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Are you anti-PDA?

Have you ever been out in public and noticed a really obnoxious couple who are taking “public displays of affection” too far? A lot of people don’t mind seeing a couple happy and in love. It’s the couples who are in lust, that annoy everyone!

Most days, when I am not all “down will love” I can appreciate seeing two people happy to be with one another. I just think there is a certain line you shouldn’t cross. At some point, you really should go get a room.

Oddly enough, I don’t require a lot of PDA from men I date but I don’t like it when they are completely anti-PDA. Why would you not want to publicly show me affection? Are you afraid of being secretly filmed by the show Cheaters? Then I get all paranoid and start acting irrationally with over the top PDA to prove a point (I know, I have issues).

What is your stance on PDA? Are you for or against it? Have you ever dated someone who was not affectionate enough or was into PDA too much?

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog

439 comments Add your comment

Single and Happier "Life is simple, if you stop making it so complicated!"

October 17th, 2012
6:59 am

“What is your stance on PDA?” Do what makes you happy, just keep it respectful! For me it all depends on the setting as to how much PDA goes on.

Celise.....happy life!!

October 17th, 2012
7:23 am

Do you. Keep it classy!!

Celisea....happy life!!

October 17th, 2012
8:15 am

Happy birthday to my sister, she would have been 50 today!

For tomorrow: 12 years since taking your eternal rest. Sleep on, til we all get there :mrgreen:

I used to be here before

October 17th, 2012
8:17 am

I don’t have a problem with PDA. It’s the couples that play for the same team that I have a trouble with when it comes to PDA

Exiled!

October 17th, 2012
8:30 am

I think (cough..racist here) do PDA too much..

Why does the public need to know u love each other..

Classy but not Splashy….!!!

And yes,the Lesbos do go over the top sometimes,especially there in Atl..
I hate that grovelling,kissing and fuc simulations in public when my kids are around…

….worse when it’s same s e x

:roll: eye roll Puuuleeeze!!

Exiled!

October 17th, 2012
8:34 am

O gave a good pointed punches round.

U can’t let up on the Mormon.

Closing with the 47%,behind closed doors stab.

That was ferocious!

(I saw Mitt’s face scowling as he sat behind on that 47 mention)

Button

October 17th, 2012
8:36 am

I’m all for a little pda. Holding hands, a little peck on the cheek or the lips. Nothing outlandish though like ramming his tongue down my throat or groping me in public though.

Button

October 17th, 2012
8:42 am

Exile you made a good point there. I noticed that too with the other races. I don’t see too many of us showing public affection ever!! Maybe it’s the places I’ve been frequenting but I don’t see that too often unless it’s way over the top affection.

Single and Happier "Life is simple, if you stop making it so complicated!"

October 17th, 2012
8:54 am

the good thing about seeing pda you don’t like, you can always turn your head.

Single and Happier "Life is simple, if you stop making it so complicated!"

October 17th, 2012
8:56 am

Button, you don’t see a lot of people of color doing it because most are to worried about what everyone else thinks of them.

Comon Cents

October 17th, 2012
9:04 am

Good Morning, Bloggies!

PDA? None for me, thanks. But for you? Do you. As far as same sex couples, I think that their need to go over the top with PDA is a direct reflection of the fact that people want to deny them the right to marry and pretend like they don’t exist. Not saying it’s right. Just saying that’s my opinion.

Exiled!

October 17th, 2012
9:09 am

Most are too worried about …..I missed that poll…

Too much PDA and needy and lacking kinda go lock in step….

Holding hands,strolling along happy seems fine. But when u have to hold and turn the head of your partner coz u want a kiss..in public…

GTFOTH :lol:

Single and Happier "Life is simple, if you stop making it so complicated!"

October 17th, 2012
9:13 am

So ex, beyond the kiss when you get married no other public kissing is appropriate.

And yes most do worry about what other will say or think about them!

Single and Happier "Life is simple, if you stop making it so complicated!"

October 17th, 2012
9:17 am

MJ, yes I am, who are you trying to prove anything to, it’s about doing what makes you happy. Not a myth, not and assumption, just what I hear!!

I used to be here before

October 17th, 2012
9:17 am

I am so sick of hearing same sex don’t have rights
They act like we have same sex only water foundations and that they have to sit at the back of the bus.
Shoot, in certain industries- same sex relations is your ticket to the top.

Comon Cents

October 17th, 2012
9:18 am

UTBH~ I didn’t say they don’t have any rights. I said that they don’t have the right to marry. Big Difference.

I used to be here before

October 17th, 2012
9:22 am

CC- I wasn’t referring to your post. I’m just saying in general
I can understand their wanting to marry which is something I do not agree with
I just noticed that same sex couples that are not of color act like they are denied the right to sit where they want to sit- kinda like what happened to people of color in the 60’s.
I feel they have the I’m going to throw it in your face all day attitude if you do not agree with same sex relations.

I’m a Christian and I believe what’s in the bible.

Single and Happier "Life is simple, if you stop making it so complicated!"

October 17th, 2012
9:23 am

MJ, I said, MOST not all!

Celise.....happy life!!

October 17th, 2012
9:24 am

I used to be here before – Pick a name. Wouldn’t want to get us mixed.

I’m out!

Comon Cents

October 17th, 2012
9:28 am

UTBH~ I am a Christian and I believe what is in the Bible as well. People want to be so hard on homosexuals, yet clearly, In Timothy, it is not only a sin to be a homosexual, idolators, fornicators, adulterers, etc fall in that same category. If we were talking about a MORAL right, I would agree with you 100%. But we are not. We are talking about a LEGAL right. And there is no good LEGAL justification for denying gays the right to marry.

Single and Happier "Life is simple, if you stop making it so complicated!"

October 17th, 2012
9:29 am

Comon, now you know we pick our sins!!

Leggs

October 17th, 2012
9:36 am

Nothing wrong with PDA, just keep it respectful. If not, don’t leave the house and continue behind your closed doors.

Morning!

Comon Cents

October 17th, 2012
9:36 am

S/H~ My point exactly.

Comon Cents

October 17th, 2012
9:36 am

Enter your comments here

kimmie

October 17th, 2012
9:36 am

Morning All!!

I dated an anti-PDA and I didn’t like it. He was cold and always acting like he was trying to hide something.

Yes, holding hands, kiss on cheek, light hugs, all nice. I think goodbye PDA at the airport can go a bit further, like a longer kiss or hug.

Anything beyond light PDA is vulgar and disrespectful to others around you, no matter your race, gender, religion, creed, sexual orientation. There is just a right way to behave in public. If you make others around you uncomfortable, it’s too much in a civilized society. We are not animals, and even alot of them look for some privacy when they mate. And yes, there are times when what others think matters. It doesn’t infringe on anyones right to be themselves. But respect is respect. Getting X rated in public is not respectful.

Single and Happier "It is easier done than said, if you just do it!"

October 17th, 2012
9:38 am

Kimmie when are there times that what others think matters?

I used to be here before

October 17th, 2012
9:40 am

“I used to be here before – Pick a name. Wouldn’t want to get us mixed.”

Um what part of my name I used to be here before is difficult for you to get mixed up with?

Comon Cents

October 17th, 2012
9:42 am

I don’t think it is so much a matter of what they think mattering as opposed to a respect issue. No matter what your sexual orientation, there are certain things I don’t want to be forced to discuss with my 3-6 year old simply because you can’t control your baser nature. That’s why we have movie ratings. The same goes for real life. You have certain events that are G, PG, PG-13, R & X. Know which rating your going to and act appropriately.

Celise.....happy life!!

October 17th, 2012
9:44 am

UTBH – The message boo. Someone alluded to similarities yesterday. Wouldn’t want to give folks a reason.

Later

Single and Happier "It is easier done than said, if you just do it!"

October 17th, 2012
9:51 am

Comon I agree on the respect part, and most of the time most 3-6 year old wouldn’t even notice a lot of things if the grown ups around them weren’t making such a fuss about it. Most behaviors are learned at home. If you’re watching television, and something unexpected happens you turn the channel, if you’re out in public and someone decides they want to go a little to far, walk away.

Exiled!

October 17th, 2012
9:52 am

Single…I miss the question

Too much PDA in a public setting is not good. A discerning adult has the discretion to make the call

Thats why,on a different but kinda same issue Atlanta city tickets those with saggy pants.

Public means Public

A grownman has to know what public means

(respect for those around you) really?

Single and Happier "It is easier done than said, if you just do it!"

October 17th, 2012
9:54 am

City of Atlanta ticketing people, that’s a joke right (LOL) That’s a whole nother issue (LOL)

kimmie

October 17th, 2012
9:55 am

Single – What my elders like my grandmother and aunts & uncles think. What my employees and coworkers think matters to a certain point. What my husband thinks. My children, goddaughter, nieces & newphews and any children I have any influence over.

Sure, folks that don’t know me I worry little about what they think.

Like Comon says it’s mostly a matter of respect. I try to carry myself in a way that reflects positively to the world. So yes, at a certain level on certain things to certain individuals, it matters. To blanketly not be concerned about what anyone in the world thinks is immature and naive to me.

Single and Happier "It is easier done than said, if you just do it!"

October 17th, 2012
9:58 am

Gotcha Kimmie, different strokes for different folks. Way to many folks for me to care about. What about what you think about yourself?

I used to be here before

October 17th, 2012
10:05 am

I have no idea what similarities you are talking about
I used to be here before is my name.
Now if you want to get technical about it , I first started logging into this blog when Blanca blogged along side Wize Diva.
I left when Blance left .

kimmie

October 17th, 2012
10:05 am

Single – If I showed my A– in public or allowed a man to disrespect me in public, I would not think too highly of myself.

But I am happy and comfortable with the person I am and the lifestyle I CHOSE to live. Pleasing those I mentioned above that I care for is effortless.

I used to be here before

October 17th, 2012
10:06 am

typo: Blanca

Comon Cents

October 17th, 2012
10:12 am

I remember years ago, I went to the Bounce (back when it was on Bankhead and an experience NEVER to be repeated again!) and there was a young lady (I use the term very loosely) at the club who was on stage shaking her azz in a skirt that was beyond miniscule and there were a whole bunch of guys lined up in front of the stage watching her and touching her. One dude even went as far as to pull her panties aside and put his fingers all up in her business. All I could think to myself was how low her self esteem must be to let some dude disrespect her like that in a public place. It has been more years than I would like to recollect since that happened and I can still remember what ol’ girl looked like. If I passed her on the street, I would know her. (I would probably recognize her vajayjay if I saw it again :shock: ) Just sad.

Into the Light

October 17th, 2012
10:14 am

Morning, all!

Looks like a slow blog morning.

Off topic: Breakfast meetings are AWESOME. Most days I eat a light breakfast, but there’s something about bacon, eggs, grits, etc…that gets your day off on the right foot. :)

Into the Light

October 17th, 2012
10:16 am

Dang, CC. You could be the VaJayJay inspector. FIrst the locker room exam, now this. If the police ever need a hoo ha sketch artist, they should call you! :lol: :lol:

Leggs

October 17th, 2012
10:17 am

That’s a sad story, Comon. I cannot imagine someone letting that occur in a public place. She must have been beyond high. Dang, not that you would know this, but where were her friends. Not many young women travel solo.

kimmie

October 17th, 2012
10:17 am

Comon – That is very sad. What sets such behavior apart from that of animals?

I used to be here before

October 17th, 2012
10:18 am

Eewww! that’s nasty!!!!!

Beyond low self esteem

Leggs

October 17th, 2012
10:18 am

“a hoo ha sketch artist” – oh my!

I used to be here before

October 17th, 2012
10:19 am

Question: what would compel a guy to do that? I mean, wouldn’t he be worried his finger might come off?

Single and Happier "It is easier done than said, if you just do it!"

October 17th, 2012
10:20 am

Kimmie, cool then let those others be happy with the lifestyle they CHOOSE to live. In some cases there are rules against things. I’m not saying I’m for it, but I’m sure not about to stand there and worry about what they’re doing either.

kimmie

October 17th, 2012
10:22 am

I Used – He did it because he could, because he saw he could get away with it. He probably figured he couldn’t catch anything on his finger. I bet he didn’t wash it right away either! :shock:

Into the Light

October 17th, 2012
10:23 am

Okay, still catching up, but this:

Anything beyond light PDA is vulgar and disrespectful to others around you, no matter your race, gender, religion, creed, sexual orientation. There is just a right way to behave in public. If you make others around you uncomfortable, it’s too much in a civilized society. We are not animals, and even alot of them look for some privacy when they mate. And yes, there are times when what others think matters. It doesn’t infringe on anyones right to be themselves. But respect is respect. Getting X rated in public is not respectful

is worth repeating.

Single and Happier "It is easier done than said, if you just do it!"

October 17th, 2012
10:25 am

Used to be, if it would make his finger fall off, she wouldn’t have been up there dancing! (LOL)

I used to be here before

October 17th, 2012
10:26 am

Kimmie; That is why I keep my sanitizer handing. No telling where someone’s hand has been.

Gosh , mental picture of the guy and girl.
I’m scarred for life :???:

I used to be here before

October 17th, 2012
10:28 am

Leggs

October 17th, 2012
10:32 am

Used to be, if it would make his finger fall off, she wouldn’t have been up there dancing! (LOL)

You’re right!

Leggs

October 17th, 2012
10:37 am

O/T: I had a great time at Brio Tuscan restaurant by Perimeter Mall. The food was absolutely delicious and playing Bocce Ball was quite enjoyable. I’d recommend it to anyone. If not wanting to play Bocce Ball, have dinner there!

Comon Cents

October 17th, 2012
10:39 am

ITL~ Maybe I should add vajayjay inspector to my resume? :lol:

I used to be here before

October 17th, 2012
10:40 am

<—-is looking for a job right now because I can't handle the foolishness at my job
Pray for me all

Single and Happier "It is easier done than said, if you just do it!"

October 17th, 2012
10:40 am

Comon, now just how close were you to all this action (things that make you go hmmmm) (LOL)

Comon Cents

October 17th, 2012
10:41 am

I don’t know where her girls were, but ol girl was definitely steady on her feet for someone who was hammered or high. IDK…

UTBH~ If you think you’re scarred from the mental image, imagine how I feel! :shock:

Comon Cents

October 17th, 2012
10:41 am

S/H~ You got me. It was me with my fingers in the vajayjay… :roll:

Into the Light

October 17th, 2012
10:42 am

LOL@CC. I can see you in the interview room now.

Um, ma’am, we’ve had a report of a va-jay-jay, matching your description, reported to be engaged in seat wetting and flip-flopping. I’m going to have to ask you to participate in a line-up.

:lol: :lol: :lol:

Single and Happier "It is easier done than said, if you just do it!"

October 17th, 2012
10:42 am

Button

October 17th, 2012
10:46 am

Sinlge @ 8ish I would guess there are a pleathora of reasons why people of color don’t do pda as often as other races but I do know I enjoy them with my SO.

3~peat @ Into the Light @ 10:23

Willie Dynamite

October 17th, 2012
10:47 am

Morning all,
Confession- I’ve probably had a few sessions of over the top parking lot PDA moments. It’s ok you can judge me. Heyal if I think about my freak-nick and Daytona beach days then I would presume to be downright uncivilized.
Now that I’m grown grown with kids I can’t say that I’ve witnessed any over the top PDA.

Single and Happier "It is easier done than said, if you just do it!"

October 17th, 2012
10:48 am

Button, it is all about what makes you happy.

Comon Cents

October 17th, 2012
10:48 am

ITL~ I would imagine that it is kind of like being a gynocologist… :lol:

Me: Ma’am, can you verify the whereabouts of your vajayjay on October 12, 2012?
Her: Ummm… I believe it was at Kroger and then went to the bar on Main.
Me: Ma’am, we have a report that your vajayjay was behaving inappropriately at said bar. Can you verify what your vajayjay was doing at the bar?
Her: It was just sitting there having a drink… And it only had one! I swear!
Me: Ma’am, I’m going to need you to submit your vajayjay to a polygraph.
Her: Well, maybe it wasn’t exactly sitting there…
Me: Just as I suspected. Book her boys!

:lol: :lol:

kimmie

October 17th, 2012
10:50 am

Leggs – Imma check that place out. Love Italian!

Single – I’m not saying anymore on it, but there are no worries here on what other folks do. Now the kids can do exactly what they want when they grow up & leave the house. Other than that, my level of concern for those I care about and what they think of me, including what I think of mysefl, does not in any way interfere in me being me and doing what I want and being happy. Trust.

Into the Light

October 17th, 2012
10:50 am

LOL@CC. But, um, logistically speaking…..where they gonna put the cuffs??? :eek: :shock: :oops:

Button

October 17th, 2012
10:51 am

Single and Happier "It is easier done than said, if you just do it!"

October 17th, 2012
10:53 am

ITL, the’ll just hook them on one of her piercings :-D

Kimmie I understand :-)

DuShawn

October 17th, 2012
10:56 am

“…….how close were you to all this action,” That reminds me of when a potnah and I were in this filthy strip joint on 79th street years ago. The stage was behind the bar. The chick dancing must have recently given birth. She squeezed her breast and squirted milk all on the stage and bar as part of her routine. She thought it was sexy. We didn’t. I told my dog “Man…..some of that sh&t went in your drink…he was like..”stop playing…..you for real!.”

Button

October 17th, 2012
11:00 am

The chick dancing must have recently given birth. I remember there was a time that women stayed in doors for 2 months after giving birth.

Comon Cents

October 17th, 2012
11:02 am

DuShawn~ Ewww.. Just Eww.

S/H~ You beat me to the punch! I was going to say maybe her Albertina was a hoop and they connected it there…

Into the Light

October 17th, 2012
11:02 am

Sooooo, anybody see any pretty flowers and butterflies or puppies and kittens today?????

Comon Cents

October 17th, 2012
11:05 am

ITL~ Beautiful Fall weather we’re having, right?

Leggs

October 17th, 2012
11:11 am

But, um, logistically speaking…..where they gonna put the cuffs – What’s that piercing called, the Albertina??? Same thing (lol).

Leggs

October 17th, 2012
11:11 am

Nevamind, I now see Single already said the same!!!

Leggs

October 17th, 2012
11:13 am

Ok, now I see Comon has said the same thing. We are all nasty!!! (lol).

Comon Cents

October 17th, 2012
11:15 am

Hey, not nasty, just logical.. :lol:

I used to be here before

October 17th, 2012
11:19 am

“Me: Just as I suspected. Book her boys!”

This had me in stitches :lol:

Into the Light

October 17th, 2012
11:19 am

No….y’all nasty. I, on the other hand, am as pure as the driven snow…… :)

Leggs

October 17th, 2012
11:20 am

Naw, we be nasty (lol).

Into the Light

October 17th, 2012
11:21 am

Okay….guilty as charged…. :oops:

Into the Light

October 17th, 2012
11:22 am

Speaking of dirty minds, where is Swiss?????? :roll:

i'm swiss

October 17th, 2012
11:22 am

” I, on the other hand, am as pure as the driven snow……”

… packed into the gutter. In Cleveland. Toward the end of February.

Oh, did I say that out loud?

(You know I kid because I love, ITL) ;-)

Single and Happier "It is easier done than said, if you just do it!"

October 17th, 2012
11:22 am

ITL, so you’ve had your snow driven (HMMMMM)

Single and Happier "It is easier done than said, if you just do it!"

October 17th, 2012
11:23 am

ITL mentions swiss and he show’s up (hmmmmmm) (rotflmao)

i'm swiss

October 17th, 2012
11:25 am

S/H — Didn’t you know? This whole blog is actually just me doing different characters. I’m like the Jim Henson of blogville. Now, give me a sec to think of a snappy comeback for you to say… :lol:

Comon Cents

October 17th, 2012
11:26 am

swiss is always lurking somewhere. He just waits for the rauchiest most opportune moments to show up…

Single and Happier "It is easier done than said, if you just do it!"

October 17th, 2012
11:27 am

(Lmao)@swiss

Into the Light

October 17th, 2012
11:32 am

Leggs

October 17th, 2012
11:43 am

Did any of you see that tumbleweed blow through here?

i'm swiss

October 17th, 2012
11:50 am

My bad, Leggs, I was just man-scaping. :lol:

Bluzgirl

October 17th, 2012
11:54 am

Morning folks. Just now was able to catch up. Got to work at 10:30 and had to go right into a meeting.

On topic: A little PDA is good…I would hope most people know the limits. I was with a man in the past who was anti-PDA and it drove me crazy. I just wanted him to hold my hand every once in a while. Now, the recent ex was good with PDA…he used to make it known to everyone that we were together, but did not take it overboard. Holding hands, a little kiss hear and there, arms around each other…nothing wrong with that…

Mrs. SexyCool

October 17th, 2012
12:00 pm

I like squeezing my husband’s butt in public….just because I can.
(lol)

Other than that, I’m fairly straight laced when it comes to PDA.

i'm swiss

October 17th, 2012
12:02 pm

Mrs. SexyC — You give him that Kardashian(sp?) / Kanye squeeze, do ya?

Leggs

October 17th, 2012
12:02 pm

OMG, that was a good one, swiss! Man, your wit is unreal!!!

For Real

October 17th, 2012
12:04 pm

What up Blog Fam!!!

A quote from the debate last night:
“Candy is you would shut the fugg up I can tell the American people how much I respect women!”

Hey I’m thinking about opening a strip club and call it Binders. What do you think?

i'm swiss

October 17th, 2012
12:06 pm

Mrs. Swiss like to stealthily try to get The Matterhorn at full mast in public — a subtle brush-by with the booty, a little hand (or foot) rub under the table at a restaurant, a quick (panty-less) flash as I’m helping her in or out of the car… It d@mn near kills me while we’re out — and then I d@mn near kill her when we get behind closed doors… :D :lol:

Into the Light

October 17th, 2012
12:07 pm

@Swiss: Ewwwww on the hairballs. :(

Hey, Bluz. How’s Crimson?

Bluzgirl

October 17th, 2012
12:11 pm

Hey ITL – Crimson’s tumor is too big and involves her genitalia at this point. The vet doesn’t want to attempt to operate because of everything involved. At this point, have to hope and pray that the tumor stops growing (which is possible). If it stops growing, then she could live comfortably for a while. If it keeps growing and starts affecting her movement or if she stops eating, then I have to start thinking about letting her go…

Leggs

October 17th, 2012
12:12 pm

ForReal ~ last night I reversed it and said Candy was being politically correct but fully meant for Mitt to STFU and stop going over his allotted amount of time!

Leggs

October 17th, 2012
12:13 pm

I think Binders would be a nice name for a strip club! You’re bound to pay a high arse bill when you walk through the doors!

Leggs

October 17th, 2012
12:15 pm

Awww, sorry for the bad news, Bluz!

Comon Cents

October 17th, 2012
12:15 pm

Sorry about Crimson, Bluz. I hope everything comes out ok.

Comon Cents

October 17th, 2012
12:16 pm

I want to open a bar and call it the “Drunk Donkey”

Leggs

October 17th, 2012
12:22 pm

Might be a bit misleading, Comon. Some may think it encourages Bestiality. I would take that chance (lol).

Leggs

October 17th, 2012
12:22 pm

I wouldn’t….

Bluzgirl

October 17th, 2012
12:23 pm

Thanks ya’ll. I’m a bit bummed. On a positive note, the vet didn’t charge me anything. I think she felt bad that she can’t remove it…

Sassy Me...PYT ;-)

October 17th, 2012
12:28 pm

Afternoon blog familia :mrgreen:

Not much to add to the topic. I’m for PDA but do keep in mind you’re in public and be respectful to others. Plus there are clever ways to get away with more without being seen or obscene.

Sassy Me...PYT ;-)

October 17th, 2012
12:29 pm

Oh wait…I apologize. Did I interrupt a therapy session?

MsAtl

October 17th, 2012
12:29 pm

Afternoon all!
Leggs- I was at a club earlier this year and the female got up on stage and took off ALL of her clothes and let another female hump her. I am talking ALL! In the club. I was mortified for her. The sad part is that when she was dressed again, she was still alone; no guy even bought her a drink. I hope these are isolated instances.
Used- same here with the hand sanitizer. Can you even imagine how many times we shake hands in a day? I imagine Common has the same issue- especially at the courthouse.

I have no issue with a little pda (hand holding, pecks) but would not want to be subject to a frisk.

Bluzgirl

October 17th, 2012
12:30 pm

Seriously Sassy…read the comments before you chime in…

Leggs

October 17th, 2012
12:37 pm

Are you serious, Ms.Atl! I hope she didn’t expect any man to buy her a drink after that. A slut is a slut is a slut and when you’re slutting and disrespectful like that in public no telling who and where you’ve been. You might as well walk around with “P L A G U E” written across your forehead.

Comon Cents

October 17th, 2012
12:42 pm

MsAtl~ I hate that about court. All that hand shaking! And there are several prosecutors I can think of off the top of my head that I KNOW don’t wash their hands after going to the bathroom. Just ewwww… Don’t even make me think about it!

Leggs~ Not as uncommon as one might hope. The girl at the Bounce stuck out to me, but I have seen this more times than I would like to recollect. Some of them, I just wonder if my eyes are supposed to bleed after seeing them.

MsAtl

October 17th, 2012
12:44 pm

Leggs- I am dead serious. My friend actually apologized for taking me there. It was the first time for either of us & we were all (3 of us) a little shocked. Okay, heck, a lot shocked. Then on my way to the rest room, I felt a female hand on my breast. It was time to kick rocks! Note to self- I am too old for hip hop clubs!
Oh & thanks for using the term correctly. I am tired of correcting folks & letting them know it is BESTiality, not BEASTiality.

Comon Cents

October 17th, 2012
12:46 pm

OK, just got a call from the hubs and I must bogart the topic for a minute. I think I mentioned that the hubs is a chef. Of course, he works in a restaurant. There is this chickee at his job that has been calling and texting him for about 2 months now. Nothing out of the way but I still don’t get the need for contact outside of the job. Anyway, the hubs just called me and wanted to know if I want to go to her birthday party (apparently she invited him) and I told him I would call him back. I just feel some kind of way about chick calling/texting a man she KNOWS is married and trying to hang out with him. Ergo, I don’t really want to go to her party. On the other hand, he could be trying to make a statement to her by bringing me to her party. IDK… What y’all think?

Into the Light

October 17th, 2012
12:46 pm

Bluz, I am so sorry to hear about Crimson. We’ll keep hoping for the best!

Mrs. SexyCool

October 17th, 2012
12:47 pm

I saw an FB post the other day that said, “If you keep dancing for these bands, you will never dance with these bands.”

Top picture was money bound by rubber bands. Bottom picture was wedding bands.

Sassy Me...PYT ;-)

October 17th, 2012
12:48 pm

read the comments before you chime in…

Bluz don’t come for me, hunty. Hell you go back and re-read yourself (from your first post here up to nOw, since you had to go there) and based on that, I asked a legitimate yes or no question. That was a totally benign question as far as I was concerned…

Moving on…

Mrs. SexyCool

October 17th, 2012
12:49 pm

Mrs. SexyCool

October 17th, 2012
12:50 pm

BTW – I *rarely* read comments before I chime in. (lol)
Y’all talk/type too much.

Into the Light

October 17th, 2012
12:51 pm

@CC: Does hubs want to go? I kinda read it like he’s trying to send her a message. Plus, he probably wants to show you off! :)

Sassy Me...PYT ;-)

October 17th, 2012
12:52 pm

I just feel some kind of way about chick calling/texting a man she KNOWS is married and trying to hang out with him. Ergo, I don’t really want to go to her party

I totally understand that…and if you didn’t want to go to her party I think your hubby would understand. On the other hand as you mentioned in the latter portion of your post, he might be trying to make a point to her by bringing you with him to her party.

Still though, the fact that she calls and texts him “outside” of work isn’t cool and she may have ulterior motives. I think you two should discuss this face to face. Either way I hope it works out for the best for all involved.

Comon Cents

October 17th, 2012
12:52 pm

He said that he was down to go if I was. It’s at a spot that we have not been to before, so he kind of wants to check it out.

MsAtl

October 17th, 2012
12:53 pm

Common- Once I arrived to court in Cobb County & held out my hand to OC. He put his arm around my shoulder & clapped me on the back (HARD) 3 or 4 times while yelling out nice to meet you. That is one time, I was hoping for the handshake. I often have the dilemna of how to discreetly apply hand sanitizer after shaking hands with someone who looks less than savory.

MsAtl

October 17th, 2012
12:53 pm

Common- Once I arrived to court in Cobb County & held out my hand to OC. He put his arm around my shoulder & clapped me on the back (HARD) 3 or 4 times while yelling out nice to meet you. That is one time, I was hoping for the handshake. I often have the dilemna of how to discreetly apply hand sanitizer after shaking hands with someone who looks less than savory.

Sassy Me...PYT ;-)

October 17th, 2012
12:54 pm

Heeey Mrs SexyCool! You’s married nah..how’s life treatin you guys and the doggie?

Mrs. SexyCool

October 17th, 2012
12:55 pm

Get cute and go to the party and be cute.

And tell your husband to tell her to stop texting him.

Into the Light

October 17th, 2012
12:55 pm

O/T: Oooh, lawd. Y’all pray for me and Comcast. I know companies outsource, but if you’re going to put your call center in the Phillipines and designate that it service the Atlanta-area, shouldn’t there be a minimum English requirement? Then, the “auto survey” calls me back. I indicate (by pressing one) that I was extrememly disatisfied and then press two to indicate my issue was not resolved. “This ends the survey! Thank you for your feedback.” WTH???? They’re not gonna ask what could we have done better? How could we resolve your issue??? Nothing? SMDH.

_______________here ends the vent_____________________________

Comon Cents

October 17th, 2012
12:56 pm

Still though, the fact that she calls and texts him “outside” of work isn’t cool and she may have ulterior motives.

I think that she definitely has ulterior motives. She is single and apparently just moved here recently from Chicago. Her excuse for texting/calling him is that she doesn’t really know anyone here and she heard he knows his way around the city. (Which is true. He has been in the restaurant/club biz for about 20 years) She keeps inviting him out, but it always seems like it’s a solo invite as opposed to inviting us as a couple (she has not said that, but the tone implies it) I would hate to have to cut a trick. (MsAtl, you gonna come down and defend me? :lol: )

Sassy Me...PYT ;-)

October 17th, 2012
12:57 pm

It’s at a spot that we have not been to before, so he kind of wants to check it out.

Oh well in that case, if you feel comfortable then go. Be polite but feed that chick with a long handled spoon(i.e. keep her at a distance)..

MsAtl

October 17th, 2012
12:57 pm

Sorry, a bit behind. Common- If he is going, better that you go with him. He could be trying to show her that he doesn’t keep secrets from you and that he is fully taken. You don’t have to shut the party down (stay till the end) but at least make a showing. Yes, it is inappropriate for her to keep contacting him out of work, but he has to handle that. That is one thing I learned in my marriage. I could not get the ex to understand that if a female came out wrong, it was up to him to correct her because when I did it, it looked like I was the jealous wife trying to keep him on a leash. Later I came to realize that he understood it all along & that was his angle. :twisted:

Bluzgirl

October 17th, 2012
12:57 pm

Sassy – I think it was just rude for you to ask if you were interrupting a therapy session. If you had read the stuff posted today, you would have seen that I’m bummed about a sick pet. There was no need for you to go there.

Mrs. SexyCool

October 17th, 2012
12:57 pm

I think I just got moderated, Sass….
Let me try again.

That *dern*(Is that okay, moderator?) dog stays >< this close to Craigslist.
And actually, I'm lying.
M got her microchipped, so I guess we're keeping her.

And I like being married to M. He's a cool guy.

Mrs. SexyCool

October 17th, 2012
12:58 pm

Sass – I’m trying to respond, but I think I keep getting sent to moderation.

Into the Light

October 17th, 2012
12:58 pm

Her excuse for texting/calling him is that she doesn’t really know anyone here

…..and she’s not gonna get to know anyone if she’s spending all her time calling/texting Mr. Cents. She better join Events and Adventures and KIM…..

Sassy Me...PYT ;-)

October 17th, 2012
12:59 pm

Comon, as Mrs. Sexy said, tell your husband to tell her to stop texting/calling him…

Mrs. SexyCool

October 17th, 2012
12:59 pm

Let’s see – is Craigslist the banned word?

Leggs

October 17th, 2012
12:59 pm

:lol: You’re welcome, MsAtl. (re: spelling)

Comon ~ I think he’s trying to make a statement, in a good way.

MsAtl

October 17th, 2012
1:00 pm

Common- sorry, I work for the state and that precludes outside representation. That said, I could certainly recommend some attorneys to defend you. I can even put on a ninja mask and some sneakers and braid my hair up, lol.

Mrs. SexyCool

October 17th, 2012
1:00 pm

Nope. I have no idea.

Um yeah…so, I’ll just change the answer altogether.

38 days in, married life is great. And a year and a half later, we finally got GiGi micro-chipped. So, we’re keeping her.

i'm swiss

October 17th, 2012
1:01 pm

Comon — You should go to the party & put on a totally inappropriate display of PDA w/ Mr. Comon. (How’s that for seering us back on topic?) :lol:

Mrs. SexyCool

October 17th, 2012
1:02 pm

And why would she have a need to have his cell number to contact him outside of work anyway?

i'm swiss

October 17th, 2012
1:03 pm

*steering, no seering

Mrs. SexyCool

October 17th, 2012
1:03 pm

Oh…I see you already answered that. (lol)
Told y’all I don’t read.

i'm swiss

October 17th, 2012
1:04 pm

Dammit! *not — not “no”

Mrs. SexyCool

October 17th, 2012
1:04 pm

And yes..what Ms. Atl said.

Exiled!

October 17th, 2012
1:05 pm

Miss Atl?

see that’s the thing,dudes like a Lil imagining..check the chic,’ugh her legs are nice,cute lips nice tatas and a good body…I can work with that’ …that’s a dude musing.

Now when u hang ur stuff All out like that and we got to see All if the deformities your clothes hide…,.Check mate!

We out!

Leggs

October 17th, 2012
1:05 pm

“Her excuse for texting/calling him is that she doesn’t really know anyone here and she heard he knows his way around the city.” – Doesn’t even matter! She needs to stop texting a married man asking him about the hangout spots. She thinks she’s discreetly dropping morsels with the hope he might bite. She knows EXACTLY what she’s doing. If she wants to invite him out, she should be inviting you along too. What single woman invites a married man out? Come on now, if the roles were reversed, we would immediately know this man was in the wings waiting to pounce. Go to the party, let her see you, no need for evil eyes or anything, but she’ll get the msg that she needs to back off or face the consequences. Sometimes a woman simply needs to make ner presence KNOWN!!!!

Exiled!

October 17th, 2012
1:05 pm

Leggs

October 17th, 2012
1:07 pm

“He could be trying to show her that he doesn’t keep secrets from you and that he is fully taken. ”

Exactly MsAtl…that’s my take as well.

Leggs

October 17th, 2012
1:08 pm

Comon ~ just in case, remember slap-a-hoe tribe is always ready to throw down.

Into the Light

October 17th, 2012
1:08 pm

Or the Kick-a-trick tribe….

Sassy Me...PYT ;-)

October 17th, 2012
1:09 pm

Bluz give me your address so I can send you a pacifier and a woobie to keep you company.

I wasn’t trying to come for you so shut that sh.it up. As I’ve said before if you’ve ever re-read any freaking thing with your name next to it, you too, would see…but I digress.

Really,though…

Bluzgirl

October 17th, 2012
1:11 pm

CC – I’m agreeing with most of what has been said here. He needs to handle her and let her know 100% that he’s not available or interested. I think it would be nice for you to go to the birthday party so you can meet her face to face and show her that she’s got nothing on you!

Comon Cents

October 17th, 2012
1:11 pm

…..and she’s not gonna get to know anyone if she’s spending all her time calling/texting Mr. Cents. She better join Events and Adventures and KIM…..

EXACTLY!

He said that he doesn’t want to engage in the “Stop calling/texting me” thing because she is his subordinate and he doesn’t want to create an acrimonious work environment. Also she is a good employee in a position where he has struggled to keep a good employee. He very seldom responds to her texts and the only way I know she has been texting/calling is because he tells me and shows me the texts. (I don’t do the phone snooping thing. Too much damn work for no return)

MsAtl~ You can just be my alibi then… :lol:

Officer: Where were you on the night of Oct 20, 2012?
Me: I was with MsAtl helping her do trial prep for a difficult case
Officer: MsAtl, can you verify her whereabouts?
MsAtl: Hell naw! I worked to hard to get here to get caught up with that murderous heifer! :lol:

MsAtl

October 17th, 2012
1:12 pm

Ex- yes, Miss.
“deformities?” I didn’t know hunchback was lurking in the blog.

Sassy Me...PYT ;-)

October 17th, 2012
1:12 pm

just in case, remember slap-a-hoe tribe is always ready to throw down.

Alright,alright,alriiiiight :lol:

You gone learn today!!

Leggs

October 17th, 2012
1:13 pm

Comon Cents

October 17th, 2012
1:14 pm

Sassy/ITL/Leggs~ I was thinking “Is Comon Cents gone have to choke a b!tch?” :lol:

Mrs. SexyCool

October 17th, 2012
1:14 pm

Too bad he can’t *un-give* her his phone number.

But really, he can just tell her that she is contacting him away from work just a bit too often and that it’s making him uncomfortable and he doesn’t want anything to happen that can be taken the wrong way.

Comon Cents

October 17th, 2012
1:15 pm

So, now I must start thinking about what to wear to the party. Dress or pants? Dress is sexy but pants say control… Hmmmm.

MsAtl

October 17th, 2012
1:16 pm

Lol Common. And now that you mention it, can you be here in half an hour? We have 9 depositions over the next 7 days & I could use a hand…

Comon Cents

October 17th, 2012
1:18 pm

MsAtl~ I hate depositions so no can do. I think that has got to be one of the most boring parts of the job. I worked in PI for a few, and that was the part of the job I liked the least. That and the bates stamping. Ughhh… When I first got out of school, that seriously made me question my decision to go into law. :lol:

Leggs

October 17th, 2012
1:20 pm

Mrs. SexyCool

October 17th, 2012
1:21 pm

Leggs – are you at the office?
Sent you an email…

Leggs

October 17th, 2012
1:21 pm

Comon ~ I’m thinking if you don’t go it will come down to that!!!!!

Leggs

October 17th, 2012
1:22 pm

And that’s why you want to wear a dress!!!

Bluzgirl

October 17th, 2012
1:23 pm

CC – go for the sexy dress!

i'm swiss

October 17th, 2012
1:23 pm

Comon / MsATL — I’m no lawyer, but I would have loved to be at this deposition. :lol:

Leggs

October 17th, 2012
1:23 pm

Dress says more control because you have a dress on. Pants allows you to let loose once common sense has left your body!

SlimNu

October 17th, 2012
1:25 pm

Good afternoon folks…did I miss anything worth repeating?

Mrs. SexyCool

October 17th, 2012
1:28 pm

Actually, now that you mention that she is subordinate to him, I would say not to go to the party. It would only contribute to continued blurring of the line between business and professional.

He should just let her know that he can’t because he and his wife have something to do that night.

Leggs

October 17th, 2012
1:30 pm

Got it, Mrs. SexyC!

Mrs. SexyCool

October 17th, 2012
1:31 pm

I don’t do anything personal with my employees. I’ve been hesitant to show them any of my wedding photos, even though they keep asking.

I choose not to socialize outside of work related functions with anyone that I have to supervise.

I thought long and hard about whether I would go to an employee sponsored picnic this weekend. I’ve decided that I will go, for a short period of time, wearing a company shirt and driving the company truck.

i'm swiss

October 17th, 2012
1:31 pm

As a serious response to your question Comon, I agree w/ SexyC. He should just tell her he can’t make it because the two of you already have plans. And as for the calls/texts, just don’t respond. If it’s work-related, it can wait until they’re at work. If it’s not, then there’s no need to respond.

Sassy Me...PYT ;-)

October 17th, 2012
1:33 pm

And as for the calls/texts, just don’t respond. If it’s work-related, it can wait until they’re at work. If it’s not, then there’s no need to respond.

Cosign…

MsAtl

October 17th, 2012
1:35 pm

Swiss- Wth? I would have had visions of smacking him with a yard stick. His behavior was horrible; no class, no maturity, just ridiculous!

Mrs. SexyCool

October 17th, 2012
1:35 pm

And how can she be having a birthday party if she don’t know anydamnbody?!?

Into the Light

October 17th, 2012
1:37 pm

Dang! Do we qualify for our own resevation yet? Kick-a-trick; slap-a-hoe, choke-a-joke….. :)

Leggs

October 17th, 2012
1:38 pm

That was hysterical, swiss!

i'm swiss

October 17th, 2012
1:40 pm

Leggs — And the crazy part is, if I’m not mistaken, that deposition was for a lawsuit that he brought… :lol:

Comon Cents

October 17th, 2012
1:40 pm

IDK. I will keep you all in the loop. I told told the hubs I would call him in between work and the class I have to teach tonight, so I will post the verdict tomorrow. But, I think I agree with Leggs that if I’m going, I’m wearing a dress. Hell, I might even take swiss’ suggestion and engage in some PDA with the hubs…

Leggs

October 17th, 2012
1:40 pm

And how can she be having a birthday party if she don’t know anydamnbody?!?

Cracking up, I didn’t pay any attention to this flaw.

Mrs. SexyCool

October 17th, 2012
1:41 pm

What was that movie with Idris Elba and Beyonce?

Comon Cents

October 17th, 2012
1:42 pm

And how can she be having a birthday party if she don’t know anydamnbody?!?

That was my first question too! :lol: Apparently, she invited a bunch of people from the job.

Comon Cents

October 17th, 2012
1:42 pm

SexyC~ Obsessed

Mrs. SexyCool

October 17th, 2012
1:43 pm

Yeah…that one…

Sassy Me...PYT ;-)

October 17th, 2012
1:45 pm

Kick-a-trick; slap-a-hoe, choke-a-joke…..

You forgot the original tribe…the C.A.B.Q.(cut a bi.tch quick) tribe…. The Black Mamba(she’s not with us right now) started it a long time ago. I was on the committee…for some odd reason ;-)

Willie Dynamite

October 17th, 2012
1:46 pm

Comon- I think you should back off a bit. Right now your hubby has not given you any reason NOT to trust him or his judgement. You let it be known how you felt. He obviously has no ulterior motives since he told you all about it and let you see the texts. Don’t make a non issue into an issue.

Leggs

October 17th, 2012
1:46 pm

That makes it worse, swiss.

Leggs

October 17th, 2012
1:47 pm

Apparently, she invited a bunch of people from the job. – Wrong move.

You and your hubby may want to stay home…SERIOUSLY!

Mrs. SexyCool

October 17th, 2012
1:47 pm

So, WD, do you think they should go to the party?

Comon Cents

October 17th, 2012
1:48 pm

When he first brought her up, my question was why the Hell would you move to a state where you don’t know anybody?!? It’s not like she has some great paying job. She’s a prep cook. Ok dough, but not worth moving from Chicago to Atlanta for. And she didn’t have the job before she moved here. Apparently, she applied after she got here. Mr. Cents looked at me like I was crazy! :lol: He said “I don’t know all that. I try to talk about personal stuff as little as possible with her!” :lol:

Leggs

October 17th, 2012
1:49 pm

I was on the committee…for some odd reason – Quit playing you were VP to Black Mamba. Man, I’ve forgotton about that one. I just rememeber mine.

1. C.A.B.Q Tribe
2. Slap-a-Ho Tribe
3. Kick-a-Trick Tribe
4. Choke-a-Joker Tribe

Leggs

October 17th, 2012
1:51 pm

I know the way I like to party, and my co-workers will never be privy to that. She shouldn’t want to party with a bunch of her coworkers. How long has she been on the job, Comon?

Into the Light

October 17th, 2012
1:52 pm

I don’t know Black Mamba. I remember Black Magic Woman. I miss some of the old bloggers. Especially my sister in shine runnin’, Kym. :(

Willie Dynamite

October 17th, 2012
1:53 pm

I personally would not go unless wifey made a point to go.

Comon Cents

October 17th, 2012
1:54 pm

Leggs~ I have been aware of her for about 2-3 months. She moved here sometime around the end of the summer.

Comon Cents

October 17th, 2012
1:54 pm

WD~ Is that MLB perspective or WD perspective? :lol:

Comon Cents

October 17th, 2012
1:55 pm

What about the Punch-a-P_ssy tribe?

Leggs

October 17th, 2012
1:56 pm

Black Magic Woman is Black Mamba

She’s messy, Comon. Stay home!

i'm swiss

October 17th, 2012
1:56 pm

ITL — Black Mamba == Black Magic Woman == Staceye. Blog evolution. ;-)

Mrs. SexyCool

October 17th, 2012
1:56 pm

Summer’s over?
(I kid. I kid.)

Leggs

October 17th, 2012
1:57 pm

Ummm, Comon are we literally suppose to punch a p…… or is that just another tribe that takes down Punks???

Comon Cents

October 17th, 2012
1:57 pm

Mrs SC~ Apparently. Who knew? :lol:

Comon Cents

October 17th, 2012
1:58 pm

Leggs~ Depends on what’s going down… :lol: I kid, I kid. Just taking down punks, thanks.

Leggs

October 17th, 2012
2:00 pm

I figured, Comon. I just saw Ex/swiss running with that tribe literally trying to punch out a p…. and thought clarification was needed.

Sassy Me...PYT ;-)

October 17th, 2012
2:01 pm

ITL they were one in the same…I miss some of the old bloggers,too but the frauds can stay where they are.

Comon…something in the water ain’t clean. Nip it in the bud. If you go to the party, be fierce and flawless…make your presence as his WIFE known. When he introduces you as his WIFE, smile broadly and genuinely, greet her and compliment her on her outfit even…all while looking her squarely in the eyes. Then just as you and yoUr husband are about to walk away, kiss(a lil I luv you peck) and leave her standing there…seething with jealousy. :lol: That’s called being nicety..

Comon Cents

October 17th, 2012
2:05 pm

Sassy~ Kind of like my mom used to say. “Tell people to go to Hell in such a way that they look forward to the trip” Gotcha! ;)

Willie Dynamite

October 17th, 2012
2:07 pm

Comon- one and the same. Really as a husband that’s forthcoming why would you take it any further?

i'm swiss

October 17th, 2012
2:08 pm

Leggs — Oh, punch a p___y… I thought you said MUNCH a p___y… My bad…

Comon Cents

October 17th, 2012
2:11 pm

WD~ It’s not him I don’t trust. The blog women will get me on this. Sometimes there is just some scandalous isht that women engage in that I ain’t trying to have mine caught up in.

kimmie

October 17th, 2012
2:11 pm

Where do these married/boo’ed up men come from that don’t know how to speak up & check a chick? Over the years, most of the men I know have no trouble letting a woman know they are not interested. In fact, that’s what turned me off from making the first move early in my dating career!LOL!! Some are very nice and gentlemanly about it, others not so. I just don’t get it!!

Comon – I don’t think for one minute anything foul is going on on your husbands part. Still though, stuff like that needs to be checked, by him. I don’t understand why he could not have found a nice but firm way to let his employee know his number was for work-related requests only. Plus I doubt very seriously you guys as a married couple are going places singles frequent and she knows that. She’s not crazy. If she was on the up and up she would be asking the single folk she works with where the hot spots are, not her married boss. He should let her know too he likes to leave work at work and does not socialize with his subordinates/coworkers. But hey, that’s just me & my opinion.

Into the Light

October 17th, 2012
2:12 pm

L I B. I learned something today. :)

smh@Swiss. You are fresh as paint, boy.

Leggs

October 17th, 2012
2:13 pm

Dagnabit, swiss flipped the script anyway!!!

Robert

October 17th, 2012
2:13 pm

off topic – Carrying Guns to Church

Is it OK to carry concealed weapons to Church? What do you guys think?

Leggs

October 17th, 2012
2:15 pm

And, anyboby giving a party and the sole attendees are people from work, she’s showing off something or someone!

Comon Cents

October 17th, 2012
2:16 pm

You can get shot in church just like anyplace else, so I say go for it. Whatever floats your boat.

kimmie~ And that has been my point to the hubs. He needs to squash it and squash it ow. Because if I have to get involved, I won’t be nearly as nice as he has been about it.

kimmie

October 17th, 2012
2:17 pm

Willie – Her husband asked her did she want to go to the chicks birthday party. So hubs is the one taking it further. So are you saying she should tell her husband no about the party?

Single and Happier "It is easier done than said, if you just do it!"

October 17th, 2012
2:17 pm

Comon, go have fun get up on stage and let you husband pull your panties to the side, she’ll stop texting (LOL)

Robert Umm if it’s concealed who would know??

SlimNu

October 17th, 2012
2:19 pm

CC – I get your pont about some women being trifling or wanting what someone else has. Red flags always go up whenever a chick is being a bit too friendly with an SO. I recall this new chick started working with my ex. He is a very outgoing guy, so naturally she befriended him and wanted to know the goings on in the city. She made sure she bought him a gift for Christmas or whatever and I’m looking at him like, you know she likes you right? Fast forward years later and he finally confesses to messing around with her.

kimmie

October 17th, 2012
2:19 pm

Comon, he doesn’t even need to worry about losing a “good” employee. Where the H is she going to go, she doesn’t know anybody here, remember?LOL!!!

Sassy Me...PYT ;-)

October 17th, 2012
2:20 pm

If she was on the up and up she would be asking the single folk she works with where the hot spots are, not her married boss.

True!! (said in my 2 Chainz voice)

kimmie

October 17th, 2012
2:21 pm

Single – That’s funny!!LOL!!

Sassy Me...PYT ;-)

October 17th, 2012
2:22 pm

Robert Umm if it’s concealed who would know??

End of discussion…and in that order :mrgreen:

Mrs. SexyCool

October 17th, 2012
2:24 pm

If hubby didn’t want to go, he wouldn’t have asked Comon if she wanted to go.

Into the Light

October 17th, 2012
2:24 pm

I need a drink. Swiss, can you open the bar? Please?

Mrs. SexyCool

October 17th, 2012
2:25 pm

(playing devil’s advocate here)

SlimNu

October 17th, 2012
2:25 pm

CC – Oh and to go along with your story about a chick letting dudes fanga her on stage, I saw a chick at Freanik once with a dress and no panties on. It caused a huge crowd to form that got out of hand. She was engrossed with dudes trying to catch a feel on her butt & all up in her va ja ja. Finally, a security guard walked by and helped her get out of the fray. Her dress was all torn up too by the time it was over.

kimmie

October 17th, 2012
2:25 pm

I wouldn’t even know where to begin flirting with a married boss! But I guess my mind doesn’t work that trifling way!! I couldn’t sleep my way up the corporate ladder, gotta put in the real work!LOL!!

Comon Cents

October 17th, 2012
2:27 pm

Fast forward years later and he finally confesses to messing around with her.

Slim~ Then he wouldn’t need a concealed weapon, he would need an undertaker. :evil:

Leggs

October 17th, 2012
2:28 pm

SlimNu ~ was she engrossed or caught up in the fray. First part makes it seems she welcomed it, but caught in the fray makes it sound as though none of it was her intention (lol).

Comon Cents

October 17th, 2012
2:29 pm

Slim~ I might have been at that same incident. Was it on MLK by MBC? Cause I swear I saw the exact sdame thing happen at Freaknic of ‘93…

Single and Happier "It is easier done than said, if you just do it!"

October 17th, 2012
2:30 pm

The exact same thing happened at every freaknic (LOL)

Mrs. SexyCool

October 17th, 2012
2:31 pm

When I was dating Shthead, he claimed, at first, that this chick was calling him because she was trying to help him get a job with her employer. Next thing you know, she is going through a divorce and he was just a listening ear.

Fast forward some months and I pick up his phone one morning to see where she has sent a p&&y shot with the message “We miss you.”

Mrs. SexyCool

October 17th, 2012
2:31 pm

Charge that to my gullible, dumb, in love @$$….

Live and ya’ learn to spot bullsht a mile away.

Willie Dynamite

October 17th, 2012
2:32 pm

I took it as hubby being open and forthright. He already showed her all the texts b4 the invite. He’s not answering the calls or texts. I understand most of what y’all are saying but give the guy a break. He’s trying to manage the situation openly. If anything at this rate moving forward dude won’t share anything with her. If he gets this much flak by being open and honest what’s the point.

Mrs. SexyCool

October 17th, 2012
2:33 pm

All we said was tell him to tell her to stop texting him and don’t go to the party.

i'm swiss

October 17th, 2012
2:33 pm

“I need a drink. Swiss, can you open the bar? Please?”

[hiccup] Wha..? Oh, sorry ocifer. I thought the bar was already openeded.

Leggs

October 17th, 2012
2:35 pm

I always found Freaknic shameful and demoralizing.

Into the Light

October 17th, 2012
2:36 pm

LOL@Swiss. Schnockered in the middle of the day…..

Leggs

October 17th, 2012
2:36 pm

Don’t get it twisted, I doubt that’s the real Black Mamba. I was just talking with her 2 days ago. It’s rare for her to come on with only two words!

i'm swiss

October 17th, 2012
2:37 pm

“I pick up his phone one morning to see where she has sent a p&&y shot with the message “We miss you.””

SexyC — You should have replied w/ your own puddy shot w/ the message “We don’t.” :lol:

Howdy, Mamba! How you doin’?

SlimNu

October 17th, 2012
2:37 pm

Leggs – Well at first I think she was looking for attention and thought it was fun to throw her dress up flashing dudes. However, I don’t think she expected a mob to come out of it. lol She got overwhelmed with all the stranger hands coming from all over. Hell, I couldn’t even see her from all the dudes that surrounded her.

CC – That was near Underground & the train station.

SH – Well some dumb chicks were a little smarter than that one chick. They would be in the car flashing dudes but have the car doors locked and only allow a small crack in the window. So you had to have little baby arms to get a feel in that small crack :lol:

Single and Happier "It is easier done than said, if you just do it!"

October 17th, 2012
2:37 pm

“I always found Freaknic shameful and demoralizing.
I’m ashamed and demoralized (Bring freaknic back) :-D

kimmie

October 17th, 2012
2:37 pm

Willie – We’re just making convo here!LOL!! Comon gave us the background on the situation. She’s obviously giving him a break if she’s even considering going to the party!!

Single and Happier "It is easier done than said, if you just do it!"

October 17th, 2012
2:38 pm

Hmmm slim, how you doing smart chick (LOL)

i'm swiss

October 17th, 2012
2:38 pm

Leggs — You’re right about that… Shenanigans! Here’s your Arnie Palmer, btw…

Leggs

October 17th, 2012
2:38 pm

ok, 2:35 and 2:36 do not belong to me (I’m the one who played Bocce yesterday).

Willie Dynamite

October 17th, 2012
2:39 pm

SC- 2:25 me too

Comon Cents

October 17th, 2012
2:39 pm

Well, slide a drink this way, cause I need one! Lord ha’ mercy. These trifling women down here!

Mrs. SC~ I feel you on the naiviete. I went through that with the 1st husband. Never again though.

WD~ I am not trying to give him flak, I just want him to squash the situation. Everyday, I have men who try to holler, but I never let anything get to the point where it would even need to be brought to the hubs attention. Damn sure ain’t no calling/texting going on. We have male paralegals and males who work at the courts (Even clients for that matter) who have my number, but this would never fly on my end. That’s all I’m saying.

Sassy Me...PYT ;-)

October 17th, 2012
2:39 pm

Fraud alert….

He’s trying to manage the situation openly.

We’ve noticed that and applaud him for his honesty.

If anything at this rate moving forward dude won’t share anything with her. If he gets this much flak by being open and honest what’s the point.

First off, I’m not sure if Comon’s already called her hubby back with an answer to the question…and we don’t know how that convo went. All we’re saying is that he needs to nip it in the bud that’s all. I didn’t read any flack given…just for him to nicely but firmly tell ol girl to back off a little bit that’s all.

Leggs

October 17th, 2012
2:40 pm

That’s not Black Mamba

Sassy Me...PYT ;-)

October 17th, 2012
2:41 pm

Swiss may I have a Royal Flush por favor?…and a little exxtra Crown would be greatly appreciated.

Robert

October 17th, 2012
2:42 pm

On Topic – “Are you anti-PDA?”

Humm, it depends. If it is a new woman and she is “Phat” (Pretty, Hot & Tempting) I will show a little PDA just to measure her interest. If she reciprocates I will pursue her lust, passion and sexual desires.

Know if she is not a new woman and she is trying to “mark her turf” with PDA I will let her know she has nothing to fear and there is no need to worry about other women when I am in her presence. I try to have the best of both worlds.

Leggs

October 17th, 2012
2:42 pm

We have imposters posting. Why even bother?

Sassy Me...PYT ;-)

October 17th, 2012
2:42 pm

That’s not Black Mamba

I know right?!…hence my “fraud alert”. The nerve of some folks…

Into the Light

October 17th, 2012
2:42 pm

Leggs: Are you saying that someone is posting using your moniker?? We have reached a new low. :(

i'm swiss

October 17th, 2012
2:43 pm

Sassy — Here’s what I heard: “Swiss, body shots, please!” Your wish is my command, Sassy. ;-)

i'm swiss

October 17th, 2012
2:45 pm

Nobody ever tries to masquerade as me (at least, not that I’m aware). Should I be offended…?

SlimNu

October 17th, 2012
2:45 pm

Mrs SC – See, that’s how that sh it starts…the man takes advantage of the chick using him for a listening ear. lol In my situation, the chick was actually engaged to be married so he used that as the, “Man she isn’t interested in me” bs…but yet she was calling him all the time to talk about stuff. Of course he said she would call to ask about work or talk about stuff about her fiance. But my dayum gut was screaming “TRI FLING H0″…and I saw her when my current beau went to Sweet Georgia Juke Joint. She gave me a hug and was like oooh I see you’re not with exman. blah blah blah…just shooting the sh it. Maybe about a month or so later, the exman had let the cat out of the bag.

Single and Happier "It is easier done than said, if you just do it!"

October 17th, 2012
2:46 pm

Swiss you are everybody, so how could anybody masquerade as you?? (LOL)

i'm swiss

October 17th, 2012
2:47 pm

Good point, me. Er — I mean S/H

i'm swiss (no, really. i'm swiss. this is not ITL posting as me)

October 17th, 2012
2:48 pm

Willie Dynamite

October 17th, 2012
2:48 pm

If they do go to the party and the stalker chick is hot then all Heyal is gon break loose. Hahaha

i'm swiss

October 17th, 2012
2:50 pm

I don’t know who I am anymore…

Into the Light

October 17th, 2012
2:50 pm

@WD: So, from a man’s perspective, what is the right thing for Mr. Cents to do?

SlimNu

October 17th, 2012
2:51 pm

“but then again, I didn’t feel that way when I was in it”

Leggs – You were like me and my friends…we only went to see other folks make asses out of themselves. lol

SH – I’m guuuuuud. What’s happeninininin’?

Sassy Me...PYT ;-)

October 17th, 2012
2:51 pm

Here’s what I heard: “Swiss, body shots, please!”

Swiss you’re a certified nut…oh wait you only have one so I’ve gotta come up with something else :mrgreen:

Side note: at least we know it works :lol:

Into the Light

October 17th, 2012
2:51 pm

Psssst, Swiss….. that 2:48 was really me….. :oops:

i'm swiss

October 17th, 2012
2:52 pm

Sassy — It does work. Well. And, it is certified, as a matter of fact. ;-) :lol:

Comon Cents

October 17th, 2012
2:52 pm

ITL~ You beat me to the punch. I was going to ask WD the same question.

WD~ All Hell won’t break loose. He already has the best. Anytime he wants to step down the ladder, i am willing to let him do it. I just don’t want to be sharing and NOT know it.

Comon Cents

October 17th, 2012
2:53 pm

Leggs~ I’m up for it. Where do you propose?

Single and Happier "It is easier done than said, if you just do it!"

October 17th, 2012
2:53 pm

“Leggs – You were like me and my friends…we only went to show our asses through the car window . lol”

There slim I know what you meant to say

i'm swiss

October 17th, 2012
2:53 pm

Pssst, ITL… That 2:51 was really me…. :oops:

Did I just blow your mind? :lol:

Willie Dynamite

October 17th, 2012
2:56 pm

ITL- she’s done most of it already. She let hubby know she wasn’t cool with the calls and texts. Now the party should be an afterthought, why go? After that leave it alone and trust hubby.

i'm swiss

October 17th, 2012
2:56 pm

“Since Bocce Ball was so fun, how about we try it in a park?”

Leggs — I thought we all agreed PDA was uncouth. And please don’t call my ball “Bocce.”

Comon Cents

October 17th, 2012
2:56 pm

Bluzgirl

October 17th, 2012
2:58 pm

swiss – Can I get a Yuengling on draft please?

SlimNu

October 17th, 2012
2:59 pm

I think i’ve only ever gotten moniker jacked once in my blog history ;-)

Swiss – You are one of kind so I think it would be hard to impersonate you.

Robert

October 17th, 2012
2:59 pm

@ITL – ” from a man’s perspective, what is the right thing for Mr. Cents to do?”

I can only speak for myself. I would humble myself and shut-up. Sometimes “silence” is golden and you can live to play another day.

Bluzgirl

October 17th, 2012
2:59 pm

I haven’t been to Six Feet Under in a few years. I loved it!

Willie Dynamite

October 17th, 2012
3:00 pm

Comon Cents

October 17th, 2012
3:00 pm

PIedmont is cool. When are we trying to set this shindig up? Can’t be Saturday as I may have a party to attend and we might want to leave Sunday off as I may be in jail… :lol:

Into the Light

October 17th, 2012
3:01 pm

Swiss, you are too crazy! :)

Thanks, WD. Not to put you on the spot, but if you were receiving unwelcome attention from a female subordinate, how would you handle it?

i'm swiss

October 17th, 2012
3:01 pm

Bluz — We only have Yuengling in the Butt-Chug cipher, but here you go…

Sassy Me...PYT ;-)

October 17th, 2012
3:01 pm

who is open for a blog meet and greet. We haven’t done those in awhile

Count me in :mrgreen:

Single and Happier "It is easier done than said, if you just do it!"

October 17th, 2012
3:01 pm

From this mans perspective, we wouldn’t be having this conversation because I would have nipped in the bud from the beginning.

Comon Cents

October 17th, 2012
3:02 pm

I can only speak for myself. I would humble myself and shut-up. Sometimes “silence” is golden and you can live to play another day.

Silence is golden, but duct tape is silver. And if he starts keeping his mouth shut about what’s going on, he will not live to play another day. IJS…

Leggs

October 17th, 2012
3:02 pm

Oh no! Don’t get locked up!!!!

Maybe Friday after work but since it is getting darker quicker, we may have to save Bocce Ball for another time and go straight to Six Feet Under

Mrs. SexyCool

October 17th, 2012
3:03 pm

Sometimes, the best place to hide something is out in the open.

Leggs

October 17th, 2012
3:03 pm

Black Mamba ~ I know the real Black Mamba very well and you ain’t her!

Single and Happier "It is easier done than said, if you just do it!"

October 17th, 2012
3:03 pm

A meet and greet wouldn’t work for some of us, it’s impossible for us to be in the same room at the same time (IJS)

Leggs

October 17th, 2012
3:03 pm

3.03 is not me. That’s the fake Leggs

Black Mamba

October 17th, 2012
3:04 pm

This is confusing but anyway I’m up for the meet and greet.

Leggs

October 17th, 2012
3:05 pm

Well it’s settled
Six Feet and Under it is for Friday.

Say we meet around 6ish 6:30 ish?

Bluzgirl

October 17th, 2012
3:05 pm

LOL S/H!!! I think it would blow some people’s minds…

SlimNu

October 17th, 2012
3:05 pm

SH – I don’t really have an ass, so I know you read me wrong. Nice try though ;-) But speaking of asses, I think I told yall i’m starting to get the ’spread’ going on even though I’m still slim. I went to put on a pair of my jeans just yesterday morning and I could not get them over my thighs. :lol:

Leggs – They also have Bocce Ball at this bar called Ornsby’s. I been there only once though. They also have other games like Darts, billiards etc. But the park idea may be better to accommodate more ppl

kimmie

October 17th, 2012
3:05 pm

Single – To your 3:01, Amen!! Some stuff is just easy!!!

Single and Happier "It is easier done than said, if you just do it!"

October 17th, 2012
3:05 pm

Umm leggs, which 3:03 (LOL)

Leggs

October 17th, 2012
3:06 pm

Where is Ornsby’s?

We’ll have to try that next time.

First drink is on me by the way

Leggs

October 17th, 2012
3:07 pm

“Black Mamba ~ I know the real Black Mamba very well and you ain’t her!”

Not my comment
That’s the fake Leggs

Bluzgirl

October 17th, 2012
3:07 pm

Are ya’ll talking about the Six Feet Under off of Howell Mill?

I’m trying to decide if I will be showing up to my part time job Friday night. They’ve changed ownership and I still haven’t gotten paid for a 4 hour training we did. Supposedly, a new check is being mailed out, but I’ve heard nothing and have received nothing. I’m thinking I’ll tell them that I’m not working until I get this check. The training was in mid July, I believe…

Leggs

October 17th, 2012
3:08 pm

Six Feet Under off Memorial

Leggs

October 17th, 2012
3:09 pm

Leggs: Are you saying that someone is posting using your moniker?? We have reached a new low

MJ

October 17th, 2012
3:09 pm

@Leggs: Why don’t you have the moderator put a stop to it. Isn’t that protocol for having people removed?

Into the Light

October 17th, 2012
3:09 pm

Are we talking this Friday??? I was hoping to take a nap after work and before the RHPS midnight show, but what the heck? I’m in….

Comon Cents

October 17th, 2012
3:09 pm

Leggs~ I am in for Friday tentatively. I have to double check with the hubs first, but that should be cool. I can at least duck in for a drink or two before heading North. I can be there by 6 on Fri. I have court in the morning, but I am free after that.

Willie Dynamite

October 17th, 2012
3:10 pm

ITL- happens all the time. Not that I got it like that just that I have over 100 empl and prolly over 70 are female. I’ve had these type discussions with the wifey. It’s a trust issue. She can’t run behind every chick that texts or call me. I told her she has to trust me enough to know I won’t jeopardize my job or fam over some workplace booty. As for the empl they all pretty much know I don’t get down like that. Plus why would I when I could Get some at QT or the blog meetup. I kid I kid.

Leggs

October 17th, 2012
3:11 pm

Here goes. I’m the real Leggs who’s glad my child is coming home this weekend.

The real Black Mamba and I are friends and confirmed with her that she’s not blogging today.

I understand you guys may want to have fun by posting using regulars’ monikers, but it’s not cool. And as the real Leggs would say. You a PUNK!

Leggs

October 17th, 2012
3:11 pm

3:09 isn’t me either.

ITL- yes, this Friday

Common- hope to see you there

Comon Cents

October 17th, 2012
3:11 pm

I have never been to Six Feet Under off Memorial. I will google the address though. Can someone give me a rough idea of where it’s located?

MJ

October 17th, 2012
3:11 pm

If it’s not the person you all are making light of, that would be a gigantic egg on yo face! LMAO

Leggs

October 17th, 2012
3:12 pm

3:11 is A PUNK!!!! That is not me, stop using my name!!!!!

Leggs

October 17th, 2012
3:12 pm

So many of those posts are not mine.

Thanks, MJ. I will do that!

Leggs

October 17th, 2012
3:13 pm

Everyone knows I call my daugher little Leggs!

MJ

October 17th, 2012
3:13 pm

@Leggs: Let’s have the culprit revealed. I’m itching for a good laugh. LMAO!!

Leggs

October 17th, 2012
3:13 pm

At the fake Leggs 3:12- stop using my name and come up with your own please!

Leggs

October 17th, 2012
3:13 pm

Comon ~ what you are talking about for Friday??? trying to think of ways that you guys will know I’m the real one! I was just out on the company’s dime!

Single and Happier "It is easier done than said, if you just do it!"

October 17th, 2012
3:14 pm

Leggs, it so hard to tell which is which, you guys look just alike down to the s (LOL)

kimmie

October 17th, 2012
3:14 pm

Okay, I’m confused :shock:

Mrs. SexyCool

October 17th, 2012
3:14 pm

It’s over near Oakland Cemetary…

Leggs

October 17th, 2012
3:15 pm

Again, I have not set up a meet and greet…don’t fall for it. Most here have my email address. Just email me if you’re still confused.

Sassy Me...PYT ;-)

October 17th, 2012
3:15 pm

I think i’ve only ever gotten moniker jacked once in my blog history

I’ve gotten mine jacked to a degree…it called itself “Sassy 1″ and I kept referring to it as “Assy 1″ :lol:

Now the party should be an afterthought, why go? After that leave it alone and trust hubby.

True. Even thought her hubby did say he wanted to check out the spot b/c they haven’t been. Comon Maybe you two should make a date night and go back to said spot at a later time

Comon Cents

October 17th, 2012
3:15 pm

Leggs~ I must admit I am thoroughly confused now. I can’t keep up! I was good until we got to this last little volley of posts.

Into the Light

October 17th, 2012
3:15 pm

@WD: Please know that I was not questioning your integrity at all. I was just wondering how you, as a man in a position of authority, would handle unwanted attention. I’m thinking about it from more of an HR perspective, and it seems like it could get very messy very quickly if not handled correctly.

Leggs

October 17th, 2012
3:15 pm

Listen everyone- I am the real Leggs! Those who know me know why my moniker is Leggs

Into the Light

October 17th, 2012
3:16 pm

@Sassy: Is that the one who kept adding “s” to words that didn’t have one????

Leggs

October 17th, 2012
3:17 pm

Everyone knows I call my daugher little Leggs!

WRONG, everyone knows I call her lil leggs!!! Get to stepping!

Mrs. SexyCool

October 17th, 2012
3:17 pm

ITL – I agree from an HR perspective which is why I posted earlier about how he should handle it. Trust, having done several ‘workplace investigations’, ish can go way south real soon…

Leggs

October 17th, 2012
3:17 pm

The meet and greet is still on. I will be there Friday

Leggs

October 17th, 2012
3:18 pm

Fake Leggs- give it up- the joke is old already

Single and Happier "It is easier done than said, if you just do it!"

October 17th, 2012
3:18 pm

aaarrrrggghhhhh wishing I had some hair to pull out!!

Sassy Me...PYT ;-)

October 17th, 2012
3:18 pm

I have not set up a meet and greet…don’t fall for it. Most here have my email address. Just email me if you’re still confused.

Okay?!?!

kimmie

October 17th, 2012
3:19 pm

I don’t have to worry about such. Ain’t nothing, not even eye candy, to see up in here. And up until August, all my staff is female. When any of them call or text outside of work hours, it’s to tell me they are not coming in, sick or someone has died.

Leggs

October 17th, 2012
3:19 pm

“Listen everyone- I am the real Leggs! Those who know me know why my moniker is Leggs”

I didn’t post that. Ok, there really isn’t anyway to really keep up so me, the real one that’s meeting up with a blogger this Saturday, I’m out for the rest of the day. I will only lurk. I promise you I won’t post so let the fake one have its fun. I’ll see you Saturday and you know who you are!

PEACE!!!

Leggs

October 17th, 2012
3:19 pm

I’m about to slap a hoe for real

Comon Cents

October 17th, 2012
3:19 pm

Trust, having done several ‘workplace investigations’, ish can go way south real soon…

And that’s what we DON’T want to have happen! I hate these little triflin azz garden tools! Ughh!!!

i'm swiss

October 17th, 2012
3:20 pm

Personally, I think Bonefish would be a better spot for this particular meet n’ greet…

Mrs. SexyCool

October 17th, 2012
3:21 pm

Fake Leggs – is that like a prosthetic?
(lol – couldn’t resist)

Leggs

October 17th, 2012
3:21 pm

Let’s take a vote.

Bonefish or Six Feet Under?

Leggs

October 17th, 2012
3:21 pm

kimmie

October 17th, 2012
3:23 pm

Swiss, that “Bonefish” was right on time!!LOL!! I am cracking up over here!! :lol:

Into the Light

October 17th, 2012
3:23 pm

@MrsSC: Yep. Things said innocently can be twisted into something more.

UGH! Can’t we all just play nicely today?

Willie Dynamite

October 17th, 2012
3:23 pm

ITL- no biggie, it is hard dealing with y’all women on that level. Lol

As witnessed above even some of these dudes is bishes too.
Dayum this some fuggery going on. Seriously who has the time to just play like this.
Enjoy your eve.

SlimNu

October 17th, 2012
3:23 pm

I’ll probably be in Bama this weekend but Ormsby’s is at 1170 Howell Mill Rd. Atlanta Ga. 30318

Leggs

October 17th, 2012
3:24 pm

Thanks Slim
is it kid friendly? Can lil Leggs go?

Bluzgirl

October 17th, 2012
3:25 pm

Seriously?!?! I’m getting extremely confused. The real Leggs…report the fake comments. I believe they can block the IP address…

Leggs

October 17th, 2012
3:25 pm

3:21 was not my post

The meet and greet is still set for Six Feet Under

Single and Happier "It is easier done than said, if you just do it!"

October 17th, 2012
3:26 pm

I’m confused, so we’re not coming (LOL)

Into the Light

October 17th, 2012
3:26 pm

Too much for me, I’m out.

Oh, and Prosthetic, you have overplayed your hand (again!) with the kid-friendly comment. Idiot.

SlimNu

October 17th, 2012
3:27 pm

It’s a bar so I believe it’s 21 and over…sorry.

I wonder if the imposter is SH..lol

Leggs

October 17th, 2012
3:27 pm

Leggs, come back. Don’t leave cuz I left. Those that I just received an email from me. This is the real Leggs. If I leave then the fake leaves too.

Leggs

October 17th, 2012
3:28 pm

I messed that sentence up…those that just received an email from me.

Leggs

October 17th, 2012
3:29 pm

Why does my moniker always get hacked.

Sassy Me...PYT ;-)

October 17th, 2012
3:30 pm

not Bonefish again…

Single and Happier "It is easier done than said, if you just do it!"

October 17th, 2012
3:33 pm

slim don’t go there :mad: :evil: , let me keep some blog friends :grin:

Sassy Me...PYT ;-)

October 17th, 2012
3:35 pm

It’s the same fraud that’s gone by many names…

MJ

October 17th, 2012
3:35 pm

I wondered the same. Single and Happier or Swiss. Sorry I wondered.

Single and Happier "It is easier done than said, if you just do it!"

October 17th, 2012
3:36 pm

Why I got to be all up in this (LOL) I’m just going with the flow. :-D

Mrs. SexyCool

October 17th, 2012
3:39 pm

I bet Prosthetic has a binder full of names.

Mrs. SexyCool

October 17th, 2012
3:40 pm

Going random on y’all…..

People always talking about chicks “losing” their virginity. I didn’t lose my virginity. I know exactly who I gave it to.

Mrs. SexyCool

October 17th, 2012
3:41 pm

I’m sitting at my desk only because I’m too lazy to drive myself home.

Single and Happier "It is easier done than said, if you just do it!"

October 17th, 2012
3:41 pm

Mrs. SexyCool

October 17th, 2012
3:42 pm

Some people you just can’t teach professionalism to. The hood in them is just too strong.

I may have to remove a member of my leadership team. The emotional intelligence is just not there.

Mrs. SexyCool

October 17th, 2012
3:43 pm

Nearly 600 pictures later, I can say with confidence, “I am sick of looking at pictures of our wedding.”

Single and Happier "It is easier done than said, if you just do it!"

October 17th, 2012
3:43 pm

Hmm you can take the person out of the hood, but you can’t take the hood out of the person

Mrs. SexyCool

October 17th, 2012
3:44 pm

They say Demi is still hurting over Ashton and doesn’t like that he’s dating again.

Demi, get ya’ life.

Mrs. SexyCool

October 17th, 2012
3:44 pm

Instant coffee is kinda like hot liquid garbage.

Single and Happier "It is easier done than said, if you just do it!"

October 17th, 2012
3:45 pm

Mrs. SC maybe we are the frauds, seems we’re the only ones left?? (IJS)

Mrs. SexyCool

October 17th, 2012
3:46 pm

LMAO…maybe…

Bluzgirl

October 17th, 2012
3:46 pm

I’m surprised my name hasn’t come up yet… :-)

Single and Happier "It is easier done than said, if you just do it!"

October 17th, 2012
3:47 pm

why would it bluz, I never left (LOL)

Mrs. SexyCool

October 17th, 2012
3:48 pm

Sunday night, I was standing in my downstairs bathroom when I hear these loud voices outside the window. I looked outside and see these little criminals spray painting the gahdamned manhole covers. I called the cops so fast I don’t even remember dialing the number.

Hate vandals and delinquents.

Mrs. SexyCool

October 17th, 2012
3:49 pm

I’m running the eight mile leg of the Atlanta Marathon Relay on the 28th. I haven’t run since the 6th and that was just a 5k. Y’all pray my strength.

Mrs. SexyCool

October 17th, 2012
3:49 pm

Told y’all….totally random…and I got more where that came from. (lol)

Single and Happier "It is easier done than said, if you just do it!"

October 17th, 2012
3:50 pm

Okay Mrs. SC with all these random post, are you you, are you the impostor??

Mrs. SexyCool

October 17th, 2012
3:50 pm

These are the kinds of things I tweet about. A whole buncha nothing…

Mrs. SexyCool

October 17th, 2012
3:51 pm

No…really…I’m not.

Single and Happier "It is easier done than said, if you just do it!"

October 17th, 2012
3:51 pm

aww you tweet, thats sweet LOL

Sassy Me...PYT ;-)

October 17th, 2012
3:51 pm

Y’all pray my strength.

You’ll do just fine :-)

Single and Happier "It is easier done than said, if you just do it!"

October 17th, 2012
3:52 pm

Not you, or not the impostor (LOL)

Bluzgirl

October 17th, 2012
3:52 pm

LOL S/H!!!

Mrs. SC – did the cops actually make it in time to catch the kids?

Mrs. SexyCool

October 17th, 2012
3:53 pm

No…but…they did catch the other ones who broke into one of our trucks and messed up the ignition trying to steal it.

Why would you want to steal a 99 Explorer Sport?

Mrs. SexyCool

October 17th, 2012
3:54 pm

Sass – thanks for the vote of confidence. Eight miles is at the end of my distance limits.

SlimNu

October 17th, 2012
3:54 pm

I’m still here and it does look like twitter up in here, which is why I don’t do twitter. Just can’t get into it.

Mrs. SexyCool

October 17th, 2012
3:55 pm

Yup – I tweet – SexyCool13 – how’s that for originality?

Bluzgirl

October 17th, 2012
3:55 pm

Speaking of stealing cars…I FINALLY caught an episode of Bait Car last night. I’ve heard about it on here for a while and saw it on and had to watch. It’s so funny to hear the excuses when they get caught!

SlimNu

October 17th, 2012
3:56 pm

Mrs SC – So since you used the phrase, “Get yo life” do you watch Tamar and Vince’s show?

Bluzgirl

October 17th, 2012
3:56 pm

I got into Twitter for about 2 weeks, then got bored with it. Too many people posting stupid stuff and links to go somewhere else…

Mrs. SexyCool

October 17th, 2012
3:56 pm

Slim – twitter is great for randomness. FB is better for actual conversations.

I don’t do a lot of back and forth on Twitter.

Mrs. SexyCool

October 17th, 2012
3:57 pm

Bluz – I never click on the links. I do some retweeting. I usually only read my own stuff. It just feels like a bunch of folks in a big room talking at and over each other.

Sassy Me...PYT ;-)

October 17th, 2012
3:58 pm

which is why I don’t do twitter. Just can’t get into it.

Me, either..tweetin and instagramin is a little too much access for me. I don’t want errbody knowing where I am or what I’m doing. To each his own.

SlimNu

October 17th, 2012
3:59 pm

BluZ – I like watching The First 48….it’s crazy how these dudes straight up lie when being questioned…then later someone will snitch on them or they show up on someone’s surveillance camera

Bluzgirl

October 17th, 2012
4:00 pm

I occasionally check Twitter for the non-profit I work with and retweet stuff. To make life easier, I set it up so that FB posts would post straight to Twitter for that. I just can’t keep up with all the posts when you follow so many people!

Bluzgirl

October 17th, 2012
4:00 pm

Slim – I’ll watch the First 48 every once in a while. It is very interesting to see how they catch the crooks…

MsAtl

October 17th, 2012
4:02 pm

Wow, I missed a lot! Robert- I would hate for someone to get the Holy Ghost, start jumping & flipping, drop their weapon, the weapon discharges… IJS

Comon Cents

October 17th, 2012
4:03 pm

Ok. Now it seems to have calmed down a bit, so I will come back from lurking and say hey again.

I don’t do twitter. I FB, but basically about the radomness I see all day. I am limited because I don’t post about my family (I figure there are enough people on FB doing that) and I can’t post about my job.

Single and Happier "It is easier done than said, if you just do it!"

October 17th, 2012
4:04 pm

today has been interesting (I think) until tomorrow

Comon Cents

October 17th, 2012
4:04 pm

Has anyone emailed Leggs and gotten a response? If so, meet & greet or no meet & greet?

Leggs

October 17th, 2012
4:04 pm

How can I confirm I’m the real Leggs. Just sent one person an email saying that I reported the imposter.

I’m on twitter just so I can play my CCA contest on Tuesdays.

Mrs. SexyC ~ I thought you were hijacked too until I saw your post on vandalizing the street. You’re real (lol).

Trying to get everything in this post so you’ll know it’s me. Nice to know all of you finally knew that wasn’t me.

Nice try Black Mamba and dumb a$$ Leggs.

I chat with you guys, hopefully, tomorrow!

Leggs

October 17th, 2012
4:05 pm

Comon ~ I will email you so you will know if it’s real or not!

Single and Happier "It is easier done than said, if you just do it!"

October 17th, 2012
4:05 pm

Comon, I’m with you on that facebook thing, some put out TMI I just like to play WPT poker on it.

Bluzgirl

October 17th, 2012
4:05 pm

We’ve been emailing back and forth. I just asked her about Friday and will let you know her response.

Bluzgirl

October 17th, 2012
4:07 pm

I see she posted before I did and that is the real Leggs!

Single and Happier "It is easier done than said, if you just do it!"

October 17th, 2012
4:08 pm

Several times I’ve wanted to post Get A Life to some people on face book, then I have to remind myself I’m reading it, so maybe I need to get one first (LOL)

Comon Cents

October 17th, 2012
4:08 pm

Thanks, Bluz. My email is not going to my phone for the moment (Can’t figure out WTH that’s about and I can’t check it from work)

Single and Happier "It is easier done than said, if you just do it!"

October 17th, 2012
4:09 pm

Comon Cents

October 17th, 2012
4:09 pm

Bye S/H! Have a good afternoon!

Bluzgirl

October 17th, 2012
4:10 pm

“See” ya tomorrow S/H!

Into the Light

October 17th, 2012
4:11 pm

(ITL peeping around the doorframe, looking left and right for killer trolls…..)

Night, Stamps.

I am so happy we’re going for drinks after work. I need a double after today.

Mo (aka Moeisha)

October 17th, 2012
4:11 pm

Seems like I picked a helluva day to drop in!! 9 pages!!

Let me scroll thru and see whats going on!

HEY BLOGSVILLE! :)

Mrs. SexyCool

October 17th, 2012
4:11 pm

Comon – make sure your email password did not reset itself. Mine does that sometimes.

Bluzgirl

October 17th, 2012
4:14 pm

Also CC…don’t go on Fri…

Bluzgirl

October 17th, 2012
4:14 pm

45 minutes to go and I’m ready for a beer or two!!!

Comon Cents

October 17th, 2012
4:15 pm

Thanks Bluz.

Mrs. SC~ I will check that.

ITL~ :lol: @ killer trolls!

i'm swiss

October 17th, 2012
4:19 pm

Mo — You can pretty much disregard the past 2 or 3 pages. Since you’re here, whatcha drankin’?

Mo (aka Moeisha)

October 17th, 2012
4:24 pm

Im Swiss – umm yeah after a comment or two I gave up! Let me get a peach circo straight please! :)

Hey Mrs Sexy Cool, how goes it?

Mrs. SexyCool

October 17th, 2012
4:26 pm

Hey Lil’ homey!!!

i'm swiss

October 17th, 2012
4:27 pm

Here you go, Mo. Just have the bottle… ;-)

Comon Cents

October 17th, 2012
4:29 pm

swiss~ Can I get a shot of tequila, please? 1800 gold please, with a little chill. Men are going to be the death of me!!!

Mo (aka Moeisha)

October 17th, 2012
4:31 pm

LOL @ Im Swiss! Umm the bottle?? I like when YOU tend the bar! :)

Mrs SexyCool – How is Mr SexyCool?

Bluzgirl

October 17th, 2012
4:35 pm

CC – That 1800 almost killed me many years ago! LOL! That was my drink of choice, but after doing many, many shots one night and being sick for 3 days, it’s hard for me to touch tequila. It has to be mixed with something…

Mrs. SexyCool

October 17th, 2012
4:35 pm

He is sexy and cool. (lol)

We’re doing great.
We were just talking about you guys the other day.
We gotta come out and spectate for Lil Mo’s latest sport participation soon.

Comon Cents

October 17th, 2012
4:41 pm

So, we have aparalegal that works on my team who is young (I’d say she’s in her early 20’s) and thin. She came in today wearing a skirt that verged ont he side of short. (I would not have chosen it personally for work, but it was not obscene) So, apparently in the secretary pool, the tongues have been wagging and they (they being the partners) sent someone in to have me address the skirt issue with her. Of course, when I call her into my office, it is tears galoe and “Well, I thought it was ok because it’s longer than my fingertips!”

Girl, you have arms like a T-rex! My nose is longer than your arms! Uggghhhh! I hate when the partners put me in this position! I am not the fashion police up in here! You got a problem with her skirt, you tell her!

swiss~ You had better leave that bottle here!

Bluzgirl

October 17th, 2012
4:50 pm

Here’s one down side to being single. I just won two tickets to see Gov’t Mule tomorrow night at Tabernacle and I’m trying to figure out who to invite. I don’t know if any of my girl friends would be interested…

Oh well, I’ll figure it out.

I’m out. Talk tomorrow.

Comon Cents

October 17th, 2012
4:50 pm

Bye, Bluz! Have a good night!

Bluzgirl

October 17th, 2012
4:51 pm

Leggs

October 17th, 2012
4:52 pm

Comon ~ that reminds me of when I started working here. My skirts were short, but not too minish (lol). Anyway, I told my boss if he ever had a problem with anything I wore to please pull me on the side. I have always dressed professionally. He has never pulled me to the side on my attire, but he has on my attitude as I have done the same with him. _____ years later, I’m still here. And, I couldn’t use my fingertips as a guide because I too have long arms.

Being jacked by other bloggers who attempt to play back things you’ve said on the blog definitely lets one know that you should be cautious on what you share. Of course, we know it, but today, I really know it now.

Mo, good to see you.

WillieD ~ sage advice!

MJ

October 17th, 2012
4:56 pm

@Leggs: Playing things back is not attacking you. You should all be careful of who you erroneously blame. You’re not as astute as you believe.

Into the Light

October 17th, 2012
4:57 pm

Have mercy I’m glad this day is almost done. Y’all be sweet and have a good night!

Leggs

October 17th, 2012
4:59 pm

MJ, never used the word “attack.” That’s a strong word. I’m as astute as I need to be, especially in real life. Please believe if I wasn’t astute, I would have posted way more than I do.

Into the Light

October 17th, 2012
5:00 pm

Why is the blog monster eating my posts??? UGH!

Into the Light

October 17th, 2012
5:01 pm

MJ, I wish you would educate all of us, since you are so observant/astute

Comon Cents

October 17th, 2012
5:01 pm

Good Night, y’all. Have a good night and please everyone remember who they are tomorrow…

Leggs

October 17th, 2012
5:02 pm

For the record MJ, I was only referencing the meaning of my moniker. Many have heard the story, but to use to act like your the person is not cool.

Mo (aka Moeisha)

October 17th, 2012
5:02 pm

Good to see you Leggs!

Mrs SexyCool – of course!! You know baseball is the sport of choice so you guys cmon out!

MJ

October 17th, 2012
5:04 pm

@Into the Light: Chastising is your role? No chastisement needed here.

Goodnight, all!

Into the Light

October 17th, 2012
5:05 pm

MJ, no one was “poking” at you. I was sincerely asking you to share the knowledge you’ve gained from your observations of our blog.