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Dating: It’s complicated Live! Atlanta

I had the honor of hosting a really fun event this weekend at the Woodruff Arts Center’s Rich Theater. Yours truly was hostess for the It’s Complicated Live! Tour with matchmaker and TV host, Paul Brunson. Paul has guest blogged on Misadventures in Atlanta and it was great to finally meet him in person.

It was such a fun night! First off, there were a lot of sexy people there, including me (at least I felt sexy!). It was wonderful to see people networking without the pressure of meeting a date. Paul even challenged us with the task of exchanging contact information with at least 3 people before we left. Not necessarily of the opposite sex, either. I accomplished that task…all three were men.

Paul Brunson’s presentation was engaging, informative, entertaining, and I even managed to crack a few laughs with the audience! In a separate part of the evening, I went up for a “demo” on how I approached men. I sort of failed miserably at impressing my target but I was happy to see where I go wrong! (You will be shocked to learn, I overtalked)

One of the things that I took away from the evening (there was loads of good information!) was the importance of attraction. I think we all want to have someone that is attractive. However, when it comes to choosing your MATE, your attraction TO them should be FIRE. Like, without that? It’s probably not going to work.

That point really made me think. Do you agree? Some folks believe that attraction can build over time. I suppose you can argue it from both sides, but I wonder – which notion do you subscribe to? Attraction on fire or build up with a slow burn?


Paul Brunson will release his book soon (October 11!) but for now you can catch him co-hosting every Monday night on LoveTown USA airing on the Oprah Winfrey Network (10:00 pm ET) The show was filmed in Kingsland, GA and the entire town made “love” a top priority for 30 days.

Happy Monday!

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog

361 comments Add your comment

Lily

September 10th, 2012
5:47 am

Diva, either way is okay for me. I’ve been in both. I will say, slow burn is where I’ve found the deepest longest love.

Exiled!

September 10th, 2012
6:39 am

Lily…’the deepest…’ u mean he was the goodest in bed as well or am I shallow to conclude that way… He he?

On topic:

Attraction should be instantaneous! Like snap..there she is.

Slow burn reeks of failure.I hear fks say that all the time but to me,when chics(laugh) get tired,the glamour has gone,the playas don’t call anymore that’s when they settle for the dude they never gave a chance in the first place. The one they always knew but never looked at when they were still in the fast lane.

Then after settling they spit that slow burn game. :lol:

Like I said,there is Nothing..I mean nothing like slow burn attraction!
Attraction is like ’snap, there she/he is!’ :lol:

Slow burn = settling! (why weren’t u attracted in the first place?) what distracted u?

Early morning MIA!

Lily

September 10th, 2012
7:15 am

No, Exiled., not in bed. lol

When I say slow burn, I simply mean feelings grew deeper over time. Of course feelings were present in,the beginning.

Your explanation sounds more like lust. lol

Single and Happier "Life Happens!"

September 10th, 2012
7:21 am

Fire = lust! Now what do I do once the fire starts to die down, are they fun to be around, can we have a conversation, or are they now just Pretty Dumb!

Ex, what some may call settling, other see as maturing,

Exiled!

September 10th, 2012
8:18 am

Maturing is euphemism for Tired!

Exiled!

September 10th, 2012
8:22 am

Wake up Atlanta

Or are u still in traffic?

Single and Happier "Life Happens!"

September 10th, 2012
9:17 am

Okay ex (LOL)

Leggs

September 10th, 2012
9:18 am

“Attraction on fire or build up with a slow burn?” – Attraction is definitely high on the list, but it doesn’t necessarily have to be on fire. I would tend to think that “fire’s” flame may be burning too high at the outset only to smolder as time goes by. I’d like it to be the other way. A slow burn turning into everlasting respect, love, desire and monogamy. That’s a beautiful slow burn.

Good morning.

disco

September 10th, 2012
9:19 am

good morning all.

ex – as off as you can be I’m agreeing with you this a.m. it should be like SNAP. that waiting on a person to grow on you attraction is for the gun shy in my opinion. not saying it doesn’t have it’s place but that “instantaneous OMG where do I sign up for a piece of that” kind of attraction is what’s up. of course, I could feel that way because that kind is so much more rare than the “so and so is good people” kind of attraction.

Celisea

September 10th, 2012
9:26 am

Morning,

I think it can be either. Still, you don’t have any control over attraction. It happens or not. Slow or fast. Go with what works for you.

Comon Cents

September 10th, 2012
9:26 am

Good Morning!

On Topic~ While I believe that attraction can build over time, It is the relationships where the attraction is instant that seem to have the spark to go the long haul. I still think that my husband is as hot now as I did 21 years ago when I first met him. Therefore, the things that keep the home fires burning come much easier than if your attraction is lukewarm. My mom still thinks my dad is the most handsome man she has ever seen. (They have been married 45 years).

Off topic~ Did y’all watch the games this weekend?!? College ball was OFF DA CHAIN and NFL opener weekend provided some great food for thought. (And all my teams won which made it even better. :) )

Bluzgirl

September 10th, 2012
9:27 am

I’ve experienced both types of attraction. There have been occasions where I didn’t think I was attracted to the man at first, but his personality came out and made him more and more attractive to me…

Celisea

September 10th, 2012
9:27 am

My preference though is slow burn :mrgreen: That way you get to marinate in it…lololol

SlimUno

September 10th, 2012
9:28 am

Morning peeps…going to be in and out since my department has two new ladies that started today…

I sort of feel like Leggss..what happens when you cook food too fast? It is burnt on the outside and still left raw on the inside. A slow burn or simmer is a great way to ensure the flavor is spread throughout ;-)

Comon Cents

September 10th, 2012
9:29 am

“instantaneous OMG where do I sign up for a piece of that”

:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

Celisea

September 10th, 2012
9:30 am

And what happens to fire? It eventually burns out!

Single and Happier "Life Happens!"

September 10th, 2012
9:33 am

“instantaneous OMG where do I sign up for a piece of that” = damn that’s it!! when can I get off this ride!

disco

September 10th, 2012
9:39 am

CC – you know you know what I’m talking about. like you’ve never walked into a crowded room and saw something and thought “who is that? I’ve got to meet him”. there is something to said for feeling that kind of excitement if only for a little while.

it seems like the slow burn is winning the race. sometimes the slow burn can feel like settling. like you are taking it slow while waiting for things to heat up, hoping it will progressively get better. maybe it will, maybe it won’t. of course, the slow burn can also just be comfortable. so, to keep from rambling I’ll just say I truly do get it but I’m in a place right now where I’ll take fire and excitement for $1000 alex.

Leggs

September 10th, 2012
9:45 am

♪♫•*¨*•.¸¸♥¸¸.•*¨*•♫♪HAPPY BIRTHDAY, 2C!♪♫•*¨*•.¸¸♥¸¸.•*¨*•♫♪

Celisea

September 10th, 2012
9:45 am

POINTER SISTERS – SLOW HAND

I want a man with a slow hand
I want a lover with an easy touch
I want somebody who will spend some time
Not come and go in a heated rush
I want somebody who will understand
When it comes to love, I want a slow hand

Glammour Girl

September 10th, 2012
9:46 am

Cosigning with Leggs.

I also think that the fire can cause you to make some bad decisions. The person may not be right for you, but you’re blinded by the fire and stay way longer than you should.

Leggs

September 10th, 2012
9:46 am

Fire = lust! – That’s what I thought as well, Single!

Bluzgirl

September 10th, 2012
9:46 am

CC – The DAWGS had me worried in the first half, but they sure showed up in the second! What a game!!!

Leggs

September 10th, 2012
9:49 am

“…it should be like SNAP.”

disco ~ are you against love maturing, percolating to you get to that everlasting boil where the heat is forever front and center? Sometimes, growing with a person, getting to know them is where the feelings develop. If you have something SNAPPING right out the gate, I bet your loins are more involved than your heart.

Single and Happier "Life Happens!"

September 10th, 2012
9:51 am

Disco, that reminds me of this time I was out with some friends, they and almost every woman in the bar was drooling over this guy standing at the bar, I told them just wait till he opens his mouth, of course I was accused of being a hater, and I said just wait. Well when he finally opened his mouth, he was Pretty Dumb. They were asking how did I know that, it was because of the way he acted, he avoided answering any questions until he had too, would just smile and nod his head. Sometimes that’s what I have to have a piece of that gets you. (don’t you say a word, just stand there and look pretty) (LOL)

Leggs

September 10th, 2012
9:53 am

Ohio Players “Fire” is playing on the radio:

The way you walk and talk really sets me off
To a fuller love, child, yes, it does, uh
The way you squeeze and tease, knocks to me my knees
‘Cause I’m smokin’, baby, baby

The way you swerve and curve, really wrecks my nerves
And I’m so excited, child [Yeah], woo, woo
The way you push, push let’s me know that you’re good
[You’re gonna get your wish] Oh, yeah

Fire (What I said, child, ow)
Fire (Uh-huh)
Got me burnin’, burnin’, burnin’
Got me burnin’, burnin’, burnin’ (Yeah)
Got me burnin’, burnin’, burnin’ (Yeah

disco

September 10th, 2012
9:54 am

leggs – that’s just it. we are all acting all mature and whatnot. lol. like I said, I get the slow burn theory but I’m just not taking it at face value. going in hot and ready is no less of a detriment than going in hoping things turn out well if you take it slow. both ways are a toss up. I’m just saying that I wouldn’t mind being with a guy that I thought was worth boning out the gate (yeah I said boning) as opposed to getting with a guy who isn’t overly sexy but who is nice, kind, sweet, blah blah blah and I’m really taking it slow because I’m trying to trick my body into responding to him. so, essentially it sounds like the blog is saying slow burn in the sense of the overall relationship and I’m saying slow burn as it relates to physical attraction.

Celisea

September 10th, 2012
9:55 am

disco, just admit it….you need to get laid…lolololol

Celisea

September 10th, 2012
9:59 am

Mmeello – Are you allowed to blog today?

disco

September 10th, 2012
10:00 am

S/H – it’s all a part of the chance we take. a few months ago I met a guy who had me at the gate (the sleep apnea guy). I mentioned “stalking” him on here. turned out he wasn’t that bright and didn’t have much going for him other than he was tall and dark and wore the heck out of a white linen suit. lol.

celisea – I have been admitting that for months now. it’s no secret. and, of course, when I do finally get some I’m hoping it’s hot like blue blazes and not some okey doke mediocre lukewarm slow burn foolishness. lol.

Single and Happier "Life Happens!"

September 10th, 2012
10:00 am

Disco, are you saying a slow burn can’t have physical attraction also?

Comon Cents

September 10th, 2012
10:03 am

“who is that? I’ve got to meet him”. there is something to said for feeling that kind of excitement if only for a little while.

I say I do , I do, I do, I do, I do! LMAO! That’s how it was with the hubs. And even now, I find myself watching him when he doesn’t know I’m waching him and LORD can that man make my blood boil. :lol:

But, on the other side of that, had we had extreme attraction from jump and then there was nothing beyond the physical, the relationship would not be what it is. I might have had to have a sample, but I sure wouldn’t have bought the whole pig just to get alittle sausage if you catch my drift…

IA

September 10th, 2012
10:05 am

I’m so mad it missed this event! He gives good solid advice. I too believe you need attraction makes things better. But you can’t rely on that alone.

Leggs

September 10th, 2012
10:07 am

Comon ~ I received CDs this morning…thank you.

“…going in hot and ready is no less of a detriment than going in hoping things turn out well if you take it slow.” – Now, we know that is not true…it all depends on the individual and one’s expectations.

disco

September 10th, 2012
10:08 am

S/H – I am not saying that a slow burn can’t have physical attraction (although i do know plenty of folks who admit their s/o isn’t attractive but treats them well) but I am saying that I wish all of the overly mature folks would quit fronting like they don’t know what I’m talking about. i’m sure some folks have dated mr. or miss right now. there was no fire. maybe never even a good slow burn got going. it was just to pass the time until something better came along.

Single and Happier "Life Happens!"

September 10th, 2012
10:16 am

Disco, we don’t call that dating, we call those booty calls (LOL)

Leggs

September 10th, 2012
10:17 am

“…but I sure wouldn’t have bought the whole pig just to get alittle sausage if you catch my drift…” – Yeah we caught your drift, you have a little sausage. :wink:

I KID, I KID. It was right there….

Bluzgirl

September 10th, 2012
10:18 am

I can attest that if you go after the fire, you can get burned pretty badly! :-)

Celisea

September 10th, 2012
10:19 am

I am saying that I wish all of the overly mature folks would quit fronting like they don’t know what I’m talking about

Each individual’s experience is their own. Just because yours is not mine, it should not be thought a thing incredible. That’s what make us all so unique. Personally, I find it hard to believe that a person can be FWB or FB and not catch feeling, but I won’t refute it if many say it can be done.

Single and Happier "Life Happens!"

September 10th, 2012
10:22 am

C, the FWB, or FB someone catches feelings if it last long enough.

Leggs

September 10th, 2012
10:24 am

:lol: :lol: with you Bluz!

Celisea

September 10th, 2012
10:24 am

Single and Happy – Naturally

Comon Cents

September 10th, 2012
10:26 am

Leggs~ I don’t know about little, but it’s just right for me. :lol:

Glad you got the CDs.

disco~ I got yo back! I feel you girl. Lukewarm is great if all you want is companionship. But in the bedroom, I want FIRE! :lol: Weren’t we just talking about that “tha-yow” on Friday?!?

disco

September 10th, 2012
10:27 am

okay…I’ll accept that I’m the only one that happens to know folks who married or had a long term relationship with the one night stand and I’m the only one who knows chicks who held out on giving up the goods only to get dumped down the road. I’ll accept that I’m the only one that knows folks that are in relationships that are based on things other than love or even lust.

Comon Cents

September 10th, 2012
10:28 am

Leggs~ So when are you starting? That way, when you don’t show up to blog I can let everyone know what happened. :lol:

Comon Cents

September 10th, 2012
10:30 am

Off Topic~ I am floating today. My son got named to the all-american team for Offense-Defense so we will be going to Houston in December for him to play in the bowl game. :D

disco

September 10th, 2012
10:35 am

thanks CC. at least I’m not totally alone.

Leggs

September 10th, 2012
10:37 am

And, “just right” is all one can hope for.

I found my partner, and we are going to start Saturday morning. I have a feeling I won’t need a water bottle, but rather a vat of water!

kimmie

September 10th, 2012
10:41 am

Sup Gang!

Go Dawgs & Falcons!!!!

On topic – I’m kinda with Exiled & Disco on this one, with a twist. There HAS to be SOME initial attraction for a “slow burn” to even be attempted, at least by me. And that “slow” better not take too long, otherwise I will feel like I’m in the land of the settled. For example, I wouldn’t marry someone still waiting on that FIRE to kick in! And once that burn kicks in, it needs to feel just like one of those instant situations! Sorry to say, but “nice” is just not enough. I’m not working at trying to convince myself I’m feeling a dude. Just not.

Leggs

September 10th, 2012
10:41 am

Congrats, Comon! That’s wonderful. I know you are proud.

Comon Cents

September 10th, 2012
10:51 am

I think my chest might burst from swelling with pride this morning, Leggs! :lol:

But is it wrong that my first thought was “This boy can’t even remember to brush his teeth half the time! How the HEYALL is he an All American?!?” LMAO!

Good luck with the workout. You will definitely need a vat of water! And lots of Ben-Gay too! :lol:

i'm swiss

September 10th, 2012
10:54 am

kimmie — How ’bout them DAWGS?!?! Let me just say that Jarvis Jones deserves every piece of puddy that he is undoubtedly getting this week after that performance Saturday night. :lol: To all the co-eds over in Athens: give it up, that young man earned it. :lol:

Bluzgirl

September 10th, 2012
10:55 am

Heck swiss…I’d give it up to him for that awesome performance! :-)

kimmie

September 10th, 2012
10:57 am

Leggs

September 10th, 2012
11:00 am

tsk, tsk, tsk that would be a reason to give it up and swiss putting out a PSA to all the co-eds in Athens to give it up to this player simply because he played a damn good game. What’s wrong with shaking his hand and telling him he played a good game (lol).

i'm swiss

September 10th, 2012
11:01 am

Bluz — Well, you almost gave it up to a clown, so…. :lol: (j/k)

Poppa Grande

September 10th, 2012
11:01 am

Congratulations to Comon Cents that is a great accomplishment for your family.

kimmie

September 10th, 2012
11:02 am

Comon – That’s fabulous!!!!

Comon Cents

September 10th, 2012
11:02 am

Cosign with Bluz! If I was 20 years younger, I would definitely be trying to give that young man some. IMO, Gurley’s performance was less than spectacular, but he is young. Murray finally pulled his head out of his azz in the second half. Thank gawd! The only other footnote I have on that game is that if your quarterback stands up and takes the hit to get you the ball, you had DAMN sure better catch it! There were way too many missed catches that were VERY catchable in the first half.

disco

September 10th, 2012
11:03 am

I’m certain the benchwarmers will get laid as well. it ties into the topic. the star players are the fire. the benchwarmers are the slow burns. for groupie chicks it doesn’t matter how well they play or how often they play so long as they play.

i'm swiss

September 10th, 2012
11:04 am

And one of y’all ladies needs to break off a little sumpin, sumpin, for Richard Samuel for fighting off 3 blockers to make the tackle on that fake punt attempt.

Comon Cents

September 10th, 2012
11:05 am

PG~ Glad to see you lurking this morning. I have a question for you. The bowl game is actually a week long event. (Dec 26-January 1) with the game happening on New Year’s Day. Are the parents usually there for the whole week or do they just fly out for the game? Do you think my son will feel slighted if we only come for the game? The bowl committee said it is our choice but they gave no indications as to what the norm is. I only ask because I know you have some experience in that arena.

Poppa Grande

September 10th, 2012
11:12 am

CC
**There were way too many missed catches that were VERY catchable in the first half.**

I attribute those to nerves. I imagine that the Mr. Richardson’s trash talk and the big hoopla about it being Missouri’s first game in the SEC made both teams play pretty tight during the majority of the first half. Missouri fan’s made atomsphere electric. I could tell that on TV. In addition, SEC in general had little something to prove in both College Station TX and Columbia MO. Big 12 teams always liked to talk smack against the SEC. UGA and UF were basically given an assignment to show that 2 mediocre Big 12 teams were going to be 2 mediocre SEC teams. I actually rooted for both the Gaytors and pups Saturday even though it would have benefitted my fighing chickens greatly. I know plenty of other SEC fans that did that for one day as well.

I do worry about Florida though. I am beginning to think the gig is too much for Muschamp to handle. He is the coach,and he was trashing the Aggie fans on national TV. He needs to grow up and worry about the opposing coaches more than opposing fans. Florida still has talent though.

Poppa Grande

September 10th, 2012
11:17 am

Richard Samuel deserves Sunshine for Harlem Nights period. Not just for Saturday, either. He has been a complete professional and great teammate. Whatever asked, he has done. He started as a tailback back, then moved to linebacker, then back to tailback back, now more like a fullback with an occasional tailback role. He does his job and hasn’t complained about not getting the opportunity to perfect one position. It kinda reminds me of a recently retired Steeler who played multiple positions when he was in Athens years ago.

i'm swiss

September 10th, 2012
11:22 am

PG — Totally agree. Samuel is a DGD, indeed!

Comon Cents

September 10th, 2012
11:24 am

Florida has talent, but their game was definitely mediocre on Saturday. That game could have gone either way and IMO the only reason the Aggies lost is that they don’t have enough depth to go the long haul. On te Dawgs side, we won decisively missing 4 starters. I think that once we get them back and start really playing our game and calm down, they will be just fine. The gamecocks didn’t play anyone on Saturday, so we aren’t even going there… BTW, I misspoke last week. My friend GA Mangus is te quarterback coach not the defensive coordinator.

Poppa Grande

September 10th, 2012
11:24 am

CC-

It depends on you and your plans. It really is your preference.

As for your son, he is kept pretty busy. Usually, there are trips to visit local attractions for them as a team. For example, here in the ATL there usually is a team trip to the aquarium or world of coke mixed in with practice and some media things.

Your interaction with him may be limited. That would be determined by the coach and his plans for the team.

I am just going on what I remember from the past about 20 years in the past at that. I don’t if the economy has changed anything. I have heard about the trip here though.

Comon Cents

September 10th, 2012
11:26 am

Off topic~ I need to buy a new keyboard because the “h” on this one is going to drive me crazy. I have smacked it around and everything and it still doesn’t want to act right..

Comon Cents

September 10th, 2012
11:29 am

PG~ They have a whole schedule of events set up for the boys that includes practices, autograph signings, visits to attractions, etc. So, you are just confirming my thoughts. I figured we would let him go out and have the week to himself and then come out a day or so before the game and bring him home when it’s over. He probably doesn’t want helicopter mom hovering anyway. :lol:

Poppa Grande

September 10th, 2012
11:30 am

My worry about Florida is that thought that would have an easier time with the Aggies. I saw Florida’s first game and saw how bad it was. But, I figured that finally naming one starting QB would settle them down instead of flipping back and forth with QBs.

Texas A&M’s 2011 coach and starting QB have both been on Hard Knocks for the last month. Tannehill and Sherman playing and coaching respectively. So, Sumerlin is a darn good coach, but he had to work with what was left and I figured that he would need a class or two to get players for his system. However, he seemed to find a jewel with Maizel. Florida still didn’t look much better than the game before.

Poppa Grande

September 10th, 2012
11:31 am

CC-

I guess that it hasn’t changed much.

Poppa Grande

September 10th, 2012
11:34 am

CC-

Avoid words with the letter “h”… so there are no homicide cases for you today. Just murders.

Single and Happier "Life Happens!"

September 10th, 2012
11:39 am

I am so glad the dogs won, cause I sure didn’t want to hear those excuses everyone had ready (LOL)

Poppa Grande

September 10th, 2012
11:45 am

At least they aren’t dealing with what Arkansas has to deal with. Arkansas lostto Louisian- Monroe and hosting Alabama this week. They paid Louisiana- Monroe the big bucks to come into Arkansas and then let Louisiana Monroe to win.

The Petrino effect…the mess that he leaves behind.

Comon Cents

September 10th, 2012
11:47 am

Avoid words with the letter “h”… so there are no homicide cases for you today. Just murders

:lol: Hopefully, there are none of either on my plate. I’ll stick to my drunks and dealers, thanks. I once had a case where a client had been shot (but not killed) during a deal gone bad and that was more than enough for me to ever want to deal with.

Comon Cents

September 10th, 2012
11:48 am

PG~ Or Savannah State’s game. That was just brutal. And called in the third quarter. Oh. The shame…

Poppa Grande

September 10th, 2012
11:57 am

The Savannah State thing kinda ticked me off. I know that they could use the money.

However, coaches are always talking about the team is a family, blah, blah, blah. If so, what parents sell their kid’s out for money that the kid’s involved probably won’t benefit from in the first place. Future kids will probably get to enjoy new facilities and such.

At least, Michael, Jermaine, Tito, Randy, Janet, and company got to benefit from Joe selling out his kids.

Comon Cents

September 10th, 2012
11:59 am

PG~ I uess they look at it as the sacrifice of a few for the benefit of many. Although, in this day and time, I am not sure how far $800K will go. IJS…

Single and Happier "Life Happens!"

September 10th, 2012
12:01 pm

PG, they’re not kids anymore, welcome to the grown up world

Comon Cents

September 10th, 2012
12:04 pm

At least, Michael, Jermaine, Tito, Randy, Janet, and company got to benefit from Joe selling out his kids.

At least Michael, Jermaine, Tito, Randy, Janet and company got to benefit from Joe selling out his kids.

Lady~favor ain't fair! :-)

September 10th, 2012
12:06 pm

poppin’ in…..What is shkin’ MIA?!? I barely read the topic lol…….Yeah BCU beat SC State in the rain and all but I still had a great weekend away and ended with a Falcons Win with my Falcons Crew and Boo!!!!

Love this time of year~ ready to make a pot of chili #random

Lady~favor ain't fair! :-)

September 10th, 2012
12:06 pm

meant shakin’?!? I am a bit sleepy lol nothing new though

SexyCool

September 10th, 2012
12:08 pm

I’s married now. (lol)

Lady~favor ain't fair! :-)

September 10th, 2012
12:10 pm

Way to go SC~ Enjoy your married journey~ ;)

Poppa Grande

September 10th, 2012
12:10 pm

S&H

I know that, but they keep selling that line to parents and kids during recruiting. But the actions, are opposite.

Celisea

September 10th, 2012
12:10 pm

Lady – Favor ain’t fair to the person not getting rained on…lololol

Bluzgirl

September 10th, 2012
12:12 pm

Congrats SC!!!!!

Comon Cents

September 10th, 2012
12:12 pm

Congrats, Sexy! Hope your wedding and your marriage are all you hope for!

Lady~favor ain't fair! :-)

September 10th, 2012
12:14 pm

C~ I just screamed laughing!!!! I can’t sis~ LOL!!!! ;)

Comon Cents

September 10th, 2012
12:16 pm

Savannah State and Grambling found themselves in the same boat this weekend, but I guess that the questions you have to ask are: A. Does anyone get better by playing people on the same level as them? The last time I checked, you tend to up your game when you rise to meet the competition. B. If these programs do not compete in games like these, where else are they going to get an almost $800K payday? and C. Every once in a while, you have the “patsy” team decide to show up and school someone (read: DAAAAMMNN! Arkansas got their BUTT handed to them by UL-Monroe)

Celisea

September 10th, 2012
12:16 pm

Leggs

September 10th, 2012
12:16 pm

Congratulations, SexyC! May all the days of the rest of your lives together be cloaked with understanding, love and respect. With that, you’ll know how to argue w/o venom in your words.

Poppa Grande

September 10th, 2012
12:16 pm

Congrats Sexy!

Comon Cents

September 10th, 2012
12:19 pm

With that, you’ll know how to argue w/o venom in your words.

Great marriage advice, Leggs! I know all of you out here in blogsville have more. My contribution would be: Don’t go to bed angry. No matter what, keep the closeness that you felt on your wedding day.

Lady~favor ain't fair! :-)

September 10th, 2012
12:22 pm

can you send me the keys for that face C?!? too damn funny! all by myself at the same damn time! lmbao!

Celisea

September 10th, 2012
12:23 pm

Sure…Imma text it to you

Celisea

September 10th, 2012
12:52 pm

Where did everyone go?

Bluzgirl

September 10th, 2012
12:53 pm

Where’d everyone go? Anyone do anything special this weekend besides football and SexyCool’s wedding?

I went up to Jasper to spend the night at my friend’s house. It was so beautiful up there. Saw several deer and a wild turkey. The air was so crisp and clean. I really enjoyed the drive up there. Amazing what is only an hour away from us!

Bluzgirl

September 10th, 2012
12:53 pm

LOL C – I think we’ve got ESP

Celisea

September 10th, 2012
12:55 pm

Bluzy – Nope, WE ARE ONE, with the universe…that is :mrgreen:

Bluzgirl

September 10th, 2012
12:59 pm

:-) I guess it’s just you and me right now…enjoy your weekend?

Celisea

September 10th, 2012
12:59 pm

Bluzgirl

September 10th, 2012
1:01 pm

When my alarm went off this morning, I thought it was Sunday. Hate when that happens!!!

Lady~favor ain't fair! :-)

September 10th, 2012
1:02 pm

present~ in the here and now #smirk

Celisea

September 10th, 2012
1:03 pm

My alarm went off and I laid back down…lol Good thing a friend was calling me at about 7:09. Wonder how long I would have slept had my phone not rang? I got here after 9:00, which is no biggie. Sometimes that’s regular time for me…lol

Celisea

September 10th, 2012
1:03 pm

Lady – How was the weekend getaway? Fantab I’m assuming :mrgreen:

Lady~favor ain't fair! :-)

September 10th, 2012
1:05 pm

In your words C~ FANTAB!!!!! Just awesome! The family embraced me well and it was sincere and genuine. Felt at home and ate and drank well lol~ Orangeburg was just as awesome as always! Nothing like the Burg~ Thanks for asking!

Celisea

September 10th, 2012
1:06 pm

Lady – That’s great!! Your post radiates “fabulous”

Lady~favor ain't fair! :-)

September 10th, 2012
1:10 pm

SlimUno

September 10th, 2012
1:11 pm

I’m here folks, for whatever that’s worth.

Celisea

September 10th, 2012
1:11 pm

Slim – Did you have a busy weekend?

Celisea

September 10th, 2012
1:13 pm

Where’s WillieD? I want to know if he did lambs and grilled veggies this weekend?

Celisea

September 10th, 2012
1:14 pm

Major faus pax….lamb not lambs

Bluzgirl

September 10th, 2012
1:14 pm

Lady…forgot you were going to be around Charleston this weekend. Did you make it to any of the beaches?

Celisea

September 10th, 2012
1:14 pm

dernit…faux pas

Robert

September 10th, 2012
1:15 pm

“Attraction on fire or build up with a slow burn?”

I look at it both ways. For example if I am “attracted” it is usually based on how “hot” the women looks (hair, clothes, shoes, etc.). Her “hotness” has fuled my passion & desire. If I meet someone who is not as “hot” but has other attributes I find attractive (money, house, car, etc.) I might consider a “slow burn” relationship.

I once heard this joke from 2 women who were talking about Evander Holyfield. One women said what kind of woman would want a unattractive man like him? The other woman answered and said “money made Mike Tyson look attractive, just ask Robin Givens and her mother” and Holyfield might not be the best looking man in ATL but he has lots of money that’s why women want to have his babies. In other words money makes any man or woman attractive especially in ATL. ATL Men and women both like to perpetrate a lifestyle of luxury (cars, clothes, etc.). Fakes.

Bluzgirl

September 10th, 2012
1:15 pm

I am craving a good chef’s salad and I don’t know of anywhere near my office that would have a good one. I don’t normally crave salad, so I must take advantage of it!

SlimUno

September 10th, 2012
1:15 pm

O/T So I told you guys about the bar dude confessing his stalker attraction to me or whatever. So this fool just texts me asking how my day is going and how my weekend was. I told him, no offense but I don’t feel any need for us to communicate. I said i’m in a relationship and you’re Married and that’s not being respectful our our partners. He said he understood so we’ll see if that’s the last of him. CREEPY!!!

SlimUno

September 10th, 2012
1:17 pm

Cel – I went to Shout with one of my besties (the one that just had her baby). So it was her first time getting out since the baby was born and we really enjoyed chatting it up about stuff. That was pretty much it besides me looking after the beau on Sunday nursing his hangover. Apparently, he took the time while I was out to get his sippy sip on and overindulged lol

Celisea

September 10th, 2012
1:20 pm

Slim – All I can tell you is….STALKERS ARE THE WORST. They don’t EVA die. They’ll just morph into another and come back again…lol Good luck with getting rid of buddy. :(

Cool on hanging with the bestie. Sometimes a good sitdown and eats wtih a bestie is the best kind of fun.

