for sure that you aren’t being too critical, picky, or judgmental?
Do you know why someone lost interest in you? Does it really matter to you or do you just “charge it to the game” and move on?
By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog
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Single and Happy
October 24th, 2012
7:14 am
I heard a guy say that he refused to ask for a second date because the woman’s car was a mess inside and out. That made me wonder if our reasons are always valid? Whether my reason is valid to anyone else, is irrelavent, as long as it valid to me that’s all that matter.
Do you know why someone lost interest in you? Does it really matter to you or do you just “charge it to the game” and move on? Charge to the game and move on!
If you always feel you have to bring your “A” game on a first date then evidently you’re not being yourself. If you put that much effort into it and the person doesn’t like you for what ever reason, some may have a problem with it. Be yourself and enjoy it for what it is, if they don’t like you, don’t worry about the reason, just know they weren’t the one for you.
Celise.....happy life!!
October 24th, 2012
7:45 am
Honestly I can’t remember the last time I did random dating or went on bunches of dates. Can’t say that’s been my thing. I did that more so when I was younger. Not often though. I’ve mostly gone out in the last ten years with a steady, after being pursued. That’s more a win-win because when I did decide, it was as a result of their pursuit, their efforts, and me being fully on-board of giving it a go.
Before I locked things with my current hon, there was someone I was potentially interested in, that possibly would have placed me in today’s scenario. It didn’t pan out. I’m happy things went the way they did because I have a feeling I would have been on stage with others. And you know me, I’m not going to “compete” with others. IMO, that make space for folks to place you in a line-up…lol Don’t get me wrong, I understand those are the dynamics of dating, but I don’t like being bothered with that stuff. I could never get the truth I felt, so why bother? You know? I don’t like to be bothered with that stuff….lol Just move on past me. Too old for shenanigans. I didn’t do it younger and I’m certainly not don’t now!
But as with my only three LTRs, this current thing I’m trying started with someone that pursued and made me feel like they “really” wanted something solid and was willing to go all in. Not, let me see how you’ll do up against others and then we’ll see….nuh uh, no can do. So, my point being, no you can’t always tell, but the “feeling” of a test run will have me backing away. I mean you ain’t gotta commit day one but I’d much rather be where we’ve talked and discussed and talked and have almost decided…..rather than “hey, what’s your name, wanna meet up”….that’s for the youngins….lol Don’t have much patience in that regard.
Jeff
October 24th, 2012
8:21 am
As the saying goes “Maybe he (or she) just isn’t that into you”.
The real measurement is whether or not you’re mature enough to accept that without all the whining and compaining and “well they’re the ones who are missing out”, blah blah blah?
SlimNu
October 24th, 2012
8:21 am
Good Chilly Willy Wednesday,
Check back in after my sale
Enigma
October 24th, 2012
8:29 am
It’s not hard to get a second date.
If the person already knows you- be courteous, respectable, have a great personality. Little things like offering to pay for the first date (if you are a female) go a long way.
If the person does not know you and you are meeting through a dating website or through a blind date- make sure your your description of yourself is 100% accurate. Don’t say you are a size 4 when in reality you weigh 250 pounds. Don’t like about your age or pretend to be someone you’re not.
And if you do not get a second date, don’t get all bent out of shape about it. Dust yourself off and work on you so that someone else can ask you out.
Exiled!
October 24th, 2012
8:34 am
So Celisea…the dude You preferred did not pan out and u went for 2nd Choice?
On topic:
If the second date does not happen for you lady,just charge that and KIM. After all,and most likely,dude was upstanding,you had a free meal,u feel stuffed and most of u didn’t pay a nickle towards the date,other than gas. That was a Win Win. Nice evening.
Trust,dude is proly also disappointed as well coz he may have had high hopes coming in. And u deflated him. If u guys met in a club at nite and now he gets to see u during the day and wow..look different under the glare of the sun. The real U!
Did u even thunk bout that?!
Exiled!
October 24th, 2012
8:39 am
Enigma?
I can understand why a woman wld lie about themselves on the website. Isn’t the while website move a desperate move anyway?
So she will pull out the high school pics for maximum web hits! In order to snag a live date.
Desperate times demand desperate measures!
Exiled!
October 24th, 2012
8:40 am
Whole
Exiled!
October 24th, 2012
8:42 am
Jeff…’they’re the ones missing out blah blah’
….that’s a MIA favorite!
Celise.....happy life!!
October 24th, 2012
8:44 am
Mmeelo – I didn’t say “no go” dude was my preference. I prefer a gentleman, always.
I was willing to give the “no go” dude a chance because he was first. The current honey came along months later and showed me what I needed to see. I’m not going to pass over a good thing when it’s sitting in my lap….lol
Single and Happy
October 24th, 2012
8:58 am
So ex what’s the difference between, internet dating, matchmaking, hooking people up, blind dates, personal ads, meeting at church, the club, the street corner, work, the mall?? they are all just different avenues for meeting people. Nothing desperate about any of them. You should take the same precautions with all of them, people can lie no matter where you meet them.
Celisea.....happy life!!
October 24th, 2012
9:07 am
Alright, gotta work…I’m out
disco
October 24th, 2012
9:08 am
good morning.
S/H – I see we are back to tracking. I totally agree that why I don’t like a person is of no concern to anyone but me. goodness knows I get clowned plenty for some of the inconsequential things I can’t take. for instance, eye color. I don’t care how great a guy is, I’m simply not comfortable with what I call “funny colored” eyes. gives me the creeps and while I have friends/acquaintances with not-brown eyes I can’t imagine rolling over, waking up and being scared to death every single morning trying to be with a grey/green/blue-eyed man.
S/H – I also agree with your point re internet dating. when it’s all said and done what difference does it make where you meet the person. that very same person could be at church, at the club, online, on the corner, in the mall. the person is the person regardless. (I was tempted to type irregardless). lol.
Leggs
October 24th, 2012
9:09 am
SassyMe ~ MAIL CALL!!!!!
Exiled!
October 24th, 2012
9:14 am
Single?
Internet is not Live! Deception on All levels!
The preferred method for chics is to eye dude,waay down,way up while he is there,Live!
The preferred method is for dudes to check her there,Live..nice bootey,tatas,smile..the whole nine,while she’s standing,then check her bootey one more time as she leaves.
Then we set up a date to talk or we talk on the phone for a Lil bit,yikkie,yakkie,this and that.
How u going to even go there on the Internet when ALL u got is a head shot?
It’s deception with a D from one!
Desperate!
Leggs
October 24th, 2012
9:15 am
That made me wonder if our reasons are always valid? – Valid to the person with the reasons, most times not for the person on the receiving end.
There have been times when I thought the date was going well, and was told the date was going well only to hear crickets. One person did tell me “he didn’t want to ruin my life” and that’s why he didn’t ask me out again. I was so flummoxed by that statement. I did asked what he meant, and all I got was “you’re a good girl.” I even called a friend up to help me understand. My last dates didn’t pan out well either simply because of my morals. Oh well. All I can say, is another one bites the dust.
Good morning.
Exiled!
October 24th, 2012
9:17 am
Single..now if u doing it and it’s working for u,All good!
I know u commitment phob so…nice place to get bootey I must say.
IJS
disco
October 24th, 2012
9:20 am
leggs – that’s deep that old boy told you that. I dated one guy way way back whose mom told him to leave me alone before he ruined my life. 20+ years later and we still joke about it.
Single and Happy
October 24th, 2012
9:44 am
Ex, the best liars are the ones that you meet in person, the best cons work in person. You can distract people with things and they will pay no attention to what you say. With web cams, skype, yahoo video, camera phones, you have more than a head.
Disco, I see as usual we seeing eye to eye (scary isn’t it, almost like we’re the same person) (LOL)
Bluzgirl
October 24th, 2012
9:45 am
In the past, I went on two separate dates with two different men and I know they thought the date went wonderful, but they had each offended me in some way and I left them alone immediately. I was nice during the date and maybe they thought that meant that I was into them. Afterwards, I just ignored calls and texts and they got the message…
Enigma
October 24th, 2012
9:50 am
SMH At Exiled 8:39
Single and Happy
October 24th, 2012
9:53 am
Commitment phobe, yea that me (lmao)
Leggs
October 24th, 2012
9:57 am
disco ~ I appreciated the honesty, but man that was a surprise to hear it like that. I could only surmise he was still running through life, women, skinning and a grinning, and knew I was seeking something along the line of where water seeks its own level.
disco
October 24th, 2012
10:01 am
O/T – I went to see lawless last night. I thought it was pretty good. it had violence and drama and they didn’t feel compelled to muddy it up with a love story. lol.
Button
October 24th, 2012
10:06 am
Have you ever had a really great introduction or first date with someone and felt a strong connection?
Yes, I just knew this was the one, we had a great time, good convo, humor, and a lot incommon but no call for a second date, I was crushed. Dude never called.
When was the last time you met someone or had a first date – but decided not to pursue it? It was about two years ago, I met a guy, we dated but when we had our first kiss, it felt like I was kissing a wall. I felt absolutely NOTHING! so I went on a second date and again I felt nothing when we kissed. I quit him quickly.
HST
October 24th, 2012
10:07 am
IMO, either they found something more interesting, or they had a significant other already. I’d say MOST of the time, those are the reasons. The other main one is he saw, heard, or perceived a deal breaker. However, as men get older, we tend to accept ‘Girl Clutter,’ and other subjective bearings of one’s person.
I too used to think if a woman’s car was messy it was a sign of who they are. I soon realized that if I used that assessment for women – I’d have lots of nights alone. I feel that both sexes are very subjective, and have idealistic POV in their 20’s.
1. I met another more interesting woman, before I was supposed to call you.
2. I was being an immature judgmental prick.
3. Seemed to complicated to ’seal the deal.’
4. Buddies warned me of you.
5. I liked you; but you just weren’t for me, after further thought.
6. I’m just too lazy.
7. I got busy, and felt weird to call after so many days of not making contact.
Girl Clutter: A woman’s mess that a man can’t understand, or comprehend.
To offset ‘Girl Clutter,’ I do not share a bathroom with my GF. I gave her the other master bedroom to keep her stuff. I don’t go in either rooms (well, very seldom), because it bugs me, and this way I just don’t have to care – I simply shut the door.
disco
October 24th, 2012
10:12 am
HST – you do agree though that there is a difference thought between cluttered or untidy and down and out nasty?
M. (pronouced M dot)
October 24th, 2012
10:19 am
Good day all..
The first date to guys never really counts. Every guy has been on first dates that seem great then they flatline. The deal is sometimes some women may not be interested in a second date for various reasons such as:
1. No chemistry.
2. Let Down i.e., they seemed great but turns out they were not.
3. They may just wanted to go out with somebody just to do something.
4. They may already have someone that they are seeing and you arent good enough for them to stop seeing that other person.
5. She may just be a serial dater with no serious intentions
Guys should always look at the first date for what it is. The chance to go out and get to know someone new for a couple of hours.
HST
October 24th, 2012
10:24 am
Yes, I do Disco. I wouldn’t associate with a person whom is “down and out nasty.” Please notice I used person, and not just female.
I’m a very fastidious person, however, I always seem to find, or be with women whom aren’t. Maybe it’s nature balancing yin & yang, or myself balancing my life subconsciously. I’ve pondered often about that, because of my frustration with it.
Diva gave the example of the car, and it just hit home.
Sassy Me...PYT ;-)
October 24th, 2012
10:25 am
em>That made me wonder if our reasons are always valid? – Valid to the person with the reasons, most times not for the person on the receiving end.
In relation to our topic this is what usually happens to me. I think it boils down to the other persons intent and agenda. If a dude’s intent is just to get with a woman and use her(money,sex,place to stay,money)and the woman he meets isn’t up for that then he may decide not to persue her anymore(with or without telling her) and she’s left lookin around like, “What happened”.
Also when narcissistic men who aren’t used to dealing with opinionated women who challenge them meet a woman like that, they bolt in the other direction to an easy one who requires less work.
HST
October 24th, 2012
10:27 am
“Guys should always look at the first date for what it is. The chance to go out and get to know someone new for a couple of hours.”
Well said M., and I always wonder why some get so serious about something so casual.
disco
October 24th, 2012
10:30 am
HST – I’m certainly not judging. I pulled back from a guy once because he had a nasty car. clothes, shoes, newspapers, fast food bags, old soda cans. stuff was literally piled up. a car doesn’t get like that overnight. a car doesn’t get like that on a road trip. a car gets like that when that’s just how the nasty A owner of the car is. lol.
Single and Happy
October 24th, 2012
10:48 am
disco, sounds like he was living in his car! IJS
Leggs
October 24th, 2012
10:52 am
disco ~ a gf once told me that I guy won’t date me because of the track stickers and Mom of the Year sticker I have on my bumper. Oi Vey! If that bothers someone, like Eddie Kendricks said, Keep on Trucking, Baby…
HST
October 24th, 2012
10:54 am
I totally get you disco, and agree completely – that’s a disgusting scenario. I met some really beautiful women with dirty cars in my collegiate years (all stages), but not to that point of looking like they lived in their car.
FTR, IMO, It’s not being judgmental if you remove yourself rather than judge.
I totally feel my GF is a slob. I’ll tell her to her face. As long as her mess is not in my face, and keeps the rest of the house neat/tidy, and keeps her mess to her space, I do my best to ignore. It’s weird, because she is so put together, dresses to the T, impeccable make-up/hair, is a QA engineer, but is a complete slob. Sometimes I’ll complain, and she’ll do a lot with her space, but whatever amount she does she’s still so far from being tidy. Seriously, we have an agreement, out of sight – out of mind; therefore, she just keeps the door shut.
Leggs, Oi! Yeah, bye-bye…
HST
October 24th, 2012
10:58 am
By keeping the rest of the house neat/tidy…I mean put your clutter up. I have a full-time house keeper, my GF doesn’t have to clean, even if she does.
HST
October 24th, 2012
11:02 am
I need to detail a car, and grab some lunch. I’ll check back in periodically to see what’s happening on the blog today.
JIC, have a good day all.
disco
October 24th, 2012
11:15 am
HST – that particular guy wasn’t living in his car. he was just nasty. his apartment was the same way. at least the living room which was as far as I got. there was so much stuff on the floor, coffee table, couch. it was awful.
I have another friend who keeps a nasty car but an impeccable house. I don’t understand it but it is what it is.
so where is everyone today? the same skip party they were at yesterday?
Single and Happy
October 24th, 2012
11:19 am
Disco, are you sure we haven’t meet (LOL)
disco
October 24th, 2012
11:22 am
S/H – what you trying to say? you got a nasty car and a nasty living room?
Single and Happy
October 24th, 2012
11:29 am
Disco, it depends on who’s doing the looking (LOL)
Will the Real Black Mamba Please Stand Up
October 24th, 2012
11:34 am
Heeeeeeey guys!
SASSY..I co-sign your 10:25. I have always been a strong and opinionated woman. And I will NOT change for nobody. Even as a child, I spoke up. Sometimes it got me in trouble. But I did not care because at least I was no punk and was never considered docile. My family members knew not to mess with me. And as far as taking care of a man….I WILL NOT RAISE A GROWN @$$ MAN. If you are my SO and you fall down on your luck, then I will HELP you.
ON TOPIC…I am an OCD neat freak. So a nasty house/car will make my skin crawl. I had a homegirl who kept a nasty house and car and she wondered why guys ran from her like a diseased crotch! I told her that it’s because she is NASTY! And I know I feel if you keep where you eat and lay your head filthy…then you probably keep your body the same way. Sorry guys…nut crust is NOT sexy time in the city!
My current guy is not a slob or neat freak. So, he just laughs when I come over and clean. He asked me to show him how I keep things so tidy. So that along with decorating keeps us busy.
I have met guys online. And when we spoke, we had great convos. Based on pictures, we were attracted to one another. But once we hung out, for some reason it was like somebody peed on the fire because there were NO sparks! Hard to explain. But how do you tell someone….”hey, I’m just not feeling you like that bruh”?
disco
October 24th, 2012
11:40 am
mamba – re nasty friends. what about the friends that are always cleaning but their house is never clean? or what about they ones who are always so quick to say it’s a mess because of the kids? can they not teach their kids to clean up? lol. guess not. if momma don’t clean, baby don’t clean. some folks are just untidy by nature. I have a friend who is fly fly fly when you see her out. you literally have to step over stuff when you go to her house.
kimmie
October 24th, 2012
11:44 am
Morning All!!
Single, I agree with almost your entire first post. Especially about the reason being “valid”. As long as it makes sense to me that’s all that matters. And I really don’t owe anyone an explanation and they never owed me one either. If one isn’t interested, both are not interested.
Yeah, I’ve had the “no 2nd date” thing happen before. It really is part of the game. Yeah it can be frustrating. But rejection is part of life.
I try to bring my A game to everything I do, so I’m not putting myself out or not being myself. I am an A! If the inclination is to go at something halfway, then I tend not to do it. So if the desire was not there to give a relationship my all, for whatever reason, I did not pursue it.
It’s kind of like a conversation I had recently with hubs. He inquired about us possibly hosting a Halloween party. I told him I didn’t feel up to it. He thought I really liked to entertain, but this past year we have not done much. I explained that I do love to entertain. But when I do it, I go all out. I don’t do things like that half-azz. My job, the kids soccer and other activities have had me strung out to where I couldn’t give it my best.
Leggs
October 24th, 2012
11:58 am
All of that will definitely tire a person, kimmie. Last thing one is wanting to do is prepare the house for a party because hosting a party is work!
kimmie
October 24th, 2012
11:59 am
Disco/Mamba – I have a good friend whose slobbery contributed to the destruction of her marriage. Even after they broke up she still continued to keep a cluttered house. Now the front of the house would be passable, and her house didn’t smell. She wasn’t filthy, but extremely junky. Her bedroom was just a step away from looking like those on Clean House or Horders. She started dating a childhood friend long-distance. One weekend she was expecting a visit from him. I asked her was she going to clean up. She said “he knows me, he doesn’t care about all that”. I told her she better watch it. Didn’t she learn anything from her marriage? A man may not say anything, but he notices. She thought about what I said and cleaned up! They broke up about a year later and she started dating another guy that she actually discovered was a real hoarder. I mean to the point he could have been on the show and had the emotional issues to go along with it. Needless to say, they didn’t last long. But her house has been practically spotless ever since!
kimmie
October 24th, 2012
12:02 pm
Leggs – Absolutely!! He & the kids don’t really get it cause all they think we have to do is put up some fun decorations and that’s it. I’m not putting up decorations and having folks in my house unless it is spotless first. Then I have to plan a menu, shop for it and prepare for it. Even if it’s catered, I still would have to set it all up.
Nope, not this year!
SlimNu
October 24th, 2012
12:03 pm
Sorry just peeking in for a hot second…Where da hell were ya’ll yesterday?
disco
October 24th, 2012
12:05 pm
kimmie – one of my aunts is on the “nasty” side. she lives alone and her house is a wreck. apparently last year at family reunion time one of my cousins and a couple of her kids stayed at my aunt’s house. story goes my aunt had the nerve to tell my cousin’s kids to clean her house. needless to say my cousin and my aunt got into it behind it.
hey slim. coming in here regulating and demanding answers. i was here. lol.
SlimNu
October 24th, 2012
12:10 pm
disco – You know I wasn’t talking about you chica.
But I feel like this is one of those days where someone is going to win the lotto. And by lotto, I mean they are going to pull my lever, get them three 7’s and get cussed the fugg out. Or in the words of Kevin Hart, “You gone learn today!” But i’m whooosahing as best as I can.
Willie Dynamite
October 24th, 2012
12:12 pm
Afternoon all,
Topic- I’ve never been into dating per se so the 2nd date question I can’t really answer. Most of my 1st dates were after already knowing the chick so it merely was just a formality. Even real 1st dates I didn’t put much emphasis on them. I did have an agenda but it was really simple. All I wanted was a good time/conversation and/or some puddy.
kimmie
October 24th, 2012
12:16 pm
disco – The friend I was talking about above had the nerve to ask me to clean up on the sly. When we first got to be buddies, we worked at the same company and she lived literally within walking distance of my apt. She quit the company and started an in-home daycare. She had an entired seperate area in the basement where she ran the daycare. I used to come by sometime and help her pick up the toys and such. She had one or 2 kids that she kept after hours so she would bring them upstairs and if I was there I would help pick up after them upstairs. When we ate I would help clean up the kitchen, help load the dishwasher, put up dishes, etc. But that was just out of the goodness of my heart and I was sitting around talking so I would pitch in. She stopped the daycare and went back to work after the divorce. At that point I’m not cleaning up after a grown A woman!
disco
October 24th, 2012
12:27 pm
kimmie – you did good to do as much as you did. I don’t clean up after folks who can clean up after themselves (especially grown folks). just not in me to do. now if a friend just had a baby, had a death in the family, something like that then I’ll go over and help out. if a friend is just nasty I’ll just own that I have a nasty friend. I’ll sit there and shoot the breeze, watch tv, whatever. won’t be the first time I’ve spent time in a nasty house. I’ve worked with chicks who clean up their boss’ office. that’s never been my thing. I had one boss who would have a dozen coke cans lying around his office. I guess the assistant before me went in and threw them out. not me. the mess don’t bother you, the mess don’t bother me.
Enigma
October 24th, 2012
12:31 pm
Slim, I was here….. lurking
Sassy Me...PYT ;-)
October 24th, 2012
12:32 pm
hey slim. coming in here regulating and demanding answers
I know right?!
I was here,too…
Enigma
October 24th, 2012
12:33 pm
going to a meeting.
Talk amongst yourselves
disco
October 24th, 2012
12:33 pm
sassy – lol. you like me. let her know you was here. slim bout to lay the smack down on folks for skipping the blog. she’ll be like a blog truant officer.
hey enigma.
Enigma
October 24th, 2012
12:34 pm
Hey Disco
Random: your name reminds me of the song shiny disco balls
I digress
i'm swiss
October 24th, 2012
12:37 pm
Howdy, folks…
Not much to say on topic.
Side topic (nasty b!tches): If a chick’s car and/or house is nasty, what must her puddy be like?
Willie D — I assume you’re looking forward to the cocktail party? I hope my DAWGS can at least make it a decent game, but I have my doubts…
Willie Dynamite
October 24th, 2012
12:38 pm
Sassy- thanks again, you alright with me(smile).
disco
October 24th, 2012
12:40 pm
swiss – I swing my chin back and forth. lol. your post made me think of the old doo-wah-diddy song. summer’s eve. massengil. wash your —, kill that funky smell.
Single and Happy
October 24th, 2012
12:40 pm
Mamba I meet an online ex once that when we meet it was like someone peed on the fire, but since we were spending the weekend together, it went from pee to gasoline (LOL) Sometimes people expectations are too high when it comes to online dating because they’ve built this image in there head, and it’s hard for someone to live up to that.
Kimmie as you stated you bring your A game to everything you do, so you don’t feel the need to step up your game. Unfortunately everyone doesn’t
disco
October 24th, 2012
12:27 pm
kimmie – you did good to do as much as you did. I don’t clean up after folks who can clean up after themselves (especially grown folks). just not in me to do wow didn’t expect that from you (rotflmao)
Willie Dynamite
October 24th, 2012
12:41 pm
Swiss- looking forward to this weekend. Just want a smack down to make up for not being able to talk isht for a yr to dawg fans.
Sassy Me...PYT ;-)
October 24th, 2012
12:43 pm
You’re welcome Willie
i'm swiss
October 24th, 2012
12:43 pm
Willie D — Unfortunately, I’m afraid you’re going to get your wish. My heart tells me we could pull it out, but my head tells me we lose by 3 TDs, minimum.
kimmie
October 24th, 2012
12:48 pm
Single – It’s actually harder for me to hold back than it is to give my all. That’s just how I go about life!
Willie Dynamite
October 24th, 2012
12:49 pm
Swiss it will be closer in points than on the field. Fla has turned into a smash mouth team and I hope they just methodically beat the dawgs down.
Single and Happy
October 24th, 2012
12:51 pm
Kimmie, me and disco will give you some lessons on holding back (LOL)
Comon ¢
October 24th, 2012
12:58 pm
Now that Slim has put out the truancy warning, I felt I should show up.
On-Topic~ I think it’s all already been said.
Nasty car/house? No can do. And I don’t buy that “I have kids” argument. Beyotch! Me too! But you don’t see my house or car all nasty. I agree with swiss, if your house/car is that nasty, what must your genitals be like?
i'm swiss
October 24th, 2012
12:58 pm
Willie D — I don’t think it’s going to be that close in points. I’m afraid this has the potential to be an epic blowout — which is saying something by this game’s standards. Our defense is soft & undisciplined, and now there’s public finger-pointing. Honestly, if we get blown out (the way I’m afraid we will) in this game, then I’d almost prefer we just totally collapse & lose the rest of them, too, so that maybe there would be a chance for a coaching change. I don’t think we’ll ever be any better than mediocre with the current staff.
Comon ¢
October 24th, 2012
1:07 pm
swiss~ I like Mark Richt! I don’t think he is doing a bad job of coaching. I do think that he needs better backup, but overall, he is doin a decent job.
SlimNu
October 24th, 2012
1:08 pm
Guess we’ll need to implement a roll call from now on….lol
Comon ¢
October 24th, 2012
1:11 pm
Slim~ You stoopid! Like I need to add one more job to my already overtaxed schedule.
i'm swiss
October 24th, 2012
1:11 pm
Comon — He is a decent coach. And we have a decent team. But we’ll never be more than decent with Richt at the helm, I’m afraid. Our team is soft. And it has been for at least the past 6 or 7 years. Which is why every time we’ve faced an opponent who matched us in talent in that span, we’ve lost. That’s on the coach.
Comon ¢
October 24th, 2012
1:12 pm
Off Topic~ Did y’all hear about the shooting at World Changers this morning?
Willie Dynamite
October 24th, 2012
1:12 pm
Swiss- in this rivalry nothing would surprise me. Even with everything you mentioned I can see the opposite effect of bringing the dogs together for an upset. We’ll see.
Comon ¢
October 24th, 2012
1:13 pm
swiss~ Who would you throw out there to replace him? Nothing like jumping out of the frying pan and into the fire. (Which happens a lot in college FB…)
i'm swiss
October 24th, 2012
1:15 pm
“Even with everything you mentioned I can see the opposite effect of bringing the dogs together for an upset.”
Willie D — Yeah, that’s what my heart is telling me. I mean, we do have the personnel to win this game. But I have absolutely zero confidence in our coaches ability to have the team focused and ready to play tough — physically and mentally.
i'm swiss
October 24th, 2012
1:17 pm
Comon — Oh, don’t get me wrong, I know we could certainly end up in worse shape with someone different. But at least with someone different there’s a chance things could change for the better. With Richt, we know exactly what we’ll get — around 10 wins, but none of the ones that really matter.
Comon ¢
October 24th, 2012
1:19 pm
swiss~ True. I’ll give you that, but my fear is going down from 10 wins and going to 3 or 4. That would royally suck!
Single and Happy
October 24th, 2012
1:21 pm
swiss~ I like Mark Richt! I don’t think he is doing a bad job of coaching. I do think that he needs better backup, but overall, he is doin a decent job.
Now that’s the difference between the dogs and the tide, if you’re not winning national championships you got to go! Decent is not good enough! Yea I had to weigh in here.
i'm swiss
October 24th, 2012
1:22 pm
Comon — Even with Ray Goff — who was, quite possibly, the most unqualified hire ever made by a major CFB program — we managed at least 5 or 6 wins.
Will the Real Black Mamba Please Stand Up
October 24th, 2012
1:24 pm
DISCO…yes, she would always blame her little boy. I was like…”nah heffa, that’s all you. Your son is just copying what he sees.” I went to use her bathroom one time (hovering of course) and her friggin’ panties were on the floor. So of course I called her out on it. This chick actually told me she was rushing that morning and didn’t have time! WTF??? It takes 2 seconds to pick them up and put them on the hamper. I called her a dirty trick. I know….I’m filterless!
KIMMIE…sounds like your friend met her match!
SINGLE…I do believe the expectations are too high sometimes. It’s strange…when I first met my current guy, we clicked, but because I LOVE tall men, it was holding me back. So after kicking my own @$$…I realized that I need to let the height thing go. He was handsome, intelligent and was a gentleman who treated me nice. Needless to say…so far, I am glad that I made that decision. “Physicality is a technicality!” (Don’t ya’ll go stealin’ my ish either)
COMON…yeah I read about that shooting this morning. WTH man? People have gone straight ca-ra-zy! Insanity never goes out of style. Hence the reaosn I am back in college for Forensic Psychology. I can get paid off these fools!
i'm swiss
October 24th, 2012
1:24 pm
S/H — I hate to agree with a Bammer, but I totally agree with you. And it’s not just the fact that we lose the games that matter — it’s the way we lose them. We get pushed around. Cocky doesn’t have better athletes that we do. But they sure as hell have a tougher team than we do. And that’s unacceptable.
Comon ¢
October 24th, 2012
1:28 pm
Mamba~ THey said he was an employee of the church up until August. Dude prolly got fired and snapped. At least that’s what it sounds like. But he only shot one person (and 6 times to boot!) I hope I know whoever picks up his case!
Single and Happy
October 24th, 2012
1:30 pm
Mamba,
way to look out for the vertically challenged men 
Swiss, comon, come on over to the dark side (LOL) Mark Richt is like where he came from, FL State, always had a good team, but could never win it all.
Single and Happy
October 24th, 2012
1:32 pm
Comon, 6 times, he really wanted him dead
Comon ¢
October 24th, 2012
1:34 pm
swiss~ If we could lock down Delando Crooks or Kelsey Griffin, I would feel more inspired…
Comon ¢
October 24th, 2012
1:34 pm
S/H~ They say never say never, but I can gleefully say that will never happen.
i'm swiss
October 24th, 2012
1:35 pm
S/H — I would never, ever, even if my life depended on it, cheer for Bammer. But I would trade coaches with you in a heartbeat.
i'm swiss
October 24th, 2012
1:37 pm
Comon — Doesn’t matter how many 4 or 5-star recruits we bring in. They’ll still be soft until they’re coached to be otherwise.
SlimNu
October 24th, 2012
1:39 pm
flummoxed
Leggs – Wow, I won’t be playing Words with Friends with you ever
Comon ¢
October 24th, 2012
1:41 pm
SlimNu~ Are you on WWF? If so, I am grammarnazi404. Would love to play! I’m always looking for new games!
