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Judging the book

Single people can find themselves scrutinizing each other for every little thing. The problem starts when we find random things to judge each other about. Sometimes we have to find out right away, exactly what the flaws are.

We think that is a way to improve our dating odds, but it can have the opposite effect. Women notice how men have too many female friends. Instead of thinking this as a positive thing, we assume he has slept with all of them. Men notice that a woman has a great career. Instead of thinking she is ambitious and capable, they assume she has no idea how to put someone else first.

Judging a book by it’s cover – we do it all the time, I don’t know if we even know when we do it. Do you think you have a problem judging people too harshly?

Have you ever felt that someone judged you and made assumptions about you?

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog

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Dating and Beauty » Judging the book

August 9th, 2012
5:25 pm

[...] Judging the book We think that is a way to improve our dating odds, but it can have the opposite effect. Women notice how men have too many female friends. Instead of thinking this as a positive thing, we assume he has slept with all of them. Men notice that a woman … Read more on Atlanta Journal Constitution (blog) [...]

Leggs

August 9th, 2012
5:28 pm

czBrat ♀

August 9th, 2012
5:29 pm

it’s on!

la bambina will be a most excellent xmas gift. maybe even enough to make a believer outta you.
lol. just messing with you swiss. g’nite.

i'm swiss

August 9th, 2012
5:32 pm

“la bambina will be a most excellent xmas gift. maybe even enough to make a believer outta you.”

I suppose that’s possible — if the baby smacks me in the head & damages the part of my brain that controls logic & critical thinking… ;-) jk…bnr :lol: