Relationships: What is your hurry?
Have you ever met someone you liked a lot and things started going super fast? It’s like your romantic interest went from potential interest to possible soul mate in a matter of days. What happened?!
I think a lot of us get caught up in someone new that we tend to jump over a couple of steps. What is the urgency? Why the need to rush things on the fast track?
I can remember an older woman telling me that you should not make any decision about a man until you have seen him in every season: winter, spring, summer, fall. Yes, apparently men can have different sides to their personality that is specific to a season!
Old wives tale aside, I can understand why seeing a person in different situations can show you a lot about their character. Do you believe that rushing a relationship can allow a person’s true character to be observed?
How do you slow things down without pushing everything off the rails? Would you be offended if the person you were dating wanted to slow things down?
By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog
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Lily
August 28th, 2012
6:34 am
Diva, the old lady was right. Facades are men of ill intent best weapons. Absolutely be guarded! Some make it their life’s mission to hide behind the smoke screen. CLEAR THE AIR AND FREELY SEE!!
Bertha
August 28th, 2012
7:15 am
How do I slow things down? Tell him to kick rocks, stick an I hate you sign on his back and a kick me sign on his groin. If he sticks around, he’s a keeper.
Exiled!
August 28th, 2012
7:47 am
Third!(hate to say that Liiii….the words aren’t coming out! Lol)
The old woman was tight because men and women do fake..afterall women fake Orgasm!
There Lily!
And according to abc…women cheat more..and abc knows a lot more stuff that most of the women on this blog combined…,enough said.
Ok..enough of the abc pedestal….
Follow your heart..that’s what I would say!
Good morning!
Exiled!
August 28th, 2012
7:47 am
was right
Exiled!
August 28th, 2012
7:48 am
Of
Lily
August 28th, 2012
7:54 am
@Exiled, you have to work on beating Bertha first. lol
Good day!
Celisea: Choir girl (ha ha) with glasses with her sexy hairbun, smarter than a fifth grader, blowing the smoking gun! Played? Neva! Now watch me walk away :)
August 28th, 2012
8:21 am
Morning!!!
I’m here early as I have meetings…boo I’ll have to watch the blog from my laptop in the conference rooms. Right now? NEED COFFEE!!
Be back on topic.
Celisea: Choir girl (ha ha) with glasses with her sexy hairbun, smarter than a fifth grader, blowing the smoking gun! Played? Neva! Now watch me walk away :)
August 28th, 2012
8:22 am
Ut oh, I feel too sugary this morning…lol
Lady~cool beans :-)
August 28th, 2012
8:22 am
Morning! Good Topic! Well I met my boo in late spring early summer and this summer has been a good one getting to know one another and getting through our highs and lows and good and bad days…..We have sustain into a solid relationship and I am enjoying the ride. We discussed recently how we are looking forward to fall and winter (the holidays) with our bond growing stronger. I must say our relationship isn’t candy land and the butterflies have settled a while back. When have had some heated debates and down right arguments but I must say for the most part we don’t go to be angry and we truly communicate our needs and wants and minimize the passive behavior. We even noticed when we disagree we were starting to hit below the belt with sensitive information and we both discussed how it has to stop so I feel we are continuously growing into a more solid couple with our seasons~ He is a good guy of good stock. I respect his wisdom and experiences and he says he learns from me too and I have helped him with a difficult situation. One thing he mentioned yesterday is he values my kindness and our friendship. I must say I love our friendship too. We have a very similar background and it helps our foundation. We were in the Sprint store Saturday past and the rep stated it seems my boo and I has known each other a very long time. I am just happy we are sustaining through the good and bad and moving forward with the same goals.
Celisea: Choir girl (ha ha) with glasses and a sexy hairbun, smarter than a fifth grader, blowing the smoking gun! Played? Neva! Now watch me walk away :)
August 28th, 2012
8:22 am
A bit of maintenance…don’t mind me
Lady~cool beans :-)
August 28th, 2012
8:25 am
meant we don’t go to “bed” angry……….
Lady~cool beans :-)
August 28th, 2012
8:30 am
he eagerly says he is going to marry me~ until that season comes I will enjoy the other seasons humbly~ I just really appreciates he wants to be with me just as much as I want to be with him~ It is not forced at all………
So naturally our relationship has slowed down and took its course bc we did start out very excited bc we both were super happy we both wanted the same things out of an relationship moving forward
Lady~cool beans :-)
August 28th, 2012
8:31 am
Morning C~
SlimUno
August 28th, 2012
8:34 am
Cel – It’s too early to be trying to read a moniker that dayum long. We’re going to have 135 pages by noon with that thang
I’ll be in here on the sneak tip since my bosses boss is in town, popping in periodically. So this already gloomy day is going to be more of a drag ass day without yall
Celisea: Choir girl (ha ha) with glasses and a sexy hairbun, smarter than a fifth grader, blowing the smoking gun! Played? Neva! Now watch me walk away :)
August 28th, 2012
8:35 am
Hey there Lady!
Slim – Girl, you made me laugh out loud…lolololol My baaaad
Celisea: Choir girl (haha) w/glasses and a sexy little bun, smarter than a fifth grader, blowing the smoking gun! Now watch me walk away! :)
August 28th, 2012
8:37 am
Let’s see if this is better.
Celisea: Choir girl (haha) w/glasses and a sexy little bun, smarter than a fifth grader, blowing the smoking gun! Now watch me walk away! :)
August 28th, 2012
8:38 am
Slim – For the morning it’s gonna be drag ass for me as well. Hope none of the execs show up for the meeting. They’re good for just “popping” in all unannounced. I can lurk but I can’t blog….til later.
Lady~cool beans :-)
August 28th, 2012
8:38 am
yeah Slim I said today will be a drag and a long one~ my allergies are acting a fool and I just finished some oatmeal that wasn’t the best but I needed it for breakfast………
Comon Cents
August 28th, 2012
8:43 am
Good Morning, bloggies!
I think that the rushing is the crux of the issue today. People are in such a hurry to be in relationships that the normal “getting to know you” phase is passed by with lightning speed. Then they wonder why things didn’t work. If you are worth knowing, make him/her take the time to get to know you. Be friends first. The friendship will last long after the physical has gone.
SlimUno
August 28th, 2012
8:43 am
Cel – Where are my manners, GOOD MORNING!
Lady – The beau has been recently taking claritin so I guess the allergies thing is piping up for some reason.
Celisea: Choir girl (haha) w/glasses and a sexy little bun, smarter than a fifth grader, blowing the smoking gun! Now watch me walk away! :)
August 28th, 2012
8:45 am
Slim – MORNING!!! LOL
Celisea: Choir girl (haha) w/glasses and a sexy little bun, smarter than a fifth grader, blowing the smoking gun! Now watch me walk away! :)
August 28th, 2012
8:46 am
Well, I did make up for my missed lunch date on Saturday. Is that dishing?? There weren’t any bumping uglies or anything…lololol Just friends. Actually a “friend” that’s been a “friend” for a few months
Lady~cool beans :-)
August 28th, 2012
8:51 am
lol C~ you funny friend!
Celisea: Choir girl (haha) w/glasses and a sexy little bun, smarter than a fifth grader, blowing the smoking gun! Now watch me walk away! :)
August 28th, 2012
8:52 am
And what’s my hurry? Not in one. That’s the worse thing you can do. Dive in tossing all caution to the wind and THEN, you wanna think and set rules and parameters. Actually it’s okay to dive in…at some point, but first set the order of how things should flow.
At the same time, I think it’s possible to pull the brakes if the train is moving a bit too fast. I think though that it’s probably not as easy as it sounds. If you yank the brakes to fast and too hard, you could end up getting derailed.
Comon Cents
August 28th, 2012
8:52 am
Slim/Lady~ Ragweed came out earlier than usual this year because of the weather conditions, so everyone who has allergies is suffering.
Lady~cool beans :-)
August 28th, 2012
8:53 am
yep indeed~
Celisea: Choir girl (haha) w/glasses and a sexy little bun, smarter than a fifth grader, blowing the smoking gun! Now watch me walk away! :)
August 28th, 2012
8:55 am
Lady – I was a bit disappointed Friday but I had to cancel. I’m glad I did. My guy (that I work with), sent me an email this morning and said he could tell much effort went into the reports I compiled and my layout. So, it was worth the cancellation. And you know I have to be skilled in “dating” and getting “me” time in.
Lady~cool beans :-)
August 28th, 2012
8:55 am
Comon Cents it makes no sense….my head is pounding now and I have the sniffles………..I have taken meds but they become immune soon so I just deal with my allergies……sigh
SlimUno
August 28th, 2012
8:55 am
As far as the topic goes, i’m sort of experiencing this as a 3rd party with the whole sister-rush-into-marrying-a-dude-she-only-knew-about-two-weeks. (was claiming to be ‘in love’ after one week) I’m still trying to wrap my head around this whole ordeal but like BF told me last week, it’s her life, her decisions and only thing I can do is be here in case something goes awry.
Lady~cool beans :-)
August 28th, 2012
8:56 am
Yep you know you C and you do you very well so folks know when you cancel its for a good reason. You are not random at all honey!
Celisea: Choir girl (haha) w/glasses and a sexy little bun, smarter than a fifth grader, blowing the smoking gun! Now watch me walk away! :)
August 28th, 2012
8:57 am
Lady – At this point, I’m NEVER without a decongestant. I don’t need so much during the day as often as at night, it’s nothing for my sinuses to run amuck…out of nowhere… I’m not taking everynight but I keep, just in case.
SlimUno
August 28th, 2012
9:00 am
(she’s 27 and he’s 47)
Cel/Lady – Do you all ever do a saline nasal flush? I hear that helps and as nasty as it sound early in the morning while i’m still sleep, it seems to help the beau.
Celisea: Choir girl (haha) w/glasses and a sexy little bun, smarter than a fifth grader, blowing the smoking gun! Now watch me walk away! :)
August 28th, 2012
9:01 am
Slim – I did it once, as the doctor ordered and it worked!! Get it if you haven’t. It’s over the counter too.
Into the Light
August 28th, 2012
9:06 am
Morning, all.
I’m not in a rush for anything or anyone.
And the next time I fall, I’m gonna have to recall, it isn’t love it’s only something new……. (Little wisdom from Amy and Emily for y’all this morning)
@Slim: The sinus rinse is DIS_GUST_ING, but it works like a charm. I take Zyrtec every morning (M-F) and Allega on Sat and Sun and that helps, too.
Still and all….post nasal drip – that’s not sexy.
Into the Light
August 28th, 2012
9:09 am
And where is Swiss when I need someone to acknowledge my musical references??? Hmph!
SlimUno
August 28th, 2012
9:16 am
I had really bad allergies when I was younger, but seems like they have gotten so much better over the years. Thank God!! I got tired of waking up with my eyes swollen, itchy, and stuck together from sneezing 20 times back to back.
Comon Cents
August 28th, 2012
9:16 am
ITL~ Channeling New Edition.
If it isn’t love, why do I feel this way?
Why does she stay on my mind.?
And if it isn’t love, why do I feel so sad?
Make me feel so bad inside?
Lady~cool beans :-)
August 28th, 2012
9:20 am
Slim I am 33 and he is 47 and I must say the 14 year difference is a difference and has its pros and cons………….We battled through that and founded common ground to respect each others experiences too. it wasn’t a piece of cake bc of course we are from two different eras but it worked out………….
Leggs
August 28th, 2012
9:20 am
Morning.
Nice post, Lady.
I’m not sure why so many want to rush a relationship. Caution is key and necessary while navigating dating highs and lows.
I’ve been battling a severe stomach ache since yesterday. Now, I have a runny nose and a lot of sneezing. Thank goodness no fever.
Lady~cool beans :-)
August 28th, 2012
9:21 am
@Common Cents break down what you think that song really means?!? I go see them next month and can’t wait!
Celisea: Choir girl (haha) w/glasses and a sexy little bun, smarter than a fifth grader, blowing the smoking gun! Now watch me walk away! :)
August 28th, 2012
9:21 am
Lady – Have you been attracted to older men or is this something new you tried and found it’s pretty cool?
I have NEVER dated a dude “older.” I’ve got friends that swear by it…lol I don’t knock it just never happened upon it.
Lady~cool beans :-)
August 28th, 2012
9:22 am
my bad Comon Cents with the spelling BTW, I am not sure how long you have been long but you are new to me so excuse my lack of familiarity with your moniker……no pun intended sis~
Exiled!
August 28th, 2012
9:22 am
you don’t go to bed angry?
@LadyJ..u ain’t told us yet u went there ….. Lol
Am I over reading
Ughhhh I’m sensitive!
You blindsided me there Lady…
Celisea: Choir girl (haha) w/glasses and a sexy little bun, smarter than a fifth grader, blowing the smoking gun! Now watch me walk away! :)
August 28th, 2012
9:23 am
One of my friends married at 43 (I gotta say at 43 she was smoookin) and he’s about her age but she told me when she was younger she never dated anyone less than 15 years older than her.
Celisea: Choir girl (haha) w/glasses and a sexy little bun, smarter than a fifth grader, blowing the smoking gun! Now watch me walk away! :)
August 28th, 2012
9:24 am
MMeello – Are you sticking around today? I know you don’t get to blog often now with the gig. How’s that going btw?
Lady~cool beans :-)
August 28th, 2012
9:25 am
Yes C I have been attracted to older post my divorce and comfy in that lane. However, I had to truly respect that he is older and while we are similar and like-minded we are different too (age) meaning way of thinking and processing. I don’t feel awkward at all and we meet each other where we are and learn from the mistakes we make together…..Like I said our relationship isn’t candy land and those butterflies have ceased lol………its the real deal……
Thanks Ms Leggs!
disco
August 28th, 2012
9:27 am
good morning all.
hate to admit it but I’m feeling bertha’s 7:15. lol.
glad I don’t have allergies. sucks to be all of y’all.
Celisea: Choir girl (haha) w/glasses and a sexy little bun, smarter than a fifth grader, blowing the smoking gun! Now watch me walk away! :)
August 28th, 2012
9:27 am
Lady, that’s wonderful. You read happy. Glad it’s working out for you
Lady~cool beans :-)
August 28th, 2012
9:27 am
LMBAO Ex~~~~~ he is a man and bed is apart of this equation and being angry isn’t fun @ the end of the night so we are forced to handle issues in the moment and not let tension build up for passive aggressive behavior. We both divorced on some BS so we just don’t want to make the same mistakes….we are cognitive of our actions…..seriously lol
Exiled!
August 28th, 2012
9:27 am
Cel? Neva played but the Player!
Ha ha
Cel
Celisea: Choir girl (haha) w/glasses and a sexy little bun, smarter than a fifth grader, blowing the smoking gun! Now watch me walk away! :)
August 28th, 2012
9:27 am
disco – I LOVE Bertha’s post. I LOL’d when I read it.
Lady~cool beans :-)
August 28th, 2012
9:28 am
Thanks Sistah C~ ****from the amen corner~ I am happy!!!!
Celisea: Choir girl (haha) w/glasses and a sexy little bun, smarter than a fifth grader, blowing the smoking gun! Now watch me walk away! :)
August 28th, 2012
9:31 am
MMeello – Cel? Neva played but the Player!
Exiled!
August 28th, 2012
9:33 am
Cel..no I can’t play long..
I was missing a good breakfast coz my hotel serves free crappy outta the box eggs and bacon and such ugly tasting coffee..
So I came to work early am in the cafeteria now on the iPhone,blogging away…
Had a nice sumptous omelette with Starbucks
The gig? I have to thank God coz it’s moving,learning and doing it.
I am Chicago.it’s 8:31 so u know I came early
Come 9:00 Im out.
Thnx for checking Cel
In many ways u inspired me to go for the top $$$
Not forgetting that 60k$ versus 100k$ Blog fiasco/discussion some moons back
Into the Light
August 28th, 2012
9:34 am
LOL@CC. How did you get New Edition from the Indigo Girls?!?!? LOL
@disco: yeah, I liked Bertha’s post, too. I’m not a violent person, but I think some people need a good beatdown err now and then to keep ‘em in line. LOL
Comon Cents
August 28th, 2012
9:35 am
Lady~ No offense on the moniker. It’s cool. I think that he is saying he didn’t know he was in love with her until she left him for being a player. I could be wrong…
Wouldn’t be the first time.
Comon Cents
August 28th, 2012
9:36 am
ITL~ I was thinking “Closer I am to Fine” I was feeling the NE vibe this AM…
Comon Cents
August 28th, 2012
9:36 am
*wasn’t
Lady~cool beans :-)
August 28th, 2012
9:36 am
Wow!
Comon Cents
August 28th, 2012
9:37 am
Meeelllooo got me channeling Big Pun “Don’t Want to Be A Player No Mo”
I’m not a player I just crush a lot…
Celisea: Choir girl (haha) w/glasses and a sexy little bun, smarter than a fifth grader, blowing the smoking gun! Now watch me walk away! :)
August 28th, 2012
9:37 am
MMeello – That is absolutely fantab…I’m happy to hear that. And heck yeah, give me the 100K give over the 60K….any day. Not that I ain’t grate for 60K….IJS I’m glad I inspired you.
