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Are you anti-PDA?

Have you ever been out in public and noticed a really obnoxious couple who are taking “public displays of affection” too far? A lot of people don’t mind seeing a couple happy and in love. It’s the couples who are in lust, that annoy everyone!

Most days, when I am not all “down will love” I can appreciate seeing two people happy to be with one another. I just think there is a certain line you shouldn’t cross. At some point, you really should go get a room.

Oddly enough, I don’t require a lot of PDA from men I date but I don’t like it when they are completely anti-PDA. Why would you not want to publicly show me affection? Are you afraid of being secretly filmed by the show Cheaters? Then I get all paranoid and start acting irrationally with over the top PDA to prove a point (I know, I have issues).

What is your stance on PDA? Are you for or against it? Have you ever dated someone who was not affectionate enough or was into PDA too much?

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog

439 comments Add your comment

Leggs

October 17th, 2012
4:04 pm

How can I confirm I’m the real Leggs. Just sent one person an email saying that I reported the imposter.

I’m on twitter just so I can play my CCA contest on Tuesdays.

Mrs. SexyC ~ I thought you were hijacked too until I saw your post on vandalizing the street. You’re real (lol).

Trying to get everything in this post so you’ll know it’s me. Nice to know all of you finally knew that wasn’t me.

Nice try Black Mamba and dumb a$$ Leggs.

I chat with you guys, hopefully, tomorrow!

Leggs

October 17th, 2012
4:05 pm

Comon ~ I will email you so you will know if it’s real or not!

Single and Happier "It is easier done than said, if you just do it!"

October 17th, 2012
4:05 pm

Comon, I’m with you on that facebook thing, some put out TMI I just like to play WPT poker on it.

Bluzgirl

October 17th, 2012
4:05 pm

We’ve been emailing back and forth. I just asked her about Friday and will let you know her response.

Bluzgirl

October 17th, 2012
4:07 pm

I see she posted before I did and that is the real Leggs!

Single and Happier "It is easier done than said, if you just do it!"

October 17th, 2012
4:08 pm

Several times I’ve wanted to post Get A Life to some people on face book, then I have to remind myself I’m reading it, so maybe I need to get one first (LOL)

Comon Cents

October 17th, 2012
4:08 pm

Thanks, Bluz. My email is not going to my phone for the moment (Can’t figure out WTH that’s about and I can’t check it from work)

Single and Happier "It is easier done than said, if you just do it!"

October 17th, 2012
4:09 pm

Comon Cents

October 17th, 2012
4:09 pm

Bye S/H! Have a good afternoon!

Bluzgirl

October 17th, 2012
4:10 pm

“See” ya tomorrow S/H!

Into the Light

October 17th, 2012
4:11 pm

(ITL peeping around the doorframe, looking left and right for killer trolls…..)

Night, Stamps.

I am so happy we’re going for drinks after work. I need a double after today.

Mo (aka Moeisha)

October 17th, 2012
4:11 pm

Seems like I picked a helluva day to drop in!! 9 pages!!

Let me scroll thru and see whats going on!

HEY BLOGSVILLE! :)

Mrs. SexyCool

October 17th, 2012
4:11 pm

Comon – make sure your email password did not reset itself. Mine does that sometimes.

Bluzgirl

October 17th, 2012
4:14 pm

Also CC…don’t go on Fri…

Bluzgirl

October 17th, 2012
4:14 pm

45 minutes to go and I’m ready for a beer or two!!!

Comon Cents

October 17th, 2012
4:15 pm

Thanks Bluz.

Mrs. SC~ I will check that.

ITL~ :lol: @ killer trolls!

i'm swiss

October 17th, 2012
4:19 pm

Mo — You can pretty much disregard the past 2 or 3 pages. Since you’re here, whatcha drankin’?

Mo (aka Moeisha)

October 17th, 2012
4:24 pm

Im Swiss – umm yeah after a comment or two I gave up! Let me get a peach circo straight please! :)

Hey Mrs Sexy Cool, how goes it?

Mrs. SexyCool

October 17th, 2012
4:26 pm

Hey Lil’ homey!!!

i'm swiss

October 17th, 2012
4:27 pm

Here you go, Mo. Just have the bottle… ;-)

Comon Cents

October 17th, 2012
4:29 pm

swiss~ Can I get a shot of tequila, please? 1800 gold please, with a little chill. Men are going to be the death of me!!!

Mo (aka Moeisha)

October 17th, 2012
4:31 pm

LOL @ Im Swiss! Umm the bottle?? I like when YOU tend the bar! :)

Mrs SexyCool – How is Mr SexyCool?

Bluzgirl

October 17th, 2012
4:35 pm

CC – That 1800 almost killed me many years ago! LOL! That was my drink of choice, but after doing many, many shots one night and being sick for 3 days, it’s hard for me to touch tequila. It has to be mixed with something…

Mrs. SexyCool

October 17th, 2012
4:35 pm

He is sexy and cool. (lol)

We’re doing great.
We were just talking about you guys the other day.
We gotta come out and spectate for Lil Mo’s latest sport participation soon.

Comon Cents

October 17th, 2012
4:41 pm

So, we have aparalegal that works on my team who is young (I’d say she’s in her early 20’s) and thin. She came in today wearing a skirt that verged ont he side of short. (I would not have chosen it personally for work, but it was not obscene) So, apparently in the secretary pool, the tongues have been wagging and they (they being the partners) sent someone in to have me address the skirt issue with her. Of course, when I call her into my office, it is tears galoe and “Well, I thought it was ok because it’s longer than my fingertips!”

Girl, you have arms like a T-rex! My nose is longer than your arms! Uggghhhh! I hate when the partners put me in this position! I am not the fashion police up in here! You got a problem with her skirt, you tell her!

swiss~ You had better leave that bottle here!

Bluzgirl

October 17th, 2012
4:50 pm

Here’s one down side to being single. I just won two tickets to see Gov’t Mule tomorrow night at Tabernacle and I’m trying to figure out who to invite. I don’t know if any of my girl friends would be interested…

Oh well, I’ll figure it out.

I’m out. Talk tomorrow.

Comon Cents

October 17th, 2012
4:50 pm

Bye, Bluz! Have a good night!

Bluzgirl

October 17th, 2012
4:51 pm

Leggs

October 17th, 2012
4:52 pm

Comon ~ that reminds me of when I started working here. My skirts were short, but not too minish (lol). Anyway, I told my boss if he ever had a problem with anything I wore to please pull me on the side. I have always dressed professionally. He has never pulled me to the side on my attire, but he has on my attitude as I have done the same with him. _____ years later, I’m still here. And, I couldn’t use my fingertips as a guide because I too have long arms.

Being jacked by other bloggers who attempt to play back things you’ve said on the blog definitely lets one know that you should be cautious on what you share. Of course, we know it, but today, I really know it now.

Mo, good to see you.

WillieD ~ sage advice!

MJ

October 17th, 2012
4:56 pm

@Leggs: Playing things back is not attacking you. You should all be careful of who you erroneously blame. You’re not as astute as you believe.

Into the Light

October 17th, 2012
4:57 pm

Have mercy I’m glad this day is almost done. Y’all be sweet and have a good night!

Leggs

October 17th, 2012
4:59 pm

MJ, never used the word “attack.” That’s a strong word. I’m as astute as I need to be, especially in real life. Please believe if I wasn’t astute, I would have posted way more than I do.

Into the Light

October 17th, 2012
5:00 pm

Why is the blog monster eating my posts??? UGH!

Into the Light

October 17th, 2012
5:01 pm

MJ, I wish you would educate all of us, since you are so observant/astute

Comon Cents

October 17th, 2012
5:01 pm

Good Night, y’all. Have a good night and please everyone remember who they are tomorrow…

Leggs

October 17th, 2012
5:02 pm

For the record MJ, I was only referencing the meaning of my moniker. Many have heard the story, but to use to act like your the person is not cool.

Mo (aka Moeisha)

October 17th, 2012
5:02 pm

Good to see you Leggs!

Mrs SexyCool – of course!! You know baseball is the sport of choice so you guys cmon out!

MJ

October 17th, 2012
5:04 pm

@Into the Light: Chastising is your role? No chastisement needed here.

Goodnight, all!

Into the Light

October 17th, 2012
5:05 pm

MJ, no one was “poking” at you. I was sincerely asking you to share the knowledge you’ve gained from your observations of our blog.