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Are you anti-PDA?

Have you ever been out in public and noticed a really obnoxious couple who are taking “public displays of affection” too far? A lot of people don’t mind seeing a couple happy and in love. It’s the couples who are in lust, that annoy everyone!

Most days, when I am not all “down will love” I can appreciate seeing two people happy to be with one another. I just think there is a certain line you shouldn’t cross. At some point, you really should go get a room.

Oddly enough, I don’t require a lot of PDA from men I date but I don’t like it when they are completely anti-PDA. Why would you not want to publicly show me affection? Are you afraid of being secretly filmed by the show Cheaters? Then I get all paranoid and start acting irrationally with over the top PDA to prove a point (I know, I have issues).

What is your stance on PDA? Are you for or against it? Have you ever dated someone who was not affectionate enough or was into PDA too much?

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog

439 comments Add your comment

Leggs

October 17th, 2012
3:06 pm

Where is Ornsby’s?

We’ll have to try that next time.

First drink is on me by the way

Leggs

October 17th, 2012
3:07 pm

“Black Mamba ~ I know the real Black Mamba very well and you ain’t her!”

Not my comment
That’s the fake Leggs

Bluzgirl

October 17th, 2012
3:07 pm

Are ya’ll talking about the Six Feet Under off of Howell Mill?

I’m trying to decide if I will be showing up to my part time job Friday night. They’ve changed ownership and I still haven’t gotten paid for a 4 hour training we did. Supposedly, a new check is being mailed out, but I’ve heard nothing and have received nothing. I’m thinking I’ll tell them that I’m not working until I get this check. The training was in mid July, I believe…

Leggs

October 17th, 2012
3:08 pm

Six Feet Under off Memorial

Leggs

October 17th, 2012
3:09 pm

Leggs: Are you saying that someone is posting using your moniker?? We have reached a new low

MJ

October 17th, 2012
3:09 pm

@Leggs: Why don’t you have the moderator put a stop to it. Isn’t that protocol for having people removed?

Into the Light

October 17th, 2012
3:09 pm

Are we talking this Friday??? I was hoping to take a nap after work and before the RHPS midnight show, but what the heck? I’m in….

Comon Cents

October 17th, 2012
3:09 pm

Leggs~ I am in for Friday tentatively. I have to double check with the hubs first, but that should be cool. I can at least duck in for a drink or two before heading North. I can be there by 6 on Fri. I have court in the morning, but I am free after that.

Willie Dynamite

October 17th, 2012
3:10 pm

ITL- happens all the time. Not that I got it like that just that I have over 100 empl and prolly over 70 are female. I’ve had these type discussions with the wifey. It’s a trust issue. She can’t run behind every chick that texts or call me. I told her she has to trust me enough to know I won’t jeopardize my job or fam over some workplace booty. As for the empl they all pretty much know I don’t get down like that. Plus why would I when I could Get some at QT or the blog meetup. I kid I kid.

Leggs

October 17th, 2012
3:11 pm

Here goes. I’m the real Leggs who’s glad my child is coming home this weekend.

The real Black Mamba and I are friends and confirmed with her that she’s not blogging today.

I understand you guys may want to have fun by posting using regulars’ monikers, but it’s not cool. And as the real Leggs would say. You a PUNK!

Leggs

October 17th, 2012
3:11 pm

3:09 isn’t me either.

ITL- yes, this Friday

Common- hope to see you there

Comon Cents

October 17th, 2012
3:11 pm

I have never been to Six Feet Under off Memorial. I will google the address though. Can someone give me a rough idea of where it’s located?

MJ

October 17th, 2012
3:11 pm

If it’s not the person you all are making light of, that would be a gigantic egg on yo face! LMAO

Leggs

October 17th, 2012
3:12 pm

3:11 is A PUNK!!!! That is not me, stop using my name!!!!!

Leggs

October 17th, 2012
3:12 pm

So many of those posts are not mine.

Thanks, MJ. I will do that!

Leggs

October 17th, 2012
3:13 pm

Everyone knows I call my daugher little Leggs!

MJ

October 17th, 2012
3:13 pm

@Leggs: Let’s have the culprit revealed. I’m itching for a good laugh. LMAO!!

Leggs

October 17th, 2012
3:13 pm

At the fake Leggs 3:12- stop using my name and come up with your own please!

Leggs

October 17th, 2012
3:13 pm

Comon ~ what you are talking about for Friday??? trying to think of ways that you guys will know I’m the real one! I was just out on the company’s dime!

Single and Happier "It is easier done than said, if you just do it!"

October 17th, 2012
3:14 pm

Leggs, it so hard to tell which is which, you guys look just alike down to the s (LOL)

kimmie

October 17th, 2012
3:14 pm

Okay, I’m confused :shock:

Mrs. SexyCool

October 17th, 2012
3:14 pm

It’s over near Oakland Cemetary…

Leggs

October 17th, 2012
3:15 pm

Again, I have not set up a meet and greet…don’t fall for it. Most here have my email address. Just email me if you’re still confused.

Sassy Me...PYT ;-)

October 17th, 2012
3:15 pm

I think i’ve only ever gotten moniker jacked once in my blog history

I’ve gotten mine jacked to a degree…it called itself “Sassy 1″ and I kept referring to it as “Assy 1″ :lol:

Now the party should be an afterthought, why go? After that leave it alone and trust hubby.

True. Even thought her hubby did say he wanted to check out the spot b/c they haven’t been. Comon Maybe you two should make a date night and go back to said spot at a later time

Comon Cents

October 17th, 2012
3:15 pm

Leggs~ I must admit I am thoroughly confused now. I can’t keep up! I was good until we got to this last little volley of posts.

Into the Light

October 17th, 2012
3:15 pm

@WD: Please know that I was not questioning your integrity at all. I was just wondering how you, as a man in a position of authority, would handle unwanted attention. I’m thinking about it from more of an HR perspective, and it seems like it could get very messy very quickly if not handled correctly.

Leggs

October 17th, 2012
3:15 pm

Listen everyone- I am the real Leggs! Those who know me know why my moniker is Leggs

Into the Light

October 17th, 2012
3:16 pm

@Sassy: Is that the one who kept adding “s” to words that didn’t have one????

Leggs

October 17th, 2012
3:17 pm

Everyone knows I call my daugher little Leggs!

WRONG, everyone knows I call her lil leggs!!! Get to stepping!

Mrs. SexyCool

October 17th, 2012
3:17 pm

ITL – I agree from an HR perspective which is why I posted earlier about how he should handle it. Trust, having done several ‘workplace investigations’, ish can go way south real soon…

Leggs

October 17th, 2012
3:17 pm

The meet and greet is still on. I will be there Friday

Leggs

October 17th, 2012
3:18 pm

Fake Leggs- give it up- the joke is old already

Single and Happier "It is easier done than said, if you just do it!"

October 17th, 2012
3:18 pm

aaarrrrggghhhhh wishing I had some hair to pull out!!

Sassy Me...PYT ;-)

October 17th, 2012
3:18 pm

I have not set up a meet and greet…don’t fall for it. Most here have my email address. Just email me if you’re still confused.

Okay?!?!

kimmie

October 17th, 2012
3:19 pm

I don’t have to worry about such. Ain’t nothing, not even eye candy, to see up in here. And up until August, all my staff is female. When any of them call or text outside of work hours, it’s to tell me they are not coming in, sick or someone has died.

Leggs

October 17th, 2012
3:19 pm

“Listen everyone- I am the real Leggs! Those who know me know why my moniker is Leggs”

I didn’t post that. Ok, there really isn’t anyway to really keep up so me, the real one that’s meeting up with a blogger this Saturday, I’m out for the rest of the day. I will only lurk. I promise you I won’t post so let the fake one have its fun. I’ll see you Saturday and you know who you are!

PEACE!!!

Leggs

October 17th, 2012
3:19 pm

I’m about to slap a hoe for real

Comon Cents

October 17th, 2012
3:19 pm

Trust, having done several ‘workplace investigations’, ish can go way south real soon…

And that’s what we DON’T want to have happen! I hate these little triflin azz garden tools! Ughh!!!

i'm swiss

October 17th, 2012
3:20 pm

Personally, I think Bonefish would be a better spot for this particular meet n’ greet…

Mrs. SexyCool

October 17th, 2012
3:21 pm

Fake Leggs – is that like a prosthetic?
(lol – couldn’t resist)

Leggs

October 17th, 2012
3:21 pm

Let’s take a vote.

Bonefish or Six Feet Under?

Leggs

October 17th, 2012
3:21 pm

kimmie

October 17th, 2012
3:23 pm

Swiss, that “Bonefish” was right on time!!LOL!! I am cracking up over here!! :lol:

Into the Light

October 17th, 2012
3:23 pm

@MrsSC: Yep. Things said innocently can be twisted into something more.

UGH! Can’t we all just play nicely today?

Willie Dynamite

October 17th, 2012
3:23 pm

ITL- no biggie, it is hard dealing with y’all women on that level. Lol

As witnessed above even some of these dudes is bishes too.
Dayum this some fuggery going on. Seriously who has the time to just play like this.
Enjoy your eve.

SlimNu

October 17th, 2012
3:23 pm

I’ll probably be in Bama this weekend but Ormsby’s is at 1170 Howell Mill Rd. Atlanta Ga. 30318

Leggs

October 17th, 2012
3:24 pm

Thanks Slim
is it kid friendly? Can lil Leggs go?

Bluzgirl

October 17th, 2012
3:25 pm

Seriously?!?! I’m getting extremely confused. The real Leggs…report the fake comments. I believe they can block the IP address…

Leggs

October 17th, 2012
3:25 pm

3:21 was not my post

The meet and greet is still set for Six Feet Under

Single and Happier "It is easier done than said, if you just do it!"

October 17th, 2012
3:26 pm

I’m confused, so we’re not coming (LOL)