I’m about to start my pursuit (I think), in looking for something else…same company though. My manager is “pushing” me out front for getting more exposure with the execs and stuff. I have a “live meeting” I’m getting ready to host on a document I created from scratch…being the SME. But, believe it or not, I’m a person that likes to be in the background. I mean pay me and all, but I don’t have to be out front with pompoms and tassles and bazookas…nuh uh
Lady~cool beans :-)
August 28th, 2012
9:38 am
okay cool CC! thx!
Into the Light
August 28th, 2012
9:39 am
@CC: That’s not “Closer to Fine” it’s “Least Complicated.”
Comon Cents
August 28th, 2012
9:40 am
You’re right, ITL. Sorry! My brain is slow this morning..
Comon Cents
August 28th, 2012
9:40 am
Not…enough…coffee…yet…
Lady~cool beans :-)
August 28th, 2012
9:43 am
wow it is going on 10am! I will take that!
Exiled!
August 28th, 2012
9:43 am
Cel…I see opportunities in this area(industry). I am soaking every Lil morsel of info,researching it if I don’t know it already and learning..
I am very easily bored..,maybe a mild ADD
So I’m giving this position 9 to 12 months. After that I want more.
Hopefully by this time next year I will be a mini Mitt Romney
Into the Light
August 28th, 2012
9:49 am
No worries, CC. I’m a little slow this morning, too. One more diet Dr. Pepper and another coffee (or two) are most def in order.
Celisea: Choir girl (haha) w/glasses and a sexy little bun, smarter than a fifth grader, blowing the smoking gun! Now watch me walk away! :)
August 28th, 2012
9:50 am
MMeello – I was like that when I first started here, over 15 years ago. Probably because I was itching to move up and came in on the ground floor. I can say, I think because I’m more settled and care nothing about the pomp and circumstance that oozes from their pores…lol I’m ready to go home and cop a squat and relax….for good. But I can’t because I have more than a few more years. But honestly, my attitude has changed a lot. I don’t care about the glam anymore….lol As long as you pay me, I’m goooood…lol
I hope though, you move as high as the ladder will carry you. And you DID NOT SAY A MINI MITT ROMNEY!!! You are crazy
disco
August 28th, 2012
9:53 am
CC – that’s what I’m talking about. as long as you pay me I’m good. as far as spotlights, I’m not an up front in everybody’s face type anyway. if they could find me a little office space in the basement next to the boiler room I’d think I hit the jackpot. lol.
Celisea: Choir girl (haha) w/glasses and a sexy little bun, smarter than a fifth grader, blowing the smoking gun! Now watch me walk away! :)
August 28th, 2012
9:54 am
MMeello – When I first started, I use to do no less than a year. But when interviewed the recruiter would ask, sooo why the move. Too, in order to really “learn” thatever LOB I was in, I needed to fully submerge and know it start to finish. Even if something didn’t pertain to my role, I at least needed to know the functionality of all roles and how they intertwined. I will say after about 3 years, I start getting the itch.
Into the Light
August 28th, 2012
9:55 am
……aaaaaand, I just spilled coffee on my foot.
Hope it’s not gonna be that kind of day.
Celisea: Choir girl (haha) w/glasses and a sexy little bun, smarter than a fifth grader, blowing the smoking gun! Now watch me walk away! :)
August 28th, 2012
9:57 am
disco – did you mean C or CC? Just don’t want to impose my response if you weren’t talking to me…lol A couple of youngins on my floor are constantly scratching and getting in lunches with some of the execs and “higher ups”…from my groups nothing but execs being the next step and I told one of them, y’all can have that. Funny you said what you said…I told him give me a cardboard box to sit on, a radio and my laptop and put me behind a wall where there’s peace and quiet…and it’s all good.
Lady~cool beans :-)
August 28th, 2012
9:57 am
remind me when I do a report to save it 2 places!!!! rhetorical I know but damn I gotta do this log over….ugh #randomworkmess yawn!
SlimUno
August 28th, 2012
9:58 am
All of a sudden i’ve had a craving for hash browns scattered, smothered covered and chunked. Hungry Already
disco
August 28th, 2012
9:58 am
my bad. I only meant one C, not two Cs.
Celisea: Choir girl (haha) w/glasses and a sexy little bun, smarter than a fifth grader, blowing the smoking gun! Now watch me walk away! :)
August 28th, 2012
9:59 am
disco – Gotcha
Into the Light
August 28th, 2012
10:00 am
Sooooooo…….anybody got anything exciting to share??
Celisea: Choir girl (haha) w/glasses and a sexy little bun, smarter than a fifth grader, blowing the smoking gun! Now watch me walk away! :)
August 28th, 2012
10:01 am
Annnnnd Celisea now lurking…meeting about to start
Lady~cool beans :-)
August 28th, 2012
10:02 am
Slim share sis~~~~~ yummy!
disco
August 28th, 2012
10:04 am
okay. if there are any celisea-haters lurking now is the time to come out and talk about her “behind her back”. lol.
nothing exciting is going on in my life. surprise surprise.
Into the Light
August 28th, 2012
10:07 am
@disco: Nothing?? No house parties? No cussing out crazy neighbors? No telling your son to limit his visit home to 48 hours? Nothing?!?!?!
Dang. Where’s Bluz? I’m sure she has something.
SlimUno
August 28th, 2012
10:09 am
I see we’ve gotten a bit used to Bluz of our Lives and now we don’t know what to do with ourselves.
So, um…Bluzzzzz!!! Are you out there lurking? What happened last night, did you go to the shindig, did you dance on stage or did you dance behind Mr. Magnum during his set? Did you all have some awesome make up sex? Do tell…speed this thing up!
Celisea: Choir girl (haha) w/glasses and a sexy little bun, smarter than a fifth grader, blowing the smoking gun! Now watch me walk away! :)
August 28th, 2012
10:11 am
disco – Shet it up….lol I don’t mind. Honest, I don’t. My mama taught me early stick and stones, sticks and stones. What’s the kiddy saying about glue and bouncing off me sticking to you? LOLOLOL Honey, I’m so over it
disco
August 28th, 2012
10:11 am
ITL – nothing. things have been very chill on my front. my racist neighbor (ms. there goes the neighborhood) is likely in hiding as I haven’t seen her lately. my son doesn’t visit often so I don’t have to restrict his visits. in fact, he just moved to a new city so at some point I’ve got to go get my visit in. he’s already advised me that it probably shouldn’t be thanksgiving because he got tickets to the ohio state/Michigan game and if I come that weekend I’ll be entertaining myself because he’s going to the game. lol.
oh lawd. did you ask where’s bluz? give me a minute. I’ll think of something (even if I have to make it up).
Lady~cool beans :-)
August 28th, 2012
10:13 am
hilarity C~
Celisea: Choir girl (haha) w/glasses and a sexy little bun, smarter than a fifth grader, blowing the smoking gun! Now watch me walk away! :)
August 28th, 2012
10:13 am
I almost asked for Bluzy earlier but I didn’t know if I would get stoned for that.
Celisea: Choir girl (haha) w/glasses and a sexy little bun, smarter than a fifth grader, blowing the smoking gun! Now watch me walk away! :)
August 28th, 2012
10:14 am
Lady – I’m going to my corner now. Seriously
disco
August 28th, 2012
10:14 am
C – sticks and stones may break my bones but names will never hurt me. I think the other is: I’m rubber and you’re glue, whatever you say bounces off of me and sticks to you. something like that.
disco
August 28th, 2012
10:15 am
C – or pee wee herman. I know you are but what am i?
Celisea: Choir girl (haha) w/glasses and a sexy little bun, smarter than a fifth grader, blowing the smoking gun! Now watch me walk away! :)
August 28th, 2012
10:16 am
dico – That’s it!!! Funny how the childhood sayings are universal. The rhymes, chats, sayings….
Celisea: Choir girl (haha) w/glasses and a sexy little bun, smarter than a fifth grader, blowing the smoking gun! Now watch me walk away! :)
August 28th, 2012
10:16 am
chants
Into the Light
August 28th, 2012
10:18 am
LOL@Slim. As the Blog Turns……
dang, disco. Make up something, quick. I need some entertainment. LOL And that Michigan/Ohio State game is no joke. Almost all the big rivalry games are Thanksgiving weekend…. If the good Lord is willing and the creek don’t rise, I’ll be in Athens that weekend for UGA/Ga Yech.
Into the Light
August 28th, 2012
10:20 am
Funny thing about those childhood rhymes. I know they’re meant to make kids “feel” better, but words DO hurt. Especially when they are lies or unjustified or unfounded accusations.
(back to your regularly scheduled blogging)
Comon Cents
August 28th, 2012
10:22 am
If the good Lord is willing and the creek don’t rise
There’s one for you (on the topic Leggs and I had going yesterday). Do you know where that saying originates?
Lady~cool beans :-)
August 28th, 2012
10:24 am
Where is Bluz?!? I am curious too………
let me get to work~ lol
Comon Cents
August 28th, 2012
10:24 am
Bluz is not here because she is in post-coital bliss this morning from Mr. Magnum I’m sure. I already told y’all how that was gonna end… LOL! But the details of how they got there would make this morning move a little faster… Hmmm. BLUZY? Bluz? Where you at girl? Get your narrow behind up here front and center and make an accounting of yourself!
Into the Light
August 28th, 2012
10:27 am
@CC: I don’t know where it originates. I just know my granny used to say it all the time.
Bluz mentioned that she had taken a half day off today, so maybe she’s sleeping in. Good weather for it.
Celisea: Choir girl (haha) w/glasses and a sexy little bun, smarter than a fifth grader, blowing the smoking gun! Now watch me walk away! :)
August 28th, 2012
10:28 am
It’s FREEZING in here and my stomach is growling. I did’t get breakfast today.
Into the Light
August 28th, 2012
10:28 am
Oh and Slim? Thanks a lot for the hashbrown reference. Now I’m thinking WaHo for lunch…..
Celisea: Choir girl (haha) w/glasses and a sexy little bun, smarter than a fifth grader, blowing the smoking gun! Now watch me walk away! :)
August 28th, 2012
10:28 am
….and I barely ate last night. Right now my ribs are hitting my back…ugh HUNGER….PAINS
disco
August 28th, 2012
10:30 am
ITL – my imagination isn’t working yet. I’m not generally a fan of back to school tales but I have one that tickled me. a lady was telling me that her 6 year old first grader was excited all summer long about back to school. she loved kindergarten and thought school was the best thing ever. she was all excited shopping for new clothes and supplies and could barely sleep in anticipation of going back to school. how come when the little girl got to school and realized that her first grade teacher and her kindergarten teacher weren’t the same person she had a mini meltdown. when her mom told me that I couldn’t do anything but crack up. what a let down.
SlimUno
August 28th, 2012
10:33 am
Cel – I’m sitting in the office with my dang on hoodie on. HACE FRIO!
ITL – I was just looking up the nearest WaHo phone number.
Celisea: Choir girl (haha) w/glasses and a sexy little bun, smarter than a fifth grader, blowing the smoking gun! Now watch me walk away! :)
August 28th, 2012
10:35 am
Slim, as soon as I’m out of this icebox, I’m heading back to the heater under my desk. I mean seriously, my fingertips and nose are cold.
Into the Light
August 28th, 2012
10:36 am
@disco: Awwww, poor baby. That’s funny, but kinda sad.
@Slim: I’m thinking pecan waffle. YUM!
Into the Light
August 28th, 2012
10:41 am
But then again, I’m thinking boysenberry syrup, which means IHOP. Decisions, decisions…..
disco
August 28th, 2012
10:43 am
ITL – yep. it’s funny and sad. I haven’t run into the mom yet to hear how she’s adjusting.
boysenberry syrup? that one’s new to me. the last time I went to visit my grandparents my grandma had made some homemade muscodine jelly. I brought some home but it’s long gone.
Comon Cents
August 28th, 2012
10:48 am
“God willing and the Creek don’t rise” is a reference to te Creek Indians. They were very warlike people, so when someone had to make a journey they used to say they would return safely if it was the Lord’s will and the Creek Indians did not have another uprising against the settlers. (And that’s one to grown on!
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kimmie
August 28th, 2012
10:49 am
What’s up, blog crew?!
What’s the rush? Now you know we live in an instant gratification society now! Plus, it seems nobody asks “what’s the rush” when it comes to physical intimacy. Personally, I think that’s right up there with something you should take time to develop. But folks have no problem questioning when someone decides early on that they really care for a person deeply and want to give their all. Sometimes you really just “know”. Now I have no problem with taking ones time to really get to know someone. But there is a fine line between taking your time and stringing someone along too.
Go at the pace that’s comfortable for the parties involved.
What’s interesting going on in Blogville today?
Comon Cents
August 28th, 2012
10:52 am
disco~ My friend’s daughter was excited about Kindergarten until she realized it was more than one day.
Bluzgirl...needs to be on the wagon...
August 28th, 2012
10:52 am
Oh boy…is this topic about me? LOL!!! I just got to work and haven’t read the replies yet. Gotta get caught up!
Celisea: Choir girl (haha) w/glasses and a sexy little bun, smarter than a fifth grader, blowing the smoking gun! Now watch me walk away! :)
August 28th, 2012
10:53 am
Y’all don’t reckon Bluzy ticked buddy off and he got aggravated beat her??
Celisea: Choir girl (haha) w/glasses and a sexy little bun, smarter than a fifth grader, blowing the smoking gun! Now watch me walk away! :)
August 28th, 2012
10:54 am
Bluzy – THERE YOU ARE!!!! LOL…We were getting worried. Now dish!
Lady~cool beans :-)
August 28th, 2012
10:55 am
yay!!! lol be right back too! wow so much just popped off in the last 30min! wow! its 11 yall! ok brb!
Celisea: Choir girl (haha) w/glasses and a sexy little bun, smarter than a fifth grader, blowing the smoking gun! Now watch me walk away! :)
August 28th, 2012
10:55 am
Yeah!!! We’re going to a braves game the first week of September
Celisea: Choir girl (haha) w/glasses and a sexy little bun, smarter than a fifth grader, blowing the smoking gun! Now watch me walk away! :)
August 28th, 2012
10:56 am
I’m soooo weak, I’m staaaaaaaarving
Comon Cents
August 28th, 2012
10:57 am
Cosigning on C! Dish, Bluzy! Dish!
disco
August 28th, 2012
10:57 am
C – worried? naw, not really. curious (translation nosey)? maybe. another perspective? bluz makes everyone else feel better about their own lives. my son has a standard response when asked how he’s doing. his answer is “I’m not locked up”. in blogville we can all reply “I’m not bluz”.
Celisea: Choir girl (haha) w/glasses and a sexy little bun, smarter than a fifth grader, blowing the smoking gun! Now watch me walk away! :)
August 28th, 2012
10:59 am
disco – I just didn’t want her to end up ticking buddy off cause she was sitting outside his house with the picture of a clown with tears (scaring him) and he snapped. Worried from that aspect…lololol
kimmie
August 28th, 2012
11:03 am
disco – That reminds me of a conversation I had with a friend recently. I asked her about a couple she’s close to that I met thru her. She said the husband was in jail! That’s the last thing I expected to hear about this straight-laced guy! Something about a debt he was supposed to pay while on probation years ago that he just stopped paying on.
You think you got problems………..
Into the Light
August 28th, 2012
11:05 am
Disco!! Dang….that 10:57 was harsh…even for you.
Don’t make Bluz cry – she just got here.
SlimUno
August 28th, 2012
11:05 am
Bluz – no need to catch up…weeeeen tombout nuttin. So down to the nitty gritty. What had happened last night?
Comon Cents
August 28th, 2012
11:06 am
kimmie~ Did he stop paying his restitution? He was on probation so I assue that it was restitution or fines from the crime he committed and now he has to serve out the balance of his sentence. That always makes me SMDH. You’re already getting off lightly. Why would you screw that up by not meeting the terms of your probation?!
Celisea: Choir girl (haha) w/glasses and a sexy little bun, smarter than a fifth grader, blowing the smoking gun! Now watch me walk away! :)
August 28th, 2012
11:06 am
Bluzy – Dish girl!!! Don’t keep us in suspense
disco
August 28th, 2012
11:06 am
kimmie – my son says that phrase is his pick me up. no matter how hard he thinks things are he just has to remind himself that he’s not locked up.
ITL – really? that was harsh? hmm. I didn’t think so but I’ll take your word for it.
Comon Cents
August 28th, 2012
11:07 am
Y’all know, we are some nosy heifers. No “Good Morning, Bluz!” No “Would you like some coffee and a bagel, Bluz?”
We just wanna know what happened! LMAO!
Lady~cool beans :-)
August 28th, 2012
11:10 am
lol CC that was rude lol
kimmie
August 28th, 2012
11:12 am
Comon – Yep, stopped paying! SMDH too.
disco
August 28th, 2012
11:13 am
CC – thank you for keeping it real. auntie celisea masks hers as concern. LOL.
I have to add too. everyone is quick to talk about doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results. we talk about bluz’ situations repeating themselves but the whole blog collectively is just as crazy if we are still dishing out advice to the same situations month in and month out. we are instigators and enablers.
Lady~cool beans :-)
August 28th, 2012
11:14 am
O/T vent: It baffles me how grown adults bring children into this world and then have to be forced to take care and support their own flesh. Man or woman it makes no sense to be sorry as hell! ok wooosah! #carryon
Comon Cents
August 28th, 2012
11:15 am
kimmie~ Is his mariage still in tact? One of the other lawyers here had a client who had moved here from MI and failed to register as a sex offender He had gotten married and the whole 9. His wife didn’t know and he got stopped on a routine traffic violation and there was a warrant for his arrest for failure to register. Chick went ATOMIC in our office when she found out what he had been arrested for. SMDH…
Lady~cool beans :-)
August 28th, 2012
11:16 am
yep disco crazy is as crazy does…..can’t argue that point…..
Lady~cool beans :-)
August 28th, 2012
11:17 am
interesting……………..O_o
Celisea: Choir girl (haha) w/glasses and a sexy little bun, smarter than a fifth grader, blowing the smoking gun! Now watch me walk away! :)
August 28th, 2012
11:17 am
disco – No masking here babygirl. What I say, I say. Might not be popular but I ain’t gotta front…lol
Celisea: Choir girl (haha) w/glasses and a sexy little bun, smarter than a fifth grader, blowing the smoking gun! Now watch me walk away! :)
August 28th, 2012
11:18 am
I’m just not about hanging folks by their ankles for everyone to take a turn. Anybody can do that.
Comon Cents
August 28th, 2012
11:20 am
I can’t get on the crazy kick. As the Blog Turns makes my day go by faster. And Bluz is definitely a key component to that. I like to think of it like watching any other series on TV; you keep tuning in because the plot line is interesting. Besides which fact, I know some people very much like Bluz in real life. I keep my distance from them in real life because I don’t want their crazy to show up on my doorstep (no offense, Bluz) but on the blog I don’t have to worry about that.
Lady~cool beans :-)
August 28th, 2012
11:21 am
at all C~ we >>>>>HERE<<<<< cute though~
Celisea: Choir girl (haha) w/glasses and a sexy little bun, smarter than a fifth grader, blowing the smoking gun! Now watch me walk away! :)
August 28th, 2012
11:22 am
Lady – How is it said here? YUP!
Celisea: Choir girl (haha) w/glasses and a sexy little bun, smarter than a fifth grader, blowing the smoking gun! Now watch me walk away! :)
August 28th, 2012
11:23 am
I’m just mad at Bluzy KNOWING we’re all waiting for her to fuel the blog’s engine and she’s holdig back. Feels good having the spotlight eh?
Lady~cool beans :-)
August 28th, 2012
11:25 am
lololol
Comon Cents-Is now waiting patiently to hear the solution to yesterday's Bluz Cluz
August 28th, 2012
11:25 am
Damn, Bluz! You read to slow! ive up the goodies, girly!
Comon Cents-Is now waiting patiently to hear the solution to yesterday's Bluz Cluz
August 28th, 2012
11:27 am
C~ Obviously, we are >>>>>>HERE<<<<<< too!
Bluzgirl...needs to be on the wagon...
August 28th, 2012
11:27 am
Ok Ok…I’m going to type a response now…Just now got caught up on everything…
Lady~cool beans :-)
August 28th, 2012
11:28 am
Bluz Cluz<<<<<< #DEAD lmbao okay I am done for a few……yall got it lolol smh
Into the Light
August 28th, 2012
11:29 am
@disco: Well, maybe “harsh” wasn’t the right word. But you know Bluz can be sensitive.
Anywho….. Exactly 4 days from this moment I will be sitting in section 117, waiting on kickoff. WOOHOO!
disco
August 28th, 2012
11:30 am
C – I guess that’s why I’m not feeling it as much. I don’t watch the so called reality shows. can’t get into them. they just don’t turn me on. this morning on my drive in 2 out of the 3 radio stations that I listen to were talking about love and hip hop. I just plugged in my ipod.
Lady~cool beans :-)
August 28th, 2012
11:31 am
did yall know a personality disorder is the worst disorder to treat beyond your severe pathological disorders?!? 0_0
Into the Light
August 28th, 2012
11:32 am
….and I’m spending the rest of the long weekend in the mountains. Much needed break. Yay me!
Bluzgirl...needs to be on the wagon...
August 28th, 2012
11:33 am
Kind of funny that ya’ll get tired of me, but now want me to dish! LOL!!!
I did NOT go last night. I had a ton to do at home anyways. So…he called while I was in therapy. I didn’t answer (was just talking about him). He then texted “Quit being childish and talk to me.” I had to laugh about it. I just replied that I was in therapy. It’s a good thing I was in therapy because I probably would have gone off on him with that remark! I wasn’t ignoring him…I was BUSY!!! Anyway…he texted later in the evening asking how’s my therapist and my reply was “very smart and insighful.” I wonder if that got him thinking. He has to know he was a big topic in my session!
I’m wondering if he’s confused about what he really wants. I know that I”m questioning what I really want. I think he and I need to have a face to face conversation. I need to talk to him about my feelings about him saying I was being childish and the babysitting comment yesterday. Both of those were so NOT cool. I’m willing to see if we can talk things out and go from there. If we are to only be friends…I’m fine with that, but I need to process it and will need a little time from him. Good thing is that we are both going out of town this weekend…me to the beach and him to the mountains. A little time a part may do some good. When he was in NOLA, he was all about me.
Anyway…I’m sitting back right now and just laying low. I’m not going to reach out today. When I backed off last week, he came running! Not that I’m trying to play games, but I’m trying to really back off so that I don’t feel too hurt.
I like him…I ain’t gonna lie…but I’m no where near falling for him or anything. If it’s not meant to be, I’ll be fine. My ego may be bruised a bit, but I’ll pick it up and KIM!!!
Celisea: Choir girl (haha) w/glasses and a sexy little bun, smarter than a fifth grader, blowing the smoking gun! Now watch me walk away! :)
August 28th, 2012
11:33 am
disco – Surprisingly I don’t have too much for reality tv either. When I’m driving in, I’ll listen to the Bert Show but if that’s too much fraggle naggle bull, I’m turnining…lol I’m with you on plugging in (to music) as a better alternative.
CC – YUP
Comon Cents-Is now waiting patiently to hear the solution to yesterday's Bluz Cluz
August 28th, 2012
11:33 am
I don’t watch reality shows or soaps, but any show you watch, what hooks you in is the plotline. You gotta admit, Bluz has a HELL of a plotline…
disco
August 28th, 2012
11:35 am
ITL – this isn’t (necessarily) about bluz but why do sensitive people always put their business in the streets??? co-workers are always putting their stuff out there and then sniffling and crying when folks are talking about it and commenting on it. if they don’t want to hear the feedback they need to keep it to themselves. okay. I’m pulling back. my “personality” is showing.
Comon Cents-Is now waiting patiently to hear the solution to yesterday's Bluz Cluz
August 28th, 2012
11:37 am
me to the beach and him to the mountains
ITL~ You didn’t tell us you were going to the Mountains with Magnum tis weekend!
Is he going to the game too? Bluzy might cut you in real life… LMAO!
Leggs
August 28th, 2012
11:37 am
Ok, all caught up now.
It’s quite hilarious how so many admonishes Bluz for her antics and now everyone is hungrily waiting for her update. Gotta love America.
Celisea: Choir girl (haha) w/glasses and a sexy little bun, smarter than a fifth grader, blowing the smoking gun! Now watch me walk away! :)
August 28th, 2012
11:38 am
Well well well Bluzy…lol How much of a “booster” shot was it for him to reach out to you? Hmmmm? Do tell. Didn’t we tell you if you back off he’ll come around (if he likes you)? Yeah, get on to SC and let him go to the moutains. More space between the two of you is good right about now.
Soooo, how are you going to handle moving forward? Dry up would be a good place to start.
Bluzgirl...So ready for the beach!
August 28th, 2012
11:38 am
LOL CC!!!
disco
August 28th, 2012
11:39 am
CC – bluz has a hell of a plot line the first, second, maybe even the third time. there’s shows you can watch over and over and there’s shows where once is enough. just me though. where are the men? I’m sure some of them would be on my side. lol.
Lady~cool beans :-)
August 28th, 2012
11:39 am
how do you say miss me with the BS in spanish?!? lol yeah CC this blogs gets us thorugh the day~
Into the Light
August 28th, 2012
11:40 am
Honestly, disco, I think it stems from the need to be validated by others. I’m sure “Lady” could speak to this better than I, but it seems like folks like Bluz have an extreme need for acceptance and validation from others in order to ensure that they are making the right decisions.
Of course, it is odd that Bluz never seems to take our advice, but then says things like, “Aren’t you at least proud of me that I did/did not ___________” Stumps me, quite frankly.
Lady~cool beans :-)
August 28th, 2012
11:40 am
meant through the day~
Bluzgirl...So ready for the beach!
August 28th, 2012
11:41 am
Cel – For now, I just want to focus on one day at a time. I hope we can have a conversation before we both leave town, but if it doesn’t happen, then fine. I’m just backing off. If he really does like me and is confused about what he wants, he’ll realize it when I’m quiet. If he says something today about not talking to him, I’ll probably tell him that I need a little time to digest everything that has happened.
I’m thinking that all of this happening is a good thing because it’s made me have to back off a little. I’m good at jumping in full speed ahead. I have tried to not do that this time…and felt I was doing ok with it. We’re hitting our big speed bumps now. How we both handle it will tell a lot about our future. Even if it’s just as friends…
Lady~cool beans :-)
August 28th, 2012
11:41 am
naw ITL you got it……its a conflict of interest and unethical…MIA is pure entertainment for me~
kimmie
August 28th, 2012
11:41 am
Comon – It was a credit card fraud incident. They seem to have a strong marriage, in fact, she’s very forgiving, ride or die, and has stuck with him thru thick & thin.
Into the Light
August 28th, 2012
11:42 am
CC – ha ha. You’ll have a blog rumor started now. ITL and Magnum are having an affair.
Lady~cool beans :-)
August 28th, 2012
11:42 am
it’s made me have to back off a little<<<<Good deal Bluz!
Bluzgirl...So ready for the beach!
August 28th, 2012
11:45 am
ITL…I’ll get ya! LOL!!!
Celisea: Choir girl (haha) w/glasses and a sexy little bun, smarter than a fifth grader, blowing the smoking gun! Now watch me walk away! :)
August 28th, 2012
11:46 am
Bluzy – Well if you STICK to your first paragraph then I think that’s step in the right direction. DO NOT RENEGE…LOL
I will say this to you, I sometimes too OVERTHINK stuff. Sometimes just backing away and letting your brain air out helps.
Bluzgirl...So ready for the beach!
August 28th, 2012
11:46 am
I want ya’ll to know that I do listen to you all. I really do take in all that you say. Sometimes what I should do and what I want to do have a serious fight with each other and what I want to do ends up winning.
Bluzgirl...So ready for the beach!
August 28th, 2012
11:48 am
Cel – I KNOW that I overthink things. One thing I’m worrying about. I tell you, though…it sure felt good to vent to my therapist yesterday. He did figuratively hold up a mirror to me and helped me to see some things.
I really am glad that I didn’t go last night. When he made the comment about being childish, it ticked me off and I knew that it would not be good to see him! When I talk to him about it, I want to be cool and calm…
Into the Light
August 28th, 2012
11:48 am
LOL@Bluz. I better not see you with night vision goggles, sneaking up on the screened porch.
Comon Cents-Is now waiting patiently to hear the solution to yesterday's Bluz Cluz
August 28th, 2012
11:50 am
We’re hitting our big speed bumps now. How we both handle it will tell a lot about our future.
No. You are not hitting your big speed bumps now. Big speed bumps are tings like handling your finances and whether you raise your kids baptist or caholic. These are just te amusing anectdotes of a new relationship. (Not trying to be harsh) But if you can’t get over these little ant ills, what are y’all going to do if this does become a relationship and you have some real issues?
i'm swiss
August 28th, 2012
11:51 am
You do realize that we’re all addicted to Bluz’s shenanigans, right? Bluz, you make us want to choke the computer screen, but we just can’t quit you.
Celisea: Choir girl (haha) w/glasses and a sexy little bun, smarter than a fifth grader, blowing the smoking gun! Now watch me walk away! :)
August 28th, 2012
11:51 am
Bluzy – I’m glad you didn’t go either. That would have read, too clingy, too needy, too thirsty. Hold the reins girlie. Get on out of town and have a blast (void of alcohol of course)….lol Forget him for a weekend.
Into the Light
August 28th, 2012
11:53 am
Dang, Swiss. Brokeback Mountain??? Really?????
Into the Light
August 28th, 2012
11:53 am
Okay, that’s all the fun this girl can take on an empty stomach. Off to WaHo!
Bluzgirl...So ready for the beach!
August 28th, 2012
11:54 am
Ya’ll didn’t know how much of a ride it would be with me arriving on the scene, did ya? LOL! I told ya’ll I’m new to this whole dating thing…
Bluzgirl...So ready for the beach!
August 28th, 2012
11:57 am
Cel – I ain’t gonna lie…it will be hard to not drink this weekend because my best friend is definitely an alcoholic. He wants to go clubbing. BUT…I will try.
Celisea: Choir girl (haha) w/glasses and a sexy little bun, smarter than a fifth grader, blowing the smoking gun! Now watch me walk away! :)
August 28th, 2012
11:58 am
Do like I do (when I ain’t vacationing…lol), that will be a virgin drink for me please
Comon Cents-Is now waiting patiently to hear the solution to yesterday's Bluz Cluz
August 28th, 2012
11:59 am
swiss~ When did you have time to take in the Brokeback Mountain moment?
Bluzgirl...So ready for the beach!
August 28th, 2012
12:02 pm
To me…vacationing is a different story in regards to drinking. If I do, I will stick with beer. Beer doesn’t make me crazy. I know that I need to stay away from liquor for a LONG time!!!
Celisea: Choir girl (haha) w/glasses and a sexy little bun, smarter than a fifth grader, blowing the smoking gun! Now watch me walk away! :)
August 28th, 2012
12:02 pm
Well Bluzy, I ain’t gonna lie, your story was not as inflated as I thought it would be….lol
Comon Cents-Is now waiting patiently to hear the solution to yesterday's Bluz Cluz
August 28th, 2012
12:02 pm
Wait~ Your best friend is a he?!? This is not a former F buddy or FWB or an ex is it? And if he’s not, Lord sweet Jaysus for the love of all that HLOY do NOT sleep with him this weekend!
Comon Cents-Is now waiting patiently to hear the solution to yesterday's Bluz Cluz
August 28th, 2012
12:03 pm
* that’s HOLY
i'm swiss
August 28th, 2012
12:03 pm
ITL — Yes I did just bust out a Brokeback reference. That’s how real it just got up in this b!tch…
Bluzgirl...So ready for the beach!
August 28th, 2012
12:04 pm
CC – my best friend is gay!!!
Comon Cents-Is now waiting patiently to hear the solution to yesterday's Bluz Cluz
August 28th, 2012
12:05 pm
my best friend is gay!!!
Thank the Lord and pass the ammunition.
Celisea: Choir girl (haha) w/glasses and a sexy little bun, smarter than a fifth grader, blowing the smoking gun! Now watch me walk away! :)
August 28th, 2012
12:05 pm
Bluzy – Vacay does bring out the beast in us…don’t it.
Leggs
August 28th, 2012
12:05 pm
Bluz ~ glad you didn’t go, glad you seem to be breathing a little better. Time away this weekend will help you see things even clearer than you do now.
Comon Cents - Thinks the Bluz Cluz solution to today's puzzle lacked the drama she's become accustomed to
August 28th, 2012
12:11 pm
And DO NOT, under any circumstances, have drinks and give the freebie while in SC!
Bluzgirl...So ready for the beach!
August 28th, 2012
12:13 pm
CC – I just read your moniker and I’m offended. LOL! J/K
Don’t worry…no freebies in SC…unless Brad Pitt is there…
Comon Cents - Thinks the Bluz Cluz solution to today's puzzle lacked the drama she's become accustomed to
August 28th, 2012
12:15 pm
Brad Pitt is about to be married, so no freebies for him either.
The moniker is actually a compliment. You need to move past the drama. In fact, make that your mantra. “No More Drama” Have your Mary J moment, girl!
Celisea: Choir girl (haha) w/glasses and a sexy little bun, smarter than a fifth grader, blowing the smoking gun! Now watch me walk away! :)
August 28th, 2012
12:17 pm
Bluzy – Brad no bathing Pitt? He USE to be my FAAAAV. Give me William Levy and Hugh Jackman…good Lawd!
Celisea: Choir girl (haha) w/glasses and a sexy little bun, smarter than a fifth grader, blowing the smoking gun! Now watch me walk away! :)
August 28th, 2012
12:18 pm
Blair Underwood (he still got it and can get it) and Laz Alonso…have murcy…
Celisea: Choir girl (haha) w/glasses and a sexy little bun, smarter than a fifth grader, blowing the smoking gun! Now watch me walk away! :)
August 28th, 2012
12:19 pm
Even though Blair Underwood played a number of crazy man, woman abuser, fiance beater roles….I still like. Saw him on a commercial the other day.
Leggs
August 28th, 2012
12:21 pm
Must admit, William Levy is fine and oozes sex appeal!!!
Comon Cents - Thinks the Bluz Cluz solution to today's puzzle lacked the drama she's become accustomed to
August 28th, 2012
12:21 pm
C~ I just had to lol for real. When I saw William Levy, for some reason my brain popped up William H. Macy’s pic for a minute.
LOL!
Celisea: Choir girl (haha) w/glasses and a sexy little bun, smarter than a fifth grader, blowing the smoking gun! Now watch me walk away! :)
August 28th, 2012
12:22 pm
And after the mess Brad pulled on Jen, I lost alllll respect for him. Just trashy. I saw Jen in a totally different light at that point. It’s takes a mighty big woman to move on past and let it go, a man that’s embarrassed, disrepected and openly gallavanted his wh@re around in her face.
Comon Cents - Thinks the Bluz Cluz solution to today's puzzle lacked the drama she's become accustomed to
August 28th, 2012
12:22 pm
Mine is still LL. You know, Ladies Love Cool James… Mmmmm. MMMMMMM. Mmmm…
Celisea: Choir girl (haha) w/glasses and a sexy little bun, smarter than a fifth grader, blowing the smoking gun! Now watch me walk away! :)
August 28th, 2012
12:22 pm
Xnay on William Macy (thumbs down)
Comon Cents - Thinks the Bluz Cluz solution to today's puzzle lacked the drama she's become accustomed to
August 28th, 2012
12:26 pm
Yeah, William Macy is right up there with John C. Reilly. Blech!
Comon Cents - Thinks the Bluz Cluz solution to today's puzzle lacked the drama she's become accustomed to
August 28th, 2012
12:30 pm
All the cheaters fall into that category for me. LL had to redeem himself with “Luv U Better” because before that, he was a dog too. Denzel, Brad, etc. You loose all credibility when you are a lying dog.
Celisea: Choir girl (haha) w/glasses and a sexy little bun, smarter than a fifth grader, blowing the smoking gun! Now watch me walk away! :)
August 28th, 2012
12:31 pm
Out to lunch
Lady~cool beans :-)
August 28th, 2012
12:35 pm
C and my head started hurting worse~ yawn I head to the doctor Thursday this should be interesting………………
Celisea: Choir girl (haha) w/glasses and a sexy little bun, smarter than a fifth grader, blowing the smoking gun! Now watch me walk away! :)
August 28th, 2012
12:36 pm
Lady – Why the headaches? I just got my results and I’m looking gooood:)
Okay to lunch for real now. They’re ordering take-out but Imma past. There’s PB&J smoothie on this menu.
SlimUno
August 28th, 2012
12:37 pm
I ain’t gonna lie, your story was not as inflated as I thought it would be…
Cel – You trying to chase that very first high huh? lolol
Celisea: Choir girl (haha) w/glasses and a sexy little bun, smarter than a fifth grader, blowing the smoking gun! Now watch me walk away! :)
August 28th, 2012
12:38 pm
Slim – LOLOLOL….YUP
Bluzgirl...So ready for the beach!
August 28th, 2012
12:40 pm
I would take Brad Pitt anyday…I don’t care how grungy he gets! LOL!
Now…one man I’ve fallen for is a guy named Leandro Lima. I found him while looking up who I thought should be Christian Grey from 50 Shades and he is BEAUTIFUL!!!
Lady~cool beans :-)
August 28th, 2012
12:40 pm
who knows but my students like Ms J you catching a cold huh….I am sneezing and coughing and my head is killing me! rain days should be off days! sigh
SlimUno
August 28th, 2012
12:43 pm
Cel- Wait a minute…Denzel was caught up in some mess??? I hadn’t heard that…
Lady~cool beans :-)
August 28th, 2012
12:44 pm
just glad its 1pm….I have a busy evening of errands just ready to close this month out….its been one long one~
Lady~cool beans :-)
August 28th, 2012
12:44 pm
or almost
Lady~cool beans :-)
August 28th, 2012
12:45 pm
Denzel has a hot movie coming out in December 12 can’t wait too! I am a Denzel fan all day and yeah Blair Underwood still has it… even my boo said Blair don’t age lol
Leggs
August 28th, 2012
12:46 pm
****Issac has become a Category 1 Hurricane!****
Lady~cool beans :-)
August 28th, 2012
12:48 pm
7 years ago I was in labor with my child while Katrina was tear up the gulf…….now Issac is here and ready to roll……………………………
Lady~cool beans :-)
August 28th, 2012
12:48 pm
meant tearing………..
SlimUno
August 28th, 2012
12:51 pm
My sis is currently in LA with her new hubby…hope they are out of the eye of the storm.
ITL – I done finished my WaHo and now I need a nap…it’s all your fault
Lady~cool beans :-)
August 28th, 2012
12:52 pm
awww slim that ain’t right i wanted some………………..glad you enjoyed…….
Bluzgirl...So ready for the beach!
August 28th, 2012
12:53 pm
It’s so weird…this time, 7 years ago, my ex and I were staring at the TV, watching Katrina approach his home town of NOLA. If he were alive today, he’d be watching and calling or texting me with updates. It made me a little sad last night when I thought about it…
Celisea: Choir girl (haha) w/glasses and a sexy little bun, smarter than a fifth grader, blowing the smoking gun! Now watch me walk away! :)
August 28th, 2012
12:55 pm
Bluzy – LOLOL…go ahead then and have Brad…lol
Slim – That’s that CC said but I heard it before.
Comon Cents - Thinks the Bluz Cluz solution to today's puzzle lacked the drama she's become accustomed to
August 28th, 2012
12:55 pm
Denzel admitted to running around on his wife a few years ago. (I think it was around 2007) He came out and apologized and they stayed married.
SlimUno
August 28th, 2012
12:55 pm
Bluz – Quick fix—> stop thinking about it
Lady~cool beans :-)
August 28th, 2012
12:56 pm
yeah 7 years ago was bittersweet for me too…………..joy came in the morning and blessings moving forward~ This too shall pass gracefully~
Lady~cool beans :-)
August 28th, 2012
12:57 pm
was it with Sanaa Lathan?!? that was the word on the street…I am glad they have sustained!
Comon Cents - Thinks the Bluz Cluz solution to today's puzzle lacked the drama she's become accustomed to
August 28th, 2012
12:57 pm
Wait, Bluz~ I thought you left the ex (or is this a different one?)
i'm swiss
August 28th, 2012
12:58 pm
You ladies are going to be hard pressed to find a famous dude (actor/model/athlete/whatever) who hasn’t had an indiscretion or
twentytwo.You have to understand, all guys — even good guys — looooooooooooooooooove puddy. We love puddy more than Bluz loves free shots. (Sorry, Bluz, but you get my point).
The surest way for us normal guys to stay faithful is to just avoid temptation. But for celebrities, there is no avoiding temptation. Hoes are throwing the puddy at these dudes 24/7. There’s nowhere for them to hide. Occasionally, some puddy is going to land on them.
Comon Cents - Thinks the Bluz Cluz solution to today's puzzle lacked the drama she's become accustomed to
August 28th, 2012
12:58 pm
Lady~ IDK. As much as the media is “If it bleeds it leads” They did not go after Denzel like that. It was all very hush hush.
Celisea: Choir girl (haha) w/glasses and a sexy little bun, smarter than a fifth grader, blowing the smoking gun! Now watch me walk away! :)
August 28th, 2012
12:59 pm
I’m sure that apology and admission of guilt on his part is what kept Juanita around. I’m sure any woman wanting to keep something is more than happy to “listen” but if you’re at fault (man or woman) and you NEVER think your actions played a HUGE part, never apologize and nothing but vendettas…then scrap it. But again, these are the trappings in relationships.
Lady~cool beans :-)
August 28th, 2012
12:59 pm
yes it was very hush and classy like if you will…..you right!
Lady~cool beans :-)
August 28th, 2012
1:00 pm
but if you’re at fault (man or woman) and you NEVER think your actions played a HUGE part, never apologize and nothing but vendettas…then scrap it. But again, these are the trappings in relationships.<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<LOVE IT!!!!! it will NEVA sustain!
Celisea: Choir girl (haha) w/glasses and a sexy little bun, smarter than a fifth grader, blowing the smoking gun! Now watch me walk away! :)
August 28th, 2012
1:01 pm
Swiss – I actually agree. Heart and soul means so much more to me than indiscretions. Admission and apologies, seeing your part….mean a WHOOOOOOOLE lot to me. As it goes both ways.
Lady~cool beans :-)
August 28th, 2012
1:01 pm
The surest way for us normal guys to stay faithful is to just avoid temptation.<<<<<Swiss I have heard this before bruh~
Comon Cents - Thinks the Bluz Cluz solution to today's puzzle lacked the drama she's become accustomed to
August 28th, 2012
1:02 pm
IDK swiss, Angelina must have some FIRE puddy then. Because you ain’t hear a peep about Brad since he got with her. IJS…
Celisea: Choir girl (haha) w/glasses and a sexy little bun, smarter than a fifth grader, blowing the smoking gun! Now watch me walk away! :)
August 28th, 2012
1:02 pm
Lady – It’s true. And guess what, we are all guilty at some point, some place, some time.
Bluzgirl...So ready for the beach!
August 28th, 2012
1:02 pm
CC – this is an ex from years ago…my friend who died in March…
Celisea: Choir girl (haha) w/glasses and a sexy little bun, smarter than a fifth grader, blowing the smoking gun! Now watch me walk away! :)
August 28th, 2012
1:03 pm
Regarding Angelina, frankly she’s a skank. I don’t see too many probably that’s willing to go behind her…lolololol But, if Brad likes it, I love it!
Bluzgirl...So ready for the beach!
August 28th, 2012
1:04 pm
Hey swiss…I resemble that remark!!!
Lady~cool beans :-)
August 28th, 2012
1:04 pm
YUP~ never doubt that or pretend we ain’t…….
Comon Cents - Would cut him if I found out he got some strange...
August 28th, 2012
1:05 pm
Even with apologies, I am not sure I could move past it. I waited so long to be with mine and I would give him anything he asked me for if it was within my power (and I think it is reciprocal) therefore, he (or I) should have no reason to cheat.
Lady~cool beans :-)
August 28th, 2012
1:05 pm
dating karma is real too…..what one puts out will come back in some form…..just interesting how cards fall…………
Comon Cents - Would cut him if I found out he got some strange...
August 28th, 2012
1:06 pm
C~ I agree that Angelina was a skank, but she seems to have cleaned up her act too since she and Brad made a go of it. IJS…
i'm swiss
August 28th, 2012
1:06 pm
Comon — That’s ‘cos she keeps him in the 3rd world, looking for another baby to adopt. Plus, I think she’s actually an alien. She’s probably used her alien technology to detach his w@ng and keep it in a space jar when he leaves the house.
Jake...SPJTWB
August 28th, 2012
1:06 pm
what up fellas, hey sugar and spices!!
Celisea: Choir girl (haha) w/glasses and a sexy little bun, smarter than a fifth grader, blowing the smoking gun! Now watch me walk away! :)
August 28th, 2012
1:06 pm
Lady – That’s why we’re all our own individuals. I do me and you do you, she does she and he does he…lololol
No sleep nor love lost
Moving on!!
Lady~cool beans :-)
August 28th, 2012
1:07 pm
or shall I say a marriage too….yeah I am over thinking I am sure but I get it…..#random
Lady~cool beans :-)
August 28th, 2012
1:07 pm
he does he,,,,, lol too damn funny
Comon Cents - Would cut him if I found out he got some strange...
August 28th, 2012
1:07 pm
Lady~ Karma is real and not just the dating kind. I have a list of people that karma needs to make sure it has on its list. God willing and te Creek don’t rise, I will live long enough to see that boomerang come on back around.
Lady~cool beans :-)
August 28th, 2012
1:08 pm
Hey Jake!
Celisea: Choir girl (haha) w/glasses and a sexy little bun, smarter than a fifth grader, blowing the smoking gun! Now watch me walk away! :)
August 28th, 2012
1:08 pm
Angelina took a bath and brillo’d the tattoos off…she’s still a skank. I’m unforgiving like that…lololol
Lady~cool beans :-)
August 28th, 2012
1:08 pm
Oh my CC sounds personal~
Celisea: Choir girl (haha) w/glasses and a sexy little bun, smarter than a fifth grader, blowing the smoking gun! Now watch me walk away! :)
August 28th, 2012
1:09 pm
Well, I’m not God. I’m not sitting around waiting for someone else’s “karma”, I’m sure he’s got it. If they ask for forgiveness, you might be waiting an eternity…lolololol
Comon Cents - Would cut him if I found out he got some strange...
August 28th, 2012
1:09 pm
swiss~ Once again I will reiterate; YOU STOOPID!
Gof help men if they ever figure out a way for the wang to be detachable! I think Sam Kinison once did a skit on that…
Leggs
August 28th, 2012
1:10 pm
I am actually on the phone with a guy who wants to take me out to dinner and told me he did some research on the restaurants out by Stonecrest and likes Arizona’s but then he says he thinks it’s too expensive for a first date. He says Arizona’s is a place you take a woman to when you know you’re in a relationship. He says his budget for a first date is Applebee’s, Red Lobster, perhaps LongHorns. I told him I was waiting for him to add Captain D’s to his list and he started laughing. I’m not laughing, but I have been given an insight into him as a person in that he operates on a “scale” system and going out on a first date you’ll start out on the lowest rung.
Lady~cool beans :-)
August 28th, 2012
1:10 pm
chuckle~ forgiveness is an inside job not for others to validate…….folks know the karma that comes back to them…. I am not projecting anything C~ lolololol LMBAO really
Celisea: Choir girl (haha) w/glasses and a sexy little bun, smarter than a fifth grader, blowing the smoking gun! Now watch me walk away! :)
August 28th, 2012
1:11 pm
Lady – To your 1:10…so true. And really, I thought only God can gauge what merits karma versus not. I’m sure though, many are right in their own eyes while having caused hurt or inflicted something on someone else.
Comon Cents - Would cut him if I found out he got some strange...
August 28th, 2012
1:12 pm
C~ I ain’t sitting around waiting on it, but Lord have sweet mercy Jaysus if I am lucky enough to see that isht come back around!
and, yeah, Lady, it’s personal.
Lady~cool beans :-)
August 28th, 2012
1:13 pm
I just know here recently something came back in another form to me but I pressed through and didn’t give them the victory and still holding on…..The devil is a liar. I ain’t perfect but what’s for me will be gracefully~
Comon Cents - Would cut him if I found out he got some strange...
August 28th, 2012
1:14 pm
Shoot, we blogging and Bluz has nothing so I will shoot it out there to you. You tell me if you think this deserves the karma b!tch slap or not…
Lady~cool beans :-)
August 28th, 2012
1:15 pm
bbl too my head is killing me! sigh
i'm swiss
August 28th, 2012
1:17 pm
Here’s another misconception…
If a guy cheats, it doesn’t necessarily mean he’s in any way unsatisfied with what he has at home. It could just mean there’s some puddy right in front of him at that moment. It’s like putting a big juicy steak in front of a dog. I don’t care how well trained the dog is, or how happy the dog is with his life, if there’s nobody around and that steak is sitting there, all juicy and delicious, just begging to be eaten, there’s a good possibility that steak is going to get devoured. The best defense is just turn and walk the other way when you start smelling somebody else’s steak too near.
SlimUno
August 28th, 2012
1:17 pm
swiss – You make puddy sound like mosquitos — Occasionally, some puddy is going to land on them That’s exactly why I’d have a hard time dating a celebrity…and that ex-wife of R. Kelly, I sure as hell have no clue how she dealt with all that with him.
Lady~cool beans :-)
August 28th, 2012
1:18 pm
lmbao swiss!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Celisea: Choir girl (haha) w/glasses and a sexy little bun, smarter than a fifth grader, blowing the smoking gun! Now watch me walk away! :)
August 28th, 2012
1:18 pm
Didn’t R Kelly marry Aliyah when she was 14 or so?
Comon Cents - Would cut him if I found out he got some strange...
August 28th, 2012
1:20 pm
I had a friend that I have known since kindergarten (30+ years) and when I was married to the ex-hubs she could not STAND the air he breathed. I mean always asked me why I just didn’t leave him, he was an alcoholic, the whole 9. Her faher lived out of the country in a U.S. Territory. Oct 2010 her father got very sick. I helped her to get a plane ticket down there. I could not take a LOA from work at the time and she was calling everyday telling me how sad and lonely she was. I flew the BF down to be with her. After her father passed, (He was from our area) I helped her to set up a memorial at a local park and dedicate a bench to him and held the reception for the memorial at my home. Flash forward to March 2011. When I leave the bum, she all of a sudden stops talking to me. I call her. She comes to the house to pick up some stuff she has left there and tells me how wrong I am for leaving the ex when he was unemployed and his mother was dying I was like WTF?!? They have become fast friends and she even tried to fabricate things she said I had done during the divorce to help his position. Yeah, she deserves te karmic b!tch slap IMO.
Leggs
August 28th, 2012
1:20 pm
swiss ~ I definitely agree with you that just because a man cheats doesn’t mean he’s unhappy or dissatisifed at home. Many times it’s just plain greed.
Bluzgirl...So ready for the beach!
August 28th, 2012
1:20 pm
Busy at work, so only checking in here and there…gotta get caught up and see what ya’ll are talking about now…
Comon Cents - Would cut him if I found out he got some strange...
August 28th, 2012
1:23 pm
Didn’t R Kelly marry Aliyah when she was 14 or so?
Yup. She married him in Aug 1994 and her parents had it annulled in Feb 1995.
SlimUno
August 28th, 2012
1:31 pm
Leggs – So were you offended by what the guy said? Seems like he was being upfront with you, so no surprises when you roll up to Chili’s (not like that’s a bad first date spot). Matter of fact, the first place the beau and I ever went together was Buffalo Wild Wings
Into the Light
August 28th, 2012
1:31 pm
ITL – I done finished my WaHo and now I need a nap…it’s all your fault
LOL@Slim. Girl, gone and blame it on me. I’ll be too busy snoring to notice. But DANG that waffle was good!
Leggs
August 28th, 2012
1:32 pm
SlimUno ~ I thanked him for his honesty. I wasn’t laughing because I sensed he thought Captain D’s was a great first date.
SlimUno
August 28th, 2012
1:39 pm
I don’t know about Captain D’s unless we’re in high school or young college students…Zaxby’s may be a bit of a better choice
Comon Cents - Would cut him if I found out he got some strange...
August 28th, 2012
1:40 pm
Well, at least there is no mystery Leggs. If you go out with him a few times and then he takes you to Arizona’s, you know y’all have moved to the next level. No discussion required.
Lady~cool beans :-)
August 28th, 2012
1:40 pm
I knew it was too good to be true~ #goodnews
SlimUno
August 28th, 2012
1:40 pm
Leggs – So where did yall decide to go?
Lady~cool beans :-)
August 28th, 2012
1:40 pm
lol smh
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
August 28th, 2012
1:44 pm
Always be on gaurd that’s an obvious outlook. I’m in no hurry to get it and I wont be strung along now what? If we favor each other then what are we’re waiting for more love? There’s no time frame when couples make their own committment to start a realtionship.
Afternoon:
Leggs
August 28th, 2012
1:44 pm
That’s true, Comon.
Haven’t decided anything. Said he will call tonight with final plans (re: weather).
SlimUno
August 28th, 2012
1:45 pm
CC – I guess it could be fun and exciting as you get to see your progress each date. Start out at the food court at the mall before hitting up the dollar movie. Then fast forward months/years later and you’re up in Ruth Chris or something.
Willie Dynamite
August 28th, 2012
1:45 pm
Afternoon All,
What’s really hapn now?
Nothing on topic.
Swiss – I aint calling calling you a liar but Dude Shet up. Hahaha
Into the Light
August 28th, 2012
1:45 pm
@Leggs: I’m sure a lot of guys have a “scale” like that, but it was tacky to just come right out and say it…IMHO.
@CC: You sure your friend is not trying to, um…you know…..
SlimUno
August 28th, 2012
1:47 pm
ITL – (note to self) Maybe WaHo isn’t such a great idea when I have over 3 more hours to be at work on this dreary day. I’M STRUGGGGGGGGGGLING
Jake...SPJTWB
August 28th, 2012
1:48 pm
Blog Observations:
Swiss has told the God’s honest truth about the male appetite for Steak…hehe
I told ya’ll yesterday that Womb wins out….
Condom man-”quit being childish and talk to me”-Translation-baby, I was a little ticked off, but don’t cut me off, that puddy good
Denzel hit Sanaa when they were making Out of Time-Shole wish I was Denzel….I loves me some Sanaa Lathan, my baby knows that if that opportunity ever magically occurred, Sanaa is as good as Fugged.
Hey Lady
Lady~cool beans :-)
August 28th, 2012
1:49 pm
Into the Light
August 28th, 2012
1:50 pm
@Slim: I know, right??? When the waitress asked if I needed anything else, i said, “a nap, but I don’t think my boss would appreciate that.” She was like, “OH…you gotta go back?”
Guess they get the nap line a lot in there.
BTW, shout out to Kay for using more “honeys” and babys” than I thought humanly possible in one sentence. And to Angela, with your rude, ignoring register-money counting while I’m trying to check out and get back to work self, I hope you stick a spatula where the sun don’t shine!
Ahhhh, much better.
Leggs
August 28th, 2012
1:52 pm
I thought it tacky to say it too, ITL.
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
August 28th, 2012
1:54 pm
Leggs wow dude put it up like that. He wants to start you from ground level, tell him you’re not that kind of lady.
Lady~cool beans :-)
August 28th, 2012
1:55 pm
just got a text gas is 3.94
SlimUno
August 28th, 2012
1:56 pm
Jake – You sound like beau…his celeb crush is Zoe Saldana. My uncle’s is Sade…ex’s was Meagan Good…I think i’d take an Eldris Elba or Derwin Davis (can’t recall his real name)
SlimUno
August 28th, 2012
1:56 pm
Jake – So if your honey came across her celeb crush and gave him some, would it be all good??? Lemme guess, this game only goes one way
i'm swiss
August 28th, 2012
1:57 pm
Willie D / Jake — My bad… Did I leak some classified information there?
Into the Light
August 28th, 2012
1:57 pm
See! My BBB knows how to treat a lady (when he leaves the wolf suit at home!)
Leggs: Sooooo, are you going to go out with him?
Lady~cool beans :-)
August 28th, 2012
1:58 pm
Celeb crush, imaginary crush, wishful thinking crush……..chuckle at all of the above…………….
Jake...SPJTWB
August 28th, 2012
1:59 pm
Leggs/Others-You don’t like that he put it out there….this may be his feeler, and there is nothing wrong with the restuarants he mentioned, and you will be at Chili’s more often than Ruth Chris if it works, guranteed. Don’t be dissing the free meal and drinks!!!
Into the Light
August 28th, 2012
2:00 pm
Actually, I’d like to hear all the guys’ answers to Slim’s 1:56. Do the missuses get a pass for the celeb crush, no matter how unlikely it is????
Celisea: Choir girl (haha) w/glasses and a sexy little bun, smarter than a fifth grader, blowing the smoking gun! Now watch me walk away! :)
August 28th, 2012
2:00 pm
My ex lll (long time luva) was Meagan Good. My BIL was Janet Jackson in her hayday
Leggs
August 28th, 2012
2:00 pm
@BF ~ he knows. Jake, I’m thinking along the same lines listening to him talk.
SlimUno
August 28th, 2012
2:01 pm
I guess there is a thin line between tact and tacky – If we go to Arizona’s just know you’re going to be fugging me tonight
Lady~cool beans :-)
August 28th, 2012
2:02 pm
lol Slim
Leggs
August 28th, 2012
2:03 pm
ITl ~ first got to see if he calls this evening like he said he would. If he does, I’ll go, but it won’t be Applebees.
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
August 28th, 2012
2:03 pm
LOL…….@Light
Leggs you may as well order a pizza, see if he likes that plan.
Into the Light
August 28th, 2012
2:03 pm
@Jake: Nothing wrong with eating at any of those places. I just think it was tacky of him to say it to Leggs like that. He could have just as easily said, “I was thinking Red Lobster or Chili’s….do either of those sound good to you???” The way he presented it makes it sound like she has to earn her way to a higher tier restaurant. Tacky McTackster.
Jake...SPJTWB
August 28th, 2012
2:04 pm
Slim….if my baby came across, maybe Tiger, Denzel, etc… and tossed it up, no I wouldn’t be happy, but I would understand if she brought us some money,money,money,money, Moneybaggggs (Rozay voice)
Into the Light
August 28th, 2012
2:04 pm
Heeeeey, BF! I thought about you at lunch. Got my breakfast on!
SlimUno
August 28th, 2012
2:05 pm
BF – What does her ordering pizza have to do with him?lol
Into the Light
August 28th, 2012
2:08 pm
@Leggs: Ask him if he wants to get a $5 Little Caesars and park at QT and talk.
I kid, I kid…..
i'm swiss
August 28th, 2012
2:08 pm
ITL / Slim — I’ll answer that for me. No passes for nobody, under no circumstances, no exceptions. Mostly because I know it’s a helluva lot more realistic that Mrs. Swiss could actually get it from any of her celebrity crushes than me getting it from any of my celebrity crushes. Plus, (and I know I’m about to get my man card suspended for this) there really aren’t any celebrities who do it for me like Mrs. Swiss does.
SlimUno
August 28th, 2012
2:09 pm
Jake – But why does there have to be the case of her bringing some money home to make it okay? You didn’t mention doing anything other than beating that puddy up in your case. I guess that’ll make you feel better about letting Tiger beat dat dat up, ever which a way lol
Leggs
August 28th, 2012
2:09 pm
Comon Cents - Would cut him if I found out he got some strange...
August 28th, 2012
2:09 pm
BF~ If she orders pizza he thinks he will be fuggin tonight and Lord knows it is not that kind of party.
ITL~ If that was her plan, it backfired horribly because he is now married to another with a baby on the way in Sept.
Jake...SPJTWB
August 28th, 2012
2:10 pm
Tacky McTackster……lol
disco
August 28th, 2012
2:10 pm
leggs – I’ve been to that Arizona’s place.
swiss – re guys cheating I think of Terrence howard in best man when he said the only thing better than puddy is new puddy.
slim – derwin is pooch hall.
and…I’m all caught up.
Leggs
August 28th, 2012
2:10 pm
swiss ~ your mancard will not be revoked. If anything, it’s been upgraded to lifetime membership!
SlimUno
August 28th, 2012
2:12 pm
swiss – Well, if the MLB writes you a citation for that last statement, just know the WLB has thrown a few extra brownie points in your jar for that.
Sweeeeeeet…just enjoy the Mrs as much as possible before The Lil Miss starts taking over lol
Celisea: Choir girl (haha) w/glasses and a sexy little bun, smarter than a fifth grader, blowing the smoking gun! Now watch me walk away! :)
August 28th, 2012
2:12 pm
Oh Lawd…how could I have forgotten….well sort of. Terrence Howard. He’s not as “up” on the list as he use to be. He’s “a’ight”
i'm swiss
August 28th, 2012
2:12 pm
I appreciate that, Leggs, but you have a vajayjay, so technically you can’t issue man cards.
SlimUno
August 28th, 2012
2:12 pm
I know this is random but did Laurence Fishburne ever speak out on his daughter being a p0rn star?
Comon Cents - Would cut him if I found out he got some strange...
August 28th, 2012
2:13 pm
Jake, BF et all men~ That is why it is easier for women to get away with cheating than it is for men; men want to SWEAR they hit it so good that no one else would ever have the opportunity to get up in there. But to borrow disco’s line, the only thing better than d!ck is new d!ck.
Into the Light
August 28th, 2012
2:14 pm
Awwwww, Swissykins. Mrs. Swiss is a lucky woman.
@CC: Oh. Well, maybe she’s the kind of chick that just likes to stir isht.
Comon Cents - Would cut him if I found out he got some strange...
August 28th, 2012
2:14 pm
swiss~ Had Mrs. Swiss heard you just now, you wouldn’t have gotten a coochie coupon, you would have gotten the coochie credit card. (And it would be AMEX baby! No limits!)
Leggs
August 28th, 2012
2:14 pm
swiss ~ I knew you would say I have no leverage. I knew it! Ok, I’ll co-sign SlimUno’s 2:12.
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
August 28th, 2012
2:15 pm
Slim1 when Leggs order the pizza he might reflect on how awful the statement he made was.
Comon Cents - Would cut him if I found out he got some strange...
August 28th, 2012
2:16 pm
ITL~ That is the answer I am left with. But I would still like to see that karmic b!tch slap come around. Although, from what I hear, she may not have gotten the big whomp yet, she has had several little ones.
disco
August 28th, 2012
2:16 pm
CC – yep. men are in straight up denial about that one. a woman cheating on a man is a straight up blow to his ego.
I like Terrence howard and all but like skin AND funny colored eyes. eww. I can’t get with that.
SlimUno
August 28th, 2012
2:17 pm
No leverage = no penis
HST
August 28th, 2012
2:18 pm
Good afternoon all. Since I have no idea from the last page the direction the blog has taken for the day, I’m just going with hello.
It’s raining pretty hard here at the Mall of Ga.
Willie Dynamite
August 28th, 2012
2:18 pm
Swiss – 2 demerits, no explanation needed.
Slim – my Wifey does have LL fever. She knows I have a few celeb crushes but doesn’t sweat it. Her thing is since she says I don’t have celeb fever she’s not concerned bout all that. Her problem is she says I have the gift of gab so it could be a celeb or a chick at QT all the same to me.
Leggs
August 28th, 2012
2:18 pm
Pretty much, SlimUno!!
Leggs
August 28th, 2012
2:19 pm
Hey HST. How are things with you and your lady friend (fiance perhaps). Glad to came up for some air and in all places the Mall of Georgia (lol).
Lady~cool beans :-)
August 28th, 2012
2:20 pm
& the plot thickens~
SlimUno
August 28th, 2012
2:21 pm
BF – Well maybe she can offer a sack full of Krystal’s…i’d take pizza of Krystals anyday lol Oh wait, maybe we should cut it down to just one Krystal Chik lol
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
August 28th, 2012
2:21 pm
Comon I’m past all that I got the best D in the surrounding area. I hear men say that and I know it’s a figment of the imagination. I often hear it from young men trying to fluff up their feathers.
Jake...SPJTWB
August 28th, 2012
2:22 pm
Slim…you’re right, its one way
Comon-you might have made a play on words, but we know that’s a lie, this monster wit a hook typically has great showings, but I would be lying if I said it never accidently went off early. But never on new puddy, I am so proud of Lil Jake, I taught him to always make a good 1st impression…lol
Comon Cents - Would cut him if I found out he got some strange...
August 28th, 2012
2:23 pm
HST! You are still breating! I was worried you might have drowned in some puddy over the last week. I even asked about you on Monday or Friday. How goes it?
HST
August 28th, 2012
2:24 pm
I live by the MOG and Lake Lanier.
No fiance – never will have one of those again…
however, we’re doing well, we just came back from the mountains, and she went to hang with her mother for the afternoon. It’s raining, so I thought I’d stop out here for a bit.
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
August 28th, 2012
2:24 pm
LOL…….@Slim1 at a sack full of Krystals.
i'm swiss
August 28th, 2012
2:25 pm
Willie D — Guilty as charged, and I accept my punishment.
But blog ladies, maybe you all could have a little talk w/ Mrs. Swiss for me, ‘cos right now she’s pissed because we found a little dead scorpion in the house the other day, which of course means that I’m worthless. That’s the formula:
Any sort of critter ever makes it in the house, even if it’s dead == Swiss is worthless and never does jack sheeeeeot.
Lady~cool beans :-)
August 28th, 2012
2:26 pm
3 Reasons Why Men Choose Text Message Over Phone Calls
We text because we can! Look I am just as guilty as the next man for over using text messaging to communicate. It is quick and convenient so we take advantage of that fact. If a woman takes no issue or does not express the fact that she has taken issue with all the text, then we simply won’t stop. Why would we eliminate what works for most of us if you don’t say you have a problem with it? The position of many women for the need to verbally communicate is not shared by a lot of men. To some men as long as you received a message from him and some form of communication, well then mission accomplished.
We don’t feel like talking to your ass! Sometimes when women talk, all a man hears is womp womp womp. So to eliminate that problem we just send you a text. It will minimize the need for a long drawn out conversation that we may feel is pointless. It could also save us from some incessant nagging that we know is about to come. So we simply use our text messaging as our shield. Again it’s just too convenient and if we see it can help us avoid some unnecessary talk and backlash, well then we will put it to use. There are plenty of men who have uttered the line “I’ll just text her for now until she cools down”. May not always be the best approach but the thought process makes perfect sense.
We don’t like you like that! I know that sounds harsh and mean, but I have to be honest. Sometimes a man will mainly use texting because you are not a priority. He may desire to have sex with you but for some women all it takes is some texting to get that ass. So guess what, that is all he may give you in his quest to get some. There are some cases where you may not start off as priority but you get “promoted” to the top spot. So initially while he hasn’t fully determined your value to him you may still mainly get texts instead of phone calls which take more effort and time. Time is precious, and a man isn’t going to give a woman a more time consuming action such as talking if he does not see the value in it. You as the woman have to set your price, and then he will decide if he wants to pay it or not.
of course from a male relationship expert~
HST
August 28th, 2012
2:27 pm
CC, absolutely great, thanks for asking.
Lady, glad to see you, when I was out here previously, I didn’t see you. It could have been me, and my on-and-off again presence on the blog, but whatever…HHHEEEEYYY!
Lady~cool beans :-)
August 28th, 2012
2:29 pm
Howdy HST!!!!! good to read you as well!!!! I am in and out as well…As of lately in but nevertheless good to read ya! glad all is well on your end too!
Poppa Grande
August 28th, 2012
2:30 pm
Good Afternoon-
CC
In regards to Brad and Angelina. The one thing that I’ve known for quite sometime. Crazy Puddy is usually Fire Puddy. Crazy females always keep a man. Angelina used to wear a vile of he ex’sblood (Billy Bob Thornton) around her neck. If that ain’t bar **beep** crazy. I don’t know what is. After seeing her on the Oscars wearing the dress with the long split, I think that she needs to eat a sammich or two. She is getting Olsen-twins thin.
As for hall passes, I used to love myself some Kerry Washington until I actually met her. Right now, I am all about Sonya Richards-Ross, then again most of the US women’s track 4-100 relay team except Allyson Felix.
The wife and I met the Black Dynamite dude the other night at LA Fitness at Atlantic Station. I could tell he made her temperature rise.
Into the Light
August 28th, 2012
2:31 pm
Hey HST! Glad to hear all is well.
@CC: People always get what’s coming to them in the end.
Speaking of bugs, Swiss……
HST
August 28th, 2012
2:32 pm
Lady, I couldn’t feel any differently about texting. I have had to comply with new social standards of contact (in my case texting), but I still will not tweet, FB, and such. I dislike texting most of the time, I’d rather pick up the phone and call; however, sometimes there only is time for texts – no matter the sex.
Leggs
August 28th, 2012
2:34 pm
Dang, Lady, that was a long text (lol).
I met a guy online and we emailed back and forth for a while. When we exchanged numbers, he immediately texted me. I CALLED and told him I prefer to speak over the phone and he said he would too. After that convo, he texted me good night, then good morning, then how’s your day going. I never answered. Months go by and he texts me “hey there, how you doing?” Just stupid….I may have let a good one go bye bye, but I no longer cared.
SlimUno
August 28th, 2012
2:34 pm
WD – The local chicks would be my concern, not some celebrity that is probably bombarded by weirdo proposals and other icky things. The ’round the way girl’ are the ones you have to look out for.
swiss – I know creepy crawly things are not my fav but at least you don’t have a HUGE writing spider that has setup shop right outside the front walkway. The beau does not want to kill it because he says it eats all the other little bugs. This thing is at least 3 to 4 inches long. (shudder) I can put in a good word for you if you take care of it for me
Into the Light
August 28th, 2012
2:34 pm
He said he preferred to call, but yet he kept texting??? Ummmm……
HST
August 28th, 2012
2:35 pm
ITL, what up!
Is it raining by everyone? It finally has slowed down some here, but still raining steadily. I thought I was going to have to start watering by tomorrow if it didn’t rain. My arbors were mad at me…
kimmie
August 28th, 2012
2:35 pm
Hey Poppa!
What did you think of Kerry?
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
August 28th, 2012
2:36 pm
Hey HST I second that motion, get the phone and lets talk. Texting is ok but I like to hear a voice. Old school never dies.
Leggs
August 28th, 2012
2:36 pm
Texting is ok, but pick up the phone sometime and let’s hear the inflections in each other’s voice.
kimmie
August 28th, 2012
2:37 pm
Slim – My coworker has one of those writing spiders in her garden! She took a pic of it and lets just say I would lose my mind, I don’t care if it eats snakes!!
HST
August 28th, 2012
2:38 pm
Leggs & ITL, some guys just don’t get it…
SlimUno
August 28th, 2012
2:38 pm
Sometimes when women talk, all a man hears is womp womp womp.
Lady – hahahaha, the beau just told me in a debate the other night that he often get’s lost in my point when it takes to long to get to the vital stuff. So I feel like i’m back in a school debate team where you have a limited amount of time to get your argument in. Women like details and I guess men, not so much
PG – What turned you off about Kerry after actually meeting her?
Comon Cents - Would cut him if I found out he got some strange...
August 28th, 2012
2:38 pm
After seeing her on the Oscars wearing the dress with the long split, I think that she needs to eat a sammich or two.
I was thinking maybe she should spend less time feeding the orphans and more time feeding herself. Maybe she is trying to look like one of her 3rd world adoptees to make them feel more at ease with her? IDK, but I agree she needs a sammich.
Into the Light
August 28th, 2012
2:39 pm
Hey HST….while you’re at the mall….can I get my bag???
J/K J/K……
I like to talk, but sometimes texting is much more convenient. But you’re right, Leggs, nothing replaces the expressiveness you get with real conversation.
Leggs
August 28th, 2012
2:39 pm
OK BF, we said the same thing at the same time! {{Ring, ring …}}
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
August 28th, 2012
2:40 pm
Leggs we hit the nail on the head at the same time.
i'm swiss
August 28th, 2012
2:40 pm
“Women like details and I guess men, not so much”
Slim — Men like relevant details. But our definition of relevant is obviously vastly different from yours.
Into the Light
August 28th, 2012
2:41 pm
WTH is a writing spider?!?!?!? Like Charlotte????
Comon Cents - Would cut him if I found out he got some strange...
August 28th, 2012
2:41 pm
PG~ I guess that goes along the lines of that song by Buckcherry “Crazy B!tch”
disco
August 28th, 2012
2:42 pm
I do not text and I had my carrier block all incoming texts. I have people telling me constantly that they sent me a text. I’m just like I hope it wasn’t important. I’ll sit and send emails all day long though.
kimmie – re Kerry Washington. my son’s take is that she is – and I quote – “a lifetime movie type of woman”. he likes her and all but says she just comes off as suburban soccer mom no matter what her role is. even in save the last dance when she was supposed to be an inner city hoodrat chick you could see her lifetime coming through.
Into the Light
August 28th, 2012
2:42 pm
(ITL now standing on Blog Ave and Shenanigans St ringing a bell)…….
“Give to the buy Angelina sackful of Krystals fund……”
Poppa Grande
August 28th, 2012
2:42 pm
Hey Kimmie
I don’t really know to explain it. She was nice, courteous, and all that, but I dunno. It is not like she is horrible.
She is definitely a go getter though. She is out there working for Pres. Obama and trying to raise funds for his campaign. So good for her.
Bluzgirl...So ready for the beach!
August 28th, 2012
2:43 pm
A lot of times, I prefer to text. I can’t chat much while I’m at work and I’m on the phone a lot during the day doing business. Sometimes, at night, I don’t feel like talking. Thing is…texting can be dangerous. Sometimes you can say something jokingly and it doesn’t come off that way. Sometimes it can give you a false sense of intimacy. I think there can be a good balance…
SlimUno
August 28th, 2012
2:43 pm
kimmie – I took a picture of it too and put it on fb…Come to find out, another one of my friends has one on their back patio. I said I was going to name it since it does not seem to be going anywhere anytime soon. That joka done got big and he’s in a supreme spot right above the bushes surrounding the walkway…a haven for other flying insects. I came home (or to his house rather) the other day and he had something huge all wrapped up in the web. Ewwwww
HST
August 28th, 2012
2:44 pm
Those spiders are beneficial to your house and garden. I dislike spiders a lot – I’m completely creeped out by them, but they have their place. Luckily, my wasp and lizard population is huge, I’ve had very little spiders this year.
I put up bat houses to control my mosquito population. It’s the third year of having the bat houses, and I have little to no mosquitos this year. I also used the poop to make a slurry to feed my garden – it’s the best garden I’ve ever had, and it’s all organic.
Lady~cool beans :-)
August 28th, 2012
2:45 pm
okay folks peace out~ be safe in the streets!
bye c~
SlimUno
August 28th, 2012
2:46 pm
ITL – check it out
http://images.search.yahoo.com/search/images;_ylt=A0oG7lYGEj1QlH8APv9XNyoA?p=writing+spider&fr=yfp-t-701&fr2=piv-web
Poppa Grande
August 28th, 2012
2:47 pm
My biggest complaint with texting is that it leaves interpretation mostly to the reader.
As a husband, I know good a well that “OK, go ahead and go” can mean different things from my wife depending on how she says. Sometimes, it means that I really can go. Other times, it is a threat that if I go there will be consequences. So, I can’t let texting get me hemmed up in some unnecessary drama.
I, at least, need to hear how it is said.
kimmie
August 28th, 2012
2:49 pm
Texting is good for quick check-ups like “what was the number to that painter again?”, “gonna be about 10 minutes late, stuck in line at the bank”, “is Joe’s house number 249 or 248″?, that kind of stuff. That’s after you’ve established at least a friendship! Just getting to know each other requires real communication, no texts that could be misinterpreted. If you don’t want to hear my mouth, don’t send me some tired text that could be taken 5 different ways!
And if the thought of talking to a woman irritates you that much, why are you even dealing with her?
If all you need is the booty, get you one you can call up any time of day or night that you can get in and get it done without convo and call it a day! Geesh!
Jake...SPJTWB
August 28th, 2012
2:49 pm
Swiss beat me to it, relevant details….Men don’t really what to decipher, telll me exactly what you want me know, its more efficient….this also why we hate shopping with ya’ll, men don’t hate shopping, they hate shopping with women….women are not efficient in that arena.
HST
August 28th, 2012
2:49 pm
Bloggers, there’s about 20 spiders that all look the same as the one(s) you’ve described. Those spiders are harmless, and devour bad insects. Those spiders are omnipresent right now because of locusts and crickets.
Into the Light
August 28th, 2012
2:49 pm
Dayum, Gina!!! Seriously, Slim, I am no longer sleepy from my WaHo lunch – all those pics woke me the right up. (still shuddering)
Celisea: Choir girl (haha) w/glasses and a sexy little bun, smarter than a fifth grader, blowing the smoking gun! Now watch me walk away! :)
August 28th, 2012
2:50 pm
Later Lady
Toodles
HST
August 28th, 2012
2:50 pm
A real man listens.
i'm swiss
August 28th, 2012
2:50 pm
“As a husband, I know good a well that “OK, go ahead and go” can mean different things from my wife depending on how she says. Sometimes, it means that I really can go. Other times, it is a threat that if I go there will be consequences. So, I can’t let texting get me hemmed up in some unnecessary drama.
I, at least, need to hear how it is said.”
PG — I think our respective Mrs’es were separated at birth.
Into the Light
August 28th, 2012
2:52 pm
@Jake: Au contraire, mon ami chocolat….. We are VERY efficient at saving money and getting the best deal. You men are very efficient at saving time, because you know what you want, walk in, grab it and buy it no matter the cost.
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
August 28th, 2012
2:53 pm
Hello, hi Leggs how was your day? You was looking fine as hell when we went to Arozona’s for dinner the other night. I meant to tell you men were checking you out fiercly so I chose not to because you were with me and they didn’t matter.
Bluzgirl...So ready for the beach!
August 28th, 2012
2:53 pm
Slim…that gave me the willies just looking at the pics of those spiders! I’m having a spider issue on my screened in porch. Can’t seem to get rid of those suckers! Anyone know of any good remedies? I let my cats hang out there and don’t want one of them to get bitten…
Into the Light
August 28th, 2012
2:53 pm
And before anyone misreads “mon ami chocolat” and has a hissy fit, it’s in reference to the posts Jake and I swapped last week about being chocolatey. No harm intended.
Disclaimer over.
Comon Cents - Would cut him if I found out he got some strange...
August 28th, 2012
2:54 pm
PG — I think our respective Mrs’es were separated at birth.
Honeys, that it ALL women. Those words go right along with “Fine.”
HST
August 28th, 2012
2:54 pm
So my GF won’t let me drink alcohol during the day or even that often. All I can think about is a bourbon neat! A woman on a pole while I had it wouldn’t be so bad either. Funny, she’ll hit the PP with me,but make me drink Pellegrino.
At least she cares, or loves my abs more…?
i'm swiss
August 28th, 2012
2:56 pm
“We are VERY efficient at saving money and getting the best deal. You men are very efficient at saving time, because you know what you want, walk in, grab it and buy it no matter the cost.”
This is actually a very good metaphor for dating. And is good illustration why quality dudes are spoken for quickly while a lot of chicks get stuck rummaging through whatever is left in the $0.50 bin at Wal-Mart.
kimmie
August 28th, 2012
2:56 pm
Poppa – I know what you mean, some folks just come off that way. I’ve read about alot of stuff she’s involved in, so I give her props.
disco – I don’t know about Lifetime, but I am looking forward to Scandal coming back!
Into the Light
August 28th, 2012
2:56 pm
Dang, BF. If you weren’t my BBB, your 2:53 would have been swoon-worthy (even though it was for Leggs)
HST
August 28th, 2012
2:56 pm
Bluz, keep the lights off at night, and spray for other insects. No food will make them move on to a more desirable location.
Into the Light
August 28th, 2012
2:57 pm
LOL@Swiss. I never thought of it that way, but you might have a point…..
Leggs
August 28th, 2012
2:58 pm
@BF ~ you are crazy (lol).
Into the Light
August 28th, 2012
2:58 pm
@kimmie: I thought of you and For Real when I heard Breaking Bad is ending…..
HST
August 28th, 2012
2:58 pm
I’m Swiss @ 2:56 – what an analogy! From some of the stories out here, that has to be the case.
Poppa Grande
August 28th, 2012
3:00 pm
Suisse
I think that it is taught in the pre-martial counseling.
Just like my pastor’s first words in pre-marital counseling were the following: “If the wife ain’t happy, nobody under your roof will be happy!” 12 years later, I still remember that.
disco
August 28th, 2012
3:00 pm
kimmie – I’m looking forward to scandal too. I actually like Kerry Washington but when he said that I couldn’t help but thinking that she is kind of tame. even when her character (any character) is worked up you don’t see much fire. she’s got a movie coming out this year (django unchained). maybe around Christmastime.
SlimUno
August 28th, 2012
3:00 pm
Spiders seem to be bad this year…even here at work.
kimmie
August 28th, 2012
3:03 pm
Light – Yeah, it’s ending the season after this mini-season ends! I’ll be very sorry to see it go, but they’ve killed so many major characters off I don’t see where the storyline could go!
Bluzgirl...So ready for the beach!
August 28th, 2012
3:03 pm
Thanks HST. I just need to get out there one evening and get to spraying!!!
Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote
August 28th, 2012
3:03 pm
Later y’all have a great rainy eveining if the mood hits you.
Poppa Grande
August 28th, 2012
3:03 pm
* Those words go right along with “Fine.”*
Yep, that is another word that I will not trust via text.
Jake...SPJTWB
August 28th, 2012
3:03 pm
ITL-I want to agree with you, but I can’t…..women think that they are saving money because the sticker says SALE, which sometimes means nothing….We, or I will speak for me, may see something advertised, and make a mental note, see it again, its a little lower price, make a mental note, and set purchase at disclaimer…if it drops to that point…we go and get it. That’s call saving.
Now if its major WANT- we may go ahead and purchase, but our major wants are not usally exclusive, so we cross check every store first, and maybe stop by a pawn shop or two for comparables first.
Leggs
August 28th, 2012
3:03 pm
disco ~ isn’t that the movie starring Jamie Foxx???
HST
August 28th, 2012
3:06 pm
Bluz, spray during the day, wipe the cob-webs down, then spray the places where the cob-webs were, and finally spray the whole porch. Leave the lights off for a few days and most likely they won’t return. If they do repeat the process again. I have such virgin woods that the only way to control nature is with nature itself.
i'm swiss
August 28th, 2012
3:06 pm
“If the wife ain’t happy, nobody under your roof will be happy!”
PG — Yeah, I’ve heard that advice many times, and it’s definitely true. What’s funny about it to me is how many women (Mrs. Swiss included) whole heartedly embrace that adage. I hate to break it to you, ladies, but it’s not a compliment.
It’s just another way of saying y’all will make everybody around you miserable until you get what you want. 
Into the Light
August 28th, 2012
3:07 pm
Night, BF!!!
@Kimmie: Are all the seasons on Netflix? I need to start from the beginning.
disco
August 28th, 2012
3:07 pm
yep. Jamie foxx, Samuel l. Jackson, Leonardo dicaprio, don Johnson. I just looked it up on imdb.
HST
August 28th, 2012
3:07 pm
I’m out, everyone have a great afternoon and evening.
Comon Cents - Would cut him if I found out he got some strange...
August 28th, 2012
3:08 pm
Leggs~ Yes, it is starring Jamie Foxx. And he had the nerve to call it the new Roots. But judging by the trailer, I must say Negative, Ghostrider to that!
Comon Cents - Would cut him if I found out he got some strange...
August 28th, 2012
3:09 pm
Bye, HST! Have fun with your lady love!
kimmie
August 28th, 2012
3:10 pm
Light – I believe it is. I started watching around season 3 & it’s on 5 now. Hubs said I really need to go back and watch the first 2. I believe he said the first season is short too.
Leggs
August 28th, 2012
3:11 pm
swiss ~ I hate to break this to you, but I don’t think any woman has looked at that as a compliment. It may be said with humor, but nothing funny about it.
Jake...SPJTWB
August 28th, 2012
3:11 pm
set a purchase price and mental disclaimer
Leggs
August 28th, 2012
3:11 pm
I’m definitely going to see that movie.
kimmie
August 28th, 2012
3:12 pm
Comon – Why when I read “lady love” I thought of that song by Lou Rawls?! He was a great singer, miss him!
Poppa Grande
August 28th, 2012
3:14 pm
Random thought: I may take advantage of the PF Chang’s free appetizer offer on their Facebook page tonight. I haven’t had the Changs in quite a while. I love the crab wantons.
Willie Dynamite
August 28th, 2012
3:16 pm
Kerry Washington = DSL’s. I really have a hard time getting past those lips. I am but a man.
Re; Women shopping. Women may save more than men but I refuse to goto. Ninety levum stores for a pack of wifebeaters.
Leggs
August 28th, 2012
3:17 pm
Well, from what I’ve heard about PF Changs, I know I won’t be going there. Although I remember ARed thinking that place is as high on the scale and some think it is.
Leggs
August 28th, 2012
3:18 pm
ISN’T as high on the scale as some think it is.
Jake...SPJTWB
August 28th, 2012
3:18 pm
WD-Kerry has a set don’t she, she is cute though, in a lil birdie type of way.
Comon Cents - Would cut him if I found out he got some strange...
August 28th, 2012
3:20 pm
Rut ro! Jake likes em THICK! Red Beans and Rice didn’t miss you, huh Jake?
i'm swiss
August 28th, 2012
3:21 pm
Leggs — Maybe it’s just Mrs. Swiss, then. But she wears it as a badge of honor!
Into the Light
August 28th, 2012
3:21 pm
PF Changs??? Meh, not such a much. We go sometimes for lunch, but I can take it or leave it.
There is a new bagel place open over here now….Brooklyn Water Bagels, and they are yumalicious.
kimmie
August 28th, 2012
3:22 pm
I’m so excited! Baby girl wants to learn piano. I took lessons for 10 years but have not played since I graduated high school. I’m brushing up on reading music and we ordered a Yamaha electric keyboard so I can teach her the basics. It should arrive in the mail today. If all goes well, we’ll invest in a piano. So excited to get back into that. It really gave me an appreciation for good music!
Poppa Grande
August 28th, 2012
3:22 pm
**Re; Women shopping. Women may save more than men but I refuse to goto. Ninety levum stores for a pack of wifebeaters.**
Exactly, if you do that you haven’t really saved anyway. If gas is $4.00 per gallon, you may spend more riding around that if you just did your research on the internet and found the best place to go to get what you are searching for.
Especially if you drive from Stonecrest to Arbor Place for a pair of red shoes, you spent more in gas than is necessary.
Leggs
August 28th, 2012
3:23 pm
swiss ~ women do wear it like a badge. We just know it’s not a compliment. It’s fact, but it’s not a compliment.
Celisea: Choir girl (haha) w/glasses and a sexy little bun, smarter than a fifth grader, blowing the smoking gun! Now watch me walk away! :)
August 28th, 2012
3:23 pm
Or have them shipped (or mgr pick up for your and bring) to your favorite store…namely Belks at Phipps
Celisea: Choir girl (haha) w/glasses and a sexy little bun, smarter than a fifth grader, blowing the smoking gun! Now watch me walk away! :)
August 28th, 2012
3:24 pm
Shoes…that is….back to lurking
Into the Light
August 28th, 2012
3:24 pm
Oh, and Kimmie – Uncle Maddio’s has a salad pizza!
Leggs
August 28th, 2012
3:25 pm
Especially if you drive from Stonecrest to Arbor Place for a pair of red shoes, you spent more in gas than is necessary.
And, PoppaG, that is how I look at things. I got something at a good price, but how much gas did I used to get there. Meaning, bargain shopping is good, but not if I’m making a lot of trips comparison shopping.
Comon Cents - Would cut him if I found out he got some strange...
August 28th, 2012
3:26 pm
Leggs~ I have to disagree on this one. If my mate is the one that makes me mad, everyone will be happy BUT him.
Into the Light
August 28th, 2012
3:27 pm
I look at the ads and online before I go if it’s a big ticket purchase to make sure I am getting the best price.
But you can’t find my favorite designer, Clearance, or his sister, Take Another 30% Off, in the ads or online. Nope. That’s a gotta be there and root through the racks experience. And I love it.
Comon Cents - Would cut him if I found out he got some strange...
August 28th, 2012
3:29 pm
While I may not do all of the comparison shopping, I definitely have to try them on and walk around in them a bit to make sure that they are the correct pair. And, myself personally, I am not a one size fits all kind of girl. I need to make sure the shoe feels as if it was tailor made for me. I also don’t want a shoe that 5000 other people have. IJS…
Bluzgirl...So ready for the beach!
August 28th, 2012
3:29 pm
ITL – you asking about Breaking Bad? I know they do have all 4 seasons on Netflix. I got hooked watching season 1 at the beginning of the year…I hate that they are breaking up this season, though…
Comon Cents - Would cut him if I found out he got some strange...
August 28th, 2012
3:30 pm
ITL~ I also like Clearance’s twin brother Closeout and their younger sibling BOGO as well.
Poppa Grande
August 28th, 2012
3:30 pm
ITL- I am just going for the free. “Free” is my favorite 4 letter word. As far as bagels, I like Goldbergs but there aren’t many around me.
I will say that Changs took really good care of me and the missus after one of their servers nearly had me take a swing at him. He wasted food on her and gave her the towel to clean up. I wrote the regional manager a nice long email. Then, I was contacted with a long apology by the CEO of the restaurant group that they belong in. Two weeks later, we received $300 in vouchers that covered food and alcohol. So, they responded well with customer service for me. Now, I haven’t eaten there since the vouchers were used up nearly 3 years ago.
I definitely wouldn’t get any Frozen Changs out of the supermarket. Whose bright idea was that?
Leggs
August 28th, 2012
3:30 pm
That’s why I don’t like online shopping. I need to try on my clothes before I purchase them.
kimmie
August 28th, 2012
3:31 pm
I don’t have the patience to drive all over town for anything, never have. I know where I can find a deal most times, especially now with the internet. If I can get it online and not have to drive, it’s on. It’s not worth my time and energy and gas if I gotta make it a day trip. There are certain places I like to go for “treasures”, like cool jewelry or just something I know I won’t find anywhere else, but even then I have a certain price limit. All that driving all over town to save 2 cents is stupid – and I don’t think that’s a word to describe me!LOL!!
Into the Light
August 28th, 2012
3:32 pm
Okay, that settles it. If it’s a rainy weekend in Blue Ridge, we’ll be watching Breaking Bad on Netflix.
As long as it doesn’t rain on Saturday, and the seat backs are dried out by game time. Sitting on a seatback, full of rainwater that squeezes out and soaks your feet when you sit down….. #epicfail
Bluzgirl...So ready for the beach!
August 28th, 2012
3:33 pm
I’m one of the odd women who HATES to shop! I do not like trying on clothes. When I go to the store, I go straight to what I need, get it, and get out.
kimmie
August 28th, 2012
3:33 pm
Leggs – Now clothes & especially shoes, I must try on! If it’s something I already have and just want in another color, I’ll get online.
disco
August 28th, 2012
3:35 pm
re pf chang’s. I like the banana spring rolls on the dessert menu.
PG – had a similar experience at maggiano’s. went home and immediately sent an email to the company via their website. they replied via email and sent out gift cards within the week.
Willie Dynamite
August 28th, 2012
3:35 pm
Me- baby here’s (couple hunned). Why don’t you and the girls go FIND those shoes you been talking bout (read;been to 7 diff stores)
Her – oh baby I thought you wanted to go by such and such for some wifebeaters
Me – I did but if you find some I might like that are reasonable pick me up a pack.
Her – okay baby, see you later
Me – (later at the sorts bar). What’s up fellas
Them – dayum we aint seent you since 97. How you get out the house.
Me – (thinking- shiid I just spent $200 on a pack of tshirts). Oh Wifey went shopping so I had a few hours to burn.
Them – oh, us too. Bartender: separate checks.
Leggs
August 28th, 2012
3:36 pm
Exactly kimmie!
Into the Light
August 28th, 2012
3:37 pm
@PG: Oh, see….you didn’t throw in the “free” the first time. Everything tastes better when it’s free. But in general, their food, to me, is just so-so. The restaurant is nicely decorated, though. LOL
I like Goldbergs, too, but I have to say, I think the bagels at Brooklyn are better. If you’re over by Crumblin’ Mall, it’s in the Akers Mill shopping center.
kimmie
August 28th, 2012
3:37 pm
Light – A salad pizza? Fabulous!!!
That sounds like a perfect plan for this weekend – catching up on the early Breaking Bad seasons!! The kids will be gone with their aunt & uncle, so we can let it rip!!!
Jake...SPJTWB
August 28th, 2012
3:39 pm
Comon-what you mean with regard to the thickness??
Leggs
August 28th, 2012
3:39 pm
He said free with his first post (lol).
Poppa Grande
August 28th, 2012
3:42 pm
I don’t think that there food is super great or anything. If it were, I wouldn’t wait 3 years to eat there again. I don’t eat a ton of Asian restaurants anyway because of the sodium.
I don’t doubt that Brooklyn Bagel is good. If they are really NY based or NY recipe that should be good. NYers know how to make some bagels.
Into the Light
August 28th, 2012
3:42 pm
@Kimmie: Yep. And you know there’s a Pinkberry in the same shopping center. Pizza and yogurt for later….win!
@WD: You left off the end of your scenario…..
(in the car)
DynoKids: Ooooh, mama…we had so much fun! And I love all our new clothes! Thank you for letting us go to Justice, too!!
DynoMom: Aw, babies, you’re welcome.
DynoKids: We can’t wait for daddy to see our clothes and shoes!!
DynoMom: Now y’all know to just take the shoe bag in for now. We’ll bring the other bags in when daddy goes to the driving range in the morning.
Into the Light
August 28th, 2012
3:44 pm
@PG: I’m with you on that.
Shoot, they are so New York, Larry King’s picture is on their menu!
No, seriously, it is.
@Leggs; Did he? I must be getting old.
Into the Light
August 28th, 2012
3:48 pm
@Leggs: You’re right. He said free appetizer. I guess I assumed he would be buying entrees to go with.
server: Will there be anything else, sir?
PG: Nah, and here’s the coupon for our free appetizer. Do we owe you anything for the waters??
Server: Well, no sir, but…
PG: Good! BYE!
Poppa Grande
August 28th, 2012
3:48 pm
Speaking of NY, Mrs. PG is there for a trial. I suggested that she eat a Amy Ruth’s Soul Food in Harlem while she was there. She did today for lunch. She texted me a picture of her lunch which was a what the menu calls An Al Sharpton (Chicken and Waffles). She now complains because she want to take a nap.
Willie Dynamite
August 28th, 2012
3:49 pm
ITL – exactly how it goes. Hahaha
Justice – I don’t hate many things but that place is waaay high on my short list.
i'm swiss
August 28th, 2012
3:49 pm
“Larry King’s picture is on their menu”
That would make me lose my appetite.
Comon Cents - Would cut him if I found out he got some strange...
August 28th, 2012
3:55 pm
Comon-what you mean with regard to the thickness??
Not a thing. It just tells me a little somthin, somthin about how you like your women.
Touchy! Touchy!
Comon Cents - Would cut him if I found out he got some strange...
August 28th, 2012
3:57 pm
DynoMom: Now y’all know to just take the shoe bag in for now. We’ll bring the other bags in when daddy goes to the driving range in the morning
You know we ALL know that trick! LMAO!
Willie Dynamite
August 28th, 2012
3:58 pm
“Larry King’s picture is on their menu”
Was it next to Crinkly fries or limp noodles?
Changs is overrated if you ask me. I’ve found better Asian on Buford hwy. I couldn’t even tell you the name cause they don’t even bother to put the store sign or menu in english. But the food was out this world
Celisea: Choir girl (haha) w/glasses and a sexy little bun, smarter than a fifth grader, blowing the smoking gun! Now watch me walk away! :)
August 28th, 2012
3:58 pm
Orient Express
Into the Light
August 28th, 2012
3:59 pm
@WD: If it makes you feel any better, it’s identical to conversations had by mothers and daughters everywhere.
@Swiss: Well, on the takeout menu. I don’t know about the in-store menu. But yeah, I can see where that might curb your appetite.
@CC: Wasn’t it WD who said that about lips????
Celisea: Choir girl (haha) w/glasses and a sexy little bun, smarter than a fifth grader, blowing the smoking gun! Now watch me walk away! :)
August 28th, 2012
4:00 pm
http://www.orientexpressatl.com/menus.php
Into the Light
August 28th, 2012
4:02 pm
@WD: I was there two Sundays ago. Had some pho and bahn mi that were delish!!
Poppa Grande
August 28th, 2012
4:02 pm
WD-
You are correct that Buford Highway has some great Asian food! Yeah, there a places with no english on the sign. My cousin & I mentioned that the other day. We could be missing out of “free sex” or something like that.
Comon Cents - Would cut him if I found out he got some strange...
August 28th, 2012
4:03 pm
ITL~ Yes, It was!
Into the Light
August 28th, 2012
4:05 pm
You might be more correct than you know, PG! I was gonna get a foot massage while I was over there, but the first place I went, the windows were tinted so dark you couldn’t see in and the door was kept locked. She let me in, and re-locked the door behind me. I asked for a foot massage, but she said, “Oh, busy” even though she proceeded to let two men in and send them straight to the back, locking the door behind each guy. I was like, “Nope. Too shady for me!” and went on down the street.
Leggs
August 28th, 2012
4:08 pm
@WillieD ~ have you been to Phuket’s on Buford. Haven’t been in years, but I enjoyed it when I went.
Willie Dynamite
August 28th, 2012
4:13 pm
ITL – shady hunh? Last time I mentioned shady in a post to you iwas explaining all afternoon. So no comment hahaha.
Leggs – Phuket? Is this some kinda set up.
Bluzgirl...So ready for the beach!
August 28th, 2012
4:14 pm
Ugh…just got another text from him that I’m not going to respond to at this time…”Seriously, I like you and want to be your friend. I do not want a girlfriend. I do not want sex. I respect your knowledge and what you do for the blues and the fund, etc. I wish we could just be good friends, really.”
This is an example when texting is not great. He was all about communication last week when we talked. He was the one who said the word “dating” to me. He was the one who pursued me. Now, he’s changed his tune. He should have told me this face to face, but he needs to hide behind a text.
I won’t reply and then I’m sure he’ll say something about me not talking to him. Then I will respond and say that he said I’m being childish when he’s the one who wouldn’t talk to me all weekend and then hides behind a text. If he really respects me, he would have come and talked to me face to face…
Into the Light
August 28th, 2012
4:15 pm
Ouch, WD. I thought we were blog pals.
Into the Light
August 28th, 2012
4:17 pm
Um, Bluz???? If you carry on in person like you just did in that post, I understand why he texted that. I’m not trying to be unkind, but like I said yesterday, you are a bit intense.
blog love xoxo
Jake...SPJTWB
August 28th, 2012
4:17 pm
CoMon-yeah we were talkin about lips, but to be honest, my type was tall, chocolate, and bo-legged, or least it looks like it when she stands back on them; however, I have a real love of women.
I can generally find something worth-noting on just about any woman….I’m am partial to my sistas, but I have tried other flavors and found them to be delicious as well, but Chocolate is my fav. I top out at about the Jill Scott range, lil Jill. As a man, I am truly blessed to be able to look at all the beautiful women this world offers, I only wish that each Individual lady could see her own beauty as I do. No surgeries,no Body Magic, just be you!!!
disco
August 28th, 2012
4:19 pm
jake – I like how you said “lil jill”. lol.
Celisea: Choir girl (haha) w/glasses and a sexy little bun, smarter than a fifth grader, blowing the smoking gun! Now watch me walk away! :)
August 28th, 2012
4:20 pm
That was lovely and well said.
Leggs
August 28th, 2012
4:21 pm
Leggs – Phuket? Is this some kinda set up.
Too funny because I used to think one can seriously get in trouble saying it to fast, but I believe that’s the correct spelling.
Bluzgirl...So ready for the beach!
August 28th, 2012
4:21 pm
ITL – I needed to vent about it. It just ticks me off. I’ve been nothing but nice and caring towards him and now he changes his tune because I got trashed at a blues bar on a Friday night. Like he’s Mr. Perfect.
Better I vent here about it than talk to him at this moment…
Into the Light
August 28th, 2012
4:22 pm
*sigh* I love days when the MLB let it flow and say stuff from the heart (a la Swiss and Jake)
Bluzgirl...So ready for the beach!
August 28th, 2012
4:23 pm
Plus…is he playing up us being really good friends so I’ll still help him out with his blues band? I won’t be used by another man…
Leggs
August 28th, 2012
4:23 pm
He was the one who said the word “dating” to me. He was the one who pursued me. Now, he’s changed his tune – A lot changes their minds once they’ve sampled the product. Not
Into the Light
August 28th, 2012
4:24 pm
Okay, Bluz. If that’s how you see it.
Leggs
August 28th, 2012
4:24 pm
saying that’s a bad thing if two consenting adults, just that it happens sometimes.
Celisea: Choir girl (haha) w/glasses and a sexy little bun, smarter than a fifth grader, blowing the smoking gun! Now watch me walk away! :)
August 28th, 2012
4:24 pm
Bluzy – He’s said it again. Don’t read no more into what he said. Let it ride and don’t look back.
Into the Light
August 28th, 2012
4:25 pm
My guess would be he’s playing up the friend aspect to dispel any lingering romantic notions you may have. But that’s just my guess.
Ask the guys….
Comon Cents - Would cut him if I found out he got some strange...
August 28th, 2012
4:26 pm
Jake~ You just made me sigh a little. Lovely post…
Bluzgirl...So ready for the beach!
August 28th, 2012
4:27 pm
Well…I’m gonna need some time to process all of this. Yes…it hurts my feelings. It bruises my ego, but I’ll bounce back. I’m so thankful I’m getting out of town this weekend. I need it now more than ever!!!
Comon Cents - Would cut him if I found out he got some strange...
August 28th, 2012
4:28 pm
Just scored tix to Mary J and D’Angelo tonight. (Friends don’t want to go because it might rain) I’m about to put on a poncho and a rain hat, take my umbrella and go feel the LOVE of Mary! Yay! Y’all have a good night!
Poppa Grande
August 28th, 2012
4:29 pm
* As a man, I am truly blessed to be able to look at all the beautiful women this world offers, I only wish that each Individual lady could see her own beauty as I do. No surgeries,no Body Magic, just be you!!!*
That was one of the reasons that I quit watching America’s Next Top Model and really have a problem with pageants in general. My wife doesn’t understand why i am so against children in pageant Joibenet Ramsey style. It tends to indoctrinate the young’un that they aren’t beautiful enough.
As for Next Top Model, that Janice Dickinson chick called enough females fat that really weren’t especially sistas.
Willie Dynamite
August 28th, 2012
4:29 pm
ITL – we are, I was just kidding responding to your PG post. Hahaha
Jake – we are on the same page.
Leggs – Don’t think I been to Phuket. I have been up/down Buford years ago and to so many places. I’m international like that. Hahaha
Comon Cents - Sorry I don't have time to be sensitive Bluz~ It is what it is...
August 28th, 2012
4:31 pm
is he playing up us being really good friends so I’ll still help him out with his blues band? I won’t be used by another man…
Too late.
Poppa Grande
August 28th, 2012
4:35 pm
** I have been up/down Buford years ago and to so many places. I’m international like that. Hahaha**
Leggs
August 28th, 2012
4:35 pm
WillieD ~ I just googled it and found out it’s closed. It was a Thai restaurant.
i'm swiss
August 28th, 2012
4:36 pm
“My guess would be he’s playing up the friend aspect to dispel any lingering romantic notions you may have. But that’s just my guess.
Ask the guys….”
My guess would be that he was all for the FWB arrangement, but quickly realized the he was actually dealing with a Stage 5 Clinger, and now he has to ab.ort that mission.
Side note: So, apparently you can’t say the word “ab.ort” on the blog. Stupid F#$KING filtering “logic!”
Celisea: Choir girl (haha) w/glasses and a sexy little bun, smarter than a fifth grader, blowing the smoking gun! Now watch me walk away! :)
August 28th, 2012
4:37 pm
Remind me to NEVER come here for therapy….lololol
Into the Light
August 28th, 2012
4:38 pm
Oooooh, I love Thai! Curry and basil and garlic…..yes, please.
Celisea: Choir girl (haha) w/glasses and a sexy little bun, smarter than a fifth grader, blowing the smoking gun! Now watch me walk away! :)
August 28th, 2012
4:38 pm
I wouldn’t it though on that kind of scale. Tell buddy to kick rocks and KIM
Celisea: Choir girl (haha) w/glasses and a sexy little bun, smarter than a fifth grader, blowing the smoking gun! Now watch me walk away! :)
August 28th, 2012
4:38 pm
I wouldn’t NEED it though
Willie Dynamite
August 28th, 2012
4:40 pm
Bluz- sounds like THAT DUDE is following the fwb playbook. You didn’t read the fine print. You gon miss that D hunh. And another one bites the dust. Read the rules and instructions.
PG – at least let me think I’m international. Hahaha
Celisea: Choir girl (haha) w/glasses and a sexy little bun, smarter than a fifth grader, blowing the smoking gun! Now watch me walk away! :)
August 28th, 2012
4:41 pm
Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional. ~ M. Kathleen Casey
Bluzy – Before I hit the road…this one is for you
Celisea: Choir girl (haha) w/glasses and a sexy little bun, smarter than a fifth grader, blowing the smoking gun! Now watch me walk away! :)
August 28th, 2012
4:42 pm
Bluzy, he’s really no different than the average man. It’s all in how the game is played. As disco would say, don’t hate the player, hate the game.
i'm swiss
August 28th, 2012
4:43 pm
All this Phuket talk reminds me of this:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VhQhZyNKqhM
Poppa Grande
August 28th, 2012
4:45 pm
Bluz-
I concur with the other fellas. He wanted FWB and it didn’t work out as he hoped so he had to change course.
disco
August 28th, 2012
4:46 pm
C – I’ll add don’t be a sore loser or a poor sport when you lose the game. knocking all the pieces on the floor and stomping off is not a good look.
Poppa Grande
August 28th, 2012
4:47 pm
PG -
You are as international as you wanna be.
Into the Light
August 28th, 2012
4:47 pm
@Bluz: So, three different guys who have read your dilema all have the same take……
Celisea: Choir girl (haha) w/glasses and a sexy little bun, smarter than a fifth grader, blowing the smoking gun! Now watch me walk away! :)
August 28th, 2012
4:47 pm
disco – No it’s not. Just learn something from it and what to do or not the next time. And more than anything, if you don’t have the heart for that sort of play, dismiss yourself from the game.
Willie Dynamite
August 28th, 2012
4:49 pm
Cel – the average Man is not a homeless, jobless alcoholic. But the average man can get some puddy. IJS hahaha
ATL Guy
August 28th, 2012
4:49 pm
I’ll take you out Bluz. We can have a gooood time…
Jake...SPJTWB
August 28th, 2012
4:50 pm
Any other involuntary reactions occur ITL/CoMon? Sorry, I had to ask…lol
Celisea: Choir girl (haha) w/glasses and a sexy little bun, smarter than a fifth grader, blowing the smoking gun! Now watch me walk away! :)
August 28th, 2012
4:50 pm
disco – Not it’s not…as in not a good look…I agree
Bluzgirl...So ready for the beach!
August 28th, 2012
4:51 pm
So guys…if he just wanted FWB, then why was he the one to bring up that we are dating and take me out? It’s not like it was just booty calls or anything
disco
August 28th, 2012
4:51 pm
C – you give practical advice. I give BS advice. if you can’t play but you aren’t a good loser you need to practice cheating or at least practice bluffing. there are ways around just plain getting your butt whooped time and time again. you can renege or something. lol.
i'm swiss
August 28th, 2012
4:51 pm
To quote from Dave Chappelle:
“If a man could get puddy living in a cardboard box, he wouldn’t buy a house”
Exhibit A: See Bluz’s dude.
Celisea: Choir girl (haha) w/glasses and a sexy little bun, smarter than a fifth grader, blowing the smoking gun! Now watch me walk away! :)
August 28th, 2012
4:51 pm
Willie – But the average man can get some puddy
You ain’t never lied…lol soooo true
CC
August 28th, 2012
4:52 pm
Sorry for the shortened moniker, but it is harder to type in the box from my phone! Boy! Y’all move fast! Trying to catch up on Bluzy’s latest dilemma from the car. (Yes, I will admit I am addicted to Bluz drama like a bad talk show! Happy, disco?)
Celisea: Choir girl (haha) w/glasses and a sexy little bun, smarter than a fifth grader, blowing the smoking gun! Now watch me walk away! :)
August 28th, 2012
4:53 pm
disco – This time, Imma have to agree….lol Bluz need to implement some stuff that’s gonna give her a raw edge. Some “roughage.”
Leggs
August 28th, 2012
4:53 pm
“…if he just wanted FWB, then why was he the one to bring up that we are dating and take me out?” Same strategy men use when telling a woman one day he will marry her, but never gives her a ring.
Celisea: Choir girl (haha) w/glasses and a sexy little bun, smarter than a fifth grader, blowing the smoking gun! Now watch me walk away! :)
August 28th, 2012
4:54 pm
No matter how many times and how the question is asked, the answer will likely remain the same.
i'm swiss
August 28th, 2012
4:55 pm
Bluz — Who knows? Maybe he thought that’s what you needed to hear to be okay with giving it up? Maybe he actually did like you, but then got scared off by how — um, what was ITL’s word? — intense you are. Maybe he was put off by the sloppy drunken shenanigans. Who knows? But one thing I can tell you for sure. People’s actions will tell you a lot more than their words. And if he really wanted something meaningful with you, you’d know it.
Celisea: Choir girl (haha) w/glasses and a sexy little bun, smarter than a fifth grader, blowing the smoking gun! Now watch me walk away! :)
August 28th, 2012
4:56 pm
I thought MMeello would get a chance to pop back in. He usually can the end of day.
CC
August 28th, 2012
4:56 pm
He wanted FWB but he knew you wanted more, so he tried to go that route so he could keep knocking the boots but then, to borrow swiss’ statement, he realized you were a stage 5 clinger (no only that but an emotionally unstable one that drinks too much) and he bailed. Now, he doesn’t want to loose your connections ( or the opportunity to hit that in the future) so he is buttering you up and trying to talk. Capiche?
Poppa Grande
August 28th, 2012
4:56 pm
Bluz…
All I gonna say is “make sure that the actions, match the words that come out of his mouth” . If they don’t then there is a discrepancy that should be reconciled.
disco
August 28th, 2012
4:57 pm
CC – your addiction does not make me happy. I’d be lying if I said I got any joy out of your admission. I’d recommend counseling or therapy except that it’s been proven on the blog that counseling and/or therapy isn’t nearly as effective as it should be. I, personally, am not drawn into the adventures and antics of bluz. poor child gives me a headache. I just don’t have that much patience.
Bluzgirl...So ready for the beach!
August 28th, 2012
4:57 pm
We haven’t even had sex since HE said we were dating. Oh well. Chalk it up to another experience. I just wish he had come talked to me in person…
Bluzgirl...So ready for the beach!
August 28th, 2012
4:58 pm
I’m out of here and heading home. Will check in when I get there…
Into the Light
August 28th, 2012
4:59 pm
@Bluz: Are you ever going to truly hear us?!?!?!??!
CC
August 28th, 2012
4:59 pm
Swiss~ She is Gigi in “He’s just not that into you”
Have you read that book or seen the movie, Bluz? You are Gigi! I’m with ITL, I would be shaking you by the shoulders if this was real life!!!
Willie Dynamite
August 28th, 2012
5:00 pm
Bluz bluz bluz – some people buy cereal because they like it. Some people buy cereal just to get the prize.
Take your heart and mind out of the equation. This was purely physical point blank. Let it go and move on. Really.
Celisea: Choir girl (haha) w/glasses and a sexy little bun, smarter than a fifth grader, blowing the smoking gun! Now watch me walk away! :)
August 28th, 2012
5:00 pm
Cause he’s done that already. And like someone said, you should know it’s a turn off dealing with a drunken woman and a clingon. Not trying to sound harsh. You’re concentrating on all he said or didn’t say but none of what may have run him off. I still believe initially you had the opportunity to make it stick. I’m not a man but the first signs of a drunk and I’m out of there. I don’t care how many times we’ve had sex.
CC
August 28th, 2012
5:00 pm
disco~ I thought you would be happy I admitted it though… LOL!
Leggs
August 28th, 2012
5:00 pm
That’s because you got so wasted Friday. He wasn’t interested with everything else going on your lives.
Into the Light
August 28th, 2012
5:01 pm
@Swiss: You read my mind!!
Celisea
August 28th, 2012
5:01 pm
And I can promise you, you don’t know what it is to deal with the drunken you, because you’re not the one having to deal with it. He was.
Jake...SPJTWB
August 28th, 2012
5:02 pm
See that, he mentioned dating, and the puddy well dried up….when it was undefined, ya’ll was fugging like rabbits….makes absolutely NO FUGGIN SENSE!!!!
Be Easy
i'm swiss
August 28th, 2012
5:03 pm
CC — Oh lawd, don’t tell her that! Now she’s gonna think she’ll end up with the guy in the end like in the movie. (Yeah, yeah, I’m married, so I had to watch that sh!t).
She’s not Gigi or anybody else. She’s Bluz, and if this dude were really into her, there wouldn’t be any doubts.
Celisea
August 28th, 2012
5:05 pm
We’ve been on this ride with Bluzy over a year now…the band dude, the clown and Magnum. Bluzy’s tone has pretty much been the same through them all. IJS
CC
August 28th, 2012
5:06 pm
swiss~ What they don’t show you in the movie is she ended up with dude, but he constantly dogs er because he will always be a player but he needed somneone on his arm to hostess his parties and all that happy crappy. That’s why there was no sequel… LOL!
disco
August 28th, 2012
5:07 pm
I think part of my problem is that I’m biased against “man-dumb”. I know everyone has their strengths and weaknesses and all that but I can’t stand to see a woman that is relatively sensible in most other aspects act a damned fool when there’s a man involved. burns me up.
Into the Light
August 28th, 2012
5:08 pm
Don’t say that, Jake! She’ll see that as another rabbit trail to run down.
@Bluz: If you really, really, really want to know what happened, read, reread, and reread again Swiss’s 4:55, the first half of CC’s 4:56 (minus the part about losing connections), WD’s 5:00 and Celisea’s 5:00. They all say basically the same thing because they are all RIGHT ON THE MONEY!!! Print it and tape it to your bathroom mirror if you have to. No ifs, no ands, no buts…..read the truth and OWN the truth. DAYUM!
CC
August 28th, 2012
5:09 pm
Cosign on disco’s 5:07
Leggs
August 28th, 2012
5:10 pm
Nite.
Willie Dynamite
August 28th, 2012
5:11 pm
Not trying to be mean but yall trying to get all deep. I told yall Bluz was being put on the team. He got her on a schedule. Go back and look its classic 101. Beat her down good, get busy and/or go outta twon. Beat her down good. Dog her out make her think its her fault. Wait 1-2 weeks beat her down good again. Rinse and repeat for bout 6 months.
CC
August 28th, 2012
5:12 pm
ITL~ You don’t think that part of him wants her to still do stuff to advance his music career? I do! Especially if the show last night went decent AND he didn’t have to put up with her foolishness? Yeah, he’s all over that part!
Into the Light
August 28th, 2012
5:12 pm
(ITL now hanging her head in shame….how do I let this get me so aggravated????)
Celisea
August 28th, 2012
5:12 pm
Beat her down good. Dog her out make her think its her fault. Wait 1-2 weeks beat her down good again. Rinse and repeat for bout 6 months.
OMGawd….lololololol…stoooooooppit
CC
August 28th, 2012
5:12 pm
WD~ You got me LMAO in the car with that 5:11!
i'm swiss
August 28th, 2012
5:13 pm
“What they don’t show you in the movie is she ended up with dude, but he constantly dogs er because he will always be a player but he needed somneone on his arm to hostess his parties and all that happy crappy. That’s why there was no sequel…”
CC — Ah, okay, well that could really happen. So, Bluz, read the book, but stay away from the movie. There’s no Hollywood ending in real life.
Seriously, though, you wreak of desperation — like you’re not complete unless you have a man in your life. Dudes can sense that like sharks smell blood in the ocean. The good dudes won’t want to deal with the accompanying mania and the players will want to take advantage of your vulnerability. You need to take some time to get to a point where you’re happy with your life and yourself sans boo, and then you’ll be amazed at the different caliber of dude you attract.
Celisea
August 28th, 2012
5:15 pm
I shole hope she does come back and read once she’s home. I hope this time, something sticks.
Into the Light
August 28th, 2012
5:15 pm
Maybe so, WD, maybe so.
CC- I don’t think that’s it, because they’ve been friends for a long time. If that was all he wanted, he could have asked her before now. Although……now that you mention it, he could be trying to prevent her “badmouthing” him to people who book shows…..but that is dependant on how much clout she has in the blues community.
disco
August 28th, 2012
5:17 pm
man-dumb
i'm swiss
August 28th, 2012
5:17 pm
WD — See now, weren’t you just chastising me for giving out classified information???
Into the Light
August 28th, 2012
5:18 pm
Look at Swiss, going all big bro and giving the tough love now. Maybe she’ll hear it from you…..
Me, too, re: Celisea’s 5:15
Willie Dynamite
August 28th, 2012
5:19 pm
Swiss – touche` 2 demerits for me. Hahaha
Into the Light
August 28th, 2012
5:20 pm
I wish I had had this blog or a copy of the MLB law book 10 years ago. I might be married to the man of my dreams right now.
Into the Light
August 28th, 2012
5:20 pm
Willie’s in the corner…..Willie’s in the corner….na na na naaaaa naaaaa…..
Comon Cents
August 28th, 2012
5:21 pm
O/T~ I hate when I’m all set to power through the yellow light and the car in front of me chickens out!
Into the Light
August 28th, 2012
5:23 pm
That’s it for me. Y’all be sweet. Blog smooches.
Bluz, if you’re back and reading this, just remember we tell you this because we blog love you and are trying to save you from learning things the hard way like we had to.
Comon Cents
August 28th, 2012
5:23 pm
Lol at ITL’s 1st 5:20!
i'm swiss
August 28th, 2012
5:23 pm
“I might be married to the man of my dreams right now.”
ITL — You were still white 10 years ago, right? So, I’d probably have just eaten that puddy & kept it moving…
(I kid, I kid)
Willie Dynamite
August 28th, 2012
5:27 pm
Classic Swiss, we are erasing your 2 demerits for that one. Too funny.
Comon Cents
August 28th, 2012
5:27 pm
swiss~ For the 3rd time, I reiterate, YOU STOOPID!
Bluzgirl
August 28th, 2012
5:44 pm
I’vew read everything. I’ve had enough for today. It’s stung a bit. Kind of wish I hadn’t decided to take a break from drinking…sure feel like I could use several right now…
Comon Cents
August 28th, 2012
5:51 pm
Don’t start drinking. That will just make you do something you will regret even more tomorrow. Just chill. Work on your bass lesson. Anything but think about him and this situation. It’s always amazing how much better things look after a good nights sleep.
Bluzgirl
August 28th, 2012
5:57 pm
I’m not going to drink…I’m listening to some angry punk music now and will work on my bass…I’ll keep myself busy. I know drinking now isn’t good because I’ll text him things I may regret…
Matchkwik
August 28th, 2012
8:15 pm
Go slow and date a lot…..don’t put all your eggs in one basket……..