Craziest stunt for love?
I know I have publicly admitted to being a completely lazy dater with barely enough energy to devote to one guy. I can also confess that I am cautious (overly?) about giving my heart to someone and being vulnerable.
The reason I am this way, though – is because I have been stuck on stupid for a guy before. It wasn’t pretty, people! I was not the rational, level-headed, wise woman you all know and love (*cough*) today. I was the snooping, insecure, pull out all the stops kind of girl. Why? Because a man had me “feeling” as if I was head over heels.
That’s right people, we have all pulled some crazy stunts in the name of “love” or lust, or infatuation. Let’s confess. What is the craziest thing you have done to impress someone or an attempt to make someone fall for you?
No judgment zone, right? Right?
By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog
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Lily
August 30th, 2012
5:55 am
Nothing acrobatical being crazy in love, but if Wise Diva’s example faux pas are any indication of crazy, then I admit, GUILTY. I’m habitually guarded because most men live by the screw you code and in every way. All it takes is one. Therefore, my eyes and ears are trained to mentally record nearly every word, every action every deed. Because men aren’t too keen having an itemization of offenses constantly tracked, I’ve perfected the craft. Calling foul on actions simply isn’t warranted and only results in a liar turning that much bigger a liar. Anyone auditioning but can’t make the cut due to inabilities, the inability to speak truth, the inability to come thru, the inability to be trusted, I simply keep aware and keep him permanently at bay, never trusting, never commiting. Just nod and keep nice. Never fully give myself, won’t open my heart, won’t give my body. That’s more subtle than saying I can’t commit because what you say compared to actions, aren’t adding up. Keeping interactions cooled and iced works out better, much cleaner and keeps one off the Queen B!tch title. In summation, like Diva being so crazy in love that you grow another set of senses only turns to everyone’s favor, AVOIDANCE! All it takes is one.
Lily
August 30th, 2012
6:03 am
In essence and confession, I’ve snooped, tracked, recorded, broke into voicemail, you name it. Of course being younger and not realizing he was not the only man living. Finding a better man and walking away would have been much easier. All it takes is one. One to be crazy for and one to learn from. Walk away
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
August 30th, 2012
7:46 am
LOL……@Lily men live by the screw you code. Who’s the guy that gave you our MLB that’s classified information for eyes only.
Lily
August 30th, 2012
7:59 am
@Blackfoote, you only need one and I learned a long long time ago. I didn’t get good with my craft though, for sometime. I’ve been the gatekeeper of my heart but I didn’t learn how to smoothly do it until growing older…lol
Lady~cool beans :-)
August 30th, 2012
8:07 am
Morning Crew~! Interesting topic….hmmmmm
Its an early release day for me!!! Happy 7th Birthday to lil Lady!!!
I am out at 1pm and can’t wait!!!
Oh GO SC STATE BEAT GA STATE TONIGHT @ THE DOME!!!! a great afternoon awaits! yay!
Lady~cool beans :-)
August 30th, 2012
8:13 am
hmmmm the craziest thing in the name of love and lust……..let me ponder………….hmmmmm
Comon Cents
August 30th, 2012
8:16 am
Morning, bloggies!
On Topic~ When I was younger, I have definitely played the fool for a man. In my defense, I was very young and very inexperienced, but I became the jealous, snoopy, questioning GF. Then, I realized that I did not like who I had become dealing with him and like that *snap*, it was over. I came to the realization (with help from some very good friends) that no matter what you do, if he wants to cheat, he will cheat.
Lady~cool beans :-)
August 30th, 2012
8:23 am
yeah I have a few stories….nothing to blog about though…….lol
Comon Cents
August 30th, 2012
8:28 am
Lady~ Are you going to the game tonight? And happy birthday to Little Lady!
Lady~cool beans :-)
August 30th, 2012
8:35 am
yes CC I am and Thank You!!!!
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
August 30th, 2012
8:36 am
Morning Ladies: Have a seat and enjoy the breakfast.
I know some dudes go through this phase to fluffing feathers but it’s exclusive a woman thing. Any lady want to take a whack at me go ahead I have on my battle gear.
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
August 30th, 2012
8:45 am
There’s another birthday girl, Happy Birthday to the lil Lady.
Lady you’ve forgotten I leave when you leave and you’ve been leaving me. J/K women leave me all the time……..LOL
Roberta
August 30th, 2012
8:48 am
I tend to find that just being myself is always the best approach. I’m like Popeye – I yam what I yam.
Lady~cool beans :-)
August 30th, 2012
8:50 am
lol too funny BF!!! chuckle~~~
run behind me BF I got you lol…..August has been a long month….September has to be softer and maybe the rat race will pause a bit~
Comon Cents
August 30th, 2012
8:50 am
That should be a great game Lady. Are you from SC? I was born there and my grandparents used to teach at SC State.
Comon Cents
August 30th, 2012
8:52 am
Good Morning, BF! Thanks for the breakfast. I needed that this morning. So glad that this is a long weekend…
Lady~cool beans :-)
August 30th, 2012
8:53 am
really CC who are your grandparents?!? last name? if you want to hit me up shoot me an email @ msjenkins8@gmail.com. My boo is a state grad too and worked there for 16 years with campus police…(yeah that is our joke he was campus police when I was in school) lol so I am sure we know of your people bc Orgaeburg is small but it nothing like the ‘burg!
yes we love our alma mater and football team! we will be together this evening tailgating and watching the game………good times await~
Lady~cool beans :-)
August 30th, 2012
8:55 am
oh yes from a small town in sc
Exiled!
August 30th, 2012
8:58 am
The downside of being too overly cautious Lily is u cannot commit,just like Diva so u can’t play and romp.
U become the Queen of Mastur…bation!
And ur brow gets tense when men are in sight.
All Men Cheat!
A Lion will Always be a Lion!
Good morning ladies …..
How are u fellas….
Lady~cool beans :-)
August 30th, 2012
9:00 am
lol Ex~ I have grown to love your antics sir~ lol
Comon Cents
August 30th, 2012
9:02 am
Lady~ My dad was born in Orangeburg. I was born in Monk’s Corner (I always just say Columbia because people have no idea where Monk’s Corner is
) My grandparents would have been there WAAAYYY before your boo. My dad is almost 66 and he was a change of life baby (born when my grandma was 42 and my grandpop was 47) But anyway, the last name is Savage.
Exiled!
August 30th, 2012
9:03 am
There u go Common….
no matter what u do quote there…..
Again my Lion reference
Ladies,understand this…a Lion can and will definitely slow down but never ever fool urself to think he can’t smell the good scent…
He may not actively hunt but if a phoine gazelle runs by…he looks left and he looks right and the coast is clear….
Watch out!
Comon Cents
August 30th, 2012
9:03 am
Ex~ All men may have the natural inclination to cheat (propogation of their seed, etc…) but not all men cheat.
disco
August 30th, 2012
9:04 am
good morning.
I’m not owning any “love stunts” but goodness knows I’ve got more than my share of “you no good sorry MF, you can kiss my behind” stunts under my belt. lol.
CC – have you been keeping up with the Columbia news? following the missing girl case?
Lily
August 30th, 2012
9:06 am
@Exiled, maybe, maybe not. All men aren’t dirty. Ms Lily knows this. Huge difference in good compared to bad. There are distinctions. I get romp time. Just romp time void of the uglies.
Good day all!
Comon Cents
August 30th, 2012
9:06 am
disco~ I have been following that case. Heartbreaking. Have you? (Well, obviously since you asked me about it… )
Exiled!
August 30th, 2012
9:08 am
I have an 8:30 meeting have to go..
have a nice day…
Flying to Atl mid day!
Yay!!
Exiled!
August 30th, 2012
9:10 am
Lily…all women have a certain ‘I’m the best’ mentality.
Common included….
Ok I’ll leave uall in ur bliss!
Meeelo out..
Comon Cents
August 30th, 2012
9:12 am
Ex~ And all men who cheat claim that all men cheat. If ignorance is bliss, I swear some people are positively ORGASMIC tis morning. Have a safe flight Ex!
Comon Cents
August 30th, 2012
9:13 am
disco~Did you see that they believe they have found June Guerry’s body yesterday afternoon?
Bluzgirl...Today is My Friday!!!!
August 30th, 2012
9:16 am
I can’t even begin to think about the crazy things my ex had me doing. I was sooooo in love that I really did get jealous, possessive, aggressive. I look back and I have to laugh at myself to keep me from punching myself!!! I knew it was time to end it when my mom told me I was turning into a b*tch towards him. I realized she was right…
Anyway…I’m a little embarassed about some of the things I did, but most of them were in the privacy of our own home. A lot of things, he deserved! Looking back, I wish I had done worse to him! LOL
Lady~sharpness is > than smartness
August 30th, 2012
9:22 am
ok cool CC~
LMBAO @ EX!
Leggs
August 30th, 2012
9:24 am
Good morning!
You may not be surprised, but I have never pulled any crazy stunts for someone to recognize the love I have for them.
I was the snooping, insecure, pull out all the stops kind of girl. Wise, you’re definitely not alone. I know many like this. I just can’t see myself doing this. Could be I’ve never met anyone who took to that lovel (level and love).
This should be an interesting read. I never forget my gf who jumped on her boyfriend’s car and rode the hood for a good 2-3 blocks before he stopped. Not my thing. You want to go, then you go.
disco
August 30th, 2012
9:28 am
CC – I haven’t made the rounds of my daily online newspapers yet. running a bit behind this a.m.
leggs – I rode shotgun on a few of those out to get a brother midnight runs. good times I tell ya.
Comon Cents
August 30th, 2012
9:30 am
Leggs~ Not ashamed to own it; He made me so mad that I threw a coffee cup at his ‘73 Vette and busted the window out. Hiding in bushes, breaking into cell phones. Yup, he had my nose wide open.
In my defense, most of my crazy came out while I was pregnant so I can blame some(but not all) of it on the hormones. Funny, he ended up marrying the girl he cheated on me with and she dogged the isht out of him. All I could do is sit back and laugh…
Leggs
August 30th, 2012
9:35 am
“…most men live by the screw you code and in every way. All it takes is one. Therefore, my eyes and ears are trained to mentally record nearly every word, every action every deed
I wholeheartedly agree. It is what it is, but I feel bad for those who don’t recognize this.
Leggs
August 30th, 2012
9:36 am
Happy Birthday to the little Lady, Lady!
Lady~sharpness is > than smartness
August 30th, 2012
9:39 am
Same to your college freshman!!!! Wishing her successful years of undergrad! Tell her to enjoy and Thank You!
Leggs
August 30th, 2012
9:41 am
Comon ~ I have been the chick that rode with a gf to Adamsville to check on her cheating man. That opened my eyes to a lot of things I felt I never wanted to do. She’s been in the bushes, he came to her apartment in the early morning and tied the bra she left at his house to her window wipers. She came out to find a note pinned to her bra with her wipers up in the air. I tell you, that isht was funny as hell but I. I took many notes from her on what I hoped to never do. So far, 0 for 0!
Leggs
August 30th, 2012
9:45 am
Thanks, Lady. I’ll tell her.
Poppa Grande
August 30th, 2012
9:46 am
Good Morning, all….
No court today meant no tie today….that alone made my morning better.
On topic: Umm, I don’t ever really remember acting crazy over a female. I never had a problem with options so I was fairly easy to cut bait and look for another fish.
CC: I know Monk’s Corner and not just because of the 2 Live Stews. It seemed to be closer to Charleston than Columbia. I had some teammates that grew up there.
The family has a vacation house on Johns Island, SC. I love going in the backyard and dropping the traps in the morning and pulling up blue crab in the evening. Thanksgiving will be out there is year. In the words of NY Jets Bart Scott “Can’t Wait!”
HAPPY COLLEGE FOOTBALL SEASON DAY!!! My alma mater plays tonight in Nashville. I may go to the home opener just to hear 2001 played and see that cage rolled onto the field. Co.cky has been caged up for 9 months.
Poppa Grande
August 30th, 2012
9:49 am
So, Comon Cents apparently is Jazmine Sullivan with a bar card.
j/k
Comon Cents
August 30th, 2012
9:55 am
Poppa~ It is closer to Charleston, but we always went to Columbia because we had family there and I have a SLEW of cousins that were born in Columbia, so I just claim Columbia. I actually lived in Charleston for a short time when I was a child.
No joke on the Jazmine Sullivan. I was wide open.
disco
August 30th, 2012
10:00 am
I know some “crazy love” stories. one in particular comes to mind. chick I went to high school with had a baby while her man was locked up. apparently she never told him she was with someone else or that she was pregnant and so when she had the baby at home she called the police and told them she found a baby on her doorstep. it didn’t take too long for the story to unravel. one of her other kids told the police she had the baby. all that because she was worried her locked up boyfriend wouldn’t accept the kid.
I know a (battered) woman whose husband took her on vacation but beat her up in the hotel room and then tied her to the bed while he went out and did whatever. she said she laid there and cried herself to sleep and he eventually returned and untied her. I’m like really? in a hotel room where there may have been people next door and folks walking the halls and you still didn’t scream. she said nope. she didn’t want to get him in trouble (translation: make him mad).
these may not be the crazy love stories we are looking for but crazy is crazy.
i'm swiss
August 30th, 2012
10:01 am
“Co.cky has been caged up for 9 months”
Nah, actually, I finally got some last night. Oh wait, were you talking to me?
Morning, folks!
Bluzgirl...Today is My Friday!!!!
August 30th, 2012
10:03 am
Dang it…I forgot about games starting tonight and I made plans to go out! Oh well…I’m only concerned about UGA anyway. I so hope I can find somewhere near Folly Beach that is showing the game!!!
Leggs
August 30th, 2012
10:03 am
O/T: That deadly accident on Phantersville and Oakvale had street traffic crawling like a snail. I so wanted to be the pied piper and honk my horn and have the cars follow me through a particular subdivision that by passed much of that street traffic on Waldrop. I was the lone driver bypassing all those cars. But, when I made it to the other side, still more traffic. Doesn’t matter. I felt good bypassing a good 200 cars (lol).
Leggs
August 30th, 2012
10:05 am
“…when she had the baby at home she called the police and told them she found a baby on her doorstep.” – OH ISHT!
Lady~sharpness is > than smartness
August 30th, 2012
10:06 am
sad wreck leggs! I use to stay over there…..I was up and out EARLY this morning………running errands and stuff! just read it in the ajc….
Comon Cents
August 30th, 2012
10:06 am
swiss~ Congratulations on you, ummm, acheivement? So what did you do with the other 6 hours of the evening?
Leggs
August 30th, 2012
10:07 am
(translation: make him mad).
(translation: she planned on forgiving him and staying and didn’t want to “make him mad).
Man, the things some women accept in their lives, make excuses for, then cry themselves to sleep over.
i'm swiss
August 30th, 2012
10:09 am
“So what did you do with the other 6 hours of the evening? “
Comon — I slept better than I have in about 3 months, that’s what.
Poppa Grande
August 30th, 2012
10:09 am
Suisse….
I know that you like those doggies in Athens, but know who I am talking about. Darth Visor and the fighting Chickens!!
We’ve gotten the best of the doggies the last couple of years and we are always a thorn in the doggies sides.
i'm swiss
August 30th, 2012
10:13 am
“we are always a thorn in the doggies sides.”
Well, I’ll grant you the past couple of years, but I wouldn’t exactly say always…
46-16-2.
Leggs
August 30th, 2012
10:25 am
disco ~ I like hearing your stories…got anymore?
disco
August 30th, 2012
10:28 am
leggs – I need triggers to remember all the stories I have tucked away. gotta jiggle my brain a little bit.
Leggs
August 30th, 2012
10:32 am
I understand (lol).
Poppa Grande
August 30th, 2012
10:35 am
Suisse-
Well actually I had a response that was eaten by the blog monster. I guess that the blog monster is a UGA fan.
All, I am gonna say is we shall see.
Lady~sharpness is > than smartness
August 30th, 2012
10:35 am
I am listening to Miki Howard’s song “Crazy” chuckle…
Sassy Me...PYT :-)
August 30th, 2012
10:36 am
GO SC STATE BEAT GA STATE TONIGHT @ THE DOME!!!!
Umm Lady I’ll be at that game cheering for GSU!!!!
I love going in the backyard and dropping the traps in the morning and pulling up blue crab in the evening.
John’s Island is close to my neck of the woods in Charleston(Chucktown) and going crabbing is one of the things I miss most. We didn’t use traps…we used bait and caught them ourselves…which was always awesome. I make it a point to eat crabs as often as I can when I’m in town.
On topic: I haven’t done anything crazy for love. I’m sure there are going to be some good posts on this subject…either that or an early topic change…
BTW: Hellur and good mornting
Lady~sharpness is > than smartness
August 30th, 2012
10:38 am
awww wow Sassy!!!! I will message you so we can hug sis~ get ready for that Bulldog beat down though and a great band performance! lol you already know sis~
Lady~sharpness is > than smartness
August 30th, 2012
10:41 am
its almost 11 effortlessly! yay!
Sassy Me...PYT :-)
August 30th, 2012
10:44 am
get ready for that Bulldog beat down
We shall see Ms. Lady…uh huh
i'm swiss
August 30th, 2012
10:48 am
PG — Well, with a mascot like the “co.cks” it does make it tough to get posts through.
We shall see for this year — should be a good game.
But we have seen, historically. And it really hasn’t been that close overall. IJS…
Comon Cents
August 30th, 2012
10:50 am
Crazy Love story~ I had a friend back in the day that was dating a bartender from here and she lived in SC. Chick thought he was running around with another woman (which he was) and drove here in the middle of te night after putting her kids to bed, slashed his tires and f’ed up his car, spray painted a$$hole on his door (while he was inside apparently doing the nasty with said other chick) and drove back to SC before her children woke up. I was like WOA! That is some gangster isht right there…
Comon Cents
August 30th, 2012
10:51 am
PG~ The co.cks Def Coordinator went to high school with my brother. Great guy!
kimmie
August 30th, 2012
10:52 am
Morning Gang!
Sassy – That’s right, GSU all the way! I’m a Dawg, but went to GSU for grad school, so I’m a Panther too!! Bump South Cackylacky State!!LOL!!!
On topic – The worst I did was phone-stalk a couple of dudes back in my younger days! I rode with a buddy of mine that is one of those crazy types. She had a feeling her dude was married, so once when she knew he was out of town she made a visit to his house. I sat in the car. Yep, the wife came to the door and they had a nice convo!
Wife got dude on the phone while my friend was there! Wife said she dealt with his cheating before and was THINKING about leaving him! The bad thing was that dude had taken my friend to their home many times and had her spend the night, even weekends there. There were no pics up of the 2 of them, no real signs that a woman lived there, but my friend knew something wasn’t right!!! Meanwhile, I was dumbfounded!!
Leggs
August 30th, 2012
10:54 am
That is pure foolishness, but I speak from the sidelines who hasn’t been hurt (lol). Don’t get me wrong, I understand when one is hurt and feel wronged our mental wires go haywire.
MLB’s, some of you have had your nose wide opened at some point. What crazy stuff have you done? This recklessness isn’t solely reserved for women.
Celisea
August 30th, 2012
10:56 am
Morning!!!
Yeah, back in the day, I’ve dealt a bit of crazy but no regrets. It was just and due. By right, I should have been locked up but buddy there would be a double portion so he made the right move in that aspect. Will I EVER do anything remotely stupid again? Never. Just move away if a dude smells of taint.
Poppa Grande
August 30th, 2012
10:57 am
I didn’t even use the mascot name in the post. So, I don’t know. I referenced Alabama and/or LSU would beat either UGA or South Carolina.
As for the games, they have been close even when I played we made the Dawgs sweat. We were always up for them. It was usually decided in the 4th quarter. Only with UGA were we competitive. UGA Coach Ray “Zaxby Man” Goff was dumb and didn’t use Garrison Hearst or Terrell Davis much against us. He relied on Eric Zeir (or however you spell his name).
Lady~sharpness is > than smartness
August 30th, 2012
10:58 am
Now Baby be Mine~ I love m,y alto singers…….sang Miki~ #random
Lady~sharpness is > than smartness
August 30th, 2012
10:58 am
lol C~
Celisea
August 30th, 2012
10:59 am
Hey there Lady…what’s crackalackin?? Gotta run
Toodles
Lady~sharpness is > than smartness
August 30th, 2012
11:00 am
Toodles~
disco
August 30th, 2012
11:00 am
Celisea – by right you should have been locked up. girl, me too. I’ve done some dirty dirty in my day. thank goodness for the statute of limitations.
Celisea
August 30th, 2012
11:02 am
disco – They always know who to mess with and who not….lol It’s funny when they’re slow learners….lol That was my kid’s dad. He was a firecraker and I was TNT….lol Good thing age and growing up brings about a change
Going to prison ain’t cute but definitely not cute when you’re no teeny booper.
On a conference call…gotta run
i'm swiss
August 30th, 2012
11:02 am
“What crazy stuff have you done? “
Alright, I’ll own up to some punkery in my past…
I once walked in on one of my exes (the lesbian ex) fingering herself while on the phone having phone sex w/ some other lesbian chick that she’d met in some chat room. So, I just dropped trou, hopped on her back & f__ked her while she was still on the phone.
Yeah, it was a strange relationship… 
i'm swiss
August 30th, 2012
11:04 am
“Just move away if a dude smells of taint.”
Especially if it’s not your taint.
Celisea
August 30th, 2012
11:07 am
Maybe I should say he was a firecracker and I was a bomb…lol
Sassy Me...PYT :-)
August 30th, 2012
11:10 am
Comon
@ your 10:50…wow. Hell hath no fury…
Yep, the wife came to the door and they had a nice convo!
See that right there I don’t know about….the nasty, I wanna bust his a$$ part of me is in total agreeance with that BUT my rational side would second guess that cause I’d be wondering if she’s going to come out of her bag on me and start tripping.
i'm swiss
August 30th, 2012
11:11 am
PG — Yeah, I think historically, Cackalacky has tended to be more up for the game than we were. But I’m pretty sure both teams will be fired up for this year’s game. Should be a good one. I just hope by that time our O-line has learned to block somebody — anybody.
Leggs
August 30th, 2012
11:11 am
You did say that, Celisea (lol).
Celisea
August 30th, 2012
11:13 am
Leggs – For those that didn’t know (lol)
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
August 30th, 2012
11:13 am
Leggs I’m sure some guys have done some crazy stuff. We don’t tell because it makse us appear soft. I told y’all about a friend of mine getting his Mercedes keyed and another had to call the police on a chic that came to his house and trapped him in there with another. I got trapped in the house before but I allowed (all my fault) it to happen and I regretted it later.
Lady~sharpness is > than smartness
August 30th, 2012
11:14 am
Kimmie!!!!!!!!!!!! lol Bulldog Pride lol~
Sassy Me...PYT :-)
August 30th, 2012
11:14 am
hopped on her back
Especially if it’s not your taint
Okay?!?! IJS….
Poppa Grande
August 30th, 2012
11:14 am
*MLB’s, some of you have had your nose wide opened at some point. What crazy stuff have you done? This recklessness isn’t solely reserved for women.*
I can honestly say that I haven’t done anything reckless directly based on a female that “had” me. I have done the usual young dumb and full of ______ stuff that was more about showing females in general that I “wasn’t skeered”.
You may remember the doctor that I used to talk about. I dated her before meeting Mrs. PG. She would aggravate me, but I didn’t let her get me to that point. She was ( and still is) gorgeous, tall, and sweet as honey. However, she was more spoiled that some milk that was in my bachelor apartment refrigerator.
We were talking marriage. I never proposed to her, though. Her spoiledness (thank you, Rev. Jackson-I know that I can make up a word when needed) would bother me to the point that I started to dread spending time or even calling her. I knew then that it wouldn’t be smart to continue the relationship. She wanted forever and I wasn’t willing to endure forever hoping that I’d get over her spoiledness. It was fair to both of us to cut her loose so she could find what she needed.
When people ask (and they still ask) why did I let her go, I simply say “She is great and I am great. However, we weren’t great together and let’s leave it at that. ”
Her spoiledness would have me wanting to “shake the ____ out of her”. She is a successful pediatrician. A sista that is used to getting what she wanted, when she wanted, without regard for other people.” It is what made her successful in business, but it didn’t mix well with me.
Bluzgirl...Today is My Friday!!!!
August 30th, 2012
11:15 am
There was one occasion that I went with my good friend to look for her boyfriend. Problem was…we had NO IDEA where he would be. We just drove down 85 past Atlanta, then back up, looking for his car! We laugh about it now!!!
Celisea
August 30th, 2012
11:16 am
Blackfoote – If I might add….I agree on men tripping too. The LLL (long time lover) followed me around, literally for two years. Was sitting in front of my house one of those times. Had my kid running because it frightened her to see him sitting in front of the house…
Albert
August 30th, 2012
11:17 am
i sent her balloons after only our third date. It was intended to b cute, nothing more. I didn’t realize that the balloons would have “I love you” written all over them. (Of course, I did fall for her, but I wasn’t going to just blurt that out after only the third date.)
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
August 30th, 2012
11:18 am
Hey Cely friendly reminder time to order those ribs. I know when I get there I’m still gonna have to wait but that’s cool.
Leggs
August 30th, 2012
11:19 am
“Leggs I’m sure some guys have done some crazy stuff. We don’t tell because it makse us appear soft.” We women realize that, but if we can make ourselves look downright stupid at times, why can’t you guys be forthcoming and show us that your heart has made you do stupid things as well. AND,
swiss’ example isn’t a punk move, it sounds like it was more a macho move. BAM, take that, BAM, you want another woman….BAM, how you like that…BAM BAM BAM!!!!!
Celisea
August 30th, 2012
11:20 am
Thanks Blackfoote. Just set a tickler to do before I leave work.
Lady~sharpness is > than smartness
August 30th, 2012
11:21 am
interesting~
Sassy Me...PYT :-)
August 30th, 2012
11:22 am
another had to call the police on a chic that came to his house and trapped him in there with another.
Well damn…see that’s some very poor playa skills right there…just sloppy. I will admit that in the past I’ve gone to my bf’s house and took his side chick WITH me…I rang the doorbell and when he opened the door (@ 9 a.m. on a Satrdy) he looked like
and ran…literally. The other time I did it was when I took dudes clothes in a black trash bag and threw them all over the lawn…
I was young then but I wouldn’t do that now. Have I been tempted?…yes but my ego won’t let me do it.
Leggs
August 30th, 2012
11:22 am
PoppaG ~ you always talk about that woman and how spoiled she was. You never let her looks trap you, but it was hard to walk away at first. Then, she just got on your last nerve (lololol) and you happily skipped down the stairs into your car and drove away as fast as the horsepower of your engine would allow.
Leggs
August 30th, 2012
11:25 am
There was one occasion that I went with my good friend to look for her boyfriend. Problem was…we had NO IDEA where he would be. – That I could never do. That’s when other forms of trouble finds a person.
Comon Cents
August 30th, 2012
11:26 am
Albert~ Ohh, you just reminded me of another one!
A friend of mine had te guy she dated who wanted to move in after the third date. e was all ” I know you’re the one and we are gonna be togeter forever so let’s just go on and make this move.”
I told her if she moved in with him she was a fool. She cut ties and ran. We still laugh about her crazy dating stories. (Sidebar: she is still single so now I wonder if he might not be the one that got away!) 
Leggs
August 30th, 2012
11:26 am
Did you sue the balloon place for emotional distress? You may have been awarded punitive damages for the demise of a promising relationship…I kid, I kid…
Poppa Grande
August 30th, 2012
11:29 am
Leggs –
Yep. I was impressed with her. Her daddy spoiled her to a point that I couldn’t really deal with. I probably could have continued her lifestyle and granting her what she wanted, but I would have suffered.
It was difficult but I was rewarded for doing the right thing.
Tall Big Angry Black man isn’t a good look. So, I have to be like Bruce Banner learn how to control my emotions. Can’t get hemmed up over a big booty and a smile. Bell, Biv, Devoe’s warning is something that I heeded.
kimmie
August 30th, 2012
11:31 am
I remember being EXTRA clingy with one dude, and mind you clingy is not a word anyone, including hubs, would use to describe me. But for some reason, with that particular dude, I was. We had spent almost every night together for about 2 weeks straight. He wanted a little space and suggested we spend an evening apart, he hang with his boys, me with my girls. Okay, except my girls were not able to hang out that night, but his were. I phone stalked him to death that night, calling him almost every 5 minutes. So bad he could not enjoy himself at all!! For some reason, I was a little possessed with that dude, I didn’t recognize myself at all. It was not a good feeling to be that out of control!LO!!
disco
August 30th, 2012
11:32 am
many a man has found himself hemmed up on the “trapped in the house with another chick” tip. I even know a few chicks who ran set ups on that one. apparently even the smoothest talking dude can’t get his lie together quick enough when he’s laid across the bed and the other, other chick walks in the room.
sassy – that’s funny. old boy ran? so what did he say when he finally stopped running? lol.
Comon Cents
August 30th, 2012
11:32 am
All these stories make me think of the crazy astronaut from a few years ago that wore a space diaper as she drove cross country to try and kill her lover’s wife. Y’all remember that?
Celisea
August 30th, 2012
11:34 am
I did have to laugh at dude running…
and if I may borrow:
when I took dudes clothes in a black trash bag and threw them all over the lawn…
….after I doubled bagged and poured two gallons of bleach in (didn’t want any to spill in my car), on to kicking over the hurbie the curbie and kicking the door in…
yeah, he dealt some crazy too…..two crazos needing much time apart…lol Thank Gawd for the opening of the eyes!! I took in most of my dos and donts right there in that relationship.
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
August 30th, 2012
11:35 am
Cely sound like it was the best thing to do was get rid of that dude for parking at your front door like that.
LOL……@Leggs you when hear some of those cars pass by your window at night it aint always random traffic. Sometimes that’s a dude doing a late night drive by to check your drive way for unfamiliar cars………LOL
Sassy Me you took the side girl with you to his house, now that’s original………LOL
kimmie
August 30th, 2012
11:35 am
Comon, the comedians had a field day with that astronaut diaper story!!
disco
August 30th, 2012
11:36 am
kimmie – re phone stalked. once I pager stalked a dude. you know that’s way back. lol. beepers. anyway, i gave several of my girls the number and instructions to just blow that bad boy up. he had so many prank pages I know no real ones got through. meanwhile, I spent the night with him. he, thinking he was slick, left his pager in the car. we rolling out in the morning and it’s going off. he looked at me talking about “at least I know it’s not you”. it was one of my girls. I said nothing.
I also told y’all that I was the sidepiece back in my project chick days. dude’s other woman just couldn’t fathom that some little hoodrat got a hold of her man. she literally came to my house, stole his truck, drove it to the airport and left it in long term parking. he didn’t find his truck for two weeks when the airport reported it.
Leggs
August 30th, 2012
11:36 am
Comon ~ that lady astronaunt is a poster child for this blog!
Willie Dynamite
August 30th, 2012
11:37 am
Morning All,
Nope nothing crazy for love. I was allergic to love. I ran the other way if I even thought about it.
Comon Cents
August 30th, 2012
11:37 am
BF~ Be honest. You have never done the late night drive by? C’mon…
Sassy Me...PYT :-)
August 30th, 2012
11:39 am
so what did he say when he finally stopped running? lol.
I don’t know…we stayed at the house for a little bit and spoke with his mom (she knew we were coming) and sisters then we left.
took the side girl with you to his house, now that’s original………
Call it what you want…but the best way to catch someone in a lie is to get ALL parties involved in the same place…it just happened to be his house.
Leggs
August 30th, 2012
11:39 am
Let me re-read that. I thought she took side girl out of the house w/her.
Comon Cents
August 30th, 2012
11:39 am
To borrow a phrase from The Bert Show, I think that everyone has “Stepped into Psycho” at least once whether you were the stalker or the stalkee.
Celisea
August 30th, 2012
11:40 am
Blackfoote – That was my kryptonite…lol I would drop my kid off at SS every Sunday (I was playing the heathen) and hadn’t gone in months myself. My ritual was to get my Sunday cooking done early. Well he started timing and coming to Publix EVERY Sunday at the same time. Until he hemmed me up in the store “to talk.” I sort of get there when much back and forth has happened. Once I come to that point, no agreement or agree to disgree in sight or resolution of differences, I tend to just stop talking. Well, I was at that point. Done talking. So he started following me. Another Sunday, me and kid went to Dinner at Cheesecake factory and saw his vehicle parked in valet (Ga Tech tag) and wouldn’t you know it, he was at my house the next day. Yep, he violated EVERY rule of the MLB…lol Bet his boys never knew.
Leggs
August 30th, 2012
11:40 am
Ok, I read it wrong.
Poppa Grande
August 30th, 2012
11:41 am
What up Willie Dynamite?! –
Did you see my answer to your question whether I felt disdain or not for this time of year?
Sassy Me...PYT :-)
August 30th, 2012
11:41 am
she literally came to my house, stole his truck, drove it to the airport and left it in long term parking. he didn’t find his truck for two weeks when the airport reported it.
That’s a bit much but as I’ve said…hell hath no fury…
disco
August 30th, 2012
11:47 am
Sassy – it’s been nearly 20 years and I still tease him about that.
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
August 30th, 2012
11:50 am
Comon ok that’s one that qualifies as a love stunt, like you said it happens when we’re young and restless………LOL
Poppa Grande
August 30th, 2012
11:52 am
Of Course, being a family law attorney, I hear lots of stories. There are more than enough angry females to keep Safelite Auto Glass in business. I’ve had male clients who have hid from their exes literally closed the blinds to their apartment, house or hotel room. I’ve seen men who have paid other men to approach and date their exes so that they are left alone.
Unfortunately, I’ve seen male’s who have let their exes get them to a point when they really try to choke a “B” out, too.
There are some other creative ones that I can’t mention because they are just too specific and have made the news. Some even made me chuckle while other made me cringe (one with rat poison in food comes to mind-she wanted his pension, not just half of it either). I worry more about the females that seem calm than the outward talkative crazy females.
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
August 30th, 2012
11:53 am
Cely men and women like him brings out the heathen in the rest of us……LOL
Leggs
August 30th, 2012
11:54 am
@BF ~ I remember years ao when my Ex admitted he would do some drive bys. I asked why he want to purposely set out and hurt his own feelings. He has since stopped (supposedly).
Comon Cents
August 30th, 2012
11:57 am
Do y’all remember the chick from Augusta, Tammy Prentice, that was a beauty queen and realized that the BF had a side chick (or maybe she was the side chick depending on how you read the story) and she killed him?
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
August 30th, 2012
11:57 am
“I worry more about the females that seem calm”
PoppaG you got that right.
Bluzgirl...Today is My Friday!!!!
August 30th, 2012
11:58 am
One crazy thing I did with the ex is when he locked himself in the room downstairs and ignored me, I opened the window upstairs (don’t know how because it hadn’t budged before) and started throwing things out the window to get his attention. The worst thing about it was that I was throwing my own things because his things weren’t in the room! I look back and see where he had me “stepping into psycho” a LOT!!!
Sassy Me...PYT :-)
August 30th, 2012
11:58 am
I worry more about the females that seem calm than the outward talkative crazy females.
Good point…
disco…it’s been nearly the same amount of time with me as well. The bf ended up marrying the side piece cause she said she was pregna…she was but they weren’t his babies. I tried to tell him that but he nor his family listened..they said I was in denial. Fast forward to now and he’s trying to get me back but I don’t backtrack…even if I were single I still wouldn’t do it…once I’m done, I’m done..
Leggs
August 30th, 2012
11:58 am
That’s right, PoppaG…it’s a Thin Line Between Love and Hate.
♪♫•*¨*•.¸¸♥¸¸.•*¨*•♫♪THE SWEETEST WOMAN IN THE WORLD
COULD BE THE MEANEST WOMAN IN THE WORLD
IF YOU MAKE HER THAT WAY
YOU KEEP HURTING HER
SHE’LL KEEP BEING QUIET
SHE MIGHT BE HOLDING SOMETHING INSIDE
THAT’LL REALLY, REALLY HURT YOU ONE DAY
I SEE HER IN THE HOSPITAL
BANDAGED FROM FOOT TO HEAD
IN A STATE OF SHOCK
JUST THAT MUCH FROM BEING DEAD
YOU COULDN’T BELIEVE THE GIRL
WOULD DO SOMETHING LIKE THIS, HA
YOU DIDN’T THINK THE GIRL HAD THE NERVE
BUT HERE YOU ARE – I GUESS ACTION SPEAKS LOUDER THAN WORDS
♪♫•*¨*•.¸¸♥¸¸.•*¨*•♫♪
Leggs
August 30th, 2012
12:00 pm
Comon ~ she made the show SNAPPED!
disco
August 30th, 2012
12:00 pm
PG – chicks playing in food is awfully common. as low down, dirty, trifling and vindictive as I can be, I will not put anything in anyone’s food. I may have mentioned a friend who went in her dude’s refrigerator and put visine in his water bottles. I’m like chick that’s attempted murder. she didn’t seem to care that he could possibly give a visitor a glass of tainted water. I’m crazy but some chicks are a whole nother kind of crazy.
Leggs
August 30th, 2012
12:01 pm
Bluz ~ how you wind up throwing your own things and not know it. Don’t even see how that’s possible. Did you guys dress alike?
Poppa Grande
August 30th, 2012
12:01 pm
Are you talking about the chick with the knife that she claimed in open court that was for pickled pig feet? I may have my Georgia Beauties snapped locas confused.
disco
August 30th, 2012
12:02 pm
okay bluz. I was going to let it slide but all of your crazy stuff is extra crazy. going off to look for a dude but having no idea where he might be so just cruising the highway and now here you go throwing your own stuff out the window to get attention. I never would have thought that you, of all people, would need lessons on being crazy. lol.
Comon Cents
August 30th, 2012
12:03 pm
disco~ It’s not love related, but you reminded me of the MENSA guy that poisioned his neighbors cokes with arsenic or something like that and ended up killing 3 membners of the family before he was caught.
kimmie
August 30th, 2012
12:05 pm
Got me lookin, so cra-zy, my ba-by
I’m not myself
Lately I’m foolish
I don’t do this!
Comon Cents
August 30th, 2012
12:06 pm
PG~ Na, you got them mixed up. This chick went to the side chick’s house and shot him out in the front yard. And she shot him with a gun that had a gold plated handle that she was given by her father. It was CRAZY! She said she shot him because he was headed towards his car and she knew he kept a gun in the door of his car so she feared for her safety.
Sassy Me...PYT :-)
August 30th, 2012
12:07 pm
I GUESS ACTION SPEAKS LOUDER THAN WORDS
Yep ain’t nuthin a pot of grits won’t solve…
Poppa Grande
August 30th, 2012
12:07 pm
I guess it is why I don’t like gravy or any sauce over my food. i am a plain jane kinda guy.
Speaking of food, I had NO idea that Pollo Tropical was near Cumberland Mall. I used to eat that in Miami. I filled up all the rides at Costco since they are the only place with gas under $4.00. ( $3.77 for regular unleaded and 3.97 for premium unleaded) I drove back and forth three times since the Mrs. is in NYC for a trial that may end in settlement today.
I loved Pollo Tropical in Miami. It was good last night, but a little different than I remember.
Poppa Grande
August 30th, 2012
12:08 pm
Oh…I had may Locas mixed up.
kimmie
August 30th, 2012
12:09 pm
I did a few weak drive-bys on dude I mentioned before, but that & the phone stalking was about the extent of my crazy. I was always scared to do more, because it would be just my luck to mess with the WRONG dude! None of the dudes I dated were abusives or anything, but I knew they didn’t take no mess, so I didn’t push it!
Bluzgirl...Today is My Friday!!!!
August 30th, 2012
12:09 pm
Leggs – I knew I was throwing my own stuff, but nothing breakable! He ticked me off on my birthday and I went nutty on him. I won’t even tell you what else happened that night, but he kicked in my front door. After that particular night, we both apologized for our crazy behavior and promised to put it behind us. He would try to throw things back up in my face, but I’d have to stop him and tell him we made a promise and he did some things that night too.
disco…the going off looking for dude when we had no idea where he was was my friend’s decision. It was her man. I just went along for the ride. If we had found him, I would have been able to stop her from killing him!
Bluzgirl...Today is My Friday!!!!
August 30th, 2012
12:13 pm
My girlfriends and I tell each other our embarrassing stories of our psychotic behaviors. It’s the men who got us to that point! Once it gets to that point, it’s time to go…
Comon Cents
August 30th, 2012
12:17 pm
Sassy~ No you did not pull out the Al Green! SMDH! Grits brought that man to the Gospel!
disco
August 30th, 2012
12:18 pm
I don’t blame my crazy on men. my crazy is inherited. I tell folks I come from a long line of crazy. I’ll unleash my crazy on my own child if need be. I’ve said before, sometimes crazy gets results.
Willie Dynamite
August 30th, 2012
12:19 pm
Pops – yep I went back and read. I asked because I’ve hung out with quite a few NFLers and a few were just short of qualifying for the pension. Those guys had genuine disdain.
Bluzgirl...Today is My Friday!!!!
August 30th, 2012
12:23 pm
It’s just easier to blame the craziness on the men! If they didn’t cut up, we wouldn’t go crazy on them! LOL
Comon Cents
August 30th, 2012
12:26 pm
disco/Bluz~ I think that most of our crazy is inherited, however, that being said, there is a point that a man can push you to that will push you over a line you wouldn’t normally cross.
Dynamic
August 30th, 2012
12:28 pm
When I blacked my ex’s eye, he called me crazy….I disagree
kimmie
August 30th, 2012
12:28 pm
disco – Yeah, I take ownership for my bit of crazy. I never wanted any dude to think he had that much power over me, but you are right, sometimes you gotta let em know you WILL go there if need be!
Bluzgirl...Today is My Friday!!!!
August 30th, 2012
12:37 pm
I do take ownership for some of my crazy also, but boy, did he know how to push those buttons…He would do something SO wrong and then I would react. I told him that I had no problem showing him crazy!
disco
August 30th, 2012
12:40 pm
one of my cousins was one of those parents who always threatened her kids but never had any follow through. needless to say she had four, wide open A kids. one day I was visiting and I snatched up child number two and tore her little behind up and sat her on the couch. after whooping child number two all 3 of the other kids lined up on the couch beside her. my cousin talking about I need to visit more often. no, you need to check your kids. another time a group of cousins and I were at an amusement park in new York with our kids. we’re all standing in line for food and the kids were a little too rowdy. I said something to check our kids and messed around and scared the daylights out of some random little boy. I turned around to apologize to his parents and they were both like, no need. apparently he needed some get right too. i say all that to say that most of the kids in my family really do think I’m crazy. my brother and cousins actually threaten their kids with me. don’t make me call disco. apparently the threat is highly effective. lol.
i'm swiss
August 30th, 2012
12:41 pm
Dang…
See now, this is how dudes end up shirtless on “Cops,” talking about “She had it coming! That b!tch crazy!” Not condoning, just saying…
Leggs
August 30th, 2012
12:42 pm
“I knew I was throwing my own stuff, but nothing breakable” – REALLY???? WTH did you hope to accomplish by messing up your own items? You’re willing to ruin your own things (breakable or not) for some sympathy?? Makes me think of the man giving his woman a black eye and turns around and says “look at what you made me do.” Your boat has many holes, no wonder it’s always in choppy water.
To this day, I still don’t understand why women get into an argument/fight with their SO and start breaking items in the house, throwing glasses, dishes, etc. I don’t care how angry I get, I’m not destroying my own stuff. That belief and the fact that I didn’t want to go to jail prevented me from dropping that lamp I had in hand over my ex’s shiny bald head.
Bluzgirl...Today is My Friday!!!!
August 30th, 2012
12:46 pm
Leggs – Well…to my defense, that was after partying hard for my birthday and having 2 pints of rum and a couple of jagerbombs. He really was terrible to me that night…two years in a row, he ruined my birthday by being a selfish pr*ck…God…I wish I had seen all of that and ended it way sooner than I did. It’s amazing how you can put with so much because you think you’re in love…
Leggs
August 30th, 2012
12:50 pm
2 pints of rum and a couple nasty arse jagers…you were still able to lift your arms…WOW.
Willie Dynamite
August 30th, 2012
12:51 pm
Jagerbombs = white boy wasted
Leggs
August 30th, 2012
12:52 pm
And when women set out and intentionally ruin or throw their own stuff out the window they’re crying for help and attention. But, more importantly, they’ve now let that man know how much power he has over her! That’s my take…
Bluzgirl...Today is My Friday!!!!
August 30th, 2012
12:52 pm
Leggs – I had some kind of super strength that night. Like I said, the window I opened had not been able to be opened since I moved in the house. I have no idea how I did it. Lets just say I wasn’t thinking strait and he was being a great big jerk…
disco
August 30th, 2012
12:53 pm
leggs – right. I’m all about destruction of property but I sure as heck won’t be destructing my own property. now I will admit that I have acted a fool with some “gifted” property. you know “MF I don’t need you or this janky A (insert item here) you bought. go give it to your raggedy A momma”. lol.
Comon Cents
August 30th, 2012
12:53 pm
Leggs~ I haven’t been here long, but I am amazed that you are amazed at Bluz’s crazies. When I read the topic tis morning, I knew Bluz was gonna have some stories for us just based on what I have seen since I got here (no offense Bluz). TBH, I thought disco would have more than she did because she strikes me as the “I will cut your sorry a$$” type. I know that back in my heyday, I definitely had my share of stalkerish moments. Although, and I am sure PG can back me up on this, most females who are in criminal defense are, while maybe not flow blown psychos, we tend to have crazy-ish tendencies. Trust, I know who I am…
Leggs
August 30th, 2012
12:54 pm
I remember when Miester’s came on the scene. Was hanging at Knickerbockers downtown behind The Candler Bldg. What a nasty, foul tasting drink. Don’t know how anyone could stomach that, yet alone able to swallow it.
Bluzgirl...Today is My Friday!!!!
August 30th, 2012
12:55 pm
I guess there were times that it was better for me to break something than to pounce on him. I sure wanted to at times…I never broke anything important. Usually just threw books or plastic bottles, or pictures of us…
Man…I’m reading what I’m typing and really wondering why I let it get to that level!!! He would just push and push…
Bluzgirl...Today is My Friday!!!!
August 30th, 2012
12:57 pm
I used to drink jager straight…but…I got so sick on it. After that, I could only drink it mixed with red bull. I have come to the realization, though, that drinking jager on top of other liquor is REALLY REALLY BAD!!! That was part of my problem last Friday night…
Leggs
August 30th, 2012
12:58 pm
:you know “MF I don’t need you or this janky A (insert item here) you bought. go give it to your raggedy A momma”.
That’s different, disco.
Comon ~ I’m always amazed at the length a person will go to get their point across.
i'm swiss
August 30th, 2012
12:59 pm
Hey Bluz, if you notice an odd smell in SC this weekend, this might be why.
Leggs
August 30th, 2012
1:00 pm
I don’t advocate violence, Bluz, but if he was as big as you say he was, he wouldn’t have felt any of your blows. Umm, I think I’m thinking of 3rdWheel’s man. Bluz was your ex fat on the verge of obesity?
Leggs
August 30th, 2012
1:01 pm
Jager is too dang potent to drink with other liquor.
i'm swiss
August 30th, 2012
1:02 pm
And on the topic of crazy… Just damn…
i'm swiss
August 30th, 2012
1:04 pm
“on the verge of obesity”
3rdWheel’s dude was well past the “verge” of obesity. His fat ass had already fully enveloped obesity, from what I recall.
Comon Cents
August 30th, 2012
1:05 pm
Umm, I think I’m thinking of 3rdWheel’s man. Bluz was your ex fat on the verge of obesity
Speaking of which, where is ITL today? You lurking today, Light?!?
Leggs
August 30th, 2012
1:05 pm
You’re right, swiss. I’m picturing 3rdWheel’s guy mixed in with Bluz’ guy.
Bluzgirl...Today is My Friday!!!!
August 30th, 2012
1:07 pm
swiss – NOOOOOOO!!!!! Please God, let there be no smell where I will be!!!
Leggs
August 30th, 2012
1:18 pm
UGGGHH, 1.5 all associates mtg. right after lunch. Must remember to bring toothpicks to keep my eyes open. BRB…no I won’t!
Comon Cents
August 30th, 2012
1:19 pm
I’m picturing 3rdWheel’s guy mixed in with Bluz’ guy.
I think I just threw up in my mouth a little…
Bluzgirl...Today is My Friday!!!!
August 30th, 2012
1:23 pm
Uh oh…blog monster ate my post.
No…my ex was not on the verge of obesity. He was a tad overweight, but not too bad. He would have definitely felt the punches, but I didn’t want to let it get that far.
Jazzyone
August 30th, 2012
2:04 pm
What it do Boo’s.
Nope never have i done anything crazy, i do tend to give my all, that way when im done i have no regrets and can walk away if necessary without looking back..it is what it is life is so short for one not to give freely of ones heart and live outloud, be vulnerable, be open and I think i have mastered it pretty well.
disco
August 30th, 2012
2:07 pm
leggs – re that 12:58. I didn’t think that counted either.
CC – I’ve got more tales but my grandma told me to never let the left hand know what the right hand was doing. I’ll share some but I won’t share all.
Comon Cents
August 30th, 2012
2:09 pm
disco~ That’s what I thought!
disco
August 30th, 2012
2:13 pm
CC – you don’t even really want to know the half when it comes to me and all my infamous “cousins”. we do have some good times when we get together and start talking about “remember when”. most of our remember whens have at least a misdemeanor involved.
Poppa Grande
August 30th, 2012
2:21 pm
Willie Dynamite -
I hung around long enough for a Pension.
Shoot, I still use my NFL card for free rides when I’ve drank too much.
Poppa Grande
August 30th, 2012
2:25 pm
I don’t do Jager because I’ve seen the results on other people and I am not gonna get that out of my bodily functions.
I don’t do Golden Grain because I have a friend whose vocal chords were burnt by the stuff. He cannot speak to this day, and he drank it while we went to Daytona for Spring Break in 1992. So, he hasn’t been able to speak a word in 20 years. dang.
Bluzgirl...Today is My Friday!!!!
August 30th, 2012
2:31 pm
Wow PG!!! I’ve never heard of that happening!
I know for sure that when I drink Jager, something crazy is going to happen. Don’t ask me why I accept and then ask for Jagerbombs at my old hangout. They don’t charge me for them…All I know is that I’m staying far away from liquor for a LONG time!!!
disco
August 30th, 2012
2:31 pm
PG – dude hasn’t been able to speak in all this time behind golden grain??? where can I buy some??? I kid but there are a few folks I’d like to give a few shots to.
Celisea
August 30th, 2012
2:36 pm
Dern….I come back from a long lunch and this thing is at a snail’s pace. Thought I would be able to catch a few laughs.
disco – Sometimes those “remember whens” are not for the faint of heart. Folks don’t know how to hear some things without rightly digesting and getting hung up. Some things should go to the grave.
Comon Cents
August 30th, 2012
2:42 pm
C~ It is my opinion that some of the best moments in life are the ones you can’t tell anyone about.
Poppa Grande
August 30th, 2012
2:43 pm
disco -
Comon Cents
August 30th, 2012
2:44 pm
disco~ I have a co-worker who stopped speaking to me about 2 months ago and I swear to GOD I just want to stop her in the hall and say “What did I do?” That way I can do it to others I don’t want to talk to me either.
disco
August 30th, 2012
2:44 pm
C – agreed. some things should go to the grave but I doubt many things do. it all usually comes out in the wash. that whole what you do in the dark thing.
Poppa Grande
August 30th, 2012
2:44 pm
**It is my opinion that some of the best moments in life are the ones you can’t tell anyone about.
**
Ain’t that the truth!
Celisea
August 30th, 2012
2:48 pm
disco – Sometimes, sometimes not. I think there’s a distinct difference between folks that have a past and folks that do dirt. But yep, I would agree on your assessment. You should never be afraid of either as long as you make amends or good rolling with what’s dished…lol
CC – I disagree.
Poppa Grande
August 30th, 2012
2:49 pm
BTW, Golden Grain is 190 proof so it is pretty potent. It is made by the same people who make Everclear. (Luxco.)
Poppa Grande
August 30th, 2012
2:50 pm
That was for you disco maybe you can order it online or something. I looked it up for ya.
disco
August 30th, 2012
2:51 pm
there’s definitely a difference between a past and dirt. in my opinion, dirt is the intentional wrongdoing you do. one’s run of the mill past can consist of accidents or mistakes or just not knowing better but dirt, you knew what you were doing, you knew it was wrong and you did it knowing full well it was wrong. yeah. I’ve got a past and I’ve done some dirt.
Celisea
August 30th, 2012
2:51 pm
I say that because I’ve seen some stuff that I try not to let sway me but I can’t help but thing, dang I can’t believe you took it “there” I had a friend that was sooo hurt by a dude and at the height of her anger, was out with it…”I can’t believe I let him do so and so to me”…I had my barf bag (lololol) nearby but I was just listening. To this day, when I think of her, that is top of mind.
I guess I would be one of those folks that might not be able to handle some stuff then eh?
Celisea
August 30th, 2012
2:53 pm
in my opinion, dirt is the intentional wrongdoing you do versus stuff you did while high or drunk or crazy in love….lololol yep, definitely a difference.
Celisea
August 30th, 2012
2:53 pm
Sorry…I was adding to disco’s 2:51
Comon Cents
August 30th, 2012
2:58 pm
C & disco~ Not talking about doing dirt, just some of tose “remember whens” that ma or may not involve misdemeanors. Some of those moments, although you could not pay me to go back to them now, are the BEST moments. You look back and laugh and laugh over the stupidity (insanesness) of what you did.
i'm swiss
August 30th, 2012
2:58 pm
Damn @ the Golden Grain vocal chord burning. That sucks. Although, I have to say if drinking Golden Grain burns your vocal chords, it sounds to me like you’re not doing it right.
I was the “Benjamin Button” of alcoholism. I started out w/ Golden Grain and have worked my way backwards to beer over time.
Comon Cents
August 30th, 2012
3:00 pm
PG~ Did you see my comment earlier about the psycho-ness/ crazy tendencies of female criminal defense attorneys?
disco
August 30th, 2012
3:01 pm
swiss – Benjamin button of alcoholism. that’s a good one (in my radio to coach jones voice). where are you now? alcohol wise I mean? what are you drinking?
Celisea
August 30th, 2012
3:01 pm
CC – Yeah, everybody’s got at least one of those.
Willie Dynamite
August 30th, 2012
3:02 pm
Yep plenty of dirt and some of it don’t wash off.
Pops – Daytona 91-94 stories that can never be openly talked about. I have a few buddies froim back then when we get together now with our families. We start talking the remember whens and then that silence comes over you and we look at each other. Nope not that story.
Poppa Grande
August 30th, 2012
3:03 pm
Suisse -
Yeah, I’ve thought that he may have had weak chords or something. I know others that other that didn’t have any problems that a toilet and/or a some sleep wouldn’t cure. I wouldn’t have believed it if I hadn’t seen it myself.
BTW, congrats on finally getting Russ named UGA IX. He should have been discriminated against just because he wasn’t solid white in the first place.
disco
August 30th, 2012
3:07 pm
speaking of crazy females, my son was dating a little Sudanese girl once. I really liked her to but that’s neither here nor there. while they were dating she used to always tell him to watch out for Nigerians because they were crazy. my son just took it as an “east coast/west coast” thing and thought nothing of it. at some point in the future he met a Nigerian girl at school. the girl invited him to dinner at her family’s house. big group of folks, extended family and all. something relatively inconsequential happened and the girl snapped and hemmed him up in the hallway. he said he was literally backed into a corner with his hands at his sides. he said he didn’t want to lift them because he didn’t want to accidently touch her and open a whole nother can of worms. he immediately called me from the driveway as he was leaving talking about the Sudanese girl was right. lol.
Bluzgirl...Today is My Friday!!!!
August 30th, 2012
3:11 pm
I still have just under 2 hours until I get out of here and I’ve decided that I’m done working! There is nothing that can’t wait until Tuesday!!!
Poppa Grande
August 30th, 2012
3:14 pm
Willie Dynamite –
I don’t talk about the other stuff in Daytona. It is like the pictures in the Hangover. We talked about them once and never again. So, we don’t either. That is a tame story.
However, I can’t hear splack pack and not think of Daytona. Mad Cobra’s “Flex” falls into the category as well.
"Guuja the Troll"
August 30th, 2012
3:15 pm
Face it, you guys need me, who else is gonna come here and do what I do so you can feel better about yourself by raising yourselves above my words.
Wise Diva wrote:”I know I have publicly admitted to being a completely lazy dater with barely enough energy to devote to one guy.”
We have a word for men and women that do this and it is called a “Adulterer” shame on you.
i'm swiss
August 30th, 2012
3:22 pm
disco — I’m mostly a beer & bourbon drinker these days (not at the same time).
PG — Yeah, I’m happy for Russ. I’m all for nixing that “all white” requirement for Uga. That’s part of the reason the last few haven’t lasted very long — too much inbreeding to try to get that “all white” puppy. Time to broaden the gene pool, for sure.
Leggs
August 30th, 2012
3:33 pm
Ok, I come back to the craziest statement for the day:
“Wise Diva wrote:”I know I have publicly admitted to being a completely lazy dater with barely enough energy to devote to one guy. We have a word for men and women that do this and it is called a “Adulterer” shame on you.”
How does that spell out adulterer??? Doing too many things in life and not much left barely to date, but one is an adulterer?????
Leggs
August 30th, 2012
3:41 pm
Have you guys heard about this??
http://www.nydailynews.com/new-york/hip-hop-manager-chris-lighty-dead-apparent-suicide-bronx-apartment-cops-article-1.1148073
Comon Cents
August 30th, 2012
3:42 pm
Leggs~ I thought it was just me and that I was tired and misreading the troll, but obviously not. I know ol’ boy must have a LOT of skeletons in his closet. He didn’t just drive by at night. He was the type that would stop if there was a random car parked in the driveway. Come to the door acting crazy and you’d be like “That’s my mom’s car” and he would go all psycho and swear you were lying. That’s when you standing there shaking your head like “How the Hell did I end up here?!?”
Comon Cents
August 30th, 2012
3:45 pm
Well, on today’s topic, I guess that takes it to the extreme of what someone would do for love. SMDH… Sad.
Leggs
August 30th, 2012
3:48 pm
Could be love, or could be his way out of paying the IRS like the article alludes to…who knows?
Leggs
August 30th, 2012
3:56 pm
As a result of the argument and possible financial woes causing the argument. Time will tell…
Comon Cents
August 30th, 2012
4:17 pm
I couldn’t go out like that though. I have been really upset before, but never upset enough to off myself. IJS..
Leggs
August 30th, 2012
4:21 pm
Same here. I think about those jumping to their deaths if the happen to change their minds during mid fall. Some things you just can’t bonce back from (no pun intended).
Bluzgirl...Today is My Friday!!!!
August 30th, 2012
4:24 pm
Why is it that I’m trying to be in vacation mode and I get super swamped at the end of the day?!?!?! Ergh!!!
Leggs
August 30th, 2012
4:27 pm
PEACE!
SlimUno
August 30th, 2012
4:30 pm
quietly peeking back in
Hi there again folks….seems i will be working a little late today but thank goodness my bosses boss has left the Buiiiiiilllllding!!!!!!!
SlimUno
August 30th, 2012
4:30 pm
Leggs – This is almost week 2 for you without Lil Leggs. You holding up okay?
Into the Light
August 30th, 2012
4:45 pm
Afternoon, all!
I know I’m late to the party…been in meetings and offsite most of the day.
Nothing on topic, but I did see PG’s comments re: Golden Grain.
There but for the grace of God….. 
Comon Cents
August 30th, 2012
4:50 pm
ITL~ Is that for past indiscretions or the ones you are going to commit this weekend?
BTW, I was calling for you earlier. Go back and read.
Comon Cents
August 30th, 2012
4:51 pm
Slim/ITL et al~ I will check you guys later. Have a great weekend if I don’t catch up tomorrow!
Bluzgirl...Today is My Friday!!!!
August 30th, 2012
4:51 pm
Alright folks…I’m out! Have a great long weekend. I’ll try to check in on Tuesday when I get back.
"Guuja the Troll"
August 30th, 2012
4:52 pm
Damn shame.
"Guuja the Troll"
August 30th, 2012
4:52 pm
Quit ya drinking Bluzgirl
SlimUno
August 30th, 2012
4:56 pm
Alrighty then…check yall later I suppose.
Into the Light
August 30th, 2012
4:58 pm
@CC: Past. Definitely past.
Night, Bluz!
@Slim: I’m still here…..
"Guuja the Troll"
August 30th, 2012
4:59 pm
Damn shame
"Guuja the Troll"
August 30th, 2012
5:00 pm
Enter your comments here
ATL Guy
August 30th, 2012
5:00 pm
I here too Slim!
SlimUno
August 30th, 2012
5:12 pm
I’m still here…so what’s the after hours topic?
ATL Guy
August 30th, 2012
5:26 pm
Hooking up!!! What up, Slim??
ATL Guy
August 30th, 2012
5:27 pm
I just move around!
SlimUno
August 30th, 2012
5:35 pm
Hooking up? Um…well I’m not into hooking up but if you have some good hook up stories, i’m open to read them lol
ATL Guy
August 30th, 2012
5:36 pm
I’m working on tall sexy Comon too! She just gotta make up mind on her and the hubs true height. I saw 6′6″ at first for the hubs and 6′3″ yesterday. I can’t handle 6′6″ but I tackle 6′3″
Which is sexy?
ATL Guy
August 30th, 2012
5:38 pm
No stories, Slim. I’m a lover or destroyer!
SlimUno
August 30th, 2012
5:46 pm
Well, the keyword in your 536 is hubs…so that means, or at least it should mean, KIM ….keep it moving
ATL Guy
August 30th, 2012
5:55 pm
I don’t respect that. I just move around. Creep creep!
SlimUno
August 30th, 2012
6:08 pm
AG – oooook, do you then. Watch that karma train though
ATL Guy
August 30th, 2012
6:35 pm
I eat karma for snacks. I don’t care about that stuff. I destroy.
ATL Guy
August 30th, 2012
8:50 pm
Blood in the water! Low hanging fruit is the well traveled road! Beat them if they’re too much!
Violetta
August 30th, 2012
9:21 pm
My craziest story ends in with seething hated.
Bella Angelina
August 30th, 2012
11:25 pm
Crazy stunts? Returning fourfold, the disrespect, deceit, lies, games and tricks handed to me. Mine was never warranted whereas being returned? Much more deserving.
Single and Happy (Jamaican sunrise :-)
August 31st, 2012
4:19 pm
ahhh such a fun day