Craziest stunt for love?
I know I have publicly admitted to being a completely lazy dater with barely enough energy to devote to one guy. I can also confess that I am cautious (overly?) about giving my heart to someone and being vulnerable.
The reason I am this way, though – is because I have been stuck on stupid for a guy before. It wasn’t pretty, people! I was not the rational, level-headed, wise woman you all know and love (*cough*) today. I was the snooping, insecure, pull out all the stops kind of girl. Why? Because a man had me “feeling” as if I was head over heels.
That’s right people, we have all pulled some crazy stunts in the name of “love” or lust, or infatuation. Let’s confess. What is the craziest thing you have done to impress someone or an attempt to make someone fall for you?
No judgment zone, right? Right?
By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog
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Willie Dynamite
August 30th, 2012
3:02 pm
Yep plenty of dirt and some of it don’t wash off.
Pops – Daytona 91-94 stories that can never be openly talked about. I have a few buddies froim back then when we get together now with our families. We start talking the remember whens and then that silence comes over you and we look at each other. Nope not that story.
Poppa Grande
August 30th, 2012
3:03 pm
Suisse -
Yeah, I’ve thought that he may have had weak chords or something. I know others that other that didn’t have any problems that a toilet and/or a some sleep wouldn’t cure. I wouldn’t have believed it if I hadn’t seen it myself.
BTW, congrats on finally getting Russ named UGA IX. He should have been discriminated against just because he wasn’t solid white in the first place.
disco
August 30th, 2012
3:07 pm
speaking of crazy females, my son was dating a little Sudanese girl once. I really liked her to but that’s neither here nor there. while they were dating she used to always tell him to watch out for Nigerians because they were crazy. my son just took it as an “east coast/west coast” thing and thought nothing of it. at some point in the future he met a Nigerian girl at school. the girl invited him to dinner at her family’s house. big group of folks, extended family and all. something relatively inconsequential happened and the girl snapped and hemmed him up in the hallway. he said he was literally backed into a corner with his hands at his sides. he said he didn’t want to lift them because he didn’t want to accidently touch her and open a whole nother can of worms. he immediately called me from the driveway as he was leaving talking about the Sudanese girl was right. lol.
Bluzgirl...Today is My Friday!!!!
August 30th, 2012
3:11 pm
I still have just under 2 hours until I get out of here and I’ve decided that I’m done working! There is nothing that can’t wait until Tuesday!!!
Poppa Grande
August 30th, 2012
3:14 pm
Willie Dynamite –
I don’t talk about the other stuff in Daytona. It is like the pictures in the Hangover. We talked about them once and never again. So, we don’t either. That is a tame story.
However, I can’t hear splack pack and not think of Daytona. Mad Cobra’s “Flex” falls into the category as well.
"Guuja the Troll"
August 30th, 2012
3:15 pm
Face it, you guys need me, who else is gonna come here and do what I do so you can feel better about yourself by raising yourselves above my words.
Wise Diva wrote:”I know I have publicly admitted to being a completely lazy dater with barely enough energy to devote to one guy.”
We have a word for men and women that do this and it is called a “Adulterer” shame on you.
i'm swiss
August 30th, 2012
3:22 pm
disco — I’m mostly a beer & bourbon drinker these days (not at the same time).
PG — Yeah, I’m happy for Russ. I’m all for nixing that “all white” requirement for Uga. That’s part of the reason the last few haven’t lasted very long — too much inbreeding to try to get that “all white” puppy. Time to broaden the gene pool, for sure.
Leggs
August 30th, 2012
3:33 pm
Ok, I come back to the craziest statement for the day:
“Wise Diva wrote:”I know I have publicly admitted to being a completely lazy dater with barely enough energy to devote to one guy. We have a word for men and women that do this and it is called a “Adulterer” shame on you.”
How does that spell out adulterer??? Doing too many things in life and not much left barely to date, but one is an adulterer?????
Leggs
August 30th, 2012
3:41 pm
Have you guys heard about this??
http://www.nydailynews.com/new-york/hip-hop-manager-chris-lighty-dead-apparent-suicide-bronx-apartment-cops-article-1.1148073
Comon Cents
August 30th, 2012
3:42 pm
Leggs~ I thought it was just me and that I was tired and misreading the troll, but obviously not. I know ol’ boy must have a LOT of skeletons in his closet. He didn’t just drive by at night. He was the type that would stop if there was a random car parked in the driveway. Come to the door acting crazy and you’d be like “That’s my mom’s car” and he would go all psycho and swear you were lying. That’s when you standing there shaking your head like “How the Hell did I end up here?!?”
Comon Cents
August 30th, 2012
3:45 pm
Well, on today’s topic, I guess that takes it to the extreme of what someone would do for love. SMDH… Sad.
Leggs
August 30th, 2012
3:48 pm
Could be love, or could be his way out of paying the IRS like the article alludes to…who knows?
Leggs
August 30th, 2012
3:56 pm
As a result of the argument and possible financial woes causing the argument. Time will tell…
Comon Cents
August 30th, 2012
4:17 pm
I couldn’t go out like that though. I have been really upset before, but never upset enough to off myself. IJS..
Leggs
August 30th, 2012
4:21 pm
Same here. I think about those jumping to their deaths if the happen to change their minds during mid fall. Some things you just can’t bonce back from (no pun intended).
Bluzgirl...Today is My Friday!!!!
August 30th, 2012
4:24 pm
Why is it that I’m trying to be in vacation mode and I get super swamped at the end of the day?!?!?! Ergh!!!
Leggs
August 30th, 2012
4:27 pm
PEACE!
SlimUno
August 30th, 2012
4:30 pm
quietly peeking back in
Hi there again folks….seems i will be working a little late today but thank goodness my bosses boss has left the Buiiiiiilllllding!!!!!!!
SlimUno
August 30th, 2012
4:30 pm
Leggs – This is almost week 2 for you without Lil Leggs. You holding up okay?
Into the Light
August 30th, 2012
4:45 pm
Afternoon, all!
I know I’m late to the party…been in meetings and offsite most of the day.
Nothing on topic, but I did see PG’s comments re: Golden Grain.
There but for the grace of God….. 
Comon Cents
August 30th, 2012
4:50 pm
ITL~ Is that for past indiscretions or the ones you are going to commit this weekend?
BTW, I was calling for you earlier. Go back and read.
Comon Cents
August 30th, 2012
4:51 pm
Slim/ITL et al~ I will check you guys later. Have a great weekend if I don’t catch up tomorrow!
Bluzgirl...Today is My Friday!!!!
August 30th, 2012
4:51 pm
Alright folks…I’m out! Have a great long weekend. I’ll try to check in on Tuesday when I get back.
"Guuja the Troll"
August 30th, 2012
4:52 pm
Damn shame.
"Guuja the Troll"
August 30th, 2012
4:52 pm
Quit ya drinking Bluzgirl
SlimUno
August 30th, 2012
4:56 pm
Alrighty then…check yall later I suppose.
Into the Light
August 30th, 2012
4:58 pm
@CC: Past. Definitely past.
Night, Bluz!
@Slim: I’m still here…..
"Guuja the Troll"
August 30th, 2012
4:59 pm
Damn shame
"Guuja the Troll"
August 30th, 2012
5:00 pm
Enter your comments here
ATL Guy
August 30th, 2012
5:00 pm
I here too Slim!
SlimUno
August 30th, 2012
5:12 pm
I’m still here…so what’s the after hours topic?
ATL Guy
August 30th, 2012
5:26 pm
Hooking up!!! What up, Slim??
ATL Guy
August 30th, 2012
5:27 pm
I just move around!
SlimUno
August 30th, 2012
5:35 pm
Hooking up? Um…well I’m not into hooking up but if you have some good hook up stories, i’m open to read them lol
ATL Guy
August 30th, 2012
5:36 pm
I’m working on tall sexy Comon too! She just gotta make up mind on her and the hubs true height. I saw 6′6″ at first for the hubs and 6′3″ yesterday. I can’t handle 6′6″ but I tackle 6′3″
Which is sexy?
ATL Guy
August 30th, 2012
5:38 pm
No stories, Slim. I’m a lover or destroyer!
SlimUno
August 30th, 2012
5:46 pm
Well, the keyword in your 536 is hubs…so that means, or at least it should mean, KIM ….keep it moving
ATL Guy
August 30th, 2012
5:55 pm
I don’t respect that. I just move around. Creep creep!
SlimUno
August 30th, 2012
6:08 pm
AG – oooook, do you then. Watch that karma train though
ATL Guy
August 30th, 2012
6:35 pm
I eat karma for snacks. I don’t care about that stuff. I destroy.
ATL Guy
August 30th, 2012
8:50 pm
Blood in the water! Low hanging fruit is the well traveled road! Beat them if they’re too much!
Violetta
August 30th, 2012
9:21 pm
My craziest story ends in with seething hated.
Bella Angelina
August 30th, 2012
11:25 pm
Crazy stunts? Returning fourfold, the disrespect, deceit, lies, games and tricks handed to me. Mine was never warranted whereas being returned? Much more deserving.
Single and Happy (Jamaican sunrise :-)
August 31st, 2012
4:19 pm
ahhh such a fun day