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We are never getting back together

Leave it to Taylor Swift to write a perfectly titled break up song. The thought of getting back together really does not work for everyone. When we consider the dating experiences that were “character building” as my Dad says, we have to know when it is really over.

It is important to remember that no matter how many right things some of our exes say, reuniting with them is a bad idea. I always say that you can love someone but not have to be with them. It is possible to be bad for each other!

Do you have an ex that you are absolutely sure about why you are no longer together? There was no need for closure or continued friendship. Things are so over, you can never go back. Do you think they feel the same way about you?

Have you ever told someone that you could never be with them again? If that is how you feel, do you think it is good to tell someone that to their face? How much honesty should we have in a break up?

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog

173 comments Add your comment

Single and Happier "Life Happens!"

September 5th, 2012
3:20 pm

Can I become an option :-) Oh wait, i’m happier (LOL)

Comon Cents

September 5th, 2012
3:24 pm

Good Afternoon, all! I’m doing some reading to catch up, but you guys are going slow today! Only 3 pages! We are dragging through this week. :lol:

Bluzgirl

September 5th, 2012
3:31 pm

This day will just not end!!!! Ugh! I just wanna go home and curl up on the couch and do nothing…

Leggs

September 5th, 2012
3:32 pm

SlimUno ~ don’t forget to ask about your finder’s fee.

Comon Cents

September 5th, 2012
3:34 pm

Slim~ 1 word. RUN!!! Leggs is right. Dude is trying to snake his way in by being all sociable like y’all are long lost friends. Cut that isht off.

Robert~ No matter what the age most women have lots of options if they choose to exercise them.

SlimUno

September 5th, 2012
3:45 pm

Leggs – I got the finders fee for when I initially got my stepdad on there. But you’re right, he’s looking for a sucka aka sidepiece and that is NOT going to be me.

Bluzgirl

September 5th, 2012
3:59 pm

Slim…you can’t help it that you’re too darn cute! :-)

SlimUno

September 5th, 2012
4:01 pm

Bluz – I may be ‘cute’ but cute has nothing on h0rny married toads ;-)

Leggs

September 5th, 2012
4:07 pm

Just shameful. That’s the funny part, some men really think we can’t see through the smoke screen. Greedy arse married men seeing if they can still “catch.”

Celisea

September 5th, 2012
4:07 pm

Or is it REALLY naivete???

Random – I wonder what make people tick? I wonder why people do the things they do? I wonder why people promote something on one end but do totally different? Such is life. I wonder, I wonder. No matter…be who (or not) you are and don’t worry, beeeee happy!

Back to working…sigh, deep breath and shrugs

Celisea

September 5th, 2012
4:08 pm

Greedy arse married men seeing if they can still “catch.”

Some more greedy than others. You can smell it!!!

Comon Cents

September 5th, 2012
4:09 pm

Slim~ You mean you’re NOT down with OPP? :lol:

Single and Happier "Life Happens!"

September 5th, 2012
4:10 pm

C, you will get a migraine trying to figure that out

Celisea

September 5th, 2012
4:12 pm

Single and Happy – Those were all rhetorical. Trust me, most people ask questions they already know the answers to. Nothing for me to sweat. I think living and being who you aren’t is more of a migraine. But, then again that’s a way of life for many.

Again, those were just lil ole randoms

SlimUno

September 5th, 2012
4:13 pm

CC – That’s a good way of putting it…I wouldn’t want some thirsty chick trying to sniff out my dude so I try to ensure I give that same respect. I’m not a person of drama and I do not need that kind of excitement in my life…i.e having some chick calling me wanting to know what me and (insert toad here) have going on, how often we talk, where we met, how often we see each other, what do we do when we do see each other, if i’ve been to their house, what all he told me about her, their 5 kids split up between 3 other baby mama’s etc. Just typing that made me tired. lol

Leggs

September 5th, 2012
4:15 pm

You can smell it and you can see it in there beady eyes. You almost can see the drool….

Celisea

September 5th, 2012
4:15 pm

Actually some things become funny at some point…lololol

Celisea

September 5th, 2012
4:19 pm

Slim’s post put this in my head…I’m sure it’s gonna be on the brain the rest of the day…lol

You can like the life you’re living
You can live the life your like
You can even marry Harry
But mess around with Ike

Comon Cents

September 5th, 2012
4:21 pm

C~ Isn’t that from a Bette Midler movie?

Celisea

September 5th, 2012
4:22 pm

Comon Cents

September 5th, 2012
4:23 pm

No, It’s Chicago!

Celisea

September 5th, 2012
4:24 pm

I’m sounding like Lady, going all random and deep :) :)

Waving at Lady if you’re reading.

Night folks!

Leggs

September 5th, 2012
4:27 pm