Willie Dynamite
October 24th, 2012
1:42 pm
Comon- sorry if I missed it but did yall or hubby attend the party?
Will the Real Black Mamba Please Stand Up
October 24th, 2012
1:43 pm
SWISS..,my love of tall men will never go away. But I see that good things sometimes come in smaller packages! And not what you’re thinking either!
COMON…that was straight up focused and premeditated….6 times??? He had to make sure he did not miss or give him a chance of survival. If I was in charge of firing someone..I’d be worried of this kind of retaliation, and be looking over my shoulder. In this economy to lose a job can take a toll on you. It’s not before when you could just go get another one next week.
Leggs
October 24th, 2012
1:43 pm
disco ~ that is the worst, to know your house is dirty then ask relative’s children to clean it when they come for a visit…that is low down.
“If a chick’s car and/or house is nasty, what must her puddy be like? ” = No correlation, but made me think of a male coworker who used to say, “a butt that big has to be dirty cuz no way she can get into all those crevices!” That’s where my mind went….
SlimNu
October 24th, 2012
1:43 pm
CC – Ok, okay…no roll call lol
I can shoot people with my mind
i'm swiss
October 24th, 2012
1:44 pm
Mamba — I think you’re confusing me with S/H.
i'm swiss
October 24th, 2012
1:46 pm
“If a chick’s car and/or house is nasty, what must her puddy be like? ” = No correlation
Leggs — Have you conducted a survey?
Comon ¢
October 24th, 2012
1:47 pm
WD~ We did not attend the party.
Furthermore, the hubs has (by way of giving me the blame, lol) made ol girl stop calling him. He told her that his wife was really jealous and didn’t like her calling so she needed to only call him if it was work related. 
I’m like “Why you gotta blame me?!?” 
Comon ¢
October 24th, 2012
1:49 pm
Mamba ~ You know? If I was in charge of firing someone, I would need some bulletproof glass or something in my office!
Will the Real Black Mamba Please Stand Up
October 24th, 2012
1:50 pm
SWISS…oops…indeed I did! My bad!
Leggs
October 24th, 2012
1:52 pm
That’s funny, SlimNu.
swiss ~ naw man, I think a man would enjoy that role a helluva lot better than I would. He may come across some good survey samples, and then again, he may come across some that need to be soaked in Vagistat-1 (I just googled this name to add credance to my post) since I’ve never had a problem (lol).
Willie Dynamite
October 24th, 2012
1:55 pm
Comon- woman up and accept the blame lol
Comon ¢
October 24th, 2012
1:58 pm
WD~ I did, I did..
Comon ¢
October 24th, 2012
1:59 pm
Leggs~ I was going to ask what Vagistat-1 was.
I thought it was a name you made up!
SlimNu
October 24th, 2012
2:01 pm
CC – Yes i’m KK Slim
I haven’t got that good yet but I try
SlimNu
October 24th, 2012
2:09 pm
When I was at GSU, I had two other roommies…one is now a bestie of mine. The other one was nasty. Her bathroom was the guest bathroom and she used to hang her period drapes…oops I meant panties on the shower rod in there. Her bedroom was always junky too and we constantly had to get on her about washing dishes. One time we went in her room and she had a pair of undies with a used sanitary napkin still in them on the floor. Where dey do dat at?
Single and Happy
October 24th, 2012
2:13 pm
Mamba, since I’m vertically challenged I know good things come in small packages (and not what you’re thinking either) (LOL)
Comon Swiss, stay with the losers, it’s okay
Swiss naw you keep yours we’ll keep ours
Sassy Me...PYT ;-)
October 24th, 2012
2:17 pm
He told her that his wife was really jealous and didn’t like her calling so she needed to only call him if it was work related. I’m like “Why you gotta blame me?!?”
Dang Comon your hubby did throw you under the bus but at least he still honored your wishes…I know, I know…
i'm swiss
October 24th, 2012
2:17 pm
S/H — We will. And you can stay with the tree assassins and same-sex sexual assaulters…
Sassy Me...PYT ;-)
October 24th, 2012
2:19 pm
since I’m vertically challenged I know good things come in small packages
They sure do…I’m 5′3″ so I know of what I speak
Single and Happy
October 24th, 2012
2:20 pm
Same sex assaulters?? and yea he did kill those trees, they’ll probably be dead in another 50 years:shock:
disco
October 24th, 2012
2:21 pm
slim – your post reminds of why I’m glad I’ve never had a roommate. I’ve lived with my parents/grandparents, siblings and my son. that’s it. roommate situations just seem so risky. a great financial benefit if they work. not worth the money if they don’t.
Single and Happy
October 24th, 2012
2:21 pm
yea sassy, but you like em tall
i'm swiss
October 24th, 2012
2:25 pm
S/H — Roll tide, right?
Comon ¢
October 24th, 2012
2:26 pm
Slim~ I just started a game with you.
Sassy~ Yes. Yes, he did. But I got the result I wanted so I don’t care.
Sassy Me...PYT ;-)
October 24th, 2012
2:26 pm
Yes I do, but I don’t discriminate. I’ve dated men around my height and had no issue with it.
Willie Dynamite
October 24th, 2012
2:26 pm
5′3″
Sassy Me...PYT ;-)
October 24th, 2012
2:27 pm
Comon- You’re right…the end result was exactly what you wanted so it’s a win/win.
Single and Happy
October 24th, 2012
2:28 pm
Swiss, oh that, well the good thing, is these are fans not players, IJS (LOL)
Sassy Me...PYT ;-)
October 24th, 2012
2:28 pm
Yep…I mmight be about 5′6″ in my stilettos
disco
October 24th, 2012
2:30 pm
sassy – you dated a 5’3” man? for real? I thought I did good with a little 5’8” fellow once. lol. of course a muscular 5’8” can get further than a scrawny 6 footer since I’m totally against the little frail, bird chested, toothpick legged men.
Single and Happy
October 24th, 2012
2:30 pm
Comon, he didn’t through you under the bus, he was telling the truth
Comon ¢
October 24th, 2012
2:30 pm
I’ve never had a roomate; just husbands. The first and the current are OCD neat freaks, but the 2nd? Good lawd! He wasn’t nasty, just junky. He kept EVERYTHING! (junk mail, flyers, etc…) Then he would get mad when I threw it away! My brother’s college GF lived with a chick they called Broom Hilda. Chick would eat chicken wings and then throw the bones under her bed.
Single and Happy
October 24th, 2012
2:31 pm
Disco, don’t go there (LOL)
Willie Dynamite
October 24th, 2012
2:32 pm
This is where I say no comment hahaha
SlimNu
October 24th, 2012
2:32 pm
CC – I didn’t see a game come through so I just started one to you. Hopefully it’s you lol
Comon ¢
October 24th, 2012
2:32 pm
S/H~ The truth is relative here because he left out the part that HE wanted her to stop calling/texting too. He put it all on me. But, so be it. As long as she stops trying to get at my husband, I don’t care. Funny though, you know what her response to him was? “Why would you want to be with a woman that doesn’t trust you like that?” I wanted to call her and be like “You beyotch! It’s not him I don’t trust. It’s you!”
Single and Happy
October 24th, 2012
2:34 pm
Comon I didn’t say the whole truth, just the truth. (LOL)
i'm swiss
October 24th, 2012
2:34 pm
S/H — True. If it had been players, Saban would have made sure it got quickly swept under the rug.
Comon ¢
October 24th, 2012
2:34 pm
Slim~ I think I just started a game with some random.
I put kkslim as all one word. 
I guess it’s time to withdraw from that game…
SlimNu
October 24th, 2012
2:35 pm
CC – The beau has a thing for almost empty lotion bottles. He keeps them under the cabinent in the bathroom. And I really started to throw them all away while he was in Miami but I left them there. I’m like, why are you holding on to these. He claims one day he’ll empty them all into one bottle. YEAH RIGHT. I said, the lotion that’s left in those bottles are probably dried up by now
But let him tell it, I just like throwing HIS stuff away
disco
October 24th, 2012
2:35 pm
S/H – don’t go where? talking about folks with little skinny pick up stick toothpick legs. a sister can’t like a big legged man? lol.
Comon ¢
October 24th, 2012
2:35 pm
swiss~
, right?!? I’m not even sure that would have gotten a blip on SportsCenter…
Comon ¢
October 24th, 2012
2:36 pm
Slim~ I think that is the defense of all men.
Sassy Me...PYT ;-)
October 24th, 2012
2:38 pm
you dated a 5’3” man? for real?
No I haven’t…I said “arouund” my height…meaning 5′6-7″. That’s close enough for me
However, as I’ve said, I don’t discriminate.
Single and Happy
October 24th, 2012
2:39 pm
Disco, calling 5′*8″ short
Swiss Comon, whatever, if means nothing, have to go by the facts!! Mark liked the thug squad when he was at FSU, and he recruits the same at UGA.
Sassy Me...PYT ;-)
October 24th, 2012
2:41 pm
of course a muscular 5’8” can get further than a scrawny 6 footer since I’m totally against the little frail, bird chested, toothpick legged men.
I know right…I like meat on my bone…
is is where I say no comment .
As expected…at least you’re consistent
disco
October 24th, 2012
2:45 pm
S/H – re calling 5’8” short. I know. I’m wrong. I can’t help it though. if I had a quarter for every time I called someone a “little midget bastid”. lol. it’s my catchphrase. I say it all the time. my brother will ask if I talked to my other brother and I’ll say ‘haven’t heard from that LMB”
Willie Dynamite
October 24th, 2012
2:45 pm
When it concerns you, yep lol
Leggs
October 24th, 2012
2:46 pm
Comon/disco ~ I’ve had one roommate for 3 months when I first arrived here staying at the then Howell House. We threw a party and in our NY state of minds, took the wicker furniture from the lobby to help with the seating at our house party. Someone called the police, we got evicted and I’ve lived alone since. Then marriage, now back to living alone…gotta love the circle of life.
SlimNu
October 24th, 2012
2:47 pm
Chick would eat chicken wings and then throw the bones under her bed Oh heyal nawwwww
Single and Happy
October 24th, 2012
2:48 pm
Disco, and how tall are you ??
Single and Happy
October 24th, 2012
2:50 pm
Leggs, yall done stole the folks furniture (LMAO)
disco
October 24th, 2012
2:51 pm
S/H – I’m only a whopping 5’3” tall. of course though, the double standard here is in my favor. short on a woman is a much better look than short on a man. sort of like rolls of fat on babies is cute, but rolls of fat on grown folks isn’t so cute.
leggs – not the wicker furniture. that used to be the lick. wonder if it will ever make a comeback.
SlimNu
October 24th, 2012
2:53 pm
talking about folks with little skinny pick up stick toothpick legs
I need some more trouser socks because the ones I wore today are more like trouser ankle socks. They keep sliding down my baby calf muscles down into my shoes.
SlimNu
October 24th, 2012
2:56 pm
Leggs – Your last post has me cracking up…I remember when wicker furniture used to be the shizzle…but yall “borrowed’ if for a party FUNNY
My mom used to have one of those wicker bowl chairs where the bowl seat sat on top of the base but you could take it off. We’d take it off the base and spin each other around in it.
Sassy Me...PYT ;-)
October 24th, 2012
2:56 pm
I get it and I totally understand..really I do. Trust mi p’on dat seen?!
“little midget bastid”.
Hell I’m short and I think that’s funny…I’m going to have to borrow that one…
Sassy Me...PYT ;-)
October 24th, 2012
2:57 pm
Okay, I’ve got to do at least 2 or 3 miles on the treadmill…read you guys in an hour…
disco
October 24th, 2012
2:58 pm
slim – my son and I both have big legs. just the other night we were just talking, popping off at the mouth, and got to laughing at one of my cousins (she’s 5’8” and wears a size 0). anyway we laugh because she wears her little riding boots but her leg is just wobbling out of the top of the boot. it’s too funny to see.
Single and Happy
October 24th, 2012
2:58 pm
disco, sassy more on that later (LOL) time to go home.
Leggs
October 24th, 2012
2:59 pm
Single ~ that furniture was the joint. I remember what was playing at The Fox Theatre that night “You’re Arms to Short To Box With God!” Someone told the police officers I was over there watching the play when I was hiding out in someone’s room
disco ~ used to work with a girl who always used the word “lick” like you do.
SlimNu ~ I’ve always wanted to wear knee length boots growing up, but couldn’t because my legs looked like a skinny wisp of skin and bones. So glad I can now keep a pair of boots up (lol).
disco
October 24th, 2012
3:04 pm
leggs – yeah, lick is another one I use a lot. I just bought a ken cole leather blazer at the thrift store last week. leaving the thrift store I was on the phone telling someone I had just “hit a lick”. lol.
SlimNu
October 24th, 2012
3:05 pm
Yeah, I’d be the only chick walking around with the tops of my boots being held up by a garter belt. :lo:
Comon ¢
October 24th, 2012
3:17 pm
Y’all are tripping!
Off Topic~ Did anyone read Donald Trump’s “big, election altering announcement”?
disco
October 24th, 2012
3:20 pm
tripping? naw. just engaging in miscreant-ism.
SlimNu
October 24th, 2012
3:22 pm
Something about having Obama’s divorce papers or something??? Only heard a tidbit of that. What’s the deal
Rich
October 24th, 2012
3:29 pm
I am 35 thanks for asking, and it is an early Friday for me, going camping near Red Top Mountain for the weekend with a social group from church. I have to disagree Mrs. Sexyfool, I have had plenty of experience from relationships, you don’t have to have sex to be an expert or to have a good knowledge of relationships, and sex is a want not a need. I think the Mrs. Sexy is just jealous.
SlimNu
October 24th, 2012
3:29 pm
Oh wait, so he is challenging Obama to show his student records to prove he enrolled as a foreign student and is putting up 5 mil to his charity of choice? Did I get that right..
Comon ¢
October 24th, 2012
3:41 pm
Oh wait, so he is challenging Obama to show his student records to prove he enrolled as a foreign student and is putting up 5 mil to his charity of choice? Did I get that right..
Sorry. I got sidetracked for a second. Yes, you got it right. He wants the Pres to release his birth certificate (the long form) his college transcripts and his passport applications and in return he will donate $5 million to the charity of Obama’s choice.
Really? Why do we even give this assclown airtime?!?
Comon ¢
October 24th, 2012
3:42 pm
Wow, Rich… Them’s fighting words. You might want to move away from your monitor for when MrsSC blows you away… IJS.
Jake-SPJTWB
October 24th, 2012
3:42 pm
hey Blog Nazi-Slim
Swiss-Worst part of being a Dawg fan, others let reality get in front of fanaticism…..Dawgs gonna win this one, win out, see Bama in the Dome-then??????? (sorry Willie, see Swiss, its that it easy…to say)
i'm swiss
October 24th, 2012
3:43 pm
I want Trump to release whatever poor woodland creature he’s had mounted to his head.
Bluzgirl
October 24th, 2012
3:44 pm
Donald Trump is coo coo for cocoa puffs!
disco
October 24th, 2012
3:46 pm
swiss – now amen to that. goodness knows everyone who says money makes a man look better is a daggone lie.
Comon ¢
October 24th, 2012
3:47 pm
swiss~ Even if he released that thing, it wouldn’t go nowhere. It’s bee in capitivity too long.
i'm swiss
October 24th, 2012
3:48 pm
Comon — You’re right — it’s probably got Stockholm Syndrome by now…
Mrs. SexyCool
October 24th, 2012
3:51 pm
Name calling?!? Really, dude?!? Further signs of immaturity. It ain’t that deep.
disco
October 24th, 2012
3:51 pm
CC/swiss – they could use it for arts and craft, tie a stick to it and use it as a swiffer duster, he can wax his car with it, something. where there’s a will there’s a way.
Mrs. SexyCool
October 24th, 2012
3:52 pm
Also, I will disagree with you. If you have no sexual experience, you have no personal knowledge of how sexual experience can alter the relationship between two individuals. You cannot possibly be an expert at something in which you have no experience.
Mrs. SexyCool
October 24th, 2012
3:55 pm
Naw, Comon, I’m good. Skills that I have had to consistently rely on in my new position are emotional intelligence and emotional maturity. To get into a keyboard scuffle with a complete unknown would not be a good use of those skills.
SlimNu
October 24th, 2012
3:55 pm
Jake – I throw my 2lbs of weight around and I get deemed the BlogNazi…me no likey likey. Can’t we just chuck it up to me having a BF b!tch fit?
disco
October 24th, 2012
4:00 pm
slim – should I escort jake to the showers? bad joke?
Jake-SPJTWB
October 24th, 2012
4:00 pm
Sexy- “Also, I will disagree with you. If you have no sexual experience, you have no personal knowledge of how sexual experience can alter the relationship between two individuals. You cannot possibly be an expert at something in which you have no experience.”
That was worth repeating…..
Not knocking the 40 year old virgin, but once you have begun to have sex regularly, its a need, not just a want my friend…..
Rich-you are suffering from what we call “Desert D!ck”, nothing wet around you, just dust and dirt……i kid, i kid
Mrs. SexyCool
October 24th, 2012
4:02 pm
Tell him again, Sweet Peeta Jeeta.
Jake-SPJTWB
October 24th, 2012
4:03 pm
Disco…you stoopid, that was funny!
Comon ¢
October 24th, 2012
4:04 pm
Jake~ You may kid, but there is some truth behind every joke. What was the movie when Jamie Foxx was the superhero and when he got some he had to throw ol girl on the floor because he shot a hole through the ceiling? That’s about to be your boy Rich…
Jake-SPJTWB
October 24th, 2012
4:06 pm
Slim-Anybody got the winning numbers to that lottery yet, I hope not….you from the Gump right, I know you can cuss!!
Enigma
October 24th, 2012
4:06 pm
“I have to disagree Mrs. Sexyfool,”\
That made me laugh
Sorry Mrs. SexyCool
disco
October 24th, 2012
4:09 pm
jake – I thought it was funny too but then I thought is holocaust humor ever funny? I’m actually a holocaust buff. love the movies and biographies and try to get to the museum as often as I can.
Mrs. SexyCool
October 24th, 2012
4:10 pm
Yeah…no…I didn’t laugh.
SlimNu
October 24th, 2012
4:11 pm
disco – I’m afraid Jake might like it if you escort him to the showers. lol
Jake-SPJTWB
October 24th, 2012
4:12 pm
Sexy-It was a lil funny…
SlimNu
October 24th, 2012
4:13 pm
Jake – I’m not from the Gump but my folks are living there right now. I’m from Skeegee
But yeah I’ll throw some choice words out there if I get that upset. I told a customer today a hunned times that two of the printers were not working. He tries to throw a hissy fit and I was like well, It’s not like I can pull the papers outta my ass 
Great customer service right 
Enigma
October 24th, 2012
4:13 pm
I’m still laughing.
Mrs. Sexy Cool looking like
Mrs. SexyCool
October 24th, 2012
4:15 pm
Thank you for making it harder to ignore and refuse to respond to the offense.
Enigma
October 24th, 2012
4:16 pm
Lighten up
Mrs. SexyCool
October 24th, 2012
4:17 pm
I am pretty certain that I said in my initial response that it was not that deep. I just responded that I didn’t and don’t find it funny.
That is all.
Officially done with it.
Enigma
October 24th, 2012
4:18 pm
are you really now?
Sassy Me...PYT ;-)
October 24th, 2012
4:19 pm
I did it!!
Now I’m ready to go…
disco
October 24th, 2012
4:19 pm
I was just looking at you all’s emoticons and thinking how I’m not a fan of folks who have perfectly round heads. anyone know what I’m talking about? just the big pancake headed folks. I guess women can pull it off but a round head just makes a man look kind of soft. okay. I’m done talking crazy. lol.
Mrs. SexyCool
October 24th, 2012
4:19 pm
Leggs – next time you talk to ARed, tell her I said hello.
Leggs
October 24th, 2012
4:23 pm
Mrs. SC ~ I sure will.
Leggs
October 24th, 2012
4:24 pm
You mean the perfectly round head that makes you think of Charlie Brown??
disco
October 24th, 2012
4:25 pm
leggs – yep. that’s it. lol. and to think they always called him blockhead.
Mrs. SexyCool
October 24th, 2012
4:25 pm
I always get the feeling that those folks are LD.
Enigma
October 24th, 2012
4:26 pm
speaking of heads
how are guys going to have a hair line that looks almost like thin bangs and be bald all over the rest of the head
Leggs
October 24th, 2012
4:28 pm
Well if round heads bother you, let me confess, heads shaped like light bulbs make me pause…literally!
Enigma
October 24th, 2012
4:29 pm
aLOL!!!
Comon ¢
October 24th, 2012
4:30 pm
Slim~ You just made me think of that Dave Chappelle “kinkos” skit and I am over here chuckling to myself in my office. I know the folks I work with think I am crazy the past few weeks…
disco
October 24th, 2012
4:30 pm
enigma – now that got a giggle out of me. some men have separation anxiety when it comes to their hair. come to think of it, a lot of women do too. one of my cousins was walking around looking straight crazy with some jacked up broke off uneven hair. she didn’t have a fingernail full but didn’t want to cut it. I took her right to the barbershop and got her a boy cut. oh – and it may sound like a joke but I knew a girl back in high school whose hair was so short she needed weave to wear fingerwaves. no lie. true story.
Leggs
October 24th, 2012
4:32 pm
” the past few weeks”…why so modest?
Single and Happy (LG Life is good)
October 24th, 2012
4:33 pm
Jake, the only dogs Bama is worried about go to Miss State
Slim you from skeegee how long is you stayed there, I’m from Opelika
Single and Happy (LG Life is good)
October 24th, 2012
4:34 pm
how long is you stayed there WTF I mean how long has it been since you lived there (LOL)
Comon ¢
October 24th, 2012
4:34 pm
jake – I thought it was funny too but then I thought is holocaust humor ever funny?
disco~ Yes. Holocaust humor can be very funny… IJS remember the “Survivor” episode of Curb Your Enthusiasm?
Leggs
October 24th, 2012
4:36 pm
Single ~ are you pumping yourself up?
Comon ¢
October 24th, 2012
4:37 pm
the past few weeks”…why so modest?
So, maybe I should say they’re just looking at me like I’m crazy now?
Single and Happy (LG Life is good)
October 24th, 2012
4:38 pm
Pumping myself up???
Leggs
October 24th, 2012
4:38 pm
WAIT, didn’t mean it like that. Meant are you hyping yourself up with your different add on’s to your moniker. Nevamind. I got off on the wrong foot and now must hobble back to my corner.
DreamsMaterialize
October 24th, 2012
4:38 pm
Hey everyone. How’s it going? Does anyone have a way to speed up time? I’m ready for the weekend.
Jake-SPJTWB
October 24th, 2012
4:39 pm
Disco–where I’m from we call those, “Keg-Heads”.
