I finally watched the Oprah’s Next Chapter – Rhianna. I have to admit, I thought the interview was interesting and I came away with a clearer understanding of the personality behind the pop star image.
During the interview, Rhianna mentioned that her Grandmother would tell her that she should marry someone who loves her more than she loved him. I have always been told the same thing from my Grandmother! Honestly, for a really long time, I didn’t get what this meant.
Now that I am older and have had my heartbroken a couple times, I know what the intent behind the message is. Women love harder than men…naturally. So in order to “balance” things out – you have to have a man who loves you more.
Do you agree with this sentiment? Do you think loving harder/more is about power in a relationship? Is that something a couple in love should even be concerned about?
By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog