Fill a room with single women and ask them the most debatable question about men: Does size matter? You probably could divide the room down the middle on each side of the issue. A man’s size matters. It doesn’t matter. It depends.
I often wonder if men worry about their size as much as women worry about their weight. Are they self-conscious? Do they feel anxiety before they are intimate with their partner?
I know one thing, it is something some men definitely don’t want to talk about! I can recall having an awkward conversation with my ex-boyfriend Curry. He admitted that he was self-conscious about his size. We had been together for a long time before he ever admitted this to me.
Of course, women know to treat this with sensitivity (no pun intended, really!) but what should we do to reassure men that it doesn’t matter?
What happens if it does matter, though?
Has the size question ever come up in conversation with someone you dated/are dating? Is it something that should be avoided?
When it comes to dealing with issues with size, what is the best plan of action in your opinion?
P.S. I know it’s a sensitive topic…let’s still keep the conversation PG, please? Happy Friday!
By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog.