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Craziest stunt for love?

I know I have publicly admitted to being a completely lazy dater with barely enough energy to devote to one guy. I can also confess that I am cautious (overly?) about giving my heart to someone and being vulnerable.

The reason I am this way, though – is because I have been stuck on stupid for a guy before. It wasn’t pretty, people! I was not the rational, level-headed, wise woman you all know and love (*cough*) today. I was the snooping, insecure, pull out all the stops kind of girl. Why? Because a man had me “feeling” as if I was head over heels.

That’s right people, we have all pulled some crazy stunts in the name of “love” or lust, or infatuation. Let’s confess. What is the craziest thing you have done to impress someone or an attempt to make someone fall for you?

No judgment zone, right? Right?

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog

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i'm swiss

August 30th, 2012
12:41 pm

Dang…

See now, this is how dudes end up shirtless on “Cops,” talking about “She had it coming! That b!tch crazy!” Not condoning, just saying…

Leggs

August 30th, 2012
12:42 pm

“I knew I was throwing my own stuff, but nothing breakable” – REALLY???? WTH did you hope to accomplish by messing up your own items? You’re willing to ruin your own things (breakable or not) for some sympathy?? Makes me think of the man giving his woman a black eye and turns around and says “look at what you made me do.” Your boat has many holes, no wonder it’s always in choppy water.

To this day, I still don’t understand why women get into an argument/fight with their SO and start breaking items in the house, throwing glasses, dishes, etc. I don’t care how angry I get, I’m not destroying my own stuff. That belief and the fact that I didn’t want to go to jail prevented me from dropping that lamp I had in hand over my ex’s shiny bald head.

Bluzgirl...Today is My Friday!!!!

August 30th, 2012
12:46 pm

Leggs – Well…to my defense, that was after partying hard for my birthday and having 2 pints of rum and a couple of jagerbombs. He really was terrible to me that night…two years in a row, he ruined my birthday by being a selfish pr*ck…God…I wish I had seen all of that and ended it way sooner than I did. It’s amazing how you can put with so much because you think you’re in love…

Leggs

August 30th, 2012
12:50 pm

2 pints of rum and a couple nasty arse jagers…you were still able to lift your arms…WOW.

Willie Dynamite

August 30th, 2012
12:51 pm

Jagerbombs = white boy wasted

Leggs

August 30th, 2012
12:52 pm

And when women set out and intentionally ruin or throw their own stuff out the window they’re crying for help and attention. But, more importantly, they’ve now let that man know how much power he has over her! That’s my take…

Bluzgirl...Today is My Friday!!!!

August 30th, 2012
12:52 pm

Leggs – I had some kind of super strength that night. Like I said, the window I opened had not been able to be opened since I moved in the house. I have no idea how I did it. Lets just say I wasn’t thinking strait and he was being a great big jerk…

disco

August 30th, 2012
12:53 pm

leggs – right. I’m all about destruction of property but I sure as heck won’t be destructing my own property. now I will admit that I have acted a fool with some “gifted” property. you know “MF I don’t need you or this janky A (insert item here) you bought. go give it to your raggedy A momma”. lol.

Comon Cents

August 30th, 2012
12:53 pm

Leggs~ I haven’t been here long, but I am amazed that you are amazed at Bluz’s crazies. When I read the topic tis morning, I knew Bluz was gonna have some stories for us just based on what I have seen since I got here (no offense Bluz). TBH, I thought disco would have more than she did because she strikes me as the “I will cut your sorry a$$” type. I know that back in my heyday, I definitely had my share of stalkerish moments. Although, and I am sure PG can back me up on this, most females who are in criminal defense are, while maybe not flow blown psychos, we tend to have crazy-ish tendencies. Trust, I know who I am… :lol:

Leggs

August 30th, 2012
12:54 pm

I remember when Miester’s came on the scene. Was hanging at Knickerbockers downtown behind The Candler Bldg. What a nasty, foul tasting drink. Don’t know how anyone could stomach that, yet alone able to swallow it.

Bluzgirl...Today is My Friday!!!!

August 30th, 2012
12:55 pm

I guess there were times that it was better for me to break something than to pounce on him. I sure wanted to at times…I never broke anything important. Usually just threw books or plastic bottles, or pictures of us…

Man…I’m reading what I’m typing and really wondering why I let it get to that level!!! He would just push and push…

Bluzgirl...Today is My Friday!!!!

August 30th, 2012
12:57 pm

I used to drink jager straight…but…I got so sick on it. After that, I could only drink it mixed with red bull. I have come to the realization, though, that drinking jager on top of other liquor is REALLY REALLY BAD!!! That was part of my problem last Friday night…

Leggs

August 30th, 2012
12:58 pm

:you know “MF I don’t need you or this janky A (insert item here) you bought. go give it to your raggedy A momma”.

That’s different, disco. :lol: :lol:

Comon ~ I’m always amazed at the length a person will go to get their point across.

i'm swiss

August 30th, 2012
12:59 pm

Hey Bluz, if you notice an odd smell in SC this weekend, this might be why.

Leggs

August 30th, 2012
1:00 pm

I don’t advocate violence, Bluz, but if he was as big as you say he was, he wouldn’t have felt any of your blows. Umm, I think I’m thinking of 3rdWheel’s man. Bluz was your ex fat on the verge of obesity?

Leggs

August 30th, 2012
1:01 pm

Jager is too dang potent to drink with other liquor.

i'm swiss

August 30th, 2012
1:02 pm

And on the topic of crazy… Just damn…

i'm swiss

August 30th, 2012
1:04 pm

“on the verge of obesity”

3rdWheel’s dude was well past the “verge” of obesity. His fat ass had already fully enveloped obesity, from what I recall.

Comon Cents

August 30th, 2012
1:05 pm

Umm, I think I’m thinking of 3rdWheel’s man. Bluz was your ex fat on the verge of obesity

:lol: :lol: :lol: Wouldn’t that be some isht! First Magnum going to the Mountains with ITL, then 3rdWheels current is Bluz’s ex.

Speaking of which, where is ITL today? You lurking today, Light?!?

Leggs

August 30th, 2012
1:05 pm

You’re right, swiss. I’m picturing 3rdWheel’s guy mixed in with Bluz’ guy.

Bluzgirl...Today is My Friday!!!!

August 30th, 2012
1:07 pm

swiss – NOOOOOOO!!!!! Please God, let there be no smell where I will be!!!

Leggs

August 30th, 2012
1:18 pm

UGGGHH, 1.5 all associates mtg. right after lunch. Must remember to bring toothpicks to keep my eyes open. BRB…no I won’t!

Comon Cents

August 30th, 2012
1:19 pm

I’m picturing 3rdWheel’s guy mixed in with Bluz’ guy.

I think I just threw up in my mouth a little…

Bluzgirl...Today is My Friday!!!!

August 30th, 2012
1:23 pm

Uh oh…blog monster ate my post.

No…my ex was not on the verge of obesity. He was a tad overweight, but not too bad. He would have definitely felt the punches, but I didn’t want to let it get that far.

Jazzyone

August 30th, 2012
2:04 pm

What it do Boo’s.

Nope never have i done anything crazy, i do tend to give my all, that way when im done i have no regrets and can walk away if necessary without looking back..it is what it is life is so short for one not to give freely of ones heart and live outloud, be vulnerable, be open and I think i have mastered it pretty well.

disco

August 30th, 2012
2:07 pm

leggs – re that 12:58. I didn’t think that counted either.

CC – I’ve got more tales but my grandma told me to never let the left hand know what the right hand was doing. I’ll share some but I won’t share all.

Comon Cents

August 30th, 2012
2:09 pm

disco~ That’s what I thought! :lol:

disco

August 30th, 2012
2:13 pm

CC – you don’t even really want to know the half when it comes to me and all my infamous “cousins”. we do have some good times when we get together and start talking about “remember when”. most of our remember whens have at least a misdemeanor involved.

Poppa Grande

August 30th, 2012
2:21 pm

Willie Dynamite -

I hung around long enough for a Pension.

Shoot, I still use my NFL card for free rides when I’ve drank too much.

Poppa Grande

August 30th, 2012
2:25 pm

I don’t do Jager because I’ve seen the results on other people and I am not gonna get that out of my bodily functions.

I don’t do Golden Grain because I have a friend whose vocal chords were burnt by the stuff. He cannot speak to this day, and he drank it while we went to Daytona for Spring Break in 1992. So, he hasn’t been able to speak a word in 20 years. dang.

Bluzgirl...Today is My Friday!!!!

August 30th, 2012
2:31 pm

Wow PG!!! I’ve never heard of that happening!

I know for sure that when I drink Jager, something crazy is going to happen. Don’t ask me why I accept and then ask for Jagerbombs at my old hangout. They don’t charge me for them…All I know is that I’m staying far away from liquor for a LONG time!!!

disco

August 30th, 2012
2:31 pm

PG – dude hasn’t been able to speak in all this time behind golden grain??? where can I buy some??? I kid but there are a few folks I’d like to give a few shots to.

Celisea

August 30th, 2012
2:36 pm

Dern….I come back from a long lunch and this thing is at a snail’s pace. Thought I would be able to catch a few laughs.

disco – Sometimes those “remember whens” are not for the faint of heart. Folks don’t know how to hear some things without rightly digesting and getting hung up. Some things should go to the grave.

Comon Cents

August 30th, 2012
2:42 pm

C~ It is my opinion that some of the best moments in life are the ones you can’t tell anyone about. :lol:

Poppa Grande

August 30th, 2012
2:43 pm

disco -

:lol: I suspect that he got a bad batch or maybe his vocal chords were weak. All I know is that he is mute.

Comon Cents

August 30th, 2012
2:44 pm

disco~ I have a co-worker who stopped speaking to me about 2 months ago and I swear to GOD I just want to stop her in the hall and say “What did I do?” That way I can do it to others I don’t want to talk to me either.

disco

August 30th, 2012
2:44 pm

C – agreed. some things should go to the grave but I doubt many things do. it all usually comes out in the wash. that whole what you do in the dark thing.

Poppa Grande

August 30th, 2012
2:44 pm

**It is my opinion that some of the best moments in life are the ones you can’t tell anyone about. :lol: **

Ain’t that the truth! :evil:

Celisea

August 30th, 2012
2:48 pm

disco – Sometimes, sometimes not. I think there’s a distinct difference between folks that have a past and folks that do dirt. But yep, I would agree on your assessment. You should never be afraid of either as long as you make amends or good rolling with what’s dished…lol

CC – I disagree.

Poppa Grande

August 30th, 2012
2:49 pm

BTW, Golden Grain is 190 proof so it is pretty potent. It is made by the same people who make Everclear. (Luxco.)

Poppa Grande

August 30th, 2012
2:50 pm

That was for you disco maybe you can order it online or something. I looked it up for ya.

disco

August 30th, 2012
2:51 pm

there’s definitely a difference between a past and dirt. in my opinion, dirt is the intentional wrongdoing you do. one’s run of the mill past can consist of accidents or mistakes or just not knowing better but dirt, you knew what you were doing, you knew it was wrong and you did it knowing full well it was wrong. yeah. I’ve got a past and I’ve done some dirt.

Celisea

August 30th, 2012
2:51 pm

I say that because I’ve seen some stuff that I try not to let sway me but I can’t help but thing, dang I can’t believe you took it “there” I had a friend that was sooo hurt by a dude and at the height of her anger, was out with it…”I can’t believe I let him do so and so to me”…I had my barf bag (lololol) nearby but I was just listening. To this day, when I think of her, that is top of mind.

I guess I would be one of those folks that might not be able to handle some stuff then eh?

Celisea

August 30th, 2012
2:53 pm

in my opinion, dirt is the intentional wrongdoing you do versus stuff you did while high or drunk or crazy in love….lololol yep, definitely a difference.

Celisea

August 30th, 2012
2:53 pm

Sorry…I was adding to disco’s 2:51

Comon Cents

August 30th, 2012
2:58 pm

C & disco~ Not talking about doing dirt, just some of tose “remember whens” that ma or may not involve misdemeanors. Some of those moments, although you could not pay me to go back to them now, are the BEST moments. You look back and laugh and laugh over the stupidity (insanesness) of what you did.

i'm swiss

August 30th, 2012
2:58 pm

Damn @ the Golden Grain vocal chord burning. That sucks. Although, I have to say if drinking Golden Grain burns your vocal chords, it sounds to me like you’re not doing it right.

I was the “Benjamin Button” of alcoholism. I started out w/ Golden Grain and have worked my way backwards to beer over time.

Comon Cents

August 30th, 2012
3:00 pm

PG~ Did you see my comment earlier about the psycho-ness/ crazy tendencies of female criminal defense attorneys?

disco

August 30th, 2012
3:01 pm

swiss – Benjamin button of alcoholism. that’s a good one (in my radio to coach jones voice). where are you now? alcohol wise I mean? what are you drinking?

Celisea

August 30th, 2012
3:01 pm

CC – Yeah, everybody’s got at least one of those.