Bluzgirl

September 10th, 2012
1:20 pm

Slim…good for you for speaking up to the creep and nipping that in the bud!

Celisea

September 10th, 2012
1:21 pm

whatchutalkinbout, Robert? lol What the heck (on the money make men attractive…in the ATL)? Heck that’s universal…lol Okay, I’m kidding somewhat. That’s mostly found in your pool of golddiggers.

Celisea

September 10th, 2012
1:23 pm

Slim – That was the right move though. Outright, direct and point blank.

Lady~favor ain't fair! :-)

September 10th, 2012
1:23 pm

briefly Bluz~ Will spend Thanksgiving in Charles more time to mingle……Thx for asking!

Yes C~ where is WillieD Hey Bruh~ ;)

Single and Happier "Life Happens!"

September 10th, 2012
1:25 pm

Wow, a whole pool of golddiggers, must be a diggers pool party (LOL)

Celisea

September 10th, 2012
1:26 pm

ba domp domp

SlimUno

September 10th, 2012
1:26 pm

Cel/Bluz – Yeah because all he is attempting to do is play the ‘platonic’ role by starting with the texts every other day about how work is going, weekend blah blah blah in hopes that it can progress. Not gonna happ’n cap’n. After I said that, he came back with ok sweetheart :lol: :roll:

Celisea

September 10th, 2012
1:28 pm

Slim – Good for you. He’s taking another approach. He’s patient.

Celisea

September 10th, 2012
1:29 pm

Lady – Thanksgiving will be here before we know it. I’m going to cook this year. I haven’t in the last 3 or 4 but I’m biting the bullet and doing it :)

Leggs

September 10th, 2012
1:30 pm

When my alarm went off I quickly realized I could sleep a good 30 more mins since I didn’t have to do my hair (lol).

SlimUno ~ it won’t be the last of him. He’s presently bored and you’ve piqued his curiousity. It will take perhaps one more time with an even sharper tone before the light bulbs dims with the knowledge he’s not going to get through to you.

I had a fabulous weekend. Busy Friday until Sunday evening.

Celisea

September 10th, 2012
1:31 pm

it won’t be the last of him.

Nope, it will not

Lady~favor ain't fair! :-)

September 10th, 2012
1:32 pm

go c~ we were invited to a Oyster Crack the Wednesday before Thanksgiving so that should be fun~ I will be in guest mode lol

SlimUno

September 10th, 2012
1:33 pm

I ran into foot fetish guy while I was out too. lol

Lady~favor ain't fair! :-)

September 10th, 2012
1:34 pm

yeah C~ time for us to sit down and eat good again…….soon sis, soon! I will prob go for iced tea this go round~ lol

Celisea

September 10th, 2012
1:34 pm

Lady – Where is that? That does sound like fun. No doubt the Wednesday before, I’ll be getting last minute stuff. Usually I’m leaving work early to pick up my catered dinner…lololol I do have a invite to Savannah Thanksgiving weekend. I haven’t given it a lot of thought because I getting Christmas off. I just might though now because my manager just had 27 more people placed under her. As long as we can “work it out”, it’s all good. There’s a bigger pool of folks I can get to cover for me.

Celisea

September 10th, 2012
1:34 pm

Slim – OMGawd….what a weekend huh? lolol

Lady – Shoot me a couple of dates. Sounds good.

Single and Happier "Life Happens!"

September 10th, 2012
1:35 pm

Slim you just have to delete his text, use the ignore button.

Celisea

September 10th, 2012
1:35 pm

“an invite” not a invite

SlimUno

September 10th, 2012
1:36 pm

Leggs – Perhaps it won’t be the last of him but not sure what other approach he can take at this point. So you sound like you had a great weekend. What all did you do?

Lady~favor ain't fair! :-)

September 10th, 2012
1:37 pm

See the clubhouse…..a big pot of Oysters and a low country boil….newspapers and spirits! yum! yeah I was ponder what dates sis~ I will let you know…

Celisea

September 10th, 2012
1:38 pm

Lady – Okay…cool

Lady~favor ain't fair! :-)

September 10th, 2012
1:38 pm

meant C~ the clubhouse! lol poor grammar! lol

Into the Light

September 10th, 2012
1:38 pm

Afternoon, all!

Skimming to catch up, but I see we were talking football earlier today.

RE: Jarvis Jones: Not only is he a beast of a player, he is a respectful, polite young man. A DGD all the way!

sn: Friends who were at the game said that when the Missouri fans would do their “M-I-Z” “Z-O-U” chant, Dawg fans followed with “M-O-U-S-E”….. Now that’s funny!

Hey Bluz. Glad you enjoyed your trip to Jasper. :)

@Stamps: You jinxed me. I have bronchitis and am STILL sick. Meanie.

@Leggs: Glad you had a fun, busy weekend.

@Swissykins/Kimmie: Night games the next two weeks. 7:30 this Sat, and 7:45 for Vandy.

Celisea

September 10th, 2012
1:39 pm

No biggie. Typos aren’t a big deal for me. As long as I can get the meat of what you’re saying, I’m good.

SlimUno

September 10th, 2012
1:39 pm

S/H – No worries…if I ever end going to that bar again, i’ll call ahead of time to see if he’ll be there. Gotta make sure the coast is clear :lol:

Leggs

September 10th, 2012
1:40 pm

1. Tell him to stop texting you.
2. If he texts, don’t respond
3. Ignore the next texts
4. He’s going to send you a compliment.
5. Ignore his texts
6. He’ll ask if you’ve been receiving his texts
7. Ignore his texts
8. He’s going to “accidentally” call you
9. Ignore his texts and/or calls
10.Don’t delete his number – Just put DNA as his last name!

Celisea

September 10th, 2012
1:41 pm

Definitely get it said rather than just ignorning. Tell him to kick rocks. From that point, ignore him. For numbers I no longer want to answer, on my device, I can block. Block his number so it goes to v/m. Still place a DNA next to his name.

SlimUno

September 10th, 2012
1:42 pm

Anyone ever been to Ormsby’s?

Lady~favor ain't fair! :-)

September 10th, 2012
1:42 pm

good C~ and look I see clearly now sis! lol

SlimUno

September 10th, 2012
1:42 pm

This one had me cracking up 8. He’s going to “accidentally” call you This dude is too old for that mess lolol

Celisea

September 10th, 2012
1:43 pm

Lady~favor ain't fair! :-)

September 10th, 2012
1:43 pm

Single and Happier "Life Happens!"

September 10th, 2012
1:43 pm

ITL, I jinxed you (LOL) yea I know stay home and rest was some really bad advice (LOL)

Celisea

September 10th, 2012
1:44 pm

kimmie

September 10th, 2012
1:44 pm

Slim – How did he get your number?

Single and Happier "Life Happens!"

September 10th, 2012
1:45 pm

C, she essentially said kick rock to him today. (LOL)

Slim, now I know you’ve heard of pocket dial (rotflmao)

Leggs

September 10th, 2012
1:45 pm

SlimUno ~ went to a pizza joint W’Ptree Street (really excellent pizza…you would love it), then out for some drinks at The W. Saturday was invited to an elegant celebration of a friend’s 25th year living in Georgia. The tables was beautifully decorated and the food spectacular. She hosted her soiree at a historical home in Smyrna…hats off to all she did!!! On Sunday, I fellowshipped with some friends celebrating life, love and appreciation. This is small, but I think I had the best lemonade I had in a very long time. Then my neighbor’s fridge went out so I cooked dinner for her and her son. She was going to Pizza Hut at 6:30 that evening. I told I would thaw out some wings and fry them up with some sides for her and her son. She’s struggling now that she left her bf of 11 years.

After all that I had to sleep “prett” so I wouldn’t mess up my hairstyle (lol).

Lady~favor ain't fair! :-)

September 10th, 2012
1:46 pm

Leggs

September 10th, 2012
1:47 pm

8. He’s going to “accidentally” call you This dude is too old for that mess lolol

Please trust me, they’re never too old for that mess!

Robert

September 10th, 2012
1:48 pm

@SlimUno – Text….Text…Real Men don’t text. Since our elected State of GA GOP/tea party representitives will all be out of office in Nov.2012 I am writing my GA Dem. Congressmen/women and asking for their help in amending current State of GA law regarding Textings for Men. I am asking the GA legislative branch to inact a law that will make it a crime for Real Men found “texting”. Hopefully this will be outlawed for all men in all 50 states because of the following reasons;

1. The 10 commandments

2. The Constitution

3. The Bill of Rights

4. ADHD – Nosey Women Constantly “texting”

Into the Light

September 10th, 2012
1:48 pm

@Stamps: Darn right. :) :lol: :lol: I was going with the “ignore it until you feel better” method.

Celisea

September 10th, 2012
1:48 pm

Legg – I figured it was a “do” thing when you said you didn’t have to do your hair…lol

Single and Happy – Thanks, I guess

SlimUno

September 10th, 2012
1:49 pm

kimmie – He had it from back when I got my stepdad to sing at the bar since they usually do live music on the weekends. My parents live in AL so my mom needed me to go pick up the check from him so she gave him my number for that instance to setup a meeting time. He said he’s had my number from way back when and that was probably over a year ago. I ended up going there for my birthday in June and he happened to be there. He came to speak and got me a bday drink…nothing more nothing less. I figured he was just being nice since there was a business relationship there…But apparently that re-ignited his stalker attraction to me.

Leggs

September 10th, 2012
1:49 pm

sleep “pretty” is what I meant.

SlimUno ~ they would say accidentally because with these new fangled cellphones, it’s easy to hang up a call only to mistakenly hit the call bottom (especially while reading texts).

Celisea

September 10th, 2012
1:50 pm

I am asking the GA legislative branch to inact a law that will make it a crime for Real Men found “texting”.

I am caracking up…stooooop

Celisea

September 10th, 2012
1:51 pm

Ut oh Robert…is all Imma say…lol

Into the Light

September 10th, 2012
1:52 pm

@Leggs: Sooooo, what’s the name of this pizza joint?

Celisea

September 10th, 2012
1:53 pm

@SlimUno – Text….Text…Real Men don’t text

Too, Robert…buddy ain’t a real man. He’s a pig.

kimmie

September 10th, 2012
1:54 pm

Slim – Gotcha. Now imagine in reverse, if a woman kept a dude’s number that she got thru business and started calling him? He would be calling her crazy!!

Lady~favor ain't fair! :-)

September 10th, 2012
1:54 pm

oh my Robert~ Interesting piece~ ;)

Celisea

September 10th, 2012
1:55 pm

Lady – I figured Robert will get a pass on his post since we’re talking about a scrub (and he referred to him), tryna holla that’s got a wife and she’s got a boo and he’s trying to make a third couple.

Leggs

September 10th, 2012
1:55 pm

I will have to be an advocate against the enactment of that law, Robert. Too many men are already in jail for misdemeanors, we don’t need the rest of the population because whether you’d like to admit it or not, real men do text. Unfortunately, real, lazy men are the ones abusing the right to text.

Celisea

September 10th, 2012
1:56 pm

Now imagine in reverse, if a woman kept a dude’s number that she got thru business and started calling him? He would be calling her crazy!!

For lesser things men call women crazy….lolololol

SlimUno

September 10th, 2012
1:57 pm

SH – I call that booty dialing lol

Leggs – I did that back in high school…But back then I’d call a person who I really want to talk to, but ask for someone else when they answered acting dumb founded that I dialed them by mistake. Next thing you know we start a convo lol

Into the Light

September 10th, 2012
1:58 pm

LOL@Slim. I “may” have used that one before. :oops:

Celisea

September 10th, 2012
1:59 pm

BBL folks… :mrgreen:

kimmie

September 10th, 2012
2:00 pm

Slick move Slim!LOL!!!

Lady~favor ain't fair! :-)

September 10th, 2012
2:01 pm

peace out~ yeah C~ his pass is approved! LOL ready y’all tomorrow!

Leggs

September 10th, 2012
2:02 pm

DaVinci off W P’tree. 1270 W. P’tree. I little shop with excellent pizza.

SlimUno

September 10th, 2012
2:02 pm

Leggs – Dang that was an eventful weekend…I see the neighbors are still swinging by for that Sunday Grub lol But that’s cool because it’s good to give than to receive all the time.

For lesser things men call women crazy

Cel – You ain’t neva lied. The beau told me that i’m crazy but when I asked why he says that, he says he doesn’t know. He said it’s just a feeling and many of yall (us) are crazy regardless :roll:

Lady~favor ain't fair! :-)

September 10th, 2012
2:04 pm

READ that is! wow okay bye!

Celisea

September 10th, 2012
2:04 pm

Lady – YUP

Slim – Girl, I think calling women crazy par for the course now and an addenda to some MLB existing law…lololol

Celisea

September 10th, 2012
2:05 pm

Lady – Bye

Robert

September 10th, 2012
2:06 pm

@Leggs – You forgot #11 – He knocks on your front door wearing his “birthday suit” (butt naked) lol. That’s what I would do if you ignored me.

Single and Happier "Life Happens!"

September 10th, 2012
2:08 pm

Real men don’t text wow! (LOL)

Single and Happier "Life Happens!"

September 10th, 2012
2:09 pm

So Slim booty dialing and booty calls aren’t the same thing (LOL)

Leggs

September 10th, 2012
2:09 pm

SlimUno ~ she said she would take me out to dinner when she gets paid as a “thank you.”

Robert ~ naw, man, no #11. Perhaps a 10(a) – have cops on alert. :wink:

Single and Happier "Life Happens!"

September 10th, 2012
2:10 pm

C he’d have to get a good look at her before he called her crazy (LOL)

Celisea

September 10th, 2012
2:11 pm

Single and Happy – I’ll bite…and why is that?

kimmie

September 10th, 2012
2:12 pm

Okay, which act is MORE CRAZY in ya’lls book:

#1 – Okay, I admitted on here to phone stalking a guy I dated back in the day. This dude would get ghost on me all the time and I was not used to that. The first time he did it, I was hunting him down and called him seven times in one day and left messages. He told me he told one of his sisters about it and said “who does that”? She told him maybe Kimmie just likes you!LOL!!

#2 – How about this SAME dude came banging on my BEDROOM WINDOW when I got hip to his game and started igging him!!! He rang the doorbell and banged on the door and when I didn’t answer, went around to the side of my house to my window! A little more and I was going to call the police. In fact, I’m surprised none of my nosey neighbors didn’t! I told him he had lost his mind!! :shock:

Single and Happier "Life Happens!"

September 10th, 2012
2:14 pm

Show up at the door butt nekid, WOW! REALLY! SERIOUSLY! WOW! (LOL)

SlimUno

September 10th, 2012
2:15 pm

Cel – Yeah that must be in their by-laws lol

Robert – So real men just whip it out on your doorstep? Real mean flash that wang!!! It don’t mean a thing unless you flash that wang!!!!

Into the Light

September 10th, 2012
2:15 pm

LOL@kimmie.

See, that’s where “Hollywood” does us all a disservice. We see your example #2 and think “Hmmm, dude is a bit stalker-ish” but give that man a boombox with some Peter Gabriel playing while he’s banging on your window and it’s classic movie romance!

Okay, I’m kidding (sort of)… but there’s a grain of truth in every joke. What I call stalking, others just call persistent. ;)

Leggs

September 10th, 2012
2:16 pm

#2 is crazier to me. Phone stalking is quite different than someone showing up at my place uninvited constantly ringing my doorbell and banging on the door then window like a wounded player of the game.

Robert

September 10th, 2012
2:16 pm

@Celisea – Is “DNA” the same as “DNR” which means “Do Not Resisitate” and is used when patients do not want a doctor to treat them.

Single and Happier "Life Happens!"

September 10th, 2012
2:17 pm

C if there’s no “fire” then she crazy, if there is “fire” imma hit that (LOL)

Celisea

September 10th, 2012
2:17 pm

Slim – Yep, it was added and no one told us women…lol

Slim So real men just whip it out on your doorstep? Real mean flash that wang!!! It don’t mean a thing unless you flash that wang!!!!

Okay….I LOL’d on this one!

SlimUno

September 10th, 2012
2:18 pm

kimmie – Of course doing a pop-up is more crazy and peeking in windows is more crazy. Been there done that :lol:

Bluzgirl

September 10th, 2012
2:18 pm

What a beautiful day! I went and got a salad and sat outside to eat. I love this weather!!!

ITL – So glad to “see” you on here. Hate that you’re still sick! I was just thinking about you and was about to shoot you a text to see how you were feeling.

C – You mentioned an invite to Savannah for Thanksgiving…one of my close friends just invited me to go there for Veteran’s Day weekend to celebrate our birthdays! I’m so excited about it. I’ve been wanting to get back to Tybee, but couldn’t afford a hotel. Her dad has about a million hotel points and will get us a room! Yay!

Celisea

September 10th, 2012
2:19 pm

my bold is not working

Single and Happier "Life Happens!"

September 10th, 2012
2:19 pm

Naw ITL it’s still stalkerish, he just now has theme music (images of im gonna get you sukka in my head ) (LOL)

kimmie

September 10th, 2012
2:19 pm

Leggs/Slim/Light – :lol:

Robert

September 10th, 2012
2:20 pm

@SlimUno – !!! It don’t mean a thing unless you flash that wang!!!! –

To quote the late and great Chuck Brown (Washington, DC go-go legend) “It don’t mean a thing unless you got that go-go swing” – Sure Your Right

Celisea

September 10th, 2012
2:21 pm

Bluzy – Yay!

Bluzgirl

September 10th, 2012
2:21 pm

In the past, I’ve blocked my number and called a guy a few times just to see if he would answer the phone! I’m hoping he never guessed it was me. LOL!

Only once did I go banging on a man’s window…he was my boyfriend and the only reason I did that was because he had several health problems and when he wouldn’t answer the phone after a few hours of calling, I got really scared something had happened to him. He was just sleeping. He got mad that I woke him up, but later, he was happy that I cared enough to drive all the way to his house to check on him!

Sassy Me...live..laugh..love ;-)

September 10th, 2012
2:22 pm

“Do Not Resisitate” and is used when patients do not want a doctor to treat them.

:shock:

:lol:

Resisistate?…ummm did you mean resuscitate?!

Too funny…

Into the Light

September 10th, 2012
2:22 pm

Hey Bluz!! Thanks for thinking of me.

One of my BFFs lives in Savannah, and I’ve only been once this year. How sad is that?? :(

I have some vacation that I need to take so that I don’t lose it…I’m thinking the beach. Especially now that the “off” season is here.

Celisea

September 10th, 2012
2:23 pm

Only the kid’s dad did the banging on the window, showing up unannounced, waiting for me when I pulled up….the list goes on. He wasn’t a stalker though, I wouldn’t say. He just had a hard time letting go…lololol

Celisea

September 10th, 2012
2:23 pm

I didn’t touch Robert’s post cause I wasn’t sure…lololol

i'm swiss

September 10th, 2012
2:23 pm

“All my instincts, they return
And the grand facade so soon will burn
Without a noise, without my pride
I reach out from the insiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiide”

:D

ITL — I got my fist taste of puddy w/ that movie (and song) playing in the background. :D

i'm swiss

September 10th, 2012
2:25 pm

Oops, first taste, that is. The fist came later… :lol:

Into the Light

September 10th, 2012
2:27 pm

LOL@Swiss. There are reasons John Cusack was on my Top 5 list for years….and “Say Anything” is one of them.

In your eyes…the light the heat…..in your eyes…I am complete…..

LOVE that song. Still.

Leggs

September 10th, 2012
2:27 pm

I’m hoping he never guessed it was me. LOL!

Now that right there is funny, because you have no idea what codes guys have on their phones next to the names of their conquests.

Into the Light

September 10th, 2012
2:28 pm

Dayum, Swiss. I think I just threw up a little in my mouth. After I giggled. :lol:

Celisea

September 10th, 2012
2:30 pm

Off to a meeting :evil:

Leggs

September 10th, 2012
2:30 pm

The fist came later…

cracking up, was it with Jayne Kennedy?

Sassy Me...live..laugh..love ;-)

September 10th, 2012
2:30 pm

didn’t touch Robert’s post cause I wasn’t sure…

:lol:

I’m surprised Leggs let it sliiide..

i'm swiss

September 10th, 2012
2:33 pm

Leggs — I had to google Jayne Kennedy… :lol:

kimmie

September 10th, 2012
2:34 pm

Bluz – No, checking up on someone with health issues does not count. I had to do that a few times with my godmother when she was alive. She lived alone in a very rough area and when she didn’t answer the door or phone it scared me.

No, this dude was trying to get some after one of his long ghost trips!! H— would have frozen over before I opened that door!!!

Into the Light

September 10th, 2012
2:34 pm

Wait….what happened with Jayne Kennedy????

i'm swiss

September 10th, 2012
2:40 pm

ITL — Apparently, I fisted her. :lol:

Into the Light

September 10th, 2012
2:40 pm

Um, okay…….

Robert

September 10th, 2012
2:41 pm

Jayne Kennedy was my first “Crush” . She was the first Black American Woman actor/broadcaster to do NFL games on primetime TV as well as appear in many roles on TV in the 70’s-80’s that did not exploit her intelligence. Jayne Kennedy is a part of Black History.

Into the Light

September 10th, 2012
2:42 pm

@Swiss: I would not be surprised if you had. No reflection on Jayne intended….. :)

Are you going to any of the next 3 home games?

Leggs

September 10th, 2012
2:46 pm

Sassy ~ I thought about it and thought about it..you know I did. I have many typos so I had to let it go.

Bluzgirl

September 10th, 2012
2:46 pm

ITL – You MUST go to the beach if you have a place to stay!!!! I’m hoping to go to Charleston one more time before the year ends. I’d like to go around Christmas to see how they decorate the town.

Leggs

September 10th, 2012
2:48 pm

swiss ~ so you’re saying you never heard or seen about her infamous sex tape with her husband. He put his fist and arm all the way up in her at least to his elbow…it was mind boggling.

Robert ~ Jayne Kennedy was, still is, a beautiful woman with the smarts to go with it.

Into the Light

September 10th, 2012
2:49 pm

@Bluz: It’s lovely there at Christmas. So is St. Augustine. They do historical reenactments during early December in St. Aug, with hometown folks in costume, complete with cannons and the whole nine. There are also lights EVERYWHERE. It’s really beautiful.

I’m ready to go home. Hmph! :roll:

Into the Light

September 10th, 2012
2:50 pm

Dang, Leggs. Ouch. :( I hope he was very small-boned.

Bluzgirl

September 10th, 2012
2:52 pm

ITL – That sounds nice! I’m right there with you with wanting to go home!!! Oh…by the way…I believe my friend and I are going to Darwin’s again on Thurs…

Jake-Colt 45 "It Works Every Time"

September 10th, 2012
2:53 pm

What up folks, I’m sure I missed a bunch, whats happenin

Robert

September 10th, 2012
2:53 pm

The NFL should strongly consider putting Jayne Kennedy in the Pro football Hall of Fame with the rest of the sports writers. She was the first Black American Woman Sports Broadcaster and many NFL players identified with her pioneering spirit and would only grant interviews with her only. Not even Howard Cosell or John Madden could get exclusive interviews with Black Players unless Jayne Kennedy was involved. That is a Black History fact.

Leggs

September 10th, 2012
2:54 pm

Robert ~ you and I have definitey dated ourselves.

Robert

September 10th, 2012
2:59 pm

“so you’re saying you never heard or seen about her infamous sex tape with her husband. ”

If you saw that tape you saw this married couple leaving a party and going home. You saw a married couple engaged in a sexual relationship. How many married people have made private tapes of their love making? A lot. My ex-wife and I agreed to destroy any thing that could cause damage later in life. Issac Kennedy (husband) in desparate need of money sold that personal private tape to “Hustler” to exploit Jayne and make money. She is innocent. End of story.

Single and Happier "Life Happens!"

September 10th, 2012
3:03 pm

Leggs you mean you up there with us old folks (LOL)

Into the Light

September 10th, 2012
3:04 pm

@Bluz: Oooooh, that sounds fun. If I’m feeling better, I’ll definitely meet you there. I had so much fun the last time.

This is the friend “T” and not “P”….right!?!?!? :lol:

Leggs

September 10th, 2012
3:04 pm

Exactly, Robert. I said she made a sex tape “with her husband.” No one is casting blame on her, was simply speaking on one of the many highlights of the tape.

Yes, swiss, her greedy husband exploited her for money by selling the tape.

Leggs

September 10th, 2012
3:05 pm

Single ~ yes sir…that’s why I call myself the BS Breaker!

Into the Light

September 10th, 2012
3:06 pm

(waving at Jake)

Heeeeeey, Chocolatte!!! Happy Monday.

Bluzgirl

September 10th, 2012
3:08 pm

ITL – You are correct…”T”…who knows if “P” will be there! Maybe Mags will come…we’re on good friendly terms again. I’m totally over any feelings more than a friendship!!!

Into the Light

September 10th, 2012
3:11 pm

@Bluz: Mmmmhmmm. That’s what you say today. :) And yay on T being there….cracks me up!!

Maybe they’ll have tequila specials again….oh wait. You’re on the wagon, right??? Bwa ha! :lol: :lol:

Leggs

September 10th, 2012
3:11 pm

So, who text who after his exchange with you where you wanted to explain some things to him, Bluz and you said you were going to leave it alone?

i'm swiss

September 10th, 2012
3:13 pm

Leggs — Nope, never heard of her, or seen the tape. And from your description, if I had I would have remembered. :shock: :lol:

Never understood the whole “fisting” thing — at least not from my perspective. If it takes my whole forearm to give you a good time, you’re probably not the woman for me. IJS… :lol:

Leggs

September 10th, 2012
3:15 pm

Didn’t say it takes that for someone to have a good time, it was just something they decided to do. They were at at for hours or hours. Anyway, NEXT…..

cba

September 10th, 2012
3:15 pm

Leggs & SH~ I must admit, I do enjoy the discounts from the “mature club” ;-)

ITL~ hope you feel better soon, I can’t remember anything recently that made me feel as bad as bronchitis…..and the coughing can last for daaaaaaaays :-(

Leggs

September 10th, 2012
3:16 pm

They were at it for hours on hours….

Robert

September 10th, 2012
3:17 pm

@Leggs – The best part of the tape was when her husband left the room. Jayne had a party alone (masterbation) and as a young Man I loved watching her perform. That is what I remember.

Into the Light

September 10th, 2012
3:17 pm

Thanks, cba. :) I’m trying to get as much rest as possible, but even the cough syrup with codeine is not working.

Comon Cents

September 10th, 2012
3:20 pm

he’d have to get a good look at her before he called her crazy (LOL)

So it’s only stalking fif the person is unattractive? I literally LOL’ed at that one. :lol:

Bluzgirl

September 10th, 2012
3:20 pm

ITL – That’s right…I’m SERIOUSLY on the wagon until October at least! :-( It’s all good. I’m realizing that liquor is my enemy!!!

Leggs – we messaged back and forth some on Friday and I got some understandings about where he is coming from and we both agreed to go back to how things were before we got caught up. He’s a good guy, but I’ve definitely realized that we are much better as friends. I really do feel ok with it. Some things he said about what he is going through is a lot of what my ex was going through at the time we got together. I CAN’T get into another situation of taking care of somebody.

i'm swiss

September 10th, 2012
3:21 pm

“So it’s only stalking fif the person is unattractive?”

Comon — In a word, yes. :lol:

Bluzgirl

September 10th, 2012
3:21 pm

ITL – Do you at least get a buzz from the cough syrup with codeine? ;-)

Into the Light

September 10th, 2012
3:22 pm

ITL – That’s right…I’m SERIOUSLY on the wagon until October at least!

Mmmmm hmmmm. Until I stand up and say, “Who’s ready for shots????” and bring back a round of tequilas. :) :)

Jake-Colt 45 "It Works Every Time"

September 10th, 2012
3:22 pm

Hey White Chocolate Wonder…winks and kisses!!!!

Bluzgirl

September 10th, 2012
3:23 pm

LOL ITL! Don’t be a bad influence!!!!

Leggs

September 10th, 2012
3:24 pm

Robert ~ I remember that part too, but the fist action has always stood out because I was freaking stunned. Even wondered if the tape was somehow spliced. Wondered how they went at it for so long still begging for more. I did feel really bad for her once it was released.

Into the Light

September 10th, 2012
3:24 pm

Into the Light

September 10th, 2012
3:27 pm

@Bluz: But I’m so good at it!!! :lol:

i'm swiss

September 10th, 2012
3:27 pm

Jake — That (Colt 45) is quite possibly the best (and most honest) ad campaign ever. :lol:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0pK5HmuCMBM

i'm swiss

September 10th, 2012
3:29 pm

Bluzgirl

September 10th, 2012
3:30 pm

ITL – I know you are! LOL! I’m feeling strong this time, though! You can’t get me to do it!!! Hee hee

Single and Happier "Life Happens!"

September 10th, 2012
3:32 pm

comon if she’s unattractive with a banging bod, it’s only stalking during times we can be seen together (LOL)

Leggs

September 10th, 2012
3:34 pm

Ok, we now know to keep ITL away from Bluz. ITL likes being bad and seems to enjoy dangling carrots in front of someone!

i'm swiss

September 10th, 2012
3:34 pm

“if she’s unattractive with a banging bod, it’s only stalking during times we can be seen together”

S/H — +1 :lol:

i'm swiss

September 10th, 2012
3:34 pm

S/H — As Bob Marley said, “Turn the lights down low…” :lol:

Into the Light

September 10th, 2012
3:35 pm

@Bluz: Girl, please. I won’t even get the “sh” out of my mouth and you’ll be calling Dallas to bring the salt and limes. :lol: :lol: Just promise you’ll stay off the table this time. :lol: I kid, I kid…..

i'm swiss

September 10th, 2012
3:35 pm

The ladies will never think of that song the same again… :lol:

Into the Light

September 10th, 2012
3:36 pm

@Leggs: ME? A bad influence???? I resemble that remark. LOLOL :lol:

Bluzgirl

September 10th, 2012
3:37 pm

ITL – Now…when I come back off the wagon, I may have to stay with you after a night of Dallas’ shots!

Leggs

September 10th, 2012
3:37 pm

You can’t get me to do it!!! Hee hee

That has “tempt me if you can” written all over it cuz I will definitely grab a shot.

Bluzgirl

September 10th, 2012
3:38 pm

Right Leggs?!?! LOL! ITL twisted my arm last time we went out (although not very hard)

Jake-Colt 45 "It Works Every Time"

September 10th, 2012
3:38 pm

Hey Swiss, they didn’t lie about it at all, and it definitely does get you wasted!!!

Into the Light

September 10th, 2012
3:39 pm

@Leggs: I know, right??? :)

@Bluz: Mi couch et su couch. :) Unless of course Pancho lives closer…… LMAO! :lol:

Leggs

September 10th, 2012
3:42 pm

That was not nice, ITL, but it was funny. :lol: :lol:

Into the Light

September 10th, 2012
3:44 pm

@Leggs: It would’ve been even funnier if you’d met Pancho….. :)

Single and Happier "Life Happens!"

September 10th, 2012
3:44 pm

And if you are attractive, it’s becomes stalking when I don’t want anymore

Leggs

September 10th, 2012
3:45 pm

Oh, Pancho is real. I thought you were going with the spanish theme in your post and that’s the name you came up with (lol).

Bluzgirl

September 10th, 2012
3:45 pm

LMAO!!!! No thank you!!!!

Bluzgirl

September 10th, 2012
3:46 pm

Poor Pancho…if he only knew how he was talked about…

Into the Light

September 10th, 2012
3:46 pm

LOL@Leggs. No, Pancho (although not his real name) is very real. And very smitten with Bluz. :)

Sorry, Bluz…..couldn’t help myself….

Into the Light

September 10th, 2012
3:47 pm

And if you are attractive, it’s becomes stalking when I don’t want anymore

aka, the 12th of NEVER! :)

Jake-Colt 45 "It Works Every Time"

September 10th, 2012
3:48 pm

ITL-what I do?

Bluzgirl

September 10th, 2012
3:50 pm

He likes me…he really likes me!!! LOL!!!

Into the Light

September 10th, 2012
3:51 pm

@Jake: Nothing. Nothing at all. Which is a good thing….especially if the occasion for me to meet Mrs. Jake should ever present itself. ;)

Into the Light

September 10th, 2012
3:52 pm

Well, duh, Bluz! :)

Poppa Grande

September 10th, 2012
3:53 pm

If she is unattractive with a banging bod, please refer to two words

Brown Liquor

As for Colt 45, it is some strong stuff.

I always wondered why the malt liquors refer to weapons and dangerous animals. Isn’t it some kind of subliminal warning about drinkin’ it.

Colt 45
Schlitt’s Malt Liquor Bull
Red Dog
Old English 800 uses a tiger as a mascot…If I remember correctly
King Cobra
Big Bear

Into the Light

September 10th, 2012
3:56 pm

Red Dog is malt liquor???? Are you sure???

Isn’t Red Dog the one with the bulldog on the label and the little sayings under the cap? I remembering popping a top one night and out of habit turning the cap over and it said, “Why are you reading this?!” I was just buzzed enough that I laughed about that for a good long time.

They used to serve those at Longneck Nickel Night. :)

Single and Happier "Life Happens!"

September 10th, 2012
3:59 pm

PG, if she’s got a banging bod, don’t need any liquor to look at the top and back of her head (LOL)

Bluzgirl

September 10th, 2012
3:59 pm

This last hour has gone by so slowly and still one hour to go! Ergh! Then, a busy evening ahead of me and I just want to go to sleep!

Jake-Colt 45 "It Works Every Time"

September 10th, 2012
3:59 pm

Don’t forget…

Crazy Horse
Mickey’s
Private Stock (my Favorite Malt)

Poppa Grande

September 10th, 2012
4:04 pm

My Bad, Red Dog was just a regular beer. They packaged it and sold it like malt liquor in 40s.

The infamous Zima was malt liquor though.

i'm swiss

September 10th, 2012
4:06 pm

Somebody should come out with a new malt liquor & just call it what it really is — Old School Roofie. :lol:

Jake-Colt 45 "It Works Every Time"

September 10th, 2012
4:06 pm

Hey, how was everyon’e weekend….Sat. Night, I was at the Republic, its a cool lil bar, the rooftop was really nice, and the DJ was catering to the Ecletic Crowd, brought back rmemories(single days), that I am trying to repress constantly (Me and the Party Scene, were once an awesome pair)…lol

Into the Light

September 10th, 2012
4:07 pm

Zima??? Blech. I remember being on the lake one Sunday with some girlfriends and the boat broke down. Some guys came along to help, and we asked if they had any alcohol. Sure, they said…and pulled some Zimas out of the cooler. Still shudder thinking about how nasty that stuff was.

Bluzgirl

September 10th, 2012
4:07 pm

I used to drink Smirnoff Ice a lot…I’m kind of glad that I’ve developed a taste for some beers. Not as sweet as the malt beverages…

Poppa Grande

September 10th, 2012
4:08 pm

Actually, that what my dad used to say about the unattractive but banging bods. I just got to thinking about malt liquors and got of that thought.

The only thing in my life that I regretted drinking was MD 20/20. That was horrible. Especially when it was mixed with Alize.

i'm swiss

September 10th, 2012
4:09 pm

One of my roommates from college was from Syracuse, NY, and apparently Syracuse was one of the first test markets for Zima. He brought cases of the crap down when he would go home. SMH… Yankees…

Single and Happier "Life Happens!"

September 10th, 2012
4:10 pm

Drink enough of that brown liquor, everything starts to look attractive (LOL)

Into the Light

September 10th, 2012
4:10 pm

@Swiss: Yeah….and they could market it with special combo packs.

“Buy two specially marked 40s of Old School Roofie, and get a vial of penicillin and an EPT….FREE!!!”

Jake-Colt 45 "It Works Every Time"

September 10th, 2012
4:11 pm

Do Not say that word again “Zima”, there is a Freaknic Story in my past starring ‘Zima”.

Bluzgirl

September 10th, 2012
4:12 pm

I did MD 20/20 one time and that was all it took. NEVER AGAIN!!!

Single and Happier "Life Happens!"

September 10th, 2012
4:13 pm

One of the guys was saying how money made Fantasia look good, I was like, fine as she is I would hit that if she was broke (LOL)

Into the Light

September 10th, 2012
4:13 pm

LOL@Swiss and the “Yankee”…… ’nuff said. :lol: :lol: Not all yankees, of course….blog love you, Leggs!!!

@PG: Mad Dog???? Man, please! That is turn the couch upside down, pull out the floormats drinking right there!!! Shoot, even the Beast or Natty Light is a step up from that. ;)

SlimUno

September 10th, 2012
4:15 pm

Wow, I see I missed all the fisting convo…I’m amazed by the thought of how in the world do you work you butt up to be able to take a whole arm :shock:

Into the Light

September 10th, 2012
4:16 pm

@Jake: Zima. Zima. ZIMA! ZIMA! ZIMA!

i'm swiss

September 10th, 2012
4:16 pm

On topic: Some folks make it a lot more complicated than it has to be:

http://blogs.ajc.com/news-to-me/2012/08/23/florida-orgy-ends-in-violence-arrests/

See now, this is what happens when you don’t do a thorough pre-orgy discussion of the ground-rules… ;lol:

Jake-Colt 45 "It Works Every Time"

September 10th, 2012
4:17 pm

Quit hating on 20/20, its your starter kit to the “lush Life”, when you you are just getting started a 5th of MD all you need to pass wit a buddy.

i'm swiss

September 10th, 2012
4:18 pm

‘I’m amazed by the thought of how in the world do you work you butt up to be able to take a whole arm”

Slim — Oh, snap! He fisted her in the butt, too? :shock: :lol:

Poppa Grande

September 10th, 2012
4:19 pm

I did absolutely nothing this weekend but sit around and scratch… TMI, I guess :lol:

Watched football, napped, and hung out with my buddy, Mr Stripe, aka Red Stripe. When I got in Friday night, I didn’t leave the crib until this morning.

I was a bedside baptist yesterday watching a service on TV.

The wife attended a wedding for one of her line sisters. The invite did not include a +1, so I did not have to go.

Into the Light

September 10th, 2012
4:20 pm

its your starter kit

……right! Or the “I’m so broke, I found $2.20 in the couch cushions and the bottom of the hamper. If I eat Ramen noodles for breakfast next week, I can afford some Mad Dog!”

Jake-Colt 45 "It Works Every Time"

September 10th, 2012
4:22 pm

ITL- stop it, the Agony…..I can’t believe I drunk so much of the stuff, but when you are underaging it in the 1st place, you don’t care.

Poppa Grande

September 10th, 2012
4:26 pm

When you are underaging, Boone’s Farm is the isht

Leggs

September 10th, 2012
4:26 pm

I drank Mad Dog 20/20. Nasty, nasty, nasty. Never did Thunderbird, tho.

Comon Cents

September 10th, 2012
4:27 pm

Off Topic (sort of) My anus clinched reactionally when I heard “she took a whole fist up the butt”. :shock:

Rot gut drinks? I thinkk Steel Reserve might be some of the nastiest isht I’ve ever had.

BTW, Hey, ITL. Did you like our Daws this weekend?

Leggs

September 10th, 2012
4:28 pm

Catch you in the morning.

Ok, who has the Boone’s Farm. Right up there nasty with Ripple

PEACE!

Bluzgirl

September 10th, 2012
4:28 pm

When I had the 20/20, I was just 17. My brother and his friend came over to pick me and my friend up to take us to get something to eat. When they got there, I was laying halfway in and halfway out the front door. Next thing I know, I remember my friend and I doing somersaults and cartwheels in the living room. Needless to say…my brother wasn’t taking us out in public. Then…I got sick!

Jake-Colt 45 "It Works Every Time"

September 10th, 2012
4:28 pm

PG, it wasn’t TMI, not that I really was waiting to hear such, but I laughed because occassionally, the Mrs. will comment on it, I just turn and say, “Its Nutt Scratching Time, you may not see me, but this has to be done daily”….lol

SlimUno

September 10th, 2012
4:29 pm

swiss – I never saw the tape but I thought that’s what the term ‘fisting’ meant…booty wise not puddy wise. But I could be wrong because fisting either part is unchartered territory for me.

Comon Cents

September 10th, 2012
4:30 pm

When you are underaging, Boone’s Farm is the isht

Boone’s Farm was never the isht. It was just all we could get. If it was the isht, it would be like Now & Laters and you would go back and have it every once and a while as an adult. Things you never overhear: “Hey, I just had some Boone’s Farm the other night!”

Poppa Grande

September 10th, 2012
4:30 pm

Poppa Grande

September 10th, 2012
4:32 pm

Well, compared to MD is it the stuff.

When you know better….

Into the Light

September 10th, 2012
4:35 pm

@PG: I’ve downed a Strawberry Hill or Country Quencher in my day. (How do I remember that?!?!) :)

@Comon: I don’t know any daws, but I certainly enjoyed watching the DAWGS welcome Mizzou to the SEC. :lol: :lol: Sorry, couldn’t resist, especially after your admission that you are also a Jackets fan. WTH?? Where dey do dat at? ;)

C’mon, Jake….tell the rest of the story….

i'm swiss

September 10th, 2012
4:35 pm

Slim — I mean I know we always joke about your CT and all, but I’m pretty sure if you had a whole forearm up in there, you’d agree that the puddy should count, too. :lol:

Jake-Colt 45 "It Works Every Time"

September 10th, 2012
4:37 pm

PG..IJS, that’s some good ole man shid there, they will never understand.

Hey Comon, you say it “clinched reactionally” huh, I don’t know where to wink now….lol

Into the Light

September 10th, 2012
4:37 pm

@Bluz: Mine was R and R. Nasty, vile stuff…. but the cutest boy with the hottest Camaro brought it with him to the party, and ITL wanted to look cool, soooooo…… (fast forward several hours to the party hostess’s mom calling my parents to come get me…..oh the shame….:oops:)

disco

September 10th, 2012
4:39 pm

hey y’all. call me slow but i’m only on page 3.

Into the Light

September 10th, 2012
4:40 pm

Hey disco Slow! :lol: :lol:

Poppa Grande

September 10th, 2012
4:42 pm

Jake-

I just tell the Mrs. that it is like when they get an itch on their scalp and the keep banging the mess out of this head with their own hand to make it stop. I don’t think that technique works because I’ve seen females beat the crap out of their own heads because the scalp itches and they don’t want to mess up their hair.

I can’t bang my hand down there and still be conscious, so i scratch.

i'm swiss

September 10th, 2012
4:42 pm

On the fisting topic…

Um, yeah, so there was this one chick back in my man-ho days — one of those last call, ah, what the hell kind of chicks. We started messing around and I reached down below to give a little finger check and see how the juices were flowing and my whole hand slipped in like it was nothing. :shock: I realized at that point there probably wasn’t a whole lot I was gonna be able to do for her… :lol:

Bluzgirl

September 10th, 2012
4:46 pm

Thanks for that visual swiss. Ewww!!!

I’m out ya’ll. Have a good evening!

SlimUno

September 10th, 2012
4:46 pm

swiss – And that’s exactly why I was obviously confused but good point though. ;-)

Into the Light

September 10th, 2012
4:47 pm

:shock: @ Swiss. Whoa.

SlimUno

September 10th, 2012
4:48 pm

swiss OMG HOLLERS!!!!!!!!!! :shock: :lol: :lol: :lol:

Comon Cents

September 10th, 2012
4:48 pm

Comon: I don’t know any daws, but I certainly enjoyed watching the DAWGS welcome Mizzou to the SEC. Sorry, couldn’t resist, especially after your admission that you are also a Jackets fan. WTH?? Where dey do dat at?

See earlier comment about my crappy keyboard that needs replacing. :lol:

I am a Jackets fan and they SWARMED Presbyterian this weekend. :D Where dey do dat at? Right here in Jawja, baby. And please nte that is Jawja with a J…

Into the Light

September 10th, 2012
4:50 pm

(Swiss next to Canyon Girl, looking confused)

Swiss: Whoa…oh…oh….oh…oh
CG: Is there a problem??
Swiss: No..o..o…o….I just remembered something I need to do..oooo….oooo…oooo BTW, have you seen my keys? Or my car?!?!?!??

:lol: :lol:

Jake-Colt 45 "It Works Every Time"

September 10th, 2012
4:52 pm

Its late so here is the abbreviated story…there is a lot in between, but we do not have time!!

FREAKNIC…..I’m out with my older brother and crew, I am like 14-15, its like 4 cars, 10-12 cats, coolers full to the brim in each car, mostly beer, but I am in the car with the “ZIMA Cooler”, we are Freaknicking fo sho…Getting super wasted, I decide to keep drinking “ZIma”, I always looked mature, so clubbing was easy. We go to Club X’S Moreland plaza….so we get in, I always went first since I am underage, I’m in, go straight to the dance floor and shake it up, go to bathroom like 5 minutes later, Call my friend Earl, and Security walks in at that moment, and begins to escort me out…I am saying, dude let me find somebody, (or at least that’s what I tried to say)….when they opened that door, I was scared to cross the street, looked like 285 to a drunk azz like me, finally did, made it to the cars, nobody knows I got kicked out…I slept in the parking lot, leaning on the back tire of my patnah Corsica for about 4hours…out fugging cold,During Freaknic…and nobody fugged wit me….UNBELIEVABLE!!

Into the Light

September 10th, 2012
4:52 pm

@Comon: If you say so. (ITL now mumbling things about bandwagons and fair-weather fans under her breath)

Poppa Grande

September 10th, 2012
4:53 pm

I would be able to tolerate the North Avenue Trade School if they weren’t coached by ol’ fish fry johnson.

He shouldn’t restrict kids from taking all of their visits. This is serious decision. Things change also. It is why he tends to go for kids that don’t have many options.

Into the Light

September 10th, 2012
4:54 pm

@Jake: That you know of. ;)

i'm swiss

September 10th, 2012
4:55 pm

ITL — Yeah, I was pretty taken aback, I have to say. You know those haunted houses when you were a kid where they put you in a pitch black room and put your hand in some warm, gooey, wet substance to freak you out. That, plus pubes is pretty much what it was… :shock: :lol:

Jake-Colt 45 "It Works Every Time"

September 10th, 2012
4:55 pm

Into the Light

September 10th, 2012
4:55 pm

@PG: Why did I hear, “Ol’ Fish Fry Johnson….wrote a song bout him. Like to hear it, here it goes…..” in my head when I read your post???? :lol:

Into the Light

September 10th, 2012
4:56 pm

Aaaaaaaannnnnnd scene. I got nothing, Swiss. Just :shock:

Comon Cents

September 10th, 2012
4:58 pm

Comon: If you say so. (ITL now mumbling things about bandwagons and fair-weather fans under her breath)

It’s not fair weather/bandwagon if you root for them both whether they are winning or losing… IJS.

Jake-Colt 45 "It Works Every Time"

September 10th, 2012
4:59 pm

ITL….yeah, you right, I have the slightest clue, but back then, there was none of that “shim and shim going on” so I am confident none of that occurred, my pockets were in tact, so I assume I was protected from high above…never toched another ZIMA.

Comon Cents

September 10th, 2012
5:00 pm

swiss~ I am wit slim. I think I just threw up in my mouth a little. Worst thing I have ever seen? A chick with beef curtains. Not that I am a connisseur (like swiss and the fellas) but I thought puddy was supposed to be pretty. This one was not pretty. Looked like ground beef. Blech!

Into the Light

September 10th, 2012
5:00 pm

Hey….more power to you, Comon. I can’t do it. I’m Bulldog born and Bulldog bred…..and when I die, I’ll be Bulldog dead. :)

Jake-Colt 45 "It Works Every Time"

September 10th, 2012
5:02 pm

Aight Folks, have a good one!!

i'm swiss

September 10th, 2012
5:02 pm

I’m still trying to top Me.lo for most vivid/repulsive blog metaphor. That “hot and stinking mangrove swamp” is tough to top… :lol:

Into the Light

September 10th, 2012
5:04 pm

@Jake: Man, you are lucky. :) But really, though, (I’m guessing this was ~20 years ago) it was a different world back then, too. We might have gotten into some mischief, but not anything that would scar somebody for life.

i'm swiss

September 10th, 2012
5:04 pm

Comon — Tell us more about how/why you were checking out the beef curtains. :D

Into the Light

September 10th, 2012
5:05 pm

Night, Jake!

SWISS! Ewwwww.

Into the Light

September 10th, 2012
5:07 pm

@Swiss (and your 5:04): You are so predictable when it comes to even the slightest hint of an all-girl party. ;)

i'm swiss

September 10th, 2012
5:09 pm

“I thought puddy was supposed to be pretty.”

Comon — Mrs. Swiss tells me I have a pretty p3n!s. I’m not sure how I should feel about that description, but if it makes her more willing to suck on it, then I can live with it. :lol:

Comon Cents

September 10th, 2012
5:09 pm

swiss~ I was not “checking out” te beef curtains. Trust me. The only puddy I am interested in is my own. However, I was at the gym with some girlfriends and there is another chick who is a friend of a friend that was with us. We were talking about waxing (brazilian vs shaving, etc) and chick busts out of her mouth with she doesn’t wax because she doesn’t have a pretty puddy. :shock: So, she proceeded to show us. And, MAAANNN, let me tell you. It was hard to keep a straight face and say “No it’s not ugly. They’re all different…” If she ever waxed that thing, she might scare her husband to death.

Comon Cents

September 10th, 2012
5:12 pm

Swiss~ I tell my hubby that too. and I think ITL will back me up, there are definitely some pen!ses that are prettier than others.

Jake-Colt 45 "It Works Every Time"

September 10th, 2012
5:12 pm

ITL-Exactly, 20 years ago, it was different, and fun…not so much now…I am sure that there are periodic conversations that sound like this,

1: “remember that guy who was sleep outside the club at Freaknic”
2. Heck yeah, he was fugged up
1: Wonder what happened to him
2: who knows
1: he looked about 19
2: You still got them pictures
1: Naw,wish I did, would have been put’em on the internet

i'm swiss

September 10th, 2012
5:12 pm

“I was at the gym with some girlfriends and there is another chick who is a friend of a friend that was with us. We were talking about waxing (brazilian vs shaving, etc) and chick busts out of her mouth with she doesn’t wax because she doesn’t have a pretty puddy. So, she proceeded to show us”

Now, try to image a group of dudes having this same conversation about their junk. I can’t think of a better example of why some double standards are for our own d@mn good. :lol:

i'm swiss

September 10th, 2012
5:12 pm

Into the Light

September 10th, 2012
5:17 pm

LOL@Jake. And that is why I am forever grateful that I completed high school and college before the advent of camera phones. ;)

@Comon: Yep. I’d agree with that. I’ve only seen one or two that really qualify as beautiful.

Comon Cents

September 10th, 2012
5:25 pm

I don’t know if I would classify the hubby’s as beautiful, but it is definitely pretty. I have only seen one I would qualify as beautiful and, unfortunately, it was all sizzle an no bacon. Wah wa…