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Awful girlfriends make terrible wives?

I found out another test that men like to give the women they date, it’s called the Sick Test, i.e. does she take care of me when I am sick. My friend LC said he happened to catch a nasty cold last week. Ah, but he wasn’t too weak to observe how his new girlfriend was going to handle his illness. He wondered, would she pass or fail?

Unfortunately, she didn’t seem all that concerned about him. She even steered clear of him for a few days because she “could not risk picking up his bug” this week (Ouch?). She still has not come by, only sending him occasional text messages to make sure he is still breathing.

I found it rather funny because I don’t approve of giving people relationship tests. LB ended up getting his feelings hurt and now he is questioning what kind of wife his girlfriend would make!

I think he is being utterly ridiculous but maybe I’m just taking up for his lady friend because I think she’s great for him. Do you think someone who has shown bad girlfriend/boyfriend behavior would make awful marriage partners?

Have you ever second-guessed your dating relationship after seeing something that would probably be too hard to deal with in a marriage?

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog

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i'm swiss

October 16th, 2012
3:17 pm

Oh, wait. I think Slim was talking about slapping her leg with the condom. My mistake…

Comon Cents

October 16th, 2012
3:18 pm

So, any of you going to take the 30 day sex challenge?

Comon Cents

October 16th, 2012
3:20 pm

Well, the “Yay, miscreants” comes from the RHPS. (Which ITL is going to see this weekend) :lol:

DuShawn

October 16th, 2012
3:21 pm

Disco– that movie was Talk to Me. the Petey Green story. One of my favorites

Into the Light

October 16th, 2012
3:22 pm

@CC: Indeed. Been a long time since I’ve been to a midnight show. I hope my old butt doesn’t fall asleep. LOL

disco

October 16th, 2012
3:23 pm

thank you dushawn. I knew it was something but it must have been buried deep in my brain. lol. my mom came to visit this summer and I watched it when she was here. I so love don cheadle. I don’t think he gets nearly enough props for his work.

Into the Light

October 16th, 2012
3:24 pm

But actually, to be correct, the line from RHPS’s audience participation is “Yay, that type!” when Janet is commenting to Brad about the evils of motorcycle gangs….

Comon Cents

October 16th, 2012
3:25 pm

You said it is on the Square in Marietta? Last time I went was at the Roxy on Peachtree/Roswell Rd.

Comon Cents

October 16th, 2012
3:25 pm

Oh, now that Dusahwn said it, I remember that. Great movie, BTW.

disco

October 16th, 2012
3:26 pm

ITL – it just clicked that RHPS was rocky horror picture show. lol. that’s it isn’t it? (if not, ain’t i the idiot?) that’s still around? I remember seeing it once way back when I was probably still in high school

Comon Cents

October 16th, 2012
3:26 pm

True, true, ITL.

Sassy Me...PYT ;-)

October 16th, 2012
3:27 pm

Y’all on a roll like sht paper :mrgreen:

I used to be here before

October 16th, 2012
3:28 pm

Comon Cents

October 16th, 2012
3:28 pm


I could show you my favorite obsession
I’ve been making a man
With blonde hair and a tan
And he’s good for relieving my tension
I’m just a sweet transvestite
From Transexual, Transylvania

Good times! Are you dressing up?

Into the Light

October 16th, 2012
3:29 pm

@CC: Yep. A theatre company is doing a live stage production. Should be interesting.

@disco: You got it! :)

Comon Cents

October 16th, 2012
3:30 pm

Sassy~ You still here? So, come on now. Answer the question. Could you tell if a man was faking his big O?

Into the Light

October 16th, 2012
3:31 pm

I could show you my favorite obsessionSEX!
I’ve been making a manThat ain’t no man….
With blonde hair and a tanthat ain’t no tan…
And he’s good for relieving my SEXUAL! tension
I’m just a sweet transvestite
From Transexual, Transylvan

Probably not dressing up. But we’ll see…. :)

Sassy Me...PYT ;-)

October 16th, 2012
3:36 pm

I’ve been here all the while Comon. It’s just that usually when the blog is all a-buzz about sex, I’m one of the, if not thE, main ones leading the discussion so it was cool to sit back and see what others had to say.

Per your question: No I can’t…if I don’t “see” any proof I have no way of knowing…

Bluzgirl

October 16th, 2012
3:42 pm

ITL – the recent ex is the one who taught me a lot of the lines for RHPS. If I go, I cannot tell anyone it’s my first time! LOL

O/T – Speaking of the ex…I was going through some old boxes last night and found an important box of his. It’s not one I can just throw away…old pics of him and pics of his son as a child, as well as school things from when he was a child. I’m having to contact a mutual friend to try to get the box to him. How come it had me feeling a little down last night? Wasn’t expecting that…

i'm swiss

October 16th, 2012
3:46 pm

“How come it had me feeling a little down last night? Wasn’t expecting that…”

You might not have expected it, but I’m pretty sure nobody here is surprised… IJS…

Sassy Me...PYT ;-)

October 16th, 2012
3:46 pm

Bluz you’ve been doing good today…for the love of all that is good and holy puhleaze don’t start…

Sassy Me...PYT ;-)

October 16th, 2012
3:47 pm

I said puhleaze…

disco

October 16th, 2012
3:48 pm

goodness. RHPS is hot like that? folks know the lines. I practically forgot all about it. remember I saw it once but I have no memory of what it was about.

bluz – glad you felt some kind of way. I wouldn’t care about that box or its contents and sure wouldn’t go out of my way to get it returned to him. he should have got his stuff while the getting was good.

i'm swiss

October 16th, 2012
3:49 pm

“remember I saw it once but I have no memory of what it was about.”

disco — That’s because to actually make it through the whole thing, you generally need to be either sloppy drunk or high as f__k. :lol: (Or maybe that’s just me)

Bluzgirl

October 16th, 2012
3:50 pm

Sassy…I’m not starting anything. Just sharing something. I was surprised it affected me. Not that it totally knocked me over. Maybe I was upset because it was a box of stuff that I would feel terrible about setting on fire!

disco

October 16th, 2012
3:51 pm

swiss – I most def wasn’t high or drunk. like I said this was high school and while I know folks who were high or drunk in high school, I wasn’t one of them. lol. I’d say maybe it just wasn’t good but it must be sort of kind of good to still be going strong.

Bluzgirl

October 16th, 2012
3:51 pm

Anyways…nevermind. Just wanted to share something, but don’t want to start getting the comments…

Bluzgirl

October 16th, 2012
3:52 pm

disco – RHPS is a cult classic! If I opt to go see the live show, I’ll have to watch the movie again to practice all the lines the audiencs shouts!

Comon Cents

October 16th, 2012
3:55 pm

ditto on disco’s 3:48. If he really wanted that stuff he would have made sure he got it when he was going. Remember, just because you get all emotional and weepy over his stuff, doesn’t mean he is. If he is as much of an as_hole as you have made him sound like, I have a hard time believing that he is missing some old stuff of his. IJS..

Sassy~ You can’t feel it? IDK, I have always been able to feel it when he skeets. (Maybe it’s the Albertina?) :lol:

swiss~ You are correct. All the days when I saw it when I was younger I was either drunk as Hell or blazed.

Bluzgirl

October 16th, 2012
3:58 pm

Sassy Me...PYT ;-)

October 16th, 2012
4:00 pm

You can’t feel it? IDK, I have always been able to feel it when he skeets.

I didn’t say I couldn’t feel it when he c.ums…for me that only happens when I’m laying still and can feel him throbbin as he releases. What I said was I can’t tell when he’s faking b/c I’m working,too and I works hard sometimes to the point of distraction. Not to say I’m ignoring him or his needs…just be in a zone is all. But good for you Comon.

Comon Cents

October 16th, 2012
4:06 pm

Sassy~ Ok. I get that. Being in the zone is a wonderful thing. :lol:

Kind of off topic~ Have you guys ever had a 3-peater or a 4-peater?

i'm swiss

October 16th, 2012
4:07 pm

Bluz — Are you familiar with the old Lewis Grizzard joke about the preacher, who during one particular church service was especially riled up and exhorting everyone in the congregation to repent and confess their sins, “Tell it all, brother! Tell it all!” One by one, every member of the congregation stood up and confessed to a litany of sins — adultery, theft, fornication, etc. — until finally, the lone unconfessed congregant was a squirrely-looking young man in the back of the church, desperately trying to avoid being noticed. After being extolled by the preacher and the other congregants repeatedly to “Tell it all, brother! Tell it all!” the young man finally stood up and sheepishly confessed, “Well, preacher, there was this one time I had sex with a goat.” After several moments of stunned silence the preacher finally said, “Damn, brother, I don’t believe I’da told that!:lol:

The moral of the story: some things are best kept to yourself… :lol:

Sassy Me...PYT ;-)

October 16th, 2012
4:11 pm

Have you guys ever had a 3-peater or a 4-peater?

Of course…

disco

October 16th, 2012
4:12 pm

swiss – I immediately thought “everything ain’t for everybody” and “never let your right hand know what your left hand is doing”. of course, I could go on with the mama-isms.

Comon Cents

October 16th, 2012
4:16 pm

Sassy~ Did you ever find that you had that moment like “Damn, dude, I ain’t trying to run no marathon up in here!” Sometimes, I think there can be TOO much of a good thing. Your thoughts?

Comon Cents

October 16th, 2012
4:17 pm

swiss~ Once again, you stoopid. SMDH…

Sassy Me...PYT ;-)

October 16th, 2012
4:20 pm

Comon we all have our moments when we either want to run the marathon or just do a few laps and call it a day..depending on what else is going on in life. Sometimes you might not want to lace up the shoes at all…but if we both have our running shoes on then brang it…cause I’ve gotchu :-)

Bluzgirl

October 16th, 2012
4:22 pm

CC – Sometimes, there can be too much of a good thing. It can start to really hurt after a while!

Comon Cents

October 16th, 2012
4:26 pm

OK, so here’s my late afternoon blog deliema. Like I said, Mr. Comon gewts it almost every night (which I am fine with) However, he is a 3-peater at a m inimum and sometimes a 4-peater. Since his work schedule is different from mine, he doesn’t have to get up most mornings until around 8:30 or 9 (long after I am gone from the house). So if I give it up, but only once, he gets kind of irritated and cantankerous (tells me I’m blocking his flow :lol: ) But I think that he should have some sympathy for the difference in work schedules. However, on the other side of that coin, I have never been one to deny my man what he needs because what you won’t do, another woman definitely will.

i'm swiss

October 16th, 2012
4:30 pm

Comon — Hold up, flag on the play! Now you’re just rubbing it in to all the un-boo’ed blogettes. :lol:

Sassy Me...PYT ;-)

October 16th, 2012
4:31 pm

Well I guess you gotta take one or 3 or 4 for the team :lol:

disco

October 16th, 2012
4:31 pm

swiss – you right. CC – stop bragging!!

i'm swiss

October 16th, 2012
4:32 pm

But to respond to your post, Comon, my advice: start earlier. :lol:

Bluzgirl

October 16th, 2012
4:32 pm

CC – Yes, he should be a little sympathetic to your schedule. BUT…for me…that wouldn’t even be a problem! LOL

Comon Cents

October 16th, 2012
4:35 pm

swiss~ Can’t start earlier unless I’m starting alone. :lol: He goes in later and consequently gets home later. Also, we have kids. No sneaking off to be alone until after 9:30. Most nights he doesn’t get home until around 10:30 or 11. I get up around 5 AM so that leaves about 3 hours for extra curricular activities.

Not bragging, I am seriously tired of disagreeing over this issue. I am looking for a solution, but so far I got nothing. :(

DuShawn

October 16th, 2012
4:38 pm

Man, I wish i did have time to buss 3 or 4 before work. My kids will be bangin at the door. “Daddy we just missed the bus….I’m hungry….I need you to sign my agenda…..What yall doin?”

Sassy Me...PYT ;-)

October 16th, 2012
4:38 pm

Comon you didn’t c.um across as having a problem…not with all that dyyck in yo womb you’ve been posting about. Whassa matter?

disco

October 16th, 2012
4:38 pm

CC – well in that case I say start later. let him lay there all night and wait to get broke off in the a.m. he won’t get to go 4 times but he won’t disrupt your sleep. if anything, he’ll be disrupting his own sleep since he’s used to snoozing at that time of the morning. not fool proof but worth a shot. (of course, I also don’t recommend you take advice from the chick who’s not getting any. i just wanted to be a part of the convo. lol).

i'm swiss

October 16th, 2012
4:38 pm

Comon — In that case, I dunno. How do you feel about sister-wives? :lol: