Dating: Trivial pursuit?
I was surprised to learn that a couple of my guy friends were still pursuing women who had not shown any real interest in them. I know some men like the challenge of chasing some women. Women they believe are worth the effort. How persistent did they plan to be, though?
I wonder how men decide that a woman is going to be worth all that work. Would they need to see some effort on her part to reciprocate?
I know a lot of women who treat men badly, simply because they know that the guy will stick around and endure it.
Do men like a challenge? Is it always about the chase and the pursuit that makes it exciting?
Ladies, do you know think playing hard to get is a good approach when men are pursuing you?
By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog
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249 comments Add your comment
kimmie
August 31st, 2012
11:29 am
Blackfoote – Thanks, you are a true winner! Congrats on the money – I need to pick up a few scratchoffs myself.
Lady~sharpness is > than smartness
August 31st, 2012
11:34 am
meant currently doing the MOST! see lol smh wooosah! wow
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
August 31st, 2012
11:37 am
Thank you too Kimmie. I beleive all of you lady’s are winners, that means you too disco. Don’t fight it disco I know the urge is there…….LOL
disco
August 31st, 2012
11:38 am
I just finish reading a news story about a new Yorker visiting myrtle beach who bought a $20 scratchoff and won $100k. come back on the blog and folks are winning money here too. even if I get around to buying a scratchoff I’ll have to stick to the $1 or $2 variety. don’t even think I see me buying a $5 ticket. lol.
disco
August 31st, 2012
11:39 am
BF – naw. I’m not fighting. I’m chilling.
SlimUno
August 31st, 2012
11:40 am
disco – With my luck, I come out better just handing a random stranger on the street a $20 bill
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
August 31st, 2012
11:49 am
LOL……@Slim1 sometimes it goes that way.
cba
August 31st, 2012
11:58 am
4th grade: she and about three others in her pack, swayed another girl to get too close in my face…..wasn’t a good choice
7th grade: I’m at a different school and she sends me a letter by my cousin…….I tear it up
11th grade: I asked her to be my gf……I get the silent treatment
6 yrs later: I have finished college, new car (80 celica,5 speed stick), apartment, I asked her to go to football game (Morris Brown vs Ft Valley), no answer for three days…….finally she said YES!!
32 YEARS later……still together; as Jessie would say “keep hope alive”
Leggs
August 31st, 2012
12:03 pm
That is too cute, cba!!! NICE!
disco
August 31st, 2012
12:04 pm
cba – that can read two ways. good love story OR one party giving up/settling. lol.
SlimUno
August 31st, 2012
12:05 pm
Five mo hours so let’s pep this thang up…
Ways women fail in bed:
1.Milking It: When stroking a wang, don’t grab it like a bus rail and start jerking it like you were milking a cow. The sensitive part is at the top(where your face should be). lol
Lady~sharpness is > than smartness
August 31st, 2012
12:08 pm
cuteness cba~ good deal!
Leggs
August 31st, 2012
12:09 pm
Dang SlimUno ~ you came out the gate standing at attention.
Comon Cents
August 31st, 2012
12:10 pm
Slim~
The Taster- Popping the tongue in and out like your are tasting a lollipop or as if you are a reptile.
Leggs
August 31st, 2012
12:11 pm
Here’s another penis story:
http://www.nydailynews.com/life-style/health/texas-man-male-enhancement-supplement-suffered-significant-pain-lawsuit-claims-article-1.1148712
Leggs
August 31st, 2012
12:12 pm
I am cracking up over The Taster.
DreamsMaterialize
August 31st, 2012
12:13 pm
Hey Everyone
I don’t like chasing. Someone who wants to be caught doesn’t run. I don’t equate being straight forward with being easy. If I like you, I let you know. If you like me, then do the same.
How’s everyone’s Friday going? What’s the haps for the weekend?
SlimUno
August 31st, 2012
12:13 pm
I needed to shock yall to attention
2.Robots: When sucking a guy’s wang don’t just get on the end of the thing and jam your head back and forward. It’s a beautiful instrument; it should be caressed, inspected, kissed and licked from every angle.
SlimUno
August 31st, 2012
12:14 pm
3Silent Fright: If you’ve come and cannot be coerced to scream to show your appreciation, at least make some sort of sign to inform the guy that he’s done his duty and can blow his bisuits whenever he wants lol
Leggs
August 31st, 2012
12:15 pm
SlimUno ~ you’re going to pull people from Lurksville …
Leggs
August 31st, 2012
12:16 pm
Your count is off, SlimUno. You’re actually up to #4, not #3.
Into the Light
August 31st, 2012
12:21 pm
Afternoon, all and happy Friday.
Just popping in to say hello before I knock out the next item on my list.
24 hours until kickoff…… GO DAWGS!!!!
SlimUno
August 31st, 2012
12:21 pm
No laughing matter: Don’t laugh if your creative male lover gets carried away and says things like, “I want to rinse your mouth with my fresh, white love potion.” Laughter at any aspect of the male performance will not enhance it. Just be grateful you have a guy who can speak in whole sentences.
Closing Up: If a man is willing to take the trouble to grace your face with his love potion, don’t close your eyes. He wants to share this ecstatic moment of joyful union with you. Plus love potion is not likely to cause blindness in most cases…but it’s a risk you should be prepared to take for his happiness.
disco
August 31st, 2012
12:24 pm
DM – someone who wants to be caught doesn’t run. hmm. what about back in the day playing hide and go get it? you ran so you could find a more private place to get caught.
Leggs
August 31st, 2012
12:24 pm
All good points (roflmao)
Into the Light
August 31st, 2012
12:28 pm
Okay, I’m skimming to catch up, but I am lol at the list, slim!
SlimUno
August 31st, 2012
12:31 pm
Poor Presentation: Presentation is all important. Don’t wait to be asked for it doggy-style. Roll over and present. You know you love it.
Being a Drip: You always have tissues in your bag, use them to clean his sheets and any ball bag drippage if you have misbehaved by not swallowing everything.
Lady~sharpness is > than smartness
August 31st, 2012
12:37 pm
i am over this friday…..sigh peace out folks~ happy labor day weekend!
SlimUno
August 31st, 2012
12:37 pm
Clock-Watching: Never, ever, ever even think of saying, “Are you going to come soon?” If you’re doing a blowie, you’d have to take your mouth off to utter the question. If you’re giving a hand job, you should have gone to the gym to work your biceps. If he’s shagging you and it’s more than 10 minutes, you should be grateful. Afterall, this is not a time trial,
Jake...SPJTWB
August 31st, 2012
12:38 pm
okay Ladies, go back and re-read Slim’s #2: that rights ladies, suck it with some passion, some ball licking never killed anyone either….lol
Sassy Me...PYT :-)
August 31st, 2012
12:40 pm
Popping the tongue in and out like your are tasting a lollipop or as if you are a reptile.
Ain’t that the trut?!?!?
Slim you’re on a roll chica!!
Sassy Me...PYT :-)
August 31st, 2012
12:43 pm
Roll over and present. You know you love it.
I shole do
disco
August 31st, 2012
12:44 pm
y’all are just plain nasty. who would’ve thunk it?
SlimUno
August 31st, 2012
12:47 pm
Fishing for compliments: Don’t ask him if you’re the best lover he’s had because most men have had so many sexual partners, that it’s unlikely that you are. Please don’t ask the man to lie about such an important thing.
Playing Dead: Don’t just lie there, do something. Good sex is not a spectator sport and it helps if both parties move around a bit. I know you expect the men to do all the hard & skillful work.
SlimUno
August 31st, 2012
12:48 pm
Jake
How would you know ball licking never killed anyone? 
Sassy Me...Feeling a wild hair... :-)
August 31st, 2012
12:49 pm
No disco..it’s the weather. It’s aggravating my condition…
Sassy Me...Feeling a wild hair... :-)
August 31st, 2012
12:49 pm
Slim I call playing dead the coffin ride
Jake...SPJTWB
August 31st, 2012
12:50 pm
Hey Disco, its Freaky Friday you prude, you talk tough, but I bet you don’t mind a good smack on the azz while that Peeda is diggin deep!
Jake...SPJTWB
August 31st, 2012
12:52 pm
All the ball-licking ladies I have had are alive and kickin…lol
disco
August 31st, 2012
12:52 pm
jake – I’m no prude. just not getting any so I’m hating and throwing salt into the game of all the nasty so and sos that are. and by the way, I’m from the school of “if it ain’t ruff it ain’t right”
Leggs
August 31st, 2012
12:57 pm
re: Fishing for Compliments….that something more a man would do.
Comon Cents
August 31st, 2012
12:59 pm
I personally think my “o” face looks like I am straining to open a jar so I have to be vocal. Otherwise, he might think I was having a seizure.
Jake...SPJTWB
August 31st, 2012
12:59 pm
There you go Disco, “if it ain’t ruff it ain’t right”…..I know I tries to get to the back room of that puddy, balls to the walls baby….lol
Comon Cents
August 31st, 2012
1:02 pm
Playing Dead: Don’t just lie there, do something. Good sex is not a spectator sport and it helps if both parties move around a bit. I know you expect the men to do all the hard & skillful work.
Also known as the carpenter’s dream. Flat as a board and easy to screw…
Leggs
August 31st, 2012
1:02 pm
All the ball-licking ladies I have had are alive and kickin…lol
I was thinking the same thing to the question.
Leggs
August 31st, 2012
1:04 pm
Also known as the carpenter’s dream. Flat as a board and easy to screw…
You guys sure are creative…
Comon Cents
August 31st, 2012
1:05 pm
The Rodeo Queen : Why let him have all the fun? Hop on top and make it rock! He will appreciate the break and you will appreciate the org.asm!
SlimUno
August 31st, 2012
1:06 pm
CC – Coming with them I see…lol
Jake – I just wanted to ask. But i’m glad all the ball lickers are alive too.
Jake...SPJTWB
August 31st, 2012
1:12 pm
Blog Observation:
Ladies, you know how ya’ll like when the fellas are less guarded and speak straight, well, we like when ya’ll are honest about you’re sensuality. We know ya’ll like d!#k, and some of you like it in your mouths,(I promise I am being real, this ain’t for shltz and giggles), but often, when the more XXX discussions occur, ya’ll act like we are the only real freaks around here…its refreshing read a lil more truth from ya’ll….
SlimUno
August 31st, 2012
1:15 pm
You betta not: When a man has gone to so much trouble to get his aim right into your mouth, it’s rude to spit it out without savoring the taste and texture. You should play with it like a block of Hubba Bubba, blowing bubbles and chewing. A line like, “I love it when you bust in my mouth” makes for a happy finale to fun and games.