Yep Slim, probably would have to show her what the TWB stands for, I actually got a thing for a little Shower Fun, but do not have the water to warm….
warm water+warm puddy+too much steam=somebody lightheaded and wobbly in here
Slim-Mail Call
Leggs
October 24th, 2012
4:39 pm
Tiny humor that went awry in my own mind, Single. I know you’re happy and fulfilled.
Sassy Me...PYT ;-)
October 24th, 2012
4:40 pm
heads shaped like light bulbs make me pause…
Single and Happy (LG Life is good)
October 24th, 2012
4:41 pm
Leggs, no I’m home now, on a different computer.
Single and Happy (LG Life is good)
October 24th, 2012
4:41 pm
Leggs you know I have different computer for different monikers (LMAO)
Sassy Me...PYT ;-)
October 24th, 2012
4:43 pm
warm water+warm puddy+too much steam=somebody lightheaded and wobbly in here
Just don’t fall…
Leggs
October 24th, 2012
4:43 pm
Sassy ~ look at the men around you. Eventually, you will see a man’s head shaped like a light bulb and will go “a ha, I now see what Leggs’ is talking about.”
Single ~ I forgot that tidbit, sir.
Single and Happy (LG Life is good)
October 24th, 2012
4:44 pm
Comon have you seen some of the pictures from the Holocaust? I was looking at something about the US soldiers that were in prison with the victims and some of the things they endured, I could never find anything funny no matter how they spin it.
Comon ¢
October 24th, 2012
4:45 pm
Leggs~ I know exactly what you’re talking about with the lightbulb shaped heads. And on that note, not everyone needs a bald head. Some heads just need hair. I am tired of seeing brothers that look like half-sucked milk duds. Not a good look…
Leggs
October 24th, 2012
4:46 pm
Much better, Comon!
Mrs. SexyCool
October 24th, 2012
4:46 pm
I have two lightbulb dudes that work in my department. They are both around 6′3, 6′4…
Jake-SPJTWB
October 24th, 2012
4:47 pm
Slim-nevermind, that email came back like a leg in Yoga class
I know a few cats from Skeegee here in the A-town, sure you know them, in our age window.
Comon ¢
October 24th, 2012
4:47 pm
S/H~ Not only have I seen the pics, I have visited several of the concentration camps (or what’s left of some of them like Bergen Belsen) and I find humor in just about everything. **kanye shrug** to each his own.
Leggs
October 24th, 2012
4:47 pm
What about the bald headed guys who have a gaggle of bumps at the nape of their baldheadedness. Not a good look.
Single and Happy (LG Life is good)
October 24th, 2012
4:48 pm
hey head is a sensitive issue
disco
October 24th, 2012
4:48 pm
leggs – when my son was younger folks used to call him lightbulb head. not for the shape but his color. also called him a little yellow skittle and one of my aunts called him banana popsicle.
Single and Happy (LG Life is good)
October 24th, 2012
4:49 pm
heads I mean (LOL)
Leggs
October 24th, 2012
4:49 pm
Comon ~ friends don’t understand this about me, but I find humor in falling and tripping. Not nice, but it’s the truth.
Single and Happy (LG Life is good)
October 24th, 2012
4:50 pm
okay what is a kanye shrug, I’m so out of touch
disco
October 24th, 2012
4:50 pm
CC – I understand where you are coming from. I have a friend who refuses to watch movies like roots or schindler’s list because she says they are too oppressive. they are. I get it. but if you look for the humor, you can find it. based on a lot of memoirs I’ve read, humor helped get the survivors through.
Leggs
October 24th, 2012
4:51 pm
“a little yellow skittle” – I had to put my hand over my mouth and laugh.
Leggs
October 24th, 2012
4:51 pm
I thought it meant “I don’t give a damn” shrug.
Comon ¢
October 24th, 2012
4:53 pm
disco~
They think it’s ok to laugh too:
http://www.myjewishlearning.com/blog/culture/holocaust-humor-its-okay-to-laugh/
Many survivors used humor to get through such a terrible event.
Comon ¢
October 24th, 2012
4:54 pm
Leggs/S & H~ Here you go:
http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=kanye%20shrug
Sassy Me...PYT ;-)
October 24th, 2012
4:54 pm
not everyone needs a bald head. Some heads just need hair. I am tired of seeing brothers that look like half-sucked milk duds.
Cosign..some men actually look better bald but you have some brothers that ummm…can’t quite pull off that particular look…
Eventually, you will see a man’s head shaped like a light bulb
And me being the sensitive person I am, would just burst out laughing as soon as I do…
Mrs. SexyCool
October 24th, 2012
4:54 pm
After KanYeezy so famously interrupted TSwift at that awards show, after he finished his statement about Beyonce having the “greatest video of all times”, he gave this little shrug.
Since then, the KanyeShrug has been a thing.
Single and Happy (LG Life is good)
October 24th, 2012
4:56 pm
Disco I can only watch those once, and no white person better not say something cross to me for a few weeks after. I’m sure there was some humor in alot of things, but it’s hard to imagine and from all the stories about the holocaust, Just haven’t heard anything but pain and suffering from the survivors. And I guess what really bothers me is that if some people had their way it still would be going on now.
Mrs. SexyCool
October 24th, 2012
4:56 pm
http://www.xlurbanmedia.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/kanye-shrug.jpg
Comon ¢
October 24th, 2012
4:56 pm
:dno:
Sassy Me...PYT ;-)
October 24th, 2012
4:57 pm
Time to gooo
Read y’all tomorrow!!
Leggs
October 24th, 2012
4:58 pm
Got it. So, I could have better communicated with lil leggs and used *kanye shrug* instead of saying “End of Discussion?”
DreamsMaterialize
October 24th, 2012
4:59 pm
humor helped get the survivors through.
disco I actually saw an independent film about just that thing. It was about persecuted Jews in Italy. The Nazi’s took a guy and his daughter from their home to a concentration camp. The father convinced his daughter that it was some elaborate joke or game in order to shield her from the realities of the atrocities. I can’t remember the name of that movie.
Comon ¢
October 24th, 2012
4:59 pm
S/H~ Go to youtube and watch the Survivor episode of CYE. I defy you not to laugh. It’s hilarious. IJS
Comon ¢
October 24th, 2012
5:01 pm
Leggs~ You got it! Lil Leggs would have understood that completely!
Single and Happy (LG Life is good)
October 24th, 2012
5:01 pm
I guess that’s why I don’t know, never watch award shows, or celebrities in the news.
i'm swiss
October 24th, 2012
5:01 pm
Leggs — That, or just carry around a mic with you at all times & drop it & walk off after making a point.
Leggs
October 24th, 2012
5:02 pm
How do you explain the beatings, the starvation as part of the game..just curious?
Leggs
October 24th, 2012
5:03 pm
Knowledge is power!
disco
October 24th, 2012
5:03 pm
dreams – that sounds like “life is beautiful”. in the movie version it was a father and his son. the little boy thought he was playing army and hide and seek.
Leggs
October 24th, 2012
5:04 pm
That, or just carry around a mic with you at all times & drop it & walk off after making a point. – All the while doing the George Jefferson walk/dance!
Comon ¢
October 24th, 2012
5:05 pm
Good Night. y’all! Read ya tomorrow!
Mrs. SexyCool
October 24th, 2012
5:06 pm
I was going to comment on the Holocaust humor of it all and then, decided to use a lesson that was just reinforced for me today – everything ain’t funny to everybody.
i'm swiss
October 24th, 2012
5:07 pm
“WEEEEEZAAAAY!!!!!!!”
RIP Sherman Helmsley.
Single and Happy (LG Life is good)
October 24th, 2012
5:10 pm
Okay, watched it, but I probably wasn’t amused because never found that show funny anyway (LOL)
Enigma
October 24th, 2012
5:53 pm
ol @ disco. Yep broken off hair equal fashion no no