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Is inexperience a bad thing?

When you get to be my age *cough*, you go through enough dating misadventures to get a little “wisdom” (see what I did there?) and gain a lot of experience. You figure out what works, what doesn’t. You define what you like and what you absolutely can’t stand. Experience is a good thing. What happens when you don’t have past experiences though?

I was talking to a friend who is seeing a new guy who is a lot younger than she is, which means he has not dated many women. Sometimes, she can tell because of how he reacts and handles certain situations.
Thankfully, she is a patient woman and feels he is worth it.

Do you think that dating someone who has little or no experience is hard? Have you ever been the first love, first relationship, or first lover? Do you feel any pressure?

They say we are the sum of all of our experiences, what happens when our experiences add up to zero??

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog

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Single and Happy "I'm not crazy, I'm just upset because my imaginary friend is mad and won't talk to me!"

August 22nd, 2012
7:27 am

Inexperience and young doesn’t always go hand and hand. It can be a good thing because there’s not all that baggage from years of failed relationships. and you have to remember their your S/O not your child for you to nurture!

Exiled!

August 22nd, 2012
7:59 am

Zig zagging around just because to leave my mark….First!

On topic:

I’m struck by Diva’s last sentence..(cough) your experience adding up yo zilch,zer0,0!

See,it’s better to have inexperience but score!

Than get washed up with experience!

Experience in dating only counts if it gets you u some longterm warm body eventually.

………,

Ok Second!

Grrrrr

Exiled!

August 22nd, 2012
8:00 am

adding up to

Exiled!

August 22nd, 2012
8:03 am

Yesterday I was reading the blog afterhours(can u believe)

I am an addict!

I must confess,I read Bluz’s 11:19 and just burst out laughing very loud,jerking in my chair. :lol:

I tell ya!

Miss the blog

Celisea....He who laughs last, laughs on: Winning!

August 22nd, 2012
8:19 am

See, I was going to try and be a little quiet and work today but Meello, your 8:03 made me burst out laughing. Addicted huh? Yeah, it happens…lol

Morning!!

Celisea....He who laughs last, laughs on: Winning!

August 22nd, 2012
8:20 am

I can’t believe I’m here THIS early :) Well, I have to leave early so yeah, I can believe it.

Celisea....He who laughs last, laughs on: Winning!

August 22nd, 2012
8:23 am

On topic: Inexperience is not a bad thing if you’ve not lived long enough to have any. No, it’s not a bad thing for a kid. As for adults, I just find it hard to believe you don’t have any experience. Maybe not MY experience but (you will have) experience none the less. It comes with each year you live. Unless you’re in a box and never leave the house, never work, never interact then yeah, I can see that. But if you make a trip through the drive-thru, YOU GOT EXPERIENCE. Now, if you want to be a cougar and go for the more younger sect, then you can’t rush and force what they’ve not come into yet. Either be patient (cause school is definitely in), or get with someone your own age…lol

Me personally, no can do.

Celisea....He who laughs last, laughs on: Winning!

August 22nd, 2012
8:26 am

What happens when you don’t have past experiences though?

No such thing. I think we need to clarify a gang of stuff versus to fill a notebook versus a notepad of “stuff” you’ve done does not make you inexperience.

Celisea....He who laughs last, laughs on: Winning!

August 22nd, 2012
8:28 am

Okay…again….a gang of stuff to fill a notebook versus a ONLY a notepad of stuff does not make you inexperienced.

Okay, I need coffee!!

Celisea....He who laughs last, laughs on: Winning!

August 22nd, 2012
8:28 am

And I still made a boo boo :(

Celisea....He who laughs last, laughs on: Winning!

August 22nd, 2012
8:34 am

ATL Guy

August 22nd, 2012
8:39 am

G’ Morning Blog Family!

Single and Happy "I'm not crazy, I'm just upset because my imaginary friend is mad and won't talk to me!"

August 22nd, 2012
8:49 am

I always knew coffee was bad for you!!

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 22nd, 2012
8:53 am

LOL…….@Everything Cely said. You got me falling out over here Cely.

Good Morning:

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 22nd, 2012
8:55 am

I forgot to say welcome to the morning crew.

Celisea....He who laughs last, laughs on: Winning!

August 22nd, 2012
8:56 am

Heeeey there Blackfoote :) How goes it this morning?

I’m sipping on a stroooong cup of java and I don’t do “strong” coffee…lol

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 22nd, 2012
9:00 am

I should mention to that I do agree with all your posts.

Celisea....He who laughs last, laughs on: Winning!

August 22nd, 2012
9:01 am

Why thank you kind sir :) Imma have to work today. I gotta get out of here early and I sort of dragged yesterday

Leggs

August 22nd, 2012
9:01 am

Good morning.

Yeah, I knew coffee was bad for a person. She took grouchy to another level, Celisea!!

I am inexperienced in some areas, and more experienced in others. To form a relationship with someone w/little experience would be problematic for me. To have to rely on buckets of patience would take the wind out of my sail. Everyone has experience on some level.

Bluzgirl

August 22nd, 2012
9:01 am

Good morning! I’m just now starting my first cup of coffee, so I can’t even think straight yet! LOL! I’ve always liked older men…guys my age or younger just act immature and I don’t know if it’s lack of experience or what. I have no patience for them. Of course, yes…older men can be immature also, but at least they have life under there belts…

disco

August 22nd, 2012
9:02 am

good morning crew.

celisea – what’s in that coffee you are sipping?

Celisea....He who laughs last, laughs on: Winning!

August 22nd, 2012
9:02 am

Leggs – For Real. I mean, then to call and say he fell down the steps when all along you committed mugacide?? C’moooon

Celisea....He who laughs last, laughs on: Winning!

August 22nd, 2012
9:03 am

disco – That made me laugh. It’s strong…for real

Comon Cents

August 22nd, 2012
9:20 am

On Topic~ I think thatt everyone arrives at the same point in life with different sets of baggage. Experience is definitely relative and not all experiences are positive and growth encouraging.

Off topic~ Bluz~ Don’t try to be sliding up in here all incognegro and not telling us! Dish girl! What happened with Magnum last night?!?

Oh, yeah, Good morning all!

Comon Cents

August 22nd, 2012
9:23 am

Damn, C, you starting us out early this morning! LOL! He must have asked her for some ish EARLY in the morning before she had that first cup. :lol: Even my kids know not to talk to me before I get the first cup of java in…

Single and Happy "I'm not crazy, I'm just upset because my imaginary friend is mad and won't talk to me!"

August 22nd, 2012
9:27 am

C from yesterday, the Islands are great during the New years never been there during Christmas, just make sure you go further south than Grand Bahama it can get on the chilly side there.

disco

August 22nd, 2012
9:27 am

I am not a coffee drinker but CC your post (and that story) confirms what I have always suspected. coffee should be on the controlled substance list. folks are for real about their coffee.

Lady~cool beans :-)

August 22nd, 2012
9:27 am

running in and hiding! whew what a morning! okay catching up! oh howdy crew! what is poppin’!?! :-)

Bluzgirl

August 22nd, 2012
9:28 am

CC – I was trying to wait a bit for topic change!! LOL!

Dinner went really well and we talked about anything and everything and just laid it all out on the table. He sat next to me in the booth, which no man has ever done. A lot of what happened this weekend was lack of communication on both of our parts. He was waiting to hear from me…I was waiting to hear from him. He was really upset that I felt the way I did on Saturday and he apologized profusely. I heard him out and I’m willing to give him another chance. So…we are now dating. I’ll have my guard up and not jump into a relationship…we’re just going to see where it goes.

We did NOT have sex last night. I do have to admit, he had to rush out because he got a call from his sister about his dog not doing well. But…we were just enjoying hanging out and that’s all I wanted last night. Oh…and he drank water with dinner and one glass of wine when we got home. We talked about the drinking and he said that he went a little too overboard in Nola and has decided to back way off. No liquor or beer…maybe a glass or two of red wine every now and then.

We’ll see where it goes. I’m pretty scared of getting too involved and need to keep myself in check, but we like each other, so why not give it a shot? I have promised myself (and my mother) that I will not waste time, though. If things start turning sour, I will walk away before I sucked in…

Single and Happy "I'm not crazy, I'm just upset because my imaginary friend is mad and won't talk to me!"

August 22nd, 2012
9:28 am

Leggs, what do you have to have patience with

Single and Happy "I'm not crazy, I'm just upset because my imaginary friend is mad and won't talk to me!"

August 22nd, 2012
9:33 am

Enter your comments here

Celisea....He who laughs last, laughs on: Winning!

August 22nd, 2012
9:34 am

Comon Cents – Honey, I will make sure not to chat or anything until you’ve indicated you’ve had your first cup…lol Not trying to be a victim of mugacide…lol

Single and Happy – Thanks

Bluzy – So…we are now dating

Look at you propelling from FWB to dating!!! Git git girl…lol I got faith in you. Now buddy and his issues (and yours) are a different beast to conquer, but if you like him (and he you), I love him. Work it out :) :) Good girl, for not smashing.

Celisea....He who laughs last, laughs on: Winning!

August 22nd, 2012
9:35 am

Looks like we might have to retire the couch.

Single and Happy "I'm not crazy, I'm just upset because my imaginary friend is mad and won't talk to me!"

August 22nd, 2012
9:35 am

Comon Cents, where did you get Incognegro from?

Comon Cents

August 22nd, 2012
9:35 am

So…. you bought everything he said hook, line and sinker and had his dog not been sick you would have smashed last night. When is he moving in?

Single and Happy "I'm not crazy, I'm just upset because my imaginary friend is mad and won't talk to me!"

August 22nd, 2012
9:36 am

rotflmao at Comon (she just said what everyone was thinking)

Comon Cents

August 22nd, 2012
9:37 am

Incognegro came from way back in the Morris Brown days. Someone I went to school with used to say it. Why?

Celisea....He who laughs last, laughs on: Winning!

August 22nd, 2012
9:37 am

Comon Cents – Now now, be nice…and positive. We know there are many underlying issues but at least she wasn’t driven by her loins and they had a sober convo. That’s progress.

We need to support and keep our blog baby uplifted…lol

Lady~cool beans :-)

August 22nd, 2012
9:38 am

yeah laughing @ Ex! lol ok still catching up…..

waving @ C!

Comon Cents

August 22nd, 2012
9:38 am

disco~ Yes, coffee sould definitely be on the controlled substance list. I am an addict and Starbucks is my dealer. LMAO!

C~ Yea, even my 5 year old says “Don’t talk to Mommy. She hasn’t had coffee yet.” :lol:

disco

August 22nd, 2012
9:38 am

C – I hate to be the naysayer (well, no I don’t, it’s my role) but I think we owe old boy’s sister the credit for blocking last night. had she not called about the sick dog it would have been on and popping (lol, sick dogs, deaf cats, the jokes keep coming)

Single and Happy "I'm not crazy, I'm just upset because my imaginary friend is mad and won't talk to me!"

August 22nd, 2012
9:39 am

Comon it’s something I use, and have to explain what it means to alot of people.

Bluzgirl

August 22nd, 2012
9:40 am

AND…he was the one who said that we were dating…It was nice to have a man who actually WANTED to talk about issues!

CC…I’m giving him the benefit of the doubt. He did have decent explanations. There was a lot of lack of communication over the weekend. I’m willing to see where it goes.

And…no…if he hadn’t left due to his dog, I still don’t think there would have been any smashing. Cuddling, sure, but smashing…no. We both had really rough days yesterday and went through a lot in our discussions. It was a little draining. As much as I’m attracted to him like that, I didn’t even think about it last night. I just wanted to spend time with him…

Comon Cents

August 22nd, 2012
9:40 am

You’re right, C. Sorry Bluz. But in my defense, all I have to go on is what you write on the blog. So, when you tell me “He’s a lot like my ex” and “He crept out without speaking” (and let my deaf cat out :lol: ) Well, you already know…

Bluzgirl

August 22nd, 2012
9:41 am

Thanks Cel!!!

Celisea....He who laughs last, laughs on: Winning!

August 22nd, 2012
9:41 am

Morning lady, what’s crackalackin

Comon Cents

August 22nd, 2012
9:42 am

As much as I’m attracted to him like that, I didn’t even think about it last night. I just wanted to spend time with him…

You may not have been thinking about it, but I guarantee you he was. LOL! C, give her the frotterism definition, cause that was what was about to happen had they cuddled. (except for the stranger part…)

Single and Happy "I'm not crazy, I'm just upset because my imaginary friend is mad and won't talk to me!"

August 22nd, 2012
9:42 am

Comon, I have to agree, these are not RED flags, but SEMAPHORE MESSAGES the words aren’t just adding up to the actions.

Bluzgirl

August 22nd, 2012
9:44 am

I think putting my thoughts about my ex isn’t being fair to him. There are similarities, yes, but they are two different people. I have to not look at it that way.

He did tell me that he didn’t mean anything by leaving without saying anything. He said that he went to say goodbye, but I was sound asleep and since I had been up late, he wanted to let me sleep. He said he wasn’t creeping out. I told him to NEVER do that again because it made me feel like a cheap wh0re. As far as the cat…I was right that he didn’t listen to the voicemail. What is it with people not listening to their messages?!?!?! He said he had about 5-6 messages that day and didn’t listen to them all and he felt terrible about my cat getting out.

Again…I have some guard up, but I’m willing to see where it goes. You never know who may be right for you if you don’t give it a chance, right?

disco

August 22nd, 2012
9:44 am

comon cents (you see I called you by your full blog government name) – will you kindly remind bluz that she is now officially dating a homeless man? I don’t want to be the one to say it. also, since she is now officially dating him there’s a greater chance that she’ll feel obligated to house him should some kind of issue arise with his current lodging arrangements.

Comon Cents

August 22nd, 2012
9:45 am

S/H~ What was the old cartoon where the character would use semaphore messages? It’s on the tip of my tongue, but I can’t remember…

Celisea....He who laughs last, laughs on: Winning!

August 22nd, 2012
9:47 am

disco – Yes, I already know. Just keeping with “at least it didn’t happen”…lol

Comon Cents – I’m just trying to stay positive in this whole thing :)

Comon Cents

August 22nd, 2012
9:49 am

Bluz~ You are now officially dating a homeless man and you do realize that if some issue arises (like his parents decide to retire to FL) you are going to feel obligated to house him because he is your man.

Comon goes over to disco~ Did I do good? Can I have some coffee now?!?

Leggs

August 22nd, 2012
9:50 am

mugacide = good one!

Dang, Comon, could have waited until page 2 before we got into Bluz’ predicament (lol).

“we are now dating. I’ll have my guard up and not jump into a relationship…” Ummm, isn’t a relationship. Or are you saying you’re not in an “exclusive” relationship? Did you two speak on exclusivity? If not, that’s when your heart gets twisted if both of you are not on the same page.

Single ~ I was thinking dating someone younger w/o a lot of experience in relationships, even navigating life itself and how things get handled. My mind really was on someone in their late 20’s. Not that I would date someone that young, but that’s the picture I had in mind when I posted that. I simply can’t image someone in their 40’s w/no experience.

Comon ~ main reason I don’t drink coffee is due to me hearing “don’t talk to me yet, I haven’t had my coffee,” or “I can’t function until I have my morning coffee.” As a kid, I thought heck no, I don’t want anything to control me like that in the morning. Plus, coffee stinks….

Single and Happy "I'm not crazy, I'm just upset because my imaginary friend is mad and won't talk to me!"

August 22nd, 2012
9:50 am

Bluz sometimes when someone keeps having the same problems with different people, it’s because when you look at them it’s the same person with a different body. It’s just the types we a drawn too.

Lady~cool beans :-)

August 22nd, 2012
9:51 am

O_o what in the heezy am I reading this morning!?! wow! lol

Comon Cents

August 22nd, 2012
9:53 am

S/H I cosign on your 9:50. My dad used to say that if you look back on past relationships, you will generally find that you dated/married the same person over and over again, just with different quirks and names.

Leggs

August 22nd, 2012
9:53 am

” I still don’t think there would have been any smashing. Cuddling, sure, but smashing…no. ”

I immediately thought of back in the day when guys would say “I’ll pull out before I come…”

Sorry!

Celisea....He who laughs last, laughs on: Winning!

August 22nd, 2012
9:53 am

If you keep having the same problem with different people, couldn’t it be possible that it’s you and not all those different people??

Single and Happy "I'm not crazy, I'm just upset because my imaginary friend is mad and won't talk to me!"

August 22nd, 2012
9:54 am

Comon, Popeye, and the one with the captain and the little boys are the only one I can think of.

Leggs and it doesn’t taste good either (LOL)

Comon Cents

August 22nd, 2012
9:54 am

Leggs~ Bluzy should write a book. Every woman in America would be reading it because we all have the girlfriend that is just like Bluz in real life. You keep hoping that the ending will be different, but technically, you know how it’s going to end when you start reading…

disco

August 22nd, 2012
9:54 am

leggs – ditto on the smell of coffee. I can’t stand it. I bought a pint of coffee ice cream by mistake once. imagine my disappointment when I opened the container and smelled coffee. gross. had to throw out the ice cream.

CC – you did good. not only do you get a large cup of coffee but you get to keep the reusable, limited edition collector’s mug.

Celisea....He who laughs last, laughs on: Winning!

August 22nd, 2012
9:55 am

Bluzy – Well, I tried…lol I tried to be happy and uplifted for you. Happy that at least y’all didn’t smash and was able to have a convo without being under the influence. I think that was ultimately your goal when you left yesterday.

So, it’s back to my spreadsheet and music…lolololol

Bluzgirl

August 22nd, 2012
9:55 am

About him living with his parents…he was looking for a new place to live because of a bad roommate situation and his parents begged him to move in to their basement to help them financially, as well as with things around their house. He does pay rent to them. They are in their 70’s and he does a lot for them. I think that’s ok…

Leggs – I hesitate to use the term relationship at this point. I feel that “dating” leads up to a relationship. We did not talk about exclusivity at this point. It’s ok…I’m trying to take this slow and not jump in full speed, like I normally do.

Lady~cool beans :-)

August 22nd, 2012
9:56 am

So, it’s back to my spreadsheet and music…lolololol <<<I am stealing this one!

Celisea....He who laughs last, laughs on: Winning!

August 22nd, 2012
9:57 am

Lady – I can’t shuck and jive today. I have a procedure at 1:00 and work still must go on…lololol

Bluzgirl

August 22nd, 2012
9:57 am

Thank you Cel…I’m glad that we had a sober convo and got a lot out on the table. I’m glad someone is rooting for me! :-)

disco

August 22nd, 2012
10:01 am

does that sound like a version of “I don’t live with my momma, my momma lives with me” to anyone else?

bluz – believe it or not, we are all on your side. we all wish you the best. still, I don’t deny that from time to time I believe we all would like to grab you by the shoulders and shake you back and forth a little bit.

Lady~cool beans :-)

August 22nd, 2012
10:01 am

get it C~ it will be to selfish to wish for May all over again right?!? okay back to longing for the holidays! ha! ***pay me no mind*** lol

Celisea....He who laughs last, laughs on: Winning!

August 22nd, 2012
10:02 am

Bluzy – I’ll be honest and say the situation is not one I would even bother with but that’s me and my level of tolerance. I’m not doing an unemployed drunk. Nope, no go. But like I said you’re wanting it and honestly you both aren’t that far removed from one another. You both seem like trainwreaks (sorry), but if y’all can pull it together and pull one another up, then go for it. People do change, get better, improve.

Comon Cents

August 22nd, 2012
10:03 am

Bluz~ Please don’t misconstrue; I am rooting for you. But I’m a realist and typically, situations like this do not pan out well. It’s fine to move forward, just don’t fool yourself into wearing rose colored glasses when it comes to who your partner is. Too many women do that and it is pathetic.

I will go one further and tell you that the reason I see your situation so clearly is because I did something very similar with the ex hubby. And it took me 9 years and a lot of mess to fix it. Just don’t settle. In the long run, decide in haste and repent in leisure…

Celisea....He who laughs last, laughs on: Winning!

August 22nd, 2012
10:06 am

Lady – :)

Bluzy – One thing about me, I’ll be straight with you. I will encourage and not “hold” stuff (I’m more forgiving than what most people know) against people. You’re getting a pass from me though because you’re still young. I think too old to make the mistakes you’re making but young enough to get it right before walking around your entire life in naivete.

Now, if you was forty and on here with this BS, I would (virtually) smack some sense into you…lol

Single and Happy "I'm not crazy, I'm just upset because my imaginary friend is mad and won't talk to me!"

August 22nd, 2012
10:11 am

Shhhhh disco, don’t say it out loud (LOL)

Comon Cents

August 22nd, 2012
10:12 am

And I cosign disco’s 10:01. What were his parents doing for all those years before he moved back home? I just can’t IMAGINE how they got by without him… And if he’s unemployed, how much help can he be to them? IJS

Single and Happy "I'm not crazy, I'm just upset because my imaginary friend is mad and won't talk to me!"

August 22nd, 2012
10:12 am

C you in this equation would be part of the problem because you keep choosing different people (the same personality) .

Leggs

August 22nd, 2012
10:14 am

“I’m trying to take this slow and not jump in full speed” – I know I’m going to sound old here, but if one doesn’t want to jump in “full speed,” don’t give them your body!

Celisea....He who laughs last, laughs on: Winning!

August 22nd, 2012
10:15 am

Single and Happy – I’m agreeing there. Just wondered.

Single and Happy "I'm not crazy, I'm just upset because my imaginary friend is mad and won't talk to me!"

August 22nd, 2012
10:16 am

Bluz from the sound of what you describe your friend likes his situation because how else could he pursue his music career if he had a real job and real responsibilities! In other words, be a real man! IJS

Single and Happy "I'm not crazy, I'm just upset because my imaginary friend is mad and won't talk to me!"

August 22nd, 2012
10:17 am

ATL Guy

August 22nd, 2012
10:19 am

Celisea – where do you meet your dates? Last guy you went out with, were did you both meet? Just Curious …

Celisea....He who laughs last, laughs on: Winning!

August 22nd, 2012
10:23 am

ATL Guy – Why?

Into the Light

August 22nd, 2012
10:24 am

Morning, all.

Y’all ever feel like we are being repetitively redundant over and over again?

Bluz, if you really and truly in your heart believed that this is the man for you, you wouldn’t be looking to all of us for validation. You don’t need us to “keep you in check” or “be proud of you.” You are grown!! Be fulfilled in who and what you are and bump what anybody else thinks. I understand insecurity, but you are basing your life around what others think. What your mom thinks, what Magnum thinks, what the blog thinks….. Get in touch with you. Take some time to sit at home alone on a Saturday night and figure out what BLUZ thinks.

Dayum, so much for a kinder, gentler ITL…..

Lady~cool beans :-)

August 22nd, 2012
10:24 am

turns on my music!

Into the Light

August 22nd, 2012
10:25 am

@Lady: Pass me one of those earbuds. :) And a Bud. Got a girl drinking first thing this morning.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 22nd, 2012
10:25 am

Y’all are something else……….LOL disco calling the man homeless, Comon called the man homless……..Leggs the BS breaker aint buying the coitus enteruptus. What else y’all got?

ATL Guy

August 22nd, 2012
10:29 am

C – if you are dating people with similar attributes, is it possible your meeting them in similar environments?

Lady~cool beans :-)

August 22nd, 2012
10:32 am

its MIA blog music all can hear!!! lol Anita Baker station~ Loving her Lately remix! :-)

Comon Cents

August 22nd, 2012
10:33 am

ATl Guy~ You’re off base. We weren’t talking about C. S/H was saying if it WAS her that would be the reason. Not it IS her.

Bluzgirl

August 22nd, 2012
10:34 am

Now…you all are calling him unemployed and he’s not. He is self-employeed. He works every day and makes money. He does music more on the side for the love of it. Would he like to do music full time? Sure. Does he think that is a reality at this point in his life? No.

I appreciate you guys being straight with me. I know what you mean by taking it slow, I should have held off on the sex. At the time, I really thought it would just be FWB. I didn’t know it was going to turn into something more.

I want to give him a chance to show me. My eyes are open and I’m scared and skeptical. I don’t want to be hurt again. After our convo last night, I see a lot of differences between him and ex. We talked about how my ex was mean to me and I didn’t see it until afterwards. I want to keep the rose colored glasses off. Even today, I don’t feel all giddy like I did because of the fear of jumping in. I just want to keep hanging out and getting to know each other.

Comon Cents

August 22nd, 2012
10:34 am

Good Morning BF & ITL!

ITL~ We don’t need kinder and gentler. To borrow some words from the Bert Show, that is part of the wussification of America, :lol:

BF~ Technically, he is homeless…

Bluzgirl

August 22nd, 2012
10:35 am

ITL – I did make the decision to stay home this weekend. I have to drive out to Conyers on Fri for work and I just can’t spend the gas money to drive downtown on Sat. Also, he is hosting a jam on Monday and I’m going to that to meet some friends. Since he has to be there anyway, I can ride with him and use his gas!

Single and Happy "I'm not crazy, I'm just upset because my imaginary friend is mad and won't talk to me!"

August 22nd, 2012
10:38 am

Comon I tried to spell that out so others wouldn’t assume I was talking about her (LOL)

Into the Light

August 22nd, 2012
10:39 am

There’s two kinds of people in this world – some get it, some don’t.
—-Sheikh Ramon

ATL Guy

August 22nd, 2012
10:39 am

Bluz, when a guy says he’s self employed, he’s either without a job or a drug dealer. Problem is … you’ve already hooked up with the guy early cause you’re still trying to get to know him. Unfortunately, that will set you up for getting emotionally invested and possibly hurt in the situation. You sound like you know what you’re doing, but give it time

disco

August 22nd, 2012
10:39 am

CC – re homeless situation – right right. I’m even skeptical of his being self-employed. collecting scrap metal and aluminum cans can be considered self-employed, knocking off 7-11s can be considered self employed. no offense bluz but if CC, Celisea, ITL, kimmie or whoever said self employed I’d be more apt to buy it than when I hear you say it. when you say it I have to wonder how much is legit, how much is someone pulling the wool over your eyes and how much is you creating something in your own mind.

Comon Cents

August 22nd, 2012
10:39 am

At the time, I really thought it would just be FWB. I didn’t know it was going to turn into something more.

Sorry, my BS detector just went off. Have you ever had a situation that was FWB and it didn’t turn into someting more?

Single and Happy "I'm not crazy, I'm just upset because my imaginary friend is mad and won't talk to me!"

August 22nd, 2012
10:40 am

Bluz, why do you think of it as use his gas? you just started this and you’re already thinking this way?

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 22nd, 2012
10:41 am

Hey Comon how’s it going Mrs. Lady?

Bluz: please don’t think I’m laughing at your circumstance it’s good to have a laugh at something that won’t kill you. And the good thing about it all you are having fun too :smile:

Comon Cents

August 22nd, 2012
10:43 am

disco~ Technically, I am self employed; but I work WITH a firm. However, if he is self employed, why did he have to move home with the rents? Either he is working everyday and making money, or he is not. I know a lot of contractors who are self-employed or do contract work and that is one field that if you are working everyday, you should be making some cheddar…

Comon Cents

August 22nd, 2012
10:44 am

BF~ I’m all good this morning,. They captured the nut that was threatening to kill all of te partners at my job yesterday. Lockdown is over! Tahank ya Jaysus! :lol: How you do?

Lady~cool beans :-)

August 22nd, 2012
10:46 am

Hi there BF!!!!! all is well! Enjoy your day sir~

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 22nd, 2012
10:47 am

disco stop this madness, self employed is a scrap metal collector, knocking off 7-11’s I literally have tears in my eyes…………LOL

Bluzgirl

August 22nd, 2012
10:47 am

S/H…I only say that because I’m broke and wouldn’t want to drive my car out to Marietta on Mon night and we are going together, so he’ll be driving…

I know ya’ll are skeptical about the self-employed, but he does handyman/contractor work. I know several guys who are self-employed as a handyman. He was in New Orleans to work on a house and sent me pictures of the project. I know that he works everyday. Believe what ya’ll want, but a man can make an honest living that way.

CC – In the past I did have one successful FWB that just stayed that way. I seriously thought that’s all this would be. Typically…it would be me that started the feelings and got all clingy to the guy, but this time, he is the one that did the pursuing!

disco

August 22nd, 2012
10:49 am

awww sookie sookie now. bluz is stepping up to defend her man. go head girl.

ATL Guy

August 22nd, 2012
10:51 am

What exactly does FWB stand for??? I get what it is from the conversation though, Haha

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 22nd, 2012
10:51 am

I’m hangin Comon but you lady’s got me rolling this morning. I must be still buzzing from last night.

Into the Light

August 22nd, 2012
10:55 am

Bluz – you going to the jam spot on Monday? I might need to slide in there and see Mr. Magnum for myself…see what all the hoopla is about. :)

Seriously, girl, if you are happy then great. But um, er…..I kinda feel like happy is not exactly your comfort zone. Does that make sense?

ATL Guy

August 22nd, 2012
10:55 am

Bluz – how broke are you if you can’t afford to drive to you man!?!? I mean you aren’t exactly paying for the dates

Bluzgirl

August 22nd, 2012
10:56 am

ATL Guy…Friends With Benefits

disco…I am standing up for him because I don’t want ya’ll to think he’s just a slacker living at home. I’ve already explained what he does and why he’s at home. Roll with it how you will.

Bluzgirl

August 22nd, 2012
10:57 am

ITL…it’s not the jam at the place we discussed, but I’ll email you the info…

Bluzgirl

August 22nd, 2012
10:58 am

I’m usually not this broke, but overpaid a few things and am paying the price right now, which stresses me out…

Single and Happy "I'm not crazy, I'm just upset because my imaginary friend is mad and won't talk to me!"

August 22nd, 2012
10:59 am

Bluz, no one is saying that you can’t, being self employed is the same as having a job, you have to go everyday, we can only interpret what your words tell us.

Single and Happy "I'm not crazy, I'm just upset because my imaginary friend is mad and won't talk to me!"

August 22nd, 2012
11:00 am

bluz if when in a relationship it’s not using his gas, it’s he’s driving!

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 22nd, 2012
11:00 am

Hi there Light, finally catching my breath and wiping my brow, I have confidence in Bluz she is making big strides and I hope the best for them.

Bluzgirl

August 22nd, 2012
11:01 am

And ITL – you’re right…happy isn’t necessarily in my comfort zone, but I’m working on that big time these days. I want to be happy in general and not depend on anyone else for my happiness. I’m getting much, much better at it…

Into the Light

August 22nd, 2012
11:02 am

Me too, BF, me too!!

Soooo, what is this about you tripping the light fantastic last night? You get your buzz on, BBB? (I’m jealous!)

Bluzgirl

August 22nd, 2012
11:02 am

Thank you BF…I really do feel a lot stronger than I did just 6 months ago.

Single and Happy "I'm not crazy, I'm just upset because my imaginary friend is mad and won't talk to me!"

August 22nd, 2012
11:03 am

ATL Guy
August 22nd, 2012
10:55 am

Bluz – how broke are you if you can’t afford to drive to you man!?!? I mean you aren’t exactly paying for the dates

Seriously??

Into the Light

August 22nd, 2012
11:04 am

I really do feel a lot stronger than I did just 6 months ago.

Rome wasn’t built in a day, Bluz. Be patient with the process.

(see, the kinder/gentler ITL has returned!)

Comon Cents

August 22nd, 2012
11:05 am

Bluz~ Then at the end of the day, that’s all that matters.

Bluzgirl

August 22nd, 2012
11:06 am

I like the kind/gentle ITL! LOL!

Comon Cents

August 22nd, 2012
11:06 am

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 22nd, 2012
11:07 am

Light had company over and we had a mini midweek party, didn’t get to bed 1am.

Comon Cents

August 22nd, 2012
11:07 am

Stop it Single! You just made me LOL for real…

Comon Cents

August 22nd, 2012
11:08 am

Awww… sookie sookie now! BF having mid week parties and thangs…

Into the Light

August 22nd, 2012
11:09 am

COMPLETELY OFF TOPIC: Last night, I stopped on the way home to vote, and on my way home I thought I’d stop by a little home cookin’ spot to get some dinner. While they were making it, I went next door to the likka store(trust me, this one is a likka store…..got corn likka on the shelf and everything!) to grab my lottery tickets. How come this Antoine looking mother fella that smelled like 3-day old Schlitz tried to holla at me???? I just kept walking and didn’t even speak although I did channel disco and was saying under my breath, “I know he is out his natural mind if he think he can holla at me….”

Comon Cents

August 22nd, 2012
11:10 am

Ok… O/T~ I just had the rude awakening moment when I realized I was old. One of my favorite bands from back in the day was classified as “Classic Rock” on Spotify. :cry:

Bluzgirl

August 22nd, 2012
11:10 am

LOL ITL!!! That’s too funny.

Single and Happy "I'm not crazy, I'm just upset because my imaginary friend is mad and won't talk to me!"

August 22nd, 2012
11:10 am

comon please tell me you took that the way I meant it, (LOL)

ATL Guy

August 22nd, 2012
11:11 am

Single – I’m being for Real! So this guy needs to pick her up, pay for dinners, buy her purses, etc. If you can’t afford gasoline just to meet someone then should probably worry less about dating and more about working! People get in financial troubles, but you gotta set your priorities. So if I get this girl’s number and tell her I can’t date her this weekend cause I can’t afford the gas it takes to meet with her … imagine how that would go over, just sayin, flip the script

Into the Light

August 22nd, 2012
11:12 am

@Bluz: It wasn’t too funny when I nearly turned blue trying to hold my breath to get past him. Mug should’ve changed the eye color on his drivers license to “red”

Into the Light

August 22nd, 2012
11:13 am

So this guy needs to pick her up, pay for dinners, buy her purses, etc.

That reminds me….where is HST?? I never did get my Birkin. :(

Single and Happy "I'm not crazy, I'm just upset because my imaginary friend is mad and won't talk to me!"

August 22nd, 2012
11:13 am

Comon my awakening moment came years ago when I was in a club and realized I was the old man in the club (LOL) hell I was only in my mid 30s at the time (LOL)

Comon Cents

August 22nd, 2012
11:14 am

How come this Antoine looking mother fella that smelled like 3-day old Schlitz tried to holla at me????

This is one of those instances when I think the government should step in and implement a rating system. You go to your local BRC (beauty rating center) and they certify you. If your a 7 then you get a card like a license that says you’re a 7. If your certification says you are a 2, you can UNDER NO CIRCUMSTANCES hit on a 10. You have a 1+/- range. That would alleviate so much of the need to shoot down someone you know you would never be caught dead dealing with… :lol:

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 22nd, 2012
11:15 am

Yep Comon friends spring up at my house and we make a couple of calls and the next thing we know there’s a party going on. Drinking cooking chicken wings and Like Lady mentioned yesterday we we’re weeding………LOL

Comon Cents

August 22nd, 2012
11:15 am

S/H~ I surely did…

Into the Light

August 22nd, 2012
11:17 am

Dang, BF. Let me make sure you have my number. I like a party on a school night errr now and then. No gardening for me, though…I’m allergic to weeds.

Single and Happy "I'm not crazy, I'm just upset because my imaginary friend is mad and won't talk to me!"

August 22nd, 2012
11:17 am

ATL Guy, she is saying she is broke this weekend, not broke all the time, there is a big difference. You’re telling me if you are dating a woman and she’s broke every once and a while, she doesn’t have her priorities straight?

And when I tell my woman I’m broke, she says okay, because I’m not broke all the time!

Single and Happy "I'm not crazy, I'm just upset because my imaginary friend is mad and won't talk to me!"

August 22nd, 2012
11:18 am

ITL HST isn’t having mis adventures anymore, he’s having adventures now :-)

Into the Light

August 22nd, 2012
11:18 am

@CC: I’m not saying I’m all that and a box of Nutter Butters, but dang. Even if he had been good looking I wouldn’t have been able to get past the stale beer smell. Blech!

Into the Light

August 22nd, 2012
11:19 am

@Stamps: Oh, that’s right. From Russia with Love is playing at the manse. I forgot. :)

Single and Happy "I'm not crazy, I'm just upset because my imaginary friend is mad and won't talk to me!"

August 22nd, 2012
11:20 am

Comon “shot for the moon, even if you miss you’ll still be among the stars” (LOL)

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 22nd, 2012
11:22 am

Light yes I meant to say we were weeding the yard………LOL

Bluzgirl

August 22nd, 2012
11:23 am

S/H – Thanks for sticking up for me with ATL Guy! :-) I’m not normally this broke, but will be back on track next Friday!

ITL – I can imagine it wasn’t funny at the time, but it’s gotta be funny now!

ATL Guy

August 22nd, 2012
11:24 am

Single – thats exactly what I’m saying. If you’re so cash strapped for the weekend that you can’t afford gasoline … priorities should be something else. Once financially stable, then go date whoever. As a guy, if I’m in debt or something, last thing I’m doing is taking a date to the 4-Seasons cause its not practical. There are things to do on a budget like Piedmont Park, Biking, Running etc. But, if I struggled buying Gasoline, then it needs to be focus on where can I make that cash money instead of some guy that will hold your hand

Single and Happy "I'm not crazy, I'm just upset because my imaginary friend is mad and won't talk to me!"

August 22nd, 2012
11:25 am

YW Bluz that was what I meant by my reply to him.

ATL Guy

August 22nd, 2012
11:27 am

Bluz – I’m not trying to give you a hard time, we all get in money situations, but I’m saying go out with the guy next weekend when you’re solid and focus on other things this weekend if the means are not there, thats all

Bluzgirl

August 22nd, 2012
11:29 am

Damn…he just texted me that he needs to find a vet, which I’m pretty sure means it’s time for him to put the dog down. A vet can’t do anything else at this point. My heart breaks for him. That is the hardest thing you have to do when you’re an animal lover…

i'm swiss

August 22nd, 2012
11:30 am

Ahem… uh, ladies… if it’s only 2’s and 3’s that are hitting on you, maybe it’s time to re-evaluate your self-rating. IJS… :lol:

ITL — In ole boy’s defense, you were in a likka store buying lottery tickets. That’s probably usually right in his wheelhouse. ;-) (I kid because I love…) :lol:

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 22nd, 2012
11:31 am

ATL:
Come on Bluz didn’t mean it the way it came out. Being slack in the pocket occasionally shouldn’t interfere with living. I get your drift about fiscally getting sound before taking on more responsibility.

Single and Happy "I'm not crazy, I'm just upset because my imaginary friend is mad and won't talk to me!"

August 22nd, 2012
11:33 am

Well ATL Broke to some means I have no expendable cash in my POCKETS, broke to others mean I have no way of getting money from anywhere. We all have to learn how to balance things in our lives, and when you do, you learn that those things that you thought you had to stop because of “priorities” could have still been enjoyed.

To me there is nothing wrong with her riding with him, it’s the way she stated it. If I’m in a relationship and me and my woman are going to the same place, her riding with me because she’s a little low on funds this week would not be a problem.

And when we use the words I, I’m, me, my or any other first person equivalent, everything else after that is irrelevant because it’s not us.

Into the Light

August 22nd, 2012
11:34 am

@Bluz: I LOVE my vet, Dr. Good. He has several locations. Let me know if you need contact information. His entire staff is very loving and compassionate.

@Swiss: :lol: :lol: I know, I know….

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 22nd, 2012
11:37 am

Another thing that made the funnies this morning, Victor Hill an ex Clayton county sheriff gets re-elected with 39 felony indictments against him. This is funniest and the most absurd thing in America, where do we go from this point?…………LOL

disco

August 22nd, 2012
11:37 am

swiss – on a scale of 1-10 I give myself a solid 8. now when confronted with a 2 or a 3 that 8 jumps up because I’m being graded on the curve. using the curve, the 2 or 3 should seek out a 5 or a 6. he/she is still making a come up and I don’t have to be accused of being boojee-ghetto.

Bluzgirl

August 22nd, 2012
11:37 am

ITL – I have some issues with Dr. Good, if it’s “Michael Good” who runs Homeless Pets also. When I was looking for a home for my deceased friend’s dog, he said that he would take him in with a $500 donation!!! I thought he really helped people and I was so upset. Not to mention that he knew my friend…Thanks, though!

