First!!!(waving at Lily…he he he,she caught in traffic! )

I do reminisce sometimes…

My ex flame M..the way she used to moan…

Chic was loud!

Morning MIA

…hope Cee’s draws are on point today!

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easy Lily,easy…don’t bang the steering wheel in angst…u be here in time…

But I gotta take today’s title…runaway easy winner really..

Just sticking the winner’s knife in..and twisting it for winner’s delights!

Lily!

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I only hold memories in my heart, at best. My new love wouldn’t be pleased with memorabilia from an old flame. Out with the old, in with the new.

@Exiled: morning to you!

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Music gets me the most. Certain songs make me think of certain people. I do have an old memory box of my first love, my ex fiance. We went to prom together and he wrote me love letters. Every once in a while, I like to look through it and I smile.

Now, the recent ex…I threw away every single reminder of him…deleted every picture and video of him. I want nothing to remind me of him.

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I’m about to go into a meeting that I’m dreading. Hope it will be over by 1:00…my ADD doesn’t like long meetings! At least I’ll get free lunch!

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Morning,

Yes, I’ve heard a tune that took me back to that special place in time. Once the song ended, so did the reminiscing…lol I only have two items from over the years, not thrown away. At one time, I can admit it was about the other person. Now? Not so much. I can’t bring myself to throw out something that’s got monetary value as well. And as I’ve said before on here, both are tucked away and unless I’m cleaning or something or need to go to that spot where they’re stored, I don’t even think about those items nor the men that gave to me.

Mmeello – Yes, my drawers are comfy and on point today…lolol

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No Momento’s….but there are definitely reminders, see a vehicle of the same make/model, music, etc…

Hey Lady….don’t necessarily buy into the “they are your ex for a reason” notion, some relationships don’t work due to stage/space in life. Some just flame out, but value is to be had in each hopefully…if you loved them, there was something special about them…the failed relationship doesn’t make them less than what they were….its the ebb and flow of life, high and low tides of love…the nature of being alive…

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I guess Monica was into the reminescing business. She not only kept the dress, she kept the spunk that went on it. That’s a little too much. Ewwww…..

C~ What’s with your panties?

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Good point Jake but for my past loves I can point to reasons and I still stand by for me they didn’t work for specific reason but I see your point nonetheless~

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My childhood sweetheart recently moved to Atlanta. We had sex when we were 13 thru 18, then reconnected at 25, then we hooked up a few more times when I was in my early thirties. I had not seen nor spoken to her for over a decade. We had a phone conversation the other night that lasted an hour. The energy was like we were kids again. We met for lunch a few days ago. She’s divorced now, but I’m married. I value and miss her friendship. We have both agreed to behave ourselves and respect my situation. I’m struggling with the decision if I should introduce her to wifey or not. What are your thoughts?

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long time DuShawn~ hmmmmm stay focused!

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lol

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Single and Happy – Awwww, don’t be like that. You said you’ve never been married so how do you know how you’ll feel if ever one day you marry, divorce and decide the photos are keepsakes. You’re just saying that now. You just never know.

Hey, was that you one The X Factor last night? I don’t know why (cause I don’t know you),but I thought of you. There was a dude on there 50 years old singing Candy Girl, or something like that.

He was saaaalty when they gave him a resounding NO…lol He told all of them to kick rocks. He didn’t display very good sportsmanship…lol

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DuShawn….Uh,Uh,Uh

Its obvious that the thought of tapping it is has occurred……Can’t help you there

I would prolly not make the introduction, it isn’t needed, is it?

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Off topic:

I watched Revenge last night for the first time. It was pretty good.

Too, I waited too long to eat something solid. I had a migraine to onset and was nauseated as a mug. I had to hurry and eat and get meds to slow that thing down.

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DuShawn~ If you had to discuss whether or not to behave and you still “miss” ol girl, you should not be having any sort of friendship with her. And if wifey knew the details, she definitely would not be cool with you having the relationship. And if you can’t tell your wife about the relationsip, you are setting yourself up for arguments and heartache down the road.

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C, no I’ve never been married, but but I have been deeply in love, and there are no pictures around of the ones I was in love with. So I know I would have no reason to keep pics around of my wedding.

If that had been me, the competition would have been over (LOL)

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Single and Happy – I have been deeply in love too. Once it’s over, it’s over. I still wouldn’t toss out anything of value though that resulted from that relationship. Pics of y’all in the photo booth or riding the scream machine (AT SIX FLAGS!), on a beach, not so much. Expensive wedding photos, not tossing. If I just can’t bear to have them around, I would at least give to a close endeared relative (i.e. mom or sibs). Just because they’re gone, IMO the split shouldn’t deplete the value of the item(s). But that’s just lil ole sentimental me…lol

Competition would have been over? Yeah, okay…lol

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meant “got a”

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comedy~

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C, I would keep pictures of the scream machine because they would be in a album with other pics that were long forgotten. Wedding pics on the other hand are in a dedicated place just for them, that’s why they would go to a dedicated place And I may have payed alot for them but they would hold no value.

yea the competition would have been over, the judges would have been deaf after hearing me sing (lmao)

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C, then I retract my statement, maybe he should introduce her to the ex (LOL)

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The good husband in you says introduce her…Dushawn I know that’s tha hardest part about this!!

Follow ur gutt bad boy! Lol

If ur wife won’t flip it or smell ,back in the day scents,then intriduce her..that removes the urge on both u and ex to go for the jagular…

Women are more likely to take the higher road usually for not wanting to mess another woman’s life once they know her personally..

That’s my sense seeing she was married to…hope she divorced not outa cheating her husband.

But I do know better tho..a Jeffers will always be a Jeffers regardless

Cel.. Yea I read after hours… That’s my life now. Lol

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A heffer! Dammn typo

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Teetering, looks like he’s sliding down the slippery slope, but this one is so good he doesn’t want to share it

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but this one is so good he doesn’t want to share it

I’m mums the word. Don’t want to offend anyone. I’ve tossed out my thoughts and I’m stepping away.

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Jake are you an Omega?!? #curious

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reading in between the lines on surface it seems to be no judging bc i roll with them lol but my current boo is an Alpha #random lol

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My FB status this AM is “Don’t look back, You are NOT going that way” #fitting

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C, how would sweet lil ol you ever offend anyone (LOL)

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Single – Is there a “hint” of sarcasm in your statement? Mmmm hmmm. Don’t judge me…lol That’s easy to do through a screen I am a sweet “lil ole me”

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MsATL…I want to ask a question, no pressure to answer, its kinda personal…but here goes..

Do you believe that your husband did not Love you when he acquired a mistress, or, did he just decide to cheat?

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I still have photos of an old girlfriend. I wouldn’t think of getting rid of them.

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I passed on our wedding album to our oldest child and also set aside some family photos for our 2 sons. I didn’t want to deprive them of their memories and photos as we were together for 29 years

This is what I was saying earlier. If it was too painful to keep or I just didn’t feel it, for even holding on to pics, I would probably pass on too, for someone else in the family to hold as a keepsake. There’s something to be said for those pics serving as a means with gatherings or family reunions or history. Having on hand to show generations to come, how the family tree was built, might be a way for those old keepsakes (pics I mean), to serve in a good way.

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So for the two items I have, would y’all get rid of them? I’ll just say one is a ring.

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Dushawn~ If I am reading between the lines, it seems that the reason you don’t want to introduce the wifey is not that you have a fear of being caught inflagrante, but that you are worried you may catch feelings for the ex and she might be the next ex-Mrs. Dushawn. Or someting along those lines. Here would be a better question, what is it about the ex that keeps you going back (besides the obvious of fire puddy) Is there more than that?

Lady~ Both my dad and my brother are Ques. The current hubby is Phi Beta Sigma. #randomtoo

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C Sell Sell Sell, I have one of those to come to think of it
Also I can see passing on pictures to the kids, but not to hold, they are yours never to be giving back to me.

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Single – You have a ring? You was almost booed up and took it back? Did you ask for it back or did the return just sort of happen?

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And I’m being very honest, I have NEVER thought to sell it. Thanks Single, maybe I’ll give it some thought now…lololol

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C, it’s a ring that someone gave me, it’s not exactly put away, but it’s somewhere that I don’t look at it often either.

And yes I’ve done the one knee thing twice and had to take the ring back the next day one was her decision, and one was mine (who happens to be the same ex with the fire) !

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i lost my class ring too and really want another one and my sgrho charm bracelet…..just got a nice watch recently trying to step my grown woman jewelry game up lol

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C and you know it~ it was over and I didn’t want the ring at all….lol I value my pictures more in a box in my garage go figure~

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Lady~ You’re a sgrho? I have some good friends from back in the day that are your sorors. I am DST for life.

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Lady – I hear ya…lol

Whew buddy, memories!

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Well, I can say this, I ain’t going back in the fire no matter how good the memories. Fire burns…lololol Can’t say I haven’t done it, cause not only does fire burn but fire is hot, but nuh uh.

Back around the topic, reminisce and then regroup! Don’t get hung up on the “good times.” Keep walking, just keeeep walking…forward

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all day C~ all day long! so what is the next topic?!? hahaha lol its a NFL Thursday!!!! wings and beer! yay!

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Yay Football Thursday! Who you pulling for tonight, Lady?

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Lady – If I’m sitting in the Dome, it’s all goooooood! I can get into it then.

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lolololol C~

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Colt- I don’t think he did not love me; I honestly think he did in his own way, but not in the way I needed to be loved. That was not his first time on the merry-go-round with respect to cheating. He thought his professional status entitled him to whatever or whomever he wanted. Not to mention, I am convinced that there was some sociopathy going on also. He actually told me that his mistress could raise their child on her own. He wanted to be married to me but still have his various side pieces. I don’t share certain things and do not like any other women playing in my sand box, lol. Therefore, I chose to walk. Celisea, yes, 29 years is a long time; I had been with him since the age of 15, but I knew my worth and it was high time I acted like it rather than just going along with things. It wasn’t too painful to keep the wedding album. I let it go because to me, it was a lie. For us to get re-married in front of that many family members when all the while he was sleeping with someone (they have since had 2 kids in the past year and I suspect she was pregnant with one when we remarried, which would make 3 in 3 years), I would rather you just take your leave and save me the embarrassment and the money (does Carnival give refunds?) rather than put me and the kids through that. That said, I walked and have had no regrets. I am at peace with my decision and am happier for it.

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Wow, y’all going deep today

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Lady~ I too am rooting for da bears.

MsATL~ nice post and it seems you have really grown from your experiences.

O/T~ Can we get MsATL to give Bluzy some counseling on that whole self-worth thing?

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Thanks for Sharing MsAtl…I just about to say, guess we won’t get a response…I have some thought, but they certainly are not pertinent to any of the decisions made and issues you stepped away from….

I asked that because a lack of Love is very rarely in play, but perception usually is reality to most…Glad you have moved on happily, and that you have not let that steal memories from your children, some people just don’t get that part.

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Mmeello – Before you strike (lol), this ain’t about cats and quilts. This is about making a decision to jump back out in the deep where sometimes turbulent waters flow. Do I want to, is the question?

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Jake~ I think it is usually much less lack or love and more often a need to conquer.

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Cuddling and smooching is just a man away and VERY easy to find. But a relationship consists of more than cuddling and smooching…lol If you go all in, you’re all in for it all.

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O/T~ I burned my hand last night cooking dinner and I am taking this as an omen that I should not cook for the remainder of the week.

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yup C that is GOSPEL! it is daily ongoing work with merging for a solid foundation. it an’t easy but it is worth it. far from candy land too! lol

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Interesting conundrum…marrying someone is simultaneously one of the most selfish and selfless acts a person can do. You selfishly want to occupy a person for your own personal pleasure for life, yet in order to do that you have to be very giving of yourself. funny how that works out!!! no wonder it can be so challenging, it’s an ultimate contradiction <<<randomly crossed this somewhere else and shared~

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Lady – I like your 12:21

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So, you haven’t asked him yet? But, even if you haven’t, I am sure that you have some feel of his mindset. You seem like a pretty astute person.

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I knew you would say that C~ lol I was sitting here waiting on that response! lol

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Lady~ The hubs calls one of our paralegals my work husband. Says I spend more time with him than I do at home. LOL!

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Side chick gets deported
Story from a colleague that I found quite awful and hilarious.

Isabelle dates Jaoquin. Jaoquin has a woman on the side, Ayi.

Isabelle and Jaoquin seemingly have a good relationship, and have been together since they were teenagers, for a total of about ten years.

Isabelle loved Jaoquin and thought he felt the same way until she, at his request, answered his phone.

That’s when things fell apart. Isabelle found out that Jaoquin had been creeping with their mutual acquaintance, Ayi.

Ayi knew about Isabelle and her relationship with Jaoquin.

Ayi has been in the US since she was a child. But never bothered to renew her visa. Because Ayi and Isabelle are acquaintances, Isabelle was well aware of Ayi’s status.

Heartbroken, Isabelle calls INS, and subsequently Ayi is deported back to Mexico.

Although the names of the parties and the country have been changed, this is a true story.

So my colleague asked a bunch of us whether or not Isabelle was wrong to call INS.

Only one person said she was wrong because “two wrongs don’t make it right.” My colleague felt that Isabelle was a diabolical, vindictive woman who ruined Ayi’s life.

Which side are you on?

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Lady – Just wow. Being spiteful and vendictive NEVER pays off. She might feel a bit of victory in the moment, I’m sure those somewhere along the way she’s gonna get it for that. IJS

Why not take it out on him? Why get ride of her? She can shoo her off but if he’s got a wondering eye, it will just be someone else. What then? Have her deported too?

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IDK that I would call Isabelle diabolical, but she was definitely hurt. What’s the old saying? Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned. Not only that, chick was supposed to be her friend? Ayi ruined her own life IMO. The visa was something she could have taken care of long ago and it would never have been an issue. Sounds to me like Ayi is sloppy, not only with her legal status but also with her relationships.

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CC have no idea~ but like your 12:46

C-10-4 to your post! I couldn’t have said it better! everyone has a story buddy~

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One of my besties’ alter ego is Rhodesia (as she calls herself…lol) She’s a sweet, petite, refined, (light)brown eyed little thing. When she snapped and all hell broke loose and tossed her hubby out, she literally knocked him over, as in fist fight. That was something to see. He was getting his stuff and almost running and looking at her like she’d grown two heads.

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my alter ego is Suzanne! I had to kill her off but only I can reactivate her but its nothing nice….lol

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I don’t know Lady…I’m trying to put together a concept paper for some work I’m doing so I’m here back and forth.

Also…Blog familia, remember we said we’d throw a baby shower for Little Miss Suisse Noelle?…we NEED to set a date for sometime in October or EARLY November…friendly reminder

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CC~ My alter ego has nothing to do with fury, but I do have one. The hubs named her.

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ok Sassy keep me posted on a date honey!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! gotta find some UGA gear for their child!

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Remember when Antwuan Cook’s wife Paula tried to sue Fantasia for sleeping with her husband? Fantasia has always wanted us to believe that the father of her son Dallas, Antwaun Cook, was separated from his wife Paula Cook when they hooked up, but now we’re finding out that it was in fact, a lie.

Paula filed a claim that stated her husband began a “covert adulterous affair” with Fantasia in August 2009, a claim both Antwaun and Fantasia denied. Antwaun finally came clean in court, when he signed court papers admitting that the couple officially called it quits in June 2010, which means he was still legally married when he hooked up with Fanny.

According to Radaronline:

“The parties consent and agree that Plaintiff [Paula] and Defendant [Antwaun] are husband and wife having been lawfully married to each other on October 1, 2005 and separated on June 16, 2010,” the docs state.

By consenting to the date of separation being June 2010, Antwaun is admitting that he cheated on his wife with Fantasia.

Given Antwaun’s admission of adultery, if his estranged wife desired to do so she would now legally sue Fantasia for Alienation of Affection, which is a North Carolina law in which one can sue the third party who “alienates” the affections of one spouse from the other spouse.

Everyone assumed Fantasia and Cook began dating when he was married but now it is official, is anyone surprised?

Fantasia has not released a statement on the report.

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Alright…I’m headed out for lunch today

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Who is planning the baby shower?

When I said “we” I meant we as in the blog..or whomever’s interested and that goes for ladies AND gents as it could also be a meet n greet combined. Or at least that’s my thinking on it. First and foremost we need a date and who’s wants to participate. Once we have a date that is feasible to EVERYONE then we can proceed with the venue. We all know it’s a girl so there’s no guessing in what to buy. Also, we need to find out if Mrs. Swiss is registered anywhere. We have time but I just wanted to put it on the front burner so it won’t be last minute for anyone.

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C you are a hot mess! lol

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Via The Wendy Williams Show
‎Fantasia’s ex, Antwaun Cook, admitted in court the he had an affair with Fantasia while still married. Antwaun’s wife can now sue Fantasia for “Alienation of Affection,” which is a North Carolina law, if she wants to.

Do you think spouses should be able to sue the person their husband or wife had an affair with?

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Do you think spouses should be able to sue the person their husband or wife had an affair with?

I think the spouse should be sued b/c Cook knew he was married. If a person knowingly and willingly participated in a relationship with a married person they should be sued,too. There are situations where one may not know the person they’re dating is married(yes it can happen) and I believe they shouldn’t be sued.

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Sassy the term for suing the spouse is good divorce lawyer (LOL)

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I don’t keep up with celebs and they life, but is Antwaun Cook a celeb?

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C~ Even though there is the chance of crap, the reward if there is not far outweighs heartbreak if there is.

S/H~ I have been married 3 times. Once to my son’s father once to my daughter’s legal father and I am now married to the man I should have married the first time. (And you don’t hate to be nosy… IJS)

Sassy~ Count me in on the baby shower. I would love to meet you all in person.

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Sidebar~ I hate the mail carrier for our building!!!!

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& the plot thickens~

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Just getting back to my desk and getting caught up…

My alter-ego is Shelly. No one wants to see Shelly. I have my co-workers cracking up when I’m in a bad mood and I say that Shelly came in instead. They know to leave me alone! My ex used to tell me that he’s not talking to Shelly anymore…

Anyway…as far as suing the other woman/man…I don’t know about that. It’s your spouse who should be held accountable. She just wants to sue Fantasia because she has money. Yes…it is wrong to knowingly get involved with a married person, but I don’t think it’s right to be sued for it. Just be prepared to get a good a$$ whoopin!

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Bluz, the only person that should be getting the whoppin is the spouse, unless there are extenuating circumstances IE: they get caught in your house, they were your close friend or relative and was all up in yo face.

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I had a situation with the ex where he was talking a little provocatively (sp?) to a mutual friend. She knew us as a couple. Now…I held them both accountable. I sent her an email blasting her for saying the things that she said and asking her why she would go there with someone else’s man when she has a man of her own? She wrote back a long apology and admitted that she felt terrible and blocked us both on Facebook. Anytime we ran into her, she would stay on the other side of the room. She knew she did wrong and she owned up to it. The ex, on the other hand, got a lot of screaming and cussing. It took me a long time to get over that one. He wondered why I wanted to check his emails and his Facebook account…it was because the one time I had access, I found messages…

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comon, you will probably slap me for this if we ever meet, but probably like with all relationships they don’t become bad until it’s almost over before then they are all good people.

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Bluz and you stayed with him Duh!

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Yes…I stayed in the relationship when I shouldn’t have. I guess I justified it because nothing physical had happened…it was just sharing fantasies through messages. Trust me…I look back now and wish I had quit him a year before I did! Would have saved me a of troubles…BUT…I learned a lot of lessons

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S/H~ I will slap you on GP if we ever meet. However, with the first husband, he was 10 years older than me and I was very young. I didn’t see him for who he was until AFTER we were married. With the second husband, he was an a$$hole before we were married but as I said in an earlier post, I was on the rebound from the 4 year relationship with the now husband and I thought I could change him. It’s kind of like when someone says “He’s anice guy once you get to know him” Translation= He’s an a$$hole but you’ll get used to it.

No shame in my game, with the 2nd husband, I went down some rabbit holes and sewer lines that I never thought I would go down. I ended up going to counseling towards the end of the marriage to help myself understand why I did/put up with some of the things I did.

The 3rd hubby is not perfect BUT he is perfect for me. Infidelity is not a fear. Where I lack, he makes up. We are a good fit. But we both had some changes that had to be made before we could be together long term.

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Comon, if he’s perfect for you, then he’s perfect! since your opinion is the only one that really counts there.

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Just for a second Cel..I’m here..

Okay random,I’ve always to ask this question to Bluz:

Here go..since u are on some dude Trojan narcotic..,

Have u ever had black wood?

Do u like black wood?

(ima be gone but Swiss can ask on
My behalf additional set of questions)

Ltr!

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Wanted

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MsAtl-”However, I had to balance that with what I knew about him and his thought process. I have come to realize that his behavior is a reflection on him;”

Who is that that say, worth repeating…lol

Fellas, forgive me, bout to give a lil bit of the store away, but they know this anyway…cheating is never about her…the she pushed me away, blah, blah,blah is just some something we say to try to smooth it out.

Alter Egos-I knew ya’ll had split personalities

And NC needs to get rid of that backwardazzed law

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Comon, that sounds like me and my girl, she want’s kids, and I’ve told her that should would have to get with someone else to have them, cause I’ve been clipped, and there was a reason I got clipped.

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Bluz, from what you’ve posted, what’s a match for you??

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lol Ex~

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Ex~ You got me hollering with that one! How you gonna fix your mouth to ask that?

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By the way…Mags is going out with me tonight to the blues jam…Why am I nervous? I think it’s because it will be the first time we’ve seen each other since “that night” and I’m afraid it will be awkward. I think we’ll both act like nothing ever happened and just keep it moving…

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Well…I’ve always wanted that…just seems like I’m drawn to men who are not that. I’m trying to figure out what it is about me that is drawn to them and why I attract them…

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okay WD stop reading everyone’s mind (LOL)

Bluz you attract them because you will settle for them.

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Single good for you on the 5 grands, my son 26 has a girl but no kids yet.

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WD I want a beer for that one! #DEAD LMBAO silly! Ice Cold~

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BF where did you come from?!? Howdy sir!

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Blackfoote – You’re late today

What’s up WillieD

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By the way…Mags is going out with me tonight to the blues jam…

Puhleaze lawd,sweet baby Jesus NOT this again…or at least not yet…wait ’til about 4:55…

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Thanks black, I’m very proud of my son, he’s being a great father

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Puhleaze lawd,sweet baby Jesus NOT this again…or at least not yet…wait ’til about 4:55…

I’m starting to believe this is all just for the sake of conversation. Not really real life stuff. At least I’m hoping not…lol

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Sassy – It’s only as friends. I swear!!! No more drama with this one. Not worth all that…

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Black I love it, but i don’t get to spend alot of time with them, my son’s in the airforce, and they live in NJ right now.

Well said comon, but bluz said what my next thought was, she likes going to the build a man workshop!

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lol I am rotflmbao silly and you 2! lol

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Cely it’s almost time to bail out of here in a short few minutes. Good to see y’all having a good chat today.

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Blackfoote – Lucky you. It’s too early to start the clock. I tend to run the clock on days I’m ret to go…lol

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CC – Stop….lololol

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I don’t have momento’s or whatever but I do recall special times of year. Everytime time I think of the 96 Olympics in the little A I’m reminded of a heavy relationship I was involved in. Do that qualify as reminicing cause that’s all I got? I wonder do any of them reminice about me, I left a lot of gifts and bracelets out there……..LOL

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Bluz~ I am literally shaking my head as I type this, it seems that you already know the issue (like S/H said, you like going to the build a man workshop) but just remember, at your age, they should already be built. If you have to build him LEAVE HIM WHERE HE’S AT!

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Comon…it’s become obvious and apparent that Bluz either has a HIGH level of low self esteem or she’s a glutton for punishment…

I’m starting to believe this is all just for the sake of conversation. Not really real life stuff.

That’s the first thing I thought the first few times I read her…Lord knows I was hoping no one her age could be so naive….buuut…

If she likes it then I love it

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alright party people!!!! good blog day! Bye gang and C & Willie D~ peace!

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Sassy – That’s where I am in all this. Go for the gusto, if Mags is it. You like, I love it…lol

Wait, I didn’t go back and read. Did something pop off last night?

CC – just remember, at your age, they should already be built.

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Blackfoote – Nothing wrong with you remisicing…lol

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The path of least resistence is my scrolling motto. I’m going with whatever floats anyone’s boat…lol I’m all for Mags if Bluzy wants him.

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Bluz-Everytime I’ve mixed my chocolate with vanilla, it has made for something that came out smooth and creamy, you may want to try some….lol

But I am addicted to the Double Fudge Cream Cookie!!

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I say the same thing Cely @ 2:55……..LOL sorry the little green man cracks me up. Same way Swiss’s Titanium Wang does.

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Whoa Lady here I come let me get that door for you.

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Already been there…no need to go there again.

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Have a good evening folks.

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Black yes there are and they should be sent back to their mamas so they can give it them

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Bluz find yourself, fix yourself, build yourself! If you build it they will come!

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I then realized that he couldn’t offer much to me and he had too many issues, so I have decided to keep it as just a friendship

Maybe next time you should realize that BEFORE you give up the draws? IJS…

No man with his isht together wants to make a housewife out of a ho. (Not calling you a ho, but please be careful how thinly you spread the peanut butter)

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Oh Lawd, C @ Bluzy’s 3:02. She tryin to be Fanny now… SMDH

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CC – One thing I don’t regret is giving it up because it sho’ was good!!! If it wasn’t so good, I probably wouldn’t have gotten futher into it…

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Trust me…would never go after a married man, but he sure was nice to look at!!! Made the meeting more interesting!

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CC – That’s a trainwreck waiting to happen. If Mags got her strung out only after two times, just imagine. Whew Lordy!

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Afternoon All! How is everyone!

Reminisce….umm certain songs, thats about it. I laugh about it and keep it moving. It was all good then, and Im good with where it is now.

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Sassy as a she’s been advised several times she needs to fire that therapist and and let them find someone else to finance them.

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C we don’t need anyone else on the blog going wacky at times (LOL)

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Cel – let’s just say that I haven’t screamed like that in years…I’ll leave it at that…

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Bluzy – But was that because you just hadn’t had any and he was the rebound guy….orrrrr was that cause HE REEEEALLLLYYY PUT IT ON YOU?!?! I would venture to say there is a difference

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C, I don’t take sucker bets, that’s why she’s nervous about tonight, she know’s what she really wants! (LOL)

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Bluz, your 3:08, that a girl, you still got that thang plunged (shout out to Slimone) like you wanted too, so it wasn’t a total loss, huh (don’t listen to the critics)….Now go out there and find you some good ole Alabama Black Snake……lol

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she’s been advised several times she needs to fire that therapist and and let them find someone else to finance them.

As I’ve said…meybe it’s all make believe…

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Oh I see this is quite the topic for today, let me catch up!! LOL

Jake – Not the Alabama Black Snake……Too funny!

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Good thing is that I’m still on the wagon, so I definitely won’t do anything I will regret! lOl

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Somebody is playing a cruel joke on the blog…lolol

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Afternoon, peeps. The Man’s been working swiss like a dog — what did I miss? Me.lo is still asking wildly inappropriate questions and Bluz is still pathetic… anything else?

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MoOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!

Hey Babe, where you been, ya’ll cuse me while I check on my homie..

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Bluzy is always monotoned too. No getting angry, no snapbacks, no hurt feelings, just the same thing and never veers off the stream. Yeah, it’s a joke.

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Ok stealing time to sneak peek..,.

Common…and no offense to Swissie who I luv dearly as a bro..

It seems from reading Bluz,she hops skip and jump as far as the wood is concerned..and just reading what she writes she has an affinity for real good wood..,

As a nutritionist myself…in a wood sense,(lol) I kinda thought maybe white wood ain’t hitting the spot for her..why not switch and try darker wood..u know oak,teak etc wood of darker version is quite reveered

Bluz,give my suggestion some real serious thought..

And u know some brother think white taco is an upgrade..not that I’m necessarily agreeing but u won’t be short of suitors if u hang around black club scenes seeing u do hang around there .

Black wood really lasts Bluz…u get black wood at nite…it lasts u a whole week ….

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Single – It’s all coming clear now, IT’S MAKE BELIEVE….lololol You would have to be a glutton for punishment. No way, I’m no longer believing…lol

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*go by*

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Bluzy – Don’t go. Just trade him in for a better model. One already with parts in place

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1 hour, 29 minutes

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Celisea – now you wrong for that! 1 hr, 29 mins. I got a solid 2 hrs…..and Im ret ta go!!

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Sassy – dayum you going in a lil harder than usual today.

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C, I think she’s real, she doesn’t know how to show anger and snap back, that’s why men are able to treat her the way they do.

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Celisea – good girl but in need of mini vacay. I celebrated my birthday yesterday a lil too hard so Im paying for it today. should have taken the rest of the week off….dammit, LOL

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Jake – Lil Mo is getting to be a Big Mo, but doing well! We are ramping up for fall baseball. Im trying to squeeze some tennis in too but we’ll see. But other than that, he is keeping his mama busy and trying to be in MY business, LOL! We still holding the Dec down..

And I know all about that Billy Dee boo….smooth aintcha? (wink)

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dayum you going in a lil harder than usual today.

Actually I’ve been leery of the whole thing from the onset, but just never posted on it…I’m not sure what tipped the scale but I’m just expressing how I’m feeling. At least I haven’t turned it all the way up…

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Yall try and remember Bluz is still a youngin. She can get all the advice in the world but she has to scrape up her knees before she learns.

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The cloak of anonymity this type of communication provides is a double edged sword. Some writers embellish while others, like myself, are too open and tell too much of their business. I posted stories on here years ago that I never told a soul in real life and some of yall still remember. Once you press send it’s out there. There is no message recall like in outlook.

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I see you winkin, back atcha….yeah, when that Billy come out, the ladies seem to fall in…or used to before I turned my card in…I still got it, but I’m just a Scout now, no more playing….lol

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Celisea – Thanks! since it was in the middle of the week, I took it light ( or tried to) yesterday. Had breakfast w mom, hit the gym, went by Lil Mo’s school then had drinks with my sister and a friend at Cafe Circa. I will continue my celebration this weekend an on thru September 30th, LOL! Celebrating with the fam this weekend and Lil Mo this weekend.

And I need to stop staying away so long….whew!

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WillieD – She’s 33. If your old enough to engage in FWB, then you should pretty much be beyond booboos and kneescrapping…for the most part.

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Mo – I will continue my celebration this weekend an on thru September 30th, LOL!

Rock it then girlie…yeah, you should pop in more often

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Single – I’m sure there are plenty of times she’s had to step away and have good cry because she doesn’t know how to say KMA and keep it moving.

I hollered at “KMA”, I’m sure I would have said it by now. But then again, I wouldn’t be doing what she’s doing and if so, I wouldn’t tell a soul…lololol That was the laugh of the day for me.

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No need to keep throwing out the “no offense, swiss” disclaimer. That’s one stereotype that doesn’t apply to me, and you know this, maaaaaaan.

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time to call it a day catch you guys tomorrow

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Yea C once again, the best kept secrets are the ones that you keep to yourself, and I have some that I will take to the grave, cause you won’t here it from me (LOL)

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33 dang, I am totally misinformed. Here I was thinking we talking to an under 25er. I am done now cause I really feel like she should get everything the game gives her now.

Sassy – yeah you right but she don’t know how to fall back (no pun)

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Single is the only one sold that it’s real. I’m not buying. I stop buying a couple of weeks back, but to keep peace and harmony I just go with the flow and ask questions, give feedback and advice…lololol At least the day flows faster.

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At least the day flows faster.

Yes it does…

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Soo umm now what us gone do?

O/T: I’ve watched Green Mile erry night this week and will watch it again…I relly enjoyed it before but now for a different reason…

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Soo umm now what us gone do?

I know right? I hope I’m not in my chair rocking back and forth from withdrawal…lol I’m sure a story will pop off somewhere

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And as far as alter egos go, there is Suzanne, Aquanetta (I think), Celquasha and CC waiting for hubs to come up with a name for the blind with fury side of her. We don’t want that other name…lol

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Celisea – oh my alter ego, that would be Niki. She is truly one I have to keep at bay, LOL! But when she does come out, she comes SWANGIN!

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And as far as alter egos go

I have one for that “blind fury,a$$ kickin,I’m ’bout to start the Revolution” named Dray.

Then there’s the other sappy,cry baby who needs to be held…that’s Renee…

That bedroom wild woman/bully AKA Ms.Can’t Get Enough..that’s Ryder…yeah figure it out

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Sassy – LOLOLOLOL….I’m adding “Dray” to the wall. So we have Dray, Suzanne, Niki, Aquanetta and Celoquasha. Alright now, folks now what is….lolol

26 minutes!!

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Heyyy Ryder. Hahaha

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Heyyy Willie

Celi..gurl Dray is something else. I have to keep a constant eye on her…at one point she was a member of the Blog CAMQ(Cut a Muhfu!!a Quick) club

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Hollers………..Blog CAMQ

I LOVE it. That is the official name for our alter egos. I know exactly what you mean by sister girl being something else. I don’t even know WHO I am if Celoquasha surfaces. I would just say whoever is on the receiving end or brought this chick to surface….BEWARE!

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Heck, Bluz got one but she won’t let her unleash. She unleash once and do it right, Mags would be backing up right about now. Although, I think the musician should be the first she unleash on…lololol

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She unleash once and do it right, Mags would be backing up right about now.

I don’t know…she might go all H.A.A.M. and have dude looking at her like

She reads like she has alot of…pent up energy to burn…she’ll be alright though..

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How long does it take foe u ladies to understand that u put puddy out ther a man will get it

Bluz??

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And luv got nothing to do with it

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Who will I play tomorrow? I’m even better at thwarting attention. So much fun and quite entertaining! My pretty spares the embarrassment of a height deficit!

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Welcome to Mcdonalds!

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