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Dating: Step your game up

When you find yourself stuck in a dating rut, you probably don’t even realize that you have started to let things slip. Your efforts become less then enthusiastic. You start going through the motions. This is the best time to take a break from dating and focus on something else.

The dating scene in Atlanta is all about image and personality. You want to be able to stand out and make a connection with someone you find attractive. If you are not into it, it definitely comes across as aloof, uninterested, or obnoxious. Sometimes we have to step our game up and become a little more sharp!

Do you ever feel as if you are in a dating rut? What are ways to break out of it?

What are some ways to step your dating game up in flirting, mingling, or approaching someone you are interested in?

Happy Friday!

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog

356 comments Add your comment

SchizoFunkenstein

September 14th, 2012
7:28 am

To be or not to be, that is the question. My brain is so big and I’m so smart! I don’t need dates! I date one of my own personalities!

Yours truly,

ranuknlolitlcomblurowmaroddbigeliatldresinpop AKA SchizoFunkenstein

Single and Happier "Life Happens!"

September 14th, 2012
7:34 am

Step up your game = try being someone else (lmao) When I want to step up my game I buy a new one for my PS3 (LOL)

Lily

September 14th, 2012
7:37 am

No game needed. Things are working!

Elijah

September 14th, 2012
7:56 am

Looking for my babe! Yeah!

Big Al

September 14th, 2012
8:04 am

Dumbest blog ever. We need less ‘games’ in the dating world, not more.

SchizoFunkenstein

September 14th, 2012
8:08 am

I outsmart them all! I’m SchizoFunkenstein!

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

September 14th, 2012
8:10 am

If I’m flirting and approaching her that aint no game, I’m too old to play hopefully she is to.

Good Morning:

Hey Lily, games should be left at Toy-R-Us stores.

Single when you reach our age we play games on a board not in their head.

Lady~favor ain't fair! :-)

September 14th, 2012
8:15 am

Fantastic Friday!!!!

Good Friday topic too! Eager to read our dating experts~ ;)

Lily

September 14th, 2012
8:20 am

Hello Blackfoote!

Comon Cents

September 14th, 2012
8:50 am

On topic~ I have nothing. Happily married and didn’t have to play games to get there.

Off Topic~ Did y’all watch the game last night? Hate that Chicgo lost, but it was a good game.

Single and Happier "Life Happens!"

September 14th, 2012
8:56 am

I feel you on that one Black, also if you get other things to occupy your time there will be no such thing as a dating slump, there is more to life than the next piece you’re going to hit!!

Comon, it shouldn’t have surprised anyone that they lost I mean their qb is J. Cutler (LOL)

SlimUno

September 14th, 2012
9:01 am

Good morning

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
9:05 am

Morning!!

Who needs game when you “got it?” But really I didn’t take “game” to mean trickery or bamboozling. I took game to mean polish up, improve your “whatever it is you’re doing…or”

But I agree, when it comes to “games” and playing games, let’s leave that for the kiddies please!

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
9:05 am

improve your “whatever it is you’re doing…or not” Don’t know what happened to the “not” in my post

Exiled!

September 14th, 2012
9:07 am

Is Diva a serial dater…on the prowl,all the time….dating,dating and dating…wining and dining….
Looking for what?

Or a complete failure?

I’m sure everybody gotta look at themselves in the mirror at some point.

Off topic: last evening,round about 6pm I leave work heading home and I’m looking for a barbershop…in a new neighborhood. So I find one in a Latino shopping complex…past my complex…as I drive back to my diggs,still looking and thinking,there gotta be a barber shop in this strip I passed,I don’t have to drive thar far…I see a neon sign that reads,’Good Head’

It really caught my eye! :lol: ‘Good Head?’ I’m musing…surely there can’t be a brothel in these good parts that can’t be true….so what do meeelo do….I say let me go check it out! :lol:

So I swing my truck that way in that strip mall and drive closer by the shop….

Yeah surely it reads ‘Good Head’ and more….there is a picture on the side window of a Maryline Manrow looking leggy white chic,sitting on a chair,amorously posing,her long bare Leggs stretched out! ‘Good Head ha’ I’m thinking…. So what is this shop?

As I scan the lettering verbiage on the window panes on the other side that’s when I notice the other signage….

Yeah,it’s a Barber shop!

:lol: So I drove away,taking note…for the next appointment.

:lol:

SlimUno

September 14th, 2012
9:29 am

Only Meeeeelo, only you bro :lol:

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

September 14th, 2012
9:32 am

Comon Chicago didn’t look good at all, they gave up 7 sacks. WTH

Single exactly so much more in life than trying to hit all the women in America.

Hey Cely I thought the same to sharpening of skills, when the word game is used it takes on a different conotation.

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
9:41 am

Blackfoote – Yes, we are thinking along the same lines this morning :)

Meello – What are we going to do with you? Huh? Humor me because I’m curious. What if it had been the type of establishment you suspected? What would have done with that?

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
9:43 am

Nookie is a man’s kryptonite (had MMeello turning his truck around)…lol

Comon Cents

September 14th, 2012
9:47 am

BF~ Green Bay gave up almost as many. IJS…

SlimUno

September 14th, 2012
9:48 am

O/T: How can you help or console a friend who says they just aren’t happy with their life?? However, when you throw out questions to see the things they feel need to change, what they would want to be different or may help them to be happy they don’t have a clue. :???:

Comon Cents

September 14th, 2012
9:48 am

C~ Had it been the type of establishment he expected, you already know what he would have done. :lol:

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

September 14th, 2012
9:48 am

LOL………@Cely that’s how a woman brings us to our knees.

Comon Cents

September 14th, 2012
9:50 am

SlimUno~ Chalk that up to a lost cause. I kid, I kid.

I think that when someone is at a point that they are unhappy they first need to pin point what part of their life is causing them to be unhappy before they can think of a way to try and fix it. Generally, when you are unhappy with your life, it is not your WHOLE life that you are unhappy with; that grey cloud over one area just makes it seem that way.

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
9:52 am

CC/Blackfoote – Honestly, I don’t think he would have done a thing. Ran maybe…lol But uh uh, MMeello is more bark than bite (blog love you Mmeello). IJS

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
9:53 am

Bluzy – I didn’t see your alter ego name until late. I wasn’t leaving you off on purpose…lol

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

September 14th, 2012
9:54 am

Comon the Pack didn’t look that good either, San Fran and the dirty birds will be the teams to beat this year.

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
9:56 am

Maybe the sign was an advertising ploy to work exactly the way it did. Got MMeello to turn around, come back and take a look…lol

I’m just making convo :)

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

September 14th, 2012
9:56 am

To beat In the NFC.

SlimUno

September 14th, 2012
9:58 am

CC – That was my same thought because the answer I got was, “Life in general”. I’m sitting there looking peturbed because from the outside looking in, it does not appear that their life is bad. Maybe they are at a point to where they feel they are just going through the motions of life without a purpose but to say life in general baffles me. This person has a pretty decent job, own house, no kids, never been married, doesn’t struggle with any addictions so i’m having hard time coming up with a starting point. I know that material things don’t bring eternal joy but damn, give me something to work with.

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
10:00 am

We’re going to start penalizing and sending folks to the corner for starting off with sports convos…lol And if you’re a woman (ahem Comon) and start it off, you’re getting double the demerits (Celisea’s arms folded and patting her feet).

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
10:01 am

I should say patting my foot. Hard patting both feet at the same time

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

September 14th, 2012
10:06 am

LOL…….@Cely I already live there.

Single and Happier "Life Happens!"

September 14th, 2012
10:07 am

Slim is the person ever happy with their life, because there are some who are only happy until the newness wears off.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

September 14th, 2012
10:07 am

In the corner under the bridge.

Comon Cents

September 14th, 2012
10:07 am

Sorry, C. I can’t help it. I may spend a lot of time in the corner because I LOVE football season.

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
10:09 am

Blackfoote – You went from under the stairs to the corner? I thought we set you free some months ago? C’mon tell, what did you violate? lol

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
10:10 am

CC – Well, until FB season is over with, Imma ask Blackfoote to move over. He seems to stay either under the stairwell or in the corner…lol

Comon Cents

September 14th, 2012
10:11 am

Slim~ You are bring us back on topic (sort of) Maybe your friend is just caught in a rut. Life can definitely cebome tedious when you feel that there are no breaks in the monotony of day to day living. Yes, you have nice tings and are secure but SOMETHING is missing and you can’t put your finger on what it is. People tend to call that unhappiness, but what it really is is tedium. Perhaps our friend should pick up a new hobby or something to break the day to day grind. Volunteer with the less fortunate, become a big sister, etc. All of things help to shake up the day to day and help you to appreciate more the situation that you have.

Comon Cents

September 14th, 2012
10:12 am

BF~ So, since it seems we gonna be cozy in the corner, whatcha drinking? :lol:

Single and Happier "Life Happens!"

September 14th, 2012
10:14 am

Comon I’m beginning to think we need to put you on a 12 step program, but I guess it’s always 5pm somewhere (LOL)

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
10:15 am

Anybody got BIG plans for the weekend?

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
10:16 am

Outside of mentioning attending some game…lololol

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

September 14th, 2012
10:19 am

Cely no violations in the past few years been watching my steps. I like under the stairwell gives me piece of mind while I finish doing my mission work. J/K

DuShawn

September 14th, 2012
10:22 am

Speaking of head….Several years ago, me and some bruz took a road trip to Kentucky. We were at a house party and I asked this girl what school she attended. She said Morehead. My response was …..”I ‘m good right now….but check with me later!” She didn’t see the humor in that.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

September 14th, 2012
10:23 am

Comon come on down/over that is, I got stock piles of everything ready for you to mix.

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
10:25 am

Blackfoote – How about you shuck the basement/under the stairwell altogether and take it at least to ground level? I’m sure you can find peace of mind anyplace other than the basement or under the stairs…lol

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

September 14th, 2012
10:25 am

Don’t worry I won’t bite.

disco

September 14th, 2012
10:30 am

good morning. I haven’t read posts yet but I like the whole idea of upping one’s game if for no other reason than I say that all the time. bring your game, step your game up, get your game on. game recognize game. lol.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

September 14th, 2012
10:31 am

Cely at one time I was in the penthouse, then inflation hit and I had to move everything to the stairwell…….LOL

Single and Happier "Life Happens!"

September 14th, 2012
10:34 am

Disco, that’s too many games (LOL)

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
10:34 am

Blackfoote – I thought I remember you being granted a reprieve…mmm hmmm sure it was inflation that sent you packing? I’m kidding.

SlimUno

September 14th, 2012
10:37 am

there are some who are only happy until the newness wears off.

SH – That’s a good question and I will ask her that the next time we have a convo.

CC – I can see how a regular routine could leave you feeling like something is missing. So in that case, my suggestion was to start doing things, planning things to look forward to. Take some time off work and get out of town. Your life is not going to change by sitting idly by doing nothing but falling more and more into a rut. And you have to take the reigns of your own happiness…no one else can do that for you because like SH said, once that new car smell is gone, then you’re back at the ranch tombout yo ass aint’ happy :roll:

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

September 14th, 2012
10:38 am

LOL……@Cely I didn’t know you read subliminally too.

disco now that’s a whole lot of games to bring.

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
10:42 am

Blackfoote – You gotta be on it. I’ve had folks to make a statement and drop a word, seeing if you’ll catch it. Subliminal games…lol You don’t have to always addressg but you certainly need to pay attention to catch it.

disco

September 14th, 2012
10:42 am

all I’m saying is that I use the word game quite a bit. lol. it doesn’t always have anything to do with playing games although it can. you about to be interrogated? put your game face on. interviewing for a job? bring your A game. sorry, worthless somebody with a pretty smile trying to sweet talk you, you might want to recognize the game.

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
10:43 am

I’m ready to go. Would I be wrong to say 6 hours and 17 minutes??? LOLOLOLOLOLOL

Lady~favor ain't fair! :-)

September 14th, 2012
10:43 am

Interesting~ hmmmmm

What is poppin’ C?!? Hey BF!

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
10:45 am

Heeeeeey there Lady! What’s crackalackin? Whatcha got going on this weekend?

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

September 14th, 2012
10:49 am

Slim1 what I would do for your friend is take her somewhere she never thought she would go. Naw not talking about fancy trips out the country a Monster truck show, Price Is Right show (I’m going next month at the Fox) seriously a lady with all the trimmings don’t need material stuff. Excitement from the right person will spark her up again.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

September 14th, 2012
10:53 am

Hey there my fair Lady~

disco Single and I know what you meant, when he step up to you he better be a sharp dude.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

September 14th, 2012
10:54 am

And of course a little edgy.

SlimUno

September 14th, 2012
10:57 am

We’ll see what happens…aye dios mio :roll:

Single and Happier "Life Happens!"

September 14th, 2012
11:00 am

Disco, I know I wouldn’t pass that interview, (LOL) can’t step up (LOL)

Comon Cents

September 14th, 2012
11:00 am

C~ Since I can’t mention sports, I don’t have any BIG plans for the weekend, but Little Cents is turning 6 tomorrow and my dad turned 66 today. So I am sure there will be some birthday happenngs afoot this weekend.

Single and Happier "Life Happens!"

September 14th, 2012
11:02 am

Black, Slim with alot of people they have no Idea what will make them happy, but they are always looking for someone, or something, to make them happy, it’s always the next whatever will make me happy. Never take time to enjoy the right now.

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
11:04 am

CC – LOLOL Cool on the birthdays

I have an earl early hair appointment and a quick road trip. I’m hanging out with a best bud of mine. He’s a good friend and asked if I would ride with him. Hopefully we can get back in before too late.

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
11:05 am

Comon – I have folks right now talking sports all over my head. Is there no end? lol

Single and Happier "Life Happens!"

September 14th, 2012
11:09 am

C, i’m not a sports fanatic either, I was offered a chance to get season tickets to Ala, and my first thought was I’m not driving 3 hours to see no dang football game! And I love ALA

Bluzgirl

September 14th, 2012
11:11 am

I was planning on just lurking today, but I have to respond to Slim…

Slim – maybe your friend has issues with depression. I know at times, I will feel totally unhappy with life, even when things are going great. Depression is a horrible monster that can creep up on you. Maybe instead of giving her suggestions, just listen to her and be there for her. If she asks you for help, then I agree with S/H about taking her out. Just show her you care about her. Sometimes, just an “I love you and care about you” will make all the difference…

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
11:12 am

Single – Eye to eye

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
11:28 am

SlimUno

September 14th, 2012
11:32 am

Bluz – It could be but it’s just a bit frustrated. The way i see it is to try to come up with some solutions, not just sit there complaining as if you WANT to be unhappy. Take life by the balls and shake it up. I’m not exactly where I want to be but i’m not going to just harp on it and stay feeling sorry for myself either. If I did, i’d be in a nut house by now…and nut house, I don’t mean a room full of naked men either (for you swiss) :lol:

Lady~favor ain't fair! :-)

September 14th, 2012
11:32 am

Nothing C~ finding me a corner and read a good novel as I welcome my favorite season Autumn~ I feel a bit withdrawn and just want a quiet introverted weekend. lol

What are you doing?!?

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
11:34 am

Comon Cents

September 14th, 2012
11:34 am

S/H~ Even though I am not a Tide fan, I am a football fan, so if that opportunity comes up again, you let your old buddy Comon know and I will swoop those tickets up. :lol:

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
11:36 am

I guess you (being Serena), got get it where you fit in…lol

Lady – I’m riding to Adairsville with a good friend of mine. He’s got an aged relative needing help, so he’s going up there. I’m just riding along. We’ll be back probably late. Off to church Sunday.

Comon Cents

September 14th, 2012
11:36 am

C~ Hoe you gonna ban sports talk and then bring in an article about Serena?!? Espcially right after she just won the Open?!? SMDH… What’s wrong with you! :lol:

Comon Cents

September 14th, 2012
11:37 am

*How not hoe. LOL!

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
11:37 am

Lady – This too, is my favorite time of the year. I hate the fact that both Spring and Autumn on seem to last about a blink. I don’t really do extreme weather but if I had to pick one, it would be winter.

SlimUno

September 14th, 2012
11:37 am

frustrating not frustrated

Reio

September 14th, 2012
11:38 am

Morning all. Thought I’d drop in this morning, and would’nt you know it, a topic I can’t really comment on. Been so long, both for commenting here and dating. I’ve been away for quite a while. From dating and commenting on this blog. Can’t offer much. Want to say “Hi” to everyone though, those that remember me especially.

Lady~favor ain't fair! :-)

September 14th, 2012
11:38 am

Good Deal C~ nothing like riding out periodically~

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
11:38 am

CC – We can post links…lol We just can’t spend every page talking specifics…lol I’m kidding. Heck if there’s nothing else to talk about, have at it. I do like watching tennis. She’s a bad girl. I watch some of the match.

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
11:40 am

Serena ain’t got no problem swirling…lol

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
11:40 am

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

September 14th, 2012
11:41 am

Hey Lady~ welcome to the corner, prop your feet up on this ottoman while you read your book.

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
11:42 am

Am I the only woman that’s not read 50 Shades of Grey?

Lady~favor ain't fair! :-)

September 14th, 2012
11:44 am

Thanks BF~ Yeah C I didn’t dig it and I am in the minority there~ I am ready one of James Baldwin’s tales~ Go Tell it Over the Mountain~

Bluzgirl

September 14th, 2012
11:47 am

Slim – I know it can be frustrating. When I feel that way, I typically withdraw now. I know that only I can pull myself out of the funk. I used to try to rely on other people to pull me out, but that’s too much to put on them. Personally, I have my cry fest, my pity party, then KIM…It can be hard for someone to pull out of that funk, though. It has taken me years to learn how to do it. Hopefully, your friend will get in a better mindset. Just let her vent. There are times when I’ve told a close friend that I didn’t want any advice…I just need to vent and then I feel better about it. There’s not much you can say to someone who is truly depressed…I hope she’ll work it out

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
11:47 am

Lady – The book you’re reading sounds really interesting. That’s more along the lines of what peaks my interest. Don’t get me wrong, I love a good book with a hint of love/romance but I ain’t interested in smut. Not saying 50 Shades is smut, as I’ve not read it but there are many others. I like to be where I can’t put the book down.

Lady~favor ain't fair! :-)

September 14th, 2012
11:50 am

we are >>>>>HERE<<<<<< C~ I feel ya!

Lady~favor ain't fair! :-)

September 14th, 2012
11:51 am

meant reading too! lawd lol not ready although I too am READY to GO~ lol

i'm swiss

September 14th, 2012
11:52 am

“Serena ain’t got no problem swirling”

And this whiteboy would have no problem swirling with her. :lol:

Morning (barely), folks!

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
11:53 am

Lady – 5 hours and 7 minutes (said yelling)…lol

i'm swiss

September 14th, 2012
11:56 am

Great thing for me is Mrs. Swiss has a lady-crush on Serena, too. So I can drool over her booty with impudence when watching her matches. :lol:

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
11:56 am

Alright now…Serena is a whole lot of woman.

Comon Cents

September 14th, 2012
11:59 am

Ain’t nothing wrong with swirling. :lol: The second hubby was white. The first hubby was creole. Current hubs is black. I’m equal opportunity. :D

Lady~favor ain't fair! :-)

September 14th, 2012
11:59 am

lol C! 2 hours and 10 min I am running to the eastside!

i'm swiss

September 14th, 2012
12:00 pm

She’s actually not as big as she looks on tv. Those tennis dresses make her look bigger, I think. She always looks much slimmer in off-court photos. But oh my d@mn, the booty and them titTAYS! :lol:

Comon Cents

September 14th, 2012
12:00 pm

I read 50 Shade but I was underwhelmed by it. While I like the erotica, the writing was crap.

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
12:01 pm

Lady – Just make sure you yell it out…lololol

CC – Just call you operation rainbow….lol

Lady~favor ain't fair! :-)

September 14th, 2012
12:02 pm

or 3 and 10 smh lol

i'm swiss

September 14th, 2012
12:03 pm

Comon — You like erotic poetry? Ever read “Goblin Market” by Christina Rossetti?

i'm swiss

September 14th, 2012
12:04 pm

And when I say erotic, I don’t mean beat-you-over-the-head-with-it trash like (I presume) the 50 shades books. More subtle/metaphorical. But good, nonetheless.

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
12:05 pm

The camera does nothing for us ladies…lol I was thinking though, dang she’s got big thighs, while watching…lol As long as the man is happy, hey who am I? Seriously though, she can’t be, playing like that.

On 50 Shades, I gotta be frank (and I might be slighty off), it just seemed to me to be the craze/wave that stirred and aroused a bunch of loins that’s probably not been aroused like that in years. Again, I haven’t read it but that’s just how it seems. Oh, along from making a buttload of cash. I mentioned to my brother that I might buy and he said, don’t buy that trash…lolololol

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
12:06 pm

And really, you don’t need a book to get the juices flowing. Everything starts in the mind.

i'm swiss

September 14th, 2012
12:07 pm

“dang she’s got big thighs”

Cel — Those are some serious earmuff, fo sho. For advanced practitioners, only. :lol:

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
12:08 pm

Swiss – Hollers! When I say “LOL’d”, I mean it. You did not say “advanced practitioners only” Oh, my…whew

Willie Dynamite

September 14th, 2012
12:09 pm

Afternoon All,
Topic – what is this Game she speaks of? I realized I have none and wish to acquire some so I am taking notes today.

Lady~favor ain't fair! :-)

September 14th, 2012
12:09 pm

THE MIND!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!<<<LOVE THAT C~ it does mental stimulation rocks! ;)

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
12:10 pm

Serena having an earmufflectomy would put to silence the entire world around her…lololololol

Lady~favor ain't fair! :-)

September 14th, 2012
12:10 pm

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
12:11 pm

Lady – Somebody sold something to women they already had. Read the book, got the mind going hence the nether regions stirring. All in the mind.

i'm swiss

September 14th, 2012
12:12 pm

“Serena having an earmufflectomy would put to silence the entire world around her”

Cel — That’s the best part — when those thighs clamp down and it’s just me and the puddy & nothing else in the world. :lol:

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
12:12 pm

And back around to the topic, 50 Shades? Good mindblowing game…lol

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
12:13 pm

Swiss – LOLOLOL…becoming “as one”

Willie Dynamite

September 14th, 2012
12:13 pm

Swiss – nothing like being focused on the task at hand.

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
12:16 pm

4 hours and 44 minutes

i'm swiss

September 14th, 2012
12:18 pm

“nothing like being focused on the task at hand.”

Willie D — True, true. And, if you’re good, the task at left hand, right hand, pinky, thumb, lips, tongue, eyelashes, etc., simultaneously. :lol:

i'm swiss

September 14th, 2012
12:19 pm

And yes, I did say eyelashes. :lol:

Lady~favor ain't fair! :-)

September 14th, 2012
12:20 pm

ok ready for some Friday Funnies~ humor me~ lol

Lady~favor ain't fair! :-)

September 14th, 2012
12:21 pm

C~ seems the Apple CRACKHEADS are so geek about the iphone 5…….I could care less 0_o lol #random

Lady~favor ain't fair! :-)

September 14th, 2012
12:23 pm

they pre-ordered and all its like a status thingy……..society is amusing~

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
12:23 pm

Lady – I’m slowing succumbing to Apple…lol I hope I won’t become an AppleCrackhead. I’m almost hyped from looking at the I-5

Lady~favor ain't fair! :-)

September 14th, 2012
12:25 pm

lol ironically C~ lol get it and roll with them lol

Single and Happier "Life Happens!"

September 14th, 2012
12:26 pm

C, lady, what’s the hype behind this phone? I just don’t get it, when they are talking about all the things it will do I just don’s see it.

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
12:27 pm

Lady – As all addicts say or think, my addiction won’t be like theirs…lol

Lady~favor ain't fair! :-)

September 14th, 2012
12:29 pm

C~ we all are addicts to something, I just like picking with AppleHeads~ Its all about control and thinking~ I digress~

SH who knows but I won’t know for a while I won’t say never but I am not pressed for it and never have been~

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
12:30 pm

Single – I don’t know…yet…lol I don’t have an Iphone but I see all the type. Honestly, I think somewhat along the lines of what Lady is saying, it’s the thing to have. But IMO, most phones will give you what you need. Outgoing/incoming calls, texting, email access, mobile banking, etc…those pertinent things. Being able to watch movies and listen to music galore, maybe not so much from other phones, but that’s what home/tv/cable is for. I loaded a movie on my Ipod once. I must say it was really cool to watch it, but honestly I would only need that traveling or if I’m going to be sitting a long time.

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
12:30 pm

hype not type

Single and Happier "Life Happens!"

September 14th, 2012
12:36 pm

Lady, C, I love technology, deal with it everyday, but I just don’t see the hype in every time something new comes out, I got to have it.

Lady~favor ain't fair! :-)

September 14th, 2012
12:37 pm

but I just don’t see the hype in every time something new comes out, I got to have it.<<<<<<<<<<That is my point~ You get it! the thrill is overrated to me~ but who am I lol #carryon lol

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
12:37 pm

Well, I have an Ipod and heading towards the purchase of an Iphone. If I buy an Apple computer, I will officially be an AppleCrackhead…lol I really like Apple though. The products are top notch. I just think you can find quality stuff a bit cheaper.

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
12:38 pm

Single – Again, we’re seeing eye to eye

Lady~favor ain't fair! :-)

September 14th, 2012
12:40 pm

C~ I feel you and folks can get what they please and very well can afford~ they hype is just funny but yeah I am all for folks liking their toys bc I love mine be it another brand or not~

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
12:40 pm

I almost had to bury my kid when I asked if she wanted a “Trac” phone…lololol Of course it was a joke, but I did it for the reaction. She was trying to get all “booghee” on my plan. Without a job, you can’t afford to get booghee. That was my point to her. She wanted to start off with a BB….ummm, not!

Single and Happier "Life Happens!"

September 14th, 2012
12:41 pm

C, I still have a zune, I got when they first came out, the battery went bad in it, and I was thinking about getting a new one till I saw how much they cost, I found out I could get a new battery for $12 so that’s the route I took, and it’s just like new :-)

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
12:42 pm

Lady – Or be it something totally different. I think we all have indulgences or that one thing we like. Mine? SHOES!!!! I ain’t gonna pay a grip for a purse but I won’t skimp on shoes. I ain’t gonna spend my mortgage payment, don’t get me wrong, but if they’re nice and I like and I can afford it, I’m buying!

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
12:43 pm

Single – I’m really not trying to be funny but what’s a Zune?

Single and Happier "Life Happens!"

September 14th, 2012
12:43 pm

C, I’ve been nice and let my son stay on my plan since it’s only 10 a month, and we never use all our mins. He told me the yesterday he’s thinking about going to sprint, cause he can’t stand to be with out the internet anymore (LOL)

Single and Happier "Life Happens!"

September 14th, 2012
12:44 pm

It’s the Microsoft version of the Ipod, most haven’t heard of them so don’t feel bad (LOL)

Lady~favor ain't fair! :-)

September 14th, 2012
12:45 pm

I heart Sprint! 13years strong!

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
12:51 pm

Single – Gotcha. Never heard of Zune.

Single – If he wants to go to Sprint…RELEASE HIM! lol

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
12:54 pm

Now, I have to have internet and email on my phone. I’ve been pulled into this new wave. I would have withdrawals if I didn’t have access…lololol

Lady~favor ain't fair! :-)

September 14th, 2012
12:55 pm

now C~ I would TOO! accessibility is KEY!

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
12:56 pm

Lady – I would guess it’s safe to say we’re virtual/electronic crackheads…lol

My sister just went with Sprint this week.

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
12:57 pm

Single – Do you like Zune? I need to back up. It seems before I bought the phone before my BB, that I might have looked at (a) Zune. I can vaguely remember now but I don’t remember much about it.

Lady~favor ain't fair! :-)

September 14th, 2012
1:03 pm

yeah that is a fair assessment C~ LOL approved!

Single and Happier "Life Happens!"

September 14th, 2012
1:05 pm

C, I’ve always told him if he want’s to get all the bells and whistles for his phone he has to get it in his name, not trying to hold him back. I love my zune, I guess I just refuse to jump on the apple bandwagon.

I have everything on my phone with on 200mb of data that I’ve never even come close to using, I think the most I’ve ever used is about 60mb. most of the time I’m on wifi

Comon Cents

September 14th, 2012
1:05 pm

Playing catch-up!

swiss~ I have not read Goblin Market, but I will go on Amazon and see if I can download it to the iPad tonight! I am with you. I like the more suble erotica rather than the bash you over the head, over the top, “OMG stop, no one really has sex like that!” type of novels.

Single and Happier "Life Happens!"

September 14th, 2012
1:06 pm

C zune is not a phone, it’s works just like the Ipod

Comon Cents

September 14th, 2012
1:07 pm

S/H~ I have a Zune ( My bro used to work for Microsoft. That’s the only reason I had ever heard of it) Bt I haven’t used it for years. Have they really come up? Maybe I should pull that thing out of the box…

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
1:09 pm

Lady – lololol

Single – I with you there. Folks wanna be grown, go on then and get your “grown folks” on. Just make sure you pay the way, because being grown comes with a pricetag.

Okay, I do remember looking at it a hot sec. I moved from the BB to IPAQ which totally died on me and I had to go back to the BB. I was sooo happy that crap was discontinued…lol I say do what works for you and your pockets. Trying to keep up will cause you to go broke.

So you’re a techie it seems. Okay, cool. You studied or just dabbled until you learned some stuff? I know I’m getting old now because I’ll call my nephew without even trying most times…lol Bad to say. Sort of like when my moms and pops got their first VCR years ago and called me to hook it up because they treated it something that arrived from Mars…lol

Single and Happier "Life Happens!"

September 14th, 2012
1:10 pm

Comon come up to what? I only use mine to listen to music. My nephew works for Microsoft. I’ve always here apple(crack) kills (LOL) Are you one of those that goes around taking pictures with your Ipad?

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
1:10 pm

Single – Ohhhh, then I didn’t look at it. I guess it back to “I never heard of Zune” Let me go back, I thought it said it was MS version of the Iphone. No?

Lady~favor ain't fair! :-)

September 14th, 2012
1:10 pm

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
1:11 pm

Iphone vs Ipad…got it

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
1:11 pm

Ipod not Ipad…now, got it

Single and Happier "Life Happens!"

September 14th, 2012
1:12 pm

C to keep up in my job, you really have to be technology savvy, if you sit on the side lines you get left behind

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
1:13 pm

Lady – I just need something to work…lol I’m still falling for the Iphone. I don’t do music that much. Only if time affords me or I’m in the car. Otherwise, not into music like that.

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
1:14 pm

Single – Gotcha. That almost goes without saying now in just about all fields.

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
1:15 pm

The ballplayer is so fake. He walks around with his Ipad fronting.

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
1:15 pm

BTW, I got on the elevator with him a couple of weeks ago. Dead silence.

Lady~favor ain't fair! :-)

September 14th, 2012
1:16 pm

fakeness seems to rock see~ lol

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
1:17 pm

Lady – Yep. He’s got a new baby, who btw is sooooooo pretty, She got it all from the mommie apparently, and he’s showing pics to anyone that will look or listen. We did a client visit and HE PULLED OUT HIS IPAD, showing pics. Needless to say the rest of us was looking around.

Single and Happier "Life Happens!"

September 14th, 2012
1:18 pm

C, it’s funny I love music have alot of old albums, put all the music on my zune, but I only listen to it when i’m doing yard work, in my truck, or traveling (LOL) I haven’t hardly listen to the radio in almost 2 years.

i'm swiss

September 14th, 2012
1:19 pm

Comon — You can get that poem, and entire collections of Rossetti’s poetry for free on iBooks. I would assume the same would be true for kindle.

i'm swiss

September 14th, 2012
1:20 pm

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
1:22 pm

Single – You still have albums??? You have a turntable? You listen to those albums?? That’s cool, really. Awww man you just took me back some years. Although I wasn’t even 10, I remember my older sibs having every Motown record that was ever sold…lol We have a hifi (I think it’s what they were called). The turntable on one side, the radio on the other and storage in the middle for albums.

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
1:22 pm

we “had”

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
1:25 pm

Single – So how do you keep up with current artists if you’re not listening to the radio? The internet? TV?

Comon Cents

September 14th, 2012
1:30 pm

S/H~ You said that the price of them had skyrocketed. I assume (very carefully) that they must have upgraded somehow because it was getting beat out by the ipod. Mine is still in the box. LOL! My bro won it from some marketing contest they had going on and he gave it to me. :lol:

C~ I never really listen to the radio (other than morning shows) but I use Spotify and it recommends new music to me. That’s how I find it. IDK about S/H.

swiss I will check it out when I get a second. I have saved the link . Thanks!

Single and Happier "Life Happens!"

September 14th, 2012
1:39 pm

C I really don’t keep up with new artist, just not into the new music. I know more about some of the new artist than I want to know, and I’ve never heard anything that they sing (LOL)

C I have a turntable hooked up to my computer, that’s how I got all the music onto my zune

Comon they upgraded the technology things, but they still basically do the same thing.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

September 14th, 2012
1:43 pm

Ah yes the turntable is making a comeback, yep hi-fi was here before wi-fi. I unloaded a bunch of albums after the cassette come along, then they went after the cd come out. To me the phonogram plays cripsier music than a cd does.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

September 14th, 2012
1:44 pm

“crispier” sorry I don’t know what a cripsier is either.

Single and Happier "Life Happens!"

September 14th, 2012
1:45 pm

Black I could never give up my albums :-D

Single and Happier "Life Happens!"

September 14th, 2012
1:50 pm

Bring back the 8track (LOL) I miss hearing 4 songs at once (LMAO)

Comon Cents

September 14th, 2012
1:53 pm

S/H~ You can keep the 8 Track. No fast forward, no rewind. Want to hear a song again? Drive around until it comes back on. :lol:

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

September 14th, 2012
1:53 pm

Single when I gave them up I had a feeling the turntable would come back in the near future. Talk about every album from P-Funk, Bootsy, Ohio Players, Earth Wind & Fire. Man those were the music years.

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
1:55 pm

CC – I’m so out of the loop…lol I didn’t hear of Spotify for the first time until like or week or so ago, on here.

Single – I have a turntable hooked up to my computer

Impressive my man. Don’t know how that’s done if it’s an oldschool player but hey, apparently it can be done.

Blackfoote – I hear you chiming in on the oldschool stuff…lol

Single and Happier "Life Happens!"

September 14th, 2012
1:57 pm

Now counselor, you know i was being sarcastic, I’m waiting for what’s an 8 track (LOL)

C, I did have my old school turntable, hooked up, I got one with USB last year.

Black, still have alot of those on albums and CDs :-D

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

September 14th, 2012
1:58 pm

Remember when the cd came out the music was suppose to be crystal clear and have all this clarity. When the laser light burn out the cd player is history.

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
1:58 pm

Blackfoote – My brothers would agree with your 1:53

My dad had an 8track player in his yellow cadillac. He was also sporting an “open the red sea” part in his fro…lol Remember Arnold from Different Strokes and that big ole part in his fro? That was my daddy.

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
2:00 pm

Single – I did have my old school turntable, hooked up, I got one with USB last year.

That’s funny. All I can picture is a 25 year old turntable rigged to the computer…lololol

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

September 14th, 2012
2:02 pm

LOL…….@Cely I worked with a guy that sported a part in his fro. You’re sending me down memory lane now.

Willie Dynamite

September 14th, 2012
2:03 pm

What happened to old school House Parties? Dayum I miss those.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

September 14th, 2012
2:04 pm

That is a funny twist phonograph meets computer.

Exiled!

September 14th, 2012
2:04 pm

Swiss(some of ur timid ones close ur or put ur hands across the top face)

Serena thighs wrapping around ur white boy(jnr) and working the muscles to dig in will make u toss Mrs Swiss

Don’tcha think? :lol:

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
2:05 pm

Blackfoote – Hey, how about a part with a receding hairline? Oh and those polyester pants with no belt loops and the shirts committing collarcide, where the collar reaches the underarm pit…lololol

Single and Happier "Life Happens!"

September 14th, 2012
2:06 pm

C my 25 year old turntable went out on me, but it was the same as the one I had hooked up before I got the USB, it wasn’t hard to do, I even transferred some of my old cassettes to my computer.

Willie Dynamite

September 14th, 2012
2:06 pm

Speaking of Old School, Where is Leggs?

Exiled!

September 14th, 2012
2:06 pm

I thought Common had the raaaah muscle for Serena what happened ?

i'm swiss

September 14th, 2012
2:06 pm

Cel — You need to get on Spotify. Never need to buy music again. Plus, it’s easy to share / get recommendations from friends. Look me up on there if you ever want some recommendations for obscure whiteboy tunes. ;-)

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
2:07 pm

What happened to old school House Parties?

I remember my sister having a party and had a “blue light”, everybody was “slowdragging”…lol I was banned cause I was a kid. Still, I got my peek on.

i'm swiss

September 14th, 2012
2:08 pm

Me.lo — It appears Serena has a taste for Anglo-Saxon Whitesnake. :lol:

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

September 14th, 2012
2:08 pm

Willie D. man they don’t happen like they used to anymore. I got away with a lot of groping back in those days. It was a ritual for the guys to grope during house partys and surprisngly the girls loved it……….LOL

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
2:09 pm

Single – I understood you bought a new one. I was just commenting on how funny that must have been to see an old turntable rigged. Before today, NEVER EVER heard of such.

Swiss – Okay, I’m jammed up this weekend but I just might see if I can get on. I was digging most of the tunes you put out on the blog the other week.

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
2:10 pm

Blackfoote

I got away with a lot of groping back in those days = slowdragging

Lady~favor ain't fair! :-)

September 14th, 2012
2:10 pm

poppin’ in and yelling LESS THAN A HOUR C~

I want some wine too! Chardonnay please dry tart and bitter! lol

Willie Dynamite

September 14th, 2012
2:10 pm

Cel – that was me. Can’t dance (people like me don’t dance-hahaha) but I can slow dance my azz off. Hemmed up in a darker corner being mannish. Yep that’s me.

Single and Happier "Life Happens!"

September 14th, 2012
2:13 pm

C us old schoolers got old (LOL)

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

September 14th, 2012
2:13 pm

Cely we called those Saturday Night Fever collars, we flipped that thing over your blazer collar and shood we thought we were magnificent.

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
2:13 pm

Lady – LOLOLOLOL my turn: 2 hours, 47 minutes

Willie – And my brothers. Matter of fact, probably all y’all…lol Hemmed up coping a feel

Willie Dynamite

September 14th, 2012
2:14 pm

Black – pssst your teeth are starting to show again. Lol

Single and Happier "Life Happens!"

September 14th, 2012
2:15 pm

C, it wasn’t rigged with wires going every where, they make adapters for almost everything (LOL)

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
2:16 pm

Single – Us? “We” honey….lol

Blackfoote – Sho nuff. EWF

Do you remember the 21st night of September?
Love was changing the mind of pretenders
While chasing the clouds away
Our hearts were ringing
In the key that our souls were singing
As we danced in the night
Remember, how the stars stole the night away, yeah yeah yeah

Hey hey hey
Ba de ya, say do you remember
Ba de ya, dancing in September
Ba de ya, never was a cloudy day
Ba duda, ba duda, ba duda, badu
Ba duda, badu, ba duda, badu
Ba duda, badu, ba duda

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
2:17 pm

Single – it wasn’t rigged with wires going every where, they make adapters for almost everything

LOLOLOLOL….glad you told me because that’s what I’d envisioned. My baaaaad

Single and Happier "Life Happens!"

September 14th, 2012
2:17 pm

C us goes right along with schoolers :-P

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
2:19 pm

Willie – I can’t dance either. When I use to do the club scene and a dude asked to dance, I just sort of moved while he moved all around me. I can’t dance either.

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
2:19 pm

Single – Yep…lol

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

September 14th, 2012
2:20 pm

LOL……@Willie D. thanks man I’m not even trying but they show every once in a while.

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
2:21 pm

Would anybody be surprised that I don’t do a lot or R&B? I’m mostly softpop/rock. Not the headbanging stuff. Nuh uh, that’s a migraine waiting to happen.

Exiled!

September 14th, 2012
2:21 pm

Swiss,this is just me thinking and sexomusing….

I think more Anglo-Saxons men go down than black folks…
I think a bodilicious curvy woman figures she gets more sexual raah than the token go down some black folks men do..

What u say black blog men folk ?? :lol:

I can play today so go :arrow: :lol:

Single and Happier "Life Happens!"

September 14th, 2012
2:24 pm

I was listening to Hello it’s me, the other day by the Isley Brothers, love the song but never paid attention to how many times he says hello at the beginning of the song, it’s about 20 times (LOL) before the finally says hello it’s me, I’m thinking I can see the girl reaction ” for real, I didn’t know who the hell it was” (LOL)

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
2:24 pm

MMeello – Whatchu talking about? You didn’t answer my question earlier.

cba

September 14th, 2012
2:24 pm

Celisea~ love me some EWF, still have most of their old albums. Saw them a couple of years ago long with Chicago.
@BF, those album covers were good for sorting the seeds out of the weeds :lol:

Exiled!

September 14th, 2012
2:25 pm

U know ladies..the raah u get from a man that makes u want to go downstairs to the kitchen and get a cold glass of water..???

puts Masturbaating to shame :lol:

Let’s freaky its Friday!

Single and Happier "Life Happens!"

September 14th, 2012
2:25 pm

Lets see C, would think you were more into reggae (LOL)

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
2:25 pm

cba – EWF is one of the greatest band/groups of all time…IMO Just raw with talent. That’s one group where I can hear their music and stil feel it.

Exiled!

September 14th, 2012
2:25 pm

What’s the question Cel

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
2:26 pm

Single – You being funny? If not why? How did you get reggae?

i'm swiss

September 14th, 2012
2:26 pm

Me.lo — I can only speak for myself, but I do quite enjoy going under the hood — especially with a chassis like that… :lol:

Lady~favor ain't fair! :-)

September 14th, 2012
2:27 pm

cba EW&F were great this summer @ Chastain!!! a great evening was had sir~

C less than 45mins honey!!!! I am winning! ha! lol but yeah you make more lol

Single and Happier "Life Happens!"

September 14th, 2012
2:27 pm

Ex where you talking about going “downtown” :-D

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
2:27 pm

Mmeello – Your quest to find a barber shop yesterday (I think you said). You turned around based on a sign that read a bit more than the first impression you got. Had it been one of type establishments, what would you have done? Gone inside?

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
2:28 pm

Lady – 2 hours and 32 minutes…YELLING!!! lololol

Single and Happier "Life Happens!"

September 14th, 2012
2:28 pm

I though thought you like the ganga C (lmao) yea I’m being funny

Exiled!

September 14th, 2012
2:29 pm

Swiss…ever had a woman squirt in ur face or mouth accidentally?

Or u admittedly swallow the same way some women luv dranking it?
:lol:

(under the stair)

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
2:30 pm

Single – What I tell you about trying to get a read through the screen? lololol

Comon Cents

September 14th, 2012
2:31 pm

swiss~ Who you be on Spotify? Maybe I need to check out some whiteboy tunes…

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
2:31 pm

Nothing gansta about me boo. Now Celoquasha? Yeah, she’s a woman to be reckoned with. You want NONE of her…lololol

Single and Happier "Life Happens!"

September 14th, 2012
2:31 pm

Ex, how do they “accidentally” squirt? (LOL) isn’t that the whole purpose of going down there :-D

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

September 14th, 2012
2:32 pm

Cely some more EWF

Would You Mind
Would you mind if I touch, if I kiss
If I held you tight in the morning light? Yeah
Would you mind if I said
How I felt tenderly tonight again?

‘Cause I never ever felt
This way in my heart before, oh
Love has found its way
In my heart, yeah

Would you mind if I looked in your eyes till
I’m hypnotized and I lose my pride? yeah
Would you mind if I make love to you
Till I’m satisfied once again?

‘Cause I never ever felt
Felt this way in my heart oh before, oh
Love has found its way
In my heart tonight

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
2:32 pm

MMeelloo is determined to take us there I see…lololol

Comon Cents

September 14th, 2012
2:32 pm

Ex~ That is a blantant and dirty lie. More white boys just ADMIT to going under the hood. Black boys wait until they get you alone and then it “Let me just get a taste…” LMAO!

Exiled!

September 14th, 2012
2:33 pm

Cel.would have made a mental note and left regardless.

I was skeptical it would be that but was curious still what ‘Good head’ business wld be going on…

Like with any ‘good thing’ say,a curvy woman that’s intriguing….

A lion will gaze at it…look closely…maybe asking around…taking a mental note…

That’s what a Big Bull does Cel

:lol:

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
2:33 pm

Awwwww sookie sookie now Blackfoote, you pulling out all the stops.

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
2:34 pm

Mmeello – Cel.would have made a mental note and left regardless.

As I thought. All nice and cuddly…lololol

Willie Dynamite

September 14th, 2012
2:34 pm

Cel – you prolly can dance but too uptight to drop it wondering what everybody gon say. I bet you broke a sweat at home in the mirror looking at yaself. I know you, hahaha. J/k j/k

Black – quit playin man, Embrace it. Repeat after me; I am a Wolf, I am a Wolf. Lol

Ex- stop listening to the barbershop talk. Its some bruhs that that are all inclusive. Ask the Ladies they’ll tell you. Its one thing to break backs but you gotta make the toes curl and cramp up to the point where they are tingly all over and tap out.

Exiled!

September 14th, 2012
2:34 pm

Single..accidentally squirt on u…eye,mouth face etc..

U luv wiping ur face with it..

Tell me

i'm swiss

September 14th, 2012
2:35 pm

Me.lo — I’ve had squirters, yes, but trust me, it was no accident. :lol:

Comon — My Spotify id is karaokebus

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

September 14th, 2012
2:35 pm

LOL……..@cba those album covers indeed served dual roles.

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
2:37 pm

WillieD – you prolly can dance but too uptight to drop it wondering what everybody gon say

I resent that!!! lolol Now you should I don’t live worry about others. If I don’t drop it, it’s cause I don’t wanna…lol

I do remember getting popped/smacked by my oldest brother because I was butt nekkid, after a bath (can’t remember how old but a little girl), rubbing (very animated here) myself down with babypowder, singing Donna Summer’s Love to Love You Baby. He was smacking and saying “you so fast, get some clothes on”…lolol I will NEVER forget that.

And no MMello, I wasn’t feeling on myself. Heck I didn’t even have training bra knots at the time.

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
2:39 pm

Yes yes, my brothers watched over us like hawks. Watching for wolves…lololol

cba

September 14th, 2012
2:39 pm

@Lady~ I saw them at Verizon; I like the ease of getting in and out of Verizon better than Chastain.

Really showing my age now, I once saw EW&F, the Emotions, and Ramsey Lewis in Macon for 12 BUCKS!

Exiled!

September 14th, 2012
2:41 pm

Willie…I hear u bro…

That’s why folks who are cheap to ladies and moan and groan bout money are a turn off even to some if us guys…

Ladies gotta have the money to buy stuff to spruce and clean themselves up so when menfolk rummage down there.it’s smelling roses,diamonds,oozing and sizzling with fresh aromas.

Okay I’m gone! :lol: :lol:

Single and Happier "Life Happens!"

September 14th, 2012
2:41 pm

Ex it’s still not an accident, it means I did my job :-D

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
2:42 pm

MMeello should see a sex therapist…seriously I would be afraid to be married to him. Even though I still believe he more bark than bite. I wouldn’t want my man untamed and on the loose…lololol

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
2:43 pm

Untamed being the operative word

Lady~favor ain't fair! :-)

September 14th, 2012
2:45 pm

shame on me I refused to finish my work today!!! LOL C I am running out the building!!!! Have a great weekend C and MIA!!!!! ;)

Peace!

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
2:46 pm

Lady – Toodles and have a fantab weekend!

2 hours and 14 minutes…yelling!!

Comon Cents

September 14th, 2012
2:46 pm

swiss~ I think you have told me that before. :lol: I am just slow. By the time I get home to play on my own computer, I am too tired to find anyone to follow. LMAO! But I will put it on the to do list this weekend.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

September 14th, 2012
2:53 pm

Calling out Lady (with hands on my hips) you leaving early today and leaving me behind. You don’t love me anymore? I’m still holding the door for you though.

Willie Dynamite

September 14th, 2012
2:54 pm

Ex – naww man I don’t think u get it. How did $$ get into the convo. A real woman is gonna ge nice and tidy down there. You talking bout slumming just to get a nut. Whole nother level man, we speaking diff dialects.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

September 14th, 2012
2:56 pm

Ok Cely I’ve seen you count down all day long, my turn now five minutes…….LOL

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
2:56 pm

Blackfoote – Lady has been gone now almost 10 minutes. You might be holding the door the weekend if you’re waiting for her….lol Now you know how we do the weekend…RET TO GO!

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
2:57 pm

Blackfoote – Move over, here let me show you

FIVE MINUTES!!!! Yelling…lol

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
2:58 pm

Night Blackfoote…have a fantab weekend

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

September 14th, 2012
2:59 pm

cba I’m wondering what Single does with his album covers. Hey Single did you take any with you to Jamaica?………LOL

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

September 14th, 2012
3:00 pm

Night Cely and gang y’all have the greatest weekend.

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
3:01 pm

1 hour, 59 minutes!!!

screaming

i'm swiss

September 14th, 2012
3:04 pm

kimmie, ITL, Comon, and any other DAWGS that might be lurking — Have any of you seen this commercial w/ Herschel? Classic. :lol:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F778IKIe9eg&feature=youtu.be

Robert

September 14th, 2012
3:07 pm

“What are some ways to step your dating game up in flirting, mingling, or approaching someone you are interested in?

I am a “predator” always looking for new “prey” and in ATL I have plenty of hunting opportunities. For example, I see a woman I am physically attracted to but she is with someone else. What can I do to get her attention? I will try and make eye contact with her and “flirt” to gage her interest. If she is busy “flirting” with me while her date is playing with his phone I will jesture to her to make an excuse to go the bathroom and I will meet her there. I target women who are on dates especially if he makes it easy for me by how he looks in public (baseball caps, blue jeans, sneakers, tatoo’s, gold teeth, etc.). Real “Players” look for any weakness they can exploit. Don’t bring your woman around me.

Exiled!

September 14th, 2012
3:08 pm

No Willie..didn’t mean it like that..

I get what u said..

Willie Dynamite

September 14th, 2012
3:08 pm

Cel – pace yourself. 2 hours to go and you screaming. Keep this up you’ll need a bullhorn.

Sassy Me...live..laugh..love ;-)

September 14th, 2012
3:08 pm

Sooo what’s happnin’ blog??

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
3:09 pm

WillieD – Okay, LOL’d on that one. I’m going back to yelling. I’ll start screaming with the countdown from the last hour.

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
3:10 pm

Hey Sassy – Nothing much, almost random topics today. Got something? Toss it out there :)

Sassy Me...live..laugh..love ;-)

September 14th, 2012
3:14 pm

I don’t have anything to toss out…guess we need some fodder to make the rest of the time pass. Where’s…nevermind :lol:

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
3:16 pm

Sassy – Someone who shall remain nameless was here this morning but on a depression kick so, I don’t think we’ll too much out of her

WillieD – Whatchu got?

Sassy Me...live..laugh..love ;-)

September 14th, 2012
3:20 pm

Yeah Willie whatchu got?

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
3:23 pm

I need to go for bras. Won’t be able to do tomorrow because I’ll be tied up. Went to TJ Maxx last night, didn’t have but 1 or 2 in my size and they looked cheesy so I didn’t get.

That’s all I got right now…lololol

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
3:24 pm

Heck, they didn’t have too much of anything that I wanted. Didn’t see a good selection of shoes either

Willie Dynamite

September 14th, 2012
3:28 pm

Well Ladies since you asked and my horns are up (judge me-smile ). I was just wondering a few things.
Cel – you teased us yesterday and it is friday so whatchu got?
Sassy – ummm, tryn to be all innocent here but how’s that treadmill working out? You got I’ve,love and laugh so I guess you got that itch scratched.
As for me, my cup runneth over and I am borderline greedy. What can I say I can’t help howling at the moon.

Bluzgirl

September 14th, 2012
3:28 pm

You guys are too much…I was talking about depression because Slim brought up her friend. I’m not depressed at all right now…I just understand it and was trying to help some. Jeez…

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
3:31 pm

WillieD – I ain’t got jack today. What I was gonna toss might be a bit mature, so I’m holding off.

What does my cup runneth over mean….for you? You’ve said that more than once. Money, business, another addition to the fam? What? Don’t speak in codes.

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
3:32 pm

“premature”

Comon Cents

September 14th, 2012
3:35 pm

C/Sassy~ I think Bluz is about to snap back.. LOL! Weren’t we warned yesterday? I kid I kid…

Off Topic~ I just saw a nice,tall drink of water in the elevator.

Sassy Me...live..laugh..love ;-)

September 14th, 2012
3:39 pm

What I was gonna toss might be a bit mature, so I’m holding off.

:shock:

What?!

This isn’t the same thing you were gonna drop on us a few DAYS ago…then snatchted it back talkin about,”I’ll wait til Friday” and
now you reneging all together?….

I guess you got that itch scratched.

Maybe…maybe not ;-)

I was in a good mood when I came up with live..laugh…love. Not to say that I’m not now…it’s Friday after all :mrgreen:

Sassy Me...live..laugh..love ;-)

September 14th, 2012
3:39 pm

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
3:42 pm

Sassy – Yeah…somewhat but it’s all good. Everything is everything. If I can’t toss without being discrete yet it making sense, I ain’t doing…

CC – I’m sorry but half the folks blogging now ain’t real…lololol I just go along…”the path of least resistence. I can only confirm folks I’ve met…lol Bluzy is probably another character created solely for entertainment. Don’t get me wrong, I’m good with that but we need the storyline to change or improve in order to keep engaging…lololol

Willie Dynamite

September 14th, 2012
3:43 pm

Cel – boooooo Carrot dangler.
Cup runneth over for me = no complaints, secure (money wise), healthy family, having fun and smiling. I have my cake(good life), eating it too while licking the icing. My ego tho has a greedy streak so I try to manage it but I tend to get it stoked occasionally. I do have my kryptonite tho I’m a work in progress as always. Code broken?

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
3:44 pm

Wait, let me back up, half the folks blogging is the same person…lololol I won’t say “ain’t real”, that’s too harsh

But, if it will keep peace and harmony and things flowing and folks laughing, no sweating it from me :mrgreen:

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
3:45 pm

WillieD – Yeeeeeeeep, crystal clear….lol That ego of your is something else

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
3:46 pm

Okay, I’m making statements I can’t prove so please, no one get offended. IJS It’s a blog though and really sooo not that serious you know? It should be easy breezy here.

Comon Cents

September 14th, 2012
3:46 pm

C~ LMAO! You are so funny. Now that we have gotten over our initial rough patch, so to speak, I would love to have the opportunity to meet you in real life.

Sidebar~ While I compeletly understand the need for fodder to blog about, I understand you wanting to keep the situation under wraps until it’s all worked out. ;)

Sassy Me...live..laugh..love ;-)

September 14th, 2012
3:47 pm

we need the storyline to change or improve in order to keep engaging…lololol

Okay?!?!

My ego tho has a greedy streak so I try to manage it but I tend to get it stoked occasionally.

Uuuh huh…

I be strokin…that’s what I be doin…strokin to the east..strokin to the west…

Exiled!

September 14th, 2012
3:47 pm

Ok can’t help peeping back…blog addicted dang

@ Common…a tall drink of water in the elevator….just the two of u…

Please elucidate like u would giving closing arguments :lol:

Sassy Me...live..laugh..love ;-)

September 14th, 2012
3:48 pm

I would love to have the opportunity to meet you in real life.

We will at Suisse Noelle’s baby shower…

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
3:49 pm

Sassy – I am dying…you did not pull out “I be strokin”…..lololol

CC – Girl, I’m just gon tell you, I’m gun shy. I ain’t meeting nobody, except for folks I done (yes done) already met…lolol Somebody might be waiting for me to cause bodily harm….lololol

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
3:50 pm

CC – Yeah, we’ll all be at the baby shower. That would be the perfect place :)

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
3:51 pm

Please elucidate like u would giving closing arguments

LOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOL….spoken like no one else can…MMeelllo!

Willie Dynamite

September 14th, 2012
3:51 pm

Sassy – Coy today are we? Tell Ryder I said hi and give her a hug for me (smile).

Sassy Me...live..laugh..love ;-)

September 14th, 2012
3:52 pm

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
3:53 pm

I be strokin…that’s what I be doin…strokin to the east..strokin to the west…

Bluzgirl

September 14th, 2012
3:54 pm

Yeah…my life is so pathetic that I have the need to come on a blog and make isht up. Go on with that thinking. Believe what you want to believe. I have met a couple of blog folks and Cel…you are one that I’m not interested in meeting anymore. Ya’ll can KMA!

Sassy Me...live..laugh..love ;-)

September 14th, 2012
3:54 pm

…you did not pull out “I be strokin”

As soon as I read his post that song came to mind…Claaance(nope not Clarence) Carter….

Sassy Me...live..laugh..love ;-)

September 14th, 2012
3:55 pm

Awww then the baby done grew some ballz…how precious…I think I’m tearing up…

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
3:57 pm

LOLOLOLOL….Claaance(nope not Clarence) Carter…. love it

Awww then the baby done grew some ballz…how precious…I think I’m tearing up…

Okaaaaay :mrgreen:

Comon Cents

September 14th, 2012
3:58 pm

C~ The baby shower will be awesome. Make sure you guys give me some advance notice so I can add it to my schedule.

Ex~ Nothing to elucidate. It is what it is. He was just….MMMMmmmm MMMMmmm, good. Tall (prob around 6′3″ or 6′4″) choclate even skin, nice suit. smelled good. You know, all the bells and whistles. Great eyes. No wedding ring. Nice hair cut. Great smile. If I was single, I would’ve been after those digits.

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
3:58 pm

Bluzy – Cel…you are one that I’m not interested in meeting anymore.

Newsflash boo, you ain’t the first one :mrgreen:

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
4:00 pm

Tall (prob around 6′3″ or 6′4″) choclate even skin, nice suit. smelled good. You know, all the bells and whistles. Great eyes. No wedding ring. Nice hair cut. Great smile

HE BETTER WERK IT THEN!!!

Bluzgirl

September 14th, 2012
4:00 pm

Surprise…surprise

cba

September 14th, 2012
4:04 pm

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
4:05 pm

CC – I don’t think any planning has been done. We need Swiss to give us the due date (unless I missed it being blogged). That way whoever is planning and do so and send e/invites, allowing for time (shedules) and place of venue.

Comon Cents

September 14th, 2012
4:05 pm

cba, was that you in my elevator?

i'm swiss

September 14th, 2012
4:05 pm

Now, that’s more like it, Bluz. Just need to take that spunk & channel it toward your real-life dating misadventures, and you’re on the right track. :)

Comon Cents

September 14th, 2012
4:05 pm

C~ Ok. I will keep my eyes open on the blog for it. I would offer up a spot, but I don’t know what side of town everyone is on.

Comon Cents

September 14th, 2012
4:06 pm

swiss when is little Miss Suisse Mochette’s due date?

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
4:06 pm

CC – What area are you thinking?

Bluzgirl

September 14th, 2012
4:06 pm

I won’t be sharing anymore of my real-life dating misadventures on here. It’s not worth it anymore. I’m just glad I’ve met a couple of cool people on here…

i'm swiss

September 14th, 2012
4:07 pm

Who, wha…? You ladies got something up your sleeves for Swiss Family Robinson? ;-)

Sassy Me...live..laugh..love ;-)

September 14th, 2012
4:08 pm

We need Swiss to give us the due date (unless I missed it being blogged).

I think he said either the latter part of the year or January…I suggested we do it next month becuase come Nov/Dec folks will be busy with holiday stuff and may not be as available…

cba

September 14th, 2012
4:08 pm

I’m in the basement CC :lol:

Sassy Me...live..laugh..love ;-)

September 14th, 2012
4:08 pm

i'm swiss

September 14th, 2012
4:09 pm

Comon — SwissMocha is due late December.

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
4:09 pm

Sassy – Yep, I agree.

Sassy Me...live..laugh..love ;-)

September 14th, 2012
4:10 pm

You ladies got something up your sleeves for Swiss Family Robinson?

Yes remember back when you revealed that you two were expecting a girl? Right then we decided to do it and kinda make a meet n greet at the same time..

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
4:10 pm

Ut oh – Me and Black’s birthdays (18th)are in the second half of Dec and Sassy you’re Christmas I think. She’s bound to come one of these dates :mrgreen:

Sassy Me...live..laugh..love ;-)

September 14th, 2012
4:12 pm

late December.

I’m gonna call it and say she’ll be here on my birthday…the 24th :mrgreen:

Exiled!

September 14th, 2012
4:13 pm

Common….aha!

:lol:

No wedding ring,ha!

meaning he is doable! :lol:

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
4:13 pm

My neighbor and coworker was due Nov 7th, went in Nov 9th at 4pm, baby born around 7:30

Sassy Me...live..laugh..love ;-)

September 14th, 2012
4:14 pm

I think I might have to pull a Houdini and get ghost..

Comon Cents

September 14th, 2012
4:14 pm

I live in Cobb (almost Roswell) But we have a really nice clubhouse in the neighborhood that I pay dues for every year and never use. If you guys wanted to do it there, give me a date and I am glad to check availability.

i'm swiss

September 14th, 2012
4:14 pm

Actually, it’s gonna be a scheduled c-section, but we haven’t set the exact date yet. Of course, she could always come early…

Comon Cents

September 14th, 2012
4:15 pm

Ex~ He may not have had one, but I do. So, not so doable… :(

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
4:18 pm

CC – You should poll what everybody thinks next week. Run it a couple of days. I’m cool going wherever, as long as it’s a place everyone agrees upon.

42 minutes yelling!!!!!

Sassy Me...live..laugh..love ;-)

September 14th, 2012
4:23 pm

I’m cool going wherever, as long as it’s a place everyone agrees upon.

Cosign…

Willie Dynamite

September 14th, 2012
4:25 pm

Well 12/18 is MY Bday if it matters. Lol

Exiled!

September 14th, 2012
4:27 pm

Are there some hotels nearby Common

just in case other bloggers wanna end it up at hotel room Lobby(ies) :lol:

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
4:28 pm

WillieD – You for real??? Or are you pulling my leg?

Willie Dynamite

September 14th, 2012
4:28 pm

Comon Cents

September 14th, 2012
4:29 pm

There are no hotels nearby. Sorry Ex!

But I will run it for the next few days and see what everyone thinks when they come back.

Sassy Me...live..laugh..love ;-)

September 14th, 2012
4:29 pm

I see the Sag’s representin…

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
4:30 pm

WillieD – Lord willing, me and Blackfoote (and Leggs if she wants) will no doubt celebrate again this year. You’re welcome to join in the festivities.

Sassy Me...live..laugh..love ;-)

September 14th, 2012
4:30 pm

Alrighty blog familia..have a GREAT weekend!!!!!!!

Willie Dynamite

September 14th, 2012
4:30 pm

Cel – wha???

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
4:30 pm

You too Sassy, if you like

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
4:31 pm

WillieD – See, why are you playing?

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
4:32 pm

28 minutes!!! screaming!!!

Willie Dynamite

September 14th, 2012
4:32 pm

Cel – for real 12/18

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
4:34 pm

Really? Okay, next time I see you I want to see some ID. Yeah, we did the club thingy last year for Legg’s birthday and me and Blackfoote talked about doing something (dinner or snacks) ON the 18th but never got around to doing it. I’m thinking seafood…just putting it out there…lololol

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
4:35 pm

All December folks are certainly welcome to come. Heck, anybody really

Sassy Me...live..laugh..love ;-)

September 14th, 2012
4:35 pm

You too Sassy, if you like

I’m in…this should be fun ;-)

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
4:36 pm

Willie Dynamite

September 14th, 2012
4:37 pm

Cool I can produce a fake Id by that time. J/k j/k I’m not a big club person but I’ll roll with whatever yall decide.

Sassy Me...live..laugh..love ;-)

September 14th, 2012
4:37 pm

I’m thinking seafood…

Bet!!

Just let me know the details and I’m there.

Gotta go..be safe y’all!!!

Comon Cents

September 14th, 2012
4:38 pm

My son is born in December, does that count? :lol:

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
4:38 pm

WillieD – Mmm hmm, don’t tell me that. I’ll just take your word (and whatever ID you flash)…lol I’m not a club person either. I’m hoping a nice restaurant will be what everyone wants to do.

Night Sassy

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
4:39 pm

CC – Yup…join in

Single and Happier "Life Happens!"

September 14th, 2012
4:49 pm

I’m trying to catch up, but I know I didn’t see KMA thrown out there???

Celisea

September 14th, 2012
4:55 pm

Ohhh, what a coincidence…lol Yeah, ummm okay. Instigators are haters.

6 minutes!!! screaming and I’m out

Single and Happier "Life Happens!"

September 14th, 2012
4:56 pm

instigators are haters?? don’t scream so load :D

Comon Cents

September 14th, 2012
5:02 pm

I’m out y’aqll have a blessed and safe weekend everyone. Just got some upsetting news, but I will fill you guys in on Monday and get some opinions.

Single and Happier "Life Happens!"

September 14th, 2012
5:02 pm

take care comon