ATL Guy

August 22nd, 2012
11:38 am

Blackfoote – I just think its a double standard from a guy’s perspective when it comes to dating. It is expected the guy will drop the money on a date. My girl tells me all the time I make more money than her so I should be the one paying for this and that. Its kinda true, but she cooks quite a bit so I find that right there cost money for groceries. Dating doesn’t need to cost a lot, but money is the number one reason for divorces or breakups so being stable takes off the burden at least

Bluzgirl

August 22nd, 2012
11:39 am

Dang…the vet I know charges $90 for euthanasia!!! Ugh! Searching for low cost…

Into the Light

August 22nd, 2012
11:39 am

:(
I’m surprised and sorry to hear that, Bluz. I never would have expected that from him or his staff.

Comon Cents

August 22nd, 2012
11:39 am

Bluz~ I also have a vet that I love. Not sure what area Mag is in, but if you want my vet’s contact info, let me know. Happy to forward it.

ATL~ I have to agree with S/H; There are levels of broke. MC Hammer was broke, but definitely not broke like Bluz. She is not saying she couldn’t get the gas if she so chose, she is saying that she would prefer to not spend those duckets because it will cause her to be tight somewhere else until payday rolls around again. Am I correct, Bluz?

Into the Light

August 22nd, 2012
11:42 am

ATL Guy: Sounds to me like you’re more interested in keeping a ledger/keeping score than anything. They just decided to use the “dating” term last night, and you’ve already got them headed for divorce because Bluz is having an off week and a little low?? smh….

disco

August 22nd, 2012
11:42 am

doesn’t matter to me why bluz said it. I’m just happy that she said it. I’m proud of her. granted it’s just a little bit of gas but it’s a start.

Into the Light

August 22nd, 2012
11:43 am

I’m hawngry. BF, what’s for lunch?

Leggs

August 22nd, 2012
11:44 am

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Bluzgirl

August 22nd, 2012
11:45 am

CC – you are correct! Mag lives up in Flowery Branch, but I’m in Duluth. I told him I will get off work at 4:30 today if he wants me to go with him. So…go ahead and email your vet info to me at bluzgirl79@gmail.com. It’s worth checking out. I want to help him out because I know he is devastated over this…

Comon Cents

August 22nd, 2012
11:46 am

Damn, Leggs! You just do it all, huh? Too bad Magnum is not in IT, Bluz…

Leggs

August 22nd, 2012
11:47 am

: I should have held off on the sex. At the time, I really thought it would just be FWB.” – Like hell you did! We told you from day one you weren’t made for a FWB relationship, but you already knew this.

i'm swiss

August 22nd, 2012
11:48 am

disco — Hey, that’s just the cost of being the hunted rather than the hunter. You’re not gonna want to get caught by everybody that comes hunting. Just be happy you’re still a prime target. But in defense of dudes of all ratings — you never get anywhere in life by striving for mediocrity. I’d be the first to say Mrs. Swiss is way out of my league. But I still got her. :D Besides, one man’s trash is another man’s treasure. Or, in this case, one woman’s 2 is another woman’s 10.

Bluzgirl

August 22nd, 2012
11:49 am

Sheesh…called another vet and they want to do an exam before euthanasia! WTF?!?!?! The dog has had cancer and is dying! Why do an exam and charge $110?!?!?! Man…this is all making me sick…

Bluzgirl

August 22nd, 2012
11:51 am

Leggs and CC – I wish I was in IT!!! I sure could use a change in career!

disco

August 22nd, 2012
11:51 am

swiss – so true but that other woman is probably a 3 her darned self. lol. okay, I’m done clowning the ratings. I get it. is it just me or does it seem that most men tend to date/marry up a grade or two? are women collectively settling or do women recognize that a lower grade man might be more willing to keep her up on that pedestal thinking she’s the prize? just random pondering.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 22nd, 2012
11:51 am

Single @11:33 a very good post man.

ATL absolutley dates shouldn’t cost as much but men have carried the load in that area because we made the most. Today women make as much or more and it is still our load to bear but there are a lot of women that can carry their own weight, yours, and mines too.

Celisea....He who laughs last, laughs on: Winning!

August 22nd, 2012
11:52 am

Bluzy – Keep you head up. My day is about done here…unless I’m home in enough time to do more work. Toodles and happy trails (for now)…lol I tell ya…SMDH!!!!!

Leggs

August 22nd, 2012
11:52 am

Comon ~ nah, I don’t do it all, but because this is a blog, I’ve been posting job openings when my company is hiring.

I left on page 2 and now you guys are on page 4. Let me see whatcha talking about now.

Comon Cents

August 22nd, 2012
11:57 am

Bluz~ I sent you the info on a vet a co-worker uses because it is in your area. She has 5 dogs and feels about her vet the same way I do. If you still want my vet’s info, let me know. You have my email. Also, you can forward me the Jam info too. I live in Marietta and may have to bring the hubs out to check out your Magnum…

Into the Light

August 22nd, 2012
11:58 am

@Bluz: The vet that has been treating his dog cannot do the procedure?

Why, why, why is Wave of Mutilation stuck in my head. Dang Pixies. :(

Bluzgirl

August 22nd, 2012
12:00 pm

Thanks Cel!

CC – Thanks for the email. I’ll send you the info.

ITL – Honestly, I’m not sure. He didn’t say…

kimmie

August 22nd, 2012
12:04 pm

Hey Gang!

Sorry about your man’s dog, Bluz!

Topic – Experience is relative. Just get in where you fit in.

I’m ready for the weekend!

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 22nd, 2012
12:05 pm

Light I’m skipping through lunch. I have my mind set on a baked potatoe, spinach, and (Baby Ray’s bbq) baked pork chops tonight for dinner, I may hold off until then.

Leggs

August 22nd, 2012
12:05 pm

Ok, all caught up. I see you guys are on sick dogs and scam artist Vets.

Into the Light

August 22nd, 2012
12:05 pm

Also, you can forward me the Jam info too. I live in Marietta and may have to bring the hubs out to check out your Magnum…

@CC: You’re not gonna ditch us for the Sandman again, are you? :lol: I kid, I kid….sorta.

Into the Light

August 22nd, 2012
12:06 pm

Dang, BF! What time shall I be there? :) J/K J/K

Celisea....He who laughs last, laughs on: Winning!

August 22nd, 2012
12:06 pm

ATL Guy – As of our last blog encounter, I will NOT entertain foolishness on here with you. As you just mentioned, you have a girl so what I do and with whom…OR NOT is NUNYA. You have my email addy. If you want to ask in private what I do and with whom and where I go or get out whatever your unresolved issue is, you can ask there. Otherwise, not doing that with you on the blog.

Comon Cents

August 22nd, 2012
12:07 pm

ITL~ Nah, that’s on a weeknight. I will be fully rested. :lol:

disco

August 22nd, 2012
12:08 pm

BF – re holding off until dinner time. “I think I can, I think I can”.

ATL Guy

August 22nd, 2012
12:09 pm

Into the Light – you’re getting it mixed up. I’m not keeping a tally & I’m not saying their new relationship is heading for divorce … my point was money is an issue with many relationships and married couples so being stable makes the relationship easier, one less stress. I know a girl who’s really attractive (been in music videos), but states how broke she is all the time. She goes out with guys cause they have money or stable. Its a completely one way street and I don’t think it should be that way. If you start getting serious in a relationship it should be a partnership. Both people should have someone to contribute if that means cooking dinner, straighting out the place, contributing to the rent, etc. There’s still this traditional view of the guy taking care of everything, but times are changing where women are just as career successful

ATL Guy

August 22nd, 2012
12:10 pm

Celisea – I don’t know your address remember, you got me mixed for someone else apparently

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 22nd, 2012
12:12 pm

“What time shall I be there?”

LOL……..@Light everytime I hear a lady ask those words my fangs drool.:oops:

Comon Cents

August 22nd, 2012
12:13 pm

There’s still this traditional view of the guy taking care of everything, but times are changing where women are just as career successful

I always find it funny when men say this. Usually (but not all the time) when a man says this, he wants her to pull her weight financially but still come home and play wifey. She should cook, do laundry, etc. and he might clean the kitchen and vaccum. If men want women to do all of that, then go out and make the money and let your woman stay at home. Otherwise, if I work as many hours as you, don’t expect all that when I get to the crib. :lol:

i'm swiss

August 22nd, 2012
12:14 pm

“are women collectively settling or do women recognize that a lower grade man might be more willing to keep her up on that pedestal thinking she’s the prize?

Or maybe some women have too high an opinion of themselves? Or are just looking at the wrong things.

It’s funny to me to listen to Mrs. Swiss’s single girlfriends complain. They’re always telling Mrs. Swiss how there are no good men out there anymore and how lucky she is that she found someone who’s still young, smart, has a good job / makes good money, treats her right, etc., etc. What’s funny about all that is that none of these chicks would have dated me when I was single (of course, all of these ho’s would gladly try to steal me now). She has friends who have written dudes off for driving a Ford Focus (I was driving a Honda when I met Mrs. Swiss. I have a friend who drives a Focus, actually. He’s a lawyer.), or because the dude’s house was smaller than hers (I had a very modest 2-br townhouse when I met Mrs. Swiss). Meanwhile, Mrs. Swiss (who is a faaaaaaaaaaaaaaaar better catch than any of her friends — and I realize I’m biased, but seriously, any objective observer would come to the same conclusion) saw me for the person I am rather than all the material crap, and now all her single friends are jealous of the life she has, the house we share, the cars we drive, etc.

If Stanley were around, he’d go ahead & buys these girls a house full of cats, ‘cos that’s where they’re headed… :lol:

This concludes my “Single Ladies” PSA for the day. :lol:

Into the Light

August 22nd, 2012
12:14 pm

LOL@BF. Good think I didn’t ask what time should I come. :oops: Sorry, couldn’t resist.

ATL Guy: I see the point you are making now, but to use Bluz’s situation to illustrate your point could not be further off the mark. We have to reign her in to keep from doing TOO MUCH.

disco

August 22nd, 2012
12:15 pm

ATL – for a lot of folks it’s more a matter of “playing broke” than “being broke”. a lot of folks simply prefer to spend other people’s money. if they can surround themselves with folks who don’t mind feeding into their brokeness and sponsoring their activities I say they should have at it.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 22nd, 2012
12:16 pm

disco I’m hoping I can hold off that long.

Leggs WTH my blushing face didn’t work on my 12:12 what did I do wrong? Go ahead and get your laugh out I’ll be here.

Lady~cool beans :-)

August 22nd, 2012
12:16 pm

good one swiss~

it feels good to love and be loved in return~

Leggs

August 22nd, 2012
12:19 pm

swiss ~ I like your post. I’m one of those that don’t go around saying there aren’t any good men left. They’re harder to find, but they are definitely out there. I’m not settling with just any warm body for the sake of having a body so I will remain positive knowing what I know (lol).

Yep, mrs. swiss’ friends are probably jealous. Dismiss someone because they drive a Ford Focus…I’ve heard it all!!!! If Gremlins were still on the road, no reason to dismiss someone because they have a car!!!

disco

August 22nd, 2012
12:20 pm

swiss – I’m raising my hand and admitting to being the chick that “shunned” a guy because he drove a little beat up kia sephia. in my defense, it wasn’t JUST the car but I do recall feeling a wee bit apprehensive when I first saw the car. lol.

Celisea....He who laughs last, laughs on: Winning!

August 22nd, 2012
12:21 pm

My appointment is at 2:00…so I can blog a little longer…yaaaah

Swiss’ 12:14…it’s ALWAYS like that…lol

Leggs

August 22nd, 2012
12:22 pm

BF ~ you don’t have a “space” between the period and your blusing characters.

Celisea....He who laughs last, laughs on: Winning!

August 22nd, 2012
12:22 pm

Blackfoote – What’s this I’m hearing of shenanigans and smooking weed?!?!?!

Celisea....He who laughs last, laughs on: Winning!

August 22nd, 2012
12:26 pm

Honestly though, both sexes alike will dismiss someone because of where it seems like it can’t go or grow (take Bluzy’s situation). I mean you can steer clear of the signs and avoid altogether a dreaded life of going nowhere or you can chance what’s behind curtain #1….could be all good, could be a bust.

Comon Cents

August 22nd, 2012
12:26 pm

I have a friend who drives a Focus, actually. He’s a lawyer

I drive a Hyundai Elantra. And I LOVE my car. It was the 2012 car of the year and I could give a rat’s a$$ what anyone else thinks of it. My money goes to more important places like my kids college funds and retirement planning. As long as the car is safe and reliable, I’m good. Besides, there is noting funnier than seeing some chicken head driving a BMW, Lexus, Mercedes, etc that she can’t afford and the thing is raggedy to death! :lol:

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 22nd, 2012
12:26 pm

:oops: Light here it is, this goes on the end of my 12:12 better late than never………LOL

Celisea....He who laughs last, laughs on: Winning!

August 22nd, 2012
12:27 pm

And if you take what’s behind curtian #1 and it’s a bust, you’re gonna get what Bluzy gets on the regular. If you take what’s behind curtain #1 and it turns out y’all can build and overcome,then you gonna get exactly what Swiss’ scenario stated. Not that that’s a bad thing Swiss, I think it’s all good. To chance it or not to chance it….THAT is the question…lol

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 22nd, 2012
12:29 pm

Thanks Leggs.

Cely umm we were umm just having snacks and and a few drinks. Oh yeah we weeded the yard too…………LOL

disco

August 22nd, 2012
12:29 pm

CC – before you showed up on the scene, I mentioned a friend who went out and bought a (lemon) Mercedes, followed by a (lemon) jaguar. said jaguar is out of commission now and she can’t afford to fix it. I digress. I discouraged both purchases on the premise that a person shouldn’t have a luxury car if they 1) have a food stamp card in their purse and 2) are still buying gas $10 at a time.

Celisea....He who laughs last, laughs on: Winning!

August 22nd, 2012
12:30 pm

Blackfoote – LOLOLOL….okaaaay then, if you say so. Y’all was weeding the yard after dark? At 1:00 am? Mmm hmmm, I believe you though…lol

Celisea....He who laughs last, laughs on: Winning!

August 22nd, 2012
12:30 pm

Blackfoote – Was it scooby snacks?

Celisea....He who laughs last, laughs on: Winning!

August 22nd, 2012
12:32 pm

Lord Jesus why can’t things EVER be simple to one of my partners here??? There’s ALWAYS “a list” of things when really, it’s not that complicated.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 22nd, 2012
12:34 pm

LOL……@Cely

Comon Cents

August 22nd, 2012
12:36 pm

I discouraged both purchases on the premise that a person shouldn’t have a luxury car if they 1) have a food stamp card in their purse and 2) are still buying gas $10 at a time.

Damn, disco. Sounds like she couldn’t even afford an Elantra. :lol:

I always love when I see the chick at the grocery store pay for her crap with food stmps and then go outside and hop in her brand new luxury SUV while texting on her iPhone and drive off to the liquor store. Hmmm… Warms my heart.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 22nd, 2012
12:36 pm

disco you are full of jokes today……..LOL

disco

August 22nd, 2012
12:39 pm

CC – she can’t but you can’t tell grown folks nothing. we’ve been friends since childhood so I don’t mince words with her. when I told her she was buying more than she could afford I mentioned having bought my son a little ford focus. her exact words were “I’m not driving a focus”. right now, she’s not driving anything. sucks to be her.

BF – what part was a joke?

Bluzgirl

August 22nd, 2012
12:39 pm

I sure hope I find a “swiss”! You never know until you get it a chance. That’s what I’m trying to make my mom understand! :-)

Celisea....He who laughs last, laughs on: Winning!

August 22nd, 2012
12:40 pm

Bluzy – Go ahead and see what’s behind curtain #1…lol :) :)

Alright folks, until later (today).

Bluzgirl

August 22nd, 2012
12:40 pm

“give” it a chance…

Single and Happy "I'm not crazy, I'm just upset because my imaginary friend is mad and won't talk to me!"

August 22nd, 2012
12:41 pm

Disco, I have a pickup, and put 10 in the tank once because it said 0 miles to empty, and it still said 0 miles to empty (LOL) and before yall start calling me cheap I only put that much in becauese I was leaving it at the college park Marta station for a week, and will not do that with a full tank if I can help it. (LOL)

C, could blackfootes weeding the yard be like my friends in Jamaica’s “weeding” the yard (LOL) IE: you want some weed, go out in the yard and get it (LOL)

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 22nd, 2012
12:41 pm

Comon I’ve see it too a man pull out the food card getting into a Mercedes 550 roll on down the road like he’s Mr. Big.

Into the Light

August 22nd, 2012
12:43 pm

LOL@BF. I can give you an emoticon do-over every now and then. Shoot, mine didn’t turn out right the other day bc I had caps lock on. Who knew????

Awwww, Swissykins, that’s a nice story. :)

Car, schmar. Who cares what you drive? Now, I’m not meeting you at the QT so we can sit in my car and talk, but I’m not judging you on what you drive.

disco

August 22nd, 2012
12:45 pm

S/H – the entire time my son was in college he operated on a budget of $20 at a time. I still giggle thinking about it. he only put gas in his car $20 at a time. he bought items for his apartment $20 at a time. he replenished his wardrobe $20 at a time. you get the picture. his thing was, he didn’t have much (worked part-time retail) but he could do a little bit at a time with what he did have. I get that. still, my friend’s situation is totally different. she’s most definitely perpetrating a fraud, out there trying to floss and ain’t fooling or impressing anyone. she’s too old for that mess but like I said, you can’t tell grown folks nothing.

Single and Happy "I'm not crazy, I'm just upset because my imaginary friend is mad and won't talk to me!"

August 22nd, 2012
12:45 pm

Comon, Black, please tell me these people you saw with these food cards were after some natural disaster?

Into the Light

August 22nd, 2012
12:46 pm

@CC/BF: We’ve all seen it. I was behind a group of folks dressed to the nines in designer clothes, paying with the EBT, went out to the shiny new Escalade had to move the golf clubs out of the back to fit all the groceries.

But you know what? I don’t know their story, only what I assumed was their story. Shoot, maybe rich auntie came to visit and brought them clothes and drove them to the store. You never know….

Single and Happy "I'm not crazy, I'm just upset because my imaginary friend is mad and won't talk to me!"

August 22nd, 2012
12:47 pm

Disco, so we’re back to Mondays topic, about being competitive. We do live in a time where people are always trying to impress.

Into the Light

August 22nd, 2012
12:48 pm

Okay, I’m off to get lunch since BF neglected to deliver my pork chops. :(

Comon Cents

August 22nd, 2012
12:48 pm

S/H~ I can tell you that if it will make you feel better, but I would be lying…

Comon Cents

August 22nd, 2012
12:50 pm

But you know what? I don’t know their story, only what I assumed was their story. Shoot, maybe rich auntie came to visit and brought them clothes and drove them to the store. You never know….

Damn! There sure are a lot of rich relatives in town then! :roll:

Single and Happy "I'm not crazy, I'm just upset because my imaginary friend is mad and won't talk to me!"

August 22nd, 2012
12:50 pm

okay Comon ,I was trying to give them the benefit of the doubt (LOL)

disco

August 22nd, 2012
12:51 pm

re food stamps and luxury cars. could be their card or they could be buying stamps off of someone. I’ve got a friend. he and his wife live in a paid for house and drive paid for acuras. they also buy food stamps from their niece every month.

Comon Cents

August 22nd, 2012
12:51 pm

ITL~ I kid, I kid… sorta. :lol:

But on the real, I have seen that story WAY too often for there not to be some serious fraud going on…

Bluzgirl

August 22nd, 2012
12:52 pm

I try not to judge people by their car. Even if it’s a little beat up, I know some people hang onto them because they’re paid for. I’m one who has had a car payment since 1999…I get close and decide to upgrade! My ex had a BMW, but it was old and not in great shape. He was so proud of it and I was like…dude, look at it. Just because it’s a BMW doesn’t make you all that! Magnum has a work truck that is paid off. It’s not in great shape, but not in bad shape. It’s a huge truck. I don’t blame him for keeping it because it’s paid off and it still runs well. Now…pick me up in a pinto and I might run!!!

kimmie

August 22nd, 2012
12:53 pm

I’ve never judged a guy on WHAT he drove. I just required that he drove something, had some kind of transportation. We don’t live in NYC. Even if you take Marta to work, you should have some kind of puddle jumper to hang out in over the weekends. Over age 25, you need to get it together. Judge all you want. You should want better for yourself, not just to date.

Bluzgirl

August 22nd, 2012
12:54 pm

Now…I do have a friend on food stamps who is currently unemployed. She is trying to do whatever she can to get cash for things she can’t buy on the card. She sold her friend $100 on the card for $80 cash. Now, her friend is very well off and drives a convertable BMW, so people may look at her and judge. She’s just helping out a friend…

Bluzgirl

August 22nd, 2012
12:56 pm

kimmie…I am with you on there. No grown men without a car!!!

disco

August 22nd, 2012
12:56 pm

bluz – the “other” friend got played. food stamps typically go for 50 cents on the dollar. lol.

Celisea

August 22nd, 2012
12:58 pm

There are far worse things than peoples living situations where you’re no doubt erroneously passing judgment. Worry about what’s on the inside of you, how you operate and what you do.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 22nd, 2012
12:58 pm

Light I wont let you down again the next dinner I will personally deliver.

Single the dude was in line purchasing other folks items with the card while they gave him the money.

i'm swiss

August 22nd, 2012
12:59 pm

Just to make sure the point of my story didn’t get lost there… It’s not like I was a hobo when I met Mrs. Swiss & magically turned into a gainfully employed dude with his sh! together from her influence. I already had the education, and the good job, making good money, with the potential and ambition for even better jobs. But I drove a Honda Civic & lived in a modest townhouse because that was what I could comfortably afford when I got my first job out of college. The car still ran just fine, so there was no need to change it. The house was plenty of space for me, so there was no need to trade up while I was still single. Some people would look at that and assume that I didn’t have much going for me. What Mrs. Swiss was smart enough to see was that because I had no car payment and a tiny mortgage, I could save a lot of money. :)

Celisea

August 22nd, 2012
12:59 pm

I’m always happy happy happy, I don’t answer to people and the nasty element of judging they live in.

Lady~cool beans :-)

August 22nd, 2012
1:01 pm

C simply amazing~ A beautiful mind!

Bluzgirl

August 22nd, 2012
1:01 pm

disco…she is a very good friend, so she was willing to pay 80% instead of 50%. I’ve done the 50% in the past with her to help her out…She get’s $200 each month on her card and she’s a single woman, who doesn’t spend that much.

Single and Happy "I'm not crazy, I'm just upset because my imaginary friend is mad and won't talk to me!"

August 22nd, 2012
1:02 pm

Disco, if you’re trying to help out a friend, 100 for 80 isn’t bad. :-D

good 12:58 C, you never no someones situation, these people could be doing this for someone that’s shut in, we just never know.

Celisea

August 22nd, 2012
1:02 pm

blogging from my phone sux! lol

Single and Happy "I'm not crazy, I'm just upset because my imaginary friend is mad and won't talk to me!"

August 22nd, 2012
1:03 pm

Black there are some people that no matter what they are not going go do right, but lets not put everyone in that boat.

Leggs

August 22nd, 2012
1:04 pm

:you want some weed, go out in the yard and get it (LOL) – that was funny and probably true statement.

Celisea

August 22nd, 2012
1:06 pm

Lady – I hate it when theres a nice flow and laughing, then that nasty element find it’s way in.

To the doctor.

Lady~cool beans :-)

August 22nd, 2012
1:15 pm

yeah I feel you…..can’t entertain it……..a bit draining ya know……

yawn yeah I am sleepy too! yall I think I have a keeper…my boo brought my wings(girl supplies) last night and cooked dinner…..the last person who did that I married him lol…..#random thoughts lol

Bluzgirl

August 22nd, 2012
1:16 pm

Lady – that’s definitely a keeper!!!

kimmie

August 22nd, 2012
1:16 pm

Swiss – Any woman who would see you pre-Mrs Swiss and are that blind to not see you had your stuff together would not be worth your time anyway. They are obviously not intelligent. Folks who would judge just because you drove a Civic are probably not used to much anyway and are looking for someone to upgrade THEM!

Shoot, I drive a Chevy Tracker that’s in bad need of a paint job. But it’s fully paid for and runs beautifully. Folks that don’t know me can judge my situation all they want! :cool:

Lady~cool beans :-)

August 22nd, 2012
1:19 pm

Thanks Bluz!!!! it was a long night of homework with the little one and he was there on the back hand running errands and cooking…….I so appreciated that! love the little things~

Bluzgirl

August 22nd, 2012
1:27 pm

The little things add up to so much!!! I’m not a materialistic girl…I’d rather have the sweet gestures like that then a gift…

i'm swiss

August 22nd, 2012
1:27 pm

kimmie — Exactly. BTW, you ready for some football? This cooler weather the past few days has me ready to fire up the grill, pop open a cold one (or 10) and plant my arse in front of the big screen… :)

Comon Cents

August 22nd, 2012
1:28 pm

It must be noted that the hubs did cook the pork chops last night. :)

I feel you on the keeper thing, because after my day yesterday, I knew I wasn’t cooking a thing when I got home! LOL!

Bluzgirl

August 22nd, 2012
1:29 pm

I know this girl is ready for some football!!!! I need to do some research and find a sport’s bar in Charleston where I can watch the first UGA game!!!

Comon Cents

August 22nd, 2012
1:29 pm

Lady~ I will say that the self-checkout was probably designed by some dude like Swiss who had to go and pick up the wings… :lol:

i'm swiss

August 22nd, 2012
1:32 pm

Comon — Oh man, I love the self checkout. That’s the primary reason I try to go to Kroger over Publix, just because Publix doesn’t have the self-checkout (at least not the one by my house).

Single and Happy "I'm not crazy, I'm just upset because my imaginary friend is mad and won't talk to me!"

August 22nd, 2012
1:33 pm

Leggs, I was sitting in a bootleggers house in the hills of Negril and the girl I was with asked her DAD if he had and weed, he sent the little boy out in the yard to get it, he came back with a fresh bud (LOL)

Lady~cool beans :-)

August 22nd, 2012
1:34 pm

lol I get your point but he went to dollar general so I am sure he had human interaction which isn’t the point he just got them without explanation asked what kind and brand and it was handled. he is 47 and divorced so he seem comfortable and just did it

Lady~cool beans :-)

August 22nd, 2012
1:35 pm

oh two kids and they are small meaning 10 and 8

Single and Happy "I'm not crazy, I'm just upset because my imaginary friend is mad and won't talk to me!"

August 22nd, 2012
1:38 pm

Umm what’s wrong with a man buying feminine products, hell if they think they’re for me then they are the ones with the problem not me (LOL)

I had to go buy some for my girl last visit, the lady at the store in the lobby had to call to the room because she didn’t think I knew what I was talking about (rotflmao)

Single and Happy "I'm not crazy, I'm just upset because my imaginary friend is mad and won't talk to me!"

August 22nd, 2012
1:39 pm

Bluz real football starts at 8:00 Sept 1 on ABC (Roll Tide) LOL

Comon Cents

August 22nd, 2012
1:41 pm

S/H~ You know how you know the toothbrush was invented in AL?

Comon Cents

August 22nd, 2012
1:42 pm

Because if it was invented anywhere else it would be the teethbrush…

Lady~cool beans :-)

August 22nd, 2012
1:45 pm

I am happy about football season too, the crisp air, beer, food, cuddling, traveling, grilling, holidays, yeah great times awaits oh homecoming too!

Single and Happy "I'm not crazy, I'm just upset because my imaginary friend is mad and won't talk to me!"

August 22nd, 2012
1:45 pm

14 comon, 14 (LOL)

Single and Happy "I'm not crazy, I'm just upset because my imaginary friend is mad and won't talk to me!"

August 22nd, 2012
1:45 pm

Lady, cuddling?? where you be watching football (LOL)

Leggs

August 22nd, 2012
1:48 pm

Single ~ your imaginery friend is keeping me company (lol). I’ll return when we finish talking.

Single and Happy "I'm not crazy, I'm just upset because my imaginary friend is mad and won't talk to me!"

August 22nd, 2012
1:51 pm

okay Leggs (LOL)

Bluzgirl

August 22nd, 2012
2:00 pm

UH OH S/H…we’re gonna have some problems! GO DAWGS!!!!!!!!! LOL

Single and Happy "I'm not crazy, I'm just upset because my imaginary friend is mad and won't talk to me!"

August 22nd, 2012
2:02 pm

Bluz, no problem here, we know who’s superior :-D

Into the Light

August 22nd, 2012
2:02 pm

@Bluz: All the dawgs in here, Stamps doesn’t stand a chance.

I am so ready for some football. A friend is taking her son for his first Georgia game ever. I can’t wait to see the look on his face when he sees Sanford for the first time.

Comon Cents

August 22nd, 2012
2:05 pm

Hey, Bluzy, I got a question for you. Apparently, dude that they picked up for making threats did not go to jail. They took him to the hospital to help him get back on his meds. Can they do that? I mean, I know they can, but I mean if he doesn’t WANT to take his meds, can they make him? I was under the impression that being medicated for a psychological disorder had to be voluntary. Am I mistaken?

Into the Light

August 22nd, 2012
2:05 pm

the crisp air, beer, food, cuddling, traveling, grilling….

…..tailgates, fall festivals, apple orchards and pumpkin patches…..

@BF: I’m gonna hold you to that. But I have to admit, the Steak and Shake burger wasn’t bad. I haven’t had one in awhile, so I thoroughly enjoyed it. :)

Single and Happy "I'm not crazy, I'm just upset because my imaginary friend is mad and won't talk to me!"

August 22nd, 2012
2:05 pm

ITL do we need to call ALABAMA POWER back in to Sanford to turn the lights back on (LOL)

i'm swiss

August 22nd, 2012
2:06 pm

Oooohhhhh… that’s what you meant by “go pick up the wings.” Yeah, I’m with S/H on this one. Doesn’t bother me one bit. Just announces to the store that I’m 1) straight and 2) getting regular puddy (though maybe not this week). :lol:

Leggs

August 22nd, 2012
2:08 pm

Sanford Stadium has nothing on Paulson Stadium!!

I really don’t know, just thought I throw something in the football convo (lolol).

Lady~cool beans :-)

August 22nd, 2012
2:09 pm

Bluzgirl

August 22nd, 2012
2:10 pm

Yeah, yeah S/H…at least you’re not Auburn, though…

Into the Light

August 22nd, 2012
2:10 pm

LOL@Leggs. How did you not comment on my 12:43???? I posted that just for you. :)

@Stamps: Yeah….do that. #$%&

Lady~cool beans :-)

August 22nd, 2012
2:10 pm

i need some hot tea……………………

disco

August 22nd, 2012
2:11 pm

single and happy – re your 1:02. if I’m trying to help a friend out I’ll help a friend out. if I’m buying stamps, I’m buying them at market rate. friend or no friend.

CC – re the meds. I’ve seen instances where an individual was ordered to take meds. not taking them is contempt or even a probation/parole violation. guess it depends though.

Single and Happy "I'm not crazy, I'm just upset because my imaginary friend is mad and won't talk to me!"

August 22nd, 2012
2:11 pm

The best College FB experience I’ve ever been too was at an HBCU, Tuskegee University, that place was rocking :-D

Into the Light

August 22nd, 2012
2:11 pm

@Lady: Had a cup of Tazo’s Zen tea this morning. It’s my new fave.

Leggs

August 22nd, 2012
2:13 pm

ITL ~ had to go back and read it. Didn’t see it the first time. When I typed about driving a Gremlin, I thought of the QT guy. At least have a car if you want to start dating.

Lady~cool beans :-)

August 22nd, 2012
2:13 pm

i like orange spiced~

Comon Cents

August 22nd, 2012
2:14 pm

disco~ Ok. I just thought it was odd. I mean, I don’t advocate forcing anyone to do anything to their body that they choose not to do. However, if you are a threat, then if you’re not going to take your meds, you should go to the pokey. I just thought it was weird that he went to the hospital and not jail.

Single and Happy "I'm not crazy, I'm just upset because my imaginary friend is mad and won't talk to me!"

August 22nd, 2012
2:14 pm

Bluz, at least we’re not everybody else, WE ARE ALABAMA (LOL)

Bluzgirl

August 22nd, 2012
2:14 pm

CC – as far as I know, since he has made actual threats against people, they can check him into the hospital. While there, they will make him take his meds. Now…I don’t know how long they can keep him there without his consent. I wonder if he will be put in front of a judge once he gets out of the hospital.

Lady~cool beans :-)

August 22nd, 2012
2:15 pm

I am glad Jeff Turner won and chuckling about Victor Hill~ life is interesting. never a dull moment in metro atlanta~ oh and the wife got bond~ I am ready for a 48 mystery or snapped episode~ #randomness lol

Single and Happy "I'm not crazy, I'm just upset because my imaginary friend is mad and won't talk to me!"

August 22nd, 2012
2:15 pm

Comon, would he go to jail, or a mental institution?

ITL we will if necessary, just pull out the black jerseys (LOL)

Bluzgirl

August 22nd, 2012
2:15 pm

Side topic – Magnum found a shelter down the road from him that will take care of business for only $25.00. He doesn’t want me to go with him. My heart just breaks for him right now…the hardest thing is to make the decision to put your animal down…

Single and Happy "I'm not crazy, I'm just upset because my imaginary friend is mad and won't talk to me!"

August 22nd, 2012
2:17 pm

About Victor Hill, we would rather have a jail bird over Kim Kimbrough (LOL) Yes I voted for V. Hill

Comon Cents

August 22nd, 2012
2:17 pm

Lady~ Victor Hill reminded me of Marion Barry. :lol:

They have already done a Dateline on ID about te Schneiderman case. It was GOOD too. I am sure they will run it again with updates.

Lady~cool beans :-)

August 22nd, 2012
2:17 pm

I am a Roll Tide bandwagon fan…i like fla state too…..not a SEC fan oh GA Tech and of course the MEAC~ go scsu

Lady~cool beans :-)

August 22nd, 2012
2:18 pm

i need it to be on snapped though~ lol that was boring on dateline i watched it

Single and Happy "I'm not crazy, I'm just upset because my imaginary friend is mad and won't talk to me!"

August 22nd, 2012
2:19 pm

Lady, sorry, but the TIDE doesn’t have a band wagon, either you wit us or you agin us (LOL)

Lady~cool beans :-)

August 22nd, 2012
2:20 pm

i am not a college football fan truly sorry that is why i said bandwagon~ love the nfl….

Into the Light

August 22nd, 2012
2:20 pm

@Stamps: Tell you what….we’ll wear the black jerseys and come play you in Tuscaloosa. Or have you forgotten that you lost to us the year before?

BTW, although the Bama Blackout ended badly, the Auburn blackout game was one of the best tiems I have ever had in Sanford. When the sun started going down but before the lights came on, it was so blacked out it gave me chills.

kimmie

August 22nd, 2012
2:21 pm

Back from lunch

Light – Girl, I am so ready for Dawg ball it’s not even funny!!!!

Into the Light

August 22nd, 2012
2:22 pm

Not only that, Stamps, but Bama is in the SEC. SEC West, but still the SEC.

Comon Cents

August 22nd, 2012
2:22 pm

S/H~ Whether he goes to jail of a mental institution would have to be answered by a judge. Several things will happen that will determine that. First, the partners have to press charges. If they press charges, his defense attorney will have to decide how to plead. (Guilty, not guilty, not guilty by reason of mental disease or defect, etc) Then the judge will make a determination on sentencing based on how he pleads and whether or not he is found guilty. That’s the abbreviated version. :lol:

kimmie

August 22nd, 2012
2:23 pm

It’s a tired dude that sits near me from LSU and of course he loves the Ain’ts! Well, he’s actually an okay dude if it were not for that!LOL!!

Lady~cool beans :-)

August 22nd, 2012
2:23 pm

see how much i know but carry one don’t let me be a college football downer lol

i'm swiss

August 22nd, 2012
2:23 pm

“the TIDE doesn’t have a band wagon”

Also doesn’t have a full set of teeth, but that another topic… ;-)

disco

August 22nd, 2012
2:24 pm

dangit. just got a paper cut.

Lady~cool beans :-)

August 22nd, 2012
2:25 pm

my boo said the wife shouldn’t be prosecuted bc they have nothing morally she is wrong but criminally its nothing…..0_o lol see that is where snapped comes into to play! lol

Lady~cool beans :-)

August 22nd, 2012
2:26 pm

swiss that is ugly lol boo uga lol go jackets~

Into the Light

August 22nd, 2012
2:26 pm

@kimmie: Me, too!! Even though the opener is Buffalo, we’ve already got the tailgate planned. You gonna be there? If so, you’re welcome to stop by for mimosas/bloody marys/bellinis.

@Lady: all in good fun! :)

I like pro ball, too, but college is my first love. Speaking of love, DGD AJ Green looked good the other night.

Into the Light

August 22nd, 2012
2:28 pm

Speaking of the NATS, how come they have to offer free cokes and hot dogs and lawd only knows what else to sell out a stadium half the size of Sanford????

kimmie

August 22nd, 2012
2:29 pm

Watched a Snapped marathon on Sunday. I have to say some of those dudes that got snapped on were a little dense. Looks like they got lured by sex/looks and fell into some of those black widow’s webs.

SlimUno

August 22nd, 2012
2:30 pm

Hello peeps, just getting a chance to pop in. Looks like I must’ve missed a lot judging by the fact you all on page 7 already. Anyone care to give me a quick Clift Notes Recap of today’s events???? :D

kimmie

August 22nd, 2012
2:31 pm

Light – Thanks for the invite and I would be swimming in those drinks if I were going!LOL!!

Into the Light

August 22nd, 2012
2:34 pm

@kimmie: We’re there for every game, and you’ll always be welcome. :)

Leggs

August 22nd, 2012
2:35 pm

Bluz is now dating her FWB co-star and defending his station in life. Also, his dog needs to be put down and she’s run into a scam artist of a Vet.

Little discussion on broke being relative.

Single’s imaginary friend is talking with me and not him.

Everyone (except me) seems to be gung ho for football.

Comon Cents

August 22nd, 2012
2:36 pm

Lady~ Technically your boo is right. Without seeing the discovery, the evidence that they had that could be used against her from the Hemy Neuman trial was circumstantial at best. Unless they have developed some new evidence that we didn’t hear in that first trial, this case is a loser for the prosecution.

Into the Light

August 22nd, 2012
2:36 pm

Do we have to keep referring to Dr. Good as a scam artist??? He’s been so sweet to me….. :(

Oh, and you left out BF got the munchies after doing yardwork. :lol: :lol:

kimmie

August 22nd, 2012
2:37 pm

Thanks Light!

disco

August 22nd, 2012
2:37 pm

slim – update: disco isn’t all that gung ho for football either.

Leggs

August 22nd, 2012
2:37 pm

SlimUno ~ almost forgot. Bluz and her co-star in life at the moment had a heart to heart over dinner. They both want to be with each other, vowed to stay away from the likka, but will partake in a glass of red wine every now and then. They had a nice dinner and only cuddled afterwards. No smashing, wasn’t ever gonna be any smashing and the fact that they had water at dinner helped in the decision not to smash.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 22nd, 2012
2:37 pm

Comon that dude is lucky he didn’t get labeled a terrorist.

Single is a Crimson Tide fan? You know this is Bulldog country you’re in.

I was laughing hard this morning about Victor Hill winning the sheriff seat. 39 indicments on his plate that should tell a lot about what the people in Clayton Co. feel about outgoing sheriff Kembrough. Only in America.

Leggs

August 22nd, 2012
2:38 pm

Since I’m the only one referring to him as such, my answer is NO!

Single and Happy "I'm not crazy, I'm just upset because my imaginary friend is mad and won't talk to me!"

August 22nd, 2012
2:39 pm

ITL naw we didn’t forget we lost in OT, that’s why we had to come and make sure the next year (LOL) You know, just like LSU last year!! Leave no doubts (LOL)

Single and Happy "I'm not crazy, I'm just upset because my imaginary friend is mad and won't talk to me!"

August 22nd, 2012
2:40 pm

14 Swiss, Black, 14!!

Leggs

August 22nd, 2012
2:40 pm

Oh yeah, BF is weeding the yard at 1:00 in the morn.

Single went to Negril and his date asked her DAD if there was any weed in the garden. Someone ran to the yard and came back with a nice bud…No smoke signals because they all fell out after the first toke.

disco

August 22nd, 2012
2:40 pm

slim – another update: several of us are of the opinion that the no smashing was in direct correlation to his having to leave early after receiving a call re the aforementioned sick dog. not saying the lessened alcohol intake didn’t contribute to the lack of smashing. lol.

SlimUno

August 22nd, 2012
2:41 pm

Leggs – I surely appreciate the recap…I figured most of these pages were probably attributed to Bluz…so they went from disrespect to relationship….or dating. WOW!

disco – I’m not gung ho for football either…i will go to the games and watch the Falcons play eerrry now and then.

Leggs

August 22nd, 2012
2:42 pm

weed in the yard, not garden. Garden takes away from the word play!!!

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 22nd, 2012
2:42 pm

LOL……@Light that yard work gets hard at times………LOL

SlimUno

August 22nd, 2012
2:44 pm

disco – Well thanks for clearing that up because I believe I was under the impression that the low level of alcohol intake was in direct correlation of the lack of smashing and/or guilt from the following day’s blog bashing. :lol:

Into the Light

August 22nd, 2012
2:45 pm

@BF: Yeah, I’ve heard you can really work up an appetite! :)

A co-worker just suggested we go out for happy hour. Woohoo!! I needed something fun to end the day.

Single and Happy "I'm not crazy, I'm just upset because my imaginary friend is mad and won't talk to me!"

August 22nd, 2012
2:45 pm

Lady I haven’t been keeping up with any cases, but it sounds like this is a good publicity case, get to be on CNN giving news conferences all the time.

Lady~cool beans :-)

August 22nd, 2012
2:46 pm

yall be easy~ :-) Peace!

Leggs

August 22nd, 2012
2:46 pm

” I believe I was under the impression that the low level of alcohol intake was in direct correlation of the lack of smashing” – you were under the right impression.

Alcohol is not her friend. She thinks clearer when no alcohol and her libido is sleeping. Alcohol seems to wake it up!

Into the Light

August 22nd, 2012
2:47 pm

Have a good one, Lady.

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 22nd, 2012
2:48 pm

Leggs I’m still laughing at Victor Hill, remember about a month and half ago the dude couldn’t find anybody to bond him out of jail………..LOL

Single and Happy "I'm not crazy, I'm just upset because my imaginary friend is mad and won't talk to me!"

August 22nd, 2012
2:48 pm

Leggs, don’t blame it on the al al al alcohol, it really was the dog getting sick

Single and Happy "I'm not crazy, I'm just upset because my imaginary friend is mad and won't talk to me!"

August 22nd, 2012
2:49 pm

Black, bond and vote are different, you can’t jump vote (LOL)

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 22nd, 2012
2:50 pm

Lady wait you’re leaving me too early here.

disco

August 22nd, 2012
2:51 pm

S/H and leggs – alcohol, sick dog, alcohol, sick dog. see why I said there were two camps on the issue?

Leggs

August 22nd, 2012
2:52 pm

BF ~ I laughed too when I heard he won on the radio this morning. I also laughed that Eldrin Bell was ousted as well as Kimbrough. 39 indictments and he’s the new Sheriff. Only in America..

Plastic shoe wearing Eldrin Bell should have been ousted out of office years ago.

Leggs

August 22nd, 2012
2:52 pm

that’s right, the dog was sick…

Single and Happy "I'm not crazy, I'm just upset because my imaginary friend is mad and won't talk to me!"

August 22nd, 2012
2:52 pm

Disco the sick dog made him have to leave, which meant less alcohol (LOL)

"Guuja the Troll"

August 22nd, 2012
2:53 pm

Wow the lady in the topic sounds like a real pedophile.

Comon Cents

August 22nd, 2012
2:54 pm

so they went from disrespect to relationship….or dating. WOW!

I just have to say at this moment: I CALLED THIS YESTERDAY!!! I told y’all ol’ boy would be in da house today! :lol:

Single and Happy "I'm not crazy, I'm just upset because my imaginary friend is mad and won't talk to me!"

August 22nd, 2012
2:55 pm

Comon com on, we all new the ending to that story (LOL)

Single and Happy "I'm not crazy, I'm just upset because my imaginary friend is mad and won't talk to me!"

August 22nd, 2012
2:56 pm

I was in the back ground lurking, just didn’t have any comments for that one (LOL)

Blackfoote: The Real Blackfoote

August 22nd, 2012
2:58 pm

LOL………@Single if there ever was a way to do that Vicotr would find it.

Single and Happy "I'm not crazy, I'm just upset because my imaginary friend is mad and won't talk to me!"

August 22nd, 2012
3:03 pm

Black what’s going to be interesting is his first day in office, (lets see who’s about to get fired) (LOL)

Into the Light

August 22nd, 2012
3:04 pm

Off to a meeting. Y’all be sweet.

Leggs

August 22nd, 2012
3:04 pm

disco ~ he’s not in the house…they’re merely dating. He’s still in the basement with his own roof over his head.

i'm swiss

August 22nd, 2012
3:07 pm

“He’s still in the basement with his own parents’ roof over his head.”

There, I fixed it for you, Leggs. :lol:

disco

August 22nd, 2012
3:07 pm

leggs – CC’s the one that called him being in the house. I say he’s not in the house YET.

Single and Happy "I'm not crazy, I'm just upset because my imaginary friend is mad and won't talk to me!"

August 22nd, 2012
3:07 pm

Leggs, my 2:55

Bluzgirl

August 22nd, 2012
3:07 pm

Hey…he’s not moving in!!! I’m not referring to it as a relationship at this point…just dating for now and seeing where it goes!!!

ITL – I always had good feelings about Dr. Good until he did what he did. I don’t know if he’s necessarily a scam artist, but it wasn’t cool what he did.

I WAS NOT PLANNING ON SMASHING LAST NIGHT ANYWAYS!!! Yes…he had to leave early because of his dog, but even if he had stayed, it wouldn’t have happened…

Leggs

August 22nd, 2012
3:08 pm

Victor Hill better walk around like 50 Cents and keep his vest on.

Single and Happy "I'm not crazy, I'm just upset because my imaginary friend is mad and won't talk to me!"

August 22nd, 2012
3:09 pm

wow bluz sounds like she may be a lil red in the face right now (LOL)

Leggs

August 22nd, 2012
3:10 pm

swiss ~ MAN, I purposely left off “parents’ ” and here you go putting the word in (lol).

I hear ya, Single (2:55). We all hear you.

disco

August 22nd, 2012
3:11 pm

leggs – and there you go mentioning 50 cent. he’s my current “who can hit it” rap crush.

Leggs

August 22nd, 2012
3:11 pm

Single, Bluz doesn’t get red in the face..she simply turns into one of the Smurfettes.

Leggs

August 22nd, 2012
3:12 pm

disco ~ I’m cracking up. Mine is Nelly! YEP!

Single and Happy "I'm not crazy, I'm just upset because my imaginary friend is mad and won't talk to me!"

August 22nd, 2012
3:14 pm

Leggs, one of the smurfettes (rotflmao) and which smurf would that be DFWM (don’t fudge wit me) smurf, or LMMA (leave my man alone) smurf (LOL)

disco

August 22nd, 2012
3:15 pm

leggs – I was going to say that nelly is a sweetie but who am I kidding. 50 cent is a sweetie too. he just be perping like he’s all hard. still, if a sister had the opportunity to get broke off with the magic stick I’d be walking around like kanye (is it kanye?) talking about “did you say something? nuh uh. you can’t tell me nothing”. lol.

Single and Happy "I'm not crazy, I'm just upset because my imaginary friend is mad and won't talk to me!"

August 22nd, 2012
3:15 pm

Hmm Trina an Eve can have a seat any time (LOL)

disco

August 22nd, 2012
3:16 pm

S/H – I’ll let you have eve but trina just plain looks stank.

i'm swiss

August 22nd, 2012
3:16 pm

Leggs — What can I say? I’m a stickler for details. ;-)

Single and Happy "I'm not crazy, I'm just upset because my imaginary friend is mad and won't talk to me!"

August 22nd, 2012
3:17 pm

Disco be stank all up in my face (LOL)

SlimUno

August 22nd, 2012
3:19 pm

CC – That thought crossed my mind but since I’m just now strolling in late today, I didn’t want to throw that out there. Plus I was not sure if it was mentioned earlier or not. Don’t have time to go back and read all that

Comon Cents

August 22nd, 2012
3:20 pm

S/H~ True, True. Can’t I just have a little bit of glory? :lol:

Leggs

August 22nd, 2012
3:21 pm

Disco be stank all up in my face (LOL)

I heard the voice of an 11 year old (lol).

Leggs

August 22nd, 2012
3:23 pm

I know who Eve is, but who’s Trina???

SlimUno

August 22nd, 2012
3:23 pm

Mine used to be LL Cool J or Tupac…can’t say I have one now though.

Single and Happy "I'm not crazy, I'm just upset because my imaginary friend is mad and won't talk to me!"

August 22nd, 2012
3:23 pm

Leggs, all men turn into lil boys when the get a new toy to play wit, (LOL) just dreaming (LOL)

SlimUno

August 22nd, 2012
3:24 pm

Leggs – Trina is the baddist Biya lol

Single and Happy "I'm not crazy, I'm just upset because my imaginary friend is mad and won't talk to me!"

August 22nd, 2012
3:25 pm

Leggs Trina is the Baddest B. I don’t think she’s done anything in years

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Trina

SlimUno

August 22nd, 2012
3:25 pm

SlimUno

August 22nd, 2012
3:26 pm

S/H – Didn’t she have a song called Single Again not too too far in a land farther away than here? lol

Comon Cents

August 22nd, 2012
3:27 pm

Slim~ I’m wit you on LL, especially after he wrestled te burglar to the ground in his house and held him till the police came… mmmm, mmmm, mmm…

disco

August 22nd, 2012
3:29 pm

CC – slim – LL is just classic sexy. he was fine wearing a kangol talking about his radio and I was feeling gabrielle union in deliver us from eva when she said “and then we burned a hole in the floor”. mmm mmmm mmmmm.

disco

August 22nd, 2012
3:29 pm

sorry CC – I had to get on the mmm mmmm mmmm bandwagon. just plain delectable.

Leggs

August 22nd, 2012
3:30 pm

SlimUno ~ thanks for that collage. She’s pretty. I see Beyonce, Lala (Anthony Mello’s wife), Keisha, etc in her.

Thank you too, Single.

Leggs

August 22nd, 2012
3:32 pm

Although I don’t think this half pint is sexy, but I do like his raspy voice – Ja Rule!

SlimUno

August 22nd, 2012
3:33 pm

Leggs – I think LaLa and her are good friends. She was on her reality show hanging out in Miami with her and the Destiny’s Child chick.

CC – I don’t recall ever hearing that story about LL…Is that really true?

Comon Cents

August 22nd, 2012
3:35 pm

Leggs~ My secret one is Lil Wayne. While I think he has ZERO talent, I would let him thug me out in a minute… :lol:

Comon Cents

August 22nd, 2012
3:36 pm

Leggs

August 22nd, 2012
3:36 pm

SlimUno ~ the story about LL just happened last night or earlier this week.

disco

August 22nd, 2012
3:36 pm

leggs – that made me laugh. Ja? for real? busta rhymes was my rapper crush for a long time. back when he was talking “woo hah. I got you all in check”. yeah. I still like old trevor. I even like to say trevor.

CC – little wayne? no comment.

Single and Happy "I'm not crazy, I'm just upset because my imaginary friend is mad and won't talk to me!"

August 22nd, 2012
3:38 pm

Slim don’t know what she was rapping, I was just looking a drooling (LOL) you know me

Comon Cents

August 22nd, 2012
3:40 pm

Y’all remember Khia? My neck, my back… :lol:

Leggs

August 22nd, 2012
3:40 pm

I like Ja Rule’s voice.

I knew a lot of ladies were crushing on Busta. Never floated my boat. Hell, he raps so fast I have no idea what the man is saying. And, for the record, I don’t know what many of these rappers are saying.

Comon Cents

August 22nd, 2012
3:40 pm

I think she even made Trina look respectable…

Comon Cents

August 22nd, 2012
3:41 pm

disco~ IDK what it is about him, but that little knuckle head “makes me wanna holla” to borrow a phrase…

kimmie

August 22nd, 2012
3:43 pm

disco – LL all day for me!! In Deliver from Eva, remember that scene when he came to pick her up on their first date, and when Eva opened the door he was leaned on it looking delectable in his suit? I was on a date to see that movie and when it showed him in that scene I couldn’t resist saying Umm Umm Umm!! My date said “hey wait a minute now”!! I told him I’m sorry, but I just couldn’t help it!LOL!!!

disco

August 22nd, 2012
3:44 pm

CC – a lot of folks say that about wayne. he just looks like a little scarred up ninja turtle to me. plus he doesn’t weigh enough. he needs to eat. oh, and I admit, I was up in the club dancing all freaky to that song. what?

kimmie

August 22nd, 2012
3:44 pm

Leggs – I like Ja Rules voice too!!

disco

August 22nd, 2012
3:46 pm

kimmie – I went to see it with a guy. what I remember most is he kept comparing me to eva the whole movie. lol. messed up thing is everyone was comparing me to eva. friends and family members nationwide were talking about “you are just like eva”. I was like dang.

Leggs

August 22nd, 2012
3:50 pm

Cool, I have backup (lol). Raspiness is sexy!!!!

kimmie

August 22nd, 2012
3:53 pm

disco – LOL!!

Single and Happy "I'm not crazy, I'm just upset because my imaginary friend is mad and won't talk to me!"

August 22nd, 2012
3:53 pm

Disco, IJS (LOL)

Leggs

August 22nd, 2012
3:57 pm

friends and family members nationwide were talking about “you are just like eva”. I was like dang.

Reminds me of what a distant friend used to say to me “if people are saying the same thing over and over again, it must be true!” :wink:

disco

August 22nd, 2012
4:00 pm

re being compared to eva, I wasn’t even upset. there were some very unsettling similarities that even I cannot deny. it is what it is. I do the Tupperware/storage thing. when she looked at her watch and said “tick tick tick” that’s me all day. bossy as heck? me again. yeah. I was all up and through that movie.

Leggs

August 22nd, 2012
4:00 pm

I have on a very thin chiffon blouse so I’m wrapped in my blanket eating an icee having people laugh at me as they walk by. Oh well.

kimmie

August 22nd, 2012
4:03 pm

Leggs – That is me all the way sometimes – wrapped up like I’m on the North Pole, but eating or wanting some ice cream or an icee!!!!

Leggs

August 22nd, 2012
4:08 pm

Ok, what’s the next topic? We’ve been a bunch of jumping beans today.

Leggs

August 22nd, 2012
4:14 pm

Ok, someone answer me this…why are condoms so expensive…I had no idea.

Leggs

August 22nd, 2012
4:14 pm

:lol: :lol: It’s not what you think.

Comon Cents

August 22nd, 2012
4:16 pm

Well, I’ll throw one out there. The custody evaluator has finished talking to my daughter and she said that while there IS a bond between little cents and her “dad” someting has happened that has made it very tenuous and if it is going to be broken, now would be the time to do it.

Into the Light

August 22nd, 2012
4:17 pm

I’m back. I am ready for a mojito. Or two. Or ten. :)

Into the Light

August 22nd, 2012
4:18 pm

Um, Leggs…….. :roll:

Comon Cents

August 22nd, 2012
4:19 pm

Leggs~ Condoms are less expensive than babies or VD…

Bluzgirl

August 22nd, 2012
4:19 pm

Leggs…I had no idea either!!! BUT…it’s cheaper than what can happen without them!

Bluzgirl

August 22nd, 2012
4:19 pm

CC – how old is little cents?

Leggs

August 22nd, 2012
4:20 pm

Good point, Comon.

I was at the drugstore just now noticing their prices while standing in line. I was surprised…that’s all.

ITL ~ why you rolling your eyes at me? :lol:

Comon Cents

August 22nd, 2012
4:22 pm

Bluz~ 5. She will be 6 next month.

Leggs

August 22nd, 2012
4:23 pm

5, 6 years of age…love that age. They are adorable.

Single and Happy "I'm not crazy, I'm just upset because my imaginary friend is mad and won't talk to me!"

August 22nd, 2012
4:24 pm

Into the Light

August 22nd, 2012
4:25 pm

Mmmmhmmm. It’s not what you think. I bet it’s EXACTLY what I think.

(ITL now pushing Bluz off the couch and settling in……) Sooooo, Banana Pudding really ticked me off yesterday. And he’s been calling but I won’t answer……He just IM’d me saying, “How many times and how many ways can I say I’m sorry????” Hmph. I was going to answer him, but he signed off. Nork.

Comon Cents

August 22nd, 2012
4:27 pm

S/H~ IDK if you were here the 1st day I came to the blog, but long story short. I was married for 9 years, we had an open marriage from 2005 on. when we separated in 2005 when I came back I was pregnant with little cents. I knew from jump that the ex hubby was not the father, but I let it ride. Flash forward, we divorced. After the divorce was final, he takes her to be tested and lo and behold, he is not the father. Starts posting about it on FB and threatening me. Just becomes a real a$$. So, now he is suing me for custody and I am suing to terminate his parental rights. That’s the cliff notes version.

disco

August 22nd, 2012
4:28 pm

ITL – forgive my ignorance but what’s “nork”?

Comon Cents

August 22nd, 2012
4:28 pm

ITL~ How did he piss you off? (And it wasn’t Bluz you shoved off the couch it was me. :lol: )

disco

August 22nd, 2012
4:29 pm

S/H – not that it matters but I’m of the opinion that CC’s ex is feeling salty and missing what he used to have and in recognizing that it’s long gone he is attempting to use the kid to make sure that he has continued contact with CC.

Single and Happy "I'm not crazy, I'm just upset because my imaginary friend is mad and won't talk to me!"

August 22nd, 2012
4:30 pm

oh okay comon.

ITL, not trying to make light, but banana pudding (LOL)

Single and Happy "I'm not crazy, I'm just upset because my imaginary friend is mad and won't talk to me!"

August 22nd, 2012
4:31 pm

Disco, I concur!!

Comon Cents

August 22nd, 2012
4:32 pm

disco~ You have no idea how right you are…

Comon Cents

August 22nd, 2012
4:33 pm

As I said in an earlier post, it is my opinion that he loves little cents, but he hates me more than he loves her and that’s not healthy for her.

Leggs

August 22nd, 2012
4:33 pm

ITL ~ sorry, it’s not what you think. Just in line looking at the boxes then picked up one and started reading the different types. I wouldn’t even know what size to ask for. When the time comes, hope I’ll need a trojan magnum.

Celisea....He who laughs last, laughs on: Winning!

August 22nd, 2012
4:33 pm

Just in time to catch up

Leggs

August 22nd, 2012
4:34 pm

Oh isht, you named your guy magnum….umm, let’s say I need a big size.

Leggs

August 22nd, 2012
4:34 pm

This would be a good time for topic change.

Single and Happy "I'm not crazy, I'm just upset because my imaginary friend is mad and won't talk to me!"

August 22nd, 2012
4:35 pm

Leggs I thought it wasn’t the size of the boat, but the motion of the ocean (LOL)

Bluzgirl

August 22nd, 2012
4:36 pm

Leggs – I’m so proud to say that’s what I bought last week! LOL!!!

OK – I hate that I can’t be here for the other’s couch session, but I’m heading out the door…Will try to catch up after I get home, but really need to get some yardwork done…

Comon Cents

August 22nd, 2012
4:37 pm

Bluz is going out in the yard to pull some weed…

Leggs

August 22nd, 2012
4:37 pm

That is true, Single. I want to feel it from stem to stern!

Leggs

August 22nd, 2012
4:38 pm

You beat me to the punch, Comon!!

Celisea....He who laughs last, laughs on: Winning!

August 22nd, 2012
4:39 pm

Well dernit, I was hoping the day turned sort of like yesterday but I see the regular blog dudes didnt’ pop in…WillieD, Jake, MMeello didn’t come back and Blackfoote scrammed…lol I did see Swiss for a hot minute. Oh well, hope springs eternal. Maybe tomorrow

disco

August 22nd, 2012
4:39 pm

S/H – and I disagree. motion in the ocean my foot.

Into the Light

August 22nd, 2012
4:42 pm

Oooh, sorry, CC. I typed that while you were posting. I’ll wait my turn for the couch.

@disco: nerd+dork=nork.

Single and Happy "I'm not crazy, I'm just upset because my imaginary friend is mad and won't talk to me!"

August 22nd, 2012
4:43 pm

Disco if I know how to steer the boat, i’m sure you’ll arrive many times before I do :-)

I’m going to Jamaica next week, need to put my boat in the water (LOL)

Single and Happy "I'm not crazy, I'm just upset because my imaginary friend is mad and won't talk to me!"

August 22nd, 2012
4:44 pm

Comon when you were at couples did you do any excursions?

Into the Light

August 22nd, 2012
4:46 pm

@CC: I co-sign what disco said. Little cents is priority one – if he’s not putting her best interests first -Buh Bye.

@Stamps: We call him that bc he asked me to make him some banana pudding.

@Leggs: Girl, those things come in every size, shape, color, and texture you can imagine. I saw some on the clearance table at Publix the other day….guess that particular kind wasn’t popular.

Into the Light

August 22nd, 2012
4:47 pm

motion in the ocean my foot

I know that’s right. I’m having way more fun on a cruise ship than I am on a little dinghy. :lol: :lol:

Leggs

August 22nd, 2012
4:47 pm

Umm, on the clearance table at Public…can you say dry rot??

Leggs

August 22nd, 2012
4:49 pm

I know that’s right. I’m having way more fun on a cruise ship than I am on a little dinghy.

That just doesn’t sound right, ITL. If your sugar walls can handle a cruise ship, you in deep trouble.

I’m cracking myself up.

Single and Happy "I'm not crazy, I'm just upset because my imaginary friend is mad and won't talk to me!"

August 22nd, 2012
4:50 pm

Condoms on the clearance table, yea I really want those (LOL)

And speaking of condoms, I went out of town and left my son home alone for a week, he may have been 17 or 18, so I got him a box of condoms a 20 pack (cause I knew how i was at that age) when I got back I ask him about them and he said he was out, hell I got jealous and wanted to put him out, he was getting more than I was (LOL)

Comon Cents

August 22nd, 2012
4:51 pm

We did the Dunn River Falls excursion but that was it. I was more interested in what was happening INSIDE the resort that OUTSIDE ;)

Leggs~ As I said before, it is neither the size of the ship, nor the motion of the ocean, it is whether or not the captain can keep te ship in the port long enough for all the passengers to get off…

ITL~ Your turn on the couch. Tell me all about bananna puddin and how he ticked you off (pats the couch lovingly…)

Single and Happy "I'm not crazy, I'm just upset because my imaginary friend is mad and won't talk to me!"

August 22nd, 2012
4:54 pm

Comon we’ve done Dunn river, that water was cold (LOL) was thinking about mystic mountain

Comon it also depends on how many passengers want to get off, IJS

Leggs

August 22nd, 2012
4:55 pm

As I said before, it is neither the size of the ship, nor the motion of the ocean, it is whether or not the captain can keep te ship in the port long enough for all the passengers to get off…

I somewhat disagree with the above statement. Even if the captain can keep the ship in port, if he doesn’t know how to make waves, no one will be getting off…

Into the Light

August 22nd, 2012
4:57 pm

@Leggs: Yeah, i guess that was kind of a weird analogy. But my point is, I don’t care how good the ocean moves, you better have something in the water to work with.

@CC: Meh, forget it. Not important anyway.

Comon Cents

August 22nd, 2012
4:58 pm

Leggs~ If te Captian keeps the ship in the port with the motor running, there wqill be plenty of waves. IJS ;)

Leggs

August 22nd, 2012
4:58 pm

I know what your point was ITL.

Comon Cents

August 22nd, 2012
4:59 pm

ITL says you can’t churn butter with a toothpick, Leggs! :lol:

Leggs

August 22nd, 2012
4:59 pm

Comon ~ motor running. Depending on what gear. You want a ripple of a wave or the big kuhuna? Still need some motion (lol).

Into the Light

August 22nd, 2012
5:00 pm

I must be needing that mojito more than I thought, bc I am allowing folks to get under my skin today. T-minus 15 minutes and counting ’til rum-induced happiness.

Leggs

August 22nd, 2012
5:01 pm

ITL says you can’t churn butter with a toothpick, Leggs!

Perhaps not the entire stick, but if all you needed was a sliver of butter, a toothpick will work (lol).

Into the Light

August 22nd, 2012
5:01 pm

ITL says you can’t churn butter with a toothpick

I didn’t say that, but I wish I had. That’s FUNNY!

Leggs

August 22nd, 2012
5:03 pm

We made it to 10 pgs! Job well done.

Into the Light....Your Uppance Will Come, Vile Woman

August 22nd, 2012
5:03 pm

T-minus 12 minutes…..

Leggs

August 22nd, 2012
5:03 pm

on off beat topics…

Into the Light

August 22nd, 2012
5:04 pm

@Leggs: Some days it’s just like that….

Comon Cents

August 22nd, 2012
5:09 pm

LMAO @ Leggs! I guess I’m greedy then, because I always want more than a sliver…

Single and Happy "I'm not crazy, I'm just upset because my imaginary friend is mad and won't talk to me!"

August 22nd, 2012
5:10 pm

Cruise ship, guess I’ll go back in the harbor (LOL)

Comon Cents

August 22nd, 2012
5:10 pm

Oh snap! ITL is a fan of the Family Guy! LOVE IT!!!!

Single and Happy "I'm not crazy, I'm just upset because my imaginary friend is mad and won't talk to me!"

August 22nd, 2012
5:10 pm

Leggs, off beat topics are usually what make 10 pages :-)

Into the Light

August 22nd, 2012
5:15 pm

Yay!! I’m glad someone caught that, CC!!!!

No comment, Stamps. :roll:

Into the Light

August 22nd, 2012
5:15 pm

Okay, there’s the end-of-day whistle. Y’all be sweet.

Comon Cents

August 22nd, 2012
5:16 pm

10 pages! Yay, Miscreants!

Comon Cents

August 22nd, 2012
5:16 pm

I’m about to jet too. Y’all have a good night! Be safe!

Leggs

August 22nd, 2012
5:18 pm

Comon ~ to be honest, we all want more than a sliver.

Leggs

August 22nd, 2012
5:19 pm

Dang, I have 9 mins left in this camp!

Comon Cents

August 22nd, 2012
5:20 pm

You can make 9 mins. The hardest part of the day is over. And, yeah, I know everyone wants more than a sliver… :lol:

Leggs

August 22nd, 2012
5:21 pm

Everybody just wants some….

i'm swiss

August 22nd, 2012
5:23 pm

Hell, I’d settle for a sliver of puddy these days… :shock:

Single and Happy "I'm not crazy, I'm just upset because my imaginary friend is mad and won't talk to me!"

August 22nd, 2012
5:24 pm

I’m wit you swiss (LOL)

Leggs

August 22nd, 2012
5:24 pm

i'm swiss

August 22nd, 2012
5:24 pm

If that baby only knew the sacrifices daddy is already making for her… :lol: