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Awful girlfriends make terrible wives?

I found out another test that men like to give the women they date, it’s called the Sick Test, i.e. does she take care of me when I am sick. My friend LC said he happened to catch a nasty cold last week. Ah, but he wasn’t too weak to observe how his new girlfriend was going to handle his illness. He wondered, would she pass or fail?

Unfortunately, she didn’t seem all that concerned about him. She even steered clear of him for a few days because she “could not risk picking up his bug” this week (Ouch?). She still has not come by, only sending him occasional text messages to make sure he is still breathing.

I found it rather funny because I don’t approve of giving people relationship tests. LB ended up getting his feelings hurt and now he is questioning what kind of wife his girlfriend would make!

I think he is being utterly ridiculous but maybe I’m just taking up for his lady friend because I think she’s great for him. Do you think someone who has shown bad girlfriend/boyfriend behavior would make awful marriage partners?

Have you ever second-guessed your dating relationship after seeing something that would probably be too hard to deal with in a marriage?

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog

486 comments Add your comment

Single and Happier "Life is simple, if you stop making it so complicated!"

October 16th, 2012
7:19 am

WTH, sick test, I’m sorry man up!!!!

‘Have you ever second-guessed your dating relationship after seeing something that would probably be too hard to deal with in a marriage?”
Dating should be about seeing how people handle certain situations! But you shouldn’t be testing someone, you’re just setting yourself up for failure.

Celise.....happy life!!

October 16th, 2012
7:26 am

Test smest!! Sounds like playing games to me. Anyway, don’t go judging folks prematurely. Ya just might pass over someone potentially great. Ask me, I know. I think my new honey is pretty happy right now. I am! And yeah, if he get sick, I’m there in a heartbeat. ITS WHAT I DO :mrgreen: But, don’t test, compare, try, gauge or conclude.

Never judge a book by it’s cover nor close the book past chapter one. Read it……cover to cover.

Exiled!

October 16th, 2012
8:14 am

Dating should be about seeing how people handle certain situations…..that’s Single

Its not a test…that’s Celisea

But the situation(s) and Test presented themselves by way of fate or Act of God not because the guy wanted it to happen and guess what??

The chic failed the ‘ I Care’ test!

My colds used to be really severe,once a year..some years past. Not anymore tho…and I would be confined to my crib.

My chic,now Queen would pass thru,bring me some lemons,and offer to buy me some soup etc,whatever she deemed necessary to alleviate the pain. She didn’t go ‘Disco’ on me! :lol;

Trust,if dude wants a more softer,caring type,that woman ain’t the type. Uall talk of intuition..,the guy’s is telling him things tight now.

Better heed that warning.

She maybe more interested in his pocket.

Better yet,maybe he should text her(the real test now$ and text her,saying, ‘babe,I hit the lotto!’

You’ll see the bia leaving work to come thru and ‘visit’
:lol: :lol:

SlimNu

October 16th, 2012
8:16 am

Good morning,

Shout out to Leggs for her EOD dedicated to me yesterday. ;-)

Exiled!

October 16th, 2012
8:18 am

right now

Text(repetition there)

Uall got it tho

I used to be here before

October 16th, 2012
8:21 am

I think that peforming certain tests to see if the one you are with is the one is too much game playing. That type of stuff is for children.

If who you are with treats you right, you enjoy their company, and they bring value then that’s all you really need to know if they are going spouse or not. There is not magic costume that is put on the minute you say I do that changes your mate into a super spouse.

Saying I do do does not drastically change a person.
Whom you see is whom you get.

So maybe the girlfriend didn’t show strong support while the guy was sick but has a ton of other great qualitites. Does that mean you throw the baby out with the bathwater?

I heard something from a movie last night that put things in perspective. A woman chose to stay wiht her husband after he cheated on time becasue ” I stayed for the million things he did right and did not leave because of the one thing he did wrong”
Granted, if you cheat on me- it’s a deal breaker but the message the woman put out there that she said for a million things right and did not leave for one wrong thing put it in perspective.
Say, this woman’s one wrong thing is that she can’t be a nurse to the guy when he’s sick but there are a million other things she does right. Would you dismiss her because of that one wrong thing?

I used to be here before

October 16th, 2012
8:22 am

typo: going to be a good spouse or not

Celise.....happy life!!

October 16th, 2012
8:30 am

Mmeello – I say “right now” because we’ve teetered, “I” was unsure about going all in. I sort of kept him hanging. I made the decision to go all in. Right now, I’m happy I did…..and so is he!

To your 8:18 if that was for me :)

Toddles!

Comon Cents

October 16th, 2012
8:40 am

I’m with C on this one. I think a test for your relationship is BS. Besides, you could have the other side of that coin; the girl who makes an EXCELLENT girlfriend and turns out to be a horible wife. :D

Go0od Morning!

Into the Light

October 16th, 2012
8:41 am

Morning, all

@Slim: I saw that EOD yesterday; that was a nice one. :) I hope it encouraged you.

Exiled!

October 16th, 2012
8:53 am

Hey Cel

COmmon…who is testing who…not the guy.

Testing is fake,contrived etc to gauge a reaction

I thought dude is truly sick…and chic is showing her colors.

Comon Cents

October 16th, 2012
8:54 am

ITL~ I agree that we can disagree without being disagreeable. Good Morning!

Comon Cents

October 16th, 2012
8:56 am

Ex~ You are probably old enough to remember this. Remember back in the day (probably middle school for me) when you called yourself liking a guy and you would test him by having a girlfriend call him on 3-way while you listened in? I never engaged in that behavior either and thought it was stupid. This strikes the same chord with me.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

October 16th, 2012
8:57 am

I’m sure the lady didn’t want to catch the damn flu did he think about that. Can’t handle a cold without whining, folks do for themselves when they’re sick all the time. If he’s not bed ridden then get off your ass man and think of something better to do than test people.

Good Morning:

Single and Happier "Life is simple, if you stop making it so complicated!"

October 16th, 2012
9:02 am

Black, you know how some men are, they become the biggest babies, and expect the S/O to mother them.

When you’re dating someone you should keep your eyes open and your mouth shut! See if they have the qualities you desire in a mate, and make sure that you can deal with the ones you don’t like.

Celise.....happy life!!

October 16th, 2012
9:02 am

Heeey there Mmeello :)

Alright, gotta get to work…….I’m out

Single and Happier "Life is simple, if you stop making it so complicated!"

October 16th, 2012
9:03 am

Comon, way to make me fell old, when I was in the sixth grade, if you had 3 way calling they called that a party line (LOL)

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

October 16th, 2012
9:04 am

As far as an awful girl friend goes, yes she can check on me and that’s all I will expect. I’m not holding her responsible for my illness so that doesn’t make her a bad woman becasue I realize she has a life too.

Comon Cents

October 16th, 2012
9:05 am

S/H~ Well, I guess that makes me old too, cause I remember the party line. Remember New Edition? She ain’t got no party line! The situation’s on my mind! Oh! I just can’t take it anymore! Mr. Telephone Man… :lol:

Single and Happier "Life is simple, if you stop making it so complicated!"

October 16th, 2012
9:07 am

comon, another one of those stalker songs (LOL)

Into the Light

October 16th, 2012
9:07 am

Good morning, CC.

Daaaang, BF. :) Don’t hold back now……

On a serious note, I tend to fall into the “mother hen” category when an SO is sick. Making sure he has the right medicine, making him soup, getttng his comfy socks and pjs, etc, etc. But I don’t think it’s wrong for this woman to not want to expose herself to the flu/cold, etc. What I think is wrong is him assuming that she’s flawed because of her decision.

I used to be here before

October 16th, 2012
9:07 am

If this is a new relationship, it could make sense as to why she may not be there front and center taking care of this guy’s cold.
When things are brand new, you tend to hold back some. He may view her as his girlfriend but his actions could tell something very different.
In that case, as a female you don’t want to dive head first into full girlfriend/wife duties for fear of being used or taken advantage of..
If dude went to work or out with his friends earlier and is playing the invalid role- the girlfriend could be feeling like if he was well enough to do that then he’s well enough to take care of himself.
I think there are two sides to every story.and some things may have been left out.

Into the Light

October 16th, 2012
9:09 am

@Stamps: Did y’all use the soup cans and string or wooden box with the receiver and crank on the side???? LOLOLOL I kid, I kid….

Into the Light

October 16th, 2012
9:10 am

AND….some folks (like my mom) just want to be left alone when they’re sick. They don’t want the pamepering/babying/constant checking. Maybe this girl is like that, so she was giving him what she would want if she was sick……

Single and Happier "Life is simple, if you stop making it so complicated!"

October 16th, 2012
9:11 am

ITL the mother hen (hmmmmm) maybe I need to find me one of those

Comon Cents

October 16th, 2012
9:12 am

S/H~ Right up there with “Every Breath You Take” by The Police… :lol:

Single and Happier "Life is simple, if you stop making it so complicated!"

October 16th, 2012
9:14 am

Comon, yea that isht will get a restraining order these days (LOL)

I used to be here before

October 16th, 2012
9:17 am

you know what. People have a hard time communicating their needs.
All he had to do was tell her, look I’m sick would you mind taking care of me- I would really appreciate it.
Her actions and response would let him know right then and there if she was one that could accomodate.

Single and Happier "Life is simple, if you stop making it so complicated!"

October 16th, 2012
9:20 am

Used to be, he was testing her, wanted her to act like a mother hen! (playing games)

Leggs

October 16th, 2012
9:21 am

I’m going to start with this from Used To Be:

“Leggs and ITL, I was givinng you all the eye roll because you all were acting all smug thinking you know who I am but I doubt you really know.”

First and foremost, wasn’t acting smug. I welcomed you back with sincerity. Was simply stating that I believe I know who you are. It’s not that important. There wasn’t any smugness to my post. I may be wrong, I may be right. For now, I’m sticking to what my gut is telling me. And the fact that you thought I was smug, tells me you’re very sensitive. Hell this is a blog, a computer. I can’t see you so I can’t confirm anything.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

October 16th, 2012
9:23 am

Single you got that right I don’t get sick often and I’m knocking on wood for that, I catch colds like everybody else and live through them. I wouldn’t expect my wife to care for me hand and foot over a damn flu. It’s ridiculous a man can’t be a man even when his sick.

Comon Cents

October 16th, 2012
9:25 am

Good Morning, Leggs!

Personally, I think your first post this morning was a little smug…

I kid, I kid. :lol:

Into the Light

October 16th, 2012
9:27 am

@Stamps: Yeah, we mother hen types are good….to a point. It’s easy to find yourself doing too much for someone, and then coming to expect it rather than appreciate it. IJS….

halo46

October 16th, 2012
9:29 am

If your girlfriend is controlling, whiny, and always wants her way, then DO NOT marry her. Even if you are so in love that you get sick or depressed when she’s mad. Just ask my brother all about that. lol

I used to be here before

October 16th, 2012
9:30 am

Single- rolling my eyes at dude.
Game playing should be left in elementary school- unless he’s light in the loafers :lol:

Into the Light

October 16th, 2012
9:31 am

LOL@Leggs. You go, girl! I think it’s hilarious that I got lumped in with that, when I have no idea who UTBHB is…..

Although, it is interesting that she had the opportunity to tell us, and declined.

C’est la vie. Until further notice, I guess she is whoever we think she is. :wink:

I used to be here before

October 16th, 2012
9:31 am

Leggs0- not sensitive.
anyway, I’m over it. If you know me- good for you. here’s a cookie
If you don’t know me- which I’m sure you don’t , then just get to know me.

Single and Happier "Life is simple, if you stop making it so complicated!"

October 16th, 2012
9:31 am

ITL, I know me, and I really wouldn’t like one of those. I wouldn’t tell my own mother when I broke my ankle cause I didn’t want to be bothered (LOL) Now I will take care of my S/O when they are truly sick.

Also ITL, nowadays most people come to expect things when you do them, the problem is they don’t do them in return.

Single and Happier "Life is simple, if you stop making it so complicated!"

October 16th, 2012
9:34 am

halo46
October 16th, 2012
9:29 am

If your girlfriend is controlling, whiny, and always wants her way, then DO NOT marry her. Even if you are so in love that you get sick or depressed when she’s mad. Just ask my brother all about that. lol

You need to make up YOUR mind whether or not you can deal with it before you get married and act accordingly because all this thinking someone is going to change, or you can change someone is bullcrap!!

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

October 16th, 2012
9:34 am

Hey Light,
I dig the motherly type and caring you would show your guy while he’s sick. I would welcome it, to an extent so as to not make you feel being used. What upsets me the most is the dude playing a game to find if she’s worthy of him as if he’s a wrapped gift from God.

Button

October 16th, 2012
9:35 am

I agree with what you said Blackfoote

My beau has a cold, I check on him periodically because I care not to gain any merit points. Some men can be big babies when it comes to sickness/pain. I don’t see him being that way but then again I can be wrong. He could be sucking up all this extra attention. I like when I’m pampered when I’m sick. It just sits well and help with the healing boosting the immune system.

Do you think someone who has shown bad girlfriend/boyfriend behavior would make awful marriage partners? Double YES. If it’s a repeated offense!

Good morning :)

Into the Light

October 16th, 2012
9:35 am

:shock:
Leggs, can I have half your cookie? I missed breakfast.

@Stamps: Ek-zachery!

I used to be here before

October 16th, 2012
9:35 am

I concur with Black Foote

Into the Light

October 16th, 2012
9:37 am

@BF: Exactly!!! Now here, lie down and let Mommy ITL put a cool cloth on your head and tuck you in…… :)

disco

October 16th, 2012
9:39 am

good morning. first I didn’t realize there was a sick test. lol. I laugh at the sick test. possibly because I’ve already failed it a time or two. I’m not a nurturer and barring something serious (to me serious means surgery, broken bones, organ failure, etc.) I’m not sweating a sick man. a grown man with a cold needs to deal with it and leave me out of it.

guess I’ll actually go and read posts now. sick test. that’s crazy.

Comon Cents

October 16th, 2012
9:39 am

LOL @ ITL. I missed breakfast too. Can we split that cookie three ways? :lol:

Single and Happier "Life is simple, if you stop making it so complicated!"

October 16th, 2012
9:40 am

ITL, you remind me of the nurses in the hospital, “Wake up Mr. Stamps, time to take your blood pressure,” is it morning already “no it’s midnight we have to take your BP at shift change” go away (LOL)

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

October 16th, 2012
9:40 am

Hye Lady’s thanks in advance if I were to get sick I know I’d be well taken care of……….LOL

Comon Cents

October 16th, 2012
9:40 am

Good Morning, disco! How did I know that would be your response to a sick test? :lol: Great minds think alike…

Single and Happier "Life is simple, if you stop making it so complicated!"

October 16th, 2012
9:41 am

Disco, thought about you when I saw the sick test, knew you wouldn’t pass that one (LOL)

Into the Light

October 16th, 2012
9:42 am

Dang, CC! You gonna want a third of the coffee, too???? LOL

@Stamps: Ouch. :( I’m not that bad.

Single and Happier "Life is simple, if you stop making it so complicated!"

October 16th, 2012
9:43 am

“On a serious note, I tend to fall into the “mother hen” category when an SO is sick. Making sure he has the right medicine, making him soup, getttng his comfy socks and pjs, etc, etc. But I don’t think it’s wrong for this woman to not want to expose herself to the flu/cold, etc. What I think is wrong is him assuming that she’s flawed because of her decision.”

ITL, oh yes you are!! (LOL)

Into the Light

October 16th, 2012
9:44 am

LOL@BF’s 9:40.

BF: disco, I’m sick.
d: Awww, BF, that’s too bad.
BF: I really feel terrible.
d: You need some chicken soup.
BF: that sounds wonderful.
d: Good! while you’re at Chick-fil-A getting it, pick me up some waffle fries.

:lol: :lol: :lol:

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

October 16th, 2012
9:46 am

Leggs take those gloves off……..LOL

LOL……..@disco I knew you coming with that. What joker got a cold he better go make his own soup……….LOL

I used to be here before

October 16th, 2012
9:46 am

so let’s say she passed the sick test.
You know, showed up front and center complete with the candy striper nurse outfit and all kinds of remedy’s to make his illness go away. Things like soup, meds, favorite snacks, fluffs pillow, etc… and then a week later she’s dumped over some BS.
Is the test really worth it or necessary?

I mean , most mean with a pulse put you in two categories within 15 minutes of meeting you
Wife or Garden tool.

Any additional tests after that are pretty unnecesary

Into the Light

October 16th, 2012
9:46 am

@Stamps: Okay….so maybe when it’s all typed out it comes across as hovering. But it really doesn’t seem that way in real life….

disco

October 16th, 2012
9:48 am

S/H and comon – yep. been there done that. it’s so not cute. big A, darned near 300 pound man whining like a 6 year old. gtfoh with that mess. I was straight like “call me when you feel better”. when dude did feel better he called complaining that I wasn’t there for him. whatever trevor.

Single and Happier "Life is simple, if you stop making it so complicated!"

October 16th, 2012
9:48 am

Used to be, 15 mins wow

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

October 16th, 2012
9:50 am

LOL……@Light yes that’s it I know, disco will have me up in Chic-fil-a buying my own soup.

Into the Light

October 16th, 2012
9:50 am

@disco: I ordered Divided Sisters this morning. Should be here Thursday.

I used to be here before

October 16th, 2012
9:51 am

ALOL @ ITL’s script

I used to be here before

October 16th, 2012
9:52 am

typo: meant to say men

Single and Happier "Life is simple, if you stop making it so complicated!"

October 16th, 2012
9:52 am

ITL, it never seems that way the the hoverer (LOL)

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

October 16th, 2012
9:54 am

I used to be here before: your post are familiar, you make me think of Moses when he met God at the burning bush. And God replied I Am What I Am.

I used to be here before

October 16th, 2012
9:58 am

Blackfoote- did you go by a different moniker years ago? I do not know you.

Comon Cents

October 16th, 2012
10:02 am

O/T~ I had to put on my poker face at the grocery store this morning. I was in the express lane with 16 items. In my defense, there was no one in the line when I went there, but as SOON as I got over there, 2 people came behind me that had like 1-2 things.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

October 16th, 2012
10:02 am

No maam I’ve always been Blackfoote.

Robert

October 16th, 2012
10:03 am

Off Subject – Is anybody watching the Presidential Debate tonite?

In the 1st debate President Obama used the ropes and allowed Romney to punch himself out. This “strategy” is known as “Rope-A-Dope”. During the 2nd debate President Obama will “float like a butterfly and sting like a bee” knocking Mr. Romney and the GOP right out the ring. Does anybody on this site remember Ali-Forman? History will repeat itself again…….

I used to be here before

October 16th, 2012
10:04 am

Romney and Obama are one of the same.
Folks really need to take their blinders off and stop following like sheep

Into the Light

October 16th, 2012
10:04 am

What is ALOL?????

@BF: And when Olive Oyl met Popeye, he said, “I yam what I yam and that’s all that I yam!” :lol:

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

October 16th, 2012
10:05 am

Comon I usually give way to people with fewer items that I have, only like you said if they have 1 or 2 items. People do it for me I just return the favor.

Into the Light

October 16th, 2012
10:07 am

ITL, it never seems that way the the hoverer (LOL)

Well dang, Stamps. I guess it’s a good thing that we’re on Love Connection. You’d have to choose another woman when Chuck came back in 2 and 2.

Into the Light

October 16th, 2012
10:07 am

*not on Love Connection

Into the Light

October 16th, 2012
10:08 am

disco!!!!!!! where are you?

Comon Cents

October 16th, 2012
10:11 am

BF~ I would have done that, but the cashier had already started scanning me. :(

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

October 16th, 2012
10:11 am

Robert I can hardly wait to watch this next bout. I like Romney as a person per se but not as POTUS, don’t care about his tax returns what makes me leary of him is his lack of talking specifics. Most people already know what his specifics are he’s not saying and holding on to them.

disco

October 16th, 2012
10:13 am

I’se here ITL, I’se here. lol. what’s up?

czBrat ♀ ♫•*¨*•Liviiing Singllle•*¨*•♫♪

October 16th, 2012
10:13 am

Have you ever second-guessed your dating relationship after seeing something that would probably be too hard to deal with in a marriage?
absolutely! s/o’s jealousy and need for constant companionship and communication is the one thing that tries my patience more than any other. i cringe every time i think about living with that on a daily basis.

i am not a fan of either party being “tested”. personally, i’m not going to be AS great a gf as i am a wife. nor would i hold a bf to QUITE the same expectation as my hubs.

there. i’ve said my piece. now lemme see what everybody else is saying.

morning, all!

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

October 16th, 2012
10:15 am

LOL……@10:04 I loved watching Popeye, the one that got the most laughs to me was the Sea Hag. Whew I’m cracking thinking about her.

Single and Happier "Life is simple, if you stop making it so complicated!"

October 16th, 2012
10:16 am

Use to be, I can’t believe you said that (agreeing with you) but don’t believe you stated it (LOL)

Single and Happier "Life is simple, if you stop making it so complicated!"

October 16th, 2012
10:17 am

Comon, how many items was this express lane, most are 20 now

Comon Cents

October 16th, 2012
10:18 am

Not watching the debate because I have already decided where my vote will be cast. I never understood the purpose of the debates. Realistically, the people who watch them have already decided who they are going to vote for and the people who are undecided don’t tend to watch debates. My only guess is that they are for entertainment value.

Into the Light

October 16th, 2012
10:18 am

@disco: I thought of you last night. I was watching a profile of Ed Gein on the Bio channel. He was a grave robber and serial killer (in the 1950s) who made “clothing” from his victims’ body parts. Turns out, he was the inspiration for Leatherface in the Texas Chainsaw Massacre and Buffalo Bill in Silence of the Lambs. Interesting, no?

Did you see my post that I had ordered Divided Sisters?

Bluzgirl

October 16th, 2012
10:18 am

Sick test…wow…that’s one of the dumbest things I’ve heard. Maybe chick has a lot going on and can’t afford to get sick. If we are serious, I may bring you some things and will check on you often, but I’ll probably drop stuff and run. I’m one who doesn’t have time to get sick. If it’s the flu, I ain’t taking a chance either. I have asthma and if I get the flu or bronchitis, there is a chance I will end up in the hospital. I would hope dude would understand that…

Single and Happier "Life is simple, if you stop making it so complicated!"

October 16th, 2012
10:18 am

Black I see people posting a fussing about his percentage on his tax returns, but when you ask most they don’t even know what theirs was, they just guestimate!! SMDH

Comon Cents

October 16th, 2012
10:19 am

S/H~ It was 15 items or less.

I used to be here before

October 16th, 2012
10:19 am

Yes single, I said it
what a lot of peole do not realize it that the people that pumped money into Romney and Obama decide who becomes president. Not the average voter.

If you dig deep and research Obama’s and Romney’s policies- they are one in the same.

Comon Cents

October 16th, 2012
10:20 am

S/H~ My issue with the tax rreturn thing is that we are quabbling over small numbers. Romney paid 13% and Obama paid 19%, I believe. Either way, both of them made a Hell of a lot more money than anyone on this blog and paid less taxes on their money. IJS…

Comon Cents

October 16th, 2012
10:22 am

I mean, both Romeny and Obamas secretaries paid more in taxes than their bosses. That’s a helluva statement right there…

Into the Light

October 16th, 2012
10:22 am

I won’t be watching the debate. I don’t need or want to. I’ve already decided who I’ll be voting for, and the bickering and finger-pointing and name-calling gets old.

Robert

October 16th, 2012
10:22 am

@Blackfoote – It really amazes me when a select few can dictate the outcome of any event (Polls, newspapers, etc.). Clearly, President Obama’s “strategy” is to lure Mr. Romney into the center of the ring and knock him out. If the GOP was the WBC or WBO Romney would be a journey man boxer and not ranked in the top 10. Just remember Romney was not the GOP favorite. Palin, Cain, etc., were the early favorites but where exposed for their lifestyle choices.

Are You Ready To Rumble!!!!!…..

MJ

October 16th, 2012
10:23 am

Single and Happier "Life is simple, if you stop making it so complicated!"

October 16th, 2012
10:23 am

Comon, do most even know what they paid? My thing is find out what you paid before you start fussing.

Button

October 16th, 2012
10:23 am

Blackfoote @9:54 correction: it is I am that I am.

Into the Light

October 16th, 2012
10:23 am

I used to be here before

October 16th, 2012
10:24 am

how many of you guys know about new world order?

Single and Happier "Life is simple, if you stop making it so complicated!"

October 16th, 2012
10:24 am

Comon in all reality, what does what you pay on your taxes have to do with me and mine? I have to admit, I did pay less then Romney, so now does that make me a bad person??

Bluzgirl

October 16th, 2012
10:25 am

I don’t typically get into my political beliefs in a public forum. For me, choosing the lesser of two evils is still evil. I’m going 3rd party…

Single and Happier "Life is simple, if you stop making it so complicated!"

October 16th, 2012
10:26 am

As for the candidates, I don’t watch anything political, get tired of hearing all the lies!!

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

October 16th, 2012
10:26 am

Single exactly when you’re paying taxes you want to pay as little as possible I don’t blame the man for that because that’s what we all try to do.

SlimNu

October 16th, 2012
10:26 am

nowadays most people come to expect things when you do them, the problem is they don’t do them in return

SH – SHAZAM!

I remember a while ago, the beau had a little fender bender in a parking lot. He called me as I was on my way home (Conyers) and of course I was concerned and glad that it was minor with minimal damage to his car. However, don’t you know he copped an attitude with me that I didn’t come over to his house later on? He never once said he was shook up or feeling some kind of way about the accident so how or why do I get the cold shoulder the next day. The reason I knew it had to be related was when I texted him the next morning to see how he was feeling or even if he was sore, the response I got was, “Why do you care?” :shock:

Single and Happier "Life is simple, if you stop making it so complicated!"

October 16th, 2012
10:27 am

NWO didn’t they put the WCW out of business for the WWE (LOL)

Bluzgirl

October 16th, 2012
10:27 am

I certainly did enjoy the VP debate…it was quite comical! I won’t be watching tonight’s debate, though. I’ll probably pick a scary movie to watch.

Single and Happier "Life is simple, if you stop making it so complicated!"

October 16th, 2012
10:28 am

Slim why did he even call you?? (man up)

I used to be here before

October 16th, 2012
10:28 am

that awkward moment when you are hiding at your desk- laying low not becuase your hair is all messed up but becausee you don’t want to be introduced to the new person because your ahir is messed up while playing monopoly online :lol:

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

October 16th, 2012
10:32 am

Hey Button, thanks that makes better sense. I need to read more that’s for sure, but I can’t get my head out of the football game.

i'm swiss

October 16th, 2012
10:32 am

Morning, folks.

On topic: “Do awful girlfriends make awful wives?” Uh, yeah. Duh. And on the subject of tests, let’s be real — dating is a test in itself. What is dating other that trying to figure out if this is a person you’d want to be with permanently? In Diva’s example, it’s not like dude made up some fictional circumstance to see how chick would react. He got sick. He observed her behavior. Period. Now, he probably needs his man card suspended for being a whiny little b!tch, but he apparently wants to be babied and he simply observed that this chick isn’t having it. If he decides she’s not for him because of that, what’s the problem?

disco

October 16th, 2012
10:33 am

ITL – yep. keep me posted as you read the book. re the serial killer I think I’ve mentioned that I’m giving my serial killer props to H.H. Holmes.

czBrat ♀ ♫•*¨*•Liviiing Singllle•*¨*•♫♪

October 16th, 2012
10:34 am

just my luck to catch-up at politics.

anywho, disco, ma’am, you are true to yourself and never disappoint when it comes to making me giggle.

Single and Happier "Life is simple, if you stop making it so complicated!"

October 16th, 2012
10:34 am

Swiss now admit it, if they suspended man cards for that, there wouldn’t be many of us left (LOL)

Leggs

October 16th, 2012
10:35 am

Good morning. Forgot it was Boss’ Day and had to run to Publix for a dang balloon.

SlimNu ~ so glad you liked my EOD! Much love

Hey, Comon.

disco ~ I can’t wait for my books to arrive. I’m jumping on Cane River first thing!

“I used to be here before: your post are familiar,” – That’s all I was saying. Now BF, watch it.

disco

October 16th, 2012
10:37 am

leggs – wait. you haven’t read cane river before? I just assumed that you were simply asking about it or maybe re-reading it.

Button

October 16th, 2012
10:38 am

I used to be: I think the new world order is when they will insert a chip in your arm? in order to buy goods and keep track of people. Am I close? From what I’ve been hearing it will start March 2013.

MJ

October 16th, 2012
10:38 am

Signs of the times and the Anti-Christ

Into the Light

October 16th, 2012
10:39 am

@Slim: DANG! So did you have to use a jack or a crane to get his bottom lip off the floor???? :wink:

@disco: It’s a bio worth watching, for sure. I’ll admit, though, that the pics of Leatherface creep me out.

Single and Happier "Life is simple, if you stop making it so complicated!"

October 16th, 2012
10:41 am

MJ, how many antichrist have there been and are still out there? it all depends on who you talk to, because these days most everyone follows someone!!

Button

October 16th, 2012
10:43 am

When you take your vow in marriage you say in sickness and health. I know this is about dating. imj

Button

October 16th, 2012
10:45 am

QUESTION: I’m looking for some cute clip on earrings. Anybody know where I can find some? I snagged my left ear Sunday while taking off my top.

Single and Happier "Life is simple, if you stop making it so complicated!"

October 16th, 2012
10:45 am

Button, that means I’ll stay with you, not that I’m going to baby yo ass cause you got a runny nose!!

Leggs

October 16th, 2012
10:45 am

disco ~ nope, guess I’ve been behind the 8ball on that one. I just heard about it last week.

Button

October 16th, 2012
10:46 am

lol @ Single

Leggs

October 16th, 2012
10:48 am

Button ~ depends on how much you want to spend. Must beauty supply stores have clipons.

Hey, has any of you heard about Bocce Ball? The entire company is closing this afternoon to go play and I forgot. I have on a dress and heels (as usual). I do have my gym clothes with me, but only have teeshirt and sneaks. Forgot my pants. Whew, what a morning. Guess I’m playing Bocce Ball in a long dress wearing sneaks.

disco

October 16th, 2012
10:49 am

button – re that “in sickness and in health” portion of the vow. were you around when I had to call it quits with a guy I’d met because he just seemed to have too much wrong with him? sleep apnea, carpal tunnel, pinched nerves, severe allergies, workers’ comp injuries. you name it, he had it. I was like oh heck naw. lol. I rarely get sick. I’m talking like a cold every 8 or 9 years. I don’t have time for someone who is constantly ailing.

leggs – wow. cane river is about 10 years old or so. I remember because I bought a paperback copy in the Cleveland airport. remember yesterday I said I was hardpressed to pay “newsstand” prices? lol. it’s a very good book though. you’ll definitely be caught up in it.

i'm swiss

October 16th, 2012
10:50 am

S/H — You’re probably right, but it wouldn’t be me… I hate being doted over, especially when I’m sick and/or hurt. I’ve had past GFs get mad at me for not letting them baby me after surgeries, etc.

Bluzgirl

October 16th, 2012
10:50 am

Leggs – I’ve played Bocce Ball on the beach. Nice that the company is closing for that! I wish they would do stuff like that here!

I used to be here before

October 16th, 2012
10:51 am

Button: New world order started a long time ago.

Take a long at the coins that are used for entering the subway in New York back in the late 90’s. The pyramid in the middle represents illuminati.

Part of forced healthcare and a microchip for coverage is under Obama’s plan
Scanning your handprint for school lunches currently exists in Maryland

I used to be here before

October 16th, 2012
10:52 am

The Obama health care bill under Sec. 2521, page 1,000 will establish a National Medical Device Registry. What does a National Medical Device Registry mean?

National Medical Device Registry from H.R. 3200 [Healthcare Bill], pages 1,001-1,008:
(g)(1) The Secretary shall establish a national medical device registry (in this subsection referred to as the ‘registry’) to facilitate analysis of postmarket safety and outcomes data on each device that— ‘‘(A) is or has been used in or on a patient; ‘‘(B)and is— ‘‘(i) a class III device; or ‘‘(ii) a class II device that is implantable, life-supporting, or life-sustaining.”

Button

October 16th, 2012
10:53 am

Being an older woman while I was dating I stayed clear of men with health issues. A simple cold or flu I can handle but, other things like high blood pressure, diabetes, high cholestoral and such is a heavy burden to take on while dating because of the constant reminder of all the limits that person has especially when it comes to eating and stress level. I know most of the above listed is not subjected to just older folks.

i'm swiss

October 16th, 2012
10:53 am

Single and Happier "Life is simple, if you stop making it so complicated!"

October 16th, 2012
10:53 am

Swiss, same here, I just want to sleep, leave me alone!! I had one girl friend that made me some soup when I was sick and she said she couldn’t stay when she dropped it off. she could left it at front door for all I cared (LOL) I just wanted the soup.

Into the Light

October 16th, 2012
10:56 am

Soooooooo, did I mention that I’m going to a midnight showing of a live-stage production of the RHPS? Can’t wait! :)

Comon Cents

October 16th, 2012
10:56 am

This issue with Obama and Romney only paying so little is that they are constantly raising the taxes on people who make less money than them. If we went to a flat tax or fair tax system, I wouldn’t care how much anyone else made. But when people are paying up to 45% and making exponetially less than the people who are paying 13-19%, that’s an issue.

By no means am I saying that people who make more should pay more; I don’t believe that. But a flat tax would make everyone pay their fair share.

Button

October 16th, 2012
10:56 am

wow Disco: I don’t recall that post @ your guy. I must say that is a heck of a lot to deal with. Most people hide there sickness to avoid being dumped. Sad.

Single and Happier "Life is simple, if you stop making it so complicated!"

October 16th, 2012
10:57 am

used to be here, are you one of those conspiracy theorist

MJ

October 16th, 2012
10:57 am

I think it was here, while lurking a few months ago that someone mentioned Bocce Ball. That was the first I’d heard of it. Think he said he would own someone at that sport. I lurk several blogs. Maybe it was another. No, I’m sure it was here.

Bluzgirl

October 16th, 2012
10:57 am

ITL – I’ve always wanted to do that!!! Where are you going to see it?

Button

October 16th, 2012
10:59 am

I used to: oh yeah the illuminate. The signs are all around us. The number 13 is very well used across the country in company’s logos.

Single and Happier "Life is simple, if you stop making it so complicated!"

October 16th, 2012
11:00 am

Leggs, what do they do if you don’t want to play?

Into the Light

October 16th, 2012
11:00 am

@Bluz: On the square in Marietta. Email me if you’re interested.

Button

October 16th, 2012
11:00 am

Thanks Leggs I’m going to check them out.

i'm swiss

October 16th, 2012
11:00 am

Comon — A flat tax could only truly be fair if baseline, essential living expenses also operated as a percentage of your income. But, of course, they don’t. So, someone who’s spending every penny they earn just to put a very basic roof over their head and food on their table feels that 10% (or 15% or whatever) tax rate exponentially more that someone making millions, who can afford to provide for themselves very comfortably and still have plenty of disposable cash left over after the basic needs are met (and exceeded).

Bluzgirl

October 16th, 2012
11:01 am

CC – I’m with you 100% on the flat tax. I don’t see it ever happening, though…

I used to be here before

October 16th, 2012
11:03 am

not a conspiracy theorist, just a realist

SlimNu

October 16th, 2012
11:04 am

SH/ITL – He called me while he was waiting for the police but I didn’t know i was supposed to run over there for a fender bender. If that was a test then I failed. I think I failed another one yesterday too lol

Single and Happier "Life is simple, if you stop making it so complicated!"

October 16th, 2012
11:05 am

Swiss with you on that, it’s just like getting a flat raise at work, someone is still unhappy. If it’s a percentage raise the people on the low end are unhappy because the people on the high end got more of a amount. if it’s a set amount the people on the high end are upset because the people on the low end got more of a percentage. Now matter what you do, you will never ever make everyone happy!!

Leggs

October 16th, 2012
11:06 am

disco ~ I figured the book was old. I don’t recall reading it back when I was an avid reader.

Into the Light

October 16th, 2012
11:06 am

@Slim: I was joking, bc I thought the “Why do you care?” was a little over-the-top passive aggressive. But, maybe it’s just me…..

Uh oh. Do tell. What had happened yesterday????

I used to be here before

October 16th, 2012
11:07 am

yep- illuminati all around and this year has been bolder than any other year.
research the role the FBI played in giving Holmes guns for the shooting in
Colorado , Want to know the real reason why Obama wants tougher gun laws? So that when it is time to control the population to get the mark, only the government will have access to guns.

Into the Light

October 16th, 2012
11:08 am

I’m going to a luncheon with a friend who is receiving an award. Yay!

Leggs

October 16th, 2012
11:08 am

Button ~ I feel the same as you do in your 10:53. Men my age are stricken with gout, diabeties, need for the blue pill, etc., breating issues, etc. I want to date, not be someone’s care giver. Now, growing old with someone and we take care of each other is something else. I just don’t want to jump into that role right out the gate.

Leggs

October 16th, 2012
11:09 am

Single ~ if you don’t want to play you can still eat the lunch and sit around and talk with others who may not be playing then go home. So, in 30-40 mins, I’m going to “attempt” to play some Italian bowling.

DuShawn

October 16th, 2012
11:10 am

I agree with -swiss’- 10:32 comment completely, tests in broadest sense of the word, are merely performance evaluations. Now, if one purposely orchestrates a situation to see someone’s reaction, that’s a little weird. When wifey was my girlfriend, I somehow contracted Chicken Pox. I was in my early thirties and that sh&t had me f*cked up.
I looked like half oatmeal cookie half elephant man. I didn’t want anyone to see me. She stayed at my crib and rubbed the medicated lotion on my bumps and nursed me back. She drew the line at kissing though. She would kiss her hand and blow it to me like Gina did Martin on the episode when Hit Man Hearns uglied him up.

I used to be here before

October 16th, 2012
11:10 am

need for the blue pill :shock:
does that mean when I’m in my 70’s, the dude will need a blue pill to rock my world :shock:

Single and Happier "Life is simple, if you stop making it so complicated!"

October 16th, 2012
11:11 am

Leggs, buttons, what about all the women issues!! at the top of the list those crazy ass mood swings!!

Into the Light

October 16th, 2012
11:11 am

Fame, Fame, fatal Fame
It can play hideous tricks on the brain
But still I’d rather be Famous
Than righteous or holy, any day
Any day, any day
But sometimes I’d feel more fulfilled
Making Christmas cards with the mentally ill
I want to live and I want to Love
I want to catch something that I might be ashamed of

I used to be here before

October 16th, 2012
11:12 am

I wonder what effect blue pill has on guys my age and younger.
I heard of a guy younger than me that takes the blue pill on the regular.

I wonder what will happen to his unit when he’s an old man

SlimNu

October 16th, 2012
11:12 am

ITL – I was very much passive-aggressive with less passiveness and more aggression lol

I used to be here before

October 16th, 2012
11:13 am

ugh…somebody’s nail polish remover is making me high :mrgreen:

Comon Cents

October 16th, 2012
11:13 am

swiss~ While I don’t disagree with your post per se, the issue becomes that the more ou make the more you pay. Therefore, society is punishing you for being successful. Because you CHOSE to make good decisions and you CHOOSE to go to work everyday, you should pay for people who are not making the same sacrifices you are. We are going to mess around and tax the middle class out of exisitence.

i'm swiss

October 16th, 2012
11:14 am

S/H — That’s just it, it shouldn’t be about what makes people happy or even what’s “fair.” It should be about what is the best economic policy for the country. Everybody always wants to decry any “redistribution of wealth” but the reality is that the free market, itself, facilitates redistribution of wealth — to the top. When you have money, free market forces are heavily weighted in your favor to make more money. If you want to avoid the trend we’ve been experiencing here since the 80s — a smaller & smaller percentage of the population controlling a larger and larger percentage of the wealth, a growing under class and a shrinking middle class — there must be some policies in place to counter the free market flow of money to the top.

Single and Happier "Life is simple, if you stop making it so complicated!"

October 16th, 2012
11:14 am

Also Leggs, Button, why do you guys feel you have to be their caregiver? I mean really what you can you do for them that they cannot do for themselves?

Sassy Me...PYT ;-)

October 16th, 2012
11:14 am

On a serious note, I tend to fall into the “mother hen” category when an SO is sick.

Me,too. I mean if we’re in a serious relationship then yeah I will take care of my man but if we’re just “kickin it”…then I might pass through and see about you and drop of some juice n food but don’t look for much else. Don’t judge me…

disco

October 16th, 2012
11:15 am

dushawn – chicken pox on grown folks is no joke. ugggh. yeah. you married the right one. lol.

Single and Happier "Life is simple, if you stop making it so complicated!"

October 16th, 2012
11:16 am

Comon, but isn’t that the way we’ve always been told, you should help those less fortunate than you! IJS

Leggs

October 16th, 2012
11:16 am

when Hit Man Hearns uglied him up. – I don’t think I’ve ever laughed so hard as to when he showed his face with all those lumps. I mean I was crying.

Into the Light

October 16th, 2012
11:16 am

LOL@Slim. I meant HE was being passive aggressive. And that PA mess irks me. Just say what you want to say!!! :)

Into the Light

October 16th, 2012
11:17 am

Okay, I’m off like a prom dress.

Y’all be sweet…..

Leggs

October 16th, 2012
11:18 am

Single ~ you probably have a point. It’s just that the 3 I know with those issues are constantly complaining, going to doctors, whining. I just have a bad picture in my mind of men in their late 50’s falling apart.

Comon Cents

October 16th, 2012
11:19 am

swiss~ There are only two occasions when someone uses the phrase “too much money” and those times would be wen they A) have to pay that money out or B) they are talking about how much money someone else makes. No one ever says “Wow! I make too much money!” But, what we have to remember is that everything is relative. Someone else may think you make too much money and want to “redistribute” what you have. Don’t think you would be too keen on that idea, would you?

Single and Happier "Life is simple, if you stop making it so complicated!"

October 16th, 2012
11:20 am

Leggs, those are the ones that need there man card revoked, it’s life it happens, you deal with it and move on!! I don’t want to be with any one that constantly complains about anything!!

Robert

October 16th, 2012
11:21 am

@Button – “other things like high blood pressure, diabetes, high cholestoral and such is a heavy burden to take on ”

If your man is over 40 he should be on the “preventive healthcare plan” especially if he is a Black American or Hispanic. By starting early in you can control things like high blood pressure, diabetes, high cholestoral. Please ask your Man to talk to his doctor. His family may have a history of these diseases that can be prevented if they are caught in time.

disco

October 16th, 2012
11:21 am

O/T – any of you attending any grown folks’ Halloween parties this year? if so, are you dressing up?

SlimNu

October 16th, 2012
11:21 am

ITL – I know what you meant and thats the exact same way I feel. How are you going to cop an attitude with me because YOU failed to open your damn mouth and say how you were feeling or at least that you wanted to see me? I never once claimed to be a psychic, medium, palm reader, mind reader, tarot card reader or related to Miss Cleo. :roll:

Single and Happier "Life is simple, if you stop making it so complicated!"

October 16th, 2012
11:22 am

Comon when it comes to Child support you can make too much money when they want to take it, and not enough when they finally get it (LOL)

Comon Cents

October 16th, 2012
11:22 am

S/H~ I don’t have a problem with helping those less fortunate than me if it’s MY choice. However, I don’t want anyone coming in and mandating how I spend my money.

Single and Happier "Life is simple, if you stop making it so complicated!"

October 16th, 2012
11:23 am

Comon what is less fortunate?

czBrat ♀ ♫•*¨*•Liviiing Singllle•*¨*•♫♪

October 16th, 2012
11:24 am

Men my age are stricken with gout, diabeties, need for the blue pill, etc., breating issues, etc.
oh stop! men “your age” should not be in need of replacement parts already. unless they’ve lived a lifetime of not taking care of themselves. that’s a shame.

I heard of a guy younger than me that takes the blue pill on the regular.
that dude is just lazy.

Button

October 16th, 2012
11:24 am

At some point the blue pill will stop working, then what? a pump? an inserted bendable rod?

Sassy Me...PYT ;-)

October 16th, 2012
11:24 am

I see we’ve got Bitter Bobby(with the house full of cats) in the house spreading their usual cheer… :???:

i'm swiss

October 16th, 2012
11:25 am

Comon — My money is already being redistributed, at a much higher rate than truly wealthy people, I might add, because the majority of my income comes from wages. And I’m fine with what I pay, because I don’t want to live in a 3rd world country, where a few people control all the money and everybody else is poor as dirt. That’s the direction we’re trending in with this whole “trickle down” economic philosophy.

Single and Happier "Life is simple, if you stop making it so complicated!"

October 16th, 2012
11:26 am

Button, no offense, but when the little blue pill stops working, you will be dried up anyway (LOL) don’t forget women have issues also.

Comon Cents

October 16th, 2012
11:26 am

S/H~ Your term (I just re-used it) so you tell me.

Leggs

October 16th, 2012
11:26 am

Single ~ I agree. Man up, stop acting like a wussy p u s s y!

Sassy Me...PYT ;-)

October 16th, 2012
11:26 am

I heard of a guy younger than me that takes the blue pill on the regular.

Actually he’s not being lazy…it’s the opposite. He’s being greedy…what they’re thinking is they can have a hard on for hours and stroke all the kitty they want.

Comon Cents

October 16th, 2012
11:27 am

swiss~ Trickle up economics don’t work either. So what’s your solution?

Button

October 16th, 2012
11:28 am

Black my man don’t have those problems, he’s a health nut. But I do know what you mean. Some things are genetics though, what can you do? I know a lady who had a complete hysterectomy to avoid getting cervical cancer because it ran in her family. Her mother, grandmother, aunts all died from it.

Leggs

October 16th, 2012
11:28 am

czB ~ you’re right if they’re my age they haven’t been taking care of themselves. Really didn’t mean to say “men MY AGE,” but rather man a little older than me. I know of 4 who are 56, 58, and 2 are 59 acting like they’re invalids.

Single and Happier "Life is simple, if you stop making it so complicated!"

October 16th, 2012
11:28 am

comon, I used it because that’s what we’ve always been told, when i talk to those supposedly less fortunate than me they were willing to do the thing I did to get to where I am. so is that my fault, am I supposed to feel sorry for you, I think not!!

Comon Cents

October 16th, 2012
11:28 am

Sassy~ Eggs-zachery!

Leggs

October 16th, 2012
11:29 am

Enjoy the rest of the day. I’m going to play on the company’s dime.

Single and Happier "Life is simple, if you stop making it so complicated!"

October 16th, 2012
11:30 am

Sassy when I was young I could have hard on for hours, even had to tell a few just because it was still up didn’t mean I was still up for it (LOL) I don’t understand these younger guys who are doing these things.

Button

October 16th, 2012
11:31 am

Lollll Single you’s a bad man for saying that! plus I’ve got a lot of juice stored away. Take care of your health, eat right, stay away from those awful meat and infuse more live food in your diet. It does a body good!

Robert

October 16th, 2012
11:33 am

On topic: “Do awful girlfriends make awful wives?”

“Freaks” make the best girlfriends and wives. It does not matter how many kids she has, where she lives or much money she makes. The only thing that matters is we share a common goal to be happy. I crave passion and desire. I want a “lady in the streets and a Freak in my sheets” .

Most marriages end because the Woman forgot how to be a “freak” and the Man lost his passion and desire for her. Don’t let that happen to your relationship. Laides, be a “freak” with your husband all the time, especially if he is not expecting something “freaky” today. You just might be surprised by his “freakyness” for you.

SlimNu

October 16th, 2012
11:33 am

SH – Yeah I’m with you on the extending hard on’s…i mean after a while, are you even feeling anything anymore? Seems to me that it would get rubbed raw and you’d wind up with a skinless, numb weenie. Plus who wants a scabbed up dizzle scarring up their sugar walls?

Comon Cents

October 16th, 2012
11:37 am

S/H~ I agree. Everyone wants to take it down to dollars and cents, but it’s not that simple. No one else gave up the hours and time away from their family to get where I have gotten except me. Literally, when I was in law school, when I dropped my son off in the morning, he was sleeping and when I picked him up in the evenings, he was sleeping. I made a lot of sacrifices to get to the level I’ve gotten to and I don’t think I should have to support people who chose not to make those same sacrifices. JMO

Button

October 16th, 2012
11:37 am

uuuh huh @ Robert

i'm swiss

October 16th, 2012
11:37 am

“Trickle up economics don’t work either.”

Comon — Technically, what is supposed to be “trickle down” is really “trickle up” because that’s where all the money goes, but that’s beside the point. But, actually, to the contrary, when lower and middle class people have more money in their pockets, you know what happens? They spend it. At a much higher rate, actually, than the wealthy do when they get extra cash handed to them. The more they spend, the more demand increases for goods and services. The more demand for goods and services increase, the more jobs are created. The more jobs are created, the more lower & middle class people have money to spend, And on, and on, and on. And guess who also benefits from all this added economic activity? The wealthy, who own and invest in the businesses whose profits are increasing.

Single and Happier "Life is simple, if you stop making it so complicated!"

October 16th, 2012
11:39 am

Button

October 16th, 2012
11:39 am

Common we all make sacrifices.

I used to be here before

October 16th, 2012
11:40 am

I wonder if her husband needs the blue pill to keep up

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eae3_LDysY8

I used to be here before

October 16th, 2012
11:43 am

Scary…Robert is right

Single and Happier "Life is simple, if you stop making it so complicated!"

October 16th, 2012
11:43 am

Swiss the problem is that what got this country out of the great depression was industry! we don’t want that now, every one needs a white collar job, but everyone doesn’t have mindset or the education to have those. you have to have something for the ones that would never make it in any kind of educational institution to do. and McDonald’s aint it!! you’re right, right now all we have is the rich getting richer and the poor are getting poorer.

Button

October 16th, 2012
11:44 am

Can a man really handle a freak though?

Single and Happier "Life is simple, if you stop making it so complicated!"

October 16th, 2012
11:44 am

Button, no we all don’t make sacrifices!!

I used to be here before

October 16th, 2012
11:46 am

See here’s the deal. Be a woman of GOD while you are dating your man.
Once you all get married- you can be his freak

Single and Happier "Life is simple, if you stop making it so complicated!"

October 16th, 2012
11:46 am

Button, some of us can handle a freak, some of what Robert said was right, but it’s not just to woman’s job to keep it freaky, they both should keep it freaky. (don’t believe I agreed with Robert) (LOL)

Button

October 16th, 2012
11:48 am

Sassy a man cannot stay hard for hours, it would kill him.

I used to be here before

October 16th, 2012
11:49 am

Here’s the deal. Most of the time, it’s the guy that has to do the work to get action.
Men like to feel appreciated and desired.
They love it when their woman takes the lead and surprises them with freakiness

Bluzgirl

October 16th, 2012
11:49 am

disco – I’m waiting to see if any of my friends are throwing a Halloween party. I love to dress up, but haven’t even thought about what I may do this year…

I used to be here before

October 16th, 2012
11:50 am

<—–does not celebrate that Halloween pagan holiday

DuShawn

October 16th, 2012
11:50 am

I’m surprised Robert didn’t post a list/rules for freaks.

Sassy Me...PYT ;-)

October 16th, 2012
11:50 am

Seems to me that it would get rubbed raw and you’d wind up with a skinless, numb weenie.

:lol: :lol:

Robert

October 16th, 2012
11:50 am

@im swiss – “It should be about what is the best economic policy for the country.”

Unfortunity the State of Georgia and the majority of the southern states are not in step with the rest of the USA. For example Georgia is lagging behind because of politics (Governor, State Capital, etc.). The newly elected Governor is a crook and the State Capital is run by lobbyist who put money in the pockets of both republicans and democrats. The people of Georgia should be outraged but they continue to vote along party lines and keep the same people in office regardless of what they stand for. Until the people of Georgia elect and demand a fair and responsible government we all will suffer because of the actions of the majority (White republicans) who are still filled with hatred, fear and bigotry.

Button

October 16th, 2012
11:51 am

you must be the only man on earth that have not made a sacrifice Single I could be wrong but still, come on, you’ve never sacrificed for anything?

Sassy Me...PYT ;-)

October 16th, 2012
11:52 am

Sassy a man cannot stay hard for hours, it would kill him

Button…your homework assignment for the day is to look up the word “priapism”. M’kay?…google it.

Button

October 16th, 2012
11:52 am

Me either I used to be!!! no pagan holidays ever!

SlimNu

October 16th, 2012
11:53 am

it’s not just to woman’s job to keep it freaky, they both should keep it freaky

Worth repeating…I get tired of always hearing what the women should be doing. One person cannot carry a whole relationship nor should want to

Button

October 16th, 2012
11:53 am

will do Sassy, you so sassy lol

Sassy Me...PYT ;-)

October 16th, 2012
11:54 am

I’m surprised Robert didn’t post a list/rules for freaks

He probably has a rough draft of one he might post :lol:

So we don’t end up alone with a house full of cats n such…

I used to be here before

October 16th, 2012
11:56 am

Random: why does it take an act of GOD for my PTO time to be approved. :evil:

SlimNu

October 16th, 2012
11:56 am

Instead of “Men like to feel appreciated and desired.
They love it when their woman takes the lead and surprises them with freakiness

Let’s rephrase to “Men and women like to feel appreciated and desired.
They love it when their woman/man takes the lead and surprises them with freakiness.

Robert

October 16th, 2012
11:57 am

@Button – “Can a man really handle a freak though?”

Yes I can. Where is she? I will put her on top. Can a woman really handle a freaky man?

Comon Cents

October 16th, 2012
11:58 am

Sassy~ :lol: @ priapism. I was thinking it, but I wasn’t going there.

Button/Used To~ So I suppose you don’t celebrate Easter either?

disco

October 16th, 2012
11:59 am

bluz – I don’t generally check for Halloween but an opportunity to step out is an opportunity to step out. a local museum/cultural center is hosting a “costume optional” party. I’ve attended their events before. they are pretty cool because they have a couple of different dance floors/bars/food stations set up and you have the option of touring the galleries. sometimes they have live music in one area and a dj in another. I’m thinking about going and I’m thinking about throwing together a little something something.

Button

October 16th, 2012
12:01 pm

Sassy that’s a medical condition, nothing pleasurable about having priapism. So your homework assisgnment is to find out how long a man can stay hard for pleasure that will not need him seeking medical attention.

Button

October 16th, 2012
12:01 pm

Sassy Me...PYT ;-)

October 16th, 2012
12:01 pm

I was thinking it, but I wasn’t going there.

I didn’t see an issue with going there…I mean it’s true and obviously Button didn’t know(which is no crime)…but it does exist for both men and women.

Bluzgirl

October 16th, 2012
12:03 pm

I may even get some kind of costume just to dress up for the kids who will knock on my door! The past two years, I did the same costume and need to change it up this year. Just blanking on what. I usually procrastinate and pick something last minute!

disco – that does sound like a good time! I think you should go!

I used to be here before

October 16th, 2012
12:03 pm

no, i’m not changing my stance.

I think that if you focus on what you can do, what your role is- it is only natural that your partner will accomodate.

Comon Cents

October 16th, 2012
12:04 pm

I already know the answer to that one, Button. As a general guideline, men should seek medical attention for an erection that lasts longer than 4 hours with no *ahem* “down time” involved. Now, if he’s a three-peater, he should seek me and not medical attention. :lol:

Sassy Me...PYT ;-)

October 16th, 2012
12:05 pm

So your homework assisgnment is to find out how long a man can stay hard for pleasure that will not need him seeking medical attention.

Chile boo…been there and done that in the name of science :oops: :lol:

And the answer is “case dependent”….meaning it would depend on the people involved. If he can get it up then she’s got to put that bad boy down..somehow ;-) Go for what you know…

SlimNu

October 16th, 2012
12:05 pm

Can a woman really handle a freaky man?

Robert – Freaks, whether they are men or women are like roaches…you may not see them with the lights on, but they are always somewhere lurking…

SlimNu

October 16th, 2012
12:07 pm

“it is only natural that your partner will accomodate.”

Nope, not always the case…have heard plenty of chicks complain that their dude doesn’t reciprocate what they dish out in bed. Some men have a complex of getting down and dirty with their wifey, main chick whatever…but will rip it up with the side chick. But we can agree to disagree…Because only in a perfect world would one person’s actions be met with the same effort.

I used to be here before

October 16th, 2012
12:10 pm

<—playing volleyball with my coworker

Sassy Me...PYT ;-)

October 16th, 2012
12:10 pm

Nice post SlimNu…

I used to be here before

October 16th, 2012
12:11 pm

“Nope, not always the case…have heard plenty of chicks complain that their dude doesn’t reciprocate what they dish out in bed.”

1) A lot of times, this happens because the chick is selfish

2) They picked the wrong dude. Plain and simple

Comon Cents

October 16th, 2012
12:12 pm

Cosign on Slim’s 12:07

Comon Cents

October 16th, 2012
12:17 pm

Used to~ Sex is not the be all end all of a relationship, so if he’s great everywhere else and his only flaw is he’s not giving enough in the sack, I don’t think that means she picked the wrong dude. And how the heck does her being selfish cause him to not be able to take what she dishes out in the kip? I’m lost on that one…

I used to be here before

October 16th, 2012
12:17 pm

there’s two types of men in this world: Elite men and non elite men

Elite men can only be obtained by emotionally available women
Elite men, cater to the their women, are supportive, do not cheat, are servants of GOD, are great fathers and husbands

Non elite men will be obtained by emotionally unavailable women
Non elite men cheat, are selfish, not supportive, are not servants of GOD, are crappy fathers husbands, and do not recriprocate in the bedroom, lack ambition, use people

SlimNu

October 16th, 2012
12:18 pm

Used – And regardless of it they ‘picked the wrong dude/chick’ it still occurred that their efforts weren’t met with the same vigor. But again, we are entitled to our opinions, hence this being a blog ;-)

I used to be here before

October 16th, 2012
12:19 pm

Common- I never said it was the end all of a relationship

I used to be here before

October 16th, 2012
12:21 pm

Common- if a woman is giving her all and the man is flat lining- I doubt that is the only area in which he is flatlining in- hence she picked the wrong dude

SlimNu

October 16th, 2012
12:21 pm

CC – Your 12:17 were my exact thoughts I just didn’t feel like getting into all that. lol Lost as ever…

Comon Cents

October 16th, 2012
12:22 pm

“Nope, not always the case…have heard plenty of chicks complain that their dude doesn’t reciprocate what they dish out in bed.”

1) A lot of times, this happens because the chick is selfish

2) They picked the wrong dude. Plain and simple

Ummm… yes, you did. The only thing being discussed in that passage IS sex.

Comon Cents

October 16th, 2012
12:24 pm

UTBH~ Sometimes, people are just sexually incompatible. It’s not that everything is flat lining everywhere else, they just make lousy bed mates. So, what then?

I used to be here before

October 16th, 2012
12:24 pm

miillion dollar questions: Why do supervisors have big ego trips and have to be control freaks

kimmie

October 16th, 2012
12:24 pm

What’s up blog gang?!!

On topic – Certain benefits come with being a wife/husband. I think it’s wise that any woman be sure not to confuse her roles. I’m your girlfriend until you put a ring on it. Sure, I may bring you soup & OJ or run and pick up your prescription for you , but hang up under you and catch your flu and be the mother hen – uhm no. Might sound mean, but I knew what I was doing before I married. Like one benefit you don’t get as a boyfriend is me doing your laundry. Just won’t happen. Now if you don’t want to marry me, if I don’t pass the “test”, then that’s your loss. Cause I’m a damn good wife!

Slim – Like your 12:07

Comon Cents

October 16th, 2012
12:25 pm

I don’t get you. Because, realistically, if he were truly a “servant of God” she wouldn’t know if he was flat-lining in the kip or not because they wouldn’t be sexing until they were married. IJS…

I used to be here before

October 16th, 2012
12:25 pm

don’t ever ask my supervisor a question
If he does not like your question he will ignore your email

I hate him.

Comon Cents

October 16th, 2012
12:26 pm

Hey, kimmie! Welcome to “How to not end up alone and owning 500 cats” day on the blog.

SlimNu

October 16th, 2012
12:26 pm

if a woman is giving her all and the man is flat lining- I doubt that is the only area in which he is flatlining in- hence she picked the wrong dude

I’m throwing a flag down on this post…I know personally of a couple who have been married for at least 10yrs. The guy is a GREAT provider, GREAT father, GREAT husband but he is a little reserved in the bedroom. So that’s pretty damn near 80-90% of what the wife ever wanted. So because he doesn’t cuff her to the bed post, that means he’s the wrong guy? Your post comes off as if there are perfect people out there, without flaws, without a deficiencies or weaknesses and that just isn’t true at all.

SlimNu

October 16th, 2012
12:28 pm

Used – Just curious but do you know Bluz off the blog? (if you don’t want to answer, cool) :lol:

Comon Cents

October 16th, 2012
12:28 pm

Preach, Slim, preach! That was my point, but you said it so much better… :lol:

I used to be here before

October 16th, 2012
12:28 pm

When you have all your faith and trust in GOD- everything is perfect

I used to be here before

October 16th, 2012
12:29 pm

I don’t know Bluz

Comon Cents

October 16th, 2012
12:31 pm

When you have all your faith and trust in GOD- everything is perfect

Whoo, Lord! Now I know it’s time for me to go home!

Trust, sweetie, all my faith and love is in God, but things are not perfect. That is the biggest misconception ever. Being Christian doesn’t mean life is perfect, it just means that you are better equipped to deal with the travails that come with life. Are you telling me that Job’s life was perfect? Because somehow, all of my children dying, losing everything I won and my S/O running around on me doesn’t sound perfect to me.

Bluzgirl

October 16th, 2012
12:35 pm

Slim – why would you ask that?

Speaking of bosses…I was afraid my boss was going to give me isht for asking to come in late to take my pet to the vet, but she just said “ok”. I’m totally shocked!!!

I used to be here before

October 16th, 2012
12:36 pm

I’m going to give my boss this powerpoint on how to be a good leader

http://www.slideshare.net/happysammy/be-a-people-person

kimmie

October 16th, 2012
12:36 pm

Comon – LOL!!! I could still end up alone, but I be damned if it would be with a bunch of cats!!LOL!!

I will say this to anyone, male or female – whatever you did to woo this person you will need to continue to do it after you marry. So don’t start nothing you can’t finish. But you can always improve upon something you’re coming up short on. Going from completely vanilla to milk chocolate can add some spice. Change things up now & then, but make sure that is a change for the better!

Sassy Me...PYT ;-)

October 16th, 2012
12:36 pm

Your post comes off as if there are perfect people out there, without flaws, without a deficiencies or weaknesses and that just isn’t true at all.

Throw the flag Slim…

kimmie

October 16th, 2012
12:38 pm

My staff gave me a card, flowers, a big chocolate cake and chocolate strawberries for Bosses Day!!

I love them and they love me!LOL!!

Comon Cents

October 16th, 2012
12:40 pm

Awww. That’s nice kimmie. I got an Edible Arrangement from my staff.

disco

October 16th, 2012
12:41 pm

hey kimmie!!!!

CC – first off, please don’t go. re folks with “perfect” lives. show me the person who believes their life is perfect and I’ll show you the person who just really and truly doesn’t want much, need much, desire much, ask for much. lol.

i'm swiss

October 16th, 2012
12:46 pm

What a coincidence… Mrs. Swiss gave my staff a really nice gift this morning, too… :D :lol:

kimmie

October 16th, 2012
12:46 pm

I used to be here before

October 16th, 2012
12:47 pm

I wonder if my company knows that before they hired my boss- he was arrested for failure to appear
I think the original arrest was drug charges

My whole team hates him

He;s not a leader. Hes a dictator

I used to be here before

October 16th, 2012
12:48 pm

See this is why my life is perfect
yes, bad things happen and sure things don’t always go my way but what makes it perfect is that I know and have seen how GOD has my back.
I’ve been extremely blessed

MsAtl

October 16th, 2012
12:50 pm

Afternoon all. I don’t approve of “tests” or games in relationships. That said, the fact that she failed that one test does not mean she would not be a good wife. He has to look at the whole person.
When I got married, I was too young to catch red flags and too inexperienced to know to run.
Slim- I used to live in Conyers. And re: your story- my ex had a fender-bender on I-20. I stayed on the phone with him until the police showed up. For the next 3 months all I heard was how I didn’t come over to the accident site to see about him. Seriously? Dude, your trunk wasn’t even bashed in…

Comon Cents

October 16th, 2012
12:50 pm

I think delusional is the word you were looking for…

:lol: @ swiss. I’m sure Mrs. Swiss gave you a nice baptism this morning too… :lol:

Bluzgirl

October 16th, 2012
12:51 pm

So far, I don’t see anything given to my boss!

disco

October 16th, 2012
12:53 pm

enigma – that post sounds like a similar post we had re the term “fair”

i'm swiss

October 16th, 2012
12:54 pm

Comon — Meh… I’ve been baptized… Trust me, this was waaaaaaaaaaay better. ;-) :lol:

disco

October 16th, 2012
12:58 pm

swiss – as per usual – you are crazy. by the way, do you like gary owen? thought I’d ask. I think he’s quite funny.

Comon Cents

October 16th, 2012
12:59 pm

Glad your morning started out well, swiss. Are you and Mrs. Swiss trekking down to Jacksonville for the GA/FL game?

Comon Cents

October 16th, 2012
1:00 pm

disco~ I see you liked enigma. My favorite was UBO.

SlimNu

October 16th, 2012
1:02 pm

Bluz – Just noticed a few similarities…no biggie. Carry on, nothing more to see here ;-)

MsATL – Did we date the same person? :lol: I wanted to say, GET A GRIP!

Robert

October 16th, 2012
1:03 pm

@Buttons – “So your homework assisgnment is to find out how long a man can stay hard for pleasure that will not need him seeking medical attention.”

For a Man it depends on how much experience the woman has. For example some women know what to do in the bedroom and have no problem “going down” (oral sex) on their Man to increase his passion and desire for her. Ladies, keep in mind before viagra you had the power in hands. I once had a woman tell me that she loves being the in position of authority. She knew exactly how to keep me “hard” as a rock.

Bluzgirl

October 16th, 2012
1:04 pm

Whatever…I don’t see it…

Comon Cents

October 16th, 2012
1:05 pm

So, Bluz, do you have an appointment for you rat this afternoon?

Bluzgirl

October 16th, 2012
1:07 pm

It will be tomorrow morning. That’s when the vet who knows a lot about rats will be in. She comes in at 9:30 – I plan to be there at 9:00 to be the first to see her!

MsAtl

October 16th, 2012
1:08 pm

Slim- I was married to him for 26 years. However, that would not have stopped him from dating you or anyone else, so could be, lol.

Sassy Me...PYT ;-)

October 16th, 2012
1:09 pm

wow dude your posts are gettin lamer by the minute…

Comon Cents

October 16th, 2012
1:09 pm

Good luck! I hope that everything goes well!

Button

October 16th, 2012
1:10 pm

Common no, I don’t celebrate easter, christmas, new years or halloween.

Sassy you really do live up to your moniker gurl.

Willie Dynamite

October 16th, 2012
1:10 pm

Afternoon all,
Topic- I don’t approve of the test. I will say that dude found out what he wanted about gf. Buddy is needy and gf didn’t attend to his needs (per him). Moving forward he’s gonna think she won’t be there for him. In actuality this is a communication opportunity. They should be able to sit down and discuss rational expectations if they/he wants to move forward without resent.
Side topics- nothing on politics, illuminati.

Bluzgirl

October 16th, 2012
1:12 pm

Thanks CC! The only thing that won’t go ok is if they charge several hundred dollars for the surgery. I’m hoping they’ll work with me…

kimmie

October 16th, 2012
1:15 pm

MsAtl/Slim – See that’s the kind of stuff I have/had very little patience for, especially as a girlfriend. Dudes like that really do need to Man Up! I am not the wambulance. Even the kids know better with me.

Once this summer my hubs called me from the Kroger around the corner. His battery went dead and he needed a jump & he had the kids with him having just picked them up from school. I came right away and got the kids and he got his car started and went to get another battery. When he got back he thanked me profusely for responding like I did. It was no problem and I didn’t think twice – it’s my hubs & kids!! I got to thinking “dang, do I come off cold like I would have let them stay there and walk home?”! LOL!!

I used to be here before

October 16th, 2012
1:16 pm

I hope the rat is okay
do they offer pet insurance at the vet?

Comon Cents

October 16th, 2012
1:16 pm

Button~ JW?

Sassy~ You know you want him to be the next ex Mr. Sassy… :lol:

Exiled!

October 16th, 2012
1:17 pm

I married a fabulous woman!

Sassy Me...PYT ;-)

October 16th, 2012
1:18 pm

You know you want him to be the next ex Mr. Sassy…

Comon…one of us wouldn’t make it :lol:

Into the Light

October 16th, 2012
1:21 pm

Afternoon, all!

sn: Nothing puts an awards luncheon on hold like a fire drill. :( Hmph.

What’s good this afternoon?

Sassy Me...PYT ;-)

October 16th, 2012
1:26 pm

Anyone going to participate in any FelaBration activities?

MsAtl

October 16th, 2012
1:30 pm

Kimmie- either you come off cold or maybe, just maybe, the kids started getting on his nerves, lol. They probably wanted him to take them back into Kroger and buy them goodies.

i'm swiss

October 16th, 2012
1:31 pm

Comon — Nah… Mrs. Swiss is not much of a football fan even when she’s not preggers. She’s definitely not going to be trekking her sexy little knocked up booty down to Jacksonville in her current state. ;-) So, I’ll be watching the game in stunning HD, with a fully stocked liquor cabinet nearby… :D

disco — Yeah, I caught part of that guy’s act on cable a while back. It was pretty funny, but d@mn, some of the sh!t he was saying was making me a little uncomfortable… :lol:

i'm swiss

October 16th, 2012
1:35 pm

“I married a fabulous woman!”

Me.lo — Did Queen agree to get “Albertina’d”? :lol:

Bluzgirl

October 16th, 2012
1:41 pm

Used to – I’ll have to check to see if they offer insurance on pet rats. I need to check into it for my cats also…

Exiled!

October 16th, 2012
1:48 pm

@Swiss…she will get it,trust!

I am Schamburg right now and missed that opportunity two weeks away in Florida…coz it wasn’t conducive..

but next week..I’m gon take her out for dinner,romance and Albertinenize in convo..

will keep u posted.

I bet when Ms Swiss unloads you got that on lock yourself?

Single and Happier "Life is simple, if you stop making it so complicated!"

October 16th, 2012
1:49 pm

“So your homework assisgnment is to find out how long a man can stay hard for pleasure that will not need him seeking medical attention.”

this would also depend on age. If it was 4 hours I should have been dead by the time I was 25 (LOL)

Single and Happier "Life is simple, if you stop making it so complicated!"

October 16th, 2012
1:53 pm

Disco, I’m coming in late, my life is perfect. Because life IS what YOU make it, it may not be perfect to others, but it’s perfect to me!

Button

October 16th, 2012
1:54 pm

Common: Hebrew Israelite

i'm swiss

October 16th, 2012
1:55 pm

Me.lo — Nah, I’m actually kind of a naturalist when it comes to p u s s y. I like Mrs. Swiss’s un-ornamented.

Exiled!

October 16th, 2012
1:55 pm

Tonite if O don’t score a total knock out..

umm game over!

that fumble in the red zone two weeks back was costly..

Button

October 16th, 2012
1:55 pm

LOL @ Single. The debate is on when it comes to the male organism. And yes it depends on the male, just like not every woman can get an O. fake fake fake fake

Single and Happier "Life is simple, if you stop making it so complicated!"

October 16th, 2012
1:56 pm

Kimmie, re the husband and battery, so there was no one at Kroger that could jump him off? Don’t get me wrong, what you did was good, but sometimes things can be handled.

Single and Happier "Life is simple, if you stop making it so complicated!"

October 16th, 2012
1:56 pm

Button, every man can’t get one either, fake fake fake (LOL)

Comon Cents

October 16th, 2012
1:57 pm

swiss~ are you saying you don’t like my p u s s y?

Comon Cents

October 16th, 2012
1:58 pm

S/H~ How do you fake that? Throw warm mayonaise on her?

Exiled!

October 16th, 2012
2:00 pm

I wonder what the long term effects on lead poisoning are on that Swiss….

ummmm

but that pic of the Lil jewel decked on Common’s ummmm..it was an Internet pic?…it looked perfect and ….my Lil younger bro told me of an experience he had once with a black chic wearing same piece of jewelry…

sometimes Common reminds me of Raqi…

Sassy Me...PYT ;-)

October 16th, 2012
2:01 pm

Enter your comments here

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

October 16th, 2012
2:01 pm

Bluz:

Did I just read you have rats and cats? If so are gone get a dog for a trifecta?

Single and Happier "Life is simple, if you stop making it so complicated!"

October 16th, 2012
2:03 pm

No, the same way a woman fakes it, huff puff moan and groan, then roll over and hit the bricks (LOL)

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

October 16th, 2012
2:03 pm

How about my boss came out of nowhere and took me to lunch. I told her since she got me full I’m leaving early.

Comon Cents

October 16th, 2012
2:05 pm

BF~ That was reverse psychology. She wanted you to remember it was Boss’ Day and offer to pay…

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

October 16th, 2012
2:05 pm

Single a four hour erection is certainly not a healthy thing, it may be nice for the lady’s to gaulk over but dude is putting his life in jeopardy.

Exiled!

October 16th, 2012
2:05 pm

I have had the battery issue before

Sometimes folks don’t wanna be bothered jump
starting another…that’s why I keep my jumpers in my truck

And I’m ready to help anybody whose hoopdie won’t respond. :lol:

i'm swiss

October 16th, 2012
2:05 pm

Me.lo — I’ve been with a couple of chicks that had it pierced, and I have to say, either they were Oscar-caliber actresses, or the piercing intensified the experience, ‘cos they were both… well, let’s just say extremely enthusiastic. :lol:

Comon — Now, how can you expect me to answer that without a sample? :lol:

Comon Cents

October 16th, 2012
2:05 pm

Ex~ Wadn’t me.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

October 16th, 2012
2:07 pm

LOL……….@Comon actually I did make the offer cause we both have company credit cards but she put it on hers. I left the tip in cash.

Comon Cents

October 16th, 2012
2:07 pm

swiss~ You said you preferred un-ornamented and I was just asking the question… :oops:

And, no, they were not Oscar-caliber actresses; it is really that good…

Comon Cents

October 16th, 2012
2:08 pm

Good job, BF.

Single and Happier "Life is simple, if you stop making it so complicated!"

October 16th, 2012
2:08 pm

Black, who makes these rules of what’s healthy and what’s not. if you need something to help you get an erection and it last 4 hours it’s probably not healthy, but if it happens naturally, what would be unhealthy about it, and how you going to get it to go down??

Button

October 16th, 2012
2:10 pm

nope, can do no pounding in and out of me for four hours and no biggies plulezzzzz.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

October 16th, 2012
2:10 pm

Ex I ride with cables in my trunk and will jump anybody who needs the help.

Button

October 16th, 2012
2:10 pm

LOL @ Common and Single

Button

October 16th, 2012
2:11 pm

Sinlge how can a man fake it?

Single and Happier "Life is simple, if you stop making it so complicated!"

October 16th, 2012
2:11 pm

Button, younger day, younger days!! with the operative words here being – younger days!!

Exiled!

October 16th, 2012
2:12 pm

Extremely enthusiastic! ??

@Swiss… I can tell when Mr Common hit it last nite! :lol:
:lol:

Comon Cents

October 16th, 2012
2:13 pm

how you going to get it to go down??

Ummm… well, see. When a man and a woman love each other in that way… :oops: :oops:

Single and Happier "Life is simple, if you stop making it so complicated!"

October 16th, 2012
2:13 pm

Button huff, puff, grunt, roll over and hit the bricks. Then erection lasted after orgasm, so it wasn’t a problem. Now lucky if I get an erection so it’s not a problem (rotflmao)

Single and Happier "Life is simple, if you stop making it so complicated!"

October 16th, 2012
2:13 pm

disco

October 16th, 2012
2:14 pm

kimmie – re hubs/kids/battery issue. what would have been unacceptable would have been to show up and have hubs crying, snotting and blubbering because car troubles just frustrate him so much and he just can’t take it anymore. lol.

swiss – yeah. I digs gary owen.

S/H – okay. glad your life is perfect “right now”. lol. hope it stays that way. of course, I’m not saying that a person can’t be perfectly content with where they are, what they have etc. still, to claim perfect means that’s it. you’re contemplating marriage next year? would that interrupt your perfect? of course that’s a trick question. if you reply that she’ll improve your quality of life I’ll argue that if it were perfect there’d be no room for improvement.

back to getting caught up.

Comon Cents

October 16th, 2012
2:14 pm

Ex~ Mr. Comon hits it almost every night. IJS…

Kd21

October 16th, 2012
2:15 pm

So I’m drive-by lurking (oxymoron, I know) and I head to the last page of comments, and after spotting this little gem decide to apply brakes and fully lurk…

Comon Cents 1:58 pm
S/H~ How do you fake that? Throw warm mayonaise on her?

:?: :?:

Comon Cents

October 16th, 2012
2:15 pm

Go, disco. Go, Disco. Go, disco… Go’on and tell him girl! In here with that “perfect” ish…

Comon Cents

October 16th, 2012
2:16 pm

kd21~ Perhaps you would like to enlighten me? :shock:

Kd21

October 16th, 2012
2:19 pm

I just dropped by and saw the topic, jumped to the most recent page, saw your question and decided hell, clearly I need to stick around because I’d like to know the answer to that question too.

Was there something off in my statement?

Single and Happier "Life is simple, if you stop making it so complicated!"

October 16th, 2012
2:20 pm

Disco, My life will be perfect as long as I make it perfect. things may change and times may change, but what I make of my life will not change until I decide to make it change. Life happens.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

October 16th, 2012
2:21 pm

And the young dudes trying to sell viagra on the street corner need to step the hell away from me. What dummy would buy some pills on the street, hell Freddy’s dead and has been a long time.

Single and Happier "Life is simple, if you stop making it so complicated!"

October 16th, 2012
2:23 pm

KD21, last time, huff puff grunt, roll over and hit the bricks.

Comon Cents

October 16th, 2012
2:26 pm

BF~ Obviously, there are some dummies on the street who are buying which is why they keep selling… IJS.

Kd21~ By all means, hang around. S/H says huff puff, grunt, roll over and hit the bricks, but that would be suspect to me.

S/H~ You do know we can feel it when you skeet, right?

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

October 16th, 2012
2:26 pm

Single you don’t spoon a few minutes, at least till the blood stop flowing in your arm. That’s my signal to get up or roll over and go to sleep.

I used to be here before

October 16th, 2012
2:28 pm

what’s good party people

Single and Happier "Life is simple, if you stop making it so complicated!"

October 16th, 2012
2:28 pm

comon, yes I do, just like we can feel when you clinch.

Black I’m faking it so I can get the H on, not trying to spoon. If I want to spend the night I’m not not trying to fake it.

i'm swiss

October 16th, 2012
2:29 pm

Comon — Actually, for Mrs. Swiss, it’s not the thought of her having the piercing that I don’t like — it’s the thought of her getting the piercing that I’m not too keen on… ;-) I’m very selfish when it comes to who sees/touches her p u s s y. :lol: I like to keep that demographic to a bare minimum.

Exiled!

October 16th, 2012
2:29 pm

2:14 Common..that’s a happy man right there.

Not many,including myself or Slim and her legendary red and orange colored CT can claim that batting average!

disco

October 16th, 2012
2:31 pm

CC – I’m giving S/H his pass. he’s saying his life is perfect. I’m hearing his life is perfect to him. at the end of the day, what he thinks and how he feels re his life is all that matters.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

October 16th, 2012
2:31 pm

LOL……….@Comon, I always was told y’all feel it coming because y’all can tell by the hardness. Now you’re saying you can tell when we skeet, and then some don’t want you to pull out afterwards. What’s up with that?

I used to be here before

October 16th, 2012
2:32 pm

ALOL @ Throw warm mayonaise on her

kimmie

October 16th, 2012
2:33 pm

Single – They were at the Kroger about a mile and a half away, so it was not a big deal. Plus he thought he had left the jumper cables in my car. When I got there they weren’t, but an older gentleman in the parking lot saw us and let him borrow his. Plus I was able to grab the kids and get them dinner & he could be on his way to get the battery without them having to wait.

Sometimes it can be hard to find someone to help you out though.

Comon Cents

October 16th, 2012
2:33 pm

Ex~ It’s called the 30 day sex diet. And seriously I would recommend it to anyone who uis married or in a long term relationship. It will change your life.

swiss~ So, do you let her get waxed?

S/H~ So, again, how the Hell do you fake it if there’s no skeet?!?

Comon Cents

October 16th, 2012
2:35 pm

I always was told y’all feel it coming because y’all can tell by the hardness. Now you’re saying you can tell when we skeet, and then some don’t want you to pull out afterwards. What’s up with that?

Yes, we can feel it when you skeet. It’s in time with your heartbeat and we feel that. IDK about the not wanting the pull out afterwards. I’ve heard of that, but not something I do, unless we are doing the tantric thing.

i'm swiss

October 16th, 2012
2:35 pm

Comon — She Nair’s it herself. Well, actually, at the moment, I do it for her, ‘cos she can’t see her p u s s y anymore with the baby bump. :shock: :lol:

Comon Cents

October 16th, 2012
2:37 pm

Here you go…

current.com/shows/max-and…/90001662_30-day-sex-challenge.htm

You’re welcome.

Single and Happier "Life is simple, if you stop making it so complicated!"

October 16th, 2012
2:39 pm

comon, if you’re faking with folks, it’s not your S/0, if got to fake it, I aint caring if you felt it or not! I’m trying go, or get you gone.

SlimNu

October 16th, 2012
2:40 pm

This blog must have taken a little blue pill because I cannot believe yall are still talking about an erection that won’t go down. :lol:

Single and Happier "Life is simple, if you stop making it so complicated!"

October 16th, 2012
2:40 pm

Also comon this was in my younger days, was practicing safe sex, because I had enough unwanted children, wasn’t trying to get anymore.

Comon Cents

October 16th, 2012
2:41 pm

swiss~ interesting. Hubby loves to go with me to get waxed. (Although I had to limit that because he’s always trying to get a quickie in the room after she waxes me)

Sassy Me...PYT ;-)

October 16th, 2012
2:41 pm

So, again, how the Hell do you fake it if there’s no skeet?!?

:shock:

Into the Light

October 16th, 2012
2:42 pm

I don’t know about all the “in time with your heartbeat” stuff, but we (or at least I) can feel the “pulsation” as it, ummmm, empties.

As for the staying there….yeah. I like that. Sometimes because I just don’t want to break the contact…..

Comon Cents

October 16th, 2012
2:42 pm

Slim~ Usually it’s you that starts the convo up in here. Don’t get all new on me now girl! :lol:

You got something else to throw out? It’s a slow day for me and I am just trying to kill some time until I can go home.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

October 16th, 2012
2:42 pm

LOL………….and why do some women get angry when we don’t skeet? One lady friend asked me did I and I said nah and she threw an elbow in my side. Gave me a mean look, I fixed it the next round.

Single and Happier "Life is simple, if you stop making it so complicated!"

October 16th, 2012
2:42 pm

Ahh disco, you get it :-D

Into the Light

October 16th, 2012
2:43 pm

…..and sometimes because I know round two is just a shimmy shake away, and I like the way it feels as it grows.

i'm swiss

October 16th, 2012
2:43 pm

ComonYou nasty. I knew there was something I liked about you… :lol:

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

October 16th, 2012
2:45 pm

Light I am lost for words…………..LOL

Single and Happier "Life is simple, if you stop making it so complicated!"

October 16th, 2012
2:45 pm

ITL in my younger days when it wouldn’t go down, there were times I would have gotten 2 and she would be asking if I had gotten one yet. (man I miss those days)

DuShawn

October 16th, 2012
2:45 pm

@Common- I have faked a few….well not really faked, but just didn’t correct her when she assumed I bust. Of course, you can’t fake a facial, but If you’re wearing a condom, it can be difficult for her to tell if you came or not. In my case, I was just taking a twenty second time out without pulling out and she thought she got me (talkin bout “yeah baby let it go, that was a big one”…. Meanwhile I’m thinkin, “yeah whateva lil mama……..where is my watch, what did I do with my phone.”) I let her roll with that thought because I was tired of trying. To her credit, she was putting in work. As a man, initially not bussing is a good thing. You can take your time and shine on it. However, after you have adequately beat it and she has soaked the sheets repeatedly, there is nothing more to prove. It’s time to finish up and pass out. If accomplishing that goal takes too much effort, imma give up. Im trying to bust a nut, not my left ventricle.

Exiled!

October 16th, 2012
2:46 pm

Common, Raqi is mature blogger who,when she starts talking bout the bedroom stuff,All blog ears are at attention.

she don’t come here often anymore

Comon Cents

October 16th, 2012
2:46 pm

ITL~ See, you get it. They trying to act all new on me up in here, like they ain’t been boning for YEARS… :lol:

disco

October 16th, 2012
2:47 pm

S/H – often times I do get it. I may not necessarily agree but I try real hard to understand.

Bluzgirl

October 16th, 2012
2:47 pm

Dang! I go to lunch and have a two page back up! Gotta catch up.

BF – I do have rats and cats. No dogs at this point. One of my cats would have a heart attack if I brought a dog into the house!

Button

October 16th, 2012
2:49 pm

Whats the purpose if you’ve got to fake it? I’ve heard of women faking it but a man? clearly you can see if he’s faking it even if it is blanks.

disco

October 16th, 2012
2:51 pm

bluz – you always make me laugh. a rat with a tumor and a cat with a weak heart.

I used to be here before

October 16th, 2012
2:53 pm

zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz

Kd21

October 16th, 2012
2:53 pm

huff puff, grunt, roll over and hit the bricks, but that would be suspect to me…

I fully concur. So that actually works? :lol: Um yeah I’m of the School of Full Participation, meaning I need receipts. I need to ensure all prophylactics are fully intact.

Into the Light

October 16th, 2012
2:53 pm

@BF: Uh oh. Have I lost the “good little sister” image now? :)

@CC: Sometimes I think they ask stuff just to see us explain it. They know. They BEEN knowin’. ;)

Comon Cents

October 16th, 2012
2:54 pm

DuShawn~ She wasn’t putting in that much work. If she was, you wouldn’t be about to bust a ventricle instead of a nut. IJS..

swiss~ that’s what I like about you too, hon. Just something interesting to pass the day until I can go home and do my “real” work… :lol:

BF~ re: angry when you don’t skeet: that means we didn’t do our job.

i'm swiss

October 16th, 2012
2:54 pm

Bluz — Don’t you also have a cat that’s blind or deaf? Or is this the same cat with the weak heart? D@mn it’s like the Island of Misfits over there… :shock: :lol:

Kd21

October 16th, 2012
2:54 pm

I’m late and throwing the blog off. I’m gonna head back to work…smiling from the sidelines though. Have a good one all.

Into the Light

October 16th, 2012
2:54 pm

Daaaannnnng, Stamps. You got a BOGO! LOLOLOL :lol: :lol:

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

October 16th, 2012
2:54 pm

LOL………@Button sometimes it’s not the blanks we just want ride that thing until exhaustion slaps reality back into us. Shood I know in younger days I used to think I could go for forever, it aint happening now. But I pride myself on NOT being a five minute man or a Jiffy Lube.

Bluzgirl

October 16th, 2012
2:57 pm

Finally all caught up. The blog took a sharp turn while I was gone! LOL!

I’m with ITL – I can tell when the man releases and I don’t want it immediately pulled out. Sometimes, just feeling it there may make me release again!

Single and Happier "Life is simple, if you stop making it so complicated!"

October 16th, 2012
2:57 pm

time to go, manana~ people

Comon Cents

October 16th, 2012
2:58 pm

ITL~ Maybe they just want to see if we know… They want to see how grimy we can get. :lol:

LMAO @ kd21! Right! Back in the single days I needed receipts. Ahhh, the joys of being married. Now you get to sleep in the wet spot. :lol:

Bluzgirl

October 16th, 2012
3:00 pm

swiss – Yes…I have a deaf cat also… :-)

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

October 16th, 2012
3:01 pm

Bluz I wish your pets well.

Light don’t worry I got my guns out for the bad guys.

Comon now I see, y’all get mad because you feel you didn’t perform good enough and take it out on us…………..LOL

This is has been a truly laughable day, and thanks lady’s for the interesting input. Have a great evening everyone.

i'm swiss

October 16th, 2012
3:02 pm

ITL / Comon — Busted! We just like to hear you ladies talk dirty… :D :lol:

SlimNu

October 16th, 2012
3:02 pm

CC – You surely don’t have to worry about me getting ‘new’ on ya…I’m too old for that lol

Im trying to bust a nut, not my left ventricle

Damn I found that super funny :lol:

I don’t see how dude fake it either because if you are raw dogging, you’ll feel it pulse when it ‘empties’, or if they are wearing a condom, you can see if the tip is occupied with little soldiers. Here’s a tmi for yall…so after done, the beau with tie it up and then slap me with it on the leg. :shock:

i'm swiss

October 16th, 2012
3:03 pm

Hell, half of the MLB has done busted a nut while this conversation has been going on… :lol:

i'm swiss

October 16th, 2012
3:05 pm

“so after done, the beau with tie it up and then slap me with it on the leg”

Slim — Funny, I do the same thing to Mrs. Swiss.

Comon Cents

October 16th, 2012
3:05 pm

swiss~ You stoopid! Island of misfits.. :lol: :lol: :lol:

Comon Cents

October 16th, 2012
3:07 pm

OK, someone clue me in on MLB…

i'm swiss

October 16th, 2012
3:10 pm

MLB = Man Law Book or Man Law Brotherhood.

Comon Cents

October 16th, 2012
3:12 pm

Ahhh.. thanks swiss.

Into the Light

October 16th, 2012
3:13 pm

@CC: Yep. I knew it. It was just a ploy for dirty talk. The MLB are SO obvious. LOL

Personally, I like a little slap on the leg….or the donk…. :oops:

Comon Cents

October 16th, 2012
3:13 pm

Slim~ Glad to hear it. I need other miscreants to help me steer the convo in the right direction. :lol:

Into the Light

October 16th, 2012
3:15 pm

Yay, miscreants!

Comon Cents

October 16th, 2012
3:16 pm

ITL~ Right there with you. I like a little slap every now and then too. Ain’t nothing wrong with that…

disco

October 16th, 2012
3:17 pm

CC – I never did recall what movie I recall with a tirade about miscreant. it’s going to be something so simple that’ll I’ll shake my head when I figure it out. I can even envision dude getting all indignant about being called a miscreant. lol.

i'm swiss

October 16th, 2012
3:17 pm

Oh, wait. I think Slim was talking about slapping her leg with the condom. My mistake…

Comon Cents

October 16th, 2012
3:18 pm

So, any of you going to take the 30 day sex challenge?

Comon Cents

October 16th, 2012
3:20 pm

Well, the “Yay, miscreants” comes from the RHPS. (Which ITL is going to see this weekend) :lol:

DuShawn

October 16th, 2012
3:21 pm

Disco– that movie was Talk to Me. the Petey Green story. One of my favorites

Into the Light

October 16th, 2012
3:22 pm

@CC: Indeed. Been a long time since I’ve been to a midnight show. I hope my old butt doesn’t fall asleep. LOL

disco

October 16th, 2012
3:23 pm

thank you dushawn. I knew it was something but it must have been buried deep in my brain. lol. my mom came to visit this summer and I watched it when she was here. I so love don cheadle. I don’t think he gets nearly enough props for his work.

Into the Light

October 16th, 2012
3:24 pm

But actually, to be correct, the line from RHPS’s audience participation is “Yay, that type!” when Janet is commenting to Brad about the evils of motorcycle gangs….

Comon Cents

October 16th, 2012
3:25 pm

You said it is on the Square in Marietta? Last time I went was at the Roxy on Peachtree/Roswell Rd.

Comon Cents

October 16th, 2012
3:25 pm

Oh, now that Dusahwn said it, I remember that. Great movie, BTW.

disco

October 16th, 2012
3:26 pm

ITL – it just clicked that RHPS was rocky horror picture show. lol. that’s it isn’t it? (if not, ain’t i the idiot?) that’s still around? I remember seeing it once way back when I was probably still in high school

Comon Cents

October 16th, 2012
3:26 pm

True, true, ITL.

Sassy Me...PYT ;-)

October 16th, 2012
3:27 pm

Y’all on a roll like sht paper :mrgreen:

I used to be here before

October 16th, 2012
3:28 pm

Comon Cents

October 16th, 2012
3:28 pm


I could show you my favorite obsession
I’ve been making a man
With blonde hair and a tan
And he’s good for relieving my tension
I’m just a sweet transvestite
From Transexual, Transylvania

Good times! Are you dressing up?

Into the Light

October 16th, 2012
3:29 pm

@CC: Yep. A theatre company is doing a live stage production. Should be interesting.

@disco: You got it! :)

Comon Cents

October 16th, 2012
3:30 pm

Sassy~ You still here? So, come on now. Answer the question. Could you tell if a man was faking his big O?

Into the Light

October 16th, 2012
3:31 pm

I could show you my favorite obsessionSEX!
I’ve been making a manThat ain’t no man….
With blonde hair and a tanthat ain’t no tan…
And he’s good for relieving my SEXUAL! tension
I’m just a sweet transvestite
From Transexual, Transylvan

Probably not dressing up. But we’ll see…. :)

Sassy Me...PYT ;-)

October 16th, 2012
3:36 pm

I’ve been here all the while Comon. It’s just that usually when the blog is all a-buzz about sex, I’m one of the, if not thE, main ones leading the discussion so it was cool to sit back and see what others had to say.

Per your question: No I can’t…if I don’t “see” any proof I have no way of knowing…

Bluzgirl

October 16th, 2012
3:42 pm

ITL – the recent ex is the one who taught me a lot of the lines for RHPS. If I go, I cannot tell anyone it’s my first time! LOL

O/T – Speaking of the ex…I was going through some old boxes last night and found an important box of his. It’s not one I can just throw away…old pics of him and pics of his son as a child, as well as school things from when he was a child. I’m having to contact a mutual friend to try to get the box to him. How come it had me feeling a little down last night? Wasn’t expecting that…

i'm swiss

October 16th, 2012
3:46 pm

“How come it had me feeling a little down last night? Wasn’t expecting that…”

You might not have expected it, but I’m pretty sure nobody here is surprised… IJS…

Sassy Me...PYT ;-)

October 16th, 2012
3:46 pm

Bluz you’ve been doing good today…for the love of all that is good and holy puhleaze don’t start…

Sassy Me...PYT ;-)

October 16th, 2012
3:47 pm

I said puhleaze…

disco

October 16th, 2012
3:48 pm

goodness. RHPS is hot like that? folks know the lines. I practically forgot all about it. remember I saw it once but I have no memory of what it was about.

bluz – glad you felt some kind of way. I wouldn’t care about that box or its contents and sure wouldn’t go out of my way to get it returned to him. he should have got his stuff while the getting was good.

i'm swiss

October 16th, 2012
3:49 pm

“remember I saw it once but I have no memory of what it was about.”

disco — That’s because to actually make it through the whole thing, you generally need to be either sloppy drunk or high as f__k. :lol: (Or maybe that’s just me)

Bluzgirl

October 16th, 2012
3:50 pm

Sassy…I’m not starting anything. Just sharing something. I was surprised it affected me. Not that it totally knocked me over. Maybe I was upset because it was a box of stuff that I would feel terrible about setting on fire!

disco

October 16th, 2012
3:51 pm

swiss – I most def wasn’t high or drunk. like I said this was high school and while I know folks who were high or drunk in high school, I wasn’t one of them. lol. I’d say maybe it just wasn’t good but it must be sort of kind of good to still be going strong.

Bluzgirl

October 16th, 2012
3:51 pm

Anyways…nevermind. Just wanted to share something, but don’t want to start getting the comments…

Bluzgirl

October 16th, 2012
3:52 pm

disco – RHPS is a cult classic! If I opt to go see the live show, I’ll have to watch the movie again to practice all the lines the audiencs shouts!

Comon Cents

October 16th, 2012
3:55 pm

ditto on disco’s 3:48. If he really wanted that stuff he would have made sure he got it when he was going. Remember, just because you get all emotional and weepy over his stuff, doesn’t mean he is. If he is as much of an as_hole as you have made him sound like, I have a hard time believing that he is missing some old stuff of his. IJS..

Sassy~ You can’t feel it? IDK, I have always been able to feel it when he skeets. (Maybe it’s the Albertina?) :lol:

swiss~ You are correct. All the days when I saw it when I was younger I was either drunk as Hell or blazed.

Bluzgirl

October 16th, 2012
3:58 pm

Sassy Me...PYT ;-)

October 16th, 2012
4:00 pm

You can’t feel it? IDK, I have always been able to feel it when he skeets.

I didn’t say I couldn’t feel it when he c.ums…for me that only happens when I’m laying still and can feel him throbbin as he releases. What I said was I can’t tell when he’s faking b/c I’m working,too and I works hard sometimes to the point of distraction. Not to say I’m ignoring him or his needs…just be in a zone is all. But good for you Comon.

Comon Cents

October 16th, 2012
4:06 pm

Sassy~ Ok. I get that. Being in the zone is a wonderful thing. :lol:

Kind of off topic~ Have you guys ever had a 3-peater or a 4-peater?

i'm swiss

October 16th, 2012
4:07 pm

Bluz — Are you familiar with the old Lewis Grizzard joke about the preacher, who during one particular church service was especially riled up and exhorting everyone in the congregation to repent and confess their sins, “Tell it all, brother! Tell it all!” One by one, every member of the congregation stood up and confessed to a litany of sins — adultery, theft, fornication, etc. — until finally, the lone unconfessed congregant was a squirrely-looking young man in the back of the church, desperately trying to avoid being noticed. After being extolled by the preacher and the other congregants repeatedly to “Tell it all, brother! Tell it all!” the young man finally stood up and sheepishly confessed, “Well, preacher, there was this one time I had sex with a goat.” After several moments of stunned silence the preacher finally said, “Damn, brother, I don’t believe I’da told that!:lol:

The moral of the story: some things are best kept to yourself… :lol:

Sassy Me...PYT ;-)

October 16th, 2012
4:11 pm

Have you guys ever had a 3-peater or a 4-peater?

Of course…

disco

October 16th, 2012
4:12 pm

swiss – I immediately thought “everything ain’t for everybody” and “never let your right hand know what your left hand is doing”. of course, I could go on with the mama-isms.

Comon Cents

October 16th, 2012
4:16 pm

Sassy~ Did you ever find that you had that moment like “Damn, dude, I ain’t trying to run no marathon up in here!” Sometimes, I think there can be TOO much of a good thing. Your thoughts?

Comon Cents

October 16th, 2012
4:17 pm

swiss~ Once again, you stoopid. SMDH…

Sassy Me...PYT ;-)

October 16th, 2012
4:20 pm

Comon we all have our moments when we either want to run the marathon or just do a few laps and call it a day..depending on what else is going on in life. Sometimes you might not want to lace up the shoes at all…but if we both have our running shoes on then brang it…cause I’ve gotchu :-)

Bluzgirl

October 16th, 2012
4:22 pm

CC – Sometimes, there can be too much of a good thing. It can start to really hurt after a while!

Comon Cents

October 16th, 2012
4:26 pm

OK, so here’s my late afternoon blog deliema. Like I said, Mr. Comon gewts it almost every night (which I am fine with) However, he is a 3-peater at a m inimum and sometimes a 4-peater. Since his work schedule is different from mine, he doesn’t have to get up most mornings until around 8:30 or 9 (long after I am gone from the house). So if I give it up, but only once, he gets kind of irritated and cantankerous (tells me I’m blocking his flow :lol: ) But I think that he should have some sympathy for the difference in work schedules. However, on the other side of that coin, I have never been one to deny my man what he needs because what you won’t do, another woman definitely will.

i'm swiss

October 16th, 2012
4:30 pm

Comon — Hold up, flag on the play! Now you’re just rubbing it in to all the un-boo’ed blogettes. :lol:

Sassy Me...PYT ;-)

October 16th, 2012
4:31 pm

Well I guess you gotta take one or 3 or 4 for the team :lol:

disco

October 16th, 2012
4:31 pm

swiss – you right. CC – stop bragging!!

i'm swiss

October 16th, 2012
4:32 pm

But to respond to your post, Comon, my advice: start earlier. :lol:

Bluzgirl

October 16th, 2012
4:32 pm

CC – Yes, he should be a little sympathetic to your schedule. BUT…for me…that wouldn’t even be a problem! LOL

Comon Cents

October 16th, 2012
4:35 pm

swiss~ Can’t start earlier unless I’m starting alone. :lol: He goes in later and consequently gets home later. Also, we have kids. No sneaking off to be alone until after 9:30. Most nights he doesn’t get home until around 10:30 or 11. I get up around 5 AM so that leaves about 3 hours for extra curricular activities.

Not bragging, I am seriously tired of disagreeing over this issue. I am looking for a solution, but so far I got nothing. :(

DuShawn

October 16th, 2012
4:38 pm

Man, I wish i did have time to buss 3 or 4 before work. My kids will be bangin at the door. “Daddy we just missed the bus….I’m hungry….I need you to sign my agenda…..What yall doin?”

Sassy Me...PYT ;-)

October 16th, 2012
4:38 pm

Comon you didn’t c.um across as having a problem…not with all that dyyck in yo womb you’ve been posting about. Whassa matter?

disco

October 16th, 2012
4:38 pm

CC – well in that case I say start later. let him lay there all night and wait to get broke off in the a.m. he won’t get to go 4 times but he won’t disrupt your sleep. if anything, he’ll be disrupting his own sleep since he’s used to snoozing at that time of the morning. not fool proof but worth a shot. (of course, I also don’t recommend you take advice from the chick who’s not getting any. i just wanted to be a part of the convo. lol).

i'm swiss

October 16th, 2012
4:38 pm

Comon — In that case, I dunno. How do you feel about sister-wives? :lol:

DuShawn

October 16th, 2012
4:39 pm

Little dayum cockblockas

Sassy Me...PYT ;-)

October 16th, 2012
4:39 pm

“Daddy we just missed the bus….I’m hungry….I need you to sign my agenda…..What yall doin?”

:lol:

Well at least I can say I don’t have that issue…that sounds kinda funny though.

disco

October 16th, 2012
4:39 pm

dushawn – hush. leave those poor little innocent chirren alone.

i'm swiss

October 16th, 2012
4:42 pm

“Little dayum cockblockas”

Damn straight, DuShawn! And they’re so good at it, they start even before they’re born! :shock:

Comon Cents

October 16th, 2012
4:44 pm


Comon you didn’t c.um across as having a problem…not with all that dyyck in yo womb you’ve been posting about. Whassa matter?

Sassy~ You want me defending you on YOUR court case half asleep and unprepared?

and I have the same issue as Shawn. And trust, Little Miss Cents can smell daddy trying to get some a mile away.

Shawn~ Eggs-zacharey!

swiss~ No sister wives. I’m not playing in a group thank you very much.

disco~ I might run with your idea. Maybe we could split them up? 2 at night and 2 in the morning?

Sassy Me...PYT ;-)

October 16th, 2012
4:46 pm

And they’re so good at it, they start even before they’re born!

Aww how cute…I remember you telling us how the Mrs. wanted a baby and you felt some kinda way ’bout your “baby batter”. Now look at you two…about to be three :mrgreen: That’s what’s up Swiss.

Y’all be good…I’m out!

disco

October 16th, 2012
4:46 pm

CC – I have to ask. do you walk around whistling all day? what about skipping? when you and the hubs walk is there theme music playing in the background? for him I hear freddy’s dead. for you I’m hearing walking on sunshine. dang. y’all are living the life.

Sassy Me...PYT ;-)

October 16th, 2012
4:49 pm

You want me defending you on YOUR court case half asleep and unprepared?

Gurl are you a professional or a rookie?!?! You’d better “eat” some ground coffee…wash that sh!!t down with a 5 hour energy and handle yo damned bidnezz…

Comon Cents

October 16th, 2012
4:49 pm

disco~ You stoopid! :lol:

There are days when it feels that way and there are days when I am so tired I can’t see straight. :lol:

Comon Cents

October 16th, 2012
4:50 pm

:lol: @ Sassy. Bye, girl! Have a good night, wit yo crazy azz!

Comon Cents

October 16th, 2012
4:51 pm

Sassy, at one point I was thinking about making my coffee with Red Bull. :lol:

Sassy Me...PYT ;-)

October 16th, 2012
4:53 pm

Exiled!

October 16th, 2012
4:54 pm

3 peater 4 peater

Ullsa trooper Common
Damn,ooggh yes we can!

Comon Cents

October 16th, 2012
4:55 pm

disco~ funny you should say walking on sunshine; that’s a co-worker of mine’s ring tone for her husband so I really do hear that isht all day. :lol:

disco

October 16th, 2012
4:58 pm

CC – well I suggest you change your hubs’ ringtone to freddy’s dead. never mind. it might remind you of me instead of him. lol. still, out of curiosity, what’s his ringtone, if you have one? my brother has something from coming to America programmed as my ringtone. every time I call him he answers the phone cracking up. I’m not in on it because I never watched the movie.

Comon Cents

October 16th, 2012
5:02 pm

His ringtone is “I Do, I Do, I Do”

Comon Cents

October 16th, 2012
5:03 pm

You never watched Coming to America?!? :shock: One of the best comedy m ovies ever. You have to put that on your homework list.

disco

October 16th, 2012
5:05 pm

CC – I swear I’ve tried and tried and tried again to watch that movie. it just doesn’t work for me. I’ve seen bits and pieces of it over the years but I cannot sit and watch it start to finish. somehow, your ringtone sounds fitting. lol.

Single and Happy (LG Life is good)

October 16th, 2012
5:09 pm

Honey I’m home :-D

Into the Light

October 16th, 2012
5:09 pm

Dang. Go to a late afternoon meeting and miss all kinds of fun stuff. :(

Four-peater every night? Mmmmm, okay. Won’t be any problem picking CC out of a crowd; she’s the one whistling when she walks….up top and below. :shock:

Into the Light

October 16th, 2012
5:10 pm

Yes, I’m hatin’. Don’t judge me. :evil:

Comon Cents

October 16th, 2012
5:11 pm

Comon Cents

October 16th, 2012
5:12 pm

ITL~ Right now, I’m too tired to whistle. You have any advice? Come on with it, girlie…

Single and Happy (LG Life is good)

October 16th, 2012
5:13 pm

Disco @ your 3:48 about the pictures, dang we think to much alike sometimes. (LOL) just sometimes now (LOL)

disco

October 16th, 2012
5:14 pm

CC – what’s the video? can’t watch here and likely will forget by the time I get home. oh. and if you are too tired to whistle hubs missed a step. lol. i kid.

i'm swiss

October 16th, 2012
5:14 pm

ITL — I imagine it would be less of a whistle and more of a floppity sound after all that… :lol:

(Oh, isht, where’s my vest???) :lol:

Into the Light

October 16th, 2012
5:15 pm

@CC: Probably not anything useful, bc I never say no to whistlin’…..I’m very musical that way. :) Seriously, though, if I were you, I would see what you could do to make your schedules mesh better. For instance, if he took the kids to school or helped them get ready, could you sleep longer? I think if his wake-up time was closer to yours, the problem would resolve itself.

disco

October 16th, 2012
5:17 pm

S/H – it’s okay for you to think like me. there’s a lot worse people out there than me that you could be sharing like thoughts with. ijs.

Into the Light

October 16th, 2012
5:17 pm

LMAO@Swiss. For some reason, I’m hearing the squeaky flip-flop noise in my head. :lol: :lol:

Into the Light

October 16th, 2012
5:17 pm

@Stamps: Yeah. Like me. :evil:

Comon Cents

October 16th, 2012
5:19 pm

ITL~ We tried him taking the kids to school and that was a MESS! I hot mess. You hear me?!? My baby girl looked like her hair hadn’t been combed in weeks! And, realistically, unless I go to court first thing in the morning, I have to communte 45 mins to my office, so I still have to get up.

swiss~ No flopping here, sweety. We do our kegel exercises regularly. Can’t do not loose lips or beef curtains. Ewww…

Single and Happy (LG Life is good)

October 16th, 2012
5:19 pm

Disco, thinking like you is a good thing, hard to pull some isht on you

Comon Cents

October 16th, 2012
5:19 pm

ITL~ Well, great minds do think alike then, because that’s the same sound I heard in my head. :lol:

I’m out, y’all. Have a good night.

Comon Cents

October 16th, 2012
5:21 pm

disco~ It was the video for the song, BTW. It’s “I Do” by Young Jeezy.

Into the Light

October 16th, 2012
5:23 pm

Night, CC.

As to your 5:19…if that’s not an option, then I’m all out of ideas. Unless you could nap in the middle of the day.

Sassy Me...PYT ;-)

October 17th, 2012
12